I honestly think all of us men, or most of us men have the advantage in person. Social media is a women’s biggest advantage. I’ve seen women who are a 10 & 9 in photos but in person they’re a solid 6. If you’re gonna use social media a lot then you should have some good photos posted up but don’t think about it too much. Make sure you always look the part in person.
That’s exactly my issue. My online game is wack right now. But in person, it’s a night and day difference. Little by little I’ve been improving my socials, it just takes some time & effort.
I get Mixed of both.Ive gotten tons of girls liking me on dating apps and I go so places where certain girls avoid me.Then I went to church camp this summer and some 7 and 8s approached me
Fax most men look better irl because they have no idea how to take photos with good angles lighting etc. Plus men are able to lead the conversation easier irl because women are hella un confrontational like they will just follow your conversation.
@@kingsguard5614 I'm 5'8 and csn strongly disagree with this statement. Being tall or buff doesn't make anyone want to fight you if you are ugly. If you are ugly and buff noone wants to fight, if you are ugly and tall noone wants to fight. Unless you are a dickhead. I don't know how attractive or handsome you are but that was a bad statement. 🤷🏾🤷🏾
People will legitimately give you evil eye, say what are you looking at while staring at you, hold their girl tight around you. Ive had a guy look at me, then spit near my feet just for standing outside and smoking. 😢😢😂😂
I gotta say this. It's been 6 months since I been ACTUALLY doing what your content suggests and now I'm getting chooing signals from almost every woman at my job. Your content mixed with my own spiritual journey got women drawn towards me. 1. I've never been "unattractive", 2 I'm nowhere near done, and 3. I'm wondering what the limits are now considering I'm not thirsty for 😺 anyway. Side note, Females in public are starting turn their heads now!
A girl can’t see your bank account but she can see your body and looks it’s the first thing she sees. Looks give off a genuine burning desire that real attraction
@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001bro, you hit it ON THE NAIL. Looks matter more to women and men than either gender is willing to admit, whether openly, on media, or subconsciously.
@@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie I mean anyone can say the same thing. Only way you KNOW if youre attractive is if you get a lot of validation from talking to women (attractive women as well not just any) and not online because anyone can take a good angle and lighting shots to look good compared to IRL.
@@voidwalker9223 I'd say I'm a 6.5 with 7.5 potential I say this for one I'm good looking but not extremely above average in looks facial hair also makes me look more my age I'm muscular but I'm short so if I was taller it would be more attractive with my features at least to women who care about height alot.
@@voidwalker9223what if you good looking and get validation at times by attractive women but there are times when you feel insecure for some reason and the women are turned off by that?
@@Luca_683 Well if you feel insecure still even after validation it just means you have not convinced yourself or built enough self esteem to see that flaw you have. Best bet is you keep experimenting. Go up to women and talk to them. Get your game up. Over time you will have women tell you what they like about you and it will increase your self esteem. No one is perfect and everyone has flaws. It takes time so keep at it. You can watch all the videos you want youll never truly know who you are without talking to people
It’s probably formed into depression now but yes when I had friends and was working and living life I attracted women easy. Now I’m sad, women avoid me That’s life.
@Stevo-klo45453 were all human brotha, of course validation from women feels good and gives you a confidence boost but to be comfortable in your own skin FOR YOU(amd not tbe validation of others) is truly the greatest gift a person cam give themselves, i hope you find your way out of your rut not just for women but for your sake, despair is a void you can slip into forever if you allow youraelf to stay there and self defeating thought will manifeat themselves into self defeating behaviors, people think happiness is a state of mind but its not, its a choice you have to conciously make every day. no one is walking around happy 24/7(and if they are 99.9% of them are putting up a front), happiness comes in fleeting moments and theyre moments that you need to create for yourself, you have to wake up in the morning and say to yourself "im a good man and i deserve a good life" and make a concious effort to be good to yourself in order to break out of your rut, easier said then done of course but thats what it takes(of course theres things like mental illnesses like chemical depression and if that applies no shame in seeking help for that either, you could be the right medication away from being better if that applies to you)
Being too attractive is bad for long term relationships....a few of my ex's couldn't get over the fact my skin looks better than theirs even though I'm 3 yrs older and don't use anything besides water. I can't help them with that and it slowly eats at them until it's somehow my fault that I look younger than they do. It's come to my attention with my youthful features I can easily pull girls a lot younger and it's less of a headache since they're not having a midlife crisis comparing themselves to me
Real shit tho.. also if you’re too attractive they will want you for sex more than relationships. Some women straight up won’t take you seriously. And other women will hate the attention you get from other women.
Just turned 30 six weeks ago and I still look 23-26 years old and teenage girls and early 20s girls checks me out often at the gym. Now girls my age or older definitely checks me out without hesitation. I considered myself a 7 maybe a 7.5 on a great day so im decent looking not a true “chad”. Been in the gym for 8 years now would’ve been 9 years but the pandemic happened so I was out do the gym a full year. Skin care and all that. Been doing skin care since 28 and a half. Never stopped ever since
Dude, you're still promoting ONLINE dating?! Come on, man. We both know the real truth. Approaching a woman in real life, physically there, looking into her eyes, speaking aloud with your voice (not fiddling your thumbs on a phone screen) and showcasing your confidence by simply being there and knowing you've put in the work and can provide the value. THAT is how you date a woman. Online dating will only continue to push you further away from being the real man that confidently walks up to anyone and starts a convo, which is a superpower apparently in today's hypertechonological, hypersensitive, hyper-anxiety society. As David Goggins once said "It's so easy to be great nowadays because most people are weak." He is being so honest. You'll stand out amongst the uncommon when you drop online dating and start adding spontaneity and mystery in your interactions with women. Online dating, Instagram, all this social media gives WAY TOO much away about you. I never give my social media to any woman. I'd rather keep the mystery. THEY WANT IT THAT WAY ANYWAY. Have fun guys. Stop listening to advice that encourages you to Online date. BE A MAN. Get out there and make a sacrifice (your pride if you're rejected - eventually you'll realize pride is your biggest sin) or your dreams will be the sacrifice!
dude literally almost every single one of these points have been happening to me 💀💀 always struggled with confidence and it’s been getting better so this definitely a confidence boost for me
There’s a lot that can be said on looks vs money vs status, or blue pill vs redpill but one thing everything can agree on, most men just spend too much time on the internet and on their phones. Trust me bro, if you’re really consuming this self improvement content and making the steps IRL and have been doing so for a decent amount of time, you look better than 99.9% of people you’re gonna be interacting with on a daily basis. It don’t feel that way cuz your feed is full of dudes that look like Austin and fitx. That’s how I got over my body dysmorphia. Realizing that I look 10xs better than the average everyday dude in my class, my office, my family, my apartment, on the street.
Maybe its your energies? I don't smile much and Im usually in my masculine frame, which subconsciously lets gay men know not to come at me the wrong way. Other than that, they nod their head saying what's up. Trying to appear straight.
Another subtle sign is people’s hit you with the “I’ve seen you somewhere or they’ll say have I seen you somewhere? Meanwhile these are people you’ve never seen before but they’ve seen you countless times and would love to get to know you meanwhile you guys go to the same school or church that’s why they always say that
Yoooo, happens to me all the time. I know it’s bs, cuz I never leave the house. Only for work of course. So when ever a girl tells me that, I know she’s just trying to start a convo with me. So I take it from there and secure the📱 😂
The little to no eye contact part was a light bulb. I’ve always been curious why people don’t make eye contact with me whenever we’re talking, specially guys. I always thought it was rude but now it makes sense 😅
Me too. I have more female friends than I do guy friends. Females generally like being around me, and will randomly come up to me, and start a conversation. Guys are the complete opposite. They either like me, flat out hate me within 30 seconds of meeting me. If I say hello guys generally will roll their eyes, or look away if we are in passing like in a hallway. Also, I notice a lot of men generally will give me hateful looks as well.
Yup… I always get hit on by gay men. It’s crazy and I don’t look gay at all. And women? They hardly look me in the eye or act all nervous around me. Hearing this made me not feel as stupid as I felt before due to my thoughts. This video made my doubts fade away!
Dawg you are attractive its not about i dont look gay at all shit the gay guy probably going to hit on you even regardless if you gay or not 😂 and the women you talkin about is also find you attractive that's why they get probably nervous around you
That gay theory is very true! I have been dealing with thus for years, just never said anything to really anyone about that because then they think if gay people hit on you a lot, you must be gay when that is far from the truth lol!
Good work bro im down the same in weight and timeframe as you and the looks I’m getting these days is crazy, wasn’t used to this when I had all that extra weight on me 😂
I can attest to the gay men point. I don’t look gay but I always have a lot of gay men making eye contact with me and even had a few cat call me in public.
No disrespect whatsoever, but gay dudes are super try hard. We as men already have a high sex drive that wanna constantly smash, so I think a lot of gay dudes are impressed with almost any guy tbh. I don’t like or care for gay dudes compliments or attention. Again, no issues with gay dudes, just I know how we as men are, and I know how super try hard gay dudes are. 🤷🏾♂️
For me they wink at me. I’m buff, so cat calling is not something they would do, but winks or DM’s is what I receive. Shit, even offers if I want to chill so that they can cook for me. Cook what? Sausage and eggs? Shits crazy.
I'm from NYC and I get that a lot too. Idk how to explain it but it sucks tbh. People tell me it's a good thing but I think otherwise. Nothing wrong with the community just not the same as a woman doing that to me.
Also, guys, please go to the gym. I don't care what anyone says. I've been fit, fat, and fit again. I'll tell you that being fit will make you stand out so much. Also, body language will make you more attractive. Stop hiding yourself. Yesterday I seen a guy acting super insecure and looking around for validation and immediately understood why body language is so important. Chill and be free in your body.
The gay man thing is real bro. I work in the bank and i’m heterosexual and masculine but they don’t care. S/o to AD for exposing and debunking this. Straight men go through it.
Confidence, good personality and looking successful make you much more attractive in real life even if you're not handsome at all, this is very important for most women.
I have been checked out by a fair number of gay guys 😂 it honestly happens just as often with women, but I think I put myself together pretty well based on that feedback.
Bruh if anything dudes will check you out slightly more than females. It’s so weird I always find other dudes staring at me I be wondering wtf this dude looking at me for so long😂
All the things that you mentioned happened to me every single day funny thing I went to the gym today and two people came to talk to me asking what is my diet look like 😂😂😂😂
When you are a high value Masculine man. You will attract women and some men. You don’t have to be gay or homophobic. Be comfortable in your masculine nature. The more you improve your life , get used to that attention. Wanted & unwanted. Just keep moving my G 💪🏾❤️
That confidence stuff makes sense never really noticed until now but when I stand tall walking at my job I noticed girls with half stare with a weird smile and put there head down
I like that opportunities quote. Its similar to one of my fav quotes - success is where preparation and opportunities meet. You gotta prepare and make yourself available
Tbf if you know that you look ugly in the mirror and in the front camera then its gg. If you feel good looking in the mirror and feel ugly in camera, most likely you are good looking
I get most of these and everywhere I go no matter if I’m minding my own business random guys will come up to me to ask what’s my workout routine I’ve even gotten you have my dream body. Some want me to train them or train with them. But I think I might be a little too attractive 😅 women seem to be a little intimidated by me they get super nervous. asking me random questions that don’t make sense stuttering over there words
The last one is true and false. Gay dudes look at me more ever since I dropped 45lbs and started lifting weights, but at the same time gays are just creepy, dirty and extremely horny for anything. It’s just gross. I do believe you about women’s body language.. I have noticed women walk past me so nervous looking, they’ll even say hi in a very nervous way.. I can tell they find me attractive
If you had sex with 50 women or more and been in 2-10 long term relationships by the time your 30 you’re not that ugly as you think. We all have periods of low confidence and dry spells. If you’re introverted , off the grid with social media, don’t go out, this is another reason why you’re single or in a rut or a virgin still. It’s got nothing to do with looks. I used to go out pick snd, do online dating get laid. I gave up on it and grew tired from women and the casual sex. Been with over 100 women, not like a super chad but up there and now I get nothing because I don’t try. I still look fit, train but I gave up. I get no looks, no smiles, nothing. I have lost my hair but still have transwomen and guys look at me allot lol. So it’s all g haha
Received a DM the gay man was like "you would make a killing scamming people" i just didnt know if it was a compliment or not lol but i guess i hear your point bro
some people want to improve more than one aspect of thier lives and care about how they present themselves. Actually you can make money easier if you look good tbh
@@roxasbuddy really dude !! I make tons of money trading forex. Does that has anything to do with the way i look ? By the way im good looking and i dont give a shit
@@Motadawil it can play a good role, the better looking you are the more people will listen to you. And keep in mind everyone doesn't do forex but if you in buisness how you look and how you hold yourself in general can make people be more open to listen to you vs if you ugly
I already have money and a fairly muscular physique. The only thing I need now is a sharp jawline, some jewelry and clear skin. Mewing, Tiege Hanley and Forged London should do the trick.
@@manuandera3151 The only thing I wouldn't need maybe is Tiege to be fair. (I still wanna try them once) Mewing is free and forged london is kinda cool tho
eye contact thing could go either way. Could be because she finds you ugly & doesn't want you to make an approach. Or it could be she's nervous because she likes you
@@zob3412 yeah maybe. But I also think sometimes they were just casually looking & y'all happened to make eye contact. This happens to me with guys too. Eye contact alone can be anything.
Im one of those people that when i look in the mirror i feel like i look good but when i take a picture i always looks awful. Also im a gay magnet, i wish women approached me like men do.
I like how you nailed it because some of your points boil down to the halo effect and its actually science. You know my experience on how I knew I was actually attractive its when I went to party(i never used to) and a pretty girl just started dancing with me and kissed me. I was always creeped out by gay dudes trying to flirt with me.
Getting hit on by gay dudes may throw some straight dudes off and make them aggressive, but it’s honestly the biggest way to see if you’re more attractive than you think. Shit, I start feelin myself after 😂😂
I’m a freshman rn, but back in middle school and overwhelming amount of gay dudes that I passed in the hallway would instantly tell me that I’m handsome. I thought I just looked a certain way to them, since I never thought I was attractive at all but I’ll take the compliments and better myself
I guess I am more attractive than I thought lol man, the gay guys approaching has happened. Last time it happened a gay dude invited me to be gay 💀invitation declined, buddy
I kind of disagree on the last one. Thing about gay men is that they have lower standards than women and aren't as nitpicky. Many guys have reported getting 20x the matches when they switch their Tinder to "looking for men". Some guys even get zero matches from women but a lot from gay men. So it's possible that you could be a very average looking dude and still have gay guys hitting on you but be invisible to women. Men thirst over average looking women all the time and I think when it comes to men who like men it's the same thing.
I’m less attractive than I think because it seems like how I view myself isn’t what woman see because I don’t get validation that often even though I have before by woman I find attractive. So I’m pretty confused on where I stand with this
If you get approached by woman your on another level. I get attention every time I go out. And I get hints from females everyday pretty much, but they’ll never come and do the work and approach. So if you actually get approached consider it a confirmation that your at a certain level.
I got aggressively hit on by a woman for the first time in my life a few days ago lol. She even took my number. I was visibly flustered and goofy cuz it was a bizarre feeling. But also she had a kid and was like 10 years older, so I don’t think it counts as much
I’m going to start going to the gym very soon. I’m a pretty skinny guy, I have some muscle but I’m not “big” if that makes sense. I need to get on a calorie surplus first and workout. I have nice skin, I have good hygiene but I need to get bigger.
I definitely get the nervousness one a lot. At one point I thought it was because I wasn’t good looking but I would look at a chicks bf and be like there’s no way he’s better looking them me.
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how did you become so fine bro!? I remember you from 6 years back
i hit no point💀(more ugly than i think i am😅)
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bro your not sigma
I'm gonna get a good pump at the gym and go to a gay bar to test myself.
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Okay buddy😂😂😂
😂😂 ok that was pretty funny
I honestly think all of us men, or most of us men have the advantage in person. Social media is a women’s biggest advantage. I’ve seen women who are a 10 & 9 in photos but in person they’re a solid 6. If you’re gonna use social media a lot then you should have some good photos posted up but don’t think about it too much. Make sure you always look the part in person.
That’s exactly my issue. My online game is wack right now. But in person, it’s a night and day difference. Little by little I’ve been improving my socials, it just takes some time & effort.
This is me I’ve never got a girl online but all bodies I got from real life mostly approaching them
Very good points PrettyBoiiFamous. I’m going to feel much more confident in person at the bar meeting the ladies from now on !!
I get Mixed of both.Ive gotten tons of girls liking me on dating apps and I go so places where certain girls avoid me.Then I went to church camp this summer and some 7 and 8s approached me
Fax most men look better irl because they have no idea how to take photos with good angles lighting etc. Plus men are able to lead the conversation easier irl because women are hella un confrontational like they will just follow your conversation.
Another sign. Dudes you never spoke too want to fight you for no reason.
Thats more when youre tall or look very buff
@@kingsguard5614nah, short men also have big dick energy
@@kingsguard5614 I'm 5'8 and csn strongly disagree with this statement. Being tall or buff doesn't make anyone want to fight you if you are ugly. If you are ugly and buff noone wants to fight, if you are ugly and tall noone wants to fight. Unless you are a dickhead.
I don't know how attractive or handsome you are but that was a bad statement. 🤷🏾🤷🏾
People will legitimately give you evil eye, say what are you looking at while staring at you, hold their girl tight around you.
Ive had a guy look at me, then spit near my feet just for standing outside and smoking. 😢😢😂😂
Yeah that undeserved hate is a huge sign. If dudes act goofy around you in general lol
I gotta say this. It's been 6 months since I been ACTUALLY doing what your content suggests and now I'm getting chooing signals from almost every woman at my job. Your content mixed with my own spiritual journey got women drawn towards me. 1. I've never been "unattractive", 2 I'm nowhere near done, and 3. I'm wondering what the limits are now considering I'm not thirsty for 😺 anyway. Side note, Females in public are starting turn their heads now!
Good for you
Keep on the grind bro 💪
Shoot ya shot the majority of American women have 0 Rizz so u gotta do dat part.
Be careful about flirting too much with women at your job. Especially if they are your inferiors. Things could get really messy very quick
Same for me but in highschool. Changed my life so far and I’m nowhere near done
As far as money, looks, and status goes looks will always be first. That’s the one trait that’s backed up by genuine desire and physical attraction.
A girl can’t see your bank account but she can see your body and looks it’s the first thing she sees. Looks give off a genuine burning desire that real attraction
Looks>>>>>>>Status>>>Money
@@MasterInHD1) LOOKS hook them in 2) Status keeps them interested 3) Money keeps them around
@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001bro, you hit it ON THE NAIL. Looks matter more to women and men than either gender is willing to admit, whether openly, on media, or subconsciously.
Yeah, looks is number one ☝️. The looks black pill is very real
Many dudes also think they look better than what they actually do but comment section isnt ready for that convo lol
I'm realistic so I can't relate lmao
@@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie I mean anyone can say the same thing. Only way you KNOW if youre attractive is if you get a lot of validation from talking to women (attractive women as well not just any) and not online because anyone can take a good angle and lighting shots to look good compared to IRL.
@@voidwalker9223 I'd say I'm a 6.5 with 7.5 potential I say this for one I'm good looking but not extremely above average in looks facial hair also makes me look more my age I'm muscular but I'm short so if I was taller it would be more attractive with my features at least to women who care about height alot.
@@voidwalker9223what if you good looking and get validation at times by attractive women but there are times when you feel insecure for some reason and the women are turned off by that?
@@Luca_683 Well if you feel insecure still even after validation it just means you have not convinced yourself or built enough self esteem to see that flaw you have. Best bet is you keep experimenting. Go up to women and talk to them. Get your game up. Over time you will have women tell you what they like about you and it will increase your self esteem. No one is perfect and everyone has flaws. It takes time so keep at it. You can watch all the videos you want youll never truly know who you are without talking to people
You perceive yourself as better looking when you are in a good mood vs in a bad mood. It's actually crazy
It's not that crazy, that's basic brain chemistry.
I been in a bad mood for 7 months now: this is true, no luck being stuck in a rut
It’s probably formed into depression now but yes when I had friends and was working and living life I attracted women easy. Now I’m sad, women avoid me That’s life.
@Stevo-klo45453 Bro you good now? Women ain't everything bro.
@Stevo-klo45453 were all human brotha, of course validation from women feels good and gives you a confidence boost but to be comfortable in your own skin FOR YOU(amd not tbe validation of others) is truly the greatest gift a person cam give themselves, i hope you find your way out of your rut not just for women but for your sake, despair is a void you can slip into forever if you allow youraelf to stay there and self defeating thought will manifeat themselves into self defeating behaviors, people think happiness is a state of mind but its not, its a choice you have to conciously make every day. no one is walking around happy 24/7(and if they are 99.9% of them are putting up a front), happiness comes in fleeting moments and theyre moments that you need to create for yourself, you have to wake up in the morning and say to yourself "im a good man and i deserve a good life" and make a concious effort to be good to yourself in order to break out of your rut, easier said then done of course but thats what it takes(of course theres things like mental illnesses like chemical depression and if that applies no shame in seeking help for that either, you could be the right medication away from being better if that applies to you)
Being too attractive is bad for long term relationships....a few of my ex's couldn't get over the fact my skin looks better than theirs even though I'm 3 yrs older and don't use anything besides water. I can't help them with that and it slowly eats at them until it's somehow my fault that I look younger than they do. It's come to my attention with my youthful features I can easily pull girls a lot younger and it's less of a headache since they're not having a midlife crisis comparing themselves to me
I'm sure a positive mindset helps too. If you're positive or mentally stable that usually projects itself physically
What’s your ig bro
Real shit tho.. also if you’re too attractive they will want you for sex more than relationships. Some women straight up won’t take you seriously. And other women will hate the attention you get from other women.
You don't use soap either? Because for a while I only used water and apparently there is a subset of people that do this
Just turned 30 six weeks ago and I still look 23-26 years old and teenage girls and early 20s girls checks me out often at the gym. Now girls my age or older definitely checks me out without hesitation. I considered myself a 7 maybe a 7.5 on a great day so im decent looking not a true “chad”. Been in the gym for 8 years now would’ve been 9 years but the pandemic happened so I was out do the gym a full year. Skin care and all that. Been doing skin care since 28 and a half. Never stopped ever since
Dude, you're still promoting ONLINE dating?! Come on, man. We both know the real truth. Approaching a woman in real life, physically there, looking into her eyes, speaking aloud with your voice (not fiddling your thumbs on a phone screen) and showcasing your confidence by simply being there and knowing you've put in the work and can provide the value. THAT is how you date a woman. Online dating will only continue to push you further away from being the real man that confidently walks up to anyone and starts a convo, which is a superpower apparently in today's hypertechonological, hypersensitive, hyper-anxiety society. As David Goggins once said "It's so easy to be great nowadays because most people are weak." He is being so honest. You'll stand out amongst the uncommon when you drop online dating and start adding spontaneity and mystery in your interactions with women. Online dating, Instagram, all this social media gives WAY TOO much away about you. I never give my social media to any woman. I'd rather keep the mystery. THEY WANT IT THAT WAY ANYWAY. Have fun guys. Stop listening to advice that encourages you to Online date. BE A MAN. Get out there and make a sacrifice (your pride if you're rejected - eventually you'll realize pride is your biggest sin) or your dreams will be the sacrifice!
💯 Brother this comment needs more likes
@@Dbrown2844 appreciate you, brother
You probably would've found your love of your life online like me but you follow this cult
dude literally almost every single one of these points have been happening to me 💀💀 always struggled with confidence and it’s been getting better so this definitely a confidence boost for me
There’s a lot that can be said on looks vs money vs status, or blue pill vs redpill but one thing everything can agree on, most men just spend too much time on the internet and on their phones. Trust me bro, if you’re really consuming this self improvement content and making the steps IRL and have been doing so for a decent amount of time, you look better than 99.9% of people you’re gonna be interacting with on a daily basis. It don’t feel that way cuz your feed is full of dudes that look like Austin and fitx. That’s how I got over my body dysmorphia. Realizing that I look 10xs better than the average everyday dude in my class, my office, my family, my apartment, on the street.
Fax I observed this myself
Who is fitx?
Yeah as an attractive man myself, I dislike having gay men liking me, or sliding in my dm's. They be aggressive, they don't care if you're straight.
Facts gay guys be ruthless
And to this point, Women be like “nOw u mEn KnOw hOw wE fEeL AbOuT yALL” 🤣🤣💀
@@literallyonlyfanz2308nah the difference is women enjoy the attention from men. However straight men definitely do not feel the same about gay men
Maybe its your energies? I don't smile much and Im usually in my masculine frame, which subconsciously lets gay men know not to come at me the wrong way. Other than that, they nod their head saying what's up. Trying to appear straight.
@@uglyhindu1761 women cope and say they don’t 🤣
Another subtle sign is people’s hit you with the
“I’ve seen you somewhere or they’ll say have I seen you somewhere? Meanwhile these are people you’ve never seen before but they’ve seen you countless times and would love to get to know you meanwhile you guys go to the same school or church that’s why they always say that
This is facts !
@@badboyonly1DW just had it happens to me just yesterday plus numerous other times
Yoooo, happens to me all the time. I know it’s bs, cuz I never leave the house. Only for work of course. So when ever a girl tells me that, I know she’s just trying to start a convo with me. So I take it from there and secure the📱 😂
The little to no eye contact part was a light bulb. I’ve always been curious why people don’t make eye contact with me whenever we’re talking, specially guys. I always thought it was rude but now it makes sense 😅
Me too. I have more female friends than I do guy friends. Females generally like being around me, and will randomly come up to me, and start a conversation. Guys are the complete opposite. They either like me, flat out hate me within 30 seconds of meeting me. If I say hello guys generally will roll their eyes, or look away if we are in passing like in a hallway. Also, I notice a lot of men generally will give me hateful looks as well.
it could also mean your really ugly too.
cap i be staring back while talking or not talking🤤 no homo tho
It could go either way. It could be because a girl finds you attractive or unattractive. And many girls are just generally shy
@@Lufthansa631had the same experience with hateful looks from guys who seem to despise me instantly
Yup… I always get hit on by gay men. It’s crazy and I don’t look gay at all. And women? They hardly look me in the eye or act all nervous around me. Hearing this made me not feel as stupid as I felt before due to my thoughts. This video made my doubts fade away!
Dawg you are attractive its not about i dont look gay at all shit the gay guy probably going to hit on you even regardless if you gay or not 😂 and the women you talkin about is also find you attractive that's why they get probably nervous around you
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Yeah me too bro. Those guys even ask for my instagram.. Iam scared
That gay theory is very true! I have been dealing with thus for years, just never said anything to really anyone about that because then they think if gay people hit on you a lot, you must be gay when that is far from the truth lol!
That Doesn’t mean you’re gay. Just means your a attractive guy
Lol i can relate
I am not photogenic at all , so the ' real life compliment ' happens all the time.
Same here I’m god awful at photos 😅
@@Jhizzle473I'm awful at both
#6 Women giving you choosing signals (preening, proximity & eye contact)
Guys approaching me for my workout routine in the gym is straight up facts! 💯
That point about gay men…I’ve lost 40(plus) lbs in the last 6 months (true story) and yeah….that point is on point, as are the others.
Good work bro im down the same in weight and timeframe as you and the looks I’m getting these days is crazy, wasn’t used to this when I had all that extra weight on me 😂
I can attest to the gay men point. I don’t look gay but I always have a lot of gay men making eye contact with me and even had a few cat call me in public.
No disrespect whatsoever, but gay dudes are super try hard. We as men already have a high sex drive that wanna constantly smash, so I think a lot of gay dudes are impressed with almost any guy tbh. I don’t like or care for gay dudes compliments or attention. Again, no issues with gay dudes, just I know how we as men are, and I know how super try hard gay dudes are. 🤷🏾♂️
Haha “I dont Like gay”
For me they wink at me. I’m buff, so cat calling is not something they would do, but winks or DM’s is what I receive. Shit, even offers if I want to chill so that they can cook for me. Cook what? Sausage and eggs? Shits crazy.
@@SirRFO 1 sausage 2 eggs
I'm from NYC and I get that a lot too. Idk how to explain it but it sucks tbh. People tell me it's a good thing but I think otherwise. Nothing wrong with the community just not the same as a woman doing that to me.
that necklace hitting crazy bro🔥
Also, guys, please go to the gym. I don't care what anyone says. I've been fit, fat, and fit again. I'll tell you that being fit will make you stand out so much.
Also, body language will make you more attractive. Stop hiding yourself. Yesterday I seen a guy acting super insecure and looking around for validation and immediately understood why body language is so important. Chill and be free in your body.
The gay man thing is real bro. I work in the bank and i’m heterosexual and masculine but they don’t care. S/o to AD for exposing and debunking this. Straight men go through it.
Confidence, good personality and looking successful make you much more attractive in real life even if you're not handsome at all, this is very important for most women.
I have been checked out by a fair number of gay guys 😂 it honestly happens just as often with women, but I think I put myself together pretty well based on that feedback.
😂😂😂😂 I have the same problem
Bruh if anything dudes will check you out slightly more than females. It’s so weird I always find other dudes staring at me I be wondering wtf this dude looking at me for so long😂
@@mmm__webro same every damn day n it b tha ones that don’t even look gay too🤦🏽♂️
@@OmlLoder Lol trust yo they be tryna compete or something no clue why, they see a dude who’s attractive and they get mad ash
@@mmm__we Nahh im not gay
All the things that you mentioned happened to me every single day funny thing I went to the gym today and two people came to talk to me asking what is my diet look like 😂😂😂😂
Same🤣🤣🤣 all the time
My secret weapon is FRAGRANCE. I get compliments on it ALL THE TIME.
I like to fart. I don't get compliments but it's way more fun
I always downplay compliments I get. All the "signs" you go over in this video consistently happen to me but I refuse to let it get into my head.
When you are a high value Masculine man. You will attract women and some men. You don’t have to be gay or homophobic. Be comfortable in your masculine nature. The more you improve your life , get used to that attention. Wanted & unwanted. Just keep moving my G 💪🏾❤️
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Bruh I’ve had several gay dudes try to rizz me up bro 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ I just wish these women would be as bold as they be.
That confidence stuff makes sense never really noticed until now but when I stand tall walking at my job I noticed girls with half stare with a weird smile and put there head down
loving the new style of video presentation Austin 💪🏾
Yeah gay men compliment a lot , I think that should be the ultimate sign that you are very attractive
I got hit on by a gay 70yr old man and I didn't felt good about it tbh
@@niko_goosebumps did it feel good when he probed u
It took me a while to realize that I just didn’t know how to take photos.
I like that opportunities quote. Its similar to one of my fav quotes - success is where preparation and opportunities meet. You gotta prepare and make yourself available
As a straight dude, The gay guy bit was a curve ball lol… but it was facts! He’s not lying about that one at all!
It’s surprisingly true😅
What about when they ask "brah what mic you using?" Audio is 👌👌
This just broke my 23 year old insecurity. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
U would already know u are attractive if these points applied lol cmon bruh
@@TeemoForLife huh? You sound 🐌
Tbf if you know that you look ugly in the mirror and in the front camera then its gg. If you feel good looking in the mirror and feel ugly in camera, most likely you are good looking
@@deezekii3479I look good at home mirror but bad in school mirror
I attract gay men. Thank you Austin for raising my self esteem 😭
Broo same😭😭
Loving the new quality setup!
Preciate the honesty and vulnerability on that last point - pause
I'm gonna be honest..last one is so truee😂
Hell yeah, never experienced any of these ! 😂
I get most of these and everywhere I go no matter if I’m minding my own business random guys will come up to me to ask what’s my workout routine I’ve even gotten you have my dream body.
Some want me to train them or train with them. But I think I might be a little too attractive 😅 women seem to be a little intimidated by me they get super nervous. asking me random questions that don’t make sense stuttering over there words
the gay men approaching you is facts. Had this happen a couple of times...
The last one is true and false. Gay dudes look at me more ever since I dropped 45lbs and started lifting weights, but at the same time gays are just creepy, dirty and extremely horny for anything. It’s just gross.
I do believe you about women’s body language.. I have noticed women walk past me so nervous looking, they’ll even say hi in a very nervous way.. I can tell they find me attractive
When a gym bro asks you questions... You're doing something right
Leveling up the image/production quality on these vids 💯
If you had sex with 50 women or more and been in 2-10 long term relationships by the time your 30 you’re not that ugly as you think. We all have periods of low confidence and dry spells. If you’re introverted , off the grid with social media, don’t go out, this is another reason why you’re single or in a rut or a virgin still. It’s got nothing to do with looks. I used to go out pick snd, do online dating get laid. I gave up on it and grew tired from women and the casual sex. Been with over 100 women, not like a super chad but up there and now I get nothing because I don’t try. I still look fit, train but I gave up. I get no looks, no smiles, nothing. I have lost my hair but still have transwomen and guys look at me allot lol. So it’s all g haha
Received a DM the gay man was like "you would make a killing scamming people" i just didnt know if it was a compliment or not lol but i guess i hear your point bro
Guys stop worrying about the way you look and go get that fucking money
some people want to improve more than one aspect of thier lives and care about how they present themselves. Actually you can make money easier if you look good tbh
@@roxasbuddyif you look good it can open doors
@@roxasbuddy really dude !! I make tons of money trading forex. Does that has anything to do with the way i look ? By the way im good looking and i dont give a shit
@@Motadawil it can play a good role, the better looking you are the more people will listen to you. And keep in mind everyone doesn't do forex but if you in buisness how you look and how you hold yourself in general can make people be more open to listen to you vs if you ugly
@@roxasbuddy the older you look the more people will take you seriously. No one gives a shit to beauty when it comes to bussiness
I just peeped that Austin have the KS spinning thing in his background
I’ve had quite a few gay/ bisexual men approach me in the past. Just last month, a gay man tried to lure me into a dogging spot in a secluded area. 😂
Dogging spot? What's that?
@@PermanentHigh
Look it up. It’s an entire category of porn.
ayoo 😅
Facts 💯 about gay men hitting on an attractive guy. Ive had that experience many times that I started questioning myself 😂
lmaoo he piped the e-commerce chick 😂
I already have money and a fairly muscular physique. The only thing I need now is a sharp jawline, some jewelry and clear skin. Mewing, Tiege Hanley and Forged London should do the trick.
😂😂😂, buying stuff you don't need
@@manuandera3151 The only thing I wouldn't need maybe is Tiege to be fair. (I still wanna try them once) Mewing is free and forged london is kinda cool tho
eye contact thing could go either way. Could be because she finds you ugly & doesn't want you to make an approach. Or it could be she's nervous because she likes you
If she stares at you for a while and then quickly look somewhere else on your second glance then it might be that you're attractive.
@@zob3412 yeah maybe. But I also think sometimes they were just casually looking & y'all happened to make eye contact. This happens to me with guys too. Eye contact alone can be anything.
@@michael43567 It's way easier for boys to make eye contacts with their same sex, tho. Girls mostly wouldn't do long eye contacts with boys.
Im one of those people that when i look in the mirror i feel like i look good but when i take a picture i always looks awful. Also im a gay magnet, i wish women approached me like men do.
Aye Austin could you do content on what products do you use for your hair routine for the longer curly look, good vid!
I’ve Definitely Heard That Before 😂 “You Look BETTER in Person”
I like how you nailed it because some of your points boil down to the halo effect and its actually science. You know my experience on how I knew I was actually attractive its when I went to party(i never used to) and a pretty girl just started dancing with me and kissed me. I was always creeped out by gay dudes trying to flirt with me.
Thanks austin for boosting my self esteem, great videos by the way 👏👏.
Thats a dope ass shirt you’re rocking austin
Thumbnail: “Corporate fails to see a difference….”
Getting hit on by gay dudes may throw some straight dudes off and make them aggressive, but it’s honestly the biggest way to see if you’re more attractive than you think. Shit, I start feelin myself after 😂😂
Dude when I was playing sports I used to get hit on by gay guys and I got fat af when I quit now I’m back to where I was gonna keep on getting leaner
Hahahaha
Keep that to yourself bro lol
Idk. Some men actually hate on you more and mean mug you. But the men who want to find out are usually men that are on their way to the top as well.
This is true if your a attractive guy straight guys will give you dirty looks meanwhile gay dudes look at you like a meal.
What’s your routine for your hair? Can you also make a video for your hair routine?
Was just feeling this lol , perfect timing .
Yoooo around 5:35 you mentioned Business Meeting..
But didn't sneak the song in there. Come onnn. I need that 😂
2 guys have asked for my snap before ☠
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I’m a freshman rn, but back in middle school and overwhelming amount of gay dudes that I passed in the hallway would instantly tell me that I’m handsome. I thought I just looked a certain way to them, since I never thought I was attractive at all but I’ll take the compliments and better myself
Why are so many gay dudes in schools? When I was at school there were only a couple
@@chrispekel5709I was thinking the same😂
This gay guy thinks he is God!!!
I guess I am more attractive than I thought lol man, the gay guys approaching has happened. Last time it happened a gay dude invited me to be gay 💀invitation declined, buddy
the dating market is fucked for average men which is most of us
I kind of disagree on the last one. Thing about gay men is that they have lower standards than women and aren't as nitpicky. Many guys have reported getting 20x the matches when they switch their Tinder to "looking for men". Some guys even get zero matches from women but a lot from gay men. So it's possible that you could be a very average looking dude and still have gay guys hitting on you but be invisible to women. Men thirst over average looking women all the time and I think when it comes to men who like men it's the same thing.
Nahh lil boys thirst over women
Thank you man, you are a really nice person. If I can get enough money I will book a session with you. Your videos have helped me thanks.
Your slowly changing my life
Well that settles it. That last part happened to me a lot in 2023
I’m less attractive than I think because it seems like how I view myself isn’t what woman see because I don’t get validation that often even though I have before by woman I find attractive. So I’m pretty confused on where I stand with this
If you get approached by woman your on another level. I get attention every time I go out. And I get hints from females everyday pretty much, but they’ll never come and do the work and approach. So if you actually get approached consider it a confirmation that your at a certain level.
@@Gigaoverddamnnn bruh sorrryy
I got aggressively hit on by a woman for the first time in my life a few days ago lol. She even took my number. I was visibly flustered and goofy cuz it was a bizarre feeling. But also she had a kid and was like 10 years older, so I don’t think it counts as much
Ayo pause on that last one tho.
money is my main problem now, got the dream girl, decided she is all i want
Smugness is a horrible trait.
bro the last one is crazy💀😂😂
that last one hit because I keep turning down men who like other men and it's kinda annoying when I get approached bout that
Another point Austin should’ve mentioned is that guys are going to hate on you and test you.. if they see you get girls or a attractive guy.
Yea yall
Last point encouraged me to look ugly 💀
Your comment shows insecurity
😂😂 the teej Henley slide in
I’m going to start going to the gym very soon. I’m a pretty skinny guy, I have some muscle but I’m not “big” if that makes sense. I need to get on a calorie surplus first and workout. I have nice skin, I have good hygiene but I need to get bigger.
Nah i know i am ugly, still need to get more lean
bro called me ugly in 5 ways
already thought i was ugly and i aint get none of this so confirmed.
I definitely get the nervousness one a lot. At one point I thought it was because I wasn’t good looking but I would look at a chicks bf and be like there’s no way he’s better looking them me.
God loves you
austin lookin like a movie character
You get a lot of free shit as well
It’s called pretty privilege and yeah it’s a real thing yup
Sometime they get nervous around you because they think you are creepy
Hey Austin everything fine ?!?
I see ur hand burnt i think
You read my mind haha had jaw surgery and feel like crap but still get a lot of looks and smiles