Husband knew it was wrong. He wouldn't have lied about chatting with his buddies if he honestly believed that what he was doing was okay. He lied so that he could continue to get away with it.
He brought up a GREAT point that no one else has...If she is refusing sex and sex is the glue between a husband and wife (which it is, this is why we fell so strongly about being cheated on) and denying a person that glue can lead to actions of adultery. And yes adultery is ANYTIME a person looks on someone else in lust. It does not matter if it is a live cam person or images in a magazine. This should not be something however, I believe these two should end their marriage over. They need to find away to maintain the intimacy until they figure out their sex life. And if possible, find a way back to having some kind of sexual relationship.
Her not wanting to have sex could be a physical problem or an emotional problem. Has he ever brought this up to her and assisted her in getting help? Because that's what a REAL partner would do. He is cheating and basically using a prostitute. Just because something is popular and 'lots of married guys do it' does NOT make it okay unless the partner knows and agrees.
Maybe they could have BEFORE this disgusting behavior, but now that lying and cheating occurred, it will be a long road. He didn't even want to take the short road the first time, so why would he want to put the work in now ? He doesn't. It won't work. He is too lazy and selfish to put the work in. He should have thought of counseling BEFORE paying online sex.
I'm sure he's not a stellar husband in any way. I bet he could do better to make her want to have a physical relationship, but instead he's blowing off his wife and kids to do that. It doesn't even sound like his father of the year either.
@@SuperTelecasterman what i'm trying to say is what if the wife would ask her husband she wants to try it too , is the husband would approved it? i dont think so.
@@Tarzana24right. He doesn't really want the wife anyway. Just for cooking, cleaning, and raising the kids while he drinks and jerks off. Maybe she should find one of those online hunks and show that guy all of her goods. I wonder what the husband would do then.
If you want a cam girl, don’t get married or, tell your wife about it if it is so innocent. It’s cheating & if you do it long enough, you’ll eventually work up to doing it physically. It’s cheating, period.
God designed us to have those sexual feelings as humans, meant to be shared in a loving and caring marriage. I am in no way condoning what this man is doing, but let’s not put all the blame on him. She is not for filling her husband’s needs. Sounds like they could benefit from some good marriage counseling. I hope it works out for them.
Is HE fulfilling any of her needs, sexual or emotional ? Probably not. Does she get to cheat? I hope so, according to your rules. Does he look as good as he used to? Probably not. No one is getting all wet with a fat asshole who ignores you all day. It's a two way street - he had options, but he went for the lowest of the low.
I've said it before and nobody seems to be proven me wrong. Cheating is only called "cheating" because women have created this rule set to make it a game. Ever wonder why that particular word is used to describe infidelity? But this game is ingrained in the calculating that women do when they're growing up and figuring out what they should do to attract men; what make up to wear to make themselves look different, what clothing to wear to make their breasts be more pronounced in the cleavage and so on. Remember when girls "stuffed"? So it's a game rooted in manipulation and deception. But nobody wants to talk about that, right? And it's offensive if the guy states that about that whole process, correct?? Pure nonsense. Now, here we are trying to figure out what constitutes cheating. So nobody really knows what it is. Infidelity us what it is but now we have these blurred lines where cheating can he "emotional". Sure and talking to strangers is bad for children unless the person is behind s counter representing a company. They can talk to your kids even if they are strangers, right? I have a better idea. Why not be the wan you made your man think you were without all the ways to make yourself look or seem different, and stop saying and acting like you're something you're not? If a woman can't fulfill her expected role then the man must carry on. Some people get it - would you want your spouse to stay single once you pass? No? You want that person to be happy after you're gone, right? But you want them to be miserable when you are alive? Does that make any sense? So fulfill your role. Don't get fat. Don't get lazy. Don't turn negative "dirty" and wonder why you gross him/her out. Try showering. Don't slack on other areas of your role. Or he/she will find someone else and marriage can't be the leverage to keep them controlled, over you doing what you advertised. Otherwise all you have is the legal and you can forget about being. In this case, something is going on where he can't have sex? So he's resolved his issue , and that's bad?? So now we go back to him being unhappy until she dies? AS-IF.
How do you know he didn't get fat and lazy? You assume this man is worth having sex with. He must not be if he has to pay for it. What is HIS role ? There are many roles in a marriage that you are neglecting. Cheating on taxes also exists. Is "taxes" a "game"? I got bored reading your diatribe (too long, repetitive, and sexist), but I feel like anyone could prove you wrong. I mean, you totally forgot about "til death do you part" which means after you pass, it's fair game. NOT paying for whores on the internet because your wife doesn't want your bald, fat, ugly, lazy ass.
Paying for internet sex is still cheating, and they LYING about it doesn't help. His kids are home when he does this. "No emotional connection" doesn't make it better. He doesn't seem worth the trouble of pursuing the marriage. He's not interested in communicating or being a real husband. How about, you keep your internet dates, I'll take the kids and the house and raise them better.
So the wife is not being intimate? I’m sorry but that’s where some woman are delusional I’m in no way saying he is not wrong for cheating on her but really what do some woman expect that they are salivate?
Hmmm , how about have an adult conversation about it? How about make it so that she wants to have sex with him? Sounds like all he wants to do is drink in front of his friends and jerk off. That's not sexy.
Well, he could have a conversation with his wife about it. He could make it so that she wants to have sex with him instead of being a lazy ass sitting around drinking and jerking off all day. It's 100 % on her to make herself available to a guy who only wants to look at porn in front of his kids. He's disgusting. No wonder she doesn't want to have sex with him.
If his wife isn’t giving him any sex which he said She also acknowledged it and had nothing to say What is he supposed to do? Sex is also part of a relationship so she shouldn’t be so surprised but he wasn’t cheating.
Things he can do: talk to his wife about it, look into marital counseling, go on a couples retreat, get a separation, file for divorce (if issues cannot be fixed) There are many available options besides cheating. Not only that, but options that actually help to resolve the problem (whereas cheating doesn't resolve anything, you still have your marital issues and you also have the added problems that an affair brings)
@@nonchalantmuse1 I love your response. Alex M is as big a pig as any. And, let's not forget, is Zoom sex really any better than no sex ? He's probably disgusting, so she's not feeling it, but no one thinks of that.
Well, when she gets half of everything and the divorce, she'll at least get something out of it. Sounds like the men are delusional if they think the women won't get half. And she'll get to tell his kids how he's disgusting pervert. Is it really worth it? I guess to you, it is. He gets to jerk off, she's going to get the house, the kids, and half the bank account. I'd rather have that than some disgusting man looking at naked women on the internet instead of playing with his kids.
I'm sorry but I don't think he's cheating. Its just like watching porn but live smh. I would feel some way yes but not enough to say he's cheating and bash him for it.
Well, he is in some viewpoints. Though I get why some may feel he is not (and at one point I was starting to think that too), but here is the thing...If you look at someone in lust and you are married, you have already committed adultery in your mind.
This just happened with my daughter and son in law. After 13 years of being together, they are in process of divorce.
Over that?
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How in the hell doesn’t everyone in California ever heard of Ryan’s roses?
Що ти делаешь по вихідним
@@jeffreylorenger6746 No one listens to terrestrial radio anymore? New people moving to the state? All kinds of rational reasons?
Husband knew it was wrong. He wouldn't have lied about chatting with his buddies if he honestly believed that what he was doing was okay. He lied so that he could continue to get away with it.
He brought up a GREAT point that no one else has...If she is refusing sex and sex is the glue between a husband and wife (which it is, this is why we fell so strongly about being cheated on) and denying a person that glue can lead to actions of adultery. And yes adultery is ANYTIME a person looks on someone else in lust. It does not matter if it is a live cam person or images in a magazine. This should not be something however, I believe these two should end their marriage over. They need to find away to maintain the intimacy until they figure out their sex life. And if possible, find a way back to having some kind of sexual relationship.
Interesting Prospective. Refreshing to hear a leveled opinion from a mans view.
Her not wanting to have sex could be a physical problem or an emotional problem. Has he ever brought this up to her and assisted her in getting help? Because that's what a REAL partner would do. He is cheating and basically using a prostitute. Just because something is popular and 'lots of married guys do it' does NOT make it okay unless the partner knows and agrees.
Maybe they could have BEFORE this disgusting behavior, but now that lying and cheating occurred, it will be a long road. He didn't even want to take the short road the first time, so why would he want to put the work in now ? He doesn't. It won't work. He is too lazy and selfish to put the work in. He should have thought of counseling BEFORE paying online sex.
If the shoe were on the other food, he would be livid.
@@tiffernut2456Not all men agree though
Him: “We don’t have a physical relationship.”
Her: *crickets*
I'm sure he's not a stellar husband in any way. I bet he could do better to make her want to have a physical relationship, but instead he's blowing off his wife and kids to do that. It doesn't even sound like his father of the year either.
If this is what he does at home with his wife & kids home during Covid, imagine what he was doing pre Covid?
Is there an update to this?! My god! This man is wild
Of course it’s cheating, showing someone else you’re private parts doesn’t fly, I’d be enraged if my wife showed somebody else her private parts.
Wow! This guy is completely delusional in regards to how one should perform in a marriage. I'm completely blown away by how casual he is about it.
I agree...
so nice for a man to have this opinion
I hope she left him! She sounds classy and like she deserves so much better!
His wife doesn't want sex. He wanted sex with wife but no go.
Quit cutting them off, Ryan!
This guy’s got some screws loose! A grown man sitting in a room looking at a woman on the computer playing with himself!
And PAYING for it!!!!! He's a dumbass.
I would leave him so fast. Fuck that.
This is one of the reasons why I don’t go past a year in a relationship
This is the reason? Maybe the guys you pick out aren’t worth your time and you should pick better?
Pepper, I think Zack Jasper is hitting on you... 🤪
@@zackjasper4230 Hahaha, there is no "better".
@@frenchbluehen hahaha
@@kilssj2250 nah my wife is smokin 🤣🤣
Title is wrong. It is Jen, not Jane
Its Hillary;)
Wonder if he would be so cavalier about it if his wife did the same thing...
not cheating but not ok either
This guy’s strange, but the wife better start doing her homework!
This is cheating and he is so entitled. He’s disgusting and doesn’t care
the wife should try this, and tell to her husband "i want to try it maybe it's fun".
Yes. Be spontaneous
Sounds like the wife wants a sex less marriage and thinks the husband doesn't have options..
@@renamarie926 no, i mean what if the wife will do this, is the husband would approved it?
@@SuperTelecasterman what i'm trying to say is what if the wife would ask her husband she wants to try it too , is the husband would approved it? i dont think so.
@@Tarzana24right. He doesn't really want the wife anyway. Just for cooking, cleaning, and raising the kids while he drinks and jerks off. Maybe she should find one of those online hunks and show that guy all of her goods. I wonder what the husband would do then.
Ohhhhh Alexxxxa. 👀
A cam girl???
Its like no one on this show has heard of cam girls. Married guys go to strip clubs all the time.
If you want a cam girl, don’t get married or, tell your wife about it if it is so innocent. It’s cheating & if you do it long enough, you’ll eventually work up to doing it physically. It’s cheating, period.
The only one allowed to strip in front of a guy should be his own wife lol
God designed us to have those sexual feelings as humans, meant to be shared in a loving and caring marriage. I am in no way condoning what this man is doing, but let’s not put all the blame on him. She is not for filling her husband’s needs. Sounds like they could benefit from some good marriage counseling. I hope it works out for them.
Is HE fulfilling any of her needs, sexual or emotional ? Probably not. Does she get to cheat? I hope so, according to your rules. Does he look as good as he used to? Probably not. No one is getting all wet with a fat asshole who ignores you all day. It's a two way street - he had options, but he went for the lowest of the low.
Sisany needs to change her voices
I've said it before and nobody seems to be proven me wrong. Cheating is only called "cheating" because women have created this rule set to make it a game. Ever wonder why that particular word is used to describe infidelity?
But this game is ingrained in the calculating that women do when they're growing up and figuring out what they should do to attract men; what make up to wear to make themselves look different, what clothing to wear to make their breasts be more pronounced in the cleavage and so on. Remember when girls "stuffed"? So it's a game rooted in manipulation and deception. But nobody wants to talk about that, right? And it's offensive if the guy states that about that whole process, correct?? Pure nonsense.
Now, here we are trying to figure out what constitutes cheating. So nobody really knows what it is. Infidelity us what it is but now we have these blurred lines where cheating can he "emotional". Sure and talking to strangers is bad for children unless the person is behind s counter representing a company. They can talk to your kids even if they are strangers, right?
I have a better idea. Why not be the wan you made your man think you were without all the ways to make yourself look or seem different, and stop saying and acting like you're something you're not? If a woman can't fulfill her expected role then the man must carry on. Some people get it - would you want your spouse to stay single once you pass? No? You want that person to be happy after you're gone, right? But you want them to be miserable when you are alive? Does that make any sense? So fulfill your role. Don't get fat. Don't get lazy. Don't turn negative "dirty" and wonder why you gross him/her out. Try showering. Don't slack on other areas of your role. Or he/she will find someone else and marriage can't be the leverage to keep them controlled, over you doing what you advertised. Otherwise all you have is the legal and you can forget about being.
In this case, something is going on where he can't have sex? So he's resolved his issue , and that's bad?? So now we go back to him being unhappy until she dies? AS-IF.
How do you know he didn't get fat and lazy? You assume this man is worth having sex with. He must not be if he has to pay for it. What is HIS role ? There are many roles in a marriage that you are neglecting. Cheating on taxes also exists. Is "taxes" a "game"? I got bored reading your diatribe (too long, repetitive, and sexist), but I feel like anyone could prove you wrong. I mean, you totally forgot about "til death do you part" which means after you pass, it's fair game. NOT paying for whores on the internet because your wife doesn't want your bald, fat, ugly, lazy ass.
Paying for internet sex is still cheating, and they LYING about it doesn't help. His kids are home when he does this. "No emotional connection" doesn't make it better. He doesn't seem worth the trouble of pursuing the marriage. He's not interested in communicating or being a real husband. How about, you keep your internet dates, I'll take the kids and the house and raise them better.
this is called, "wanting your cake and eat it too". Gross, I hope she left him so that he can figure out what he wants!
So the wife is not being intimate? I’m sorry but that’s where some woman are delusional I’m in no way saying he is not wrong for cheating on her but really what do some woman expect that they are salivate?
Hmmm , how about have an adult conversation about it? How about make it so that she wants to have sex with him? Sounds like all he wants to do is drink in front of his friends and jerk off. That's not sexy.
Well, he could have a conversation with his wife about it. He could make it so that she wants to have sex with him instead of being a lazy ass sitting around drinking and jerking off all day. It's 100 % on her to make herself available to a guy who only wants to look at porn in front of his kids. He's disgusting. No wonder she doesn't want to have sex with him.
If his wife isn’t giving him any sex which he said
She also acknowledged it and had nothing to say
What is he supposed to do?
Sex is also part of a relationship so she shouldn’t be so surprised but he wasn’t cheating.
Things he can do: talk to his wife about it, look into marital counseling, go on a couples retreat, get a separation, file for divorce (if issues cannot be fixed)
There are many available options besides cheating. Not only that, but options that actually help to resolve the problem (whereas cheating doesn't resolve anything, you still have your marital issues and you also have the added problems that an affair brings)
@@nonchalantmuse1 I love your response. Alex M is as big a pig as any. And, let's not forget, is Zoom sex really any better than no sex ? He's probably disgusting, so she's not feeling it, but no one thinks of that.
She’s not taking care of her duties as a wife. People have needs, take care of them or someone else will. These women on the show are clueless
Well, when she gets half of everything and the divorce, she'll at least get something out of it. Sounds like the men are delusional if they think the women won't get half. And she'll get to tell his kids how he's disgusting pervert. Is it really worth it? I guess to you, it is. He gets to jerk off, she's going to get the house, the kids, and half the bank account. I'd rather have that than some disgusting man looking at naked women on the internet instead of playing with his kids.
Sisany is so old in her ways she’s wrong
Cam soda
Daaang
He did nothing wrong. Basically watching live porn
Ugh that first caller was annoying to hear 🙉
Loool are you talking about Marnie? 🤣
Maybe the wife just ain’t putting out
I dig him! That’s right! Do what makes you happy!
Okay, but are you saying it’s okay to do in a marriage AND hiding it from your spouse?
@@Suzie-ui9vg do what makes you happy!
@@misterwebb8564 Fair enough.
@@misterwebb8564 How selfish 🤦♀️
Definitely cheating
Not cheating 🤦🏽♀️
I got an idea take care of your man sexually and he should open up communication
It’s porn!
I'm sorry but I don't think he's cheating. Its just like watching porn but live smh. I would feel some way yes but not enough to say he's cheating and bash him for it.
@@Runningfromlionz oh wow I honestly didn't know you can talk to them at that moment and time smh. Yeah that changes alot lol. Thank you
I agree, I appreciate his honesty though. Most of these men get defensive, but at least he's owning up to what he's doing.
That’s sad that he’s in a sexless marriage.. I’m actually surprised they’re still married
@@FatalGoodiez right! I feel bad for him smh
Well, he is in some viewpoints. Though I get why some may feel he is not (and at one point I was starting to think that too), but here is the thing...If you look at someone in lust and you are married, you have already committed adultery in your mind.
CHEATER!!!!