He is so defensive. There’s always a close guy friend or a girl friend that is waiting in the background for your current relationship to fail so they can swoop in. If you are in a relationship or married, you need to include them in your friendship. Your significant other should always come first over a friend. Things change.
And pretty soon he’s gonna be more than a shoulder to cry on. He’s gonna let his “friend” come between them?🤔 If he hasn’t cheated physically, it’ll happen soon. Why does he feel that it’s HIS job to comfort her? Doesn’t she have family or FEMALE friends?
You can have a friend of the opposite gender in a marriage, that's fine, but when you start crossing boundaries that's when it becomes a problem. My man should not be another woman's shoulder to lean on, idc what anyone says, once he got married that is no longer something he can be, sorry not sorry. Wifey comes first, he shouldn't have married her if he wasn't ready to put her first.
WHYYYYYY does Ryan ALWAYS jump in the call too soon (again)? If Ryan would have kept quiet a bit longer, Sisanie would have been able to ask more questions in addition to what he wanted to write on the card🙄
Cheating or not, it's not out of the realm of possibility that he would send Veronica flowers to cheer her up. Yes - the fact that he said "WE'LL get through this" instead of "YOU'LL is key. "He's being absolutely dickish to his wife - how about sending Leila flowers for being understanding of his relationship with his 'friend'? He just abuses it and doesn't care what his wife is thinking. What an asshole, giving his wife an ultimatum. He needs to sort out his priorities. This one needs an update if there is one.
Is this guy for real? Is he seriously trying to make his wife feel bad for accusing him? He's clearly cheating! No man should ever send red roses to anyone but the woman in his life. I hope she dumped him and got herself a REAL man!
His wife waited until they were married to finally say something. She’s always been jealous. She let her be in the wedding party simply to try to establish a more dominant role. It didn’t work and now she is vocal about her problem with it
Apparently the wife did have an issue with it, she should have said something in the beginning. Also, it is very inappropriate for David to seemingly be closer with the female best friend than his wife. The wife should be the best friend, not some other woman. This guy is such a goof.
Ryan just because you have a mic it doesn’t mean that you are right, this woman has been dealing with these two’s friendship a long long time ago now she feels something is not right.. and you wanna judge her You don’t sleep with him so you don’t know him like she does... Like the caller said, either he is or planing to that’s why he is so defensive... Next time please do not do that, if the woman say she smells a rat she smells a rat... she has been dealing with them a long time + he sounds like a bully too Much love from overseas.
Best friends are family why is all the women so insecure they been together longer than him being with the wife they are always together now she has a gut feeling ya trust your gut but it’s not always a good thing to be honest it’s like one or the other that’s not fair to him
I'm sure all men would love it if their wife had a best friend that was a man, right? You'd be fine with that, because men are so much more rational when it comes to their wife having male friends. You're in denial.
the problem with this was she never gave him any boundaries with this girl best friend. She thought she would be OK with it but she never said anything so because of this is hindsight 2020. If she would’ve took the steps to know her to get to know her chances are you got my heart these Ryan roses. By the way I think maybe the other reason why she think it might be an affair is that this woman may be on equal terms or maybe even above her in looks So now she’s extra concerned.
Geez! If someone called me, basically setting me up to get caugh cheating, I would be defensive as well. I would be pissed off. Sometimes their opinions are ridiculous. 😑😑😑
Oh yeah he's having an emotional affair right in front of the wife's face. And since the friend is in a vulnerable position she'll lean on him for "comfort and sooner or later he will be accommodating and "comfort" the friend in a physical way. PLUS he's not listening to his WIFE who he MARRIED! Seriously girl, you need to leave if you are feeling like you are the 5th wheel in a relationship.
Ryan, since this girl is a close friend you should have let sisanie ask, like she does when you give her the chance, if this is romantic or not? Or sometimes she asks "who is so n so to you". That way they can't turn it around saying it's just a friendly gesture, or what everyone says "they're going through a hard time". Cmon Ryan, how long you been doing this? 15 years
Cheating or not this is a HUGE problem. He basically hinted that if his friend was going to be a problem in the future THEY needed to discuss their relationship. I think he love the girl more than his wife.
Sorry not sorry. The wife comes first. I'm old school. Ain't no way you're best friend is a female that ain't me. I wouldn't have married him. He's choosing the best friend over the wife. If they don't have kids together I'd bounce.
Sorry, but the fact that he made his best lady friend a groomsman is rather inappropriate. Why would you ask your bride to share the title of “women I want to be by my side“ with your lady friend? How is that not weird? Your wife is supposed to be the closest lady friend you have. If not, then you shouldn’t be married. Simple.
If I was the wife I would be very worried about his friend. . Emotional relationships are just as much cheating and having sex with each other. Even though he would send flowers with the excuse that he sent them because she’s feeling bad is still not something a married man should do. The fact that he got mad proves if hasn’t happened yet it’s going to. Given enough time their going to get together. The fact that he’s really to issue and altimeter to his wife over his friend just isn’t right. Oh and Ryan she’s his wife has a right to be concerned. His friend is now single, big game changer and the fact that he’s really to scare his wife to either accept it or we’re in trouble.
Ryan I think you butt in too quickly....perhaps waiting to dive in you would get more information that will make things clearer. I think that if he had to pick between his wife and BFF (although he shouldn't have to). I think regardless of whether he is having an affair or not the issue is that his wife is not truly a priority.
Wow, there are a few f**king numbakulls in these comments. I swear, she could have come home to the two of them sleeping naked in bed together, and these commenters would say, "omg she's so insecure! Men and women are allowed to be friends! She's being crazy! She should trust him!" Totally missing the point - he's neglecting his wife and playing a husband role to this other woman. I wonder how they would feel if their partner was doing what he's doing? I think he's always been in love with Veronica, but because she wasn't available, he had to put his feelings on the backburner and move on. His wife was just a second option. Now that Veronica is single, he's ready to pounce.
He basically threatened his wife that if she kept having a problem with his woman-friend that they would have a problem. As if any man on the planet would be fine if his wife had a best man friend and put him above the husband's status. Even Steve Harvey says men don't have women friends that they have no interest in dating. It's more likely a wife has a gay man friend, than a man having a woman friend that he has no interest in bedding. Come on
But the was gonna send ROMANTIC roses to another woman. That’s not a red flag to you?? I bet if the shoe were on the other foot he would think differently
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He’s having an emotional affair and he puts his best friend before his wife. There are 3 people in this marriage and it’s crowded. What a P O S !
The wife has to come first. If the relationship make her uncomfortable then he needs to dial it back a notch.
I completely agree with Mary on everything she said. Her input is exactly what I was thinking when hearing what he was telling Laila
He does not seem to be nice to his wife. Only seems nice to his "friend"
He is a cheater
He is so defensive. There’s always a close guy friend or a girl friend that is waiting in the background for your current relationship to fail so they can swoop in. If you are in a relationship or married, you need to include them in your friendship. Your significant other should always come first over a friend. Things change.
"She's going through a hard time right now." How many dirty cheaters on here have said that? 🙂👎
I think it's in the top 3 excuses in the 'cheaters excuses handbook' 🙂
And pretty soon he’s gonna be more than a shoulder to cry on. He’s gonna let his “friend” come between them?🤔 If he hasn’t cheated physically, it’ll happen soon. Why does he feel that it’s HIS job to comfort her? Doesn’t she have family or FEMALE friends?
Sigh...Ryan....wanna wait til he signs the card?!?! Dude....you jump in TOO QUICK sometimes!!
Yes!
All.the.time.
@@jackhowellluksic that's true. I listen to other stations who do more creative things to catch cheaters
Caller from Newport Beach is right on the money. She articulated it so well.
Grass is always greener WHERE YOU WATER IT!
I've never heard that but it truly makes sense here!!
I've never heard that but I love it and sooo true.
You can have a friend of the opposite gender in a marriage, that's fine, but when you start crossing boundaries that's when it becomes a problem. My man should not be another woman's shoulder to lean on, idc what anyone says, once he got married that is no longer something he can be, sorry not sorry. Wifey comes first, he shouldn't have married her if he wasn't ready to put her first.
WHYYYYYY does Ryan ALWAYS jump in the call too soon (again)? If Ryan would have kept quiet a bit longer, Sisanie would have been able to ask more questions in addition to what he wanted to write on the card🙄
Because Ryan's a jerkoff.
I'd tell him "yes this is an issue". And I'd walk away
Not only the sending of flowers but the card! It’s the “we will get through this” she needs to know what he’s going through
that's what i say,why we?
Why can’t he support his friend by saying we. Women always complain they want their man to be sensitive And caring but I guess only with you.
@@trich1145 But he was sending ROMANTIC roses to another woman besides his wife. If that’s not a red flag then I don’t know what is.
Ryan always kills it. Shut up and let them spill the beans
This girl friend means more than his wife...Ryan, you’re big time wrong!!!
He will choose his friend over his wife. 👎
Cheating or not, it's not out of the realm of possibility that he would send Veronica flowers to cheer her up. Yes - the fact that he said "WE'LL get through this" instead of "YOU'LL is key. "He's being absolutely dickish to his wife - how about sending Leila flowers for being understanding of his relationship with his 'friend'? He just abuses it and doesn't care what his wife is thinking. What an asshole, giving his wife an ultimatum. He needs to sort out his priorities. This one needs an update if there is one.
If I was the wife I'd walk
Is this guy for real? Is he seriously trying to make his wife feel bad for accusing him? He's clearly cheating! No man should ever send red roses to anyone but the woman in his life. I hope she dumped him and got herself a REAL man!
The note said, " We'll get through this". Should've said you'll get through this.
Ryan comes in way to early, almost helping the cheater.
I understand his feelings but HUSBANDS SHOULD ALWAYS THINK THAT THEIR PRIORITY. IS THEIR WIVES.
Your married, there is no his friend.
Your married, your the priority.
Your married, your the confiidant.
He's the reason Veronica got separated.
He wanted to marry Veronica, but the other guy beat him to it. Now that she's single its game on. . .
His wife waited until they were married to finally say something. She’s always been jealous. She let her be in the wedding party simply to try to establish a more dominant role. It didn’t work and now she is vocal about her problem with it
Apparently the wife did have an issue with it, she should have said something in the beginning. Also, it is very inappropriate for David to seemingly be closer with the female best friend than his wife. The wife should be the best friend, not some other woman. This guy is such a goof.
Wow ...... They haven't even called yet, and the is already guilty?
Sisanie is the biggest instigator of all time. I would hate for my parter to be friends with her lol.
Susanne what kind of name is that ugh
That’s right Ryan!!! That man ain’t cheating !!
Ryan just because you have a mic it doesn’t mean that you are right, this woman has been dealing with these two’s friendship a long long time ago now she feels something is not right.. and you wanna judge her
You don’t sleep with him so you don’t know him like she does... Like the caller said, either he is or planing to that’s why he is so defensive...
Next time please do not do that, if the woman say she smells a rat she smells a rat... she has been dealing with them a long time + he sounds like a bully too
Much love from overseas.
Real question is does he love his wife because if he does his friend wouldn’t come first
Exactly! Thank you!
Best friends are family why is all the women so insecure they been together longer than him being with the wife they are always together now she has a gut feeling ya trust your gut but it’s not always a good thing to be honest it’s like one or the other that’s not fair to him
I'm sure all men would love it if their wife had a best friend that was a man, right? You'd be fine with that, because men are so much more rational when it comes to their wife having male friends. You're in denial.
Ryan is always so comically wrong! 😂 is he doing this on purpose? He genuinely believed this guy? What a ridiculous person Ryan is
To much talking Ryan we get it
the problem with this was she never gave him any boundaries with this girl best friend. She thought she would be OK with it but she never said anything so because of this is hindsight 2020. If she would’ve took the steps to know her to get to know her chances are you got my heart these Ryan roses. By the way I think maybe the other reason why she think it might be an affair is that this woman may be on equal terms or maybe even above her in looks So now she’s extra concerned.
Woman... RUN!
No such thing as a best friend of the opposite sex when you’re married. Lol Marriage is so sacred. Protect it at all cost.
Geez! If someone called me, basically setting me up to get caugh cheating, I would be defensive as well. I would be pissed off. Sometimes their opinions are ridiculous. 😑😑😑
Oh yeah he's having an emotional affair right in front of the wife's face. And since the friend is in a vulnerable position she'll lean on him for "comfort and sooner or later he will be accommodating and "comfort" the friend in a physical way.
PLUS he's not listening to his WIFE who he MARRIED! Seriously girl, you need to leave if you are feeling like you are the 5th wheel in a relationship.
Ryan, since this girl is a close friend you should have let sisanie ask, like she does when you give her the chance, if this is romantic or not? Or sometimes she asks "who is so n so to you". That way they can't turn it around saying it's just a friendly gesture, or what everyone says "they're going through a hard time". Cmon Ryan, how long you been doing this? 15 years
Then that Veronica should find comfort to her women friends not woth a married man
Ryan....you are wrong this time. He is.cheating
THIS GUY IS NOT CHEATING HE'S JUST MISUNDERSTOOD!!! GUYS AND GIRLS CAN BE FRIENDS AND JUST THAT WITHOUT ANYTHING HAPPENING
But they don’t send romantic roses to their “friends”. That’s how affairs start 🙄.
Ryan is ALWAYS wrong? You now believe he’s not cheating?!?!! Dummy
Cheating or not this is a HUGE problem. He basically hinted that if his friend was going to be a problem in the future THEY needed to discuss their relationship. I think he love the girl more than his wife.
Sorry not sorry. The wife comes first. I'm old school. Ain't no way you're best friend is a female that ain't me. I wouldn't have married him. He's choosing the best friend over the wife. If they don't have kids together I'd bounce.
Sorry, but the fact that he made his best lady friend a groomsman is rather inappropriate. Why would you ask your bride to share the title of “women I want to be by my side“ with your lady friend? How is that not weird?
Your wife is supposed to be the closest lady friend you have. If not, then you shouldn’t be married. Simple.
If I was the wife I would be very worried about his friend. . Emotional relationships are just as much cheating and having sex with each other. Even though he would send flowers with the excuse that he sent them because she’s feeling bad is still not something a married man should do. The fact that he got mad proves if hasn’t happened yet it’s going to. Given enough time their going to get together. The fact that he’s really to issue and altimeter to his wife over his friend just isn’t right. Oh and Ryan she’s his wife has a right to be concerned. His friend is now single, big game changer and the fact that he’s really to scare his wife to either accept it or we’re in trouble.
Maybe they broke up cause she cheated with him and bf found out she should call ex bf
Ryan I think you butt in too quickly....perhaps waiting to dive in you would get more information that will make things clearer. I think that if he had to pick between his wife and BFF (although he shouldn't have to). I think regardless of whether he is having an affair or not the issue is that his wife is not truly a priority.
Wow, there are a few f**king numbakulls in these comments. I swear, she could have come home to the two of them sleeping naked in bed together, and these commenters would say, "omg she's so insecure! Men and women are allowed to be friends! She's being crazy! She should trust him!" Totally missing the point - he's neglecting his wife and playing a husband role to this other woman. I wonder how they would feel if their partner was doing what he's doing? I think he's always been in love with Veronica, but because she wasn't available, he had to put his feelings on the backburner and move on. His wife was just a second option. Now that Veronica is single, he's ready to pounce.
He basically threatened his wife that if she kept having a problem with his woman-friend that they would have a problem. As if any man on the planet would be fine if his wife had a best man friend and put him above the husband's status. Even Steve Harvey says men don't have women friends that they have no interest in dating. It's more likely a wife has a gay man friend, than a man having a woman friend that he has no interest in bedding. Come on
Yup
Leila KNEW he was friends with his female friend. She accepted that dynamic. Leila needs to trust her husband. Leila needs to grow up.
But the was gonna send ROMANTIC roses to another woman. That’s not a red flag to you?? I bet if the shoe were on the other foot he would think differently
Woman need stop over reacting
Why can't all three hang out and talk about it if it's so innocent?