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dating a woman with kids is not a problem (though not my preference) but the thing is, I rather make my own babies raise a strong family together all on our own making the family happy even with her bringing her own children as long as we live a successful life raising them right (good upbringing) certain cases like that, the results (and happiness) matters more than the baggage or circumstances. it's takes a couragable man to handle that commendable to the fathers of the newly weds that can be the responsible family man.
Rule #1 ALWAYS be a gentleman. No matter what the outcome.#2 expect the unexpected cause she will 80 percent of the time bring a friend or family member on your first date. If she brings more that 2. Walk away. #3 all that glitters isnt gold. If she approaches you being overly friendly, excuse yourself and bounce. Lastly and this is most important NEVER EVER take anyone where you live.
When my parents were kids, it wasn't unusual to have younger girls chaperoned on a date. In many places in the world that are traditional, it's like America in the 1950's. It's refreshing as i can act like I was raised to act.
Sounds like taking the boys to Disneyland and have a lot choices on what goodies and chocolates to try.. 🤗🤗🫵 just don’t let the head down there ruled over your coconut up there🤗🤗 Don’t rush take your time.. 👍👍
My eye-opening moment was going to the pharmacy. I needed some benadryl after getting eaten alive in Subic Bay. My arm was... covered... so I wasn't feeling confident. But girl was pretty flirty, so I went with it. And realized "ok, they're not predisposed to label men as gross/creep/etc. and just treat us like humans..." That's when it clicked for me and stopped being self conscious and hyper critical towards myself.
What I appreciate most about this channel is the genuine real life examples. Also, concise and to the point. Other expat channels I've seen offer "day in the life" stuff, road trips, and what they consider humor. I consider these to be distractions, which undermine the information viewers like me need in order to make an informed decision. No hate, but even the Pea makes me tune out with her puns and comedy sketch endings. I guess my being older is to blame.
I agree. Pea has great content (she was the first channel about the Phillipines that I found) and she's great at analyzing current issues but I really dig Reekay's thought process and analytical way of thinking. Not emotional but still human and not cold.
"They will drop him like a bad habit to go out with you." Hypergamy in action. It's great when you're on the right side of it, but if she was that quick to drop him.....
I feel for young men in the West. 25 years ago, it already required some courage. Now, people don't seem to meet in real life anymore, guys are perceived as creep when then approach, and they get rejected/ignored on dating apps unless they're in the top 10%.
Im literally day 2 in bgc and I haven't broke through approach anxiety yet. This video really helps thanks. I think once the shock wears off I'll eventually break through it like I did years ago in the US. I'm am also having trouble finding Filipinas I'm attracted too. But I think I need to just start talking regardless of what my head tells me. Great channel and your part of the reason I'm even here so thanks!
I'm moved by the amount young men (I suppose) testifying about of approach anxiety in this comment section. I didn't realize it was that bad, but I can understand. I encourage you!
Also, approaching doesn't mean you want to get married. May be you just want to know where's the best ice cream in town. And may be she wanted an ice cream too...
Good video and spot on advice, You can't go wrong in PI. Just make sure you are at the top of your game and be nice to everyone.. Be in shape and get healthy, no big belly or bad teeth. Get a good haircut and dress in good clothes that are casual. If you meet one good Filipina you won't need or have time for a second or third one.
@@vincen.4151 Hell! No way you can’t go wrong in PI . It’s bussines and want more client for their clit , everybody is friendly ( except for those out of the market student, degree holder and descent women) those whose intention is to catch the big fish , watch out! They use their body ( of course) and all the drama most with kids and husband or boyfriend just around the corner.. making sure she’s got her Afam or other foreigners to suck in many ways .. watch out your wallet and phone .. is she is a one night stand give her all the juice you can give and run🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️😜
Well Dr. Reekay...This is why i call you the Therapy doctor of the Philippines..I am not doing the internet dating scene..I will meet my woman the old Fashion way..Introduce myself and start a Conversation with them ...Oh yeah...I am a great listener if they wish to tell me their life story..If I get rejected..There is always another woman waiting to be noticed..
I'm battle tested here in the West, I approach woman all of the time here, and get rejected about 80% of the time. Rejection doesn't bother me anymore. However, now I've lost all interest in dating woman in the West, to many liabilities. I'm looking forward to meeting these wonderful woman in the Philippines.
you will be thoroughly amazed at the results you'll get in the ph. since 2012, for me it's been about 99% success rate approaching women for a date. in all that time, only two were not available. (married or lesbian) so... pace yourself. :)
I really like your videos. I am 52 years old, retired, single, at the moment I am in a South American country, but I plan to live in the Philippines or Vietnam, I will continue to see your videos, thank you.
Filipinas (almost all that I ve encountered in 21 yrs of a wonderful relationship w/ my gorgeous wife) A HUGE PERCENTAGE of ‘em are looking for an opportunity to take a stab at the other side of life !!! You represent that opportunity !!!
I guess the Philippine/asian 'saving face' also cushions rejection as a flat out no would be impolite. Though it might make being a jerk harder to find out too. Making a decision on your own about what the other person thinks about you is a problem with some men. It sounds like the fellow in your story was doing that. With that kind of abundance is there a plan to find what you are looking for, so to speak? I would think older (40s) would be harder to casually find.
Hello i am from canada and this year i went to thailand and did meet a lady fould out after getting to know her she a free lancers .... is the Philippines a lot better for actually meeting somebody I'm in my mid-fifties. I'm active. I would like to have somebody decent to spend my life with. And they're not only with me for the money. And I think I would be very well living in the Philippines Thailand and I went. I'm open to it. Can you give me any good suggestions of your thoughts? I watch quite a few years stories now. And some of the things you've said definitely had home. Thank you for making your videos Gordon
Thailand can be very tough around the tourist areas due to the sex tourism industry. You have to get away from them, but then people don't speak as much English.
While there are some gold diggers in The Philippines, I believe it's a lot easier to find a true relationship as compared to Thailand where it seems to be transactional most of the time.
I am not sure that beautiful women are every 10 feet. There might be woman every 10 feet. I have a mate who has no standards. He is bedding women 3 a week maybe. But 99% of them I wouldn’t bother talking to. I suppose I am more of quality rather than quantity type of guy. It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to find a woman that I would consider talking to.
@Lifebeyondthesea, I have to wonder if maybe things were different when you were dating prior to your marriage because I think the majority of normal Filipinas that you would approach now in public at their work (grocery store, department store, bake stands, public plazas, any store in a mall, etc.) already have a Filipino boyfriend. And I say Filipino boyfriend because like you said, there are not enough foreigners to go around. But think about how few things there can be to do for entertainment for most Filipinas who don’t have that much by way of excess resources to travel or do activities that would be considered expensive to them-of course they already have a boyfriend, especially if they are at least decently attractive. Because having a boyfriend is such an obvious and free way to make their life more entertaining, even if it’s a Filipino when she may prefer foreigners but hasn’t been approached by one. So I have to ask-what percentage of the women that you say went on first dates with you do you think actually already had a Filipino boyfriend, and were not properly single? Basically seeing you as a potential upgrade in real time, the current boyfriend be damned. Because it is hard to believe that only three women in 11 years said no to a date on the basis of being taken already, when again, I think more than half are already dating someone. Just wanted to get your perspective on this. Thanks Reekay
"what percentage of the women that you say went on first dates with you do you think actually already had a Filipino boyfriend, and were not properly single?" this reminds me of the question from TSA at the airport, "has anyone put anything into your luggage without your knowledge?" well, if it was done without my knowledge.. how would i know? i've dated filipinas who would do things like, not let me take them directly to their home. that to me is suspicious. who is at their home they don't want me to see? who is there that would question, "why did a foreigner give you a ride home?" and the really good liars.. again, who knows? they may have dated with me a few weeks, it didn't work out.. and the 'other b/f' never knew the difference. neither did i. but the reason i don't worry about it is because, "if" their relationship was a good, solid one.. she wouldn't be going out with me in the first place.
Fair enough, all makes sense. Thank you for taking the time to respond Reekay. My big concern with not knowing a Filipina’s status upfront or at the latest during the first date, is the scenario in which she is separated and the paper husband finds out you are trying to date her, and shows up to harm you. Or even if she just has a boyfriend but accepts the date with you, and he similarly finds out and comes to harm you. Filipinos claim to have no problem with foreigners being in the Philippines dating Filipinas, of course right up until one actually gets involved with their girlfriend/wife/paper wife, most likely unknowingly since she may not offer her true status readily. But as you have said before, there is no love without risk, and I guess that applies here too. It’s just important though to try and find out her status early on, in my opinion, so that you don’t end up having an angry Filipino paper husband legally kill/injure you for adultery.
It's all about the attitude that you're getting back. If you notice that younger lady looking at you, smiling, she won't think you're a creep. Start off simply, don't just walk up and ask for her number. Ask a simple question "Where's a good place to get some coffee?" If she seems to want to keep talking, ask if she'd like to go get that coffee. I know Reekay says to not bother with dating sites, and he's right about it being easy to meet them in person. Personally, I like to use both. Sometimes using a dating site to set up the date is easiier to me. Many of them show the girl's age preference. Use that to see if someone young enough to be your daughter might be interested (many don't want to date a guy a lot older). You can also sort by location to find ones where you are, sort by educational level, if they have kids or not, etc.
Is age an issue for the woman what I mean by that is if a guy that is 35 walks up to a young lady that is let's say 22 still be willing to date the guy with that big gap in age?
What you can attract here has little to do with your age or age gap. If you possess masculine traits and behaviors the women will notice and be drawn to you. Don't expect every Filipina to be worthy of a serious relationship, Reekay goes over this often. Figure out what your deal breakers are and what you are attracted to, go from there. A word of warning, you may struggle to find anything attractive about Caucasian women after coming here
all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed. in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable. using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.
The only thing I disagree with Reekay said here regarding approaching a woman is that it also works in the USA. Feminists and the Pick Up Artist community made men believe you needed clever lines etc. You only need to be contrary, do the opposite the masses are doing. Like don't go to bars and clubs for women unless you like high mileage women (same for the PH). There are tons of women who aren't feminists in the USA. For example, go to conventions, funerals lol etc, where women have their guard down, and you'll find success by just being yourself. So, practice in the US before coming to the PH. The issue with US women is, do you really want them after you got them? You don't, not if you want a traditional relationship. It's better in the PH in spite of the cultural differences. Your chances of a peaceful relationship is better there than in the US. A word of caution is to stay away from Manila women or you'll get the US experience in a different package. Dating in the end is all a matter of mindset. If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. One last thing that Reeday left out before you approach women. You need to possess some common sense basics. Like good hygiene, don't dress like a slob, good grooming and good manners and the ability to string at least two sentences together. All the stuff your mom and dad taught you (unless they were druggies) works real well in the PH.
I lived in the Philippines for 5 months and did not find anything you just said about Filipinas to be true. The only difference from the west is they want less money because the cost of living is lower. Everything else among women in the west and women in the Philippines is the same.
Bro you're giving "don't understand your roll" vibes You can pay by the hour or opt for the long term lease which is always more expensive. Your call, but this is universal and has nothing to do with the quality of a woman
Why is there such a HUGE discrepancy of available women in the Philippines than in the US? Is this because there is a lopsided opposite gender ratio between the 2 countries?
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dating a woman with kids is not a problem (though not my preference)
but the thing is, I rather make my own babies
raise a strong family together all on our own
making the family happy even with her bringing her own children
as long as we live a successful life raising them right (good upbringing)
certain cases like that, the results (and happiness) matters more
than the baggage or circumstances. it's takes a couragable man to handle that
commendable to the fathers of the newly weds that can be the responsible family man.
Rule #1 ALWAYS be a gentleman. No matter what the outcome.#2 expect the unexpected cause she will 80 percent of the time bring a friend or family member on your first date. If she brings more that 2. Walk away. #3 all that glitters isnt gold. If she approaches you being overly friendly, excuse yourself and bounce. Lastly and this is most important NEVER EVER take anyone where you live.
When my parents were kids, it wasn't unusual to have younger girls chaperoned on a date. In many places in the world that are traditional, it's like America in the 1950's. It's refreshing as i can act like I was raised to act.
1st date with my wife + 18 chaperones. It was there party I was invited.
Sounds like taking the boys to Disneyland and have a lot choices on what goodies and chocolates to try.. 🤗🤗🫵 just don’t let the head down there ruled over your coconut up there🤗🤗 Don’t rush take your time.. 👍👍
My eye-opening moment was going to the pharmacy. I needed some benadryl after getting eaten alive in Subic Bay. My arm was... covered... so I wasn't feeling confident. But girl was pretty flirty, so I went with it. And realized "ok, they're not predisposed to label men as gross/creep/etc. and just treat us like humans..." That's when it clicked for me and stopped being self conscious and hyper critical towards myself.
I spent a month in Cebu. It was very easy to talk to women.
What I appreciate most about this channel is the genuine real life examples. Also, concise and to the point. Other expat channels I've seen offer "day in the life" stuff, road trips, and what they consider humor. I consider these to be distractions, which undermine the information viewers like me need in order to make an informed decision. No hate, but even the Pea makes me tune out with her puns and comedy sketch endings. I guess my being older is to blame.
thanks! :)
Just your personality
I agree. Pea has great content (she was the first channel about the Phillipines that I found) and she's great at analyzing current issues but I really dig Reekay's thought process and analytical way of thinking. Not emotional but still human and not cold.
"They will drop him like a bad habit to go out with you." Hypergamy in action. It's great when you're on the right side of it, but if she was that quick to drop him.....
Very good advice, thanks for sharing
I feel for young men in the West. 25 years ago, it already required some courage. Now, people don't seem to meet in real life anymore, guys are perceived as creep when then approach, and they get rejected/ignored on dating apps unless they're in the top 10%.
Im literally day 2 in bgc and I haven't broke through approach anxiety yet. This video really helps thanks. I think once the shock wears off I'll eventually break through it like I did years ago in the US. I'm am also having trouble finding Filipinas I'm attracted too. But I think I need to just start talking regardless of what my head tells me. Great channel and your part of the reason I'm even here so thanks!
I'm moved by the amount young men (I suppose) testifying about of approach anxiety in this comment section. I didn't realize it was that bad, but I can understand. I encourage you!
Also, approaching doesn't mean you want to get married. May be you just want to know where's the best ice cream in town. And may be she wanted an ice cream too...
Thanks for the valuable information
Good video and spot on advice, You can't go wrong in PI. Just make sure you are at the top of your game and be nice to everyone.. Be in shape and get healthy, no big belly or bad teeth. Get a good haircut and dress in good clothes that are casual. If you meet one good Filipina you won't need or have time for a second or third one.
@@vincen.4151 Hell! No way you can’t go wrong in PI . It’s bussines and want more client for their clit , everybody is friendly ( except for those out of the market student, degree holder and descent women) those whose intention is to catch the big fish , watch out! They use their body ( of course) and all the drama most with kids and husband or boyfriend just around the corner.. making sure she’s got her Afam or other foreigners to suck in many ways .. watch out your wallet and phone .. is she is a one night stand give her all the juice you can give and run🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️🏃🏿➡️😜
Well Dr. Reekay...This is why i call you the Therapy doctor of the Philippines..I am not doing the internet dating scene..I will meet my woman the old Fashion way..Introduce myself and start a Conversation with them ...Oh yeah...I am a great listener if they wish to tell me their life story..If I get rejected..There is always another woman waiting to be noticed..
I'm battle tested here in the West, I approach woman all of the time here, and get rejected about 80% of the time. Rejection doesn't bother me anymore. However, now I've lost all interest in dating woman in the West, to many liabilities. I'm looking forward to meeting these wonderful woman in the Philippines.
you will be thoroughly amazed at the results you'll get in the ph. since 2012, for me it's been about 99% success rate approaching women for a date. in all that time, only two were not available. (married or lesbian)
so... pace yourself. :)
@@Lifebeyondthesea Can't wait!
Thanks for the advice Reekay, another great video
I really like your videos. I am 52 years old, retired, single, at the moment I am in a South American country, but I plan to live in the Philippines or Vietnam, I will continue to see your videos, thank you.
Filipinas (almost all that I ve encountered in 21 yrs of a wonderful relationship w/ my gorgeous wife) A HUGE PERCENTAGE of ‘em are looking for an opportunity to take a stab at the other side of life !!! You represent that opportunity !!!
Dude when i was in the marine corps, rule #1 on a west pac,
DONT MARRY THE FLIP
Oops
Reekay, we all, know that your just a players player. Hard to compete with a Gigalo of your stature 😂 As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇
Can you help me find the mayonnaise? I was laughing hard when you said that 😂😂
Philippines dating 101 with Jedi Master Reekay😊
Good stuff
I guess the Philippine/asian 'saving face' also cushions rejection as a flat out no would be impolite. Though it might make being a jerk harder to find out too.
Making a decision on your own about what the other person thinks about you is a problem with some men. It sounds like the fellow in your story was doing that.
With that kind of abundance is there a plan to find what you are looking for, so to speak? I would think older (40s) would be harder to casually find.
They would probably be working. I would also think social circles/networking would be a great place.
lmao... "chick's boy" that's the first time I have ever heard of that label! 😂
Not to be confused with Lady Boi
Hello i am from canada and this year i went to thailand and did meet a lady fould out after getting to know her she a free lancers .... is the Philippines a lot better for actually meeting somebody I'm in my mid-fifties. I'm active. I would like to have somebody decent to spend my life with. And they're not only with me for the money. And I think I would be very well living in the Philippines Thailand and I went. I'm open to it. Can you give me any good suggestions of your thoughts? I watch quite a few years stories now. And some of the things you've said definitely had home. Thank you for making your videos Gordon
Thailand can be very tough around the tourist areas due to the sex tourism industry. You have to get away from them, but then people don't speak as much English.
While there are some gold diggers in The Philippines, I believe it's a lot easier to find a true relationship as compared to Thailand where it seems to be transactional most of the time.
I am not sure that beautiful women are every 10 feet.
There might be woman every 10 feet.
I have a mate who has no standards. He is bedding women 3 a week maybe.
But 99% of them I wouldn’t bother talking to.
I suppose I am more of quality rather than quantity type of guy.
It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to find a woman that I would consider talking to.
in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable.
I'm with you. Always been a quality over quantity guy, even in my youth. I also have high standards. Probably too high. 🤣
Speaking from experience the dating scene appears to have changed, and it's no longer that easy to get a date like it used to be.
i talked about that in more detail here.. ruclips.net/video/RPSIIV3ZKZM/видео.html
@Lifebeyondthesea,
I have to wonder if maybe things were different when you were dating prior to your marriage because I think the majority of normal Filipinas that you would approach now in public at their work (grocery store, department store, bake stands, public plazas, any store in a mall, etc.) already have a Filipino boyfriend. And I say Filipino boyfriend because like you said, there are not enough foreigners to go around. But think about how few things there can be to do for entertainment for most Filipinas who don’t have that much by way of excess resources to travel or do activities that would be considered expensive to them-of course they already have a boyfriend, especially if they are at least decently attractive. Because having a boyfriend is such an obvious and free way to make their life more entertaining, even if it’s a Filipino when she may prefer foreigners but hasn’t been approached by one.
So I have to ask-what percentage of the women that you say went on first dates with you do you think actually already had a Filipino boyfriend, and were not properly single? Basically seeing you as a potential upgrade in real time, the current boyfriend be damned. Because it is hard to believe that only three women in 11 years said no to a date on the basis of being taken already, when again, I think more than half are already dating someone. Just wanted to get your perspective on this. Thanks Reekay
"what percentage of the women that you say went on first dates with you do you think actually already had a Filipino boyfriend, and were not properly single?"
this reminds me of the question from TSA at the airport, "has anyone put anything into your luggage without your knowledge?" well, if it was done without my knowledge.. how would i know?
i've dated filipinas who would do things like, not let me take them directly to their home. that to me is suspicious. who is at their home they don't want me to see? who is there that would question, "why did a foreigner give you a ride home?"
and the really good liars.. again, who knows? they may have dated with me a few weeks, it didn't work out.. and the 'other b/f' never knew the difference. neither did i.
but the reason i don't worry about it is because, "if" their relationship was a good, solid one.. she wouldn't be going out with me in the first place.
Fair enough, all makes sense. Thank you for taking the time to respond Reekay.
My big concern with not knowing a Filipina’s status upfront or at the latest during the first date, is the scenario in which she is separated and the paper husband finds out you are trying to date her, and shows up to harm you. Or even if she just has a boyfriend but accepts the date with you, and he similarly finds out and comes to harm you. Filipinos claim to have no problem with foreigners being in the Philippines dating Filipinas, of course right up until one actually gets involved with their girlfriend/wife/paper wife, most likely unknowingly since she may not offer her true status readily. But as you have said before, there is no love without risk, and I guess that applies here too. It’s just important though to try and find out her status early on, in my opinion, so that you don’t end up having an angry Filipino paper husband legally kill/injure you for adultery.
😮
I have this concern: getting close to a girl who could *EASILY* be my daughter and completely look like a creep to her.
She's not your daughter.
It's all about the attitude that you're getting back. If you notice that younger lady looking at you, smiling, she won't think you're a creep. Start off simply, don't just walk up and ask for her number. Ask a simple question "Where's a good place to get some coffee?" If she seems to want to keep talking, ask if she'd like to go get that coffee.
I know Reekay says to not bother with dating sites, and he's right about it being easy to meet them in person. Personally, I like to use both. Sometimes using a dating site to set up the date is easiier to me. Many of them show the girl's age preference. Use that to see if someone young enough to be your daughter might be interested (many don't want to date a guy a lot older). You can also sort by location to find ones where you are, sort by educational level, if they have kids or not, etc.
💙🇵🇭💙
No, my wallet is the hot commodity
never lead with your wallet. work on your game.
I mean this statement is valid where you live as well🤷♂️
Is age an issue for the woman what I mean by that is if a guy that is 35 walks up to a young lady that is let's say 22 still be willing to date the guy with that big gap in age?
not an issue at all. many couples here are 20+ years apart. my wife is 35 years younger than i.
What you can attract here has little to do with your age or age gap. If you possess masculine traits and behaviors the women will notice and be drawn to you. Don't expect every Filipina to be worthy of a serious relationship, Reekay goes over this often. Figure out what your deal breakers are and what you are attracted to, go from there. A word of warning, you may struggle to find anything attractive about Caucasian women after coming here
Where is he getting all those pictures of beautiful Philippine women?
all the images in the vids, i create with AI for illustrative purposes. i often try to pattern the AI model after the person discussed.
in the PH.. i'd say about 6% are a 7 thru a 10. with maybe 1% being a 10. but, they are very approachable.
using real women means getting model releases for each. not cost effective to be paying models for photo shots.
@@Lifebeyondthesea I was wondering how you could get license for so many pics in each video, seeing the prices around the web.
The only thing I disagree with Reekay said here regarding approaching a woman is that it also works in the USA. Feminists and the Pick Up Artist community made men believe you needed clever lines etc. You only need to be contrary, do the opposite the masses are doing. Like don't go to bars and clubs for women unless you like high mileage women (same for the PH). There are tons of women who aren't feminists in the USA. For example, go to conventions, funerals lol etc, where women have their guard down, and you'll find success by just being yourself. So, practice in the US before coming to the PH.
The issue with US women is, do you really want them after you got them? You don't, not if you want a traditional relationship. It's better in the PH in spite of the cultural differences. Your chances of a peaceful relationship is better there than in the US.
A word of caution is to stay away from Manila women or you'll get the US experience in a different package.
Dating in the end is all a matter of mindset. If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't.
One last thing that Reeday left out before you approach women. You need to possess some common sense basics. Like good hygiene, don't dress like a slob, good grooming and good manners and the ability to string at least two sentences together. All the stuff your mom and dad taught you (unless they were druggies) works real well in the PH.
if you listen again, i never said it works in the west. in fact, i said specifically that it does not.
I lived in the Philippines for 5 months and did not find anything you just said about Filipinas to be true. The only difference from the west is they want less money because the cost of living is lower. Everything else among women in the west and women in the Philippines is the same.
how many women did you approach in-person.. and NOT through a dating site? because i don't have those money issues with filipinas i meet in-person.
Bro you're giving "don't understand your roll" vibes
You can pay by the hour or opt for the long term lease which is always more expensive. Your call, but this is universal and has nothing to do with the quality of a woman
Why is there such a HUGE discrepancy of available women in the Philippines than in the US? Is this because there is a lopsided opposite gender ratio between the 2 countries?
no, it's roughly a 50/50 dispersion. the real issue is the 'type/quality' of women. most in the west are not desirable.
@@Lifebeyondthesea Even most of the physically attractive women in the US are not desirable!