how our relationship with God changed after having kids

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

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  • @courtneyfahy
    @courtneyfahy 3 месяца назад +2

    The lord came to me in a dream recently and provided me with the idea of dependency on him. I’ve been trying to figure out where in my life he wanted me to be more dependent, but Chad’s words about being unafraid to “swim in the deep end” of life really captured what I think he may have meant. It’s not about depending on him only where I need him, but positioning myself in ways that I regularly depend on him more so he can continue to grow me. ❤ Thanks for sharing about our Father’s wisdom, Tori & Chad!

  • @amandakate1247
    @amandakate1247 3 месяца назад +7

    It’s nice to know that I’m not the only one who struggles with the comparison of parenthood when you come from parents who don’t express their appreciation of raising us. Children are a gift from God and it’s a beautiful privilege to be able to bring life into this world.

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 3 месяца назад +16

    The timing of the video is awesome. I’m literally preaching a message to what y’all said in the video on Sunday. 😮 kerm on Holy Spirit!!! 🫡

  • @KizNic
    @KizNic 2 месяца назад

    I shared a video from you guys with my boyfriend and he knew how much I really like to journal. Then, last Christmas, he surprised me with Mr. Pen highlighters! It was so sweet! I didn't ask for that and it was a small part of the video but he picked up on it and gifted me them. Now I use them all the time!🥰🥰

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 3 месяца назад +3

    Wow it's so beautiful hearing your stories of parenthood to better understand how God sees us. You brought me so close to tears Chad!

  • @cubcakecreations
    @cubcakecreations 3 месяца назад +8

    Thank you for sharing these wise words. God is so good! Glad you guys are sharing God's truth❤

  • @skyemanion947
    @skyemanion947 3 месяца назад +3

    So encouraging to me to cherish the seaon I'm in and to make the most of it❤

  • @ThePossiblePerseverancePodcast
    @ThePossiblePerseverancePodcast 3 месяца назад +12

    Chad making us all cry 😅😂 such a beautiful video you guys ❤️

  • @naomitrollopeillustration
    @naomitrollopeillustration 3 месяца назад +3

    Want to thank you guys for this video. Been such a discouraging week of confusion. I’m 36 weeks with our second baby who up until a few days ago was head down with a planned homebirth, and she’s now flipped to breech. Have had different and conflicting opinions from midwives and at this stage, have been feeling so lost and confused. It felt up until this point that God was pointing us towards a peaceful and God-glorifying and redeeming homebirth after the stress and trauma of my 1st birth, and it feels confusing to have that potentially taken away. Have also dealt with a sickness bug that wiped me out to the point where I had to go into hospital yesterday to check my baby was okay and get fluids for severe dehydration. But a friend sent me a voice note saying that God is not a God of confusion and disorder, but of clarity and peace. She also mentioned that in her 1st pregnancy, midwives and doctors were telling her so many conflicting and confusing things about her baby that at the end of the pregnancy she just chose to ignore them all and listen to what God was saying. Tori, what you were saying about not listening to the voices around you and instead listening to the holy spirit spoke to me so deeply because it resounded with what my friend had just been saying to me. Thank you for that. I am just choosing to listen to Gods voice first and what my husband is also saying God has said to him. We are praying and believing that our baby will flip back around and that I will be able to give birth at home. This will be another beautiful testimony of Gods triumph and promises over the voices of the world. Thank you for this message guys, it has been extremely edifying and encouraging ❤

    • @courtneyfahy
      @courtneyfahy 3 месяца назад

      Praying for a safe delivery for you and baby. Our God is good and will be by your side through it all! 🙏

  • @amandafranklin1770
    @amandafranklin1770 3 месяца назад +1

    Mannnn. The obstacle to happiness vs the opportunity for holiness really hit home today. It's been an incredibly stressful week in our house and I admit I've failed in how I reacted to alot of these stresses because I've looked at them as obstacles to my happiness instead of opportunities for holiness. Thank you for sharing this and for encouraging as well as convicting me in my walk with God. ❤️

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd 3 месяца назад +6

    Love you guys! Your videos always inspire me❤

  • @morganheineman4398
    @morganheineman4398 3 месяца назад +1

    Oh my goodness so good! When you all said:
    “We typically want easy, right? We seek comfort and control. And it’s hard to embrace the hard things. It’s hard to die to ourselves. It’s hard to put others before ourselves. But we can look at it as an opportunity for holiness and see ourselves being purified verses just resenting situations because it’s impacting our previous life stage of when we got a little bit more sleep and freedom. But sleep and freedom only fed our own flesh! In parenthood, we are having the opportunity to feed the Spirit living in us.”
    “Being a parent is tough for good parents”
    Keeping this in the notes in my phone to remember. Thank you for your uplifting content!

  • @kaylaaddison3269
    @kaylaaddison3269 3 месяца назад +5

    Super excited for this one as I'm getting closer to motherhood!! Thank you guys for sharing with us. ❤

  • @Sarah-sr8zw
    @Sarah-sr8zw 3 месяца назад +1

    amen!! as a single person, this really resonated even still!

  • @kelseycayer7086
    @kelseycayer7086 3 месяца назад +1

    I can’t help but laugh in awe of God. Each and every thing you just shared in this video is exactly what I’m currently walking in or about to walk into. So encouraging! I’m so thankful this video came up before I head into this hard season 🫶🏻

  • @josuecastanon894
    @josuecastanon894 3 месяца назад +1

    As a single Young Man, This whole video really helped give me an overview of God's plan for my life... like in a movie where someone has a treasure map but you can only see the names of the places you have been in; you can see that you have to cross "mountains" or maybe a weird "river" on the map but it says "???" over it, as in You know what's ahead (the river or mountains or etc...) but you don't know the names of the places and you won't see them until you get there, so Just Enjoy The Journey and after you reach a new destination, Grow in it and get to know the area and don't try to go back to the previous landmark because you know you have to keep going Forward Towards The Treasure! GOD'S Mercies are new every day... Its Ok to Not know everything, Just make sure to leave It in God's hands and Trust Him that He will Be With You and He Will help you through and be Faithful to His Promises!

  • @kaitlynneer6832
    @kaitlynneer6832 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for this video! It was just the reminder that I needed!

  • @ginavea5465
    @ginavea5465 3 месяца назад +1

    God is my master.. I love watching your family ❤ What uplifting, inspiring, videos!! Love you guys

  • @theofehsenfeld635
    @theofehsenfeld635 3 месяца назад +1

    You guys are angel parents. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

  • @allisonlucas018
    @allisonlucas018 3 месяца назад

    🔥 The only constant in life is change 🔥 such a good quote Chad!

  • @blessedandhopeful
    @blessedandhopeful 3 месяца назад

    Good encouragement. I’m
    Going to do an important and complex thing - you guys spoke some more courage into me , to face what have to do 🫶🏻🤍 sending much love 🫶🏻

  • @nancydroge7682
    @nancydroge7682 3 месяца назад

    Wonderful truths conveyed so well! Thank you! P.S. Have been looking for Bible highlighters that don’t soak through! Was excited to hear about ‘Mr. Pen’ today! Eager to purchase! 🖊️

  • @lindimalefane7874
    @lindimalefane7874 3 месяца назад +1

    Baby Noah needs to be added to your channel description! 😇

  • @mariamangion21
    @mariamangion21 3 месяца назад +4

    Love your videos ❤

  • @orlandopetroni5790
    @orlandopetroni5790 3 месяца назад

    Wow,,,.words of Eternal Salvation beautiful fam. ❤ Hallelujah Amen 🙏🏼

  • @eloniahibbert1248
    @eloniahibbert1248 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤your video always so inspiring with lots of food for thought. God bless your family

  • @carmengericke4621
    @carmengericke4621 3 месяца назад

    Will you be recreating your old War Room in your new home or do you have some new ideas? And how do you store all of your beautiful Bibles? ❤✝️

  • @Sbro901
    @Sbro901 3 месяца назад

    Beautiful! Happiness vs holiness… what matters more? The answer is in the question. 😉

  • @TracylynnOlson
    @TracylynnOlson 3 месяца назад

    HOLY this is the Best video ever lol Holy Holy Holy thank You LORD in you both!!!💛✝️🌊

  • @hilarioussiri
    @hilarioussiri 13 дней назад

    9:30 this was for me today.. I am experiencing so much ups&downs these days in work place. I was so thankful for God’s plan for me and the wonderful things he have done for me, and suddenly the hardship comes and I can’t handle those emotions between people so I grumble againts God like why is this happening to me. what do you want to do. what is your plan why am I suffering..
    But then, these days I was reading the old testament and was surprised how Pharaoh’s heart can be that hardened and repeat the same thing over and over again(eventhough God intentionally hardened his mind to show people His work), and also how Israelites repeatedly sin and grumble against God&Moses. Like I was just surprised to see how they could grumble that much that repeatedly to God when he just has a wonderful plan for them if they could follow His plan delightfully.
    But today as I was complaining to God and after seeing this vlog, I was shocked that I was no different than Israelites and Pharaoh and other ancestors who kept sinning.
    I realized that as I walk with God, he just want me to overcome those hardships with delightful mind and fix my heart on Jesus.
    Thank you for your vlog

  • @allig1415
    @allig1415 3 месяца назад

    Thanks a TON! SOOOOO GOOD! 😇 God over Google! What source are you running to? Got me thinking. Recently I've realized if I get ready longer then the time i spend in the word there's a problem...so I'm personally trying to spend more time then on vanity.

  • @kimmy0068
    @kimmy0068 3 месяца назад

    needed this! love you both brother & sister in Christ! Tori what study bible are you using ? :) God Bless your family!!!

  • @erinjoella
    @erinjoella 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for the encouragement as always! 😊
    Also I’ve been trying to find that baby carrier everywhere - what’s it called?

  • @tanyadsouza1100
    @tanyadsouza1100 3 месяца назад

    Beautiful video.

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 3 месяца назад

    Love your channel ❤

  • @privateprincess
    @privateprincess 3 месяца назад

    tori I am begging you. Can you please make a video tutorial your hairstyle 🥲🙏❤️ its gorgeous every video

  • @mamzellilooo
    @mamzellilooo 3 месяца назад +43

    God has been so faithful to me I exalt his name now and everyday of my life. ☦️🙏❤️Awesome God ❤️my family are happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$57k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.

    • @babytruca02
      @babytruca02 3 месяца назад +2

      Hello how do you make such weekly??
      I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God.

    • @mamzellilooo
      @mamzellilooo 3 месяца назад

      @@babytruca02Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.

    • @mamzellilooo
      @mamzellilooo 3 месяца назад

      I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.

    • @mamzellilooo
      @mamzellilooo 3 месяца назад

      My outlook on money changed when I realized someone making $200K can retire broke & someone making $80K can retire a millionaire. With the current market movement.

    • @KuramaUchiha-id1ow
      @KuramaUchiha-id1ow 3 месяца назад

      You're correct!! I make a lot of money without relying on the government.
      Investing in stocks and digital currencies is beneficial at this moment.

  • @sharonangel0409
    @sharonangel0409 3 месяца назад +2

    Beautiful 😍

  • @shawnee.
    @shawnee. 2 месяца назад

    I never realized how big Chad is!

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 3 месяца назад +4

    Yoo-hoo 🙋🏻‍♂️

  • @AubreyDufrane
    @AubreyDufrane 3 месяца назад

    What does that mean, to put yourself in a place where you really need God to come through? To have more kids than you think you can handle? Take a financial risk? Do less and expect more? That’s just such a vague concept to throw out there, and I’m not sure biblically what that means or looks like.
    I need God to come through every day. I need his spirit to flow through me moment to moment or I’ll screw something up. In fact my day is basically just me alternating in and out of walking in the spirit. Things go well when I do, and they go poorly when I don’t, when I sin. And when I sin I have Jesus to praise for redeeming me and I have confession and repentance to restore my relationship with him and whomever I have sinned against. But in this way, God “coming through” for me is entirely dependent on my willingness to submit to his spirit and his word. It’s not just me taking a risk and then holding my breath while I try to trust him for the outcome. I’d sure like to know what you mean.

  • @KathyCrenshaw
    @KathyCrenshaw 3 месяца назад

    I never had kids but I think God uses my pets the same way he uses kids to illustrate a consuming love. Matter of fact, God uses my cats to teach me a lot of things.

  • @JonathanKrech
    @JonathanKrech 3 месяца назад

    🙏🏼🔥

  • @_xBrokenxDreamsx_
    @_xBrokenxDreamsx_ 2 месяца назад

    buy them as much bitcoin and tesla stock as you can now and they won't ever need to go to school.

  • @brendonw4423
    @brendonw4423 3 месяца назад

    I needed to hear this 🫶🏼... Thank-you for sharing, the Lord knows what we need

  • @milanaammari
    @milanaammari 3 месяца назад

    I am so thankful to God for you two and thank God for what He teaches me through the lessons you two learn through Him🥹❤️ I love yall

  • @graceprice6351
    @graceprice6351 3 месяца назад

    What are some of your top Bible study recs? 🤍

  • @ruthtieman7636
    @ruthtieman7636 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing. This video was encouraging to me. Love you guys!