Misconceptions About Sex

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024
  • Blue balls, STIs, and popping your cherry. We're covering all of the topics you've always wondered about but were too embarrassed to ask in our latest episode of misconceptions.
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  • @markedis5902
    @markedis5902 7 месяцев назад +19

    Amazed you did that without smirking

  • @CritterKeeper01
    @CritterKeeper01 7 месяцев назад +7

    Love the wide variety of images you found! Phallic cactuses (ouch!), a pair of blue balls on a plain background, the tail of a Virgin airplane….

  • @EbyKat
    @EbyKat 7 месяцев назад +5

    Sti testing isn’t a free pass for unprotected sexual acts.
    Some STIs don’t show up in testing for 6 months and even if you are asking for a full panel it’s not uncommon for HSV 1/2 to not be tested for. So get the testing done but wait six months after your previous partners before removing barriers from the equation.

  • @doncripemc3certifiedsr.med326
    @doncripemc3certifiedsr.med326 7 месяцев назад +5

    "I think the term, "losing" one's virginity is an unfortunate term. It implies the person doesn't know when, where, or how it happened. It is clearly a Victorian hold-over.

  • @jennifer_m_wood
    @jennifer_m_wood 7 месяцев назад +16

    "Recreating 'Titanic' French Girls Scene" = "Prob Sex" 🤣

    • @CritterKeeper01
      @CritterKeeper01 7 месяцев назад +2

      And "playing Twister" scrolling onto the screen as "def sex"!

  • @mentalflosserin
    @mentalflosserin 7 месяцев назад +15

    I will have everyone know that I did NOT request that Titanic joke but I love it!!!

  • @jaynorris3722
    @jaynorris3722 7 месяцев назад +20

    The treadmill is not nearly as much fun. In fact, treadmill is just boring compared to a long love making session....

  • @dreamsourcerdev
    @dreamsourcerdev 7 месяцев назад +2

    Glad to hear blue balls doesn't cause damage because it sure feels like it does.

  • @shezario
    @shezario 7 месяцев назад +12

    The state of sex education in the states is just ridiculous xD except for the survey data, all of these would be answered probably correctly by most 13 year olds in the EU. Its really one of those things I could never wrap my head around... you hate abortions, and argue about "protecting children" yet ur sex ed basicly askes for teens to get pregnant (highest teen pregnancy rate in the devloped world by a landslide, including 16% misscarriages). Between that and your gun fetish its no wonder you have one of the highest adolesence mortality rates in the developed world ...
    but that way at least the states are still number 1 at something amiright ....🙄

    • @RexGanymede
      @RexGanymede 7 месяцев назад +7

      so long as you keep it in mind, it's not _all_ of us americans who are "like this"
      we have to live with these contradictory loonies.
      every.
      single.
      day.
      and, trying to get those lost souls to see the light, is like trying to prevent a dog from licking itself

    • @WARnTEA
      @WARnTEA 7 месяцев назад

      Its really weird to feel so strongly about how other people live their lives when it doesn’t impact you.

    • @RexGanymede
      @RexGanymede 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@WARnTEA it's weirder (in my eyes) to be so oblivious / flippant, regarding the consequences that regularly are imparted upon people, from how others "live their lives"
      if there weren't any problems, this wouldn't be a discussion
      shezario and i, instead, would be "living our lives" and worrying about other things

    • @shezario
      @shezario 7 месяцев назад +1

      @WARnTEA while I recon it's not what you where trying to get at :I agree with your statement, its weird for people to push for abortion bans, book bans and trying to police intimacy of others on a massive scale simply cause it doesn't allign with ones personal beliefs.
      The indircretly made asssumtion, this would not affect me however is shortsighted and neglegts the overall impact US policy has on the world. Whether it's drug policy or anti abortion movements, many political ideas are brought over other countries due to political pressure, shaping the reality of others through US based lobbying.
      Take canabis for example, the reason it got initially banned in Germany was the insistence of the US after ww2 to adopt their drug policies as part of the peace contracts.
      Like it or not, the US is still the biggest influence in the world, and while I'd wholeheartedly agree, that much of its initial influence was overall positive, its now mostly driving hardcore libertarian economic ideas and right wing conservative values based in scripture...

    • @shezario
      @shezario 6 месяцев назад

      @@WARnTEA the perfect example just came up for my case:
      Germany is discussing a law to ban people harrassing women on their way to abortion clinics, as it has become an ever increasing problem. One of the main Groups in question doing this shit is from a US Based initiative called "40 days for life" ... This is a 100% imported issue cause our lunatics listen to the Lunatics over in your country...

  • @ellengutoskey2604
    @ellengutoskey2604 7 месяцев назад +9

    recreating the dirty dancing lift is also definitely sex

  • @lp-xl9ld
    @lp-xl9ld 7 месяцев назад +5

    Justin, buddy, I think you're gonna need to do a part 2...AT LEAST

  • @MechWomanWarrior15
    @MechWomanWarrior15 7 месяцев назад +2

    "Some blood"
    Everyone who's ever had a period: 😂

  • @sunnyquinn3888
    @sunnyquinn3888 7 месяцев назад

    The nice thing about the definition of "sex" being so open to interpretation is that whether you want to be considered a virgin or not considered a virgin, you can just by choosing which definition to go with.

  • @goldenappel
    @goldenappel 7 месяцев назад +1

    Deep kissing is a new term for me. I'd heard that normal kissing became known as French kissing in the US after GIs returned from WW2 with tales of how French girls would use their tongues, which was apparently a bit risqué by American cultural standards of the time.

  • @ZOB4
    @ZOB4 7 месяцев назад +2

    I’ll not have Mr. Blickman defamed in such a way, he was a true Casanova mixed with Dr. Ruth.

  • @MrDramaKingTV
    @MrDramaKingTV 7 месяцев назад

    Loved this so much!

  • @btetschner
    @btetschner 7 месяцев назад

    A+ video!
    Fascinating misconceptions!

  • @RedJoker9000
    @RedJoker9000 7 месяцев назад +4

    Maybe me taking health in elementary, middle and high school i didn’t fall for the misconceptions.

  • @OneFoxTwoFox
    @OneFoxTwoFox 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great now whenever someone talks about how its unhealthy to have Violet Bogart Syndrom, i am just gonna lean in like Willy Wonka, "you don't say". "Candy is dandy but liquor is quicker"

  • @bnthern
    @bnthern 7 месяцев назад

    thx - well presented

  • @Rainears129
    @Rainears129 7 месяцев назад

    Mom's an ObGyn, so if ever I have questions, I just go pester her. The funniest part is I am rather sex-adverse, and my mother knows it. So whenever I ask, she's like "for another story?" I then agree and give her all the relevant details that might get a clearer picture.

  • @hiccuphufflepuff176
    @hiccuphufflepuff176 7 месяцев назад

    My high-school biology teacher on the subject of using the calendar-based birth control strategy before explaining the irregularity and unpredictability of periods:
    "There's a specific name we use to describe women who use this method... 'Mommy.'"

  • @eifelitorn
    @eifelitorn 7 месяцев назад

    get your volume setting sorted out..

  • @Apophis324
    @Apophis324 7 месяцев назад +3

    *sees thumbnail and title* Ehh, do I really need to watch this?
    *completes watching the video* Hm. No, I don't think this was all that useful to me..
    (hashtag grey-ace)

    • @CritterKeeper01
      @CritterKeeper01 7 месяцев назад +1

      Eh, think of it like anthropology. Learning about a culture you're interacting with can be useful, even if you're not assimilating into that culture!

    • @Apophis324
      @Apophis324 7 месяцев назад

      @@CritterKeeper01Hm yes. I probably also should have said that I already knew most of these things anyway. But thanks for your view on the matter :)

  • @VWXYZDragonCatapultCannon
    @VWXYZDragonCatapultCannon 7 месяцев назад +2

    Nice, 4.2 calories per session for me then!

  • @emgordon5471
    @emgordon5471 7 месяцев назад

    MY BEST FRIEND KNOWS SO MUCH!!!!

  • @mattyt1961
    @mattyt1961 7 месяцев назад

    pretty sure if my balls are actually blue i will be in pain and needing medical attention

  • @DESTRUCTINATION2
    @DESTRUCTINATION2 7 месяцев назад +1

    Refusing to use proper terminology for basically any reason is woefully ignorant of reality, disrespectful to the entirety of the human species, and ultimately just plain stupid.
    We aren't "people with vulvas" and "people with testicles", we're women and men, plain and simple. No prejudice here, just honesty.

  • @mattyt1961
    @mattyt1961 7 месяцев назад

    do my own research? what bad advice, my mother never believed I was 'researching' :)

  • @ayjay579
    @ayjay579 7 месяцев назад +1

    Just here to see if an educational channel will finally address the fact that squirting is just pee

  • @sadib100
    @sadib100 7 месяцев назад

    There were 69 comments before this one.

  • @HugoCervantes1
    @HugoCervantes1 7 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @nijucow
    @nijucow 7 месяцев назад +4

    Also protected oral sex makes no sense. It takes out most of the pleasure from the giver - no smell, taste, or texture.

    • @CritterKeeper01
      @CritterKeeper01 7 месяцев назад +1

      It still makes the receiver happy, and protects both from disease. Not as good, but not completely without merit.

    • @IceMetalPunk
      @IceMetalPunk 7 месяцев назад

      There are ways to mitigate that, e.g. thin flavored condoms.

    • @nijucow
      @nijucow 7 месяцев назад

      @@IceMetalPunkflavored condoms don't taste like dick

    • @nijucow
      @nijucow 7 месяцев назад

      @@IceMetalPunkflavored condoms don't taste like cock

    • @nijucow
      @nijucow 7 месяцев назад

      @@IceMetalPunkflavored condoms don't taste like penis

  • @Elteejay
    @Elteejay 7 месяцев назад

    Wait, I thought this was a kid friendly channel? 😅 (Unleash the Karens)

    • @CritterKeeper01
      @CritterKeeper01 7 месяцев назад +7

      Kids need to know the truth! Sex education cuts down on teen pregnancy, among other things.

    • @Elteejay
      @Elteejay 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@CritterKeeper01 I completely agree! Sadly, so many schools are pulling away from teaching the misconceptions.

  • @justayoutuber1906
    @justayoutuber1906 Месяц назад

    Your chest hair is grossing me out

  • @knights8400
    @knights8400 7 месяцев назад +3

    Don’t forget the misconception that there are more or fewer than 2 sexes

    • @butiliketacos
      @butiliketacos 7 месяцев назад

      You'll have to fight actual biologists on that. Bring your PhD

  • @Kelvin-vd4zv
    @Kelvin-vd4zv 7 месяцев назад

    gGayyy

  • @fireaza
    @fireaza 7 месяцев назад

    The fact that we typically put a noun in front of "sex" when talking about non-intercourse stimulation, *_might_* be an indication that these don't count as "sex".

    • @IceMetalPunk
      @IceMetalPunk 7 месяцев назад +3

      On the other hand, gay couples -- particularly lesbians -- will tell you that when they simply use the word "sex", it means something other than the kind of intercourse you're thinking of... so that's not a universal linguistic rule.

    • @ahouyearno
      @ahouyearno 7 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly the opposite. We add adjectives to speciffy kind of sex it actually is
      If I tell you we had sex, you have no idea what we did. If I say we had anal sex, now you know
      The adjectives are proof that all of these are sex. Sex is oral sex’s last name.

    • @magrela
      @magrela 7 месяцев назад +1

      That might be an adjective.

    • @IceMetalPunk
      @IceMetalPunk 7 месяцев назад

      @@magrelaTechnically, it's called an adjectival noun.

    • @magrela
      @magrela 7 месяцев назад

      @@IceMetalPunk it would, if it weren't for adjectives with adjectival suffixes such as -al.

  • @Jimbozinya
    @Jimbozinya 7 месяцев назад

    What was the relevancy of you adding that they were white?

    • @CritterKeeper01
      @CritterKeeper01 7 месяцев назад +9

      If you mean surveys, it shows one more way it was a biased sample.

    • @IceMetalPunk
      @IceMetalPunk 7 месяцев назад +3

      Studies typically should be as randomized as possible across the population you're studying (which, for sex studies, is "all sexually active adults"). Otherwise it lessens the predictive power across the unstudied groups. So it's important to indicate if the sample is limited to less-than-random demographics, like "all white", "all in a small age range", "all from a similar area", etc.

  • @kurtkennedy333
    @kurtkennedy333 7 месяцев назад

    First?

  • @btetschner
    @btetschner 7 месяцев назад

    x According to the book The Scholar Warrior by Deng Ming-Dao (he teaches Eastern philosophy practices), having sex till climax releases an enormous amount of bodily energy and the constant practice of doing that makes it difficult to maintain a certain weight.
    o That is part of the reason many students of the practice avoid having sex to build that energy (also they avoid trying to have sex without climax).
    o He also teaches that the energy released upon climax weakens the immune system's ability to fight off disease and dysfunctions.
    x "Let's Talk About Sex" by Salt-N-Pepa was the #1 hit in Germany on my 12th birthday.
    x Everyone that I have ever known has always agreed that having sex is when the penis enters into the vagina.
    o BJs, going down on, hand jobs, finger banging, anal sex, dry humping, masturbation, hypnotism etc. are ways that people avoid having sex while doing other things that are generally (in some sort of way) related to the act of having sex.
    x The band Cherry Poppin' Daddies (they had the hit "Zoot Suit Riot") is a reference to the act of breaking the hymen.
    x In the book The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath, Ester loses her virginity to a math professor and hemorrhages heavily enough to have to go to the hospital (it does not say specifically that her hymen was broken).
    x For Blue Balls, any real pain in the balls is psychological.
    o I can believe there are those that have blue balls like The Smurfs, The Blue Man Group, Nightcrawler, and Beast.
    o The idea of Blue balls is similar to being aroused to a point when one's rational mind shuts down and all subsequent choices are emotional.
    † Meatloaf experiences that at the end of the song "Paradise By the Dashboard Light."
    x I think I have heard of people calling period sex "Vampire Sex."
    o Actually, a #1 hit not long ago was "Vampire" by Olivia Rodrigo (awesome music video!).
    o The favorite film of Daniel from The Cobwebs Channel is Fright NIght (1985), watched that the other night and it was fantastic!
    o The last film I saw in the month of November of 2023 was Bram Stoker's Dracula (1992).
    o One of my favorite vampire films is Let Me In (2010).
    x I remember people being concerned that they would get an STI from using the same toilet seat as someone with the STI.
    x I watched the film Easy A (2010) the other night, the school guidance loses everything after she gives a 22-year-old high school student chlamydia.
    x On the tv show Strangers with Candy, after deflowering a male classmate Jerri Blank gets "syphillis infested with crabs which are carrying gonorrhea."
    x The worst STI is from the film It Follows (2014).
    x If someone asks if you are crabby, just respond "Yes, I have crabs."
    o It's even funnier if it isn't a joke! JK
    x In the area of sex, here are some of the services offered by the underground on the internet:
    o Teaching on effective techniques of dirty talk, an area of widespread dissatisfaction for couples.
    o Techniques of command sex.
    o Tutorials on the importance of foreplay and the psychology of why women want it and why guys tend to skip it (they use phrases like "when getting warmed up, women are like an oven and men are like a microwave...")
    o Hypno Sex
    o Teachers (at least one in which is a married couple) who literally have sex on the videos while they are teaching techniques.
    o Dynamics of having sex with multiple partners.
    o Even tutorials for programs where one person is creating and sharing emotional states (includes highly unusual emotional states).