Tu siab tshaj os mog cas nim los ua neeg ib zaug los tsis hnov muaj nuj nqis..lub neej lam yuam tus kheej tu siab tag ib sim neej li os mog..ua neej ntshaw txoj kev hlub xwb..😭💔
Hopefully, we can learn from the past and change our children’s future. I’m teaching my daughter that she is strong, has value, and a purpose... she can be and do anything she can, no man will determine who you are and what you can do.
I don't blame this gma at all. Being force to be with someone you don't love, I can't imagine how long the days and nights must be. Breaks my heart listening to this gma wasted her life with no option to go back home. Why must our people do this to our gmas, mothers, and daughters? If others from another community treats our women this way, all the Hmong people in this world would stand up and protest. I agreed with her completely that this practice must stop and let's get rid of it once and for all.
This story is a great reminder that though my parent was very stricted and old fashioned they didn't forced any of my siblings and I to marry just anyone. This, I'm very fortunate, but my sympathy goes out to those who was married by forced. I've heard and known people personally that was forced married and i will never understand what they are feeling but I could only imagine that there is sadness and anger. I hope we can all learn from this, among the other old practices.
kj kua muag g poob, tab sis peb li poob2 rag zog, yeej ua neej tu siab nro. kuv yog kj mas kuv yuav kiag. thiab yuav ib ce nkaub ncaws xam kus rau koj tus qub mas lov.
Friends are Friends forever, but Friends don't force friends into this kind of relationship. We never lose friends, we just learn who our real ones are.
WOW to waste a whole lifetime and holding on to what could of have been. There is deep resentment and regret in her story, I like to say that making the best out of the situation is the key to your own happiness. Think of it as what if you would of married the man you loved, do you think that could of been the best outcome for you? After your fate changed, you lived your whole life around a memory or a wish that did not happen and kept yourself from happiness. That is self torture, it is too late now it seems but for the rest of your remaining life, I hope you are able to find some happiness and what are you looking for.
Tus me niam tsev awww! Nrog koj tu siab os! Hmoob txoj niag Kev cai ces yog QUAV DEV xwb os. Kuv twb tsis siv Hmoob txoj niag Kev cai quav dev no lawm. Yus yuav nyiam ua dabtsis los ua. Kuv ntseeg siab hais tias koj cov mivnyuam hnov lawv yeej yuav to taub koj lub neej tu siab npaum cas.
Nej cov laus thaum ub mas twb xav2 yv tus neeg koj nyiam lo tseem ua txoj thiab yog peb cov tsam no mas ntshe niam txwv npaum twg lo yeej txiv g tau has yu yeej nyiag tawm mus yuav tu yu nyiam lm kev hlub nyob ntawm yu nas cov laus nej mas pheej hais qhov mloog lus g muaj peev xwm li ces koj thiaj kob huam kev hlub lo mas
Tus mi niam tais aw hnov koj zaj dab neeg, pab hlub koj thiab koj tus hluas nraug neb kawg os. Cas hmoob txoj niag cai dev uas pheej muab pojniam saib tsis rau nqi yuav ntxim ntxub ua luaj. Thaum quab mas ho quab yuam tabsis thaum luag tsis hlub tus ntxhais ho tsis hais. Omg dhuav tiag2 li peb txoj thsum ub naj.
If the kids is disappointed at their mom, they don't deserve to be her children. They are sinners for she raised them alone. Her husband who forced married her, deserted her and married a second wife. The kids have the nerve to be mad. 😡
Ntxub cov niag neeg uas siab phem phem li ntawv txhua tus tsis hais rau daim av twg li os lawv aw!.. 11 xyoo lub dhau los kuv tau ib lub niag neej lwjsiab ntsuav li lub niag no, tu siab tshaj plaws 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 Rau yus txoj ntsuag no.. 2 lub xyoo tom qab hnub nws tawm plaws hauv kuv thiab kuv tus me tub wb lub neej mus mas yog ib yam uas hnov sib thiab zoo tshaj plaws li tabtxawm yus lub siab ntsws thiab lub neej twb khaub hlab tag lawm. Kuv cov me viv ncaus hmoob aws.. Peb txhob mloog mloog lus es tej laus thiaj tsis yuam peb yuav tug peb tsis paub lawm os mog..
koj txiv mas tseem2 tshaw nyiaj tiag2 li os koj txiv twb yuav luag muab kj niam muag lv thiab os tshaw nyiaj tshaj plaws li pab kj mob siab tus siab heev li os niam tias aw💔
OMG!! When the one she loved said "don't refill food in front of me. Even tho you refill, I don't have the apatite to eat, even if I eat I can't swallow" 😭😭😭😭😭 that was deep!
Wow, there's a story just like mine too, with a big twisted that she was his first wife, but still not gotten his love. Everything else is exactly without the love and the yearning to be loved! What a waste of a lifetime for us, aunty.😢😢😢
Wow..... I know exactly how she feels. You really can’t force yourself to love someone. Like she said, “don’t force your feet into shoes that don’t fit because it hurts.” That person can grow on you, but it’s not love. It is a pain to marry someone that you are not attracted to and put up with their sh*t. 🙋🏻♀️
Tus niam tais aw... txhob tos tej menyuam tuaj mloog hauv no mam li paub os vim tias muaj ntau tus tswv cov neej neeg zoo sib xws es lawv yuav ua cas paub tias yog koj. koj ces qhia kom lawv paub qhov tseeb thiaj nkag siab leej niam txoj kev lwj siab.
Cov nias niam txiv ntshaw2 nyiaj ces yug kav tsij mus yug cwb yuav quab yuam me tub me nyuam ua dab tsi qhuav tias2 hmoob txoj cai dab huam lwj quav dev
Koj lub neej zoo ib yam kuv lub thiab os me niam tais thaum kuv noog koj lub neej poob kuv lub kuas muag vim kuv raug quab yuam mus ua lub neej ib yam li koj thiab kuv kuj xav paub tias yog yug mus tau tus neeg ua yug hlub thiab nwg hlub yug ais lub neej ho zoo li ca os thiab ho muaj kiv kaj siab li ca kuv nim mus ua lub neej qi muag nti nrog kuv tus tsiv ua neej tsawm yug hlub nwg thiab tsi hlub lo ua twb ywm tsi tsoo tsog vim yug lub civ ntaj nrug los puas rau nwg tag lam yuam yug tus kheej los ua neej muaj tub muaj ntshais rau nwg tiam si lo tsog ib nrab neej nwg tseem mus tham poj nrauj tsi hlub yug thiab qhov ua kuv tu siab cais kuv tsua yog tu siab rau kuv niam kuv tsiv lm xwb yog tsi tim yug niam yug tsiv cais yug yeej tau tus neeg yug hlub lm ua ib siab os mog mem niam tais
This is so sad story! Tsi yog tim kj niam txiv tabsi yog tim peb cov ntxhai hmong thaum ub duam2 ces tsi paub tias zoo licas los yuav tsum yuav tus yus hlub.
Yog kawg os niam laus aw.... Cas hai tau tu siab ua luaj li ntiaj teb no g mj dab tsi yv tu sb ntshaj no yus niam yus txiv twb g hlub yus txij kawm Los tau g raws siab lo twb tseem g hlub yus thb yog lm o leej twg g nyb yus tus lej ces ntshe yj g paub os 😂😂😂😂😂
Kuv mas ntxub hmoob cov laus txoj cai no tshaj plaws li os. Dhuav kawg li.. hnov tej txoj neej li no mas chim kuv siab kawg even kuv tsi raug los kuv feel li twb yog kuv lawm thiab. 😡😡😡😡
Ahahhahah cov laus lub neej txheej thauv ntuas ntxhais mus ua neej ces yog ib co lus poob peev tsis muaj zoo ib lub tswv yim . Tsis muaj kev kawm. Tej menyuam lub neej thiaj nyob lwj siab ntsuav tsis muaj kev cia siab ua neej. Tsis tsim nyog yug los ua ib zaug neeg. Yug los xiam tiam ib tiam neeg .
Nov tsis yog pauv los yog kho Nas. Tsuas qhia tias lo Lus no yog qhov original spelling yog li ntawd xwb os. Go check with your parents or elders. Thanks
Awe... This story breaks my heart. To live a lifetime without the one you love while they are next to you. To be forced into a loveless marriage and still try to do the best you can.
xyov kuv mas kuv hais li no twb tsis tau tuag ned yog muaj npaum tus niam tsev no hais ces rov yuav 3 hnub xwb los yuav los pob yog muaj tseeb npaum li nws hais. tsis tas li xwb yus tus txiv los twb tuag lawm thiab ned. tuaj hais kom peb ntshav siab ua ab tsi lod
Me niam thais aw yus tsis tau tus yus hlub los ua ib siab MOG txhob tu siab txawm tau tus yus hlub los xyov puas txog qhov twg os peb tej peb tau tus yus hlub los twb pauv tsis ntxiv dab tsi thiab os ua neeg nyob ces yeej tsis zoo li siab xav li os 😂😂💞
Vim koj pheej ua ua cai koj thiaj plam koj tus hluas nraug ne, yus twb paub ua ntej lawm ces kav tsij qiv kauv txhais xwb ntag hos. Tseem tos kom luag los cab yus xwb ces kawg li ko xwb tiag tus niam tais.
It isn’t the fault of the husband. If you want to hate, then hate your parents, especially your Dad. Tsi yog koj tug txiv tsi hlub koj. Qhov tseeb yog koj yog tug tsi hlub koj tug txiv. Ib txhis koj yeej tsi hlub nwg. Koj lam nyob vim koj niam koj txib tsi tog txais koj. Qhov koj tug txiv yuav niam yau vim nwg yeej tsi tau txais kev hlub ntawm koj. Tug koj hlub tes lu lug xwb los koj yeej zoo siab tsi tu siab tabsi tug neej koj tsi hlub tes nwg hlub npaum ntuj los yeej muaj ib feeb rua koj. Yog npaum li koj ua ca koj ho tsi nrauj. Tug koj yuav chim yuav koj tsi txiv. Koj yuav rau txim tes koj rau txim rau koj txiv.
She has every right to hate her husband, he knew she doesn’t like him, but yet still marry her, a selfish bastard! If he value her feelings then he should of never marry her!
Hmoob txoj cai yeej zoo kawg tab sis kuv ntxub hmoob lub siab phem tus niag tub tsis zoo nraug lo coj mus zawj luag tu ntxhais zoo nkauj coj luag lo nyob lub neej ib nta ntuj...neeg lub neej mas dub tshaj plaws
Kuv mas ntxub cov niag laus thaum ub uas yuam tej ntxhais mus yuav tus tej ntxhais tsis nyiam thiab tsis hlub tsuas yog ntshaw lawv lub meej mom thiab ntshaw luag tej nyiaj es muab yus tej ntxhais muag yuav nyiaj xwb. Peb hmoob mas lub siab phem tshaj plaws li ntxub tshaj plaws lau koj txiv dev lim hiam ntawm ko es yog muab nws yuam yuav tus nws tsis nyiam seb nws puas kam yuav ma es ho muab koj yuam yuav kuv ces yeej tsis hlub li lawm ntag siab phem tag npaum li ntawv na.
koj txiv twb tia mu txob tuaj lawm no nev ua ca koj tseem nrog lawv rov tuaj saib koj txiv lawv thiab tej zaum koj ce lam hai xwb koj yeeb tsi chim yog koj chim tiag ce lawv txawm coj lo koj yeej tuaj yogtej niam tej txiv siab phem tag npaum li ntawd yog kuv ce kuv yeej tuaj kiag.
Wow 😯 sister, pab koj tu siab uas koj niam thiab txiv lawv cia li muab koj muag tuag yam tsi muaj ib qhov kev hlub koj hlo li. What a selfish parent. Tsis tag li xwb los tseem yuav dua tus tshiab es tso nej cov niam tub nyob tsis muaj kev pab yam tsim nyog li. 😡😡 thiab yog koj cov me nyuam tseem tu siab rau koj vim koj quaj tsi tau rau lawv txiv ces nkim zog tiag2, hais kom lawv cias li mus yuav ib tug uas lawv tsis tau hlub tsis nyiam li saib lawv ho xav li cas. Koj lub neej tiam no tsi tsim nyog hlo li. 😂😂😂
This is how the dumb people do things and qhuab ntua ntxhais mus ua neej. I heard one old man qhuab ntua ntxhais, He said go be a good wife but if they are thief don't be a thief like them because we are good people. If they are lazy, don't be a lazy person because we are not lazy people.
I agree. I’ve been married forever and I don’t take marriage advice from any OGs and middle aged Hmong ppl who are still married and are serial cheaters towards their SO or be having 2/3 wives and not divorcing them.
STOP the secrecy! It's you and your boyfriend's own fault. If you and BF comes out and tell the truth from the start that you guys are already in love, it would probably have a different outcome.
Ib tsoom me ntxhais hmoob yug los yog ib tug ntxais ce niam thiab txiv yeej tsi hlub pes tsawg li os yus yeem tsi yeem los lawv tsua ua li lawv lub siab xwb ntxim ntxub kawg
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Tu siab tshaj os mog cas nim los ua neeg ib zaug los tsis hnov muaj nuj nqis..lub neej lam yuam tus kheej tu siab tag ib sim neej li os mog..ua neej ntshaw txoj kev hlub xwb..😭💔
Tu siab tshaj plaws ua raug niam txiv quab yuam mus yuav tus neeg yus g tau hl, laj2 ua lub neej mus kom txog hnuv kawg
Hopefully, we can learn from the past and change our children’s future. I’m teaching my daughter that she is strong, has value, and a purpose... she can be and do anything she can, no man will determine who you are and what you can do.
I agree! I said the same to my daughter. Daughters need to know their worthy are equally to the sons.
Txoj niag cai raug yuam no mas sim neej no tu siab lwj siab dhuav siab txom nyem siab ntsws tag ib txhis txog hnub tuag.
Zoo siab uas peb tau tuaj nyob USA no lawm tsis muaj Leej twg yuam tau peb lawm
Niam ntsuab teev kj hais tau zoo heev li os
Oh the pain of being forced married. My heart goes out to you sister. May you find happiness and love within yourself, sister. Prayers
Hmoob old people really like money never care about a daughter who care about they life
I don't blame this gma at all. Being force to be with someone you don't love, I can't imagine how long the days and nights must be. Breaks my heart listening to this gma wasted her life with no option to go back home. Why must our people do this to our gmas, mothers, and daughters? If others from another community treats our women this way, all the Hmong people in this world would stand up and protest. I agreed with her completely that this practice must stop and let's get rid of it once and for all.
This story is a great reminder that though my parent was very stricted and old fashioned they didn't forced any of my siblings and I to marry just anyone. This, I'm very fortunate, but my sympathy goes out to those who was married by forced.
I've heard and known people personally that was forced married and i will never understand what they are feeling but I could only imagine that there is sadness and anger. I hope we can all learn from this, among the other old practices.
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Vim koj txiv txom txom nyem pluag pluag tsis muaj nqaij nrog luag noj thiaj li muab koj muag li tus ntiaj.
Kua muag tsis poob vim tsis muaj kev hlub muaj tseeb22 li os.
Yog lawm os👍
kj kua muag g poob, tab sis peb li poob2 rag zog, yeej ua neej tu siab nro. kuv yog kj mas kuv yuav kiag. thiab yuav ib ce nkaub ncaws xam kus rau koj tus qub mas lov.
Friends are Friends forever, but Friends don't force friends into this kind of relationship. We never lose friends, we just learn who our real ones are.
Koj muaj cai xaiv koj lub neej tabsis koj yeej xaiv lub neej no
Tu neeg us g hlub lv g hlub us lo us yeej g tu siab li kv yg ib tus thb o vimncawm
Koj nim txiv muab koj muag nyiaj thaum kon muaj nyiaj lawm cais koj zoo zoo siab
Zoo hv
Hmoob lub neej qub2 tusiab tshaj plawv....dab2 tuag los lub siab tseem phem ib yam lub ntsej muag thiab. Niam txiv ntshaws nyiaj thiab meej mom xwb tsis paub hlub cov ntxhais li....
WOW to waste a whole lifetime and holding on to what could of have been. There is deep resentment and regret in her story, I like to say that making the best out of the situation is the key to your own happiness. Think of it as what if you would of married the man you loved, do you think that could of been the best outcome for you? After your fate changed, you lived your whole life around a memory or a wish that did not happen and kept yourself from happiness. That is self torture, it is too late now it seems but for the rest of your remaining life, I hope you are able to find some happiness and what are you looking for.
Sim neej no yus tus hluas nkauj los ua yus Niam tij.. los yog niam ntxawm mas tu siab ib sim neej li o
Tus me niam tsev awww! Nrog koj tu siab os! Hmoob txoj niag Kev cai ces yog QUAV DEV xwb os. Kuv twb tsis siv Hmoob txoj niag Kev cai quav dev no lawm. Yus yuav nyiam ua dabtsis los ua. Kuv ntseeg siab hais tias koj cov mivnyuam hnov lawv yeej yuav to taub koj lub neej tu siab npaum cas.
Hmoob tej kev cai quav dev no siv g tau tsam no peb g siv lm peb muab luv lab tag lm o vim muab saib lo g muaj qab ntxhiab
Cas koj tsis Piav koj txoj kev tu siab ntawm niam txiv txij nkawm thiab niamtxiv yug rau peb mloog os me niam tsev.
This is a very sad story and I feel so bad to all the Hmong women that couldn’t even have right to marry the person they love.
Nej cov laus thaum ub mas twb xav2 yv tus neeg koj nyiam lo tseem ua txoj thiab yog peb cov tsam no mas ntshe niam txwv npaum twg lo yeej txiv g tau has yu yeej nyiag tawm mus yuav tu yu nyiam lm kev hlub nyob ntawm yu nas cov laus nej mas pheej hais qhov mloog lus g muaj peev xwm li ces koj thiaj kob huam kev hlub lo mas
You’re such a good person not to cheat on your husband and so kind to take care of the second wife’s kids.
👍👍👍 ua tau zoo kawg li lawm os koj ua no na kuv los yeej tsis quaj ib yam os 👍
Thaum twg los koj tsis kam, koj yeej tsis hlub kuv tiag, es ua ib siab os tus kuv hlub.
I hate our elders...peb Hmoob mas yeej zoo li no thank God we are not in Laos..
We acknowledge and move on for a better tomorrow.
You hate yourself, by hating your elders. Look at the middle age adults now days. Who are they blaming?
Nkag siab thiab to taub koj hais os. Yog lam ua lub neej , lam koom lub npe xwb tsis muaj kev hlub tsis muaj kua muag os. Yog leej twg tsis to taub lo lus no es xav tias ntshe siab phem tabsis vim ib txwm yus yeej tsis muaj thiab tsis tau txoj kev hlub ces yeej tsis muaj qhov mob siab es yuav poob kua muag os lawv aw.
Tua kiag koj txiv pov tseg rau ntiaj teb paub. Yog koj txiv tuag, koj niam tuag tawv qhawv txhob tuaj ua hauv qhua thiaj yog qhov koj niam koj txiv xav tau. Ua hauv qhua los tsis zoo dab tsi.
Tus viv ncaus aw koj sab khau ces kuv twb tau rau lawm thiab mas.
Tus mi niam tais aw hnov koj zaj dab neeg, pab hlub koj thiab koj tus hluas nraug neb kawg os. Cas hmoob txoj niag cai dev uas pheej muab pojniam saib tsis rau nqi yuav ntxim ntxub ua luaj. Thaum quab mas ho quab yuam tabsis thaum luag tsis hlub tus ntxhais ho tsis hais. Omg dhuav tiag2 li peb txoj thsum ub naj.
Tu siab tag tiam no vim tej laug xwb puag tag ib swm
If the kids is disappointed at their mom, they don't deserve to be her children. They are sinners for she raised them alone. Her husband who forced married her, deserted her and married a second wife. The kids have the nerve to be mad. 😡
Ib feem ntawm cov ntxhais yeej tsis tau txais kev ncaj ncees li lam ua neej xiam tiam kom tag tiam no xwb. Nrog koj tu siab rau koj txiv kawg li.
Ntxub cov niag neeg uas siab phem phem li ntawv txhua tus tsis hais rau daim av twg li os lawv aw!..
11 xyoo lub dhau los kuv tau ib lub niag neej lwjsiab ntsuav li lub niag no, tu siab tshaj plaws 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 Rau yus txoj ntsuag no..
2 lub xyoo tom qab hnub nws tawm plaws hauv kuv thiab kuv tus me tub wb lub neej mus mas yog ib yam uas hnov sib thiab zoo tshaj plaws li tabtxawm yus lub siab ntsws thiab lub neej twb khaub hlab tag lawm.
Kuv cov me viv ncaus hmoob aws..
Peb txhob mloog mloog lus es tej laus thiaj tsis yuam peb yuav tug peb tsis paub lawm os mog..
koj txiv mas tseem2 tshaw nyiaj tiag2 li os koj txiv twb yuav luag muab kj niam muag lv thiab os tshaw nyiaj tshaj plaws li pab kj mob siab tus siab heev li os niam tias aw💔
Kuv los yeej ntxhub xov niag niam txiv muab menyuam sib yuam yuav uake os!!! Zoo lawv siab tiamsis ob tug menyuam ua neej lwj siab tu siab mob siab xav tuag txhua lub caij xwb!! Shit dhau hmoob txoj niag kev yuam no muab tso tseg nyog dhau lawm nawb!!!
OMG!! When the one she loved said "don't refill food in front of me. Even tho you refill, I don't have the apatite to eat, even if I eat I can't swallow" 😭😭😭😭😭 that was deep!
This is such a heart broken story.
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Wow, there's a story just like mine too, with a big twisted that she was his first wife, but still not gotten his love. Everything else is exactly without the love and the yearning to be loved! What a waste of a lifetime for us, aunty.😢😢😢
Wow..... I know exactly how she feels. You really can’t force yourself to love someone. Like she said, “don’t force your feet into shoes that don’t fit because it hurts.” That person can grow on you, but it’s not love. It is a pain to marry someone that you are not attracted to and put up with their sh*t. 🙋🏻♀️
I know lots of couples like that, but never know how they feel. Now its helps.
@@art2hlub yeah, many lead to Stockholm Syndrome and it’s very sad.
@@MissPeachie bad relationship change good people.
Tus niam tais aw... txhob tos tej menyuam tuaj mloog hauv no mam li paub os vim tias muaj ntau tus tswv cov neej neeg zoo sib xws es lawv yuav ua cas paub tias yog koj. koj ces qhia kom lawv paub qhov tseeb thiaj nkag siab leej niam txoj kev lwj siab.
Cov nias niam txiv ntshaw2 nyiaj ces yug kav tsij mus yug cwb yuav quab yuam me tub me nyuam ua dab tsi qhuav tias2 hmoob txoj cai dab huam lwj quav dev
Cas yuav ntxim ntxub ua luag os hmoob aw!!. Cov niag niam thiab cov niag txiv ua ntshaw nyiaj ntshaw nqaij noj cas yuav dhuav ua luag.
Koj lub neej zoo ib yam kuv lub thiab os me niam tais thaum kuv noog koj lub neej poob kuv lub kuas muag vim kuv raug quab yuam mus ua lub neej ib yam li koj thiab kuv kuj xav paub tias yog yug mus tau tus neeg ua yug hlub thiab nwg hlub yug ais lub neej ho zoo li ca os thiab ho muaj kiv kaj siab li ca kuv nim mus ua lub neej qi muag nti nrog kuv tus tsiv ua neej tsawm yug hlub nwg thiab tsi hlub lo ua twb ywm tsi tsoo tsog vim yug lub civ ntaj nrug los puas rau nwg tag lam yuam yug tus kheej los ua neej muaj tub muaj ntshais rau nwg tiam si lo tsog ib nrab neej nwg tseem mus tham poj nrauj tsi hlub yug thiab qhov ua kuv tu siab cais kuv tsua yog tu siab rau kuv niam kuv tsiv lm xwb yog tsi tim yug niam yug tsiv cais yug yeej tau tus neeg yug hlub lm ua ib siab os mog mem niam tais
So sad... poor lady.. 😭
This is so sad story! Tsi yog tim kj niam txiv tabsi yog tim peb cov ntxhai hmong thaum ub duam2 ces tsi paub tias zoo licas los yuav tsum yuav tus yus hlub.
Yog kawg os niam laus aw.... Cas hai tau tu siab ua luaj li ntiaj teb no g mj dab tsi yv tu sb ntshaj no yus niam yus txiv twb g hlub yus txij kawm Los tau g raws siab lo twb tseem g hlub yus thb yog lm o leej twg g nyb yus tus lej ces ntshe yj g paub os 😂😂😂😂😂
Hmoob need to change for the future! Hmoob qhov 12, 24, 36 is nothing when divorce. Smh
Poor gladma we're feel your pain what's waisted of your like without love
Kuv mas ntxub hmoob cov laus txoj cai no tshaj plaws li os. Dhuav kawg li.. hnov tej txoj neej li no mas chim kuv siab kawg even kuv tsi raug los kuv feel li twb yog kuv lawm thiab. 😡😡😡😡
Ahahhahah cov laus lub neej txheej thauv ntuas ntxhais mus ua neej ces yog ib co lus poob peev tsis muaj zoo ib lub tswv yim . Tsis muaj kev kawm. Tej menyuam lub neej thiaj nyob lwj siab ntsuav tsis muaj kev cia siab ua neej. Tsis tsim nyog yug los ua ib zaug neeg. Yug los xiam tiam ib tiam neeg .
Cas yuav nrog koj tu siab ua luaj
These traditional OGs, what do they even know about love? They married for all the wrong reasons.
Ask you parents 🤣
@@solomoua5520 hehehe my mama says "lam yuav xwb os" 🤣😅😂
@@lovejesus3824 lol
Cas tu siab ua luaj li os niam tais aw. I don't know how you guys can cope with this kind of secret love! Feel soooo sorry for you and your xbf!
Another young life wasted with someone they don't love.
Zaj neej neeg no mas ua rau kuv ntxub cov niag laus 75 ua luaj
Lo lus mej koob yeej siv tau lawm, tab sis kom meej tiag ces yog hais tias: meej koob. Thanks
Yog ua cas nej pheej xav muab lus hmoob pauv li ub li no nas? Hmoob ib txwm siv li cas ces siv li ntawv xwb thiaj yog
Nov tsis yog pauv los yog kho Nas. Tsuas qhia tias lo Lus no yog qhov original spelling yog li ntawd xwb os. Go check with your parents or elders. Thanks
Awe... This story breaks my heart. To live a lifetime without the one you love while they are next to you. To be forced into a loveless marriage and still try to do the best you can.
xyov kuv mas kuv hais li no
twb tsis tau tuag ned yog muaj npaum tus niam tsev no hais ces rov yuav 3 hnub xwb los yuav los pob yog muaj tseeb npaum li nws hais.
tsis tas li xwb yus tus txiv los twb tuag lawm thiab ned.
tuaj hais kom peb ntshav siab ua ab tsi lod
Poj niam mas xyov thaum xub mas tsis pub chwv tab sis thaum chwv tau lawm mas me nyuam tuab ntws
Me niam thais aw yus tsis tau tus yus hlub los ua ib siab MOG txhob tu siab txawm tau tus yus hlub los xyov puas txog qhov twg os peb tej peb tau tus yus hlub los twb pauv tsis ntxiv dab tsi thiab os ua neeg nyob ces yeej tsis zoo li siab xav li os 😂😂💞
So terribly sad for her. Did her parents become rich because of her marriage I wondered. They just sold her.
I can't stand old hmong people arrange marriage!
Cov niag neeg tsa ntuas li ko ces cob cov txhais kom tss Txhob tsim txhiaj xwb os
Vim koj pheej ua ua cai koj thiaj plam koj tus hluas nraug ne, yus twb paub ua ntej lawm ces kav tsij qiv kauv txhais xwb ntag hos. Tseem tos kom luag los cab yus xwb ces kawg li ko xwb tiag tus niam tais.
At one point her ex bf came to get her but she didn’t go, that’s not to blame on her husband
Don't we glad, we are in that era?
Such a heart aches and sad story.😔😪
This story is so similar to one that I know 😢
It isn’t the fault of the husband. If you want to hate, then hate your parents, especially your Dad. Tsi yog koj tug txiv tsi hlub koj. Qhov tseeb yog koj yog tug tsi hlub koj tug txiv. Ib txhis koj yeej tsi hlub nwg. Koj lam nyob vim koj niam koj txib tsi tog txais koj. Qhov koj tug txiv yuav niam yau vim nwg yeej tsi tau txais kev hlub ntawm koj. Tug koj hlub tes lu lug xwb los koj yeej zoo siab tsi tu siab tabsi tug neej koj tsi hlub tes nwg hlub npaum ntuj los yeej muaj ib feeb rua koj. Yog npaum li koj ua ca koj ho tsi nrauj. Tug koj yuav chim yuav koj tsi txiv. Koj yuav rau txim tes koj rau txim rau koj txiv.
She has every right to hate her husband, he knew she doesn’t like him, but yet still marry her, a selfish bastard! If he value her feelings then he should of never marry her!
Hmoob txoj cai yeej zoo kawg tab sis kuv ntxub hmoob lub siab phem tus niag tub tsis zoo nraug lo coj mus zawj luag tu ntxhais zoo nkauj coj luag lo nyob lub neej ib nta ntuj...neeg lub neej mas dub tshaj plaws
That’s a pretty sad story. I hope she can still fall in love with someone else at an older age.
Kuv mas ntxub cov niag laus thaum ub uas yuam tej ntxhais mus yuav tus tej ntxhais tsis nyiam thiab tsis hlub tsuas yog ntshaw lawv lub meej mom thiab ntshaw luag tej nyiaj es muab yus tej ntxhais muag yuav nyiaj xwb. Peb hmoob mas lub siab phem tshaj plaws li ntxub tshaj plaws lau koj txiv dev lim hiam ntawm ko es yog muab nws yuam yuav tus nws tsis nyiam seb nws puas kam yuav ma es ho muab koj yuam yuav kuv ces yeej tsis hlub li lawm ntag siab phem tag npaum li ntawv na.
Niam txiv ruam los txoj kev cai ruam thiab thiaj zoo li no. Tiam 21 nyob America sim seb mas? Cov hwj txwv ntsuab yeej yuav tshee mos nyoos xwb mas. Hmoob cov niag kev cai ruam zoo li cov tsiaj xwb. Kuv yog hmoob kuv pab hmoob txaj muag.
Soooo sad😭😭
koj txiv twb tia mu txob tuaj lawm no nev ua ca koj tseem nrog lawv rov tuaj saib koj txiv lawv thiab tej zaum koj ce lam hai xwb koj yeeb tsi chim yog koj chim tiag ce lawv txawm coj lo koj yeej tuaj yogtej niam tej txiv siab phem tag npaum li ntawd yog kuv ce kuv yeej tuaj kiag.
Hmoob OG are so old school always force daughter or son to married the one they don’t love.
Wow 😯 sister, pab koj tu siab uas koj niam thiab txiv lawv cia li muab koj muag tuag yam tsi muaj ib qhov kev hlub koj hlo li. What a selfish parent. Tsis tag li xwb los tseem yuav dua tus tshiab es tso nej cov niam tub nyob tsis muaj kev pab yam tsim nyog li. 😡😡 thiab yog koj cov me nyuam tseem tu siab rau koj vim koj quaj tsi tau rau lawv txiv ces nkim zog tiag2, hais kom lawv cias li mus yuav ib tug uas lawv tsis tau hlub tsis nyiam li saib lawv ho xav li cas. Koj lub neej tiam no tsi tsim nyog hlo li. 😂😂😂
Vim kev hlu noj tsis tau ne yod ?
Hmong old people are like that get your daughter married someone she didn't love him why?
Those are the old days only...now kids are a lot smarter. Cops are just around the corner. Lol..
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Force marriage is one of the worst traditions in our culture. Im sure it's still happening in laos...
Old hmong people don't understand your daughter didn't like him bad father and mother 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎
Piastauzooheej
Hahaha....! Tsis yog ntuas ntxhais os.
Nws yog dag neeg xwb.
Koj txiv los xuaj li aub...
I hate Hmong and their force marriages. Allow the kids to marry the one they love. Such a sad story
This is how the dumb people do things and qhuab ntua ntxhais mus ua neej. I heard one old man qhuab ntua ntxhais, He said go be a good wife but if they are thief don't be a thief like them because we are good people. If they are lazy, don't be a lazy person because we are not lazy people.
It's funny how OG with their own jack up life style have the audacity to lecture about life or force marriage on people.
I agree. I’ve been married forever and I don’t take marriage advice from any OGs and middle aged Hmong ppl who are still married and are serial cheaters towards their SO or be having 2/3 wives and not divorcing them.
Niam ntsuab teev koj txais kuv tom fb og niam ntsuab teev kuv tug fb hu tias tsab ci lab kuv ua phooj ywg tuaj rau koj lawm og
STOP the secrecy! It's you and your boyfriend's own fault. If you and BF comes out and tell the truth from the start that you guys are already in love, it would probably have a different outcome.
Even if she told her parent that wouldn't change. Her husband will torture her more if he knew. Look, he end up niamyau anyway.
TEJ LAUS THAUD YEEJ XUAJ 2, LAWV XAV TIAS LAWV YOG NIAM THIAB TXIV CES LAWV MUAJ 2 PLHUS, YUS YOG NYUAM XWB YUS TSIS MUAJ IB NYUAG QHO CAI, HMOOB MAS THIAJ TXAWJ RUAM, RUAM TAG LOS RUAM DUA, RUAM, RUAM, RUAM, THIAJ NTUAS TEJ LUS RUAM RAU TEJ TUB TEJ NTXHAIS MUS UA NEEJ, YOG KOJ TUS TXIV QIAS TSIS HLUB KOJ, KUJ QHIA RAU KOJ NIAM NKAWD TIAS NWS TSIS HLUB KOJ ES NKAWD PUAS ZOO SIAB NO MAS
Nyob zoo og
Thaum tseem hluas raug quab yuam, es thaun laus twb tsis muaj neeg yuam pog nyob ne?
Cov txiv yawg uas yuam yuav pojniam rau tub ces yog lawv nqhis tus of pojniam ntawd heev es xav yuav rau tus kheej tiam sis ua txuj yuav rau tub xwb. Eiwwww 😬🤢
Thaub twb muab pog ua hauv hlwb txaus nkaus lawm.
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Cov mi txiv neej uas nyiam nyiam mus zij poj niam hmloog kom zoo zoo mag poj niam ntxub mus txog hnoob tuag tuag twb tsis guaj vim yog ntxub dhau kev hwv lawm .
Thiab cov niag niam txiv dev uas pheej muab ntxhais muag noj kom nrog paub nej txoj kev phem muag ntxhais noj thiab ov . Muab lawv muag tas lawv tsis txsus siab rau nej txog hnoob tuag nawb
Ib tsoom me ntxhais hmoob yug los yog ib tug ntxais ce niam thiab txiv yeej tsi hlub pes tsawg li os yus yeem tsi yeem los lawv tsua ua li lawv lub siab xwb ntxim ntxub kawg