Woman Admits She Has Been Enabling Daughter With Emotional Problems

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  • Опубликовано: 1 янв 2025

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  • @carlaheidegger1027
    @carlaheidegger1027 4 года назад +1558

    The mom is a whole mood. 🤣 All I need for attention is a brow and and bra 🤣🤣 I can't.

  • @misslibbybelle
    @misslibbybelle 4 года назад +1278

    I love this old woman with her fur hats and her champagne! Lol

  • @ThunderFist1978
    @ThunderFist1978 4 года назад +421

    There is something endearing about the mother.

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 4 года назад +61

      She is vibrant, eccentric, and intelligent. I like her too!

    • @Somebodysmother_
      @Somebodysmother_ 4 года назад +33

      I'd love to have a sit down and drinks with her 😍😍 shes hilarious

    • @mskatonic1
      @mskatonic1 4 года назад +20

      She is a class act.

  • @ceci7962
    @ceci7962 4 года назад +779

    Lori is terrifying.. she’s acting more like an old women than their mother.. jeezzz..

    • @ItsAllLove4Real
      @ItsAllLove4Real 4 года назад +13

      Exactly!!

    • @fireyblazemaster3253
      @fireyblazemaster3253 4 года назад +1

      That’s just rude!

    • @ceci7962
      @ceci7962 4 года назад +20

      Firey BlazeMaster I’m not trying too! She honestly gave me anxiety!

    • @ItsAllLove4Real
      @ItsAllLove4Real 4 года назад +2

      Firey BlazeMaster And true

    • @fireyblazemaster3253
      @fireyblazemaster3253 4 года назад

      CVK Reality is reality humans are humans, there’s a difference, humans say horrible things about humans that may be true or not but either way there’s no reason for humans to point theses things for out no reason at all! “Live every day as it has a purpose, this is how you get closer to yourself and learn, there’s only one time this day exists non can take this day away from you!” This is one of my quotes so some people are staying away from what they should be rather then what they want to be, they think they should look like the strong one in the group should they no but if that’s them then yes!

  • @redwoods7370
    @redwoods7370 4 года назад +314

    There are care homes with trained staff, enrichment activities weekly, and vocational support where Lori could and should live when her mother passes away if not before.

    • @silh7605
      @silh7605 4 года назад +4

      True!

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 4 года назад +3

      Exactly 👍💯

    • @meiyuan2134
      @meiyuan2134 4 года назад +3

      not everyone wants to live in a home is the thing.

    • @daniellelee2309
      @daniellelee2309 4 года назад +2

      Mei Yuan I definitely don’t!

    • @katstarr5383
      @katstarr5383 4 года назад +7

      Mei Yuan well its loris choice. If she won’t help herself then she needs to go to a home. Forcing the next family member to take care of her is not fair.

  • @angelhelton9098
    @angelhelton9098 4 года назад +679

    Those hats are the best things that have ever come from this show 🤣

    • @lizmore3915
      @lizmore3915 4 года назад +4

      😂😂

    • @Xeyuno
      @Xeyuno 4 года назад +4

      Does eyes from her Daughter open wide 😂😂😂🙄

    • @dl4y55
      @dl4y55 4 года назад +1

      My grandma used to wear those. 😁

    • @sonias9722
      @sonias9722 4 года назад

      Ikr

    • @cleombangi3081
      @cleombangi3081 4 года назад

      😂😂😂 those eyes though

  • @chellepatino1675
    @chellepatino1675 4 года назад +320

    Laurie looks to be putting on an act. Even with her voice.

    • @laureljade3476
      @laureljade3476 4 года назад +5

      Like Barbra Chandler during an ebegging video.

    • @allyraverty6644
      @allyraverty6644 4 года назад +3

      I like the voice. It's calming and slow. What she says is annoying though

    • @thatsonyou6093
      @thatsonyou6093 4 года назад +1

      Welcome to dr. Phil

    • @0r0r0
      @0r0r0 3 года назад

      She could do meditation videos or record audio books. It's a soothing voice, but I agree it's part of the manipulation.

  • @funnyferret6064
    @funnyferret6064 4 года назад +474

    “It’s not worth the brain damage”
    Pfftt damn. I love that.

  • @Conscious_casper
    @Conscious_casper 4 года назад +52

    She blew a kiss to the audience ❤️😂 I really want to listen to her life story. Mom is fabulous and fierce❤️❤️

  • @Ana-vq9ku
    @Ana-vq9ku 4 года назад +262

    She is only worried about who will baby sit her when the mother is gone. She even said she want her sister to help her.. like why can’t she try and be independent

    • @paloma4444
      @paloma4444 4 года назад +9

      I mean she is 58. Not easy to find a job at that age. And she has emotional issues on top

    • @rosesweetcharlotte
      @rosesweetcharlotte 4 года назад +8

      That woman is clearly mentally and emotionally unwell.

    • @0r0r0
      @0r0r0 3 года назад

      @@paloma4444 that's when you can get assistance. It might not be a lot, but it'll get you a shitty apartment and keep the lights on.

  • @hunnybee_
    @hunnybee_ 4 года назад +154

    *“an eyebrow and a bra”* 😂😂😂😂 best thing i’ve heard in a while!!!

  • @corvinbrady3603
    @corvinbrady3603 4 года назад +150

    The old women is literally everything I want to be

    • @0r0r0
      @0r0r0 3 года назад +3

      Minus the one kid

  • @gigib8849
    @gigib8849 4 года назад +225

    I have no sympathy for Lori whatsoever. She has obviously made a life out of playing the victim.

  • @evelynecstasy
    @evelynecstasy 4 года назад +94

    That lady is having the time of her life LMAO

  • @amandarobbins2530
    @amandarobbins2530 4 года назад +40

    The mum is so sassy I love her

  • @blueturtle3623
    @blueturtle3623 4 года назад +41

    The woman shouldn't have to inherit a sister with problems. She's perfectly able to care for herself, she just doesn't.

  • @MommyCassReborns
    @MommyCassReborns 4 года назад +29

    awe I like this mother! She is fun and sweet.

  • @DrPhil-om7vg
    @DrPhil-om7vg 4 года назад +169

    that mom is the queen of sass... Kinda second guess being with Robin now 😳😳

  • @levlynds1902
    @levlynds1902 4 года назад +34

    I have OCD and major depression; this lady badly needs a counsellor to teach her cognitive behavioural therapy skills. Medication does help but without CBT you don't have the skills to deal with obsessive and irrational thoughts.

  • @kenshinhimura2322
    @kenshinhimura2322 4 года назад +96

    The comments are on??? I always question channels on RUclips that have comments turned off. Let us criticize freely.

  • @emmatalmadge1473
    @emmatalmadge1473 4 года назад +64

    The sad part in this is that one day Mom will be incapacitated in some way and she will be taken for everything she’s got. Lori is very comfortable in her life, she will never change a darn thing. She will end up with the relationships she has fostered. Doesn’t take much thinking to figure that out.

    • @paloma4444
      @paloma4444 4 года назад

      What do you mean 'end up with the relationships she has fostered'

    • @emmatalmadge1473
      @emmatalmadge1473 4 года назад +2

      Raul she will end up alone. She has made no effort in life. She expects others to do what she’s not willing to do.

  • @sophian9105
    @sophian9105 4 года назад +22

    That mother is absolutely hysterical. She stole the show. 😂

  • @NicE-jq3wv
    @NicE-jq3wv 4 года назад +83

    Professional victims sicken me.

  • @Stephanie56372
    @Stephanie56372 4 года назад +25

    Get the woman a care nurse and or a butler and let everyone live. They’re too old to be acting like this.

  • @zanelemofikoe2374
    @zanelemofikoe2374 4 года назад +5

    This grandmother is goals!!! Just wants to live her last days unworried!!! I’ll drink to that!!!!

  • @diradiana6331
    @diradiana6331 4 года назад +27

    Here's what I believe.
    The mother whom we can tell has always been about glitz , glam , and most likely men with money , grew up her girls to be like her , however Lorie wasn't and felt this from a pretty young age maybe because of her OCD . Therefore never letting go of her mothers gown tail and whereby clinging on kept her the love and attention , she couldn't find outside the home . The mother of course is very sassy and controlling and used Loris dependency of her to treat her how she pleased , which may bother Lorie sometimes but has made her an enabler as well.
    The baby sister is a bit jealous and angry all at the same time and this is what has placed a wedge between the two sisters . Honestly it's a time to forgive put the past behind them and move on . Find some common ground and just live out the rest of their lives in togetherness , life is too short especially at those ages to still be holding onto the past .

  • @Vic35102
    @Vic35102 4 года назад +83

    She is like the female Norman Bates

    • @aidenkriens-nauer5575
      @aidenkriens-nauer5575 4 года назад +6

      But Norman Bates already cosplayed as female Norman Bates.

    • @lizmore3915
      @lizmore3915 4 года назад +1

      😂😂

    • @Lys_Alaya
      @Lys_Alaya 4 года назад +1

      @@aidenkriens-nauer5575 he was Norma Bates(his mother) not female norman bates

  • @IAMPRETTYPHX
    @IAMPRETTYPHX 4 года назад +5

    LOVE the mom! I can’t knock anyone for being genuine and staying true to themselves. She said what she did and MEANT IT, love it!🤣

  • @SC-dn7bq
    @SC-dn7bq 4 года назад +69

    LMAOO THE MOM

  • @jaelyyymar8071
    @jaelyyymar8071 4 года назад +9

    And I thought my grandma was lively! Bravo to that mother!

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster 4 года назад +6

    It all comes down to the older sister saying "I hope you can help me!" In regards to the younger sister. She wants her to just fill her mother's role and do everything for her too

  • @rachaelrodriguez2594
    @rachaelrodriguez2594 4 года назад +5

    The Mom is literally a mood with those fur hats and a glass of champagne 🥂😂 I hope I’m like her at her age!

  • @paulie555
    @paulie555 4 года назад +19

    The way Lori talks made me think of that woman that acts In American Horror Story

  • @lilyflower5576
    @lilyflower5576 3 года назад +1

    The Mom is so full of life 💖

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster 4 года назад +4

    Its terrifying when your 78 year old mother looks, walks, acts, lives, moves, etc 20 years younger than you.

  • @james-bryannaadams6928
    @james-bryannaadams6928 3 года назад +1

    I love this mom so much 💕

  • @snaps4emma
    @snaps4emma 4 года назад +2

    it's amazing the mom can have such a light in her with that daughter moping around all the time

  • @drewblackland7125
    @drewblackland7125 4 года назад +1

    “She has even told my mother that she thought I was going to kill her. And that is not true.”
    Ya way to sell it

  • @lauraread696
    @lauraread696 4 года назад +2

    The last sentence says it all. I hope we can get along and you can help me.

  • @hannermarie973
    @hannermarie973 4 года назад +12

    just for the record - munchhousen syndrome is when an adult or child makes THEMSELF sick for attention. Munchhousen syndrome by proxy is when a PARENT makes there CHILD sick for attention. I do love this womans hats they're great!

  • @thevibingmcnugget6534
    @thevibingmcnugget6534 4 года назад +17

    Her hat looks great on her lol

  • @sheneedssomemilk7716
    @sheneedssomemilk7716 4 года назад +1

    it's people like Lori who keep the stigma around depression/mental illnesses alive tbh, I know it can be hard to do ANYTHING some days but just sitting back and blaming her emotional issues for her laziness and not even trying to better herself won't get her anywhere

  • @EmmaLee150
    @EmmaLee150 4 года назад +3

    Fur coats and champagne and just over all fabulousness?! This woman is a WHOLE MOOD!

  • @giselleoquendo3938
    @giselleoquendo3938 4 года назад +1

    This is like a real life arrested development

  • @Redder-sz9tt
    @Redder-sz9tt 4 года назад +57

    Lorie needs to start getting physically fit to get around with her sister Kim from time to time. Mom should at times take a break from Lorie. I think all three can have a fabulous time having get togethers now & then. All 3 can't be in the same room daily without having
    a disagreement. Life is short and having grudges doesn't help at all.

  • @lauracook6323
    @lauracook6323 Год назад +1

    Guess what … good mothers do enable to an extent. It’s a fine line I’m a parent of 4 adults now my youngest w special needs and I KNOW that!

  • @darreylhenderson8979
    @darreylhenderson8979 4 года назад +5

    "I don't really believe that she would kill me.. but I'm not sure" 😂😂

  • @justjulesvlogs
    @justjulesvlogs 4 года назад +1

    The mother has class

  • @stephaniejohnson7679
    @stephaniejohnson7679 4 года назад +1

    I ADORE the mom

  • @PrinnyD1ana
    @PrinnyD1ana 4 года назад +1

    The mum is a queen

  • @Noneofyourbuisiness22
    @Noneofyourbuisiness22 4 года назад +1

    I love that old lady so much

  • @agnesmkhuzangwe7308
    @agnesmkhuzangwe7308 3 года назад +1

    Mental health is real

  • @angelbay282
    @angelbay282 4 года назад +3

    This mother is a WHOLE mood

  • @hannahsstressed8101
    @hannahsstressed8101 4 года назад +2

    I need this woman as my grandmother!!!! She is so preciousss

  • @celestemartinez4014
    @celestemartinez4014 4 года назад +2

    This video is so crazy because this is literally my mom, sister and I in the future. My sister is soo manipulative and my mom has just enabling her ways and she’s becoming more and more unstable

  • @rachelbrinkmeier6387
    @rachelbrinkmeier6387 4 года назад +3

    As someone that also deals with mental health issues, Lori is honestly not doing anything to help herself. Sure, she takes medication, but WHAT IS SHE DOING TO MANAGE HER ILLNESS? It's not others' jobs to manage her, it's her own personal responsibility. I was on disability for 20 years. I worked myself off, I'm in recovery, I work full-time (in the mental health field). I manage my own symptoms so that I can function in the world. If I need extra support, I ask for it, I practice self-care. I encourage my peers to "end the pity party" and I encourage personal responsibility. There are so many resources, supportive organizations out there, there is really no need for someone capable to sit at home and allow others to take care of them.

  • @Benyikoko
    @Benyikoko 3 года назад +1

    I love the fur hats lol

  • @arlenecarson6133
    @arlenecarson6133 3 года назад

    Good job Dr Phil with the full episodes!!!!!

  • @angelinasmith6307
    @angelinasmith6307 4 года назад +8

    The mom is everything 😍🍾

  • @megaroo6110
    @megaroo6110 4 года назад +3

    "It's not worth the brain damage ", I feel that lol!

  • @candycanevzh7630
    @candycanevzh7630 4 года назад +3

    Awww I would adore life with a flamboyant mom like this one! She’s so cool! Love how she has a fancy glass of champagne to “drink to that!” at any and all chances!

  • @debrawehrly9551
    @debrawehrly9551 4 года назад +3

    I have OCD, but I am functional. I work, own a house, and financially responsible. I do not consider my OCD as an "illness." It can be very distressing, but i am not ill

  • @marianakendall2978
    @marianakendall2978 4 года назад +19

    I’m getting grey gardens vibe from Lori

  • @missdee8075
    @missdee8075 4 года назад +9

    Mom looks amazing and put that daughter in a nursing home. Because I don't see how else she is going to find a man or friends

  • @sharonhowell582
    @sharonhowell582 4 года назад +2

    Learned helplessness is the waste of life.

  • @kathconserv
    @kathconserv 4 года назад +15

    I love mom. I need an eyebrow and a bra...

  • @StopThatWeebNamedRia
    @StopThatWeebNamedRia 4 года назад +14

    The mom is so cool

  • @alexandratoledo512
    @alexandratoledo512 4 года назад +5

    I wanna be like the mom when I grow up

  • @kaylasnyder4700
    @kaylasnyder4700 4 года назад +27

    I'm seriously confused on whose the mother and daughters here, they all look old

  • @christareyes7957
    @christareyes7957 4 года назад +5

    Shark eyes..👀
    "I don't know how much longer I can hang on" 🙄🙄 I totally am not shaming her, as someone who also suffers from mental illness issues.. but this woman makes me wanna scratch my eyeballs outta my face. 🤦‍♀️

  • @pr4323
    @pr4323 4 года назад +2

    It’s not really 4 am if you don’t end up watching dr Phil videos

  • @trinityemond3642
    @trinityemond3642 4 года назад +4

    The old woman and the sister look like they came straight out of a Wes Andersen movie

  • @llacey
    @llacey 4 года назад +5

    I would love to help them out on the interior of that beautiful estate... it has so much potential

  • @skaiafourthirteen
    @skaiafourthirteen 4 года назад +48

    These Dr Phil stories are so sad :(
    I can't believe people can be so mean sometimes
    Edit: thanks for all the likes :>

    • @CodeNameDark
      @CodeNameDark 4 года назад +1

      @Catherine Robertson shut up

    • @nicole_1316
      @nicole_1316 4 года назад +3

      I know but that’s 2020 for ya

    • @skaiafourthirteen
      @skaiafourthirteen 4 года назад +1

      @@nicole_1316 man, 2020 is like, the worst thing ever.

    • @nicole_1316
      @nicole_1316 4 года назад +2

      Catherine Robertson I know loads of sad and depressing stuff has happened

  • @knekki.
    @knekki. 4 года назад +1

    Bless that momma

  • @delanac1809
    @delanac1809 3 года назад +2

    Sorry but I love this mother. I hope to have her type of spirit at that age🥰

  • @jamielunes1841
    @jamielunes1841 4 года назад

    Mom be chillin😂😂

  • @anxiousniamh2199
    @anxiousniamh2199 4 года назад

    For some reason the field interview gave me some real The Office vibes. I love this lady.

  • @Viralhorsevds
    @Viralhorsevds 4 года назад

    I have OCD, BPD, depression, anxiety. It’s exhausting.

  • @sydneybongiorno2757
    @sydneybongiorno2757 4 года назад +1

    I have anxiety, OCD, and depression but I'd rather have my mother kick me out than to ever be as pathetic and self-victimizing as that lady.

  • @allyraverty6644
    @allyraverty6644 4 года назад +1

    I love the moms confidence

  • @chellepatino1675
    @chellepatino1675 4 года назад +3

    The mom needs to hire an outside person to handle everything. Ombudsman.

  • @kissiehebert5235
    @kissiehebert5235 4 года назад +6

    That’s a really really really bad

  • @nosytarot3553
    @nosytarot3553 4 года назад +1

    "I never get to see my mother, because of my sister.. it's not worth the brain damage " lmaooo

  • @rickydmcadams628
    @rickydmcadams628 4 года назад +1

    My point is. If you share your fears. Hellllo. Now you can get attention .

  • @eSaR10
    @eSaR10 4 года назад +19

    Third or second. Depends if you count the self promoters

  • @rickydmcadams628
    @rickydmcadams628 4 года назад +5

    She is expressing herself and before she was able to. They threw out mental and medication. See what i mean by strategy.?

  • @lacyrussell6688
    @lacyrussell6688 4 года назад

    Why does the daughter act older than mother😆😆😆 She seems to have a lot of excuses for herself. I think she should get out of the nest and be a grown woman on her own

  • @JednaJedinaJa85
    @JednaJedinaJa85 4 года назад

    And I’ll drink to that! 🤣🤣 LOVE IT!

  • @sarahm8695
    @sarahm8695 4 года назад +1

    My great-grandma Belle was like the mother, even up to her death at 93. I miss her.

  • @kiraslator5101
    @kiraslator5101 4 года назад

    this old woman is my idol lmaooo

  • @lulu5803
    @lulu5803 4 года назад

    I want to be Lydia when I grow up.

  • @jerrymorganjr
    @jerrymorganjr 4 года назад +1

    All these comments and nobody talking about how badass those hats are.

  • @Kingmattclements
    @Kingmattclements 4 года назад +3

    I’m a fan of Dr. Phill

  • @dragon202920
    @dragon202920 4 года назад +3

    Having emotional problems/depression/OCD while can be debilitating do not make you incompetent to be independent. There are numerous people who suffer from all of those diagnoses or those seperatly who have independent lives and or need little support to have a full healthy life. Lori strikes me as someone who might have more going on that those disorders. I feel like she might be more special needs then mental health. I am only speculating and not a trained physician, there is somthing up with her behavior thats not just mental health oriented.

  • @PrincessKarrah
    @PrincessKarrah 3 года назад

    Kim is not being a wicked mean sister she just not willing to buy the whole poor helpless Lori story like her mom is. Lori is more then capable of pulling her own weight but because her mom has not held her to any type of standard Lori acts the way she does. I seen elementary school children who behave better then Lori does and who have more required of them then Lori does.

  • @misty4757
    @misty4757 2 года назад

    This mom is badass! Idc, her fur hats are bomb, her house is beautiful. I don't care for the enabling tho, that should absolutely stop, but I get it. It's your daughter and you want to make sure she's safe, stable, secure! But.. the oldest daughter, is unstable and needs to get well.

  • @416ttoni
    @416ttoni 4 года назад +2

    The mother is so adorable lmao

  • @KarinaPrime
    @KarinaPrime 4 года назад +1

    I like this mom

  • @joycefigueroa7117
    @joycefigueroa7117 4 года назад +1

    2:10 “How I get when I see ice cream* 😛