Things Social Media Made Us Think is Normal... its getting WEIRD
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Get your money courtreezy
@@Z3nii I-
@@UrFaveDamien lol 💀
@@Z3nii?
“im tired of seeing everyone’s butt” same girl same like nothing new 😭
I EXPOSED courtreezy💀
No you did not lol
Uh huh@@ville__
@@ville__you literally bullied a girl for liking Sailor Moon. I do NOT want to hear it
@@ville__why are you everywhere no one loves you
the way tiktok and other social media has normalized recording people out in public even if they are dealing with smth or in a embarrasing situation like plsss ugh
fr like they don’t even ask for permission or anything they just record whatever they’d like, it’s honestly sad. it could even be somebody getting killed and they’d be recording it.
It should be illegal to record strangers tbh.
i saw that on yt shorts and i turned it off.
@@AlondraAcevedo-ww6hf& it’s crazy cs it is illegal you can rl take it to court I hate when ppl do that ts it’s sad
@@AlondraAcevedo-ww6hfit IS illegal😭? U can get sued
I just wanna say that social media is also terrible for our self image. I have spent so many nights staying late at the gym just to get this unatainable body that people online seem to have. I feel like as a man this topic isnt talked about enough. Im here to tell you all that you need to love yourself. Eat right, workout right, and live your life. Social media is not real.
Yess
the body isnt unattainable, you are just too lazy to commit and have discipline to get the things you want
Don't listen to this person above {this could be bait or smth but id(really)c tbh}
@@user-kx5en8dg7uthat's a very rude thing to say, because it is hard. You can get weaker and weaker and so will you're mental health.
@@darcyleblancc how is it rude? people in this modern age have been coddled and don’t have any type of mental discipline. losing weight is merely a matter of sticking to a strict regimen. outside of a select few people who have issues like thyroid disorders, everyone can lose weight rather easily
I hate how social media took pranks to the extremes. A lot of "pranks" nowadays are just actual crimes, and it's sick what people will do for views and attention. There was a recent prank in which some guy in Belgium would get on the train and dump buckets of God knows what on unassuming passengers (canned food, paint, etc.).
I know exactly who your talking about someone said the mysterious liquid was poop
Since I became a Reezy, I became 63,5 % more productive, I finally got to bed earlier, and stopped scolling for hours on yt shorts. I also found enough motivation to touch grass everyday. Thank your Courtney and love to all Reezys ❤✨🎆
im your first like
4+4
NOBODY CARE'S + I EXPOSED courtreezy💀💯 ..........
im so happy for you, it really is amazing 😌
@@ville__ least obvious rage bait on youtube
she had THREE KIDS?! thats sad af and kinda selfish-
Yeah that was sad
I know right?!!? I feel SO bad for those 3 babies 😭💔
Not kinda. That woman IS VERY
FOR REAL
Tbf why is she the one left alone with the kids. Where is the dad?
One of the biggest issues that social media has normalized is filming children to share publically. Too many "family" influencers build their whole brand off the backs of their young children who can't even consent to being exposed to millions of strangers online. And it becomes an even bigger issues when pedos get a hold of the videos.
We always hear about child celebrities coming forward to talk about trauma or abuse they faced behind the scenes. I have a feeling were going to start seeing a lot of child influencers coming forward with similar stories in the future.
Filming children has always been a thing since the home camera was made available but yea, the internet gives a wider audience than just friends/neighbors with the occasional TV series.
Jeanette McCurdy. I still feel horrible for what she went through.
@@MakeSureYouCleanUpyea filming your kids for your own memories not posting it for the whole world to know what your kids look like and what lifestyle they have 😂
Umm like Ruby Franke.....
@MakeSureYouCleanUp Fr. Everyone acts like parents just started doing these things bc they can see it online and that's the only difference. Parents were allowed to do more and worse to us way back when.😂😂
'If you can't buy it twice, don't buy it' 😅😅😅😅 oh my. That hit my soul
i love how Courtney is warning us about buying stuff when she has a sponsor in the video 😭😭😭😭☠️
WAIT THAT'S A DOYOUNG PFP OKKKK F IT UP
@@saeicid omgg my fellow grass supporterr 🌱
anything to get that bag!
NOBODY CARE'S + I EXPOSED courtreezy💀💯 .........
@@ville__shut up no you're not
The lady who moved to Texas is a very bad mother to chase her dreams instead of chasing stability.
Don't go chasing waterfalls smh
Where's the dad in the picture I wonder
Fr CPS needs to save those children they look so young too
@@jessy1982 dead? Prison? Divorced?
@mgachatv Could be anything. Maybe there's multiple fathers. Maybe she wasn't married. Maybe the father(s) doesn't know they exist. Maybe s* assault was involved. Maybe she adopted them.
Just sad there's no second parent in the picture to share the responsibility.
“overconsumption has literally become glamorized hoarding” ✨
She ATE me tf up with that
As a kid, I can guarantee that bullying is very normalised. I got called a monkey like, the other day. And someone called me a "fufu muncher". 😭😭 I don't even like fufu.
Nah fufu muncher is wild😭😭tf
I don't like fufu much either. I prefer rice balls and banku 😂
I can't. Fufu muncher is crazy 😭
Omggggg, the fufu comments are so annoying😭😭😭, like at least pick a better food
the people who bully not only have the most to say also have the most unoriginal insults too like even I have a speck of ideas..
I feel like social media plays a big part of kids not being kids. I’m 13 and I act younger than I am but the kids at my school act like they’re 16 and up. It’s not fun to be around.
Frrr
I’m 16 right now and it’s fantastic that you refuse to act that way. When I was 13 I did the same thing as them, and it was probably one of the worst years of my life. Ignore what the media presses on you and ignore peer pressure, you’re doing amazing.
So true, you'll see ppl talking as if they're 20 and they're like 13 wearing bulks of makeup for no reason
I experienced the same thing my first year in middle school. In 2014 i was 13 and got alienated and sometimes made fun of because i was still childlike. I didn't mind being alone because i couldn't relate to anyone and just played on my Nintendo ds during breaks. I'm 23 now and still wonder how they expect me to switch from being an elementary school kid to drinking energy drinks, talk about sex like it's a hobby and wear skimpy clothing all in the same year
hey hey im 16, i went through the exact same thing as u when i was in middle school and it’s definitely very isolating and i completely understand how u feel. just know that ur doing the right thing by acting like a kid (bc you are one), and stay true to yourself no matter what. you will find your people eventually because you’ll be putting out your own unique energy that will attract the people who are meant to be your friends
"Overconsumption is killing my people!" That is a Word! You are bringing us real stuff.
There are celebrities I don't want to support. So I just don't financially support them. I don't need to tweet, talk, or type about them. I just silently choose not to support them. It's really that simple.
tiktok has normalised too many negative things its getting out of hand - great video btw ✨️✨️
when there's a cute vid of a girl dancing with her dad and the top comment is "I wish i had a dad.. 🥺🥺🥺💔🤧🤧🫤😕" LIKE IM SORRY BUT PLEASE SHUT UP. it's like they can't STAND to see other people be happy, so they trauma dump 24/7
@@Lewkatme I KNOW RIGHT, I will literally see a cute video and when i read those comments it takes my smile away. Like okay? Its like that video Rebal D made about "what about me". Those people are so annoyingggggg 😭😭😭
@@Lewkatme I HATE THOSE TYPES OF PEOPLE! There would be a video of a teenage girl who has a good relationship with her mother, and someone in the comments would be like "Good for you, meanwhile my mother emotionally abuses me". Sorry but NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS, DON'T TRAUMADUMP ON THE INTERNET, SOCIAL MEDIA IS NOT YOUR THERAPIST!
for me, it's instagram that does this
Not oversharing is simple for me because I'm introverted, I'm sensitive as well so I wouldn't want to tell something only for them to use it against me. I can talk a lot (only when I trust people), but other than that I'm very reserved and quiet, and I don't like telling my people everything about me because I'd rather them see it, then me telling them everything.
As an introvert it's very hard for me, i feel like i need to share everything that i think is interesting when the person im sharing it with probably doesn't care🤷♀️
I EXPOSED courtreezy💀
@@ville__ Pls touch grass🙇♀️
@@LovTheNBHD but it depends on who’re you talking to right? Because being introverted you just don’t talk a lot unless you’re with people you’re comfortable with. For me I don’t over share because I don’t have anything entertaining to share lol, I just talk about random stuff and jump from a topic to another. But it’s really interesting nonetheless.
Hello fellow tribesman 😭🙌🏾
Let me be for real, I wore a mask for 3 years straight everytime I went into public since quarantine because I was insecure and thought I would get bullied or made fun of for taking off my mask. I took it off this year and everyone told me I looked better without it, this is your sign to get outside and realize anxiety will just make you think stuff 😭 ❤
When it comes to overconsumption.. im so glad i found minimalism and the marie condo method at 16. Its been 7 years and im STILL working towards it! I had too many beauty products, threw away expired products, and made sure i used everything else until it was empty. Now i prioritize quality. I chose one expensive perfume for my bday, forcing me to make sure i ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT. Same with clothes. I only keep 2 weeks worth of clothes including lazy day and dress up, being intentional with it makes a huge difference. When they wear down i buy new clothes but if you only buy quality it lasts longer, giving you more time to save for what you love. It also helps bc i hate cleaning so only having exactly what i need and love. alsooo less time cleaning means i have more time for living!
"Dont compare your reality to someones highlight reel" is one of the most helpful advice ive heard when it comes to comparing myself to others on social media. We all know we dont post everything, we just post the highlights. So dont compare your wednesday afternoon to Kim Kardashians photo shoot.
Or just don't compare yourself to people. Period.
7:54 FANDOMS. omggg people in fandoms truly believe that they know everything that an idol is going through just because they watch EVERYTHING from the screen
Please specify the mordern pop fandom, tbh the geek/nerd fandoms are fairly chill in comparison.
@@povy2002 they're talking about kpoppies. I've left so many kpop fandoms because of how toxic the fans are. It's so gross honestly
@@baoziday5178 I figured.. I just hope music should be enjoyable fr, not to start debating over
@@povy2002 yeah, the music is still good but yeah, I try my best not interact the fans as much. Even though most fans are nice, it's always the toxic ones on social media
Literally stan twitter
The narcissism on social media has gotten out of hand..
I'm someone who doesn't overshare anymore. I was going through something with my family and told a friend. After I told her, all she could say was sorry about that. Realistically she's not Bill Gates who can help my situation 😭. I learnt that no matter what you are going through, big or small, all people can say is "sorry". And they can't help your situation. (As my Nigerian my would say - 'nothing wey dem fit talk pass sorry')
Not only that, I felt exposed. Like you know my life and just so transparent. I know I shouldn't say this but I felt vulnerable. And I don't like feeling this way except it's towards God Almighty.
I write down things that are bothering me in a journal. But I have a habit of not being consistent with it and bottling things up 😭
I understand you so well. No one help you the way the creator does. Cast your worries on him and he’ll will help. People loves to gossip and that’s why I had to learn stop to share with what’s going on in my house. Like That’s the fall for many people 💯😭
It's good to know that you don't expect your friend to automatically change your life. A lot of people I've seen on social media will get mad because their friend doesn't know what to do once they get traumadumped on.
Even since I became a reezy I will list the following:
-Clear skin✅
-78.92774% more attractive✅
-Monsters under my bed gone✅
-Grades A++✅
Let’s get Courtney to 4M and B ecome a reezy to be blessed like the rest of the 4M of us 😊
not the monsters under the bed 😭
NOBODY CARE'S + I EXPOSED courtreezy💀💯 ..........
LITERALLY THOUGH, my skin has never been more perfect and my grades have never dropped below A, ever
@@CrisCheese_ YOU GET ITT
FRR THOOO
no because like im tired of people normalizing such nasty stuff seen in a daily basis especially when the people doing the nasty stuff are kids 🤦🏻♀️
Why did you say "no because" ? It doesn't even make sense, that's another tik tok thing y'all keep saying that its useless and fucking stupid.
@@Kpopandmorethanthat not you having a grudge over something like that 💀 i cant forget to say how sensitive y’all are getting over the years. “no because” just means im just emphasizing more on it like the word “literally” 😭 is that hard to get??
@@MariaKates33 its sounds stupid af lol
What really pisses me off about the woman with 3 kids who is now homeless, is the fact that she didn’t put her kids first. If she was young-or even if she wasn’t, as long as she didn’t have any kids then I’d say-“go for it, live your life” but the fact that she is a grown ass woman with THREE YOUNG KIDS, and she threw a stable home and life away for an change at being an influencer pisses me off. Your children need to be your top priority, especially when they’re young. Your top priorities need to be your children having a stable home, or at least a stable life and the fact that she gave that up for social media is just…I can’t even explain it.
The way she was telling us that all social media is trying to sell you something and then she tried to sell us something interesting very interesting
when courtney posts the water becomes clear, it's golden hour every hour, skin is clear, grass is greener n the world heals. . .
source : trust me 😔
C'MON SEOB PFP I C U
NOBODY CARE'S + I EXPOSED courtreezy💀💯 ..........
@@saeicidYESSSSS
i knew there was a reason my skin was clear AND i got pizza without evn askin or having to pay 😍🤞🤞
10:13 i honestly agree with this. don’t get me wrong, i know that 4 year colleges and 9-5s aren’t for everyone, but if the recent discussions about tiktok in congress have taught us anything, it’s that a career as an influencer can be taken away just like that. it sucks, but that’s the world we’re living in.
Over sharing is a problem but it depends how you grow up! In my case im afraid to share anything since my family will tell everyone and then I get yelled at for things I do or believe in. The level of Trauma and low self esteem I have is a reason why I have a problem over sharing!
YES!!! I literally just talk to my self and pretend someone is listening
😭
“a samsung & a dream” help i’m cackling 😭😭😭
Heavy on the cancel culture. Looking up a tweet from 10 years ago is crazy
But definitely holds people accountable.😊
@@SamanthasUniversetimes are different from 10 years ago pooks things normalized back then arent now
as much as i agree with your comment i believe people should definitely apologize for their past mistakes even if it's years ago, it shows that they actually changed their mindset and are willing to improve for the better. however they shouldn't be cancelled or bullied to oblivion because of it but that's just my opinion
I have a neurological condition called Cyclic Vomiting Syndrome, and it causes really severe vomiting episodes and for some unknown reason, getting into a hot bath will stop the vomiting while im in hot water. So during my episodes, the only way i can sleep is to get in the bath. So i seriously considered buying that bath pillow, but then i forgot about it and never thought of it again until this video😂 i have a rule for myself that i NEVER buy things without thinking about it for atleast a week. And usually ill forget by the end of the week😂 it saves me a lot of money. I also dont return things, and i use up everything i buy.
Omg that seems so scary 😭 ure so strong! And I have the same rule for myself 😭
PETITION FOR COURT TO BE PRESIDENT OF THE USA CAUSE JOE BIDENS OLD AND IM SCARED OF DONALD TRUMP WINNING👇👇
I feel like thats my prediction for Voting Day, and plus idk if she knows about politics or something like that, but I'm rooting for Reezy to be the first black female president of USA. 😊
You have to be 35 to be president
Exactly @@alicianyanti
Honestly I’m just aware I’m broke and a high schooler. There’s no way in hell do I need any of these products and by the time I grow older these products are gonna be forgotten
Bro, that live chat was insane 😭. You got Kitty spamming farts, People talking about courtreezy fanfics, W spams, a couple tryna talk but getting cut off with W's, beef in the chat, NO MORE BEEF IN CHAT 😭💀
i was tryna socialize with zanna and YIKKKEEESSS and people were spamming lmao. but yuh, it was WILD
@@needygreedynsleep0can we be friends cus i dont have any friends
@@needygreedynsleep0 IKR 😭🤣🤣 It was insane but NO MORE BEEF IN CHAT lmao
@@kiraelizdeleon6643 LMAOOO
@@ujh184 uhh sure.
Yes Courtney back with the frequent uploads
Ikkkkk😭🩷
fr i missed them
I hate how normalized it is to film ur kids and post it online. theres so many family channels that exploit their kid for money and their kid being their main source of income like its just so sad
The key thing to not oversharing is just a lot of self-reflection. I am an over-thinker and introverted by nature, so my first course of action when something happens is to think about it. I don't go all therapist mode on myself or anything, I just reflect and keep reflecting until I can reach a conclusion that doesn't make me want to explode on someone. On the few occasions where I told people what was on my mind, it was genuinely because I felt like I was destroying myself by bottling it up. It's important to find a balance: don't tell everyone your business, but don't bottle up everything and kill yourself in the process.
What keeps me from oversharing is respecting my friends' capacity to be there for me. Everyone is so busy with their own lives and all the big and small things that happen throughout the day that it's not fair for me to dump all of my stuff on them too. There's a fine line between going to my friends when I need their help/advice/a shoulder to cry on versus exhausting them with the small, insignificant details of my life.
That’s a great way to look at it
You actually inspired me to start yt. For the past weeks I've been writing scripts and editing thumbnails. I'm actually having fun. I'll upload my first genuine video on Sunday. So thx
Subbed. Good luck 🤞🤞
@@yasminenazrin thanks I appreciate it 🙏🏾
Good for you!! And happy to hear you’re having fun ❤
@@kordeliiius9821 thanks for the kind words 😊
What kind of videos are you doing? Subbing
Right girl I said the same thing. I was talking to my nieces and nephews what do they wanna be when they get older and all of them said they wanna be RUclipsrs. 🤦🏾♀️
To add on to this, a lot of those people who move to LA with damn near nothing, no actual support system or reliable career end up either homeless, resorting to sex work for money or a temporary place to stay and then end up on drugs to cope with their new reality. So many people underestimate how quickly your life can crash in that city.
Girl my allergies have been hectic this season too. I have been so confused.
Girl same 😭😭😭
Same! I almost never get seasonal allergies but it's just been me and my Claritin in the trenches this season!
I dont overshare, i barely even share anything in my life. Even not if its good, ut i catch myself saying it in my head while being with someone and it feels like i said it to them💀
Literally same I stop myself and tell myself
"don't put your all into social media"
-courtreezy
Reading the kids comments in here is heartbreaking... "I'm 10 years old and every else acts so old. I just want to have a childhood."
I wasn't even having thoughts and discussions this complex at 10... my heart hurts for yall.
One thing i learnt about how to not overspend- would i rather have the product or the amout it costs in cash. If i would rather have the cash i would not buy the product
Courtney with a premiere >>>>
NOBODY CARE'S + I EXPOSED courtreezy💀💯 ..........
@@ville__ stop seeking attention plz
@@Z3niiREAL
@@ville__nobody cares abt you 💀
@@Kittymeow-lk6cj that is not a part two. 😌
Courtney actually gives such good advice like she’s like a wise older sister who’s funny and pretty 🫶
NOBODY CARE'S + I EXPOSED courtreezy💀💯 ..........
@ville__ about what?
REALLLL
@@ville__NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU ITS LOOKS LIKE YOU HAVE OBSESSION WITH HER BC YOU HAVE OVER 60 COMMENTS ON HER VIDS 💀
@@ville__ girl stfu you thought you ate that? LMAO
the influencer thing reminded me of the hype house, like they fell out so quickly and where are they now?? they are literally irrelevant now
The advice about writing things down instead of saying it to people is solid! It helps you distinguish between whether you just impulsively want to say the thing or if you actually want/need that person to know about it.
I use my notes app for this all the time! Especially if I’m tempted to argue with people on the internet 😅 I rarely end up saying anything that was written in my notes app… and if I do, I say it a lot more gracefully.
you’re SO right about journaling. I’ve always kept my serious business to myself, but I’ve definitely fallen into the trap of being a little too comfortable in public online spaces a few times. I’ve recently taken to my old high school journal and writing down thoughts that I have to get out, but are too personal for those spaces. It really helps
Also worth mentioning that the US govt. is rushing to ban tiktok bc users are overwhelmingly pro-Palestine. If they succeed, they could potentially ban any platform if they deem it the product of a “foreign adversary.” I don’t even have tiktok and it’s maddening to see
i agree with what you said about celebs and cancel culture. i think a lot of the time ppl idolize celebs, and bc they see them as superior they think they do no wrong. bc of this mindset people become surprised when people make mistakes. and while we should educate these people and hold them accountable rather than attacking them, i feel like in certain instances it’s perfectly justified to do so. like if someone gets exposed as a groomer or something im going off on their ass honestly 😭 yes everyone is human, but yes also people’s unethicals need to be called out, and they should stop being supported
COURTNEY!!! I’ve been watching you since the SHEIN haul you made and binge watched your videos after! Let me just say, being a reezy is rewarding y’all like we have amazing content. You don’t understand how much this video opened my eyes and made me say “wow”. I truly do need to go touch some grass because being on social media too much makes you feel outside of yourself, it makes you out of touch with reality, only draws you away from yourself, and what you need to get done. This inspired me to take a leap of faith and do the goals I’ve promised myself to do. No more comparing to social media, it’s time to step up and take action in our own lives ❤ THANK YOU COURTNEY🦋💕
It scares me when people with children have poor decision-making skills. Those children don't deserve to be in a shelter.
I am allergic to grass but because I’m a reezy I was able to overcome this allergy and touch grass 🤩🤩 being a reezy is quite literally the best thing to happen to a person I HIGHLY recommend
I really needed to hear this one. I don’t say a lot of stuff on social media, especially personal information. But I do mentally compare myself a lot, especially my looks and my body and my weight and what I eat cuz I’ve been trying to be healthier. I NEEDED this one.
Edit: I FEEL YOU on seeing other people’s butts and feel like it’s an age thing.
ngl those people that brought all them stanleys and now are complaining that social media made them do it are all lying to themselves. Social media didn't make you get up and go to the store or go online and buy all em damn cups. You can't blame social media for every little thing YOU decide to buy. Own up to your actions!!
Courtney is one of those few influencers that will tell you the true reality of being one. She doesn’t drag others down bc of their lifestyle but instead uses her own experiences to educate us ❤️ I’ve learnt so much from her
Nah cause if I was a celebrity, I’d get cancelled😭
Same😭
So about the over sharing, I have this thing I once saw on tik tok, it basically says “people don’t care how you feel, they care about what made you feel this way” I guess its like that idk, it means that people are more curious about the reasons, the gossip maybe or the drama that’s going on in your life, when I feel like over sharing I immediately think of that! Hope it helps (I really don’t like curious people, thats why it helped me so much)
Courtney just gave me a reality check. I'm applying for more jobs and internships now !!!!!!
courtney spitting facts omg i swear these things HAD to be said.
I get what you're saying because I used to want things for a long time and then don't even get it because I'm just broke 😭 I became a minimalist because it feels peaceful to be able to count my things and actually USE it and I'm also on a budget so I really hate overconsumption I really care for everyone budget I can't tell anybody to buy anything that isn't necessary
OH MY GOD this girl is so real when talking about these issues, IM SO HAPPY SOMEBODY IS MENTIONING THIS STUFF!
Keep up the good work and advice girlll ❤❤
People be wanting to be influencers but be having nothing to influence. Thats what really gets me.
I'm a Reezy know and life feels so much better no drama, no sadness I started doing activites, so thank you Coutreezy
Social Media is making us crazy 😟😟😟
3min
To everyone who has a problem of over sharing I was in the same boat but these last few years, every time I’m about to say something slightly personal I think “is this appropriate information for this person” “do I trust this person not to tell someone else” “might I regret saying this later” and things like that.
That’s what works for me
18:12 I’m an introvert and aim for the least amount of convo as possible. I give the least amount of information as possible to end the interaction quickly
that’s how i do it
2:27 the DSM changes ever so often and I feel like she just described a perfectly valid change to make. Because as the world evolves, there’s gonna be more and more vices that integrate into what we already know.
The key to not overshare is getting to be mysterious and the excitment when you can tell someone and their surprised. So while others overshare you keep the IMPORTANT things to yourself until it's right to share or if you even want to share. Also you hear others people's drama while not having to share an ounce yourself. Put 'The Art of Self-Control' when you go somewhere new!!
I have a problem with over sharing too it’s so bad 😭 I bottle things up and never talk about anything personal for awhile and then suddenly it all comes spilling out haha especially if someone asks me a question related to something I’m having a problem with, it’s like I can’t help but be honest and tell them every detail and then I regret it 😭
On one hand it can be nice to open up to friends but on the other hand when you’re not that close friends with someone and then you tell them all this bad stuff going on in your life you feel like they’re now looking at you differently. Sometimes I feel really judged or pitied because if I share all these things going wrong in my life then the friend just assumes my entire life is sad and horrible and I just don’t have my shit together. And then you can kind of see that judgment influencing all your future interactions with that person.
Having no plan was crazy to me with kids. If she was alone would okay because looking out for u only.
Bro Courtney, how are u gonna have a whole segment about overconsumption and saying no to buying too much products, and then try to sell us a product?😭
Ikr lol 😂
this literally came right on timeee i literally js got my snacks😂 love u courttt❤️💗(literally my fav youtuber🙏🏽)
omg yes! about oversharing, sometimes i just wanna say something to my friend and then i say nvm. so they keep telling me to say what i wanted to say so now im forced to overshare 😢
12:12 thi sis how I feel about the music industry, we have WAY too many people making music and chasing fame and not enough mailmen and librarians. It's hard to get with this new wave because it's oversaturated with people making the same iterations of each others music.
Literally growing up I always knew what I needed vs what I didn’t. Ofc as a kid I want toys but I would purposely not get my parents to spend money. They’ll say “Do you need anything?” And til this day I say no even tho there’s things I may WANT.
Now if I want something I’ll just wait a week or so (during that time I might look at vids about it or research) and ask myself if I really need/want it for myself rn.. so I don’t impulse buy
talking about don't buy everything influencers promote and adding a sponsor 2 seconds later is insane 😭😭😭 love her to death
This happens a lot even with kids 13-15ish like middle schoolers go crazy with cancel culture..
I feel like a terrible thing people constantly do on social media is generalize everything. I constantly see multiple people saying things like 'all Gen Alpha don't know how to read' or stating something about a random group as if it's a fact. People generalize about gender, age, race, mental disabilities, and just about every other group all the time and i feel like it just causes unnecessary hate wars on the internet.
Sometimes I wonder how our society would have been like if there wasn’t social media
I love Courtney cuz she reminds me of my big sister and she's gonna move away next year , its still kinda far but I'm still kinda sad about it , watching Cournteys videos really make me feel better . LUV U COURTNEY ❤❤
bro this like sanio stuff like for example you see someone have a hello kitty plushly and you think it’s so cute and you want to have it, so go to their shop and purchase it and the second you buy it you play with it once and you never use it again…. what a waste of money🤦🏽♀️
(sanio hello kitty and friends)
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Your advices are what I need rn. Thank you Courtney 😭💜
Honestly, people need to understand that when you call out overconsumption, understand with all of your soul that people aren't going to care. They are not going to give a 💩 and when you realize that, it won't bother your soul for longer than 5 seconds.
Courtney your a very nice person to listen to I think the way u talk is very smooth and I can understand you 1000% and ur a real down the earth person. you should think about starting a podcast. I listen to you throughout my day and it’s comforting to have something in the background.
As a chronic over-sharer who has ALMOST got it together with over sharing (I’m still learning) I’d like to share my tips on how I’m beating the urges.
Before telling whomever my business I ask myself is it necessary for them to know this? Will this feeling pass soon or is this something that’ll take time? Will I feel better after I tell them? Do I need advice or do I need to vent? I also do that breathing technique as well, I may even go as far as to Google about it before I consider telling someone… Now if I’ve done ALL the above and still feel it’s necessary to tell someone then I’ll go ahead and share w/ someone close to me. It’s def a work in progress and you have to actively work on it and be self aware of it.
Thank you for this!
This really helps me cause I’m learning to stop over sharing too
@@gracefulcharm55 always! I’m so glad I could help 💜 these things have worked wonders for me, especially asking myself “will I actually feel better after telling them?” Cause if not why am I spreading my business? Lol
When I see something online and I feel interested in buying it the first thing I think, in order to decide, is:”do I already have something similar, that does the same thing? And if I do, how much do I actually use it? Because if I have something similar, and don’t even use that. I certainly won’t use the new one
COURTNEY IN HER CONSISTENCY ERA!! ❤ I LOVE YOU VIDEOS SO SO MUCH!! 🤗
We as a society has somehow normalised, romantized, fantasised, sexualised abuse and dark topics. The stories was meant to help those who are stuck in similar situations, not become a weird new fetish where it is okay to treat people like this.
commenting on the oversharing thing- I honestly think therapy will help a lot with not oversharing a lot once it's no longer a habit. I used to over share and it was a semi trauma response. Then I experienced too much hurt from being so vulnerable that I became really private. I later learned after just healing, being saved, and flipping my experiences to help others that I share resolved things in my life. I only share what I need help with or only vent to my husband if it's something I need off my chest now. Journaling and prayer helps out a lot. Just letting it out is key. You have so much wisdom girl! I love it!
It’s actually scary, the way we get so attached to a story on social media and when it’s done we’re like *oh ok, scroll*
Being a Reezy is amazing I truly appreciate the love Courtney has for us thank u for your time?.😊
On the topic of cancel culture, most of these people canceling celebrities and influencers probably have EXTREMELY toxic relationships(and I don’t mean romantic ones) and despite knowing these people that will say the most outrageous controversial things they still keep in touch with them and do nothing about it
Currently reading Marie Kondo’s “Kurashi At Home” and it lightly covers some of these topics too in a way. Once you see fast fashion and whatnot as extensions of fomo/wanting to be “in” you can begin to let go of needing wants
Thank you for talking about these issues!!