Bon Iver - Skinny Love

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • Artist: Bon Iver
    Song: Skinny Love
    Album: For Emma, Forever Ago
    Lyrics
    Come on skinny love just last the year
    Pour a little salt we were never here
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Staring at the sink of blood and crushed veneer
    I tell my love to wreck it all
    Cut out all the ropes and let me fall
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Right in the moment this order's tall
    I told you to be patient
    I told you to be fine
    I told you to be balanced
    I told you to be kind
    In the morning I'll be with you
    But it will be a different "kind"
    I'll be holding all the tickets
    And you'll be owning all the fines
    Come on skinny love what happened here
    Suckle on the hope in lite brassiere
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Sullen load is full; so slow on the split
    I told you to be patient
    I told you to be fine
    I told you to be balanced
    I told you to be kind
    Now all your love is wasted?
    Then who the hell was I?
    Now I'm breaking at the britches
    And at the end of all your lines
    Who will love you?
    Who will fight?
    Who will fall far behind?

Комментарии • 10 тыс.

  • @johnloeffler6629
    @johnloeffler6629 4 года назад +3712

    Man, I'm a sucker for an empty-sounding acoustic guitar and sad lyrics.

    • @wo0kie86
      @wo0kie86 4 года назад +27

      You're not the only one..

    • @alison-yb5qk
      @alison-yb5qk 4 года назад +19

      wo0kie86 lets start a club

    • @lukejean3007
      @lukejean3007 4 года назад +33

      He’s using a resonator guitar, and a weird tuning . It’s super cool .

    • @mibrothegreat2825
      @mibrothegreat2825 4 года назад +11

      We are all suckers

    • @razorblade2332
      @razorblade2332 4 года назад +4

      Same,I wish there was a way to find more

  • @Sddraway3
    @Sddraway3 5 лет назад +4779

    Have you ever felt so empty, yet so alive?
    That’s this song.

  • @otlrobbie
    @otlrobbie 4 года назад +1548

    Just cause the comments aren’t relatively close to present day, doesn’t mean this isn’t still the anthem.

    • @justagirl1894
      @justagirl1894 4 года назад +1

      robbie robbie more than we want it to be

    • @cockdoodle3315
      @cockdoodle3315 4 года назад +1

      yep

    • @imennl6588
      @imennl6588 4 года назад +1

      True

    • @kaitlynstark7722
      @kaitlynstark7722 4 года назад +3

      @Stark it just is. Also hello fellow Stark 😎

    • @mikemckenzie3175
      @mikemckenzie3175 4 года назад +2

      People will gravitate to a good song doesn’t matter the year or the music type a great song is a great song

  • @deathknigt3000
    @deathknigt3000 5 лет назад +2452

    Birdy’s cover has that sound and vibe that is like you and your ex have been broken up for a long period of time. You’ve both had time to grow and move on from each other. You’re finding forgiveness within yourself and the relationship.
    But Bon Iver’s original...man, this is what it sounds like immediately after the breakup. You’re angry. You’re sad. You’re accusing. You wanted it to work, but it ended ugly. You want to know what, why, and how. You’re trying to forget them, but the memories won’t leave.
    The original has this emotion that no cover can ever capture. The original is truly what Justin Vernon was feeling in the time of a breakup. It’s a sound when songwriting that nobody can replicate unless they’re truly feeling it in that exact moment. That’s what makes this version truly beautiful.

    • @cora5534
      @cora5534 5 лет назад +2

      hey, so if someone posted this song they are probably in huge pain for someone and probably dont wanna see them anymore? KK or nah?

    • @shayrose7705
      @shayrose7705 4 года назад +13

      I agree but personally I like birdys cover better. Just seems deeper. Although this has a lot of soul in it.

    • @audreycousins2185
      @audreycousins2185 4 года назад +26

      I totally agree. The original feels like he hated himself as well as his ex, like he knows it's his fault too...

    • @tonyhill2318
      @tonyhill2318 4 года назад +4

      Nail meets head.

    • @danterosales9392
      @danterosales9392 4 года назад +20

      man fuck you for getting that metaphor 100% perfect

  • @catdaddy5804
    @catdaddy5804 7 лет назад +2772

    This song makes me reminiscent about something that never happened

    • @jeleapeed7784
      @jeleapeed7784 6 лет назад +10

      Soîna Peri I love those words. Profound.

    • @richardjarram1590
      @richardjarram1590 5 лет назад +20

      Be glad it didn’t

    • @alliegbs
      @alliegbs 5 лет назад +9

      My mom loved this song she passed away a year ago this really just hits my feelings. Maybe your just thinking about other people and their experiences so you just are like....wow thats wow.

    • @ashleysummercook6607
      @ashleysummercook6607 5 лет назад +2

      Well this is what I needed to hear✨ just when I thought things didn't make sense ✨

    • @ryanocerus7853
      @ryanocerus7853 5 лет назад +14

      I get those, too. Just like with this song. I feel nostalgic for something I'd not experienced before. Odd thing.

  • @kaiapanda9430
    @kaiapanda9430 4 года назад +1338

    When he wrote this album, Justin Vernon literally shut himself away heartbroken in a cabin, where he steeped in his sadness. This is distilled depression in song form.

    • @evandegray6688
      @evandegray6688 4 года назад +5

      Kaiapanda94 I feel this 💯

    • @dusty4502
      @dusty4502 4 года назад +29

      And yet people call it Birdys song 🙄

    • @jamesharned3716
      @jamesharned3716 4 года назад +2

      Fucking brilliant!!!

    • @cowboylemon4670
      @cowboylemon4670 3 года назад +6

      @@dusty4502 IKR, no one will match the emotional rawness of his voice.

    • @tiffanyphillips7793
      @tiffanyphillips7793 3 года назад +1

      I know how that feels

  • @thahdeepseadivuh7501
    @thahdeepseadivuh7501 7 лет назад +3260

    Lol some guy was blasting this on gta so I had to ask what song it was, if that guy sees this, thank you

    • @Qu33n0fPenTacLe5
      @Qu33n0fPenTacLe5 6 лет назад +375

      lol what? this is terrible music to kill hookers to...

    • @lost9693
      @lost9693 5 лет назад +56

      Hentaii G0d its a thankless job

    • @larissabrooks7161
      @larissabrooks7161 5 лет назад +27

      Ahhh this is such a great comment

    • @ISWJoeyD
      @ISWJoeyD 5 лет назад +8

      Have the internet for a minute, buddy :)

    • @nilesritter6885
      @nilesritter6885 5 лет назад +1

      Crystallized the xx

  • @unlockdaniel
    @unlockdaniel 4 года назад +800

    Sometimes a “soulmate” turns out to be the one who takes your soul with them when they walk out the door

    • @leonardosadfalleiros6737
      @leonardosadfalleiros6737 4 года назад +36

      This just happened to me. Pretty sure she took my soul just because. I don't even feel alive anymore.
      Ty for your comment. Helped me to understand my pain.

    • @unlockdaniel
      @unlockdaniel 4 года назад +25

      Leonardo Sad Falleiros I can’t tell you it gets better, it doesn’t on its own, because what happened will never be “better” its awful. But it gets easier every day you get through, that’s how you do it, or at least how I have for 10 months, one day at a time. And maybe you can, have, or are getting better at a way faster curve than I am, but no matter what happens or where you are in 10 months, just keep living your life, and when you’re ready, take the leap. I hope this gives you something, I don’t mean to project, but I wish I could’ve let myself know I’d still be here in 10 months, because when shit hits the fan it can feel like the world is falling apart.

    • @leonardosadfalleiros6737
      @leonardosadfalleiros6737 4 года назад +11

      @@unlockdaniel Damn straight man. Damn straight. It would be nice if we could pep talk our past or future selves.
      If you want to share whatever happened to you email me: adoromesas@yahoo.com.br
      I have found out that writing really helps me cope with the pain. One day at a time, one letter at a time. Each one takes the weight away. And you dont even have to deliver the letter. Just save it read it a couple times later and destroy it.
      Ty for your help.
      Take good care of yourself o/

    • @evandegray6688
      @evandegray6688 4 года назад +1

      Damn... feel this 💔

    • @bubblebuddyyyy
      @bubblebuddyyyy 4 года назад +15

      Believe me when I say I understand this pain. But one day I hope you discover you have many soulmates, each with distinct features to your relationship. And distinct lessons to be learned to prepare you for your next endeavor. And of course remember to cherish the good memories because they are something you can be joyful for ever experiencing. I'll close with this: Every heartache you've ever felt has shown how infinitely deep your capacity for love is. Without the disapointments, without desires, we will have never discovered what actually makes us happy. 🙏

  • @moniruzzamanmahadi3384
    @moniruzzamanmahadi3384 6 лет назад +2109

    If you prefer this original over any of those covers, you sir or ma'am, have class.

    • @tasyanabila9013
      @tasyanabila9013 5 лет назад +116

      But Birdy's version brought me here whereas in the past I've heard none of it :) so shout out for her to help popularize this song.

    • @Dipper_Pines28
      @Dipper_Pines28 4 года назад +52

      I like both Bon Iver and Birdy so I have 2 classes 🙂

    • @AddBowIfGirl
      @AddBowIfGirl 4 года назад +20

      Moniruzzaman Mahadi
      Birdy’s cover is classier than the original. Nothing beats piano.

    • @AddBowIfGirl
      @AddBowIfGirl 4 года назад +9

      Cowboy Boy
      Nah. Piano + a sweet voice rules all. No classier pair.

    • @YOUAreTheSecretToLife
      @YOUAreTheSecretToLife 4 года назад +3

      I love them all 😍

  • @czarinakrishasantos3951
    @czarinakrishasantos3951 9 лет назад +12626

    who is birdy. who is bon iver. where am i. i just wanted to look up instructions on how to bake pumpkin pie

    • @filoacessivel
      @filoacessivel 8 лет назад +367

      i love you

    • @nhi1266
      @nhi1266 8 лет назад +118

      +Czarina Krisha Santos omf this is hilarious

    • @FlynnJavier
      @FlynnJavier 8 лет назад +34

      +Czarina Krisha Santos hahahahahahahah XD

    • @littleferrhis
      @littleferrhis 8 лет назад +107

      +Czarina Krisha Santos Bon Iver is covering a song, then Birdy covered his version....Have fun making that pie ;)

    • @nataliavargas9299
      @nataliavargas9299 8 лет назад +49

      +Czarina Krisha Santos that's how we all started

  • @kavatikamob457
    @kavatikamob457 8 лет назад +248

    'For Emma, Forever Ago,
    who’s Emma?
    “Emma isn’t a person,” Vernon told an audience.
    [[“Emma is a place that you get stuck in. Emma’s a pain that you can’t erase.”]]

    • @maxwellman40
      @maxwellman40 8 лет назад +8

      Emma is actually the middle name of one of his exs

    • @esmevuti
      @esmevuti 8 лет назад +6

      I've recently seen the film Blue is Warmest Color, and now I think about the character Emma as the same Emma from the album. Just a thought.

    • @ivanmujica4276
      @ivanmujica4276 8 лет назад

      Chasing Amy

    • @danieldelemos1865
      @danieldelemos1865 7 лет назад

      I've never watched it... is it good?

    • @esmevuti
      @esmevuti 7 лет назад

      Daniel de Lemos yes, very

  • @astronautpee8909
    @astronautpee8909 4 года назад +131

    it’s always this song, man. give it a few months but then i’ll always come back. there’s something about it. makes me feel nostalgic as hell. makes me remember every other time i’ve listened to it and cried my eyes out. it’s like a hug that you so desperately need. like being cradled in someone’s arms, along with the crushing loneliness of not having anyone to be that person for you. and when the chord progression for the verses comes back around it feels like a reminder that no matter what happens, life will go on and the earth will keep turning. i don’t know. it’s 7am and i’ve been up all night. i’m watching the sunrise through my window. if you’re reading this, i love you.

    • @sylviagrimmegarciapena8282
      @sylviagrimmegarciapena8282 3 года назад +2

      its been 9 months since u wrote this, and i can agree with every word you said. this is possibly my favorite song at the moment, it just serves as a reminder that the earth will keep turning and everything will be fine.

    • @ThePie45dude
      @ThePie45dude 2 года назад +2

      I love you too bro

    • @stupif6242
      @stupif6242 2 года назад +1

      hope things have gotten better since you wrote this

    • @alanhawkins4229
      @alanhawkins4229 Год назад +1

      3:58 Love is you, I do love you too

    • @laurensmith-poirier5466
      @laurensmith-poirier5466 Год назад +1

      Beautiful comment, thanks for your Excellent words , with depth of Heart.

  • @ooynky
    @ooynky 9 лет назад +1500

    Birdy's version is pretty but Bon Ivers' has a passion of a thousand suns melting into one singularity of atomic swirl of emotions whereupon all the unicorns in the world come from and all amazing cat videos go to when they are forgotten.

    • @datteclub
      @datteclub 9 лет назад +14

      Up you go..

    • @bryanearlmoreno2960
      @bryanearlmoreno2960 9 лет назад

      +ooynky Well said, well said

    • @meegel377
      @meegel377 9 лет назад +18

      So deep. I almost drowned and i saw adele rolling in the deep and i said hi to satan. Lmao

    • @kazuichis
      @kazuichis 9 лет назад +4

      OMG PLEASE TELL ME WE'RE NEIGHBORS

    • @стрелок-ч7р
      @стрелок-ч7р 9 лет назад +1

      both versions suck tbh

  • @xerikshaw2646
    @xerikshaw2646 6 лет назад +3861

    16 and a failed suicide to this song fast forward to age 20 my son was born while this song was playing... I feel so many emotions towards this song it makes me think how my life is sad yet beautiful...

    • @alexisdobbyn5244
      @alexisdobbyn5244 5 лет назад +114

      Xerik shaw 💜💜💜💜 glad you’re here!

    • @mikecirasuolo2638
      @mikecirasuolo2638 5 лет назад +65

      Your Childs beautiful moments are in your hands ,wishing you more beautiful moments Keep the faith

    • @gabriel60837
      @gabriel60837 5 лет назад +33

      keep strong bro

    • @Ibrah119
      @Ibrah119 5 лет назад +60

      5 months later, still hoping you’re here with us and doin well. People care about you my guy, never forget that

    • @mistamisty4652
      @mistamisty4652 5 лет назад +29

      Cheers mate. The night is darkest before the dawn

  • @skellbo
    @skellbo 9 лет назад +2493

    I know it sounds cheesy, but I remember when I found Bon Iver's music. It was like finding a part of myself that I always knew I had but I never thought I'd find.

    • @felipebaidon4752
      @felipebaidon4752 9 лет назад +8

      +tobei47 me too woman, me too

    • @TheCobraSkating
      @TheCobraSkating 9 лет назад +10

      That's very accurate for me as well!

    • @samanthafreda9287
      @samanthafreda9287 8 лет назад +1

      yes.

    • @YourMom-vh2up
      @YourMom-vh2up 8 лет назад +9

      +tobei47 that is not cheesy and i feel similar. just shows the depths of one soul, and feeling it.

    • @love123_ultra5
      @love123_ultra5 8 лет назад +14

      what do u mean it sounds cheesy, it sounded beautiful to me :)

  • @tristancabeza7680
    @tristancabeza7680 5 лет назад +651

    I lost my brother to suicide on August 27, 2019. I still can’t believe you’re not around anymore. I’m sorry for not being there when you needed me the most. You were my role model and biggest inspiration. I will see you soon! But for now I’ll stay strong for Mom and the family. Anybody that is suffering from depression or a type of mental illness. Please seek help you are loved and you’re life matters! Ride in peace big bro!

    • @mujtabahilali1721
      @mujtabahilali1721 5 лет назад +8

      all respect for you

    • @chriscarreramuse
      @chriscarreramuse 4 года назад +15

      My man this comment made me cry, stay strong brother.

    • @idkijustworkhere1206
      @idkijustworkhere1206 4 года назад +4

      Mujtaba Hilali this comment made me cry:( but stay strong, i’m sending all my love

    • @ignoranceisbliss27
      @ignoranceisbliss27 4 года назад +14

      Hey, Tristan... Suicide is really hard no matter how you slice it... Either those of us who have tried and sometimes regret not having succeeded, sometimes being those who are thankful and grateful for the 2nd chance on life, or those who may have gone through either of the 1st two but most tragically by those still here mourning those lost to suicide.
      I am so sorry for your loss, and I can't imagine what that feels like, as, I am an only child, but... I miss my Oma dearly, and if it wasn't for my son, I would have already tried seeing her again must sooner than my body seems ready to do so, but... Also before I would have the chance to see her again and say I loved her and missed her and... And... Nothing has been the same since she died... And I don't know if it was accidental or intentional, but apparently last year, after 13 other years of difficulty, it was explained that the 14th year of mourning would be questions asking if she helped nudge the sands of time in her favor, as... She was indeed in a lot of pain...
      But.... In a random act of love and trying to help a friend be heard by their Aunt Cher, I adopted Aunt Cher into my family, and then learned she is my friend's Oma, just by a different name... And... I poured my heart out... I got to say everything I wished I could say before she died.... And... It happened by accident. By sheer coincidence and happenstance. But it happened...
      I'm crying as I'm writing this, and I don't even know if you're going to read this or not, but... As someone who has woken up when they didn't intend to, and has been, for the last 15 years been wondering how much more misery I'd have to go through, especially when Oma's been gone for 14 of them... I don't know if I'd see her if I took my own life... But... I know I wouldn't have seen her if I didn't do what I did and love a stranger like my family and find who they remind me of and to love them twice as much because they are themselves, and somehow this loved person that... I never thought I would get to say another word to... And... While still not okay... I'm at least a little better...
      I think I recall you saying you lost a brother.... I'm... I've never had a sibling.. So I don't know what it's like to lose one, and I so sorry for your loss... I can guarantee you that you were not thought of as a reason for blame or hurt or anything, and that if anything..... You were thought of and painfully missed and acknowledge to be hurt deeply by.... Oh man... I just wanted to water you and help you grow, and... I'm apparently working through trauma I didn't realize was still so painful.... Because.... I just wanted to stop hurting when I tried to kill myself.... I didn't want to hurt anyone else but I knew it would and I fucking hated it and.... I know it's a tall ask, but... I would very much like to adopt you as a sibling and someone to be grateful for that I woke up and can maybe, hopefully shed some light on something yiu may not know yourself, if you haven't woken up after planning not to... Because...
      You were absolutely there in all the best ways that you could be, and... As someone who has accepted you into my chosen family as my sibling, and in being a chosen brother who has survived suicide... I hope to be able to remind you even a bit of who your brother might have been, even if presenting a hypothetical scenario that is based on somebody else's lived experiences...
      I love you, Tristan, and... I'm here if ever you need someone to talk to. Even if that person is gone and you can know that someone else who loves you is listening and hearing you and seeing you... Even if you just need someone to hear you. Or anyone else... I can answer many questions of my own experiences such as surviving things such as suicide, rape, false imprisonment, kidnapping, bank robbery, childhood molestation, bullying, racial hate crimes, racial discrimination, ableist discrimination, physical abuse, verbal abuse, psychological abuse, torture, pretty much anything except childbirth and menses...
      Anyways... This isn't the book I'm writing, but maybe a page or two of it... Tristan. I love you. Your brother loved you. Your brother also didn't blame you... That much I can guarantee.....
      Take care and be safe...
      💜💙💚🧡💛❤️

    • @jamesharned3716
      @jamesharned3716 4 года назад +3

      Lost my brother to Suicide in 1991 it never goes away keep your head up!!!

  • @Kreisikana
    @Kreisikana 10 лет назад +290

    Bon Iver wrote it with experience, Ed sang it with emotion, Birdy sang it with sorrow. I love all three

    • @alexisdobbs4824
      @alexisdobbs4824 10 лет назад +32

      I agree! Finally someone who isn't like "Oh, fuck Birdy. Ed Sheeran is shit! Bon Iver did the best!" Ughh, why can't we just listen to the song and keep our opinions to ourselves.

    • @anyaaaaaa517
      @anyaaaaaa517 10 лет назад +9

      I know! There is no need to fight over the song. Why won't other people just calm their tits (or dicks) and just enjoy the song?

    • @lovebugalwaysnd4ever
      @lovebugalwaysnd4ever 10 лет назад

      Best comment ever!

    • @graneadear
      @graneadear 6 лет назад

      Justin wrote it you mean right?

    • @tannerbunker4613
      @tannerbunker4613 5 лет назад +2

      Ed? He sang it?!? lemme see this!

  • @devonblack1891
    @devonblack1891 9 лет назад +410

    new to this type of music and damn did I just find a man of a golden voice

    • @lepooter5900
      @lepooter5900 9 лет назад +1

      SAME.

    • @devonblack1891
      @devonblack1891 8 лет назад +1

      ***** it's true though XD

    • @65rowan
      @65rowan 8 лет назад

      +Devon Black Seems like he has three vocals over one which give a strong vocal and each one a bit off from the other which makes it sound distinct. His vocal on its own is just a decent voice nothing amazing.

    • @lawrelleeyee7786
      @lawrelleeyee7786 8 лет назад +1

      Check out "The Counting Crows" All time best band hands down.."...

    • @lawrelleeyee7786
      @lawrelleeyee7786 8 лет назад +1

      Im so sick of all the covers.

  • @victoriaromero2469
    @victoriaromero2469 5 лет назад +369

    Come on skinny love just last the year
    Pour a little salt we were never here
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Staring at the sink of blood and crushed veneer
    I tell my love to wreck it all
    Cut out all the ropes and let me fall
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Right in the moment this order's tall
    And I told you to be patient
    And I told you to be fine
    And I told you to be balanced
    And I told you to be kind
    And in the morning I'll be with you
    But it will be a different kind
    And I'll be holding all the tickets
    And you'll be owning all the fines
    Come on skinny love, what happened here?
    Suckle on the hope in light brassieres
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Sullen load is full, so slow on the split
    And I told you to be patient
    And I told you to be fine
    And I told you to be balanced
    And I told you to be kind
    And now all your love is wasted
    And then who the hell was I?
    And I'm breaking at the britches
    And at the end of all your lines
    Who will love you?
    Who will fight?
    Who will fall far behind?

  • @annalambert7577
    @annalambert7577 5 лет назад +481

    It’s weird that this version (the OG) & Birdy’s cover have two very different meanings to me, even though they’re the same song.

    • @baileycurtis2998
      @baileycurtis2998 5 лет назад +5

      Anna Lambert What are the meanings to you?

    • @angelamitchinson8439
      @angelamitchinson8439 5 лет назад +33

      This one kicks birdy's out of the park. The end.

    • @mr.e.2639
      @mr.e.2639 5 лет назад +1

      @@angelamitchinson8439 Hahahaha, no.

    • @woohooo7634
      @woohooo7634 5 лет назад +17

      @@mr.e.2639 Hahahaha, yes.
      This is the original. It will always be better. The emotions are more raw.

    • @youraveragegayemo4242
      @youraveragegayemo4242 5 лет назад +40

      @@woohooo7634 Bon Iver's cover may be more "raw" but Birdy's is just as good. They are very different tones. This one is angry, hurt, demanding why. Birdy's is bottled emotions and years of pain in one song.

  • @mamemimoma
    @mamemimoma 10 лет назад +241

    I'm pretty sure the people who prefer a certain cover to the original do because they heard the cover first. I can't believe someone would hear this version first and then prefer a cover.. He sings it so.. so REAL, no one can sing it like that, with the right emotion and all..

    • @kenhau1444
      @kenhau1444 10 лет назад +2

      Couldn't agree more..!

    • @timhagan9374
      @timhagan9374 10 лет назад +4

      I heard Birdy's first, liked it, realised it was a cover, tracked down the original, and fell in love with the guitar :)

    • @danielcook4176
      @danielcook4176 10 лет назад +13

      I heard the cover by Birdy first but this version is definitely my favorite. It's been stuck in my head for about 2 weeks.

    • @icedteacatfish
      @icedteacatfish 10 лет назад +9

      I honestly had never heard the Birdy cover, I still prefer this one by far.

    • @monstatron
      @monstatron 10 лет назад +3

      The cover of this song by Birdy sucks, her voice seems to crackle too much. I like this one better.

  • @sidDkid87
    @sidDkid87 9 лет назад +631

    "Cut out all the ropes and let me fall"

  • @abbieschmidt5790
    @abbieschmidt5790 8 лет назад +338

    Come on skinny love just last the year
    Pour a little salt we were never here
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Staring at the sink of blood and crushed veneer
    I tell my love to wreck it all
    Cut out all the ropes and let me fall
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Right in the moment this order's tall
    I told you to be patient
    I told you to be fine
    I told you to be balanced
    I told you to be kind
    In the morning I'll be with you
    But it will be a different "kind"
    I'll be holding all the tickets
    And you'll be owning all the fines
    Come on skinny love what happened here
    Suckle on the hope in light brassiere
    My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my
    Sullen load is full; so slow on the split
    I told you to be patient
    I told you to be fine
    I told you to be balanced
    I told you to be kind
    Now all your love is wasted?
    Then who the hell was I?
    Now I'm breaking at the britches
    And at the end of all your lines
    Who will love you?
    Who will fight?
    Who will fall far behind?
    Ooh, ooh

  • @hgrey94
    @hgrey94 9 лет назад +1330

    i always sing this song to my stomach after Christmas day

  • @notandrea725
    @notandrea725 10 лет назад +59

    Why do we keep fighting over who sang the song better? All three individuals are amazing artists and did amazing covers/recordings on this song (Bon Iver, Ed Sheeran, & Birdy ) ! Can't you all just accept that and get over it? My goodness.

  • @cottoncandy113
    @cottoncandy113 5 лет назад +225

    Don't date emotionally unavailable people, you'll find yourself at Bon Iver a lot 😭

    • @SaimAsifThe_Weeb_Artist_420
      @SaimAsifThe_Weeb_Artist_420 4 года назад +5

      i think i did just that and now feel so much of this song. I feel like ive lost a part of me after this

    • @pradabears
      @pradabears 3 года назад +11

      seems like everyone is emotionally unavailable nowadays

    • @nabe___99
      @nabe___99 3 года назад +2

      Yep, that's exactly why I'm here 😔

    • @kellywallace4054
      @kellywallace4054 3 года назад +1

      needed to hear this......

    • @nazrat_khan
      @nazrat_khan 2 года назад +1

      @@kellywallace4054 You got This 💪🏻

  • @damon6801
    @damon6801 4 года назад +282

    We listened to this together, not knowing we were experiencing some of our final moments. They don’t miss you and that’s okay, nights like these don’t last forever.

    • @azaka3720
      @azaka3720 4 года назад +5

      Ur comment hit home

    • @danterosales9392
      @danterosales9392 4 года назад +6

      bro im bout '' this close to punching the shit out of my steering wheel why you gotta do this to me

    • @danterosales9392
      @danterosales9392 4 года назад +2

      Joseph McAuley dam bruh guess u never just sat outside your house in your car turned off listening to music huh

    • @maloriemercure1688
      @maloriemercure1688 2 года назад

      @@danterosales9392 I just did that ... and put it on repeat 5 time....

    • @RyanFMaher
      @RyanFMaher Год назад

      This comment. Still don't know what went wrong. Sometimes it feels like it will last forever

  • @Rezhartified
    @Rezhartified 10 лет назад +45

    This song like.... I don't know how to explain how it makes me feel...... It's just... Amazing.

  • @oswaldogarcia4144
    @oswaldogarcia4144 7 лет назад +374

    Birdys cover is reminiscing at the point where youre slightly over what happened. This is like it just happened. Angry, accusatory, emotion driven, all with no regard to how it comes out. A happy accident

    • @christainmaitland2813
      @christainmaitland2813 5 лет назад +2

      Like dudddeeeee

    • @neo7198
      @neo7198 5 лет назад +3

      That is the most accurate way of describing it damn

    • @elijahalonso5612
      @elijahalonso5612 5 лет назад +1

      Oswaldo Garcia bro don’t make me cry dude 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @chloerosekral4261
      @chloerosekral4261 5 лет назад +3

      I’ve always disliked her version and now I know why

    • @ryantothmisc
      @ryantothmisc 5 лет назад +1

      Is that a bob ross quote

  • @helenagutierrez284
    @helenagutierrez284 3 года назад +77

    I think despite being the same song, birdy's version and bon iver's version sound like 2 completely different mindsets. Birdy's version sounds like young pain, how sadness can disturb a pure soul and break their heart and innocence. But it sounds like a very emotional part of sadness. Bon's version is all the opposite. Sounds like old grief, How time broke a soul. It sounds like a heart used to the feeling of emptiness, numbness, yet so raw. Birdy's is the young innocent girl being slowly broken by her pain, and Bon's is the old man who already felt all he's ever gonna feel. Two faces of the same coin

    • @Charsept
      @Charsept 2 года назад +6

      "old man who already felt all he's ever gonna feel"
      Fuck me. That hurt to read.

    • @Huelogy
      @Huelogy 2 года назад

      I'm only 25, I don't want this to be it. Then again I'm already 25, over a quarter of the way done.

    • @tameladavis8337
      @tameladavis8337 Год назад

      You hit the nail on the head. 🙏

  • @karrahcleveland7598
    @karrahcleveland7598 5 лет назад +488

    My sister committed suicide on the 20th. I have listened to this song many, many times but never have I heard it like this. I’ll keep your memory alive as long as I live. RIP Rhianna.

    • @akailah6619
      @akailah6619 5 лет назад +9

      Karrah Cleveland I’m so sorry for you💛💛 wishing you and your family all the best 💙

    • @tonibeth5741
      @tonibeth5741 5 лет назад +5

      Hugs sweetie

    • @jadenthompson3278
      @jadenthompson3278 5 лет назад +5

      Hope you're doing ok. I can't say that I know what you're going through, but I do know that there's a God that cares about you. Things will get better. Keep looking for the positives and love whenever you can.

    • @jerryparrack4123
      @jerryparrack4123 5 лет назад +4

      I know what you mean. I was 16 and my mom died right infront of me, and ever since music sounds and feels more different. Like nostalgic, euphoric, depressed, humbled all at the same time

    • @justinlavoie4224
      @justinlavoie4224 5 лет назад +3

      May peace be with you and your thoughts.

  • @sofiaeli1063
    @sofiaeli1063 10 лет назад +248

    You don't necessarily need to compare the two versions. They are both a completely different type of music. One doesn't have to be better than the other.

    • @JohnSpawn1
      @JohnSpawn1 10 лет назад +56

      How can you call the original a version? Annoys me every time anyone does that. If someone writes a song it's THEIR song, not a version.

    • @StoufSto
      @StoufSto 10 лет назад +14

      Tom Waits Easy:
      Version:
      1.
      a particular form of something differing in certain respects from an earlier form or other forms of the same type of thing.
      See that part about "other forms", meaning not only earlier forms. Version 1 of something is still a version. Stop acting like the first one always needs to get more recognition. All Along the Watchtower, for example, is a song mostly associated with Jimi Hendrix, and rightly so. He made it popular, and Bob Dylan himself considered Jimi's version to be the definitive one.
      Both VERSIONS of the song are great, no need to be so pedantic.

    • @JohnSpawn1
      @JohnSpawn1 10 лет назад +18

      StoufSto Incredible argument (not really) pointing out one of the VERY few covers that's actually outdone the original. What's next? Johnny Cash's cover of Hurt? That's better than the original as well, isn't it?
      The original is the original, it's NOT a version. A version is usually referred to something that's an alternative or new interpretation of something, neither of which is the case with this song (it's the original and Bon Iver didn't record any other versions than this).
      I'm not pedantic, it's just annoying if you have comments like *oh, Miley Cyrus' version of this is much better. This sucks."
      There's nothing wrong with calling a cover better than the original, but you should always show some respect to the person who wrote it and unfortuantely a lot of üeople on here don't really do that. If they think this sucks or is much inferior, why don't they fuck off and listen to Birdy?

    • @MSTRKRFTz
      @MSTRKRFTz 10 лет назад +3

      Tom Waits haha jesus, whatever man.. getting so emotional and butthurt over something like this is stupid.

    • @lukegedeon3559
      @lukegedeon3559 10 лет назад +5

      Tom Waits i like this over the original version

  • @redactedredacted6656
    @redactedredacted6656 10 лет назад +21

    I love how raw this sounds. Beautiful.

  • @andalencarrin1031
    @andalencarrin1031 7 лет назад +637

    Played this at my dog's funeral.
    R.I.P Hank. There's no doggo out there better than you

    • @juanfernandosimental7510
      @juanfernandosimental7510 5 лет назад +1

      Love it

    • @jaeblack4752
      @jaeblack4752 5 лет назад +9

      @KADEN WARREN dog funerals don't have caskets, owners just bury their dog for closure

    • @Swagmittens
      @Swagmittens 5 лет назад +7

      @KADEN WARREN it's not an official ceremony, it's a burial of the pet.

    • @keshneealixe
      @keshneealixe 5 лет назад +3

      @KADEN WARREN 😂😂

    • @katetebo7422
      @katetebo7422 5 лет назад +1

      @KADEN WARREN 😂😂😂😂😂 omg u just made me choke am sorry if this comment is disrespectful 🙏

  • @tobiehimself937
    @tobiehimself937 3 года назад +19

    This. In my opinion. Is one of the most hauntingly beautiful songs ever written...

  • @jazminwilson80
    @jazminwilson80 8 лет назад +556

    This is the last song my mom heard before she died. I'm happy it was a song as beautiful as her 💜

    • @velvetluna5503
      @velvetluna5503 7 лет назад +24

      Awww I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm really happy that she heard a song as beautiful, loved by many just like her, before she passed away. She must have been wonderful woman.

    • @SJRD18
      @SJRD18 6 лет назад +7

      That's a beautiful thing to say. Sending you love and comfort.

    • @vanesagamez5742
      @vanesagamez5742 6 лет назад +2

      i am sorry for your lost

    • @bigoof2739
      @bigoof2739 6 лет назад +11

      hey bud, I know its been a year but I hope your doing alright, I know losing loved ones is the hardest thing, especially when its a parent. that sucks and im sorry it happened, but I hope its all okay now, and you dont mourn, but remember. ((: stay strong

    • @mrs.bartlett6047
      @mrs.bartlett6047 6 лет назад +3

      You were blessed to have shared your life with such a beautiful person

  • @MTsteelMT
    @MTsteelMT 8 лет назад +1396

    This song is beautiful no matter who sings it

  • @2alive2die
    @2alive2die 9 лет назад +126

    Isn't it actually quite simple? Birdy is a singer, while Bon Iver are the real artists. Birdy has a nice clear voice and the version they made for her can be heard even while you are driving the car and listen to it on the radio. The original by Bon Iver is something that you listen to, when there is silence around you and no distracting noise. Something that you can listen to all over again after years and after you listened to it many times. Songs that have been only sung will get boring at some point and you won't listen to them after you once got sick of them. They lack the speciality which Bon Iver puts in many of their songs. Their Take Away Shows are also extremely special and I can't help and watching "Skinny Love" and "For Emma" (my fav) from the Take Away Show over and over again.

    • @thefirebrand0
      @thefirebrand0 9 лет назад +27

      +Verarscht Michnicht yeah Birdy was 14 when she covered it.Its a bit shallow to say she's not an artist. she has a nice clear voice,that is easy to hear....that makes her more accessible, not less of an artist.Just accept try to actually listen to Birdy's version, without the intention of comaparing it to Bon Iver, you might actually see why the song when 6x platinum in Australia. I personally haven't gotten tired of listening to this or Birdy;s version.....Music is art, not competition don't knock birdy down just because she covered a song by an artist you like....its not a competition.

  • @limbo2587
    @limbo2587 4 года назад +719

    Don't mind me, just having my monthly mental breakdown.

  • @jonathanyerkes2429
    @jonathanyerkes2429 11 лет назад +11

    You have to admire the talent of Bon Iver, not to mention his voice is like an angel sliding down a rainbow, so clean. My favorite song by him. Every once in a while a song comes around that everyone can listen to and appreciate the talent... this is one of those songs.

    • @MeganNguyenMegaface
      @MeganNguyenMegaface 11 лет назад +1

      I totally agree. The lyrics, the melody, the mood... very talented man indeed.

  • @greerandersson5447
    @greerandersson5447 9 лет назад +156

    I sorta don't like how this wasn't recognised as highly as Birdy's version was

  • @soph7957
    @soph7957 8 лет назад +65

    the part at 1:04 always gives me chills. EVERY TIME

    • @soph7957
      @soph7957 8 лет назад

      Laisha Nieblas the music is just too good

    • @MinaxSkate
      @MinaxSkate 8 лет назад +14

      your chills gave me chills..

  • @snippy9469
    @snippy9469 4 года назад +431

    I wish I had friends that would get drunk with me and listen to this at 5 AM. Or friends that would stay up till 5 AM and get into their feels with me. Or friends. I just want something that I won't get it seems. I always have this picture in my head of what a teenager is like - for me I want it to be car rides in the woods with a group of friends talking and getting sad and laughing and just saying "Fuck you" to the world. I hate how it actually is and I hate the media for deceiving me.

    • @mateocandelaria9870
      @mateocandelaria9870 4 года назад +23

      i have the same feelings. But life gets better, and easier, and if by chance you get to do those things, its that much sweeter.

    • @mikig139
      @mikig139 4 года назад +27

      Wow. I legit thought i was the only one who felt this way lol. You’re not alone bud.

    • @alyzon18
      @alyzon18 4 года назад +18

      Can we be friends? Damn i felt everything u just said

    • @snippy9469
      @snippy9469 4 года назад +9

      alyyilagan Yeah. If you want my Instagram is @_cabbage_patch_kid_

    • @brysonguzman7221
      @brysonguzman7221 4 года назад +4

      Let's go me and you can take that trip🤟

  • @beckhaig8758
    @beckhaig8758 8 лет назад +1285

    I'm one of the few people who heard the birdy version first but ended up liking the original better.

  • @apurvgoel7809
    @apurvgoel7809 4 года назад +52

    "I tell my love to wreck it all, cut out all the ropes and let me fall."
    Boy and fall I did.

  • @sammantell7546
    @sammantell7546 4 года назад +32

    my dad loves indie and this amazing style of music, of course I wouldn’t remember but when I was three (or something like that) my dad took me to my first concert, it was bon iver. Apparently whenever I was with him in the car I would always sing “my my my”, it was my favorite part. So when we were at the concert I fell asleep because I was three lol, and when my dad was going to walk out of the theater because I was sleeping, skinny love started playing and I sang “my my my”. Everytime I’m with my dad he always tells me that story. Love you dad!

  • @jayadam3423
    @jayadam3423 5 лет назад +56

    This is my "fall to winter" song. It awakens emotions from many other lives.

  • @annereddin111
    @annereddin111 8 лет назад +113

    One of the best songs of the last 10 years. My top three are:
    Bon Iver - Skinny Love
    Hozier - Take me to church
    Noah Clouds - Sunlight

    • @downatthepool5280
      @downatthepool5280 8 лет назад

      +Anne Redding I agree

    • @yobrohoe1761
      @yobrohoe1761 8 лет назад

      +Anne Redding YES

    • @lukewoodard9368
      @lukewoodard9368 8 лет назад +6

      you should hear alone with you by hozier if you havent yet. its awesome

    • @esther.jrojas7015
      @esther.jrojas7015 8 лет назад

      +Anne Redding adele, someone like you?

    • @jimslicer3034
      @jimslicer3034 8 лет назад +2

      One that just got added to my list. Late in the night-from Indian lakes

  • @dmra1929
    @dmra1929 8 лет назад +1206

    Love is a loaded gun. Her and I used to listen to this together. I don't think either of us understood what it was about this song that we loved so much, seeing as its about a flimsy relationship. Coming back to it, it's just me this time. Now I understand.

    • @RyuSamurai
      @RyuSamurai 8 лет назад +123

      That was deep. Comments like these, where strangers open up and share their stories to others, are the only reason I read them. It makes me feel better knowing that someone out there is experiencing similar moments to mines.

    • @igotmoswagdenu
      @igotmoswagdenu 8 лет назад +21

      +Dimerra ouch that hit me really hard for some reason.

    • @aggie_
      @aggie_ 8 лет назад +8

      i was here for just that reason

    • @kimbowers1388
      @kimbowers1388 8 лет назад +29

      There is both frustration and immense sadness in this version. I think his "love" has some sort of depression/mental illness and I think that is what the "skinny love" alludes to. He says
      "And I told you to be patient,
      And I told you to be fine,
      And I told you to be balanced,
      And I told you to be kind,
      And now all your love is wasted,
      Then who the hell was I? "
      I think the person in the song, has really tried to give 'life' to this 'skinny' love but it all 'wasted' and the person (the speaker of the song) wonders what his purpose in all of it was ; a self defeating picture. He has tried everything but he can't go on like this anymore. Its very sad and if anyone has had a relationship with someone that has had a mental illness/depression , it really hits home... This is what I get what this song?
      Anyone else?

    • @abhedvijayakumar9171
      @abhedvijayakumar9171 8 лет назад +5

      that was really touching.

  • @diamondshynee
    @diamondshynee 3 года назад +74

    this song is one of comfort songs. I wish people would under stand how I feel and realize how much pain I’m in

  • @KittycatKye
    @KittycatKye 3 года назад +13

    No matter how many times I listen to this song, I will always feel the
    urge to silently bawl my eyes out...this song is pure poetry.

  • @J3nniFairy
    @J3nniFairy 5 лет назад +125

    Whoever is here you have a good taste in music and i want to be your friend :)

    • @subashxx6046
      @subashxx6046 4 года назад +1

      Have a good day if you see this

    • @benjaminsmith8058
      @benjaminsmith8058 4 года назад +1

      Ed Sheeran covered this song ....

    • @TimmyTickle
      @TimmyTickle 3 года назад

      @@benjaminsmith8058 And made it shit

  • @highplainsdrifter6577
    @highplainsdrifter6577 4 года назад +82

    Yup... been years since I’ve heard this.... still hits like a ton of bricks.

  • @renberisha6093
    @renberisha6093 7 лет назад +66

    Hate to drag this on, but there's a intimacy that comes with writing your own music. You feel connected to it, and the pain is yours since it literally is what you made.
    Covering this song is all pretty for Birdy, and she has a beautiful voice, but when you listen to this you crumble. You hear what it's really like to pour your heart out into a song, and what pain really sounds like. Birdy can make this song nice all she wants, but she cannot express the emotions that Bon Iver portrays so excellently. She makes it beautiful because of her voice and aesthetic, he makes it beautiful because of the emotion. And in the end, emotion always wins. Birdy cannot portray his emotions, only he can.
    This version is and always will be better than the cover.

    • @edenrayne8400
      @edenrayne8400 5 лет назад +12

      The only issue I have with this comment is the assumption that emotion is not subjective within music. Birdy has feelings, her voice an aesthetic make it, but the emotion she personally draws from this song is what she puts out. Music is interpretive. The original song has an emotional meaning behind it but her cover has one of its own. She can draw emotion from a song and express it in her voice or in general, maybe to her own interpretation. She didn't write the song, the original feelings are not hers and nothing can compare to the raw emotion of a song you've written yourself, but that doesn't necessarily mean there's no emotional meaning behind her cover.

    • @freckledtrout3299
      @freckledtrout3299 5 лет назад

      I think it's more like a Rorschach Test in that you read into it based on your own experiences. To some this im sure is going to be more relatable but to the younger generation I highly suspect many will relate more with the emation from Birdy.

  • @thomasbaron5367
    @thomasbaron5367 3 года назад +2

    Natalie
    I remember hearing this song with you
    That seems so long ago
    I still miss you every day
    God rest your beautiful soul
    You will always have my heart

  • @catherinewhitaker3425
    @catherinewhitaker3425 8 лет назад +1704

    The covers are great, but nothing will beat the original

    • @essentia7060
      @essentia7060 8 лет назад +10

      listen to birdy's. its so..much more sad. Not upbeat.

    • @catherinewhitaker3425
      @catherinewhitaker3425 8 лет назад +101

      · ghøst · I was referring to Birdy's, mostly, when I said covers. Just cuz the music is more mellow, doesn't mean the song is more sad. The lyrics and emotion in the lyrics are what makes a sad song.

    • @beckhaig8758
      @beckhaig8758 8 лет назад +15

      Preach

    • @gulfwang718
      @gulfwang718 8 лет назад +58

      Ikr. And a lot of people are saying Birdy made this song. The original is much better to me, as it's fueled by passion of bon iver's own lyrics. Plus his other songs are just as good or even better than this one!

    • @peppermd9572
      @peppermd9572 8 лет назад +16

      Yeah, I listen to Birdy's when I want to hear the beauty of it, and Bon Iver's when I want to hear the sadness

  • @winterfrost99
    @winterfrost99 10 лет назад +46

    Chuck was the best show ever...

    • @ugobabyy
      @ugobabyy 10 лет назад +7

      Lol it really was!! Also always had great music

    • @animal123456754321
      @animal123456754321 10 лет назад +11

      Thank you! Chuck is a massively underrated show!

    • @winterfrost99
      @winterfrost99 10 лет назад

      I know right?!?

    • @winterfrost99
      @winterfrost99 10 лет назад

      ***** I heard that they were thinking of making a movie out of it but it's not set in stone.

    • @okhoward1942
      @okhoward1942 10 лет назад

      Well, yeah, until the fourth season. Then it completely fell apart. It's really depressing when that happens to shows, but that's life, I guess. Sad face.

  • @JShortsFR
    @JShortsFR 7 лет назад +43

    Congrats. This is the first non-gospel song that made me cry.
    Thanks.

  • @toikacrain5146
    @toikacrain5146 4 года назад +32

    My dad died three years ago and loved this song I'm sitting on my bed crying right now

  • @saraify4534
    @saraify4534 8 лет назад +523

    honestly i think this is the best version.

  • @ronwinke4366
    @ronwinke4366 6 лет назад +62

    I lost my love, and this was her favorite song.
    RON,WB8NMK in N W OHIO 3/13/2018

    • @grahamarms8247
      @grahamarms8247 4 года назад +2

      Hope you’re doing alright, Ron

    • @SadCarBitch
      @SadCarBitch 4 года назад +1

      I hope you are going well

    • @MrGrateful1000
      @MrGrateful1000 4 года назад

      Hey man hope all's well with u:-)

    • @laila0000
      @laila0000 3 года назад

      I hope you're fine, man

  • @delipiedinosaur
    @delipiedinosaur 10 лет назад +215

    It saddens me that Birdy's cover has 45 million more views than this.

    • @HannahEstherRuth
      @HannahEstherRuth 10 лет назад +3

      why?

    • @delipiedinosaur
      @delipiedinosaur 10 лет назад +32

      Because I personally find this original version a lot better

    • @PemaChodzin
      @PemaChodzin 10 лет назад +8

      Adele Iddison I wonder if that's because you heard this one first and developed a strong sense of how it's "supposed to be" and then heard Birdy's very different take on it. The opposite is what happened for me and maybe it's why I prefer Birdy's version. And maybe it's also because I don't think Justin Vernon sings all that well. In any case, I greatly prefer Birdy's covers of "young blood" and "1901" over this one. You can't tell me her voice doesn't sound amazing in those.

    • @delipiedinosaur
      @delipiedinosaur 10 лет назад +8

      Her voice is too clean and too perfect for me.Brian Pittman

    • @delipiedinosaur
      @delipiedinosaur 10 лет назад +16

      Brian Pittman And it's more than about the voice. It's about the set up, the feel, the instruments. Birdy's is very cliche and more 'pop' sounding. Just not for me.

  • @orin1796
    @orin1796 3 года назад +18

    I love how hollow this song is. It makes me feel like I'm on the bus in the morning, and It's completely quiet. No talking, just silence. Then once you get off the bus, the whole day is freezing cold. And it feels like everything is in 0.75 speed. I miss it. I miss it a lot. The cold touch of my hands on my face, the way my toes would be icy in my two year old shoes, the way my nose would turn bright red. It was so nice. I wish I would have cherished it more.

  • @StardustVibes
    @StardustVibes 7 лет назад +1708

    Who's still listening in 2017? I love this song so much! :-)

  • @jae4ze
    @jae4ze 5 лет назад +16

    This song makes me think of all the love lost, and times spent worrying over someone who isn't there.

  • @shaktivalori1122
    @shaktivalori1122 5 лет назад +17

    For the most of my high school and college years, I thought Birdy’s cover was the original but now I’m nearly graduating from college and now’s my first time listening to this. Man this one made me subscribe to Bon Iver’s channel. So underated!

  • @ireneedmonds4712
    @ireneedmonds4712 5 лет назад +9

    I remember being 14 or 15 blasting this into my ears. Spring break, i was tuned into Bon Iver instead of my family on vacation. But this song made my spring that year. This along w others. Makes me feel young again. I miss me

  • @scottiiiii
    @scottiiiii 8 лет назад +32

    I don't care who's version you liked better but you can't deny the sheer PAIN and AGONY Bon brings to the table. Birdy's was like the mainstream version, which is not bad at all, she did a nice job.

    • @BoBSWAGtastic
      @BoBSWAGtastic 8 лет назад +2

      +Mandie_Kat yea. i like both of them. bon gives that pain, of hurt and birdy shows emotion of sadness. because she didn't feel the pain bon did. thats why he has a lot of force with some of the words. it's a fantastic song. both singers are amazing. idk why people even care :D

  • @annemariesalen4000
    @annemariesalen4000 5 лет назад +26

    I don't know if I'll ever forget this. only 4 years ago I found this song. many heartbreaks, many losses, many dreams made, many dreams given up on. this song however, has been with me through it all. through happy times and through sad times. thank you bon iver, this song has truly changed my perspective.

  • @fulminare1786
    @fulminare1786 2 года назад +7

    I’ve been listening to Bon Iver for years, and it always hits the same. I wish more artists fell under this genre.

  • @graceevangeline7721
    @graceevangeline7721 2 года назад +8

    Music is so expressive.
    In some ways singers are the only people that express exactly how they feel without judgment and we can listen to it when we can't say what we want to out loud.
    It's the one thing in life that has always been and will always be.

  • @Devdemo11
    @Devdemo11 6 лет назад +39

    Had a relationship with a girl that ended back in April that I had met in one of my college classes last fall. She introduced me to this song one night in bed and I haven't been back to it until now 6 months later. Even though I still feel so much pain, I can't help but smile when I listen to this song and think about the times we had. I hope we cross paths again but if not, I'm thankful to have had such an authentic experience with her.
    Edit: Keep going boys! When life kicks you kick back! Living better than I ever have

  • @tonyheacock9345
    @tonyheacock9345 7 лет назад +2129

    I'm actually mad that the cover by birdy got more popular than this original

    • @billtrenary
      @billtrenary 6 лет назад +37

      Did it? I didn't even notice.

    • @_b_e_a_n_s_
      @_b_e_a_n_s_ 6 лет назад +50

      The cover is actually pretty good

    • @madamesoap
      @madamesoap 6 лет назад +5

      @@billtrenary everyone likes it better

    • @chintyamaria8660
      @chintyamaria8660 6 лет назад

      Yeah..

    • @nicolebutler9077
      @nicolebutler9077 6 лет назад +73

      Nothing agains Birdy, but I really think the original is far better.

  • @Monocultured01
    @Monocultured01 9 лет назад +58

    This version seems more complex. There's frustration and anger mixed with a little disappointment. Birdy's is just sadness. I feel like this one is deeper. You can definitely tell that it's the original just from the way he adds the depth to the lyrics. He knows the meaning behind all of them and why they're there. A cover can't get that. (Not that a cover can't be better than the original, but I think in this case the original is better.)

  • @aloraglenn3378
    @aloraglenn3378 3 года назад +11

    I was only 4 years old when this song came out, yet I remember dancing and singing along with my dad. We would dance in the driveway, using the stereo to play it. God life was so much easier back then.

  • @RafaelPereira-jj1mw
    @RafaelPereira-jj1mw 3 года назад +4

    Totally reminds me of Chuck, I'm watching it for the 4th or 5th time (especially to improve my english). Chuck's been one of my favourite shows since 2009 (along with HIMYM, and some others). I remember watching it in 2009 on brazilian tv, I was only 12. Now, having become a man, with several concerns, with so many questions and doubts, Chuck reminds me of a great time of my life. I wish I could go back to 2009, to my childhood, before the need to work, to worry about "greater" things such as success, money and career. As for the song, it's amazing, pretty beautiful and emotional.

    • @RafaelPereira-jj1mw
      @RafaelPereira-jj1mw 3 года назад

      @@joellereneefoshee2426 far from it my friend, but I've been working on it really hard.

  • @respectthedripkaren098
    @respectthedripkaren098 5 лет назад +52

    It’s sad. When no one understands you. They keep hurting you and having no idea what the effect will be. It’s like you need a hug but everyone who wants to hug you is behind glass and you can’t feel any of it anymore...

  • @ashleighgozy5077
    @ashleighgozy5077 8 лет назад +766

    This is the best version idc what anyone says

  • @creepymiddleagedman
    @creepymiddleagedman 5 лет назад +328

    The way his voice broke made this song all the more depressing.

    • @lwrdsmoke-beard2590
      @lwrdsmoke-beard2590 5 лет назад

      What part was this?

    • @creepymiddleagedman
      @creepymiddleagedman 5 лет назад +8

      @@lwrdsmoke-beard2590 There were multiple times at the end.

    • @lwrdsmoke-beard2590
      @lwrdsmoke-beard2590 5 лет назад +2

      @@creepymiddleagedman I got you bro, this shit has me heart broken afff. ruclips.net/video/sLOr_FrJJWA/видео.html

  • @SpingotGoomer
    @SpingotGoomer 3 года назад +17

    I heard the cover first, but when I heard it was originally by Bon Iver I had to check it out, as I live in the city he’s from, but I’ve never really listened to his music. Wow. Just wow. This just sounds so... _raw._ You can feel the pure emotion dripping from the chorus of the song. As another comment out it, it’s like distilled depression. Absolutely incredible.

  • @domcagney2352
    @domcagney2352 3 года назад +12

    I will always come back to this song. So artistic, so poetically abstract, so ahead of its time, so profound... It’s not easy to venture that far artistically while still being palatable and relatable. Absolutely brilliant song writing

  • @carissacarter5027
    @carissacarter5027 5 лет назад +115

    Heard this version as I was leaving a restaurant tonight. Definitely not my first time hearing it but actually hearing Bon Iver in public is a totally different experience than the cover.

    • @poonscat9346
      @poonscat9346 4 года назад +1

      Than the cover? This is the original...

    • @dusty4502
      @dusty4502 4 года назад +1

      @@poonscat9346 yeah.......That's what she's saying. Do you know what "than" means?

    • @poonscat9346
      @poonscat9346 4 года назад +3

      Dusty 450 not really dawg...

  • @danielhruska3968
    @danielhruska3968 2 года назад +15

    This is the type of song that has me smiling through my tears

  • @fetidcreeper
    @fetidcreeper 3 года назад +100

    "In the morning I'll be with you, just in a different kind"
    This line always stuck me. It to me is when you leave someone, or are left, and it's a heartbroken night spent alone for the first time in a while, and in the morning the person is not physically there anymore. But instead they are there, residing in your memory: where they will remain. I've suffered through this a few times. The worst one was when I lost the person who I felt more connected to than anyone else in my life. I spent a long time in deep sorrow and depression until I spent time learning myself, and becoming happy with myself. Only then was I able to have her back into my life. We're celebrating our 2 year wedding anniversary next month.

    • @oliviacompas
      @oliviacompas 3 года назад +4

      you just gave me a little sliver of hope there

    • @Glosoli4
      @Glosoli4 2 года назад +4

      This gave me hope. I too met that person I really really connected with but with my deep unresolved shit. I scared him away. It’s been an awful 8 months of feeling great and moved on to still thinking of him everyday wondering what if. I hope one day he sees how much I have gotten better and will one day give me another chance.

    • @fetidcreeper
      @fetidcreeper 2 года назад

      @@Glosoli4 ask him out for a coffee, no strings attached, just to catch up. Who knows.

    • @Glosoli4
      @Glosoli4 2 года назад

      @@fetidcreeper unfortunately I can’t. He has me blocked on everything. I have sent an email but he’s never responded. Jus wasn’t meant to be. 😞

    • @vaidprateek
      @vaidprateek 2 года назад +1

      So glad to read this!
      I have been trying but almost giving up now! It is just sad what a misunderstanding can do!

  • @matthewedwards709
    @matthewedwards709 8 лет назад +28

    I remember this album as an influential healer. I was dating a girl at the time that I met as a junior in high school. She worked at subway and I had never been to that particular subway. She would always say hi to me in the hallways for no apparent reason because we didn't know each other whatsoever. One day, for some reason, I decided I wanted subway... I entered that place not knowing what exactly was in store for me. Let's just say I came back several times while she was on break to chat with her. She had just turned 18 and her parents were abusive so she moved out that day and somehow she convinced me to take her house key and get her things together for her while her parents were gone and while she was working. Keep in mind we have not known each other but a week or two. We spent the next months to come making memories together and doing the craziest things. I am 17 at this time soon to be 18. I was madly in love with her and felt a way I have never felt. I have dated a girl for 3 years and never felt this way. I thought it would never end. She was living with a co-worker and personal friend and managing a job and school which put stress on our relationship as you could imagine. Things started to get hard. I looked her in her eyes frequently and promised I would keep us together no matter the hardships ahead. I started discovering suspicious behavior from her to the point where I had a gut feeling that she was messing around with other guys.... I talked with my dad about it and he told me this, "If your gut tells you that, it's most likely true". Come to find out, she had been going to dinner with various guys. I was completely heartbroken because I gave her my everything so that she would not give up because I truly felt something. I let that incident go, though. I told her I forgive her and that i still have the same feelings for her. She assured me she wouldn't mess around anymore. A couple weeks after that I discovered text messages that proved she was staying the night with a guy. I was surely done at this point, right? Wrong, I was a fool if I've ever seen one. I didn't tell her what i knew, though. Instead i told her 2 of my friends wanted to join us for breakfast the next morning and she didn't suspect anything. I had the messages sent to my phone. I handed my friends my phone in the car, they were in the back seat. They started reading her messages that were to the guy. She was so pissed off and started to cry as if she was a victim... The plan was to make her get out of my car and walk to school because of her dishonesty. But I could not do it and gave in and instead dropped my friends off and rode around town missing school and falling back in love with her. We ended up at a walking track where she told me she had to fly back to her mothers house.... We were both in tears at this point and my dad was already furious about me missing school because i had missed lots of days because of her. I told her I'd drive her to the airport but she refused to allow that. I said my goodbyes to another lost friend. I was broken into a million pieces and this album pieced me back together, slowly. I am still recovering to this day but no matter what happens I know I have Bon Iver readily available for bandaging.

    • @shadmanahmed9774
      @shadmanahmed9774 5 лет назад

      @@samtw1979 amen

    • @mitraaruna
      @mitraaruna 5 лет назад

      I'm sorry, but you will find someone better. Like you deserve

  • @charlottemunnoch5214
    @charlottemunnoch5214 5 лет назад +14

    When I was 6, my mum and brother's were in the car going somewhere when my mum got the call that her boyfriend, who was the only father figure my brothers and I had ever had, passed away. This song was playing in the car at the time and it also happened to be his favorite song. No matter how many years have passed or how many times I listen to this song I always get this empty feeling in my chest. I don't think I will ever be able to forget that day no matter how much time passes. RIP Matty

  • @maisymidgley3626
    @maisymidgley3626 9 лет назад +6

    Bloody hell there's so much music snobbery in this comments section it's unreal. "Oh you like those sounds in your ears? They're the wrong sounds. You should like these sounds" is basically what's happening, and people are being ripped up for preferring Birdy's version by people who prefer Bon Iver's. I know it's an original versus a cover but Jesus Christ it's not your place to decide what someone else likes! Besides they're both good versions and both good artists in general. Even if they weren't- it's not your bleeding problem!

  • @CooterOnDaMind
    @CooterOnDaMind 5 лет назад +11

    When you hear the absolute original, its then you feel the power of the artist who wrote the masterpiece . And only there your heart hangs heavy!. Beautiful piece!

  • @kiyoung
    @kiyoung 8 лет назад +40

    The original will always be the best.

  • @grimofglteam1248
    @grimofglteam1248 5 лет назад +136

    Remeber being drunk with my friends in 2016 hearing this song in a dark room at 3 am in winter, life was good :)

    • @Grace-he8qn
      @Grace-he8qn 5 лет назад +2

      i hope it still good :)

    • @grimofglteam1248
      @grimofglteam1248 5 лет назад +1

      @@Grace-he8qn thank u, it's every day better than the last one. same 4 u

    • @Grace-he8qn
      @Grace-he8qn 5 лет назад

      Grimof(GL Team) thank you

    • @frescokai160
      @frescokai160 5 лет назад

      At least you have friends.

    • @erikamiranda5815
      @erikamiranda5815 5 лет назад +1

      Grimof(GL Team) That sounds like a nice memory

  • @BTSChristineBonbon
    @BTSChristineBonbon 4 года назад +42

    BEST BON IVER SONG FOREVS!! 😫💕 who's watching this in 2020 during the covid pandemic? 🙋🏻

    • @dusty4502
      @dusty4502 4 года назад

      Me, because my bf walked out just before the pandemic hit.

    • @tonyprovenza9559
      @tonyprovenza9559 4 года назад +1

      stfu plz

    • @jayy_blvdd
      @jayy_blvdd 3 года назад

      @@tonyprovenza9559 fr they making sound it like it’s an aesthetic to be sad when it actually feels like your whole world is being ripped from you

  • @altruex
    @altruex 8 лет назад +203

    Cheesy as it is, that what's makes it relatable and true. I could remember, feeling all stuck and hopeless in this lonely world. And I stumbled upon this song's lyric
    "I told you to be patient
    I told you to be fine
    I told you to be balanced
    I told you to be kind
    In the morning I'll be with you
    But it will be a different "kind"
    It made me cry, thinking about how much I've been through, only to arrive here. If you are ever going through something, please never give up, even if you have to bear the pain as long as you need to. It will always get better if you allow it to.

    • @christina3776
      @christina3776 8 лет назад +4

      +Alex Nguyen you're so right
      what u said made me cry because i feel so lonely in this ruthless world and i've got so much pain living without my son of ten

    • @altruex
      @altruex 8 лет назад +6

      I understand, there are certain things or memories that are deep within us, that when we read something that triggers or resonates with it, it causes us a reaction.
      Crying is a healthy and human thing.
      May I ask what happened? - I know it's a bit sensitive, but I feel like there's a reason why and I just wanted to consider lending a listening ear. :)
      I understand if you don't want to. It's a sensitive topic, im assuming.
      We're here to remind each other, to be strong. So don't ever feel you're going through it alone.

    • @kflexpimp
      @kflexpimp 8 лет назад +6

      +Christine ALIX "If you're going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill

    • @prochnost0383
      @prochnost0383 8 лет назад +1

      Alex, thats probably one of the smartest and most awesome comments on here. :)

    • @altruex
      @altruex 8 лет назад +1

      jason marcum LMAO aw thanks, thats so sweet :D hehe

  • @nickbratkowski9616
    @nickbratkowski9616 4 года назад +70

    Three months ago I found my best friend dead from a heroin overdose after he’d been missing for a week or so. Oh Alex, my brother. All I can think are of what ifs. What if I could rewind, what if I had done this differently, what if I had checked sooner. I finally realized the answer Ive been looking for is, what if I heal? What if I allow this to teach, guide and awaken me? Alex, I promise you to live the life I deserve. Rest well my brother; if I could do it all over, I would in a heartbeat.

    • @jimothyjames7307
      @jimothyjames7307 4 года назад +4

      Nick Bratkowski nobody deserves to lose one of the homies, I’m sorry. I wish I could do more to comfort you

    • @nickbratkowski9616
      @nickbratkowski9616 4 года назад +4

      @@jimothyjames7307 Thank you for your kind words sir.

    • @kayleighfraser7724
      @kayleighfraser7724 4 года назад +3

      I'm so sorry for your loss but you are such a strong person if you can continue to have that mindset after something so tragic. I don't know you but I'm truly proud of you.

    • @nickbratkowski9616
      @nickbratkowski9616 4 года назад +3

      Kayleigh Fraser I asked my father how he got through all of his losses, and he said; you simply just get through. Standing resolute in times of trial and tribulation is never an easy thing to do, but shows who you are as a person. The pain never grows less however your strength can grow stronger. I will always remember my friend for who he is, the young bright soul who never said one mean thing to me. I don’t know you either, but thanks for your kind words.

    • @daddy7346
      @daddy7346 4 года назад +4

      @@nickbratkowski9616 You have a good mindset. You can grieve for your friend, and heal at the same time. But don't blame yourself. What happened was not your fault. The best thing you can do to honour your friend, is to live you're life in a healthy way, that makes you happy. Live your life to the fullest, because it's just a blink of an eye, then it's over. Love openly and fully, create, dance, and play. We only have one life. Cherish it, my man!

  • @PrincessFunni
    @PrincessFunni 9 лет назад +1667

    birdys version gives you one emotion this version gives you mixed emotions

    • @moscoavita1743
      @moscoavita1743 9 лет назад +107

      +PrincessFunni this one is better. period

    • @Jadesalasproductions
      @Jadesalasproductions 9 лет назад +1

      +M o s c o digging your profile picture

    • @moscoavita1743
      @moscoavita1743 9 лет назад

      Jade Salas what do you mean

    • @Jadesalasproductions
      @Jadesalasproductions 9 лет назад +6

      +M o s c o I love Bob Marley

    • @moscoavita1743
      @moscoavita1743 9 лет назад +8

      +Jade Salas bob was a great person before a great singer.
      i love his songs and i guarantee you don't need to smoke weed or even cigarettes to listen to bob/reggae

  • @DrZilla
    @DrZilla 4 года назад +8

    I thought I knew of loss. I didn't. The emotion decimates me as if crushed by a hundred foot wave and fills me with reprieve as I breach the surface gasping for air. I love and loathe how this song makes me feel.

  • @murdererrrrrr
    @murdererrrrrr 11 лет назад +9

    I miss you, mom.

  • @afernandezaf55af
    @afernandezaf55af 8 лет назад +564

    He sounds both sad and angry

    • @deoisuacearnaigh1138
      @deoisuacearnaigh1138 8 лет назад +4

      Alex Fernandez es eso exactamente

    • @jesswall21
      @jesswall21 6 лет назад

      Alex Fernandez I agree

    • @gchnookums4951
      @gchnookums4951 6 лет назад +2

      Upset, basically.

    • @baccamafia4363
      @baccamafia4363 6 лет назад +25

      Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering, suffering leads to more fear.

    • @halodude7239
      @halodude7239 6 лет назад +2

      Bacca Mafia The dark side*

  • @tarotfiend
    @tarotfiend 4 года назад +666

    This is the exact cigarette smelling, foggy beach, indie music I was looking for.

  • @sarahl9398
    @sarahl9398 2 года назад +6

    This came out in my senior year of high school, I remember listening to it profusely into college while getting into more indie folk/alternative music. Memories.

  • @henryrobison3813
    @henryrobison3813 4 года назад +1345

    Hate the fact that when you look up “skinny love” first thing that pops up is Birdy’s cover

    • @2michaeltaylor
      @2michaeltaylor 4 года назад +67

      Henry Robison because it’s better

    • @crown470
      @crown470 4 года назад +179

      Michael Taylor, if it’s better, than why are you hear? Go listen to birdy’s version?

    • @michaelsanantonio5859
      @michaelsanantonio5859 4 года назад +82

      Easy fix. Type in “skinny love bon iver”

    • @clevername15
      @clevername15 4 года назад +38

      Michael Taylor birdy’s pales in comparison. just because she wrote it when she was 15 doesn’t make it better than the original.

    • @adriannah.8323
      @adriannah.8323 4 года назад +67

      Michael Taylor you better not ever disrespect Bon Iver like that again