Get to know your DARK SIDE (warning: knowing this will change you)
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Am Indonesian catholic who lived in Germany...always always listening your channels, Rabbi...so powerful & insightfull...dankeschön!
RABBI I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, I THANK GOD FOR YOUR EXISTING! Rabbi you've been like a father to me, My name is Edward Martínez, you are saving my life every time I listen to you. I wish you can do a pray for me to find the right path.
Bless you!
@@manisfriedman your a good man . BLESS YOU !!!
thanx for supporting him, bcz not everybody is rich
I'm in so so so so so much pain.
The man whom I thought was my best friend,
discarded me like garbage. He gave me SEVERE PTSD.
(4 primary/core UNHEALTHY reasons relationships break down:
1. Contempt
2. Criticism
3. Stonewalling
4. Defensiveness)
Over four months of this horrific terror.
The PTSD is severe and intense.
The man whom I called my best friend,
ended up raping my soul...
PANIC AND TERROR
ALMOST CONSTANTLY FLOOD ME.
I am paralyzed and traumatized
and debilitated and breathless,
with almost-constant panic attacks.
I desperately pray for healing.
In February of this year (2023),
the man who I thought was my best friend...
Discarded me like garbage.
Replaced me for another.
In doing so...
He gave me SEVERE PTSD.
We're in June, now...
It's been over 4 months...
I MUST GET OVER THIS and MOVE ON...
Please, help me, God!
God, you have has blessed me to be a writer...🙌🏾
I humbly thank you and bow before you.
I pray to make use of this talent/blessing/gift!
Perhaps I write my way to healing?
I also want/pray to make myself ready,
with your miraculous help, oh God...
I want to be healed and purified,
that I may finally meet and spend my life with,
my twin-flame.
Here's what my trust is in: I don’t have to date.
I don't have to do those God-forsaken dating apps!
My kingdom spouse will locate me, he will come for me! 💍👰♀
Him, my twin-flame and I, are ordained to be together.
We are magnetized to one another: NOW, ALWAYS, ALL WAYS.
Maktub. It is written. It is God's will. Praise be to God!
Let me remind myself of how loving sex/intimacy can actually be.
(Because up until now, it's only been trauma for me...)
14 GENTLE URGENT REMINDERS, REAL/HEALTHY LOVE/SEX MEANS:
1) He also always (all ways) says he loves you outside the bedroom...
2) He looks DEEP into your eyes, into your soul, during sex/intimacy...
3) During sex: he wants full body contact... Hugs, caressing, hands all over your body
4) Spending quality intimate time together, both: before and after sex
5) Being intimate afterwards: cuddling, pillow-talk, playing, sleeping together closely
6) He prioritizes your pleasure, and attends to your needs and the things that you like
7) He pulls you in, super close and super intimate during sex
8) He compliments your personality, your character, your soul etc...
9) He kisses you with love and intimacy and passion
10) Slow seductive sensual lovemaking
11) He's open/vulnerable, he shows you his body, his insecurities, his fantasies
(without fear of judgement from you...)
12) He wants to meet your needs and he wants you to be satisfied
13) He understands when you don’t want sex and he doesn’t push or pressure
14) It’s not just about sex,
he's interested in conversation and outings and connecting:
outside the bedroom
AND PLEASE, GOD, LET ME ALSO ALWAYS REMEMBER:
The gift of rejection positions me for MY purpose!
The gift of rejection reveals what his role was/is: in my healing/destiny (THIS IS ALCHEMY)!
The gift of rejection draws me nearer to you, oh God! (As well as to my own soul!)
Rejection is redirection!🎉
Someone who is healthy is someone who:
1. wants REAL intimacy (and is capable of it, and willing to co-create it)
2. has their life (relatively) in order
3. genuinely likes and loves themselves
4. has healthy values and a healthy lifestyle
5. has deep self awareness
6. has a strong support network
7. is emotionally available and consistent
8. has a healthy vision for their future
9. can navigate conflict well
10. has a strong sense of self respect
Very good way of thinking:
Happy for the fortunate,
Compassion for the afflicted,
Praise for the Holy,
Disregard for the wicked
Today I learned from Rabbi’s message. I just focused on what good is or what bad is for my son. I used to teach him that behave yourself. It makes him destructive. He asked me that I love my parents but sometimes not, why I have two minds. I just answered him that it is natural. In reality, I didn’t know how to deal with it. However, Rabbi taught me very clearly. I will apply this teaching in my life first. Then, I hope to be transformed and to give true life to my son. Thank you !
I admire your patience Manis. Merci pour eux. J xoxo
God bless you more
If we all do our part thy kingdom come 😊
YOUR INSIGHT IS PROFOUND....
Great topic Rabbi..
As always, thank you.
Thank you
Thanks!
Thank you Rabbi. This is great therapy.
That was an awesome message rabbi, I've been really impacted by it, I think it would be valuable for everyone to listen to it daily, thank you rabbi 🙏
Thank you rabbi wonder speech in truth
❤ *THANK YOU. I WILL SHARE YOUR WORDS OF WISDOM, WHICH I KNOW COMES FROM HASHEM. HE IS THE GREATEST* 🙏🏽😁
Thank you Rabbi Friedman
✡️🙏♥️🔥
I am not the center of the universe!
I will choose to do the good for others so the Sun, Moon, and the Stars can do good for us all!
The glory is to God
Thank you Rabbi… Amen.
Thank you Rabbi Friedman . This video is a work of pure genius. I too have a dark side but never let it win. After a minute or so of indulging in a bad thought I realize I have to stop and pray to God.
Jordan Peterson once said something like “ it’s not about pretending you don’t have a monster inside you , but learn who that monster is and then put it on a leash “
I love your teachings. Thank you.
Thank you so much Rabbi this is life changing.
Thank you Rabbi, for sharing your wisdom. Your advice is practical. I can apply to life. Thank you for helping the stranger. Peace
Thank you so much Rabbi
Beautiful, inspiring, stunning ! Framed in words we understand Thank you .
Thank you, Rabbi! Don’t stop . We’re massively grateful for you.
Thanks again.
this is such a relief compared to constantly worrying what do I want
Thank you. Thank you for sharing the deep well of wisdom God has bestowed on you. I am gentile, and learning more about my God through your words that I ever have through most preachers. I am learning more about God's word period. Thank you!
"I think therefore I am, "never understood it till now. Thank you my Hebrew brother.
As a Catholic I appreciate your angle on Original Sin and the concupiscence that comes from it.
I'm not Jewish. Although there was a time in my life where I was looking to convert. Clearly that was not my path.
However, I have always continued to watch this rabbi's videos. He is a definition of what Gd chose the Jews to be Ōr laGōyyīm
Very powerful
Thank you Rabbi Friedman very insightful always look forward to your wisdom which I know is from HaShem. May G-DS peace be upon you this day Rabbi Friedman.
Shalom Aleichem Rabbi I think this all conversation fit on me sometime I lose my mind thank you Rabbi
I'm from Brazil, thank you for the content. God bless Rabbi.
Iam indonesian. Lifted my purposed positively the way and the truth speakes . Thank you rabbi
I have there is potential for a not so nice person in my thoughts, but have been sick and disgusted that I could possibly cause another the same pain that I have felt from others that truly deserve it. Most of the time, I give it to HaShem quickly. But the most painful I wrestled with for quite some time. Thank you, Rabbi! I have learned so much from listening to you. You are a Blessing to many non- Jewish as I am sure many Jewish children 💙 ❤
Thank you so so so much Rabi 😊God bless you. 🥰
Amen
Thank you. God continue to bless you.
Wow. Way to look and that and give it the importance it deserves! None! When we know what is powerful and what is powerless, the whole story is flipped over. So powerfully true! Amein!🔥💯🙏
The catholic church FAILED me using shame and guilt, without emotional support.
It may have although today is a new day......... rejoice in all that is now laid before you.,.......in JOY .....reins down from above on the evil and the good ....... choose wisely, choose good and experience the JOY !
I'm not Jewish, but I've been watching the Rabbi's videos for several years now. I always learn something
I'm a Christian Priest and I love watching him as well. What better way to learn about God than to learn from his chosen people.
Same. Just came across him in the last few months. So much wisdom and common sense. So kind. Much needed. Grateful❤
I was brought up as a Catholic. And I have been scared of Dying because of the Catholic beliefs. I was dredding of meeting God as I was thinking he was scary. Then I too came across Rabbi. Am I pleased to have met him here and listening to what God is really like. Not scared now. The way he explains everything all makes sense. Not the Catholic way.
I am a Baptist Christian, but I have been listening to Rabbi Friedman last few years as well lol
@@BishopSeraph😊
Excellent spiritual advice. Thank you Teacher.
I remember my first moments of consciousness, before I knew I was born. I was not born ‘bad’.
The beautiful thing is that when one feels unmotivated or discouraged for whatever reason to do a Mitzva it is a great opportunity to actually to it just for G-D not for any egotistical reason spiritual or other.
I bought the book, I'm happy to have it.
Thanks you for explaining this different
Hello again Rabbi ❤ listening to you. You make so much sense and really open my mind to a better understanding of the Bible and our wonderful and capable creator the lord God.
Another thought is the only times where I have done something unaligned with God is when my limbic system was allowed to dictate my behavior. Flight fright freeze. The limbic system can be misinformed, have un true deductions. We have to weed these subconscious beliefs out like a garden. I have animals and observe them panic or aggressive because they don’t realize I am trying to help them. Humans can act the same way. We must employ our newer brain regions to govern or weed these antiquated regions. Now we can actually be aware/ conscious of God. Peace.
17:00. He will be, Was, Is.❤
Mannis, i think you made some great points...but there is a serious problem with lack of discipline and respect these days. And people are punishing their kids less than ever. That is not and can not be a coincidence.
St Augustine confessions is an excellent read. ❤
"You know when a man is born the sparks begin to fly/He gets wise in his own eyes and is made to believe a lie" sings Rabbi Friedman's student, Bob Dylan.
Is a teacher "responsible" for the actions/musings of his students until either die, or even afterwards?
Dylan?
@@nomorecensoringme I wouldn’t think so.
I always believed Disobedience was the original sin. Wouldnt self consciousness give you more self control? I can see self awareness being a bad thing if it became self love, selfishness. To me, being self aware would be to be more self disciplined and in control of action and thought. I would love to be be corrected if im wrong Rabbi, please teach me. God bless you.
Great lecture! ❤
Very Good, the Rabbi knows his shtick The Human condition when we became self-aware and self-conscious developing our conscious mind our thought process the perceived choice of free will to be able to choose Good and evil to put labels on actions and categorise things into order yet and blaze our own trail/break off from the pack. Struggling to find common ground ever since we must return to the ways of our Father
@P!nned by Rabbi Manis Friedman no thanks scammy mc scam fraud
Certainly love yourself, and love your neighbour as yourself - you are still important, else you will deplete yourself for others.....
I can relate. People will ask me. How are you and I'll be honest and say I'm bad today.
Me on a balancing blade of good & evil, it's on what base my conscious opt it, it adds on as the clock second, minutes, hour, days, years proceeds on but the guidance of warning issued in all God's plan since God handles in abundance, we are in individual programs. Evil ends at burdens, good retains a happy life blooming for everlasting, replaces evil to demolished. But high quality of individual upgraded without other people are like second without years.
The right impulse.
Rabbi we are here to help and love 💕 one another and to wake people up out of the matrix we are light workers angels in the flesh of the 144,000 that multiplied into millions ,the Bible,Torah and Koran all talk deeply about the human 🧠 and consciousness
הרב אומר שמודעות עצמית היא שורש הרע. אשמח לקבל הפניה למקורות שדנים בכך, חסידות וכו.
תודה על התוכן
As a freemason I must say that sounds very familiar.
A Simple Rabbi boiled it down to a trinity of commandments 1, I am the Lord Your God, you shall not have strange God's before Me. 2,love thy neighbours as you love the Lord your God, 3 three remember to keep Holy the Lord's day. If I keep those three commandments the other 610 will be kept automatically. We think our Heavenly Father is a hard task master but in truth he is a loving God.😅
I stared into the abyss and the abyss stared back at me.
Would you say sin began in heaven when Satan went against god by wanting to be like God ?
On becoming Moshiach.
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Yeah, it does no work like that. Respectfully.
Repentance.
16:09 Is one minute too much to ask? If it's important?
💜
Some people make living using Brian and some make living using strength
today is not a good day for me im breaking the sabbath my knee is killing me and i work as a dishwasher and nighshfit doorman. every oness getting help and i have no one cheering for me . thats all i have to say
When they send message unfit. Then why when at bottom the don't reach out.
Ego. Rationalisation. Excess prise. Égoisme.
I told you they'll go back to Stone Age and it has to happen. Believe me, no one wants to bring them to our fold than myself. This is divine justice. Anything else is injustice. For us and for them. Okay, we'll feed their children so they don't starve, okay when that comes you take control.
I go back on saying we need to feed their children. Their children have God too. It's not your call. It's not your responsibility. I wanted to see a reflection of myself in them and that it would be human but it's not. It terrifies me. And I won't join them even after I say I will. I earned my wings. If you poison me or kill my children you'll get touched by the same karma that is going to touch them.
Carl Jung would agree.
Abe Lincoln said whatever you are be the best one you can
God wiped everyone in a flood, except Noah.
So where did we come from ?
🙂
my dark side is being super cool. jk Thanks Rabbi for this! so helpful to me.
Duality. Try equanimity.
Try communication.
like when one wakes up in the middle of sin and thinks ::: how come i am doing this... o.O?... and how it seams so far away from what i think i really am... o.O?... and that i am 5 minutes later... o.O?... how come one get's lost from "seriousness" so easily... o.O?... when is what seams to be what one really wants and needs... o.O?... yap ::: a very hard battle when your are alone living in a "hell" of alienated people with no one to share our goodness and everyone doing bad and lying... :( ... stupid noisy city of loneliness filling matchboxes full of bothering noises... :( ... o.O?... lulz... :( ... while watching youtube for company ::: is learn-full and yet solves nothing around... :( ... while 2 dimension of animated colors are only just unsatisfying... :( ... "but hey" ::: i just need my true life back... :) ... i feel as fine as un-fine... :( ... the world is dying ::: and also does not want others to live... :( ... living is very easy ::: among crazy lying people is very hard... :( ... is like no one knows how to be real, everyone is mostly a walking fake... :( ... like their livings are worthless to live and their thoughts are worthless to think... :( ... not like dis-consideration ::: but is just as it it is... :(
Wow wonderful lovely smarte powerfully enjoeble proud of best for me love can you help me
Ahhh you're such a good Jew.
Paolo Freire.
Beeing.
🤔🤔🤔
It's not about religion rabbi religion creates money wars and controversial I am a judeo Christian I go by the old Jewish law
Please translate Jewish terms to give us gentiles some understanding.
2:52 ... mmm ... it does looks to other like that ::: but my needs are no my needs... o.O?... but i embraced them as mime ::: and so when i mention them they sound as mine... o.O?... not "my pleasures" and not "my pains" ::: i do feel as least suffering by now... :) ... 4:26 ... but for that i would have to be able to live my voluntarily among normal people... 4:43 ... o.O?... dare to touch me ::: and never talk to me again... :) ... ever... :) ... please ::: rather through at me psy-"spanking" ::: if you can.... defeat me by reason ::: if you can... :) ... 4:44 ... that "scary" face on me does not work ::: my father never got mad at me... :) ... ejust got sad... o.O?... and we just don't like that... when he got serious (was laughing inside)... :) ... my father was truly amazing with us, as best as he could... :) ... just as my grandfather...:) ... we just have no problems with our children ::: that we know very well how to raise our own... :) ... just like all animals do... :) ... while those whom do not know how to raise their children ::: try to impose their bad violent habits on us... o.O?... for that they lie, try to kill & kidnap our children and do not allow us to live... :(
Matthew 24:34((D.R.B.))😷
Why don't you take your Christian quotes elsewhere? It's really insulting to post them here. Or is that your message?
There's no dark side. The self changes constantly and it's all about choices. Existence precedes essence. I'm too intelligent and understand every single thing.
I want $100 Million Dollars and 4 Wives that’s my Darkness
you are weaker than many , you can't even change your life to the better , how you think you can help others to change their life to the better , Ask Allah to help you , flee to Allah , search for obeying Allah's commands and be muslim to him as Ibrahim did that to Allah and then he became the first Muslim cause he surrender his will to Allah , at this point Allah will satisfy you as a reward for obeying his commands and his will . advise from a person who loves goodness to all mankind .............. thanks
Thank you
Thank you Rebbe Friedman and yes being of service gets us out of self. I enjoy helping others. I enjoy being good. I am also reading “The Garden of Emuna” and it states with the good inclination increasing the evil inclination also increases in its potential. Conscious Contact with the Creator at all times works for me.
Morals plus Values is Boundaries were we need to have boundaries.