Me and my husband have this aspect and my ascedent is Scorpio.We have many other hot aspects as well..We have been together off and on for 25 years and finally got married.Everytime we split up we just couldn't stay away from each other...LOL..
Yeah, I would definitely call this aspect the "play pretend" aspect. I have it currently with a crush that I cannot take out of my mind. Since I am a Scorpio 8th houser, I am actually fine with the energy, but on their side, even though their ascendant is in Scorpio I can see how hard they try to show me an indifference, but as a Scorpio I can see right through it. We also have Venus Square Pluto, where again I am Pluto, so it adds up. I will say, it is important to remain respectful to those who do not want to get involved in such energetic pulls. I am used to overwhelming intense energy, but one shouldn't assume everyone feels comfortable with that. And, if the person is definitely putting an effort in avoiding you, as you are the source of such Plutonic intense force, well don't take it personal. At least I am trying not to :)
That is the truth!! I had a crush who's pluto is on my Asc and it's very intense. I didn't really notice at first but as time went on I felt something rise. I thought I was used to pluto energy but turns out I'm not. It's strange that I have pluto 12th too. It feels very fated
@@irrittt I feel the same thing. His mars/Pluto on my Asc,Sun/Venus trine my pluto, moon opposite my pluto. It really is a lot to handle but I think our "connection" is deeper than it has ever been. There's 4th/12th house synastry 😶. For the most part, it's an unspoken thing. I've felt that lust, the vulnerability, it's all just so much.
True I have this with a generation all of my friendships are super codependent bc the person is super I won’t say obsessed but always available for me and I’m codependent anyway sadly so my friendship and relationships are intense and I only do longggg term relationships bc Pluto doesn’t let go by the time I left my last married I felt too controlled only to end up with the extract same energy in my second marriage ugh when I dated early didn’t have the conjunction
That was awesome thank you. I have this exact with a man and it’s been a 9 year INTENSE learning process. He’s Pluto. When we first started dating I would literally shake in his arms…zero thoughts in my head! 😂 we went through push/pull ‘you’re obsessed get away’ dynamics, now we’ve finally integrated our Plutonian energies and have landed in a stable place. I can’t speak for him but I’m 1000 times stronger and wiser.
Thank you for confirmation! I've experienced this but we were both in relationships with children. The energy is undeniable. Our first connection felt like electricity went through out my entire body. We have never talked about our connection, but I know we both feel it.
Oy, that cannot be easy. The intense connection can be overwhelming such as your electrical experience and is very hard to get over. Yes he most certainly felt it too:)
Had this with someone, his Pluto on my Ascendant but it was a sextile. You're right, it was so intense and overwhelming. It seemed like I was attracted and repelled at the same time. Years later I still can't forget the person. We also had Pluto-Venus trine where I was the Pluto. I also have Pluto on my Asc and Venus-Pluto natally so I'm supposed to be used to the intensity (though I was young then), but it was just way too intense. I never felt that way about someone before nor ever again. It felt so strange and scary I just had to run away lol. The love of my life and the one who got away and we weren't even in a relationship hahaha. Oh well. That's Pluto for you.
I always think about the same guy whom i dated for only a short time years ago (literally a decade). We were so attracted to each other and i feel like if life hadnt made us separate in the way we did due to circumstances we couldnt control, we may still be with each other or in contact. Feelings were so deep despite knowing very little about each other at the time as we were only kids. I know right now we both may have grown too differently in our own paths but i get the feeling he remembers me in moments just as i do with him. I have a feeling no matter who im with as time progresses ill always think of him or wish to be with someone similar to that feeling i had.
Thank u so much. This was helpful. ❣ His pluto conjunct my ascendant and sun, his mars on my dc opposes my sun and asc. My pluto and saturn square his sun and venus and conjunct his vertex. His north node conjunct my moon...and so on. :-) I have very strong personality but with him its like i lose my power :-(
makifly you’re very welcome! Thank you for sharing. You have some powerful aspects there and I personally like Moon North Node a lot and even Pluto conjunct Vertex I have experienced and it is very powerful indeed! I wish you all the best! Much love to you ❤️
I'm the Ascendant person, I delved right into that Pluto energy lmaoooo His Pluto also conjuncts my North Node Edit: I do have very good Pluto aspects in my natal though
Loving all your interpretations. You make it easy to understand. Thank you for sharing. This guys Pluto conjuncts my ascendant and moon. And opposes my sun, mercury and Jupiter His moon is in my 8th house and his Pluto on my 1st. We also have heavy Neptune and Saturn aspects. I feel like it is SUPER karmic and can’t stop thinking about him. I lose my self when I’m with him. Like all my boundaries get dissolved. I wonder if I have the same effect on him because we play way too many mind games. I do feel like he plays it off while I obsess about him.
cowtipper jay hi those are certainly intense aspects that can be overwhelming try to avoid game playing with that much Pluto which is much easier said than done but being honest and direct will go along way.:)
I had this aspect with a guy I was friends with/ co workers and literally it felt like we both became obsessed with each other to the point where it was so uncomfortable for me we got into a huge fight and I confronted him about his obsession and he got SO angry we broke our friendship but literally we kept bumping into each other like the universe wanted it even if I tried to avoid him. My sag rising is at 3 degrees his pluto at 2 degrees, his Jupiter conjuncts my sun, mercury and saturn, and my Jupiter & MC conjunctions his mercury and venus. Our suns are in opposition. Anyway I felt like our friendship was intense he would constantly call or text me and on all social media he would contact me sharing things that he liked, he would publicly call me his angel, he always wanted to be around me. Especially when I started to back off bc I was in college I had to study he would text me so much even tho I told him I need to be alone he would show up at my door when I told him not to come AND he would ask my best friend where i would be. He would also call me super late at night like at 2am talking about other random girls that didn’t work out with him. He would also send me songs to listen to constantly. BUT when he got super comfortable he would play around and tease me which I didn’t like at the time. This placement is SO intense and consuming because on my end I couldn’t get him out of my head even to this day I can’t. But as an Aquarius I acted like I was so uninterested in him but I still gave him attention bc I didn’t want to be mean I just didn’t open up as quickly and was very afraid to tell him about myself. I didn’t even want to tell him my favorite color LOL. We still bump into each other even tho I’ve blocked him literally out of my life 🤷🏻♀️ I had a year long depression because of him lol
My boyfriend now has his pluto exactly on my ascendent on 3 degrees, his venus is opposite of mine, his sun and mercury are in my descendent and his venus is in my 8th house and his Jupiter conjuncts my sun and mercury and OH MY GOD this is so consuming but I love it a lot. It’s different from the previous story I mentioned I need to stop getting my self involved with people born in 1997 lol
Thank you so much for this video! I have pluto conjunct ascendant with this man I work with periodically (he is the pluto) and we stay in the same building. There was this magnetizing compelling energy between us which kept increasing every time we met, he even showed up during our community project voluntarily to help me and then he just went missing abruptly. I have pluto in scorpio ( my 8th house). I am working on being at ease with my own pluto but he has pluto square saturn in his natal chart. That may explain the breaking off.
Hi honey, this aspect is very intense and often frightens people, it's unfortunate but it can be overwhelming to where the one or the other runs out of fear of it.
You were spot on with your assessment. I met a man 25 years ago that I had a fling with. Very magnetic. I found him on FB last year and reached out and was interested in his astrology since we had something so magnetic. It innocently went naughty fast. I live an hour away from him, and the only two times I've been up that way I've seen him at the same restaurant. Back when I used to live up his way, we always bumped into each other. I've never had that with someone. I told him a couple weeks ago that I saw him (he didn't see me) and once again we are naughty in emails. He does want to literally own my body, as he is now into bdsm. LOL....Plus, I have like 8 planets in his 8th house, and pluto/mars contacts...It's hard to resist this man. We are each other's drug. Ugh. It doesn't bother me because I'm a Sun/Pluto in my 1st house. I like the energy a lot.
@@tithionline9458 how does he feels as planet person? Is he attracted to you? i shared this 8th house synastry, but I am house person, so I'd like to know.
@@SJ-sb5ro if you only have your birth time, you can only know where His planet fall in your houses. If you have His birth time, you can know where your planet falls into his
Amazing interpretation of this aspect. I'm 22 years deep into a complicated relationship with someone born exactly 10 days before me and I have Pluto 1° from my Asc in 12th
Thank U ...so pretty accurate.. Hw got Pluto conjunct Moon in ascendant..and my Pluto conjuncts both..at 2⁰ distance... Plus.. Mars .mine in CAP..his in Taurus... I so much appreciate his aloofness..calm.. patience... yet.........we r connected..on. Very much trusting way
D Lost Hi thank you! you can order a personal relationship Analysis audio recording or a recorded consultation at my site at. Www.illumeastrology.blogspot.com or to read more about all the aspects and placements:)
I'm wondering if this aspect can create hatred too? the person I have this connection with has a very tight t-square natally with pluto opposite sun, both squaring mars at the apex. My ascendant turns his t-square into a grand-cross by squaring his pluto and sun exactly, with his mars right on my desc. He has such strong reactions to me just being myself that I don't know how to take it. But the intensity is just so overwhelming
My Pluto conjunct his Libra Asc in the same degree and his Asc falls in my 8thhouse where my Pluto is as well as his Mars and Moon in my Capricorn 12 th house where my Venus and Mercury are.His Sun in my 7th, mine his 5th and a lot more.I am 10 years older its a situationship and very intense.I am more aware of my Pluto,more talkable and understanding of his inner stragglers.I am also Aquarius Sun and Rising and i also strugle with the togetherness i want and freedom ❤This is the most intense romantic relationship i have until now.I dont know where it goes but i have so much love for him.Overall i guess we are both Plutonic.
Does an orb of 11 degrees considered as Pluto conjunct Asc? I feel like I can relate to this. And, what do you think of the situation will be like if Asc person has Pluto conjunct her Asc natally (Pluto conjunct Pluto Asc)?
His Pluto conjunct my ascendant. My Pluto conjunct his moon, trine his venus, trine his ascendant and square his sun. To top it off we have double whammy sun conjunct moon! Natally I have Pluto conjunct sun, Mercury, Saturn and Jupiter and Pluto square moon so my whole life is that of intense birth, death and rebirth themes and experiences. We manifested each other into our lives and you are quite right, operating from a higher vibration whereby both souls have done their inner work, this truly is a deep one of a kind connection. Not to say we have not faced some triggers and deeply ingrained emotional traumas but when the other can see where that is coming from and not take it personally they can really get to the core of it to bring it into the light and transmute it. We also have many other placements conducive to acceptance, compassion, empathy, protection and nurturing which makes for two people who truly are committed to one another's well being, individual spiritual growth and growing and learning together. Extremely blessed. The only downfall to this is we met online in September 2019, met in person March 2020 when I travelled from Australia to the UK, then the world went mad and a 3 week holiday turned into 14 months! We got to know each other extremely quickly and I could say on a deeper level than some couples ever will. I finally got a flight home and now we must play the waiting game on when we can be together again. This distance may have something to do with his Venus in the 12th house among other things in God's plan but true love and a love so pure will always find a way if it's meant to be 🙏🏽💓💫 Thank you for sharing your thoughts and description on this placement 🙏🏽
Well... I have a crush on someone whose chart is very air heavy... his Scorpio Pluto is making a conj to my asc. His Pluto is Trining his Mercury.. but as far as Pluto.. that’s the only thing going for him...so do you think he can handle it well? If not what should i do? I am insanely attracted to him.. and he sometimes acts as if he is indifferent..
let me see: - his Jupiter (my 12h) conjunct my Virgo ASC; - his Sun @ 0 degree conj. my ASC - his Pluto (my 1h) conj. my ASC - his Pluto square my Sun in the 4h, Sagittarius - his Pluto opposition my Chiron in Pisces (7h) - my Pluto (1h) conj. his Sun - my Pluto trine his Moon.... - my Sun square his Pluto - my Sun in his 8th house - his Venus in my 1h - my Scorpio Venus in his 7h there is more, of course.... he was, in a way, my colleague, a 'stakeholder', top level management; we barely knew each other on a personal level - barely even spoke - and yet i still managed to develop deep feelings for him as well as utmost respect.... l left the company under rather bad circumstances (had 'some' ethical issues with my superiors - funnily enough, directly and indirectly in relation to him), and he was the only person there actually supporting me through it, even though he didn't really know the details. haven't been in touch with him since i left (and chances are never will be again), but the impact he had on me will remain for ever.
Can I ask...what if someone's pluto squares your ascendant almost exact, but its an out of sign square (Scorpio pluto and Pisces ascendant) would this soften the square because of the trine signs or not because the degree is so close? :/
Hi - I just went to your website and saw that I can order an audio recording about our birth charts. I don't know his birth time and the moon transferred from Virgo to Libra on his birthday. Is it even worth doing an analysis w/o his birth time? [I do know that his pluto aspects my moon and my ascendant and that my sun aspects his pluto @ either .02-.49 degrees or something, etc. His Lilith also squares my ASC. There's just so much going on. Would a reading help?]
generally harsher but other things can soften it and harsher aspects can be good as long as both focus on being flexible and their intentions are good. They are stimulating, passionate and transformational, positively. Negatively abusive, negative or stubborn and dramatic:)
Would a 3-degree orb be small enough to feel this? We also have Pluto sextile moon and Pluto conjunct sun (at less than 1 degree). There's just so much intensity, I'm trying to pinpoint it.
@@Illumeastrology thank you so much for writing back so soon. I’m sitting here watching your videos right now. We have so much Pluto and Lilith and Neptune and moon, sun, Venus, Saturn, Mars. So literally everything. A lot of hard aspects and conjunctions, but a few trines and sextiles - like Venus-Mars, sun-Mars, Pluto-moon, but so many are hard aspects. Like moon square Venus, etc. just some examples. It’s overwhelmingly intense. I can barely look at him - his Pluto aspects my moon, ascendant and a few other outer planets. And my Pluto conjuncts his sun at .02 degrees. I’m not sure how to deal with this. That’s why I’m researching this right now. We work together and it’s really difficult so I’m trying to try to find some solutions. 😞 I honestly think I might have to change jobs because of this. I’m obsessed with him. I wonder if he is, but I’d never be able to act on anything because of our work relationship.
I'm Pluto dominant - Scorpio rising, Jupiter in 8th, Pluto in Scorpio 12th house, Pluto in aspect to 6 other placements, every single one of my close friends / relationships past and present have been Pluto doms - and I'm still so soooo afraid of this connection now it has happened in a tight orb. I feel like I'm losing myself (they also have sun, jupiter + north node to my 12th house). It's TOO MUCH!
I have this as an exact aspect, I’m Pluto. Also a 5th house stellium with him, weird combo…The thing is that I want to get closer to him, but he lives in another country.. should I move to this country ? I hope this aspect will bring us together
Usually it reflects more conflicts, stubbornness, and pushyness to get to transformation for better or worse. Although it’s quite magnetizing but can be frustrating as well. Much depends on other aspects and placements and how each handles there own Pluto ❤️
Her Pluto conjunct my Moon, Asc, Jupiter in Scorpio exact, My Pluto and Mercury square her Venus... OMG it's electric, fated, intense...! Her Sun and Jupiter is opposite my Venus too, and her moon trine my moon and Venus...! WOW
scorpio moon in the first house ,,and pluto in libra house one,,i have good attiutude no matter what i feel but i might apear dark with a bad attitude lol
@@Illumeastrology u so right ! capricorns suns hardly smile though,, people cant really read me im so mysterious ,,,[ ;D] untill they talk to me there blown away of how much i am likeable
my 12 house pluto in virgo the person I like is virgo sun. What does it mean. I know that 12 house is very karmic past life stuff right. The person moon in my 8 house... Very intense
Pluto in the first house which he was a scorpion rising and of course my Pluto is in the sign of Scorpio would that be like a double whammy because Pluto is in its own sign
@@Illumeastrology wow really. thanks for your response. So would you consider the draconic synastry aspects to be just as powerful as tropical synastry aspects?
Popadoodledoo in my opinion the synastry is more important or noticeable but other charts can reflect similarities but the aspects in all the charts would have the same interpretation. :)
My Pluto Conjunct His Ascendant. My Ascendant squares his Pluto. I’ve never had such a good Synastry overall with any man. I am Deffinetley obsessed and terrible of falling in love and being in pain. He comes across as ‘indifferent’ emotionally speaking. He keeps contacting me every single day, starting with ‘good morning’ through text. Wants to know what Im doing, who Im doing it with, where Im at and what I am about to do next. Doesent bother me but Im craving more Emotional response. He is a Scorpio rising with Venus in his 8th house. We have verrt good lovely soft aspects overall. I met him while visiting family abroad and things went pretty quickly from there. I actually like the fact that its double whammy: so we’re both Pluto in this scenario. For anything who wants to know: I am 10 years older, have more money. He has Saturn in the 5th natally so he is attracted to more mature Women Allthough I Dont consider myself ‘old’ and people always mistake me for beinf in my 20’s. On our 3rd date we had a 4 hour conversation about our possibilities future. In a verry practical and realistically way. Nothing romantic about it.
My friend and I have alot of Pluto aspects, alot of mercury aspects. And it's funny bcuz our bond is so strong. But I got a crush on him. And he rejected me. But I liked him bcuz i thought he liked me n so many other ppl did to. He has a bf now, n shuts down when I talk about other men. He says hes not interested but his attention to me and the way he prioritizes me is too intense. I have told him to not care about me before. It's so strange. I transformed alot bcuz of my unrequited love situation. N I have definitely ran away from him alot because I'm trying to get over my attraction. Still am. Funny u mention avoiding eye contact. Bcuz when we hung out alone for the 1st time he avoided eye contact the WHOLE TIME. N got so shy when I touched his hair. He still went off to get a gf tho so I try not to think of him romantically
I found this video because my Pluto is conjunct my son's ascendant although he is a very handsome young man because he looks exactly like me I haven't found any information yet that would be beneficial to the mother-son relationship?? Somebody put a positive spin on this please
What about when we both Conjunct each other’s ascendant and moon because we both share the same Pluto sign and ascendant sign? Then also my ascendant trines his mars? This is very intense and even the dreams I have of him are intense. And he runs and returns.
Im the acscendant person. His pluto 1th conjunct my asc in sag. We both have a virgo stellium. I have my moon, mercury, venus, lilith & NN in virgo in the 8th. He has sun, mercury, venus & NN in virgo 10th. He is a scorpio rising, i just have my MC in scorpio. We now are both in seperation. A lot of cold/ warm.. it just hurts, he push me away..
I have Pluto on my ascendant so any Pluto contacts to my ascendant or moon (libra) or Venus (Aquarius) then I feel it like it was fated both good and bad.
I have this with a man who has his Pluto and his north node conjunct my ascendant 3 degrees and sextile his mars. Also my mars is opposite his Venus conjunct my Jupiter and my Venus is conjunct his mars. However, nothing will ever become of this because our situation is very taboo. I feel the intensity to an extreme. He is the one chasing me and i have sexual fantasies about him but it will never work because of our circumstances. It’s hard to get him out of my mind, it is like a spell.
Is it possible for this type of relationship to begin again after a long time. When I see the 'pluto' man again ... I am back where we were like it was yesterday even though it was a long time back. I never really got over the relationship and I wish we could go back and do it right. we have many other aspects - his ascendant to my moon - his north node to my moon and other stuff, I know in my heart of hearts we are soul connected. I also wonder do you ever get over it ?
It's always possible to get back together. Relationships are complex and so is astrology. However, the Astrology can explain a lot of things. Retrogrades are common times to revisit and see if you can work things out. It's hard to say without seeing the charts of both people and the transits you are both experiencing along with the composite and the transits to see more of what's going on and perhaps what can be done or how it can be approached. But Yes, it's possible to get over it, as hard as it seems with time and inner work and sometimes meeting someone else. However, this particular aspect is very powerful and hard to let go of and even harder if the relationship was established but certainly possible but will take inner work and release. Love relationships are the hardest but we do eventually move on if it's not possible to work them out. Because it takes two to want it. If you would like me to look into it to help you can certainly order a reading. Otherwise, I send you a big hug and lot's of positive energy and say don't be afraid to try, sometimes getting the answer one way or another can be the most healing:)
I am a Scorpio Rising, With Pluto in my 1st house. However, I attract men whom Pluto falls in my 1st house OR either Pluto conjuncts my Ascendant. I’m trying to not attract Pluto relationships, but my Scorpio Rising just calls out for/to them.
DGARLAND4444 I understand I’m Scorpio rising too:) Ypu May want to see where Pluto is transiting I got more Pluto in my 12th house peeps or the Heavy Pluto types when Pluto was in my first and 12th or square or opposite my venus:)
Sorry, I made a typo. My Pluto is in my 1st house, so maybe that’s why I’m attracting guys who’s Pluto falls into my 1st. Also, Pluto is currently transiting my 3rd house where my Venus is.
Watch for power struggles and issues with control. However neither of these need to be it can simply be the relationship offer a massive transformation of both of you if your both.
The square is very powerful for transformation both positively and negatively. If the Pluto person has the best interest for the Ascendant person than the Pluto person can help the Ascendant person make positive changes by uncovering parts of themselves they may not have been aware and also promoting change through example. Negatively, manipulative, bossy and trying to get the Ascendant to do something not healthy or damage them in some way.
Not in itself no. There would need to be extreme obsessive unhealthy traits in the individual chart along with the synastry chart but this can bring a powerful attraction in itself.
@@Illumeastrology it surely does 😆 you're right. But we have quite a few pluto aspects so it's that much harder but not impossible I know. Thank you for replying 😉😊
@@katarinaj.6830 if it’s toxic or doesn’t feel good you need to let go. If it’s healthy and feels good why get away.? These are Pluto’s ways. The higher octave is transcendence deep meaningful love the lower is being trapped in toxicity or addicted to it. Pluto is about rising as the Phoenix out of the ashes each painful experience strengthens you but not to fall victim of the perpetrator of the lower vibration of manipulation negative transformation and unhealthy attachment for the damage can be extreme however Pluto has to get one to transform he will. There are very negative expressions of Pluto and higher ones both transform. Lots of love to you and the strength to do what’s best for you.
@@carlyk9168 I feel that in the beginning it was very intense and fast because my husband had bipolar disorder, so everything was very intense on his part because he was sick and I was taking care of him. The sexual part has always been very strong. But with 20 years of living together things have been balanced and we have a very fraternal living together. The beginning was based on his emotional problems and I was there to support him. Then he got better. I've had other loves too but the settings are different. My husband is a very family person and has a characteristic of being very protective. I am more authoritarian and controlling.
@@carlyk9168 I had this with my ex of 15 years and now with my new man I’m assuming the Pluto person feels it more because they are the ones that end up controlling the asc person I guess in fear of losing them that’s the main reason I divorced my ex of 15 years too much I couldn’t be myself
I'm the ascendant and my crush is the Pluto person.. but Pluto conjunct Eros... Within1 degrees or so my ascendant... And my moon conjunct Saturn conjunction. Plus het Venus conjunct lilith in first house.. trine my Venus conjunct sun... I am very in love with her. I saw her picture.. since my ascendant is sagittarius... She's an athlete... And even before meeting her. I though of her as just absolutely beautiful.. and then I ran across her and iwent ight up to her.. we chatted about her sport and upcoming game.. I said I'd like to attend her games. It's been at least 9months of looking for her.. love from afar.. then I attended her home game. It was crazy. She had her best game.. pitched a shut out game.. no hitter... she and are estranged .. texted but since she is so much younger than me.. she wanted it secret.. and secret hookups. I loved her .. ewanna marry her. Couldn't stand being with her then be top secret. She ran.. but still in the wings... Like sitting in the place where I normally sit.. she blocked me on Instagram.. face book.. after saying she loved me too. Plus I'm struggling financially. Etc. Of course that hurt my feelings intensely.. left me in tears.. and leery.. she expressed jealousy possesiveness. Angry.. cause of all the hot wimmen on my Instagram. That was after she and her team mates noticed me at her game. She had ran the 1st time I encountered afterwards.. after seeing me smiling at me through the aisle. Away from her female friend...plus avoided me.. I was just love sick miserable when I didn't get to see her before thanksgiving.. Christmas break. So I decided to try to forget her..with other girls. I saw her on Instagram. Loved her photo..she checked me out. Saw girls on my profile..blocked me. I had to ask someone to beg her to explain why m blocked..etc She messaged me. Unblocked me. Blocked me cause she was mad jealous. Which I am and of at fault and wanted to make her jealous. She said she loved me too..but still heart broken over an ex boyfriend who cheated on her. I was kind of not happy about her wanting to use me for sex and in secret..felt she had n right to be jealous or possessive of me unless she makes it official..be my woman..and I be her man..I wasn't interested in being her boy toy. Boyfriend..but to be her man. So I am refusing to speak to her cause she ghosted me..but left me able to message her.. so maybe I'm running too.i am very in love with her. But we estranged...😥😭😭😭
sry man, but i need to tell you as it is. Grow up and stop playing games because of your own 'insecurities' or 'control' issues. Love and respect goes hand in hand, you do not make other people jealous...there is nothing in it that shows love or respect, then also don't wonder that the Universe tells you enough is enough, you clearly are not ready for real love. Maybe in the future..after you worked on yourself and your issues. And be a man of honor and respect, maybe then you will get what you want, until then you get what you deserve whatever that might be. We write our own fates without realizing what our own actions and intentions create. You can fool others and even yourself, but you not gonna fool the universe. If the universe stand inf or protection of people soul and heart, never will it be allowed to cross certain lines that are TOXIC to begin with in terms of what the universe deem to be healthy..
@@lok6314 more like desperation...and there is a moon conjunct saturn near conjunct natal ascendant. so that...big boys dont cry ..is a very heavy yoke on my soul. if that helps...I am a very complex person.. it is a source of great frustration to be always in an impasse emotionally ..especially with intense feelings for another. dont be hating.
Me and my husband have this aspect and my ascedent is Scorpio.We have many other hot aspects as well..We have been together off and on for 25 years and finally got married.Everytime we split up we just couldn't stay away from each other...LOL..
What other aspects you have?
Congrats of your marriage ❤❤❤
He always said he felt spellbound, he would get chills just by us talking 💀✨
Yeah, I would definitely call this aspect the "play pretend" aspect. I have it currently with a crush that I cannot take out of my mind. Since I am a Scorpio 8th houser, I am actually fine with the energy, but on their side, even though their ascendant is in Scorpio I can see how hard they try to show me an indifference, but as a Scorpio I can see right through it. We also have Venus Square Pluto, where again I am Pluto, so it adds up. I will say, it is important to remain respectful to those who do not want to get involved in such energetic pulls. I am used to overwhelming intense energy, but one shouldn't assume everyone feels comfortable with that. And, if the person is definitely putting an effort in avoiding you, as you are the source of such Plutonic intense force, well don't take it personal. At least I am trying not to :)
very well said:)
That is the truth!! I had a crush who's pluto is on my Asc and it's very intense. I didn't really notice at first but as time went on I felt something rise. I thought I was used to pluto energy but turns out I'm not. It's strange that I have pluto 12th too.
It feels very fated
@@irrittt I feel the same thing. His mars/Pluto on my Asc,Sun/Venus trine my pluto, moon opposite my pluto. It really is a lot to handle but I think our "connection" is deeper than it has ever been. There's 4th/12th house synastry 😶. For the most part, it's an unspoken thing.
I've felt that lust, the vulnerability, it's all just so much.
Well said!!! Love your mindset!! 👏🏻👏🏻
True I have this with a generation all of my friendships are super codependent bc the person is super I won’t say obsessed but always available for me and I’m codependent anyway sadly so my friendship and relationships are intense and I only do longggg term relationships bc Pluto doesn’t let go by the time I left my last married I felt too controlled only to end up with the extract same energy in my second marriage ugh when I dated early didn’t have the conjunction
That was awesome thank you. I have this exact with a man and it’s been a 9 year INTENSE learning process. He’s Pluto. When we first started dating I would literally shake in his arms…zero thoughts in my head! 😂 we went through push/pull ‘you’re obsessed get away’ dynamics, now we’ve finally integrated our Plutonian energies and have landed in a stable place. I can’t speak for him but I’m 1000 times stronger and wiser.
Met someone whose Pluto is 4° conjunct my Ascendant and my Pluto is conjunct their Venus... you're right about magnets and intensity
Thank you for confirmation! I've experienced this but we were both in relationships with children. The energy is undeniable. Our first connection felt like electricity went through out my entire body. We have never talked about our connection, but I know we both feel it.
Oy, that cannot be easy. The intense connection can be overwhelming such as your electrical experience and is very hard to get over. Yes he most certainly felt it too:)
His pluto conjuncts my ascendant and the other way around. There are other intense placements. I can't get him out of my mind it's crazy haha
Had this with someone, his Pluto on my Ascendant but it was a sextile. You're right, it was so intense and overwhelming. It seemed like I was attracted and repelled at the same time. Years later I still can't forget the person. We also had Pluto-Venus trine where I was the Pluto. I also have Pluto on my Asc and Venus-Pluto natally so I'm supposed to be used to the intensity (though I was young then), but it was just way too intense. I never felt that way about someone before nor ever again. It felt so strange and scary I just had to run away lol. The love of my life and the one who got away and we weren't even in a relationship hahaha. Oh well. That's Pluto for you.
I always think about the same guy whom i dated for only a short time years ago (literally a decade). We were so attracted to each other and i feel like if life hadnt made us separate in the way we did due to circumstances we couldnt control, we may still be with each other or in contact. Feelings were so deep despite knowing very little about each other at the time as we were only kids. I know right now we both may have grown too differently in our own paths but i get the feeling he remembers me in moments just as i do with him. I have a feeling no matter who im with as time progresses ill always think of him or wish to be with someone similar to that feeling i had.
I love your interpretation.
Thank you beautiful 🌺
Thank u so much. This was helpful. ❣
His pluto conjunct my ascendant and sun, his mars on my dc opposes my sun and asc. My pluto and saturn square his sun and venus and conjunct his vertex. His north node conjunct my moon...and so on. :-) I have very strong personality but with him its like i lose my power :-(
makifly you’re very welcome! Thank you for sharing. You have some powerful aspects there and I personally like Moon North Node a lot and even Pluto conjunct Vertex I have experienced and it is very powerful indeed! I wish you all the best! Much love to you ❤️
I'm the Ascendant person, I delved right into that Pluto energy lmaoooo
His Pluto also conjuncts my North Node
Edit: I do have very good Pluto aspects in my natal though
Loving all your interpretations. You make it easy to understand. Thank you for sharing.
This guys Pluto conjuncts my ascendant and moon.
And opposes my sun, mercury and Jupiter
His moon is in my 8th house and his Pluto on my 1st.
We also have heavy Neptune and Saturn aspects.
I feel like it is SUPER karmic and can’t stop thinking about him. I lose my self when I’m with him. Like all my boundaries get dissolved. I wonder if I have the same effect on him because we play way too many mind games. I do feel like he plays it off while I obsess about him.
cowtipper jay hi those are certainly intense aspects that can be overwhelming try to avoid game playing with that much Pluto which is much easier said than done but being honest and direct will go along way.:)
I had this aspect with a guy I was friends with/ co workers and literally it felt like we both became obsessed with each other to the point where it was so uncomfortable for me we got into a huge fight and I confronted him about his obsession and he got SO angry we broke our friendship but literally we kept bumping into each other like the universe wanted it even if I tried to avoid him. My sag rising is at 3 degrees his pluto at 2 degrees, his Jupiter conjuncts my sun, mercury and saturn, and my Jupiter & MC conjunctions his mercury and venus. Our suns are in opposition. Anyway I felt like our friendship was intense he would constantly call or text me and on all social media he would contact me sharing things that he liked, he would publicly call me his angel, he always wanted to be around me. Especially when I started to back off bc I was in college I had to study he would text me so much even tho I told him I need to be alone he would show up at my door when I told him not to come AND he would ask my best friend where i would be. He would also call me super late at night like at 2am talking about other random girls that didn’t work out with him. He would also send me songs to listen to constantly. BUT when he got super comfortable he would play around and tease me which I didn’t like at the time. This placement is SO intense and consuming because on my end I couldn’t get him out of my head even to this day I can’t. But as an Aquarius I acted like I was so uninterested in him but I still gave him attention bc I didn’t want to be mean I just didn’t open up as quickly and was very afraid to tell him about myself. I didn’t even want to tell him my favorite color LOL. We still bump into each other even tho I’ve blocked him literally out of my life 🤷🏻♀️ I had a year long depression because of him lol
My boyfriend now has his pluto exactly on my ascendent on 3 degrees, his venus is opposite of mine, his sun and mercury are in my descendent and his venus is in my 8th house and his Jupiter conjuncts my sun and mercury and OH MY GOD this is so consuming but I love it a lot. It’s different from the previous story I mentioned I need to stop getting my self involved with people born in 1997 lol
Me toooo same story i feel the pain gnaw my heart my soul i wouldn't forget him it too strong than my will i pray allh to get over him
Thank you so much for this video! I have pluto conjunct ascendant with this man I work with periodically (he is the pluto) and we stay in the same building. There was this magnetizing compelling energy between us which kept increasing every time we met, he even showed up during our community project voluntarily to help me and then he just went missing abruptly. I have pluto in scorpio ( my 8th house). I am working on being at ease with my own pluto but he has pluto square saturn in his natal chart. That may explain the breaking off.
Hi honey, this aspect is very intense and often frightens people, it's unfortunate but it can be overwhelming to where the one or the other runs out of fear of it.
You were spot on with your assessment. I met a man 25 years ago that I had a fling with. Very magnetic. I found him on FB last year and reached out and was interested in his astrology since we had something so magnetic. It innocently went naughty fast. I live an hour away from him, and the only two times I've been up that way I've seen him at the same restaurant. Back when I used to live up his way, we always bumped into each other. I've never had that with someone.
I told him a couple weeks ago that I saw him (he didn't see me) and once again we are naughty in emails. He does want to literally own my body, as he is now into bdsm. LOL....Plus, I have like 8 planets in his 8th house, and pluto/mars contacts...It's hard to resist this man. We are each other's drug. Ugh. It doesn't bother me because I'm a Sun/Pluto in my 1st house. I like the energy a lot.
I am insanely attracted to someone who has like 6 planets in my 8th house! It’s insane..
@@tithionline9458 how does he feels as planet person? Is he attracted to you? i shared this 8th house synastry, but I am house person, so I'd like to know.
@@Elwen-xs7gr I would like to know as well. It's hard for me to know what my planets are doing to him.
@@SJ-sb5ro if you only have your birth time, you can only know where His planet fall in your houses. If you have His birth time, you can know where your planet falls into his
@@Elwen-xs7gr Mine falls in his 7th and 8th...his fall in my 12th, 1st and 2nd...I was just curious what my 6 planets do to him in his 8th.
Amazing interpretation of this aspect. I'm 22 years deep into a complicated relationship with someone born exactly 10 days before me and I have Pluto 1° from my Asc in 12th
Well...when you r 50 and meet th one....with this aspect...it feels magical
Thank U
...so pretty accurate..
Hw got Pluto conjunct Moon in ascendant..and my Pluto conjuncts both..at 2⁰ distance...
Plus.. Mars
.mine in CAP..his in Taurus...
I so much appreciate his aloofness..calm.. patience... yet.........we r connected..on. Very much trusting way
I have this with someone at work, you can feel it but totally unspoken
Hi. Fascinating! It is unbelievable how accurate you describe the essence. Where can I contact you for synastry interpretation? Thank you.
D Lost Hi thank you! you can order a personal relationship Analysis audio recording or a recorded consultation at my site at.
Www.illumeastrology.blogspot.com or to read more about all the aspects and placements:)
She’s the most accurate astrologer I’ve ever found online.
Have this with basically my entire generation
I'm wondering if this aspect can create hatred too? the person I have this connection with has a very tight t-square natally with pluto opposite sun, both squaring mars at the apex. My ascendant turns his t-square into a grand-cross by squaring his pluto and sun exactly, with his mars right on my desc. He has such strong reactions to me just being myself that I don't know how to take it. But the intensity is just so overwhelming
Thank you so much for your thorough details.
My Pluto conjunct his Libra Asc in the same degree and his Asc falls in my 8thhouse where my Pluto is as well as his Mars and Moon in my Capricorn 12 th house where my Venus and Mercury are.His Sun in my 7th, mine his 5th and a lot more.I am 10 years older its a situationship and very intense.I am more aware of my Pluto,more talkable and understanding of his inner stragglers.I am also Aquarius Sun and Rising and i also strugle with the togetherness i want and freedom ❤This is the most intense romantic relationship i have until now.I dont know where it goes but i have so much love for him.Overall i guess we are both Plutonic.
Does an orb of 11 degrees considered as Pluto conjunct Asc? I feel like I can relate to this.
And, what do you think of the situation will be like if Asc person has Pluto conjunct her Asc natally (Pluto conjunct Pluto Asc)?
His Pluto conjunct my ascendant. My Pluto conjunct his moon, trine his venus, trine his ascendant and square his sun. To top it off we have double whammy sun conjunct moon! Natally I have Pluto conjunct sun, Mercury, Saturn and Jupiter and Pluto square moon so my whole life is that of intense birth, death and rebirth themes and experiences. We manifested each other into our lives and you are quite right, operating from a higher vibration whereby both souls have done their inner work, this truly is a deep one of a kind connection. Not to say we have not faced some triggers and deeply ingrained emotional traumas but when the other can see where that is coming from and not take it personally they can really get to the core of it to bring it into the light and transmute it. We also have many other placements conducive to acceptance, compassion, empathy, protection and nurturing which makes for two people who truly are committed to one another's well being, individual spiritual growth and growing and learning together. Extremely blessed. The only downfall to this is we met online in September 2019, met in person March 2020 when I travelled from Australia to the UK, then the world went mad and a 3 week holiday turned into 14 months! We got to know each other extremely quickly and I could say on a deeper level than some couples ever will. I finally got a flight home and now we must play the waiting game on when we can be together again. This distance may have something to do with his Venus in the 12th house among other things in God's plan but true love and a love so pure will always find a way if it's meant to be 🙏🏽💓💫
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and description on this placement 🙏🏽
Well... I have a crush on someone whose chart is very air heavy... his Scorpio Pluto is making a conj to my asc. His Pluto is Trining his Mercury.. but as far as Pluto.. that’s the only thing going for him...so do you think he can handle it well?
If not what should i do? I am insanely attracted to him.. and he sometimes acts as if he is indifferent..
let me see:
- his Jupiter (my 12h) conjunct my Virgo ASC;
- his Sun @ 0 degree conj. my ASC
- his Pluto (my 1h) conj. my ASC
- his Pluto square my Sun in the 4h, Sagittarius
- his Pluto opposition my Chiron in Pisces (7h)
- my Pluto (1h) conj. his Sun
- my Pluto trine his Moon....
- my Sun square his Pluto
- my Sun in his 8th house
- his Venus in my 1h - my Scorpio Venus in his 7h
there is more, of course....
he was, in a way, my colleague, a 'stakeholder', top level management; we barely knew each other on a personal level - barely even spoke - and yet i still managed to develop deep feelings for him as well as utmost respect.... l left the company under rather bad circumstances (had 'some' ethical issues with my superiors - funnily enough, directly and indirectly in relation to him), and he was the only person there actually supporting me through it, even though he didn't really know the details. haven't been in touch with him since i left (and chances are never will be again), but the impact he had on me will remain for ever.
Can I ask...what if someone's pluto squares your ascendant almost exact, but its an out of sign square (Scorpio pluto and Pisces ascendant) would this soften the square because of the trine signs or not because the degree is so close? :/
Is this similar to Pluto conjunct sun. His Pluto conjuncts my sun & my Pluto conjunct his ascendant. I hope the struggle is mutual
Would you consider a 10 degree orb a conjunction also? I feel it is
Hi - I just went to your website and saw that I can order an audio recording about our birth charts. I don't know his birth time and the moon transferred from Virgo to Libra on his birthday. Is it even worth doing an analysis w/o his birth time? [I do know that his pluto aspects my moon and my ascendant and that my sun aspects his pluto @ either .02-.49 degrees or something, etc. His Lilith also squares my ASC. There's just so much going on. Would a reading help?]
May I ask, in a general sense, is the energy harsher or softer when it is Quincunx? (1°).
generally harsher but other things can soften it and harsher aspects can be good as long as both focus on being flexible and their intentions are good. They are stimulating, passionate and transformational, positively.
Negatively abusive, negative or stubborn and dramatic:)
Illume Astrology Thanks so much for your reply!
Morte Faery ❤️ you’re welcome:)
So is this guaranteed attraction or can this make enemies as well. I feel like both could go.
Yes, it can go both ways for Pluto represents our shadow, , jealousy, obsession, Pride, Fear, power as well as rivals amongst many other things.
Would a 3-degree orb be small enough to feel this? We also have Pluto sextile moon and Pluto conjunct sun (at less than 1 degree). There's just so much intensity, I'm trying to pinpoint it.
Absolutely
@@Illumeastrology thank you so much for writing back so soon. I’m sitting here watching your videos right now. We have so much Pluto and Lilith and Neptune and moon, sun, Venus, Saturn, Mars. So literally everything. A lot of hard aspects and conjunctions, but a few trines and sextiles - like Venus-Mars, sun-Mars, Pluto-moon, but so many are hard aspects. Like moon square Venus, etc. just some examples. It’s overwhelmingly intense. I can barely look at him - his Pluto aspects my moon, ascendant and a few other outer planets. And my Pluto conjuncts his sun at .02 degrees. I’m not sure how to deal with this. That’s why I’m researching this right now. We work together and it’s really difficult so I’m trying to try to find some solutions. 😞 I honestly think I might have to change jobs because of this. I’m obsessed with him. I wonder if he is, but I’d never be able to act on anything because of our work relationship.
I'm Pluto dominant - Scorpio rising, Jupiter in 8th, Pluto in Scorpio 12th house, Pluto in aspect to 6 other placements, every single one of my close friends / relationships past and present have been Pluto doms - and I'm still so soooo afraid of this connection now it has happened in a tight orb. I feel like I'm losing myself (they also have sun, jupiter + north node to my 12th house). It's TOO MUCH!
What when also venus is conjunct, so his Pluto /venus conjuntion on my ascendant and jupiter?
I have this as an exact aspect, I’m Pluto. Also a 5th house stellium with him, weird combo…The thing is that I want to get closer to him, but he lives in another country.. should I move to this country ? I hope this aspect will bring us together
how would the opposition play out? would it be similar?
Usually it reflects more conflicts, stubbornness, and pushyness to get to transformation for better or worse. Although it’s quite magnetizing but can be frustrating as well. Much depends on other aspects and placements and how each handles there own Pluto ❤️
Her Pluto conjunct my Moon, Asc, Jupiter in Scorpio exact, My Pluto and Mercury square her Venus... OMG it's electric, fated, intense...! Her Sun and Jupiter is opposite my Venus too, and her moon trine my moon and Venus...! WOW
What about pluto trine ascendant?
My partner has Pluto + north node conjunct my ascendant (which happens to be in Scorpio). Can anyone offer insight into this?
Fast forward a year and it turns out he had psychopathic personality disorder, and he was all about power, and in his case, abuse of power. Lol
scorpio moon in the first house ,,and pluto in libra house one,,i have good attiutude no matter what i feel but i might apear dark with a bad attitude lol
JaNuSh mrJanuberry lol I think that’s why we say never judge a book by its cover:)
@@Illumeastrology u so right ! capricorns suns hardly smile though,, people cant really read me im so mysterious ,,,[ ;D] untill they talk to me there blown away of how much i am likeable
my 12 house pluto in virgo the person I like is virgo sun. What does it mean. I know that 12 house is very karmic past life stuff right. The person moon in my 8 house...
Very intense
Pluto in the first house which he was a scorpion rising and of course my Pluto is in the sign of Scorpio would that be like a double whammy because Pluto is in its own sign
Would this be similar to Pluto in partners 1st house??
Hi would this be the same description if you have Pluto conjunct the ascendant exact in draconic synastry but not in the normal synastry chart?
Yes:)
@@Illumeastrology wow really. thanks for your response. So would you consider the draconic synastry aspects to be just as powerful as tropical synastry aspects?
Popadoodledoo in my opinion the synastry is more important or noticeable but other charts can reflect similarities but the aspects in all the charts would have the same interpretation. :)
@@Illumeastrology got it. Thanks so much for clarifying :)
I’m a tropical astrologer for its been the most accurate for me in all aspects of astrology and my clients but each has there own way.
My Pluto Conjunct His Ascendant.
My Ascendant squares his Pluto.
I’ve never had such a good Synastry overall with any man.
I am Deffinetley obsessed and terrible of falling in love and being in pain.
He comes across as ‘indifferent’ emotionally speaking.
He keeps contacting me every single day, starting with ‘good morning’ through text.
Wants to know what Im doing, who Im doing it with, where Im at and what I am about to do next.
Doesent bother me but Im craving more
Emotional response.
He is a Scorpio rising with Venus in his 8th house.
We have verrt good lovely soft aspects overall.
I met him while visiting family abroad and things went pretty quickly from there.
I actually like the fact that its double whammy: so we’re both Pluto in this scenario.
For anything who wants to know:
I am 10 years older, have more money.
He has Saturn in the 5th natally so he is attracted to more mature Women Allthough I
Dont consider myself ‘old’ and people always mistake me for beinf in my 20’s.
On our 3rd date we had a 4 hour conversation about our possibilities future. In a verry practical and realistically way.
Nothing romantic about it.
Thank you for sharing your helping others! Many blessings and all my best to you!
@@Illumeastrology Your welcome!! 🙏🏼
My friend and I have alot of Pluto aspects, alot of mercury aspects. And it's funny bcuz our bond is so strong. But I got a crush on him. And he rejected me. But I liked him bcuz i thought he liked me n so many other ppl did to. He has a bf now, n shuts down when I talk about other men. He says hes not interested but his attention to me and the way he prioritizes me is too intense. I have told him to not care about me before. It's so strange. I transformed alot bcuz of my unrequited love situation. N I have definitely ran away from him alot because I'm trying to get over my attraction. Still am.
Funny u mention avoiding eye contact. Bcuz when we hung out alone for the 1st time he avoided eye contact the WHOLE TIME. N got so shy when I touched his hair. He still went off to get a gf tho so I try not to think of him romantically
I found this video because my Pluto is conjunct my son's ascendant although he is a very handsome young man because he looks exactly like me I haven't found any information yet that would be beneficial to the mother-son relationship?? Somebody put a positive spin on this please
What about when we both Conjunct each other’s ascendant and moon because we both share the same Pluto sign and ascendant sign? Then also my ascendant trines his mars? This is very intense and even the dreams I have of him are intense. And he runs and returns.
Im the acscendant person. His pluto 1th conjunct my asc in sag. We both have a virgo stellium. I have my moon, mercury, venus, lilith & NN in virgo in the 8th. He has sun, mercury, venus & NN in virgo 10th. He is a scorpio rising, i just have my MC in scorpio. We now are both in seperation. A lot of cold/ warm.. it just hurts, he push me away..
I have Pluto on my ascendant so any Pluto contacts to my ascendant or moon (libra) or Venus (Aquarius) then I feel it like it was fated both good and bad.
wow moon is horrible you will be the one obsessed
I have this with a man who has his Pluto and his north node conjunct my ascendant 3 degrees and sextile his mars. Also my mars is opposite his Venus conjunct my Jupiter and my Venus is conjunct his mars. However, nothing will ever become of this because our situation is very taboo. I feel the intensity to an extreme. He is the one chasing me and i have sexual fantasies about him but it will never work because of our circumstances. It’s hard to get him out of my mind, it is like a spell.
Will an orb of 5.21 degree be felt between this aspect ?
Is it possible for this type of relationship to begin again after a long time. When I see the 'pluto' man again ... I am back where we were like it was yesterday even though it was a long time back. I never really got over the relationship and I wish we could go back and do it right. we have many other aspects - his ascendant to my moon - his north node to my moon and other stuff, I know in my heart of hearts we are soul connected. I also wonder do you ever get over it ?
It's always possible to get back together. Relationships are complex and so is astrology. However, the Astrology can explain a lot of things. Retrogrades are common times to revisit and see if you can work things out. It's hard to say without seeing the charts of both people and the transits you are both experiencing along with the composite and the transits to see more of what's going on and perhaps what can be done or how it can be approached.
But Yes, it's possible to get over it, as hard as it seems with time and inner work and sometimes meeting someone else. However, this particular aspect is very powerful and hard to let go of and even harder if the relationship was established but certainly possible but will take inner work and release. Love relationships are the hardest but we do eventually move on if it's not possible to work them out. Because it takes two to want it. If you would like me to look into it to help you can certainly order a reading. Otherwise, I send you a big hug and lot's of positive energy and say don't be afraid to try, sometimes getting the answer one way or another can be the most healing:)
Yes
I have the same with a man I've known over 25 years...like the universe keeps pulling us back in.
I had this with my first and current husband I’m the ascendant only think it feels insanely controlling
Does pluto behave the same if one of the partners pluto is retrograde.
My hubs Pluto is retrograde feels new intense my first hub didn’t have the retrograde it was intense but now like my second husband
does 7 degree orb count?
I’m dating someone who’s Pluto conjuncts my ascendant and my Pluto sextiles his Venus and trines his Mars.
I am a Scorpio Rising, With Pluto in my 1st house. However, I attract men whom Pluto falls in my 1st house OR either Pluto conjuncts my Ascendant. I’m trying to not attract Pluto relationships, but my Scorpio Rising just calls out for/to them.
DGARLAND4444 I understand I’m Scorpio rising too:) Ypu May want to see where Pluto is transiting I got more Pluto in my 12th house peeps or the Heavy Pluto types when Pluto was in my first and 12th or square or opposite my venus:)
Sorry, I made a typo. My Pluto is in my 1st house, so maybe that’s why I’m attracting guys who’s Pluto falls into my 1st. Also, Pluto is currently transiting my 3rd house where my Venus is.
isn’t that the same thing Pluto in first house and conjuncts the ascendant
Hi ! What if Pluto is opposite the ascendant?
Watch for power struggles and issues with control. However neither of these need to be it can simply be the relationship offer a massive transformation of both of you if your both.
@@Illumeastrology thank you !
Is there a video on the opposition?
What about square never heard anyone talking about this aspect?
The square is very powerful for transformation both positively and negatively. If the Pluto person has the best interest for the Ascendant person than the Pluto person can help the Ascendant person make positive changes by uncovering parts of themselves they may not have been aware and also promoting change through example. Negatively, manipulative, bossy and trying to get the Ascendant to do something not healthy or damage them in some way.
Is this fatal attraction with exact orb?
Not in itself no. There would need to be extreme obsessive unhealthy traits in the individual chart along with the synastry chart but this can bring a powerful attraction in itself.
Man it's like the person wants to take your body and soul whole
Lol it certainly feels like that sometimes
Exactly and doesnt let you get away from them
@@katarinaj.6830 you can get away it takes will power if that’s truly what you want. Pluto likes to test your will.
@@Illumeastrology it surely does 😆 you're right. But we have quite a few pluto aspects so it's that much harder but not impossible I know. Thank you for replying 😉😊
@@katarinaj.6830 if it’s toxic or doesn’t feel good you need to let go. If it’s healthy and feels good why get away.? These are Pluto’s ways. The higher octave is transcendence deep meaningful love the lower is being trapped in toxicity or addicted to it. Pluto is about rising as the Phoenix out of the ashes each painful experience strengthens you but not to fall victim of the perpetrator of the lower vibration of manipulation negative transformation and unhealthy attachment for the damage can be extreme however Pluto has to get one to transform he will. There are very negative expressions of Pluto and higher ones both transform. Lots of love to you and the strength to do what’s best for you.
His Pluto conjunct my ascendant, I don't know how to survive 😔
Lol you need to be stronger than it that is controlling you.
Me pluto and my husband ascendent
Lucy who do you think feels it more or do you think it's pretty evenly felt?
@@carlyk9168 I feel that in the beginning it was very intense and fast because my husband had bipolar disorder, so everything was very intense on his part because he was sick and I was taking care of him. The sexual part has always been very strong. But with 20 years of living together things have been balanced and we have a very fraternal living together. The beginning was based on his emotional problems and I was there to support him. Then he got better. I've had other loves too but the settings are different. My husband is a very family person and has a characteristic of being very protective. I am more authoritarian and controlling.
@@carlyk9168 i am the pluto of the relationship, i want to control everything but my husband is peaceful
@@carlyk9168 I had this with my ex of 15 years and now with my new man I’m assuming the Pluto person feels it more because they are the ones that end up controlling the asc person I guess in fear of losing them that’s the main reason I divorced my ex of 15 years too much I couldn’t be myself
I'm the ascendant and my crush is the Pluto person.. but Pluto conjunct Eros... Within1 degrees or so my ascendant... And my moon conjunct Saturn conjunction. Plus het Venus conjunct lilith in first house.. trine my Venus conjunct sun... I am very in love with her. I saw her picture.. since my ascendant is sagittarius... She's an athlete... And even before meeting her. I though of her as just absolutely beautiful.. and then I ran across her and iwent ight up to her.. we chatted about her sport and upcoming game.. I said I'd like to attend her games. It's been at least 9months of looking for her.. love from afar.. then I attended her home game. It was crazy. She had her best game.. pitched a shut out game.. no hitter... she and are estranged .. texted but since she is so much younger than me.. she wanted it secret.. and secret hookups. I loved her .. ewanna marry her. Couldn't stand being with her then be top secret. She ran.. but still in the wings... Like sitting in the place where I normally sit.. she blocked me on Instagram.. face book.. after saying she loved me too. Plus I'm struggling financially. Etc. Of course that hurt my feelings intensely.. left me in tears.. and leery.. she expressed jealousy possesiveness. Angry.. cause of all the hot wimmen on my Instagram. That was after she and her team mates noticed me at her game. She had ran the 1st time I encountered afterwards.. after seeing me smiling at me through the aisle. Away from her female friend...plus avoided me.. I was just love sick miserable when I didn't get to see her before thanksgiving.. Christmas break. So I decided to try to forget her..with other girls. I saw her on Instagram. Loved her photo..she checked me out. Saw girls on my profile..blocked me. I had to ask someone to beg her to explain why m blocked..etc
She messaged me. Unblocked me. Blocked me cause she was mad jealous. Which I am and of at fault and wanted to make her jealous. She said she loved me too..but still heart broken over an ex boyfriend who cheated on her. I was kind of not happy about her wanting to use me for sex and in secret..felt she had n right to be jealous or possessive of me unless she makes it official..be my woman..and I be her man..I wasn't interested in being her boy toy. Boyfriend..but to be her man. So I am refusing to speak to her cause she ghosted me..but left me able to message her.. so maybe I'm running too.i am very in love with her. But we estranged...😥😭😭😭
sry man, but i need to tell you as it is.
Grow up and stop playing games because of your own 'insecurities' or 'control' issues.
Love and respect goes hand in hand, you do not make other people jealous...there is nothing in it that shows love or respect, then also don't wonder that the Universe tells you enough is enough, you clearly are not ready for real love. Maybe in the future..after you worked on yourself and your issues. And be a man of honor and respect, maybe then you will get what you want, until then you get what you deserve whatever that might be.
We write our own fates without realizing what our own actions and intentions create. You can fool others and even yourself, but you not gonna fool the universe.
If the universe stand inf or protection of people soul and heart, never will it be allowed to cross certain lines that are TOXIC to begin with in terms of what the universe deem to be healthy..
@@lok6314 more like desperation...and there is a moon conjunct saturn near conjunct natal ascendant. so that...big boys dont cry ..is a very heavy yoke on my soul. if that helps...I am a very complex person.. it is a source of great frustration to be always in an impasse emotionally ..especially with intense feelings for another. dont be hating.
how do you have this placement when she is way younger pluto is a generational placement you maybe mistaken
I’m the ascendant he’s the Pluto and his moon is in my 8th house 😝
Hello, same here, I wud love to know if u're still together..??..
same i’m exhausted but stuck it’s not toxic just draining bc I don’t want a codependent relationship
@@themoonbleu627 Pluto conj asc 3°. Saturn trine Pluto 0° . Mars trine Pluto 2° . Pluto sq chiron 1° . 2.5 years in with a 4 month old :)