Your Assumptions About People Could Be Wrong, Here's Why | Reverse Assumptions

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @thatpiscesgal
    @thatpiscesgal 6 лет назад +218

    petition for a separate video of those two singing together !!!!

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад +9

      Alex - I’m down! Haha Carolyn Let’s DO IT😂😂

    • @ballerinacs
      @ballerinacs 6 лет назад +8

      Totally down! Let's make it happen! 😃

  • @PixenBit
    @PixenBit 6 лет назад +204

    I ship both couples when’s their double wedding

    • @maedianee
      @maedianee 6 лет назад +4

      Sammy Mackey SAME!!!

    • @NiamhCreates
      @NiamhCreates 6 лет назад +2

      I thought the same thing.

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад +4

      That’s funny lol I already have a girlfriend tho :)

    • @brookly3237
      @brookly3237 3 года назад

      67oyt

  • @denisZsuave
    @denisZsuave 6 лет назад +111

    Guessing someone's age is usually the hardest part for me

    • @huldahh
      @huldahh 3 года назад

      Ah! A Kenyan name!

  • @poppykok5
    @poppykok5 6 лет назад +45

    simply stated...'SoulPancake,' I sincerely L o v e your videos & their powerful messages...

  • @eduardopadilla5505
    @eduardopadilla5505 6 лет назад +19

    the guy who knows the girl in wheel chair, i loved him at the end of the video when gave her a hug!

  • @anthonyt425
    @anthonyt425 6 лет назад +70

    Always love your videos Soul Pancake.

  • @AmberRooster
    @AmberRooster 6 лет назад +16

    I love that she said people just feel things ❤️

  • @Theairam_
    @Theairam_ 6 лет назад +76

    They didn't sing... :(

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад +1

      Yup I wanted too!! She said we should do it later lol

    • @ballerinacs
      @ballerinacs 6 лет назад +6

      Lol that's my bad! We totally should have done a duet! 🎶

    • @kimberlygrayomeir6981
      @kimberlygrayomeir6981 6 лет назад

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  • @ambiencefirst
    @ambiencefirst 6 лет назад +10

    Wheelchair girl has a beautiful voice

  • @TheColaGoodfellow
    @TheColaGoodfellow 6 лет назад +17

    People assume I'm a masculine guy, even though I don't really have any typical masculine interests and I like cute animals, musicals, clothes, and wearing make up.
    I guess I don't mind playing football (soccer) but that's about it. I don't really bother watching sports unless someone I know is playing.

  • @abbadabbado
    @abbadabbado 6 лет назад +40

    O'Shay is so charming!

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад +11

      Awww thank you! Haha

    • @KillerKiwi1365
      @KillerKiwi1365 6 лет назад +1

      He is hot, too :P

    • @trillylily16
      @trillylily16 6 лет назад +2

      Hi, O'Shay! Please don't be embarrassed or ashamed of being a sensitive person. The world could use more people like you! Plus women tend to be drawn to that. :) Also, sorry if this embarrasses you, but I think you and Carolynn were cute together. :)

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад +1

      Kaddy Kaboom awww I appreciate that! That’s a confidence booster!

  • @celineak2121
    @celineak2121 6 лет назад +11

    People think I'm around 12-14 years old most of the time and thats why I get asked for my ID a lot. I'm actually 20 lmao. Another thing is that almost everyone asked me if I'm Polish or Russian because I seemingly look like that but I'm 100% German. Thats why I think this series is so interesting. I would like to do something like that too, just for the experience!

  • @saskia7605
    @saskia7605 6 лет назад +12

    i love carolyn’s voice

  • @journeyshipley8856
    @journeyshipley8856 6 лет назад +2

    Tell me why i'm supposed to be sleeping but i just found this page and i am binge watching all the videos 🤣

  • @Melza01
    @Melza01 6 лет назад +3

    They have some amazing yet difficult jobs. They’re such amazing people 🌷

  • @berlinwall6674
    @berlinwall6674 6 лет назад +3

    Make more of these, SoulPancake!

  • @Jen18lol
    @Jen18lol 6 лет назад +6

    Yup empathy not sympathy!

  • @Vincent-rq2hy
    @Vincent-rq2hy 6 лет назад +10

    Great Video as Always!

  • @Gamesake2
    @Gamesake2 6 лет назад +3

    The guy being awkward in the end about handshaking or hugging made me think about the fact that people don't really know how to approach things with a person with a disability. I have been visually impaired...aka legally blind...since birth. I always wondered why people seemed kind of awkward around me...then one of my co-workers was in a wheelchair and I started to understand the whole thing. I didn't know what to do with her...that sounds weird, but now I was the one in an awkward situation. My job, and hers, was to help people with disabilities get jobs, so I got a lot of insight from my friendship with her...and vice versa. I finally just said to her..."I have never had a friend in a wheelchair, so tell me when you need help, because I don't want to make you feel that I am constantly aware of your situation. I am more than happy to help you if you need help, but I won't usurp your independence." I told her to do the same with me and that I would let her know if I needed assistance because of my limited vision. I used to see people on street corners with white canes and a red tip...others would just walk past them without asking if they needed help. I think they felt uncomfortable and didn't know what to do...or if they should do anything. You really don't need to do anything in that situation, but you might say "hello" to let them know you are there...then if they need assistance, they may ask you. Most blind people travelling alone on the streets know exactly where they are, but suppose the bus driver let them off at the wrong stop...or some other odd thing happened? Most people are very kind and want to be helpful, but are just unsure how to go about it in these situations.

  • @ChazEvansdale
    @ChazEvansdale 6 лет назад +15

    People assume I'm younger, because I talk in a friendlier voice, which makes me sound younger. Then, even if they see me, they think I'm younger, because my family ages well; we all look younger. What's annoying is when they think I'm younger and assume I'm less mature too.

    • @ChazEvansdale
      @ChazEvansdale 6 лет назад +2

      After reading comments I remembered that people think I'm gay, because I'm friendly, have a lot of female friends (a lot of friends in general), and also have a best friend who is female.

    • @ahh9015
      @ahh9015 6 лет назад

      Souliers Poilus Will you please shut the f*** up, you're so immature.

  • @TheJleliot
    @TheJleliot 6 лет назад +4

    I love these segments

  • @tricem7400
    @tricem7400 6 лет назад

    I can not stop watching this channel

  • @canadianroxy
    @canadianroxy 6 лет назад

    They were all so cool. Lovely video

  • @reinadumalisile3812
    @reinadumalisile3812 4 года назад

    These videos make me happy 😊😊

  • @andrezzalocardo8181
    @andrezzalocardo8181 5 лет назад

    Loved all of them!

  • @erikawesly9253
    @erikawesly9253 6 лет назад +1

    I missed these!

  • @akwaabab8504
    @akwaabab8504 6 лет назад +7

    excellent!

  • @ManishSingh2k
    @ManishSingh2k 5 лет назад

    Don't be awkwardly nice to people with disabilities. They get that 10 times a day. Treat them normally and let them feel normal.

  • @Nikohere
    @Nikohere 6 лет назад +6

    Nice she's from san jose silicon valley ✊ my home state northern california my family is from san jose

  • @azj2894
    @azj2894 6 лет назад +8

    They assume I'm born in a rich family but in reality I am slightly in the lower middle class. They always say it's something about your face!

    • @azj2894
      @azj2894 6 лет назад

      شو خص اني عربي؟

  • @gabr1elaa660
    @gabr1elaa660 6 лет назад

    Some people assume i’m really young and that “bad” Which is wrong because i am a good child and and i’m a bit older than people in my classes.

  • @femafull
    @femafull 6 лет назад

    I love these videos!!

  • @ddg0907
    @ddg0907 5 лет назад

    Miriam is BEAUTIFUL!

  • @gramps2matt
    @gramps2matt 6 лет назад +10

    Where and how do they find the couples for these videos? Is there a web site you can apply at to be considered to be in one? I'm serious. I would love to see the person they'd match me up with and if we'd be a study in contrast or same qualities. SoulPancake If you read this contact me on how I can be involved.

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад +10

      gramps2matt yeah! I actually saw it from Facebook. They didn’t tell us what we were doing until the day of though. It was a really good experience

    • @gurll8784
      @gurll8784 6 лет назад +2

      Oshay Neal
      Dude, you're awesome 😀

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад +1

      Iliana thank you Bruh!! Lol

    • @Nadia-tv6py
      @Nadia-tv6py 6 лет назад +1

      @@oshayneal4057 oh wow I didn't expect to see you on the comment section. I love how you work with disabled people. You seem like a genuine caring man! God bless.

  • @tahirqureshicrazydiamond
    @tahirqureshicrazydiamond 6 лет назад +1

    People find me enigmatic, or crazy.

  • @jminay
    @jminay 6 лет назад

    I have no idea what people assume about me. I would be scared to find out

  • @humanbean4345
    @humanbean4345 6 лет назад

    How do they get them in the room without them seeing eachother ?

  • @learning.growing.1017
    @learning.growing.1017 6 лет назад

    AYYY!!!! San Jo!!! 🙌🏼 haha

  • @flaneurgh
    @flaneurgh 6 лет назад +1

    People think that I don’t poop in ugly shoes, but I totes do.

  • @berlinwall6674
    @berlinwall6674 6 лет назад +4

    I wish the video didn't keep skipping from one pair to another and just stay on one pair until they were done before moving on to another one.

  • @juachem5509
    @juachem5509 6 лет назад

    Usually, people think I am between 17 and 23 (I am 33 years old), they think I'm a wild partygirl (my wildest party is to go to bed at 11 pm after a pizza and a herbal tea...). And everybody thinks I am a heterosexual who likes guys with a lot of tattoos, long hair and smelly grungy clothes... well, ask my ultra neat and «girl next door» wife if thats true....

  • @gurll8784
    @gurll8784 6 лет назад +8

    People assume I'm like 13-14 but I'm a frickin' adult!!!
    Oh! And O' Shay is damn cool!

    • @Evieteresa
      @Evieteresa 6 лет назад

      Iliana I usually get 16-24 as my age guess and I’m actually 31. I got carded for an R rated movie last month. It’s a compliment, sure, but when you’re an adult trying to be taken seriously in your career...

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад +1

      Awww thank you! I appreciate that!

    • @gagewaterhouse4323
      @gagewaterhouse4323 6 лет назад

      Iliana, I live your profile picture!

    • @gurll8784
      @gurll8784 6 лет назад +1

      Gage Waterhouse
      Thank youuu ❤

  • @rabia-2079
    @rabia-2079 6 лет назад +3

    But Asia is huge what country is she like actually from.....

    • @Melza01
      @Melza01 6 лет назад +1

      R - She can be Asian without actually being born in Asia. It’s about heritage.

    • @rabia-2079
      @rabia-2079 6 лет назад +1

      Melissa Govender Honey I know, but that's not what I meant. What I meant was what country is she from IN Asia. I'm Asian as well, but most people in the States wouldn't consider me such since I'm from Turkey and don't stereotypically look 'Asian'. However that does not change the fact that I'm Asian and I have the right to call myself such. That's what I was wondering about, is she from let's say China, Oman, India or Armenia? All of those countries are technically Asian but they most certainly don't share the same culture, hence why Asian is a very vague classification imo and quite problematic

  • @awesomeperson1089
    @awesomeperson1089 5 лет назад +1

    She is 5'1?? I thought I was short, I'm 5'7 and 14

    • @js42025
      @js42025 5 лет назад

      Awesome person Honey, that's tall for your age.

  • @ksam5673
    @ksam5673 6 лет назад +6

    That german girl is nice on the surface but she's slightly cold and distant.
    The black guy was lovely.
    The other two were very sweet . Mature and had a good connection. Lovely pair.

    • @AenLu
      @AenLu 6 лет назад +7

      ksam pco She's not German tho... she's "of German heritage." I know, I know, let's not be overly dramatic over this. I just can't stand when Americans do this.
      What just came to mind: you might also subconsciously find her coldish because you heard "German" and, as many would, try to look for things that match your idea of Germans.
      Cool video anyways haha. I personally found her pretty warm and easy going.
      Anyways. It's a cool series that reveals a lot.

    • @Evieteresa
      @Evieteresa 6 лет назад

      Anna Lucia She could be German-American. I was born and raised (and now living) in Switzerland, but in the U.S. I would say I was from N.C. (where I lived for most of my life), but was originally from Switzerland. Overall, I present myself as Swiss-American, so I didn’t find her comment odd.

    • @AenLu
      @AenLu 6 лет назад +1

      @@Evieteresa I understand what you're saying and there was certainly some assumption in my comment. Of course there are American citizens who have experienced socialization from outside of the U.S. and still have family ties in other countries. Perhaps the woman in this video is one such person. The people I was referring to though are those numerous Americans who base everything on genetics and confuse cultural & national identity with race & ethnicity, often for the sole purpose of having something more to say than "I'm white American. Full stop." I don't agree with this type of mentality at all because identity is a lot more complex than DNA.

    • @badblondie01
      @badblondie01 5 лет назад

      @@AenLu I totally agree 100%

  • @aichafaye9628
    @aichafaye9628 6 лет назад +1

    Where's kid president?

  • @QueenofWheels
    @QueenofWheels 5 лет назад +1

    Why don't they say why she is in a wheelchair? My guess is spina bifida.

  • @Just-YOLANDA-T.C
    @Just-YOLANDA-T.C 6 лет назад

    Awesome

  • @ivajankovic02
    @ivajankovic02 6 лет назад

    Miriam reminds me of Khloe Kardashian

  • @CappuccinoTX
    @CappuccinoTX 6 лет назад

    People always assume I'm fron down south

  • @bsentah
    @bsentah 6 лет назад

    They look at me and assume I'm Mexican or Hispanic but I am full Armenian lol

  • @gracebalogun430
    @gracebalogun430 6 лет назад

    where is the singing ??/

  • @OBIOsim
    @OBIOsim 3 года назад

    FIrst off....Mariam is beautiful. Those strong cheek bones and her incredible smile.....wow. And her eyes.....forgetaboutit! Secondly, O'Shay should never feel that being sensitive is a bad thing. There are far too many people in this world who feel nothing.....for a person, especially a man, to actually feel emotions and to feel for others....that is a great thing. I am a sensitive person, a man, who has been told that my heart is my weak point because it makes it so easy for people to take advantage of me.

  • @emilee22
    @emilee22 6 лет назад +5

    I wanna do this because people get so much wrong about me lol like my sexuality, my I guess ancestry cause no one like ever guesses that I have Mexican lineage like my grandmothers family is from Mexico. I feel like I sound how I look though, like my voice just screams brunette lmao, but I feel people would get my height wrong cause I’m like a quarter shy of 5’11 which is tall for a girl especially in my family where most of all the women are around 5’3.

  • @ramonlavaireflores567
    @ramonlavaireflores567 6 лет назад

    ...

  • @oshayneal4057
    @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад

    Ayyy I’m O’Shay Neal... (the black dude in this) hit me up on IG , Twitter Facebook y’all 😂😂 @OshayNeal

  • @ez_1098
    @ez_1098 6 лет назад

    Plz change that motto 🤠

  • @elleisforloser8366
    @elleisforloser8366 6 лет назад +1

    whoop whoop

  • @ellianalain
    @ellianalain 6 лет назад

    I have to say something about the other video. I did not like how the girl said she was black she could of said brown.

    • @oshayneal4057
      @oshayneal4057 6 лет назад

      Iced Elsa MSP it’s really not a big deal at all ha

  • @nogdjg
    @nogdjg 6 лет назад +6

    FIRRRRRRSSSSSSTTTT

  • @ivyalexandra8053
    @ivyalexandra8053 6 лет назад +45

    Some people assume I am a hetrosexual ; I am not. Also, they assume I don't speak English, but I have been speaking it for 4 or more years now.

    • @ralphlondon8172
      @ralphlondon8172 6 лет назад +3

      Ivy Alexandra just being your self

    • @ivyalexandra8053
      @ivyalexandra8053 6 лет назад +1

      @@ralphlondon8172 Thank you, Ras.

    • @ralphlondon8172
      @ralphlondon8172 6 лет назад +1

      Ivy Alexandra u welcome 😉😘❤️

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