Muaj tseb tiag peb txhua tus ua niam ces yeej muaj tib txoj kev ntawv peb tej me tub me nyuam os, ua tsaug os niam ntsuab teev, koj hais tau zoo heev li os...
It's so sad that we take things for granted and don't appreciate those who loves us while they are still here. Life is indeed so short and time doesn't stop for anyone. I've also lost my beloved in-laws to a tragic fire and when my graduation day, it was so difficult. It was suppose to be a happy and celebratory day but I constantly search for them in the crowd especially looking for my father-in-law. He was my #1 cheerleader, my rock, and my inspiration to continue my college education. Many times I wanted to give up but when I think about him, he kept me going. One more semester left in my degree when I lost them both. I had so many plans of what I want to do with them and many places I want to take them too, now it's too late. Thanks for sharing this heart warming story as so many of us can relates.
Both of my parents are still alive but they don't care about anyone but themselves. It's really sad. I do envy those who have wonderful loving parents but sometimes their kids treat them disrespectfully. That's also sad too. 😒
My mom says "you don't know how much your parents love you until you have your own children." That's true. Love your parents now, for as we're growing, they're getting older as well. Hlub thaum tseem muaj txoj sia nyob nawb.
Pab koj tu siab uas koj niam koj txiv ncaim tag lawm.. txhob tu tu siab thiab es yus thiaj xav ua neej ua neeg mog vim muaj nkawv koj thiaj kawm tag qib siab muaj lub meej mom zoo os nawb..
@@MrsLee-mb1zg At times moms are crazy too, due to what's going on in their life at the time. But pls never feel bad about it because I believed they love us all the same.
Sister, it is not your fault your mother died. Your mom had a heart problem. You were the youngest and she loved you so much. Move on with your life. Sometimes it take a tragic to change someone or a situation. Your mother is your strength and your rock. A mother's love is greater than anything.
Don’t be so hard on yourself. Events that happened in the past is the past. Take comfort in your love ones at the moment, so there will be no regrets in the future. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
A great lesson to love our parents no matter what. You won’t regret when you give love while they are alive. Both my parents and in-laws have died and when my children receive their college degrees or gets a celebratory job promotion, I search for my parents’ faces to ask if they see - how proud they would be of their grand children - that their difficult life in Laos, journey bringing me, and the life I live - is to honor them and it was all worth it.
Be proud. I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you my hmong sister!! Tsis txob tu siab, there’s a saying that your parents kav yus loj xwb tsis kav yus laus. This is the cycle of life. But I understand and completely know your pain. Losing parents hurts everyone differently, but as the baby of the family, it hurts us a lot more than most. I lost my father 10 years ago, and as the baby, I was very lost and hurt for a long time, in fact, I still hurt today, and I don’t think it will ever get any better. This is what I say to people: The pain doesn’t go away, the hurt doesn’t get better, we don’t get over it, this kind of pain, Time doesn’t mend it....... we just eventually learn to live with the pain. You should just be thankful that your mother and father are the inspiration and the driving force that got you to where you are today. Just be happy that your mothers love is what got you your doctorate. Maybe if she was around for another 10+ years, you might have never gotten that far in education. So be happy for what you have, hurt for what you’ve lost, but most importantly, love the ones you can still love.
Muaj tsawg2 kawg li os uas tau ib leejtxiv uas paub qabhau es tiv thaiv tau nws ntiag tug rov los rau nws cov me nyuam li no koj txiv ua yog lawm yus lub neej txhob cia poob mus rau sab nraud poob rau yus tej menyuam li no yog lawm
Ua ntsuag thaum loj loj twb txawj pab tus kheej lawm tsis tus siab npaum li peb cov ua ntsuag thaum me me raug luag ntaus raug luag tsim luag lub khauj tsiav nyob rawv saum yus lub taub hau haj yam tu siab tshaj o
I agree with you. Some people (not all) in here act like they were innocent (like angels) when they were teenagers. Like you said, I'm sure a lot of us did more or less the same like the daughter in this story. People make good and bad choices in their life as teenagers. -- I'm sure if she knew that her mom was going to leave like that then she would've spent more time with her mom. All of us would have done the same.
Don't blame yourself for the death of your mom completely, because maybe it was time to go. However, I don't have much sympathy for bad kids but I'm glad you found your strength though it all. Consider yourself blessed.
It’s a very touching story but remember there’s a ripple effects in everything we do. So glad you found the strength in your mom to become who you are today.
It's not your fault so sister do not blame yourself. I am happy that you have great in laws and a happy family. I am sure your parents are watching over you and are proud of the person you have become.
Your father shouldn't blamed you because it's not your fault your mother died. Every mother is worried about their children regardless. I am glad you saw your mother's love for you. As teenagers we are young and dumb and just tend to disobey our parents but it doesn't mean we don't love them. I feel sorry for your father but at least he knew your stepmother didn't love him and was only in for the money. God bless you.
Tus me ntxhais aw yus niam tuag tas ces yeej tsis muaj leej twg noog yus moo lawm os mog peb cov nov twb Laus tag lawm los tseem nco yus niam tshaj nawb
It’s not your fault sister, you’re a good person. Wherever your parents are, I’m sure they’re watching over you. What’s most important now is that you still have your family and siblings who loves you. Stay strong sister.❤️
Very sad story, this is a burden that you will have to carry for the rest of your life but in return live your life and make sure you raised your kids well.
Zoo kawg tau nyab Dr tab sis tu siab rau cov nyab tiam 21 zoo li tau ib lub kua txob coj los pleev niam pog txiv yawg lub qhov muag mus txog hnub niam pog txiv yawg mus nyob qab nyom lawm thiab os mog
Ohhh, sister :( Please do not blame yourself for your mom's death. We are all teenagers & some of us made made choices we are not happy with. Some of us are more stubborn than others. Some of us do ridiculous, regrettable things. ETC. Everyone's life, especially teenage years are different. But maybe professional therapy will help you with some unresolved issues prior to your mom's passing & how it has affected you to this day. I hope the burden will be lifted off you by the help of a professional because it's from an unbiased perspective. Allowing ourselves to heal will take time, but I believe will make us better parents along with a better understand of ourselves. Congrats on all your accomplishments, school, career, personal life, and your beautiful children. May you stay blessed.
Even though it ultimately wasn't your fault for your mother's death, you did played a small part of your mothers' stress and health deterioration. Teenagers will also be teenagers, but that doesn't justify their action of acting like careless children. Wish you the best Sister!
Unfortunately, we can’t change the pass. That’s the way of life. Life is too short, love your husband, your in laws, your kids and your family. Life is about constantly learning from our mistakes. Just look at it from another view, if your mother didn’t die, you probably would of got married young and your life would be a lot different.
Cas yuav tawv ncauj ua luaj. Txawv koj niam nyob los koj yeej yuav koj tus txiv ntawm ko ces koj niam yeej tsis zoo siab. Li nws hais os, cia nws tuag mus es thiaj tsis pom.
Hi sister May, welcome to Chicago!!! Hopefully you and your family have enjoyed the city and get a chance to visit Chinatown near where you guys were, the Bean and Millennium Park.
Kuv lam hais lo lus no rau koj los koj tsis txhob xav li cas nawb tus me niam tsev aw. Yog koj niam tsis tau tuag, ntshe koj twb tsis txawj xav es ntshe koj twb tsis tau koj daim Doctor Degree es nco ntsoov muab koj niam los tso rau hauv koj lub zeem muag es koj thiaj li ua tau txhua yam li koj lub siab xav vim tias koj hlub koj niam heev.
Why you said you go get your degree for your mom I hate when people said that. Ua cas thaum koj niam nyob koj twb saib koj niam tsis muaj nqi koj thiaj do what you want you . Peb ua neeg nyob peb tsis txawj phis if you love that person then do when they still muaj sia nyob. Don't wait until they gone and said you love care about them their are the best mom or dad.
Don’t blame yourself for what happened! My father passed away 15 year ago and I use to tell myself what I could’ve done for him while he was still around. To this day I still cry because I miss my father dearly and still call for him 15 year later. This story bit my heart so much.
Ua li koj txiv zoo heev lawm txhob ua li 1 tug kwv tij hmoob Wisconsin es poj niam tuag tas tos tau niam mos ab tuaj tso tas nrho nws cov life insurance $300,000 Rau niam mo ab niam mo ab tsi pub 1 lub penny liab rau nws pab me nyuam tseem tsi tau muaj neej li. Poj hmoob nplog mas ntshaw nyiaj tiag2 Siab phem tshaj plaws qab ntuj
Omg, get over it. It's what makes your dad happy. You have your own life to live. Why are you complaining so much. At least your step mother doesn't treat you like crap, so be glad.
The mom should’ve gone to her doctor to get checked if she was having chest pain. Why would you as a parent put that guilt on your child?!? Don’t blame yourself for the death of your mother.
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Muaj tseb tiag peb txhua tus ua niam ces yeej muaj tib txoj kev ntawv peb tej me tub me nyuam os, ua tsaug os niam ntsuab teev, koj hais tau zoo heev li os...
Txhob tusiab mog, ua neej nyob ces yeej tsis muaj ibtug yuav nyob mus ibtxhis tsuas nyob ibsim xwb tsuav koj ua tau koj niam tus npausuav lawm ces zoo lawm os, txoj kev ua menyuam ntsuag tsis yog koj xwb sawvdaws yeej taug ib txoj ke li koj thiab tsuas yog ntxov los lig xwb thiab zoo los txomnyem xwb os me muam aw, thov Vajtswv hlub koj thiab koj tsev neeg mog.
Yog tsi muaj yus niam ces yeej yog ib qhov Tu siab tshaj plaws, vim yog yus niam yog tus hlub yus tshaj.
Nrog koj zoo siab rau txoj kev kawm
Pab koj tu siab rau txoj xav os mog
Koj yog tus neeg tawv ncauj rau dam tawv tab sis hauv lub siab mos muag kawg nco niam tshaj plaws txhua leej txhua tus
All the children that didn’t listen to their parents, should listen to this story.
It's so sad that we take things for granted and don't appreciate those who loves us while they are still here. Life is indeed so short and time doesn't stop for anyone. I've also lost my beloved in-laws to a tragic fire and when my graduation day, it was so difficult. It was suppose to be a happy and celebratory day but I constantly search for them in the crowd especially looking for my father-in-law. He was my #1 cheerleader, my rock, and my inspiration to continue my college education. Many times I wanted to give up but when I think about him, he kept me going. One more semester left in my degree when I lost them both. I had so many plans of what I want to do with them and many places I want to take them too, now it's too late. Thanks for sharing this heart warming story as so many of us can relates.
Both of my parents are still alive but they don't care about anyone but themselves. It's really sad. I do envy those who have wonderful loving parents but sometimes their kids treat them disrespectfully. That's also sad too. 😒
There was 10 of us siblings. Wasn't enough love to go around either. Only one was the golden child in my family.
Cov mi kwv tij txoj kev ua ntsuag.mas tu siab kawg nawb. Ua tsaug.
My mom says "you don't know how much your parents love you until you have your own children." That's true. Love your parents now, for as we're growing, they're getting older as well. Hlub thaum tseem muaj txoj sia nyob nawb.
Pab koj tu siab uas koj niam koj txiv ncaim tag lawm.. txhob tu tu siab thiab es yus thiaj xav ua neej ua neeg mog vim muaj nkawv koj thiaj kawm tag qib siab muaj lub meej mom zoo os nawb..
Tu siab dhau li lm o mloog g tau li os mloog ce low kua muag li
wow tus leej txiv no muaj peev xwm heev thiab nws xaiv yog lawm.
Mloog koj zaj me neej neeg mas nim tu2 siab los2 kua muag tab sis ua neeg nyob ces yeej dhia tsis dhau txoj kev tuag es puam chawj os mog.
Ca yuav tus siab ua luaj lis osTsis pom dej dag ce siab nqe😭😭😭
May aw koj hais zaj neej neeg no tu kuv siab heev li rau qhov kuv niam nyuam qhuav tuag tso kuv tseg na
Niam laus aw koj hais tau zoo heev os
Tuaj kom Koj lawm os, Thov kev pab, nias rau kuv thiab os sister.
The HEART of a mother, there's nothing compared to it. Only a mother will know and do for her kids.
@@MrsLee-mb1zg you might be old enough that she think you should be able to handle things yourself.
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@@MrsLee-mb1zg At times moms are crazy too, due to what's going on in their life at the time. But pls never feel bad about it because I believed they love us all the same.
Kuv yog ib tuv nyab hmoob vaj kuv mloog koj tus yog muam cov dab neeg thiab neej neeg txhua hnub os
tu siab ua luaj yus leej niam yus yeej nco mus tag ib sim os tus viv ncaus aws
Sister, it is not your fault your mother died. Your mom had a heart problem. You were the youngest and she loved you so much. Move on with your life. Sometimes it take a tragic to change someone or a situation. Your mother is your strength and your rock. A mother's love is greater than anything.
Zoo siab nrog kj os niam laus aws...kj kawm tag lawm txhob tus siab os kj niam thiaj tsis nyuaj siab
Don’t be so hard on yourself. Events that happened in the past is the past. Take comfort in your love ones at the moment, so there will be no regrets in the future. Thanks for sharing your story with us.
A great lesson to love our parents no matter what. You won’t regret when you give love while they are alive. Both my parents and in-laws have died and when my children receive their college degrees or gets a celebratory job promotion, I search for my parents’ faces to ask if they see - how proud they would be of their grand children - that their difficult life in Laos, journey bringing me, and the life I live - is to honor them and it was all worth it.
Sometimes we don't appreciate the moment until it's a memory.
It's true.
Be proud. I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you my hmong sister!!
Tsis txob tu siab, there’s a saying that your parents kav yus loj xwb tsis kav yus laus. This is the cycle of life. But I understand and completely know your pain. Losing parents hurts everyone differently, but as the baby of the family, it hurts us a lot more than most. I lost my father 10 years ago, and as the baby, I was very lost and hurt for a long time, in fact, I still hurt today, and I don’t think it will ever get any better. This is what I say to people:
The pain doesn’t go away, the hurt doesn’t get better, we don’t get over it, this kind of pain, Time doesn’t mend it....... we just eventually learn to live with the pain.
You should just be thankful that your mother and father are the inspiration and the driving force that got you to where you are today. Just be happy that your mothers love is what got you your doctorate. Maybe if she was around for another 10+ years, you might have never gotten that far in education. So be happy for what you have, hurt for what you’ve lost, but most importantly, love the ones you can still love.
Muaj tsawg2 kawg li os uas tau ib leejtxiv uas paub qabhau es tiv thaiv tau nws ntiag tug rov los rau nws cov me nyuam li no koj txiv ua yog lawm yus lub neej txhob cia poob mus rau sab nraud poob rau yus tej menyuam li no yog lawm
Luag hais tias hlub thaum tseem muaj sia nyob tsam muaj ib hnub xav txog ces lig lig, tig tsis tau sij hawm rov qab.
Ua ntsuag thaum loj loj twb txawj pab tus kheej lawm tsis tus siab npaum li peb cov ua ntsuag thaum me me raug luag ntaus raug luag tsim luag lub khauj tsiav nyob rawv saum yus lub taub hau haj yam tu siab tshaj o
We can only blame this daughter so much, we all did more or less the same when we were her age. Please.
I agree with you. Some people (not all) in here act like they were innocent (like angels) when they were teenagers. Like you said, I'm sure a lot of us did more or less the same like the daughter in this story. People make good and bad choices in their life as teenagers. -- I'm sure if she knew that her mom was going to leave like that then she would've spent more time with her mom. All of us would have done the same.
I cried so hard.
Don't blame the daughter. She was only 14 years old. A lot of us were this way during our teenager years.
Tus leej txiv no thiv thaiv nws cov menyuam zoo heev.
😥😥😥😥😥😥 ca nw yuav zoo kuv thiab os ca nim ntshaw leej niam leej txiv txoj kev hlub ua luaj nos
This applies for fathers and their children too.....
You've come so far. Keep going 💪and keep striving to love the way your mom and dad loved you. 😢
Don't blame yourself for the death of your mom completely, because maybe it was time to go. However, I don't have much sympathy for bad kids but I'm glad you found your strength though it all. Consider yourself blessed.
It’s a very touching story but remember there’s a ripple effects in everything we do. So glad you found the strength in your mom to become who you are today.
Things happened 4 a reason don't blame yourself too much yog koj niam g tuag ntshe koj twb g txawj hloov God bless you
It's not your fault so sister do not blame yourself. I am happy that you have great in laws and a happy family. I am sure your parents are watching over you and are proud of the person you have become.
Your father shouldn't blamed you because it's not your fault your mother died. Every mother is worried about their children regardless. I am glad you saw your mother's love for you. As teenagers we are young and dumb and just tend to disobey our parents but it doesn't mean we don't love them. I feel sorry for your father but at least he knew your stepmother didn't love him and was only in for the money. God bless you.
Haum cov menyuam tawv5 ncauj kawg.
Tus me ntxhais aw yus niam tuag tas ces yeej tsis muaj leej twg noog yus moo lawm os mog peb cov nov twb Laus tag lawm los tseem nco yus niam tshaj nawb
Yog li koj hais os sister. Kuv niam thiab kuv txiv tuag tas tsis muaj leeg twg noog yua moo lawm os.
Mom I miss you so much, hlub koj.
It’s not your fault sister, you’re a good person. Wherever your parents are, I’m sure they’re watching over you. What’s most important now is that you still have your family and siblings who loves you. Stay strong sister.❤️
Thank u for sharing your story sister. Forgive yourself. I hope u have a happy life.
Tusiab kawg
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Leejniam tshiab 10% thiaj hlub yus xwb 90% luag tsis hlub yus vim luag tsis yug yus yus los yeej tsis hlub luag thiab
Very sad story, this is a burden that you will have to carry for the rest of your life but in return live your life and make sure you raised your kids well.
Zoo kawg tau nyab Dr tab sis tu siab rau cov nyab tiam 21 zoo li tau ib lub kua txob coj los pleev niam pog txiv yawg lub qhov muag mus txog hnub niam pog txiv yawg mus nyob qab nyom lawm thiab os mog
Wishing you peace in your heart sister.
Ohhh, sister :( Please do not blame yourself for your mom's death. We are all teenagers & some of us made made choices we are not happy with. Some of us are more stubborn than others. Some of us do ridiculous, regrettable things. ETC. Everyone's life, especially teenage years are different. But maybe professional therapy will help you with some unresolved issues prior to your mom's passing & how it has affected you to this day. I hope the burden will be lifted off you by the help of a professional because it's from an unbiased perspective. Allowing ourselves to heal will take time, but I believe will make us better parents along with a better understand of ourselves. Congrats on all your accomplishments, school, career, personal life, and your beautiful children. May you stay blessed.
Never learned when there’s a mother. But once she’s gone, we do everything and learns our own self. That’s how life’s are.
Hlub koj txiv kawg os. Forgive yourself sister. Wish you a happy and fulfilling life.
Even though it ultimately wasn't your fault for your mother's death, you did played a small part of your mothers' stress and health deterioration. Teenagers will also be teenagers, but that doesn't justify their action of acting like careless children. Wish you the best Sister!
Unfortunately, we can’t change the pass. That’s the way of life. Life is too short, love your husband, your in laws, your kids and your family. Life is about constantly learning from our mistakes. Just look at it from another view, if your mother didn’t die, you probably would of got married young and your life would be a lot different.
Kv pab saib kj 5ນາທີlawm thiab kv nias caum kj lawm muaj sij hawm no tuaj pab caum kv thiab.Ua tsaug
Cas yuav tawv ncauj ua luaj. Txawv koj niam nyob los koj yeej yuav koj tus txiv ntawm ko ces koj niam yeej tsis zoo siab. Li nws hais os, cia nws tuag mus es thiaj tsis pom.
Hi sister May, welcome to Chicago!!! Hopefully you and your family have enjoyed the city and get a chance to visit Chinatown near where you guys were, the Bean and Millennium Park.
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Too late lawm os, tsis mloog ces tsam no tsis zoo qhov twg tuaj lawm os .
Ntuj aw yuav ib niag maum dev liam es coj ib pab niag me nyuam dev liam los thiab es yuav ua li cas nrog dev liam nyob nas Hmoob aw
So sad
Cov me nyuam Tsi mloog lus li koj mas yug tau me nyuam mas haj yam mob siab me nyuam nawv, sad story😢😢
Kuv lam hais lo lus no rau koj los koj tsis txhob xav li cas nawb tus me niam tsev aw. Yog koj niam tsis tau tuag, ntshe koj twb tsis txawj xav es ntshe koj twb tsis tau koj daim Doctor Degree es nco ntsoov muab koj niam los tso rau hauv koj lub zeem muag es koj thiaj li ua tau txhua yam li koj lub siab xav vim tias koj hlub koj niam heev.
Kuv muaj ib tug txhais tawv2 ncauj tsis mloog lus thiab lawm tas li xwb tsis xav los tsev li, muaj ib hnub ntshe nws yuav xav txog lig thiab.
kJ yog tug txhais tawv ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os
Maiv
Sad Story 😭
Cov me nyuam tsis mloog lus txhob tuaj qw qw nkim sijhawm mloog dhau
Cov meniuam tsis mloog lus yog cov yuag hlub nws Tsev neeg tia muab siab loj for everyone. 😁
Too late lady I dont feel sad for you
kV xav xã kv zaj neej neeg tuaj rau kj hias thiaj yuav xã lj cas ó
Stories like this I fall asleep
A very touch story.
😭😭😭😭😭😭 and it’s only a few minutes into it!
yus tus hlua nraug yog tus muab yus coj mu nce ntuj ceeb tsheej niam txiv twb coj tsis laib yus nce ntuj ceeb tsheej ne yom
Puas muaj ib hnub es kuv tus me ntxhais thim xav li ko os hnub niaj no es cas kuv hlub nws hais los cas nws yuav tsis mloog li os
💔💔💔💔💔
Koj txiv kuj ntse kawg....yog tsis ntse ces koj niam cov hlua kuj raug koj niam tshiab muab pauv noj tag....
Kuv xav kaw thiab os niam laus aw
Poj niam dev
😭😭😭😭
Nej puas coj koj niam mus hospital check nes lub heart os
Koj niam hlab plawv txawv lawm xwb os. Yog mus hospital lawv kuaj ces lawv coj mus kho ces koj niam tseem nyob os.
It's must be cold you 2 bundle up like when u 2 still live in MN.
This pic was taken at the Bean in Chicago lol
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Why you said you go get your degree for your mom I hate when people said that. Ua cas thaum koj niam nyob koj twb saib koj niam tsis muaj nqi koj thiaj do what you want you . Peb ua neeg nyob peb tsis txawj phis if you love that person then do when they still muaj sia nyob. Don't wait until they gone and said you love care about them their are the best mom or dad.
Koj txiv mas yog ib tug txiv zoo thiab hlub nej cov me nyuam kawg thiaj tsis muab nyiaj rau koj tus niam tshiab yog cov txiv ruam ces ntshe twb muab rau niam tshiab tas lawm os
Don’t blame yourself for what happened! My father passed away 15 year ago and I use to tell myself what I could’ve done for him while he was still around. To this day I still cry because I miss my father dearly and still call for him 15 year later. This story bit my heart so much.
Ua li koj txiv zoo heev lawm txhob ua li 1 tug kwv tij hmoob Wisconsin es poj niam tuag tas tos tau niam mos ab tuaj tso tas nrho nws cov life insurance $300,000
Rau niam mo ab niam mo ab tsi pub 1 lub penny liab rau nws pab me nyuam tseem tsi tau muaj neej li. Poj hmoob nplog mas ntshaw nyiaj tiag2
Siab phem tshaj plaws qab ntuj
KOJ YOG IB TUG NTXHAIS UAS TAWV 2 NCAUJ, YOG KOJ NIAM TSIS TUAG NTSHE KOJ TWB KAWM NTAWV TSIS TAU SIAB POJ??
Blah blah blah
Ca tsis mloog lus lis os
Your dad’s a jerk for treating you like stranger.
Omg, get over it. It's what makes your dad happy. You have your own life to live. Why are you complaining so much. At least your step mother doesn't treat you like crap, so be glad.
Z xx
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Sister not fault she was sick you are suck a strong person
The mom should’ve gone to her doctor to get checked if she was having chest pain. Why would you as a parent put that guilt on your child?!? Don’t blame yourself for the death of your mother.
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I don't like this kind of story here. You did what you want so stop regret that your mom die cause of you did to hurt your mom.