Recently I've learned how much childhood can shape who you are as an adult. Currently journaling and forgiving the hidden pain inside my soul, I pray you all find joy and passion and heal. 🙏
Man, you sparked some emotions in me while telling your story… It’s such a weird feeling going from being a kid where your parents and role models all seem like super heroes, to becoming an adult and seeing a different side of them. Thanks for sharing your story, it was really touching!
On point. Some parents think they can just use "we're family" as a get-out-of-jail-free card. No, they're adults, too. They are responsible for their own actions and the consequences that come with them
29 now and I realized last year my dad was a narcissist that lied about a lot of shit and the whole time he brainwashed my mom to believe everything he said , he doesn’t even talk to me anymore and he gonn regret it when I have kids, they won’t see my kids for a while after they are born 🤷♂️
I can relate. Back when my mom was killing herself with 2 jobs, out of her 3sons, I was the only one who would help her with her 2nd job but no matter what, it was never enough that she had to let me know; for whatever reason, that she wished for a different son, straight to my face. Took me a while to react. But something Ill never forgot.
Wow, brother, I'm truly sorry your parents did all that to you. I have problems with my parents as well, to the point where I'm also now leaving the nest at 21 to better my life and be my own man. It may be hard out there, but at this point I would rather take that than stay with them.
Dam man, I felt that to my core when you said your Mom laughed in your face. Your outlook on life and good hearted attitude in-spite of how traumatic that must have been speaks volumes to the person you are.
This is the kind of content I really loved in You Tube back in the days... People sharing their life experiences and stuff in a HONESTLY way. Without a filter. No Livestream clip. No captions. No shitposting audios.
Man it really drives me mad when people do that to people they're supposed to love unconditionally like it's not that hard to be kind it usually costs nothing depending on how you want to show it of course. I'm grateful that you didn't become jaded about life or family after your experience. my dad has a hard time trusting me to make my own decisions. But he won't always be here and I need to be able to be self sufficient. He's stubborn at times but still open for the most part.
I'm sorry for your folks. My parents made contracts with me, broke them and are now trying to take my life's work away. They hate to see me successful.
I like this channel a lot it’s way better than all the “WHATS UP GUYS!!” Channels… Reminds me of old yt content…. You know……… before MONEY took over Please if you ever start making money don’t let the art suffer this really is a quality form of commentary compared to the shite we have now
My problem is the exact opposite my parents are great and because they nurted me so much i don't know how to do anything on my own and now i feel like a complete failure
Dang bro I felt this. Had an ex that had an alcohol addiction and saw the true reality of what alcohol can do to a person. She eventually ended up quitting drinking because of a drastic life event. But it wasn’t because of the pain she was causing to everyone else. You see a side of someone that sticks with you forever. I will forever have sympathy for those who are on the other end of any relationship with someone with an alcohol addiction. Great video🙏
Bro, I am so proud of you. The fact you are here with us talking and making videos is a blessing. Parental issues whether it’s one or both is such a hard thing on a kid. You’re a strong guy and so down to earth, I can’t tell you enough of how awesome it is that you’re apart of this community. If you’re ever down to just chat and do a collab or hang with the boys, my door is always open. Hope your day goes well and be careful in that snow!
I can relate so much, my patents are monsters, my mother is a rage addict and successfully gave my brother Stockholm syndrome, my father is self righteous hypocrite, so i have no family, and im better for it.
As someone with a narcissistic mom I can relate to this so much. It truly sucks knowing you can’t change someone you thought you cared about so much. And then you think about the person you thought you knew so much and that’s what hurts.
You’re honestly my favourite RUclipsr man. I just found your channel a few days ago and it’s been a long time since I’ve listened to someone that’s genuine, authentic and keeps things real. You have a good heart and it’s been a long time since the old days of RUclips when people would just sit and talk over some gameplay. Really brings me back and I really missed this kind of content. Keep up the great work man. Also I’m sorry this stuff happened to you. Keep on grinding and pursuing your dreams in life 🙏
This video resonated with me. My relationship with my family isn’t bad per say. What you said in the video as i gotten older i started to see some wrongs in my family. I can still rely on some of my family but at the same time my relationship with my family is tricky. Like i said my family isn’t bad they help me pay for therapy and food and stuff i need to survive and do good in life which i’m thankful for. Sadly there is stuff that needs to be fixed too. And i am sorry you can’t work things for your family. i’m wishing the best for you brother 💙 Off topic. Your videos have been helping me relax and my mental health a bit. i’m currently on my journey on improving mental health and mental being too. So these videos are therapy to me as well. I love your videos dude keep them up 🔥
I'm sorry that you went through that but I'm happy that you came out strong. As you said, you could have easily gone down a much worse path as a result but you pushed through. Hope you're proud of yourself and thanks for sharing. Great video!
Great video & topic. Thank you for opening up to us. I’m really sorry you went through this. You always have to do what’s best for yourself and your sanity and I’m happy you took action for your peace.
Hey great video. Maybe you say this at the end and I haven’t got there, but it’s possible, depending on the state you’re in, that you can get low cost or free therapy. In my state if you earn below a certain amount you can qualify for state health insurance, and then therapy sessions do not cost anything. You probably already looked into that, but I figured I’d mention it just in case you hadn’t. And I’m sorry to hear about you family, that sucks what happened 😔 Edit: I mention this because you talked about the cost of therapy being out of reach, which happens a lot. It can get expensive.
I totally know where you’re coming from here’s what happened to me. I was the black sheep of the family and was treated like shit. I was told that I wouldn’t amount to shit. My dad was narcissistic as well, he would go on to gamble away our house, open cell phone accounts in my name, have an affair that gave birth to a new kid and even almost have me killed (a story for another time). Anyway I cut them and my entire family off. I would come to find out that he was my biological father which was the best news I’ve ever had. I now own a house, my wife was a former model and my kid is a genius. On top of that we inherited an ass ton so now I’m wealthier then them as well. When I did reunite with my stepdad, siblings, and other family members after 8 years of separation, they were shook and hating, so much to the point they don’t speak to me 😂😂😂 anyway my point is if your “family” is toxic ditch em, life will get better y’all. P.S. you a cool cat subscribe to this man y’all!!
Wow dude, when you left that comment about what your parents did to you, I was really curious what you meant and how it all happened. That’s just terrible man, I don’t even know what to say. I’m blessed to have had a very good mom who has always supported and taken care of me. My dad left 5 years ago, long after my parents divorce, after he’d had another kid with my stepmom. But nothing since then, idk what’s up with him. Nobody, not even his own family knows where he is, might even be dead. Because a private investigator they hired couldn’t find him. Anyway, I think you made the right decision in distancing yourself from your family. It can be hard to do, but really our parents are just people, they aren’t us, they aren’t our entire lives and we aren’t there’s. I haven’t seen my dad in a long, long time. Most days I never even consider his existence. At the end of the day cultivating a good relationship, and friendship with yourself is what’s most important and productive to your overall happiness, health, and well being. Great video as always.
Guitar is the best therapy. Been playing for 20 years. Do actual "therapy" at your own discretion. In my opinion, its a scam. Paying someone to "listen" who doesn't actually care at the end of their shift at the office doesn't sound great to me. Plus you might end up "depressed" and forfeit your 2A.
My mother wasn't perfect either, but she loved me and I loved her and it hurt when I lost her on my 25th birthday. Sorry for your troubles man I actually went through some of the things you did ❤
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You probably hear this everywhere now.
All kids deserve parents
But not all parents deserve kids
It's true
Facts, true facts.
Good parents are the ones u don't need to recover from.
Its a sad sad fact that the bar is that low and yet so many fail
"People you know can hurt you the most."
- Ghost
Recently I've learned how much childhood can shape who you are as an adult. Currently journaling and forgiving the hidden pain inside my soul, I pray you all find joy and passion and heal. 🙏
Man, you sparked some emotions in me while telling your story…
It’s such a weird feeling going from being a kid where your parents and role models all seem like super heroes, to becoming an adult and seeing a different side of them.
Thanks for sharing your story, it was really touching!
You're welcome man! It's sad how quickly things can change
@@AmaryxGamesYTit really is. All we can do is strive to be better!
Family doesn’t have to be blood family can be chosen I found my chosen family
God man I really appreciate you bringing this up cuz sometimes people say “ but they’re family” man blood ain’t enough sometimes
On point. Some parents think they can just use "we're family" as a get-out-of-jail-free card. No, they're adults, too. They are responsible for their own actions and the consequences that come with them
@ghostofsilence2697 exactly!
29 now and I realized last year my dad was a narcissist that lied about a lot of shit and the whole time he brainwashed my mom to believe everything he said , he doesn’t even talk to me anymore and he gonn regret it when I have kids, they won’t see my kids for a while after they are born 🤷♂️
My dad also said he didn’t care if I died so there’s that to
I can relate. Back when my mom was killing herself with 2 jobs, out of her 3sons, I was the only one who would help her with her 2nd job but no matter what, it was never enough that she had to let me know; for whatever reason, that she wished for a different son, straight to my face. Took me a while to react. But something Ill never forgot.
Wow, brother, I'm truly sorry your parents did all that to you. I have problems with my parents as well, to the point where I'm also now leaving the nest at 21 to better my life and be my own man. It may be hard out there, but at this point I would rather take that than stay with them.
Yeah! I have good siblings and friends that are thankfully and it does help
Kids deserve parents, however, some parents don’t deserve kids…. 😕
Word!
Dam man, I felt that to my core when you said your Mom laughed in your face. Your outlook on life and good hearted attitude in-spite of how traumatic that must have been speaks volumes to the person you are.
Therapy isn't helpful, this video is a lot better therapy than any person paid to listen to your problems could be.
Dude, my condolences for your loss of family. Your parents are absolute dogsht.
This is the kind of content I really loved in You Tube back in the days...
People sharing their life experiences and stuff in a HONESTLY way. Without a filter. No Livestream clip. No captions. No shitposting audios.
Man it really drives me mad when people do that to people they're supposed to love unconditionally like it's not that hard to be kind it usually costs nothing depending on how you want to show it of course. I'm grateful that you didn't become jaded about life or family after your experience. my dad has a hard time trusting me to make my own decisions. But he won't always be here and I need to be able to be self sufficient. He's stubborn at times but still open for the most part.
I'm sorry for your folks.
My parents made contracts with me, broke them and are now trying to take my life's work away. They hate to see me successful.
Same. I just hope that if I ever have kids, they won't hate or despise me throughout their lifes, especially when they're adult.
And blood is not always family.
I like this channel a lot it’s way better than all the “WHATS UP GUYS!!” Channels…
Reminds me of old yt content…. You know……… before MONEY took over
Please if you ever start making money don’t let the art suffer this really is a quality form of commentary compared to the shite we have now
kids deserve parents great video brother🙏
Thank you buddy! It means a lot!
My problem is the exact opposite my parents are great and because they nurted me so much i don't know how to do anything on my own and now i feel like a complete failure
You're a good man. Subscribed.
Dang bro I felt this. Had an ex that had an alcohol addiction and saw the true reality of what alcohol can do to a person. She eventually ended up quitting drinking because of a drastic life event. But it wasn’t because of the pain she was causing to everyone else. You see a side of someone that sticks with you forever. I will forever have sympathy for those who are on the other end of any relationship with someone with an alcohol addiction. Great video🙏
Bro, I am so proud of you. The fact you are here with us talking and making videos is a blessing. Parental issues whether it’s one or both is such a hard thing on a kid. You’re a strong guy and so down to earth, I can’t tell you enough of how awesome it is that you’re apart of this community. If you’re ever down to just chat and do a collab or hang with the boys, my door is always open. Hope your day goes well and be careful in that snow!
sorry for ur loss boss
Your videos remind me of og cod commentaries back in the day. Keep it up bro, god bless 🙏
I will never complain about my dad leaving me at 6 years old ever again
I can relate so much, my patents are monsters, my mother is a rage addict and successfully gave my brother Stockholm syndrome, my father is self righteous hypocrite, so i have no family, and im better for it.
As someone with a narcissistic mom I can relate to this so much. It truly sucks knowing you can’t change someone you thought you cared about so much. And then you think about the person you thought you knew so much and that’s what hurts.
Recently found out that both of my parents are narcissists and were super abusive this changed my life this year super relatable man
I'm sorry you had to go through that, terrible parents don't deserve kids, kids deserves better parents.
Man what a brutal twist!
I really hope you're alright🙏
This video makes me wanna talk about my uncle he pass from alcohol I wanna start a channel and talk about my life and my story
You’re honestly my favourite RUclipsr man. I just found your channel a few days ago and it’s been a long time since I’ve listened to someone that’s genuine, authentic and keeps things real. You have a good heart and it’s been a long time since the old days of RUclips when people would just sit and talk over some gameplay. Really brings me back and I really missed this kind of content. Keep up the great work man. Also I’m sorry this stuff happened to you. Keep on grinding and pursuing your dreams in life 🙏
This video resonated with me. My relationship with my family isn’t bad per say. What you said in the video as i gotten older i started to see some wrongs in my family. I can still rely on some of my family but at the same time my relationship with my family is tricky. Like i said my family isn’t bad they help me pay for therapy and food and stuff i need to survive and do good in life which i’m thankful for. Sadly there is stuff that needs to be fixed too.
And i am sorry you can’t work things for your family. i’m wishing the best for you brother 💙
Off topic. Your videos have been helping me relax and my mental health a bit. i’m currently on my journey on improving mental health and mental being too. So these videos are therapy to me as well. I love your videos dude keep them up 🔥
I'm sorry that you went through that but I'm happy that you came out strong. As you said, you could have easily gone down a much worse path as a result but you pushed through. Hope you're proud of yourself and thanks for sharing. Great video!
Thank you! Yeah it was one of the most difficult decisions in my life
Great video & topic. Thank you for opening up to us. I’m really sorry you went through this. You always have to do what’s best for yourself and your sanity and I’m happy you took action for your peace.
Hey great video. Maybe you say this at the end and I haven’t got there, but it’s possible, depending on the state you’re in, that you can get low cost or free therapy. In my state if you earn below a certain amount you can qualify for state health insurance, and then therapy sessions do not cost anything. You probably already looked into that, but I figured I’d mention it just in case you hadn’t. And I’m sorry to hear about you family, that sucks what happened 😔
Edit: I mention this because you talked about the cost of therapy being out of reach, which happens a lot. It can get expensive.
Lying about something like that it’s disgusting
love the way you tell stories haha
I totally know where you’re coming from here’s what happened to me.
I was the black sheep of the family and was treated like shit. I was told that I wouldn’t amount to shit. My dad was narcissistic as well, he would go on to gamble away our house, open cell phone accounts in my name, have an affair that gave birth to a new kid and even almost have me killed (a story for another time). Anyway I cut them and my entire family off. I would come to find out that he was my biological father which was the best news I’ve ever had. I now own a house, my wife was a former model and my kid is a genius. On top of that we inherited an ass ton so now I’m wealthier then them as well. When I did reunite with my stepdad, siblings, and other family members after 8 years of separation, they were shook and hating, so much to the point they don’t speak to me 😂😂😂 anyway my point is if your “family” is toxic ditch em, life will get better y’all.
P.S. you a cool cat subscribe to this man y’all!!
Wow dude, when you left that comment about what your parents did to you, I was really curious what you meant and how it all happened. That’s just terrible man, I don’t even know what to say. I’m blessed to have had a very good mom who has always supported and taken care of me. My dad left 5 years ago, long after my parents divorce, after he’d had another kid with my stepmom. But nothing since then, idk what’s up with him. Nobody, not even his own family knows where he is, might even be dead. Because a private investigator they hired couldn’t find him.
Anyway, I think you made the right decision in distancing yourself from your family. It can be hard to do, but really our parents are just people, they aren’t us, they aren’t our entire lives and we aren’t there’s. I haven’t seen my dad in a long, long time. Most days I never even consider his existence. At the end of the day cultivating a good relationship, and friendship with yourself is what’s most important and productive to your overall happiness, health, and well being. Great video as always.
Guitar is the best therapy. Been playing for 20 years. Do actual "therapy" at your own discretion. In my opinion, its a scam. Paying someone to "listen" who doesn't actually care at the end of their shift at the office doesn't sound great to me. Plus you might end up "depressed" and forfeit your 2A.
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Wait how the hell are you playing it mw2 on nuketown that actually looks kinda fun is it that iwx4 thing on pc?
You sound like filthy frank a lil
Ik I need therapy aswl but ion trust em
I was playing cod mobile with that nuke town map 😊
Do You Talk To Any Of Your Relatives?
I do yes. My siblings are pretty good for the most part
damn
My mother wasn't perfect either, but she loved me and I loved her and it hurt when I lost her on my 25th birthday. Sorry for your troubles man I actually went through some of the things you did ❤