How I deal with Negative People and how these strategies help me in daily life 🙏

[@ghazalgull2867]

1..U r not alone.. Allah is with you... Allah ki manen..uski rasi tham len..
2...ignore them.. Don't argue.. Inko energy milti hy Ap k reaction se. Unko command mt den.. Ahista ahista wo khud hi drained Ho jaen gy
3-Never ask journal questions.. Positive bat kren
4-try positive reinforcement
5-stay happy.. sr pr sawar mt kren... Unka maqsad hi Yhi hy apko tease krna...
6-U r not responsible for fixing their problems
7-set boundaries and ignore totally
8-dont try to make them happy by reacting... By cry.. By anger.. By worry..... don't give them any response.. Inko khush na kren.. In logon ko b Apni life se declutter kr den😊

[@hamza-ow3ub]

I really search for Muslim motivation channel .Alhamdulilah Allah helps me and i find you. Thank you for this creation ❤

[@StudyArmy-7]

I was feeling literally very depressed but after watching your video and listening your words I am feeling very better. I'm lucky that i found your channel. Thank you so much for sharing such great words with us. May Allah bless you Ameen ❤

[@anumahmed1422]

I truely appreciate u for exhibiting the islamic mindfulness. None of the muslim vloggers show any relation to namaz or Quran in their routines. U are v different. And optimistic soul❤

[@herfablife]

jazakallah

[@memesboys175]

​@@herfablifebeautiful view sister pindi mae kis area mae rhtii hn

[@memesboys175]

​@@herfablifeap sy personal baat ho sakti... Mae b pindi rhti hou

[@abdulrehmangaming5920]

G mery sath bhi hy kuch negative person me bhi bus khamosh rehti hon or kam karty howy fone pr koi tilawat lagadeti hon taky unki baten na sunni pary

[@MoajToha]

Tnx a lot ❤ mere sath bhi asa always bhi hota hain.apka solution mujhe medicine ki tarah kam kar gaya...now I'm not depressed...

[@ahassan8820]

Yes its true, bht sary log bht kch bol jaty hain magar jb ALLAH karta hy phr wo kesy kesybadal jaty hain.

[@mahamyaseen8050]

Apko Bolta sunti hon to lgta hy J sy mjy Meri ammi smjha rahi hyn
Apki videos mein woh sincerity or knowledge/ awareness hy Jo ghr Mein rehny wali khwateen K ly bht zrori hy..
Thank you so much for this

[@herfablife]

🤍🤍🤍

[@hasinakhatri8894]

Bahut ache suggestions hain. Sari zindgi aesi hi guzar gai. Jazakallah❤

[@herfablife]

Thx

[@Fashionwithneelam-is9lu]

Piyari bahin aap Jo chezen abi bata rahi ye mene baray dukh sehny k baad khud se hi seekhi . kaash aap ki ye video 10 saal pehly mili hotiy khair mene jab Allah se roro kar shikayat ki to Allah pak ny mujhe itni strength di ab mujhe kuch effect nhe hota Alhumdulillah

[@Dr.HafsaSaeed]

Bht dil dukha hua ta.. pta nahi kasy ye video samny aa gaye.. JazakAllah for this.. watched it twice .. just to absorb all these points..

[@buntybunty6585]

i apriciate you are spreading positivity ..good video .. namaz or Quran ko mazbooti sey pakrain but one thing sirf ibaadat karnay walay log hargiz achay nahi hotay ..jub tak un kay andar insaniyat or dilon mein narmi na ho ,
beyshumaar namazi hain jo umary bhi bey hisab kartay hain namaz nai chortay lekin insanon kay sath wo bilkul bhi achay nahi .. or khud ko ibaadaton ki base pay boht acha smjhtay hain .. sirf ibdat kay liye tou farishtay kafi they ..insan kay andar insaniyat hona bhi boht he zururi hai .. baaki well done

[@herfablife]

Agreed

[@lifewithima497]

Api❤❤first time apka vlog dekha or bht sakone Mila itni achi batoun sy❤ meny b try ki hy daily 1 page prhhna Quran ka❤ beshak life khud change hona start ho jti hy ❤ALLAH pak bhtr jawab deny waly hain

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@sarithalal3694]

Aap ne sahi bola negative people ko declutter karna chahiye. Me bhi pareshan hum aise people se.,maximum avoid those people thats better for our life . God bless you my sister....lots of love from Kerala . India

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@hawkeye2545]

As a woman I agree with your thought and I really appreciate you

[@herfablife]

Thank you 😊

[@recipeswithrehana2823]

Assalamualaikum aapi ..pechle vlogs me Maine comment Kiya tha ki aap namaz k bare me bhi dikhaye ...aaj ka video dekh ker bahot khushi hui ... InshAllah aapko dekhker bahot log namazi ban jayege...

[@authorspov-7151]

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa bharkathuhu didi. Assim alhakeem, islamic scholar says we can recite surah Mulk on daily basis to protect us from dajjal and surah Khaf every Jumma. I said this not to annoy you didi, you are really doing a great job by spreading positivity. In addition to that you can spread this message as well.

[@sali2423]

Ap ny bht decent way my ans kiya kisi ki counsling ki kisi ko help kiya really nice

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@sali2423]

@@herfablife ❤

[@farahaman2997]

I strongly appreciate your thoughts about negative people

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@muqeemqureshi949]

Allah aap ki umr lambo kare ap ki bato se mai bahot inspire hoti hoon.

[@herfablife]

Jazakallah dear

[@fizzyfizz9637]

Apki batein buht buht ziyada achi lagi h buht positivity meli h , ❤

[@lijaislam3049]

Very helpful motivation vlog tnq allah bless u ur inspired& motivativted all women to stay away from negetive people 🙂

[@herfablife]

Thanks for liking

[@ayeshasaleem2105]

Gud points dear is tarah Kay topics lay kr Aya krein...😊

[@herfablife]

zaroor

[@AyatMuslima]

Salam....1st time Apka vlog Dekha ....bohat Kamal ka bolti hen ap ......ya b sadqa E jaria Hai......bohat sy dukhi dilo ko sakoon mily Ga apki in bato sy

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@MrHashim-db6lp]

You are brave lady and well educated

[@Jahaan-e-Shahnaz]

Masha Allah aappie very informative video ur words healed almost my problems
In Sha Allah Allah Apko shifa de aur humesha khush rakhein lots of love from India❤❤❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊 for ur kind words

[@saimatahir4609]

AP BHT acha smjhati Han many ab apki videos dkhna start ki hyn BHT change Aya Hy Meri life ma

[@herfablife]

🩵🩵🩵

[@moonkhan12345]

Zaburdusttttttttt irum A vryyyyyy Bigggg salute nice vlog . Ap ki es tara ki vlogs sy mujay bohtttt hemat miltie hai May Allah pak blesss you and your Family

[@herfablife]

Thanks 😊

[@nazhomelifestyle1574]

Aese log sbki life may zarur hoty ha..hasad buht ha ajkl...may Tou apny husband or bacho pe focus rkhti Hun bs . Esy logo se Dua salam ki hd tk bat bs..

[@herfablife]

👍

[@lifewithima497]

Sary points Sy ase lg rha k ye video especially mery liye hu thi❤❤❤

[@bjs6394]

it's very helpful d.. yakin maniye me bahot si homemakers k videos dekhti hu, unme sabse best aap lagi muje, kyuki aap home rips k sath life changing ki b tips deti ho.. wo muje bahot pasand aayi.. abi 2 days huye muje videos dekhe or me dhundh dhundh k aapke hi videos dekh rahi hu....

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@ImuKhan-ox4ou]

MasahaAllah Allah Allah Pak hum walaikum assalam appi sabko namaaz padne ki tofiq ATA farmaye ameen summa ameen

[@palimeerub1515]

Ur every point is exactly right...by acting upon these we can easily handle this type of people....love ur voice ...jazak ALLAH itni piyari baten krny k lye❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you 😊

[@Indianshorts918]

Aslamalikum maam ajh rori thi bacche school say akeh pareshan thi teachers the they point my child and insulting infront of other kids today talked to principle he was also in fever with teachers.thode dereh gher akeh soneh koshish ki but needh nai then prayed namaz and cryed infront of allah after few moments i opened net while eating i saw this vedio.aap mere ek farishtha bankeh ayeh nasihath deyeh lots love from india

[@herfablife]

Awww . Dear . Don't get upset. Pray to Allah n motivate your kids. Nothing is impossible. N sub SE akhir Mai . Allah hai na 🩶🩶🩶🩶

[@salehaabbasi116]

Mashallah such a nice vlog ...myrie bohat si habits ap sey miltie Hain ...first to give importance khud ko and I love to see your vlog kindly mention my name in your next vlog love you

[@MaryemShahid]

Assalam o alikum, well said, Allah AP ko hamesha apni rhmmat k saye mi rkhy Ameen 😊 I know dear ❤

[@mubeenabbas4135]

mashsALLAH mashsALLAH ur soo positive person mashsALLAH love u aapi

[@cookingtips2908]

وعلــــیکم اســـلام ورحمـتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ ماشاءاللہ ہمیشہ خوش رہیں ڈئیر سس بیشک بہت اچھے ٹاپک پر آپ کے بات کی

[@herfablife]

Thanks 😊

[@asrafarrukh7259]

Maa shaa Allah ♥️ stay blessed 😊

[@farihaqasim3017]

Ap boht acha smjate hn m na kuchdin phla ap kee video dknee start kee hn Allah ap ko hush rka Ameen😊❤

[@aishakhan7535]

Jazakilah very informative❤

[@ziauddin1124]

Jzakallahu khair ma'am ...Allah pk shifa ata krn apko aameen

[@sheheryarshery]

Thanks for your advice.stay blessed

[@NKsGoodLife]

Very nice sister you said right isi waja sy meny apna vloging channel start kr dia apny time ko achy sy manage krny k liyea apny ap mi busy rhny k liyea thanks sister

[@Mirha789-u1m]

U r right negative people sa dur rehna chaiya

[@erumkhalid6552]

Thanks for sharing this beautiful thoughts. I need this positivity. I have negative ppl in my house. Stay blessed! Stay positive.

[@herfablife]

You are so welcome

[@knowledgeispower388]

MashAllah very nice vlog ❤....keep it up ....
Make more videos regarding this topic it really help me.....

[@herfablife]

Sure 😊

[@mehndibytara]

Assalamualaikum dear,ap ki batein bilkul Meri thinking ki Tarah hein,I really liked your vlog, Keep it up 👍🏻❤️

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@mehtabamjad8812]

Assalam o Allekum apky is vlog say bhoat logon ka bhala hua ho ga MashaAllah kitni duain laiti hain aap ❤khush raheye 🤲

[@herfablife]

Jazakallah

[@farhatrizwan9636]

Allah pak iska apko jaza e khair ata farmaye madam. . . Religious aspect💐

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@maleksuded545]

Thanks for this tips aapi... Bhot acchi bate banayi apne

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@eahaalkhan8047]

Aap yaqeen Karen main abhi apny husband se ye hi bat kr rahi thi...
Mjy family mein mery husband k Barry bahi ny kaha k tm hmary relatives mein nai jao gi
Believe me ma ny Allah py chora aaj main hairan hn k jis jaga mery rasty bund kiye gy wo aaj khud wahan na ja sakty hain na baith sakty hain.... main ny aaj kaha Allah bahut Barra ha . Ma ny us py chora tha roi bahut thi tension b li thi ... Lekan aaj ma khush hn lekan wo log tension mein .. Allah pak UN py reham kry .. Meri Dua ha .. ameen.

[@herfablife]

ameen.

[@Abdullah_productions]

Asslam u Alikum api meny aaj he apka velog dykha hai or mujhy apki positivity bohat passand ai hai I am glad k ap jesy log beh han duniya men itny positive thoughts rakhny waly i like you love you Api ❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@syedauzmashahid1620]

Assalamu aalekum Masha Allah you are a very positive person i love your way of taking

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot

[@mohdayan4959]

Assalamu alaikum baji apne to dil jeet liya itni achi bate krke❤🥰♥️ from India

[@herfablife]

w salam Thank you so much 😊

[@user-ov5wp2qc4s]

Assalamu alaikum sister mash Allah such refreshing vlog the religious advice was so good to hear and very important jazak Allah .❤

[@Jahaan-e-Shahnaz]

Walekumasalaam warehemtullahi wabarakatuhu

[@achatha6757]

API apki batain waqi hi bohat achi Hoti hain bohat help full Hoti hai

[@herfablife]

Thx dear

[@bublegumpink8549]

Asslaamalykum baji
Just started watching your channel
I find that you make so much sense
Love your videos
May Allah bless you with more success xx

[@herfablife]

Thanks and welcome

[@Shah-momin-c5c]

I'm watching your 2nd vlog nd I'm v.impress to you ma'am ..jzakillah

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@Pacific-o5m]

You are really a great lady...I have no words to say.... superb advises..... please keep it up....

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot 😊

[@ayshanasir7778]

May Allah bless you happy and healthy life🤲❤️

[@amararawoof8372]

Much much needed vlog.. JazakAllah khair ❤

[@haniakhan140]

bht motivation mili apk vlogs se aj. Thank u.

[@herfablife]

Thank you very much

[@KRISHANKUMAR-bt4is]

Aik dam right sabhi points

[@herfablife]

Thx

[@SofiaAurangzeb]

سب لوگ دعا کریں کہ اللہ پاک مجھے صحت نیک اور زندگی والی اولاد عطا کریں اور اللہ پاک میری تمام تر مشکلیں پریشانیاں رکاوٹیں دور فرماےء پلیز

[@salmanasrin1452]

Thank you ❤️ Allah blessed you

[@farahaman2997]

May Allah pak give u a healthy life Ameen..stay blessed

[@herfablife]

aameen

[@kamranslifestyle1286]

Allah pak apko sehut de tundrusty de shifa de . Bhen ap mere liye be dua nimaz main kiya karen main kidney transplantation ka patients hoon

[@herfablife]

I ll in sha Allah

[@walk_pray_preach_1]

Sahi pehchana hai ap ne negative ppl ko aur aik baat hai namaz aur Quran ko famous honey k liye ya log use kertey hain ...

[@herfablife]

👍

[@SrsSultan]

Tumari bath sachme sahi hai inshallah❤😊

[@saimairfannasiri1211]

Mashallah Erum, another very pertinent vlog. I will download this and listen to it again and again, Inshallah

[@herfablife]

Thank you again

[@manahainoorwalipartySG123]

Ma hum download KO.

[@RakhshandaKashif-hp1xh]

Thanks for sharing good talks

[@hamza-ow3ub]

Mujy aap ki yeh video itni pasand ha . Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

[@khurramabbasi1415]

Happy to see your religious aspect in your v log

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@kiranaqil923]

Awesome words stay healthy.
Ur talk gives really energy and positivity.

[@herfablife]

Thanks 😊

[@tahirimran6973]

Thank u soooo much mam. U made my life easy, and motivated me alot

[@herfablife]

My pleasure 😊

[@niazkhan4387]

G han apke aaj ka vlog mere liye to bohat helpful tha, apne jo points bataye in me se kuch to me use kar chuki hu or kuch ab use karu gi..me joint family me rehti hu or meri 4 jethaniyan hain jabke mere saas sasur ab hayat nahi hain lakin ye 4ron bohat hasid hain or negative bi hain...Allah apko shifah de.Ameen, do din apka vlog nahi aya to me samajh gai thi ke apko bukhar hoga ku k apne washroom saaf kiya tha or apke kapre zyada der geele the, me bi jab washroom saaf karti hu to mujhe bukhaar ho jata ha..bs ap mujhe bi apni dua me yaad rakhna..Allah mujhe apna alag ghar de.Ameen

[@herfablife]

Aameen

[@ShayanKhan-lv6mv]

Hi sis best vidio you read quran .i.m.ur new viewer
from peshwer shayan ki amii.

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@laxmianandanathan6854]

Hello sis , love from India 🎉. Even though I'm not Muslim I feel so connected to your thoughts and advice. Thank you so much

[@herfablife]

Honored dear

[@ZaruhZaruh-jz3hd]

Apka topic bre maze k hoty really maza ata mai b apny channel pr krungi discuss❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@herfablife]

Jazakallah

[@snuser-.--]

Assamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu sis bahut hi achi baatein bataiye apne jazakallahu khairan ❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@fatimazaidi9126]

Asllamallaykum sweet u Ideas my ideas Allah Tallah khushyain sahat taraqee day Ameen Summa Ameen

[@ummeraza5255]

First time watched you really very energetic n motivational person

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@famivlogs...7339]

so true. ❤️👍,n u hv a very natural style n so right..... but some really learn after expericing them.......... may some ppl really hv a bad life after living with toxic ppl........ wen u hv no chance.... but really needs to be download , jazakallah

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😀

[@hinazaffar1807]

Thank you so much dear ❤️ I saw 1st time your video.. it's so nice... May Allah Taala bless you... Aameen

[@lakhotiwalamahera6052]

Allah aapko tandurasti de sehatmand bana de aap bohot achchi bate batati hai

[@herfablife]

Aameen

[@junaidanwer3516]

Thanks for sharing heart touching words ur all points r right n affective Allah Pak apko shifa e kamla Ata Farme amin

[@herfablife]

It's my pleasure

[@karamatali8353]

Ap ki sari baty mujy bohat achi lagti ha ap k lay dil se dua🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@herfablife]

Aww jazakallah

[@Sanatani5434]

Aap bahut achi ho 🤗🤗down to earth

[@tazimhussain3802]

I love your advice it has really changed my life

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@ghuriakhurram3321]

Allah aap ko sahat atta keray Ameen

[@androygamingxYt]

Allah pak app ko hamasa khusrahai aur Allah pak app ko sahat aur tadrusti de Ameen 😆

[@zainkhan2925]

Baji aap ka bohat zayada shukariya aap ko nei pata aap ki ya tamam baty mery katna kaam ay ge Allah kush rahky aap ko m rooz aap ka vlog dahkte hu Allah aap ko achi sehat day Ameen aap ki ya tamam videoes bohat helpful sabat hu ge mery ly

[@herfablife]

Thanks 😊

[@FizaShaazVlogsGermany]

MashaAllah very nice sharing...i also follow same things to avoid nagitive people...but phir b some times milna perta hei eisy logoun sey😢

[@herfablife]

Thanks for liking

[@CookingwithNusrat879]

Thanks for sharing this beautiful thoughts.

[@herfablife]

Thanks for listening

[@CookingwithNusrat879]

@@herfablife kesi hn ap Allah pak apko sehat wali lambi zindgi de aammeen

[@khoobsuratvlogs431]

Aapne saari baaten mere dil ki kah di 😊

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@faizakhan2977]

Buhat buhat achi batain ki hai apne jazak Allah Khair

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@zahidsaleem5177]

Ma sha Allah bara ki Allah fekum Aaaaaameeen sum Aaaaaameeen 🤲🤲🤲

[@AYANAHMAD5137]

Zbrdst vlog bht achi baten ki hn 👍

[@herfablife]

mic

[@liveitsimple24]

Masha Allah .. ur content is ♥️

[@sanaaslam3411]

Love this topic ❤most needed ❤❤❤❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊