My husband and I are making plans now for me to work for him. He’s going to teach me the business so I can help him and I’m an accountant, so I’m also going to keep his books. I’m tired of corporate!
That's a blessing. Corporate is full of WW telling HR that BW are "aggressive" and are not "team players" yet they the first ones to ride the coattails of successful BM on projects. Hopefully I get out of corporate and start my own business too.
Until I started watching Kevin I had no idea things were so bad between men and women. Never knew how bad the younger woman were. My daughter is 33 and has been married for 5 years. I tell her regularly don't listen to these single women. Focus on your husband and marriage.
Unfortunately, the sisters in the mid-60s linked up with white feminism. What we have once a 85% marriage down to 27 or 30% marriage. Many of our sisters are growing up in the house without a father Uncle no men insight. And it sounds like many of our sisters are getting advice from single women with no man
Yes ma’am. It’s pretty bad out here. I would say it’s an evil society we are in. I personally wouldn’t want kids growing up in this evilness! That’s why the birth rate is at a all time low including marriage, men are waking up. I believe our society will get worse, it’s just a matter of time. Hopefully I’ll be out of the U.S. before 💩 hits the fan. Everyone else that’s staying, better be prepared for what’s coming.
@@MrMannface So true. My daughter is a scientist and used to work with some bitter, single women that were always bashing men. My son in-law told me about it. I had a talk with her and told her to knock it off. She no longer works with them and disassociated with them. Us older women have to school the younger ones.
@@MrMannface one movement that is constantly left out that occurred during the same time which also increased to those numbers were the free love era. The combination of the 2 was destructive to the black family unit.
So happy you tapped into this topic!!! I’m a pharmacist that is married w/kids and I work for my husband by running the social media for his business and you better believe he’s working double time to retire me from corporate life! After we had kids, working just felt like a burden bc I had to spend so much time away from them. Call me old fashion, but I would much rather be with my husband and kids!
And it’s crazy that many modern women see a thriving interaction such as the one you have between a husband and wife as weak on the woman’s part. These modern women don’t understand the strength, the skill, the knowledge a woman must bring to support her husband’s business the way you do. Much respect and I hope more ladies will follow your example
@@kemetazubuike8958 I wouldn’t say they were because that is a valuable skill that can command a high wage. Advanced degrees in psych, communications and humanities are expensive vanity projects. She was able to get into cooperation with her husband to the point where she doesn’t have to tap into that portion of her life and can utilize her talents to support her husband and the family. I applaud her for it
A false accusation can REALLY hurt a man. Some women have zero understanding of this, and others know exactly what they are doing when they play this card. I once invested years in a stepfather role to my GF's daughter. She became depressed at some point, and got insanely jealous of time I spent with the daughter, even though she didn't want to leave the couch herself most of the time. She made a vague accusation about me being too interested in young girls, which she later tried to dismiss as "just a feeling" as if it was nothing. This is one of the very real dangers of dating women with children.
@@justus7181 that's not the norm. And we're not talking about the very small percentage of bad dudes / peds who commit this crime repetitively; we're talking about the narrative laid out. Moving the needle changes the point.
@@khingblack14 It turns out the data says female are peds at the same rate as men but some researchers believe female peds might be greater than male ones because the courts play down female peds and since society shames men for not "liking it" most male victims never speak up.
I own a business and was dating to a woman earlier this year. We came up with a plan for her to quit her job after we get married and she work in my business. She is 32 and wants to stop having children by 35 because of a health concern. I was seriously planning to propose to her later this year. She messed it up because she wanted attention(flirt) from men online and thought it was okay to do so. I had to bounce her.smdh
He is preaching faaaaacts!!! I’m staying home raising and educating the kids and when I’m done I will go to work for my husband. I’m so much happier and the hate is real! 🤭
It's strange logic to think about, honestly. People that are against you, it's like... you want to have kids but you don't want to actually raise them?
@@justus7181 OH LOOK!! A SJW divester misquoting Kevin again. Let's finish that quote you're talking about "Is it worse for a man to put his hands on a woman, or a woman to put her tongue on a man, because I don't know any man who puts his hands on a woman for no french toast reason." What Mr. Samuels is saying is if you poke a bear, a bear will retaliate but if you don't poke a bear it will not attack you. All he's saying is treat others the way you want to be treated. SMH another 304 making up lies on Mr. Samuels.
@@justus7181 you seem to be a little obtuse, so ill try to explain. Men know that you watch your mouth, or you stop talking and play Catch These Hands. Women aren't used to getting punched in the mouth for violating, and don't respect men enough to act appropriately. Your privilege has led to arrogance and assumptions of righteousness. Again, the vast majority of men do not lash out without reason, and the 1% that do does not represent then 99% that don't.
Us ladies need to focus on respecting our men. Please listen to them, don’t interrupt them, work with them and not against them and watch things fall into place. Stay classy y’all ♥️
I used to share a condo wall with a married couple, a big tough cop and his petite wife. Several nights a week I would hear his wife screaming at him and sometime he would break down in tears. I knew all their secrets. Sad situation.
@@splash4890 That would be the _right_ thing to do. I wanted to know what would be the _tough_ thing to do. John Doe was the one who brought toughness into this. We all know what would be the tough thing to do. Not react at all and if she kept going, a little slap to put her in her place. But thats worse than murder nowadays, so we just let women like that do whatever they want. Nobody gives a crap when women abuse men.
@@asiatic_black sometimes it’s hard to leave. Many women stalked and abused by “romantic” partners. Police can’t do anything . And a piece of paper won’t keep the men away.
@@cloverleaf9532 that’s cap there are waaaaaay to many women’s shelters social wokers and programs, and in many states if the police are called on a domestic they legally have to take someone in. Evidence or not. What happens is when these people and programs get involved and the women just goes back, at that point, their hands are tied.
@Charles Emerson Winchester, III Lol... he was of Christian faith, no doubt, but he always said that men submitted to God and the woman submitted to her man....
Abuse should *never* be tolerated. A lot of times we focus on physical abuse but don’t pay enough attention to psychological, emotional and verbal abuse. The scars of physical wounds may eventually disappear, but the scars of psychological wounds can last a lifetime. Nobody-male or female-should accept abuse. Strength is absolutely *not* determined by how much abuse you can take.
There's no crime/charge for the psychological, emotionally abusive or provoking words spoken BUT there are charges when the person spoken to physically reacts. So one looks like an angel and one looks like devil. Which isn't accurate.
EXACTLY your not strong for how long you take abuse you need to get AWAY from it man or women. ESPECIALLY MEN, so men stop taking verbal abuse or disrespect from women just for sex it’s not WORTH IT.
How many times have you seen a 40 year old woman who destroyed her own family by disrespecting her husband, acuse him of violance, filed for divorce then "Where have all the good men gone?". You can't count them..... Millions of times. Sht is sad and scarry.
No. She actually admited being verbally and emotionally abusive before he became violant. The "abusive" sharade is a blant lie. Millions of women all of a sudden became víctims in order to get half his money and estate.
@@darealtruth3095 well, if you're stupid enough to be verbally violent and not expecting a response is dumb. Everyone knows men don't argue like women, we fight. So play stupid if you want to.
@@MelaninMagdalene Facts. Only unmarried & miserable women & men who don’t understand women promote marriage like there isn’t even type of bad situations happening from divorces. Married men who deal with bad harsh consequences from their divorce marriage tell men to not get married and Women who has never had marriage or never had a good marriage at all ever promotes men to get married. We all know who men should listen to when talking about marriage.
@@MelaninMagdalene Facts. People think Marriages are love and rainbows but people who mention marriage don’t most times talk about the hard bad stories of divorce marriages
Amazing how many women despite their education want a dude that’s paid so they can simply kick back for the rest of their lives. The nanny will raise the kids while they shop and take trips. But the man that makes 45-60k that is earning his way through life is thought of as less than. What a warped sense of reality.
The nannies raising the kids bothers me. I didn’t have nannies but I was in daycare with strangers so her mom could pursue being a medical receptionist… she literally had more pride and joy from that than she got from raising her kids.
That's why people can't stand attorneys, especially really GOOD ones! They're the best at employing every argumentative tactic, and I'm sure they may get particularly aggressive about it as well. I can only imagine the kinds of things she would say to make a man wanna hit her. I'm sure she was particularly cruel.
Currently, our society caters to weaponized victimhood. Men and women of all ages/races wield it like pros. Accountability is now a dirty 14-letter word 😓
@@TheMentalHealthSistas nice try. Women dominate in this area and BW particularly, but good attempt at avoiding responsibility by grouping everyone into the category lol
Women love the drama of being a victim. It’s a story that they can tell their girlfriends. This is why although I want to treat women like queens, I treat them with indifference. I give them a messed up story to tell and that make them stay with me and work harder to stay with me as long as I don’t go too far.
@@TheMentalHealthSistas right, except you attempted to scapegoat and “lessen the blow” so to speak of my original statement. Finding the root and origin of an issue is the way to fix it. Your very limited anecdotal experience is not overriding the facts at hand. In a way it proves the very point i was trying to make; lack of accountability. But thanks for the comment though 😉
Your monologue this round was amazing. You’re spot on about women leaving the work force and quality of life increasing. I wish more people talked about this, it’s simple economics. I’ve been saying it for a long time, but it’s so “toxic” of a topic. Thank you KS!
I love not working for anyone else and spending everyday with my husband. We found a way and I’m so thankful to continue to build with him for our son and future family.
@@wc3362 he wouldn’t because the mass wouldn’t be able to hear it and still go back to their daily lives. That’s why people like that get killed or disappear.
Hey Kevin, I recently stumbled upon your channel and I can't stop watching your videos. I am from Europe and white and can still relate to so many topics you speak about online. You helped me realise how simpy I was towards my exgirlfriend. I provided for her for 5 years and fell into a depression because of 'rona unemployment. You gave me the perspective to level up my game and stop chasing after low quality women that don't think longterm. Thank you very much! Keep up the good work! We definitely need more men like you on this world.
@@AdonaiZedek Yes, that's what I also feel like! I must say though I am coming from an immigrant family, we have trauma in our family (my parents fled the iron curtain). Maybe the universal thing is, that in western society we tell everyone they can be who they want to be. But the right thing would be to tell that they just should be who they are. I believed in equal partnership, but when I started leaning on my woman for emotional support she dropped me like a hot potatoe. Equal my ass.
@@robertrosen2703 yeah I can't remember which video was it, it was one of the ones for men self-development, where Kevin says never rely on or go to women for emotional support, they'll drop you, go to your male friends or parents if they're still around, I use my therapist, awesome to hear his msg reaching so far
@@TheOlzee Because the very people you think will support you won't. It's like a weird psychological thing that happens when you try to start a business. Family will show you MAD support if you get a new job, but when you're trying to start a business they treat it like the plague until they see you start doing well. Obviously this isn't the case 100% of the time, but for most people this is how it goes.
This man is speaking sound biblical wisdom and modern women are sleeping on him. I looked in the past and reminisced on the many times my fiancé tried to hire me and put me in position to help progress his vision but I was too busy focus on my own goals and my own bills. Those days are over I’m going stand behind him reopen his gym ASAP.
My dad was shocked when I told him that I have no interest in pursuing a PhD or masters etc.I am putting all my time,energy,attention,love,care into my man,relationship and prioritising marriage. I know I cannot do it all.I don't want to do it all. I want a man in my life.I need a man in my life. Am not saying that women shouldn't pursue these but for me, my priority is him & marriage.
@@bull.dog. Bad. His goal for me is for me to have these much like him.His a CEO of a company. However,I had to explain that for him;he had my mum who supported him and she took care of us,household etc. If I want to be a wife,mum,home maker etc and have the space to support my husband,then this is not the direction for me.
@@kha_leesi2596 you are a smart woman!!! Women with "PhD" are too opinionated, argumentative and want things to be their way. Because women see details in front of them, but not a big picture, that's why women need men, as women aren't looking ahead, you look at the details and lose the big picture
@Dian Be no she is gonna end up a broke, divorced, single mother with no degree or skills because marriages DONT LAST, her dad knows its unfortunate but sometimes we have to learn the hard way
I think Kevin NEEDS to address the new reality of most women wanting weddings instead of husbands. Truly, I believe that many women figure out that a wedding over being a wife is not cracked up to what they thought it would be early on in their marriage and correct the problem…
Maybe we need to skip weddings and elope. So if the woman really cares about her man, she won’t mind running off to the hills with him to have an intimate and private wedding.
@@kacpermoney2820 Been married 22 years.... went to the courthouse...been a witness to huge weddings...only one couple stayed married...the rest are splitsville.
Bridezillas is a perfect example of this... I always say, you can plan your wedding but not your marriage. In a marriage your lust, greed and ego will be tested. For both partners.
I really appreciate how Kevin always acknowledges the male experience of abuse in a relationship. We need to hold women accountable for their verbal, emotional, and physical abuse toward men. Men deserve happy and respectful relationships.
@The Esquire of Sports® I agree, I have watched all of his shows and there is a constant theme of women saying "I left a toxic relationship" However never being accountable for their actions. Anyone who is physically abusive in a relationship should be held accountable, unfortunately it is rare to see women held accountable for it.
I once heard that there was an anonymous survey of women in shelters for abused women, wherein two thirds of them admitted that they initiated the violence. Now thats only taking into account the physical part, not even the psychological part which preceded that. I cant vouch for this as i have been unable to confirm this stat, but if anyone wants to check if this is true, please do.
I walked away from my career during covid in the healthcare industry to manage my husband’s cleaning company. It was 💯 worth it! It has set the foundation for our marriage and the bond is concrete. Everything he has said is on point because I was calling my husband crying stressed out and ready to walk out the office door. I will be opening my own business here shortly.
This is the BEST relationship advice I have ever heard. Young men PLEASE listen to this man. Take notes if you are not a good listener. Play this twice a day for 7 days if you have to, this is good word fellas!
This is most the 20 year olds in this generation YALL wish to date so good luck ! I am 31 and had a younger friend she was 24 called me bro and other people bro all the time I constantly had to tell her my name is Lauren . Also I tried to hook her up with a nice 21 year old man . Very spiritual and just a good man over all (we all were coworkers ) she said no cause she think she is too thug for him wtf ???! I said you are a lady we don’t refer to ourselves as thugs. Nothing about her screamed a thug so I was confused .that’s when I looked at the type of guys she dates . Drug dealers . Her dad is still in the streets (but very active in her life ) and he is a drug dealer. 50 year old man smh .
Kevin is not lying about this topic. Work be having me stressed.. especially my first job.. I used this time off from covid to learn more, eat right and get a trainer lost 25 so far. Omw to attracting a good quality man.
Mental health is important. Maybe check in with a professional. That isn't meant to be disrespectful. It's helpful to learn new coping mechanisms, and possibly discover trauma you may need to deal with before getting your king.
I was in a 3.5 year relationship with the perfect example of a modern woman! She held no accountability for anything! She was not cooperative! And she would go to OTHER people to talk about OUR problems during arguments! When I had a question she would respond with a question!
1:12:45 Never call a man in a suit a "bro". Nope, no, and just no way. Utterly disrespectful. That's like you saying that he's only dressed that way because he's going to court as the defendant.
True but stop thinking cause a men in a suit above u, he’s human obv goes to who the person is & the content/context but yes it’s rude but stop pedestaling some1 cause they in a suit but yes the RESPECT is warranted & needed
As KS says, she weaponized victim hood and used it to her advantage. It’s evident that she has not done any personal work to heal from the past and become a better human being. A lot of modern women will use their past and refusing to fix the issues present as their own personal emotional crutch
“Well, nobody’s perfect Kevin.” *Correct* That’s why it’s so important for people to get therapy to address old wounds, process traumas that affect current decision-making, unlearn negative thinking/behavioral patterns, and make different choices today to bring about better outcomes tomorrow. Everybody can make mistakes. But after the 4th, 5th or 6th mistake you’ve gotta start asking yourself, “Is it me?” If yes, then “What *must* I start doing differently TODAY?” Disrupt the pattern.
Wow this even hit home for me as a man, I'll admit I have my demons and mental health is very important to help bring me to a place I never thought I deserve to be at. Because I been falsely accused and salty over it because it happened so many times. And now that I say nothing to them the women are upset because I just don't want to deal with it anymore. But I learned how to let go of the past because the past cannot be changed but your present, your future that can be worked and the future can always be changed into something greater into something better than society had already had attended for you. So to the advocates of mental health thank you, when it comes to all of the jobs around and about you are the best there is.
I APPLAUD the way Mr. Samuels addressed the subject of abuse in the attorney's marriage as not just the husband's vault physically, but hers as well VERBALLY and EMOTIONALLY, as women in those kind of relationships use that to control the narrative, "weaponize their victimhood" and demonize the male when speaking about the relationship to others, habitually omitting the harshness and verbal abuse they contributed to a tumultuous situation. in a storm, there is thunder......... AND lightning!
And she took the child and the money. Wrecking the husband, the child and herself on the long run. Women need protection from their own selfish choices.
@@darealtruth3095 You cannot have thunder without lightning. Both will kill depending on location. If you are close to lightning path, the rapid air expansion (Thunder shockwave) can kill or permanently damage you. AND @Muls mentioned them as a consequence of a storm(Tumultuous situation) caused by both parties but you convoluted as synonyms for Verbal and physical abuse.
I'm a women, I know women who are abusive, and will just push and push a person while they are walking away to calm themselves. I've experienced it first hand and it has caused me to lash out violently. I didn't want to but there's only so much a person can take, like why keep bothering them?
"nObODy'S pErFECT kEVin" at 1:38:30. Basically means I need a HVM who's willing to take care of me and my 5 kids from 5 different baby daddies while I sit at home and spend his money while nagging about the dirty dishes in the sink. You can never please ratchet BW. Stay safe brothers.
@@oldjuicebox8198 She says it at around 1:38:30 but Kevin was talking to her since 1:15:00, where she revealed she verbally abused her ex-husband. Worth watching the whole interaction.
The godfather is cooking... "Weponized victimhood " ladies listen carefully this abuse is a 2 way street .. ive always felt this way and always been crucified by ladies for expressing the same exact sentiments ... this is why most of us brothers ride with KS . ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
I’m fine fit and friendly and I can’t sit at home and do nothing!!! I’m a asset to my man I represent him and his company! I work hard for him, and my family and I do it effortlessly ✌🏼
I've been waiting for him to say this. One of the biggest Ls modern society took was sending women to go and compete for jobs against men. Double the workforce, half the pay. Corporations won. We lost.
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Exactly. That’s that Democratic Party/liberal feminism hogwash
@ Cringe. You know most of us (the silent majority) don't care about your left wing, right wing nonsense. That stuff is for weirdos. The rest of us just want solutions. Stop being weird and help
@@2020_Visi0n he’s right though - 3rd wave feminism has warped relationships. Conservative values are what men really want but everyone has been conditioned to think that being conservative is a bad thing.
A woman at my job would always say to me, “I wish I could be a stay at home mom.” She was saying this because my wife never really had to work after having our first child. Little did that woman know that my wife took/takes every last bit of it for granted. I always wanted my life to be this way, I just wish I had some guidance early on that would have helped me pick a woman that would be more appreciative of the position she was put in.
I’ve been saving to stay home since I got my first paycheck, my mom sounds like your wife, not appreciative of the ability to stay home and raise her own children. Guess tradition isn’t for anyone, but I am pretty sure it’s for me which is why I’m trying to come into a relationship with capital and plenty of skills.
@@jayrobbins2087 LOL. That’s why she knows she’s good for a while. She knows that my #1 thing has always been to not be my father, so anything that even has the slightest hint of actions that man might take, I’m avoiding. I’ve made peace with that. We don’t yell and scream at each other, but I’m definitely not appreciated. But I’m keeping in shape, eating right, all I need is a kite every now and then and some money on my books. Little man is growing fast, I’ll be out soon. LOL.
I actually came to this realization and acceptance in January of this year - why tf am I using alll of my time and talent for companies instead of building our family and finances!?? Ever since, I've been home with my babies more and I have NEVER been happier - and my Husband sees and feels the difference
I’m glad I took the time to hear what you have to say. You are not the callous, self hating person you are portrayed to be. This is good information for any person but most especially black women. You’re intelligent and very helpful to those who are receptive. Congrats on the growth of you channel!
“I never set out to do it this way.” This is the realization of many people today. If you want success in any given area, relationships especially, you have to seek help & put in some work. You’re not Isaac Newton. Don’t expect an apple to fall on your head and you discover gravity. If you want to get to California, plan, map a trail, and get moving. And if you’re religious, say a prayer as you move!
Just US get a regular guy. HVM are out your league and they cheat. If you are avarage looking get and avarage man instead of nagging strangers on line. No hate intended.
I am a successfull busines man and artists. I have my children and choice of women. Who the hell are you? No body. I am here to spred the message for NEWer generations of women not to become stupid depressed feminist like you.
I hope the attorney caller reads this message. Kevin always helps toxic femininity show it’s face the SOONEST. Your answer wasn’t wrong, your mindset was. ~RELEASE RESET REPROGRAM By taking offense upfront instead of being humble, the conversation steered the way you didn’t want it to go but it went where it needed to go. Nice watching you grow on the spot…very refreshing. I am 38 and saw the change PAINFULLY happening 😂 keep it up sis.
@Anika Griffith most definitely! I find Kevin’s space comfortable like family. People talk ish because you know how “we are”. Hurt people, hurt people. So good for you to be brave and bold!!! Kevin’s made me cry about three or four times because of the unveiling of information that is sometimes sobering but mostly shocking for me. Glad you DID get to read my comment and thanks for replying back.😇❤️🔥
@@johnames6430 I am so new to all of this and who are you telling?! I’m new to learning about all of this gender war stuff and as I started learning about this I started studying women because I am a woman and I had no idea that a lot of women were acting the way that they are. I also didn’t know it was a bad thing to say the words toxic and femininity next to each other LOL. Not that I mind because I will say whatever is bluntly needed to anyone’s face if it’s going to provoke the truth being risen in their spirit. Hopefully other women will feel this power to stand up to other women who are exercising toxic femininity so that we don’t all look bad across the globe. It’s about awareness, accountability and action while utilizing education in applying logic and removing feelings.
@@Wynter_Heat The "masculinization" of women is not giving them better results (or society in general better results) but all you see now is propaganda in the media with EVERY single movie..."strong female character" is all they do now. Which is great if it actually helped anyone...but it's not. Be very careful of Hollywood and "feminism". Being "woke" is a cancer on society, anyone can lose their entire livelihood at any moment for something they said 10-20yrs ago. This is insanity. It's time to reject this. You notice Kevin is not for this "woke" victimhood mentality...because it gets you nowhere. If you see yourself as a victim you already lost the game. You are not a spectator in life, you are an active participant. If you see yourself as a victim for your race, gender, or whatever...then there is no way forward.
I have not met many men who will come through the door looking to physically abuse their woman. Many men have been emotionally / mentally abused by their woman, and they just snap. I remember very few of my physical injuries, but I clearly remember all the times I was hurt internally. Don't turn men into your punching bag, then get shocked when he can't take anymore. Even a docile, sweet dog will bite if pushed to the edge.
@RUclips IsNazi They very rarely do. I have known people in mutually abusive / toxic relationships, but a lot of the time the woman follows the man when he tries to get some space during an argument and keeps running her mouth. You need to know when to stop--more importantly, leave a relationship. Not saying there aren't bad men out there, but let's not act like it's always the man at fault.
Love your new set. Thank you for sharing your knowledge to help . All ladies if you truly listen to this very insightful gentleman. He is for real very 100 percent on point. God bless all. I am 57, married for 40 years and learning so much from you Kevin. Keep Sharing and Caring ❤ . Oh and I do cherish the shit out of my man💋
I can say that my finance background has assisted my husband and I tremendously. Kevin is so right. The best networking occurs over dinners and professional social gatherings.
In my country, a lot of women, whether married or not, when they are being promiscuous you catch them next Sunday praying the whole day at church. It's really stupid how women actually believe that some miracle made by some "greater being" will erase their past. What's even more ironic is how when they become grandma's they blame God for anything bad they did.
@@alexander8548 The Lord will forgive them only if they believe in Paul’s gospel. Otherwise their words fall on deaf ears. You are right about their penance… being forgiven by the Lord doesn’t mean that it absolves them from their mistakes. They still have to pay the penalty. And the penalty is missing out on being a wife and a mother. The Lord sent them man after man and they thought he was lame or a square. Black women are gone, man.
Hebrews 10:26 : "For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins". This means that Jesus' sacrifice can't even help you if you're willfully sinning without working toward change.
I remember when the “me too” movement had the slogan “believe all women”. I was like “nope, I will not believe all women” because I have seen too many women lying on good men. I’ve seen 2 women lie on men saying they were raped. Both women ended up getting caught lying.
My girl works for me part time. While my marketing campaigns run she answers the phone and sets appointments for my contractual meetings and I go close the deals. Each contract I land makes us more money and improves our quality of life. I learned business and how to incorporate my woman into it from my mentors who are high value men and this was before KS came around. Thank you for helping the black community Kevin. May you rest in peace my brother!
Kevin, god your advice is sage. I grew up in S. Cal as a surfer in the 60-70’s my long hair limited me from getting good career path jobs. So I learned to sell up, now as a ferried CEO I’m comfortable. I’m in my 70’s dating 40 year old beautiful women. Love your show. Robin
The attorney doesn’t have good active listening skills. And it’s not that she can’t get along / cooperate with a man on a lower socioeconomic level- it’s that she’s not capable of cooperating with any man. Too combative.
Bruh I was married to one. That shit was straight hell man. Argued every damn day. Even now after divorce she still trying to throw the law at me and I’m doing what I’m suppose to do. It’s hell.
My wife works as a teacher at my son's private school (K-12) so she takes him to school and brings him home. When he is off, she is off so it's great for all of us. A (little) extra money and my son is taken care of all day.
Also about the abuse... ladies, what kevin is saying isn't that he condones men hitting women at all, he's just not blind to the fact that a lot of the women who claim abuse conveniently omit the fact that they too were verbally or emotionally abusive and they were deliberately provoking the man bc she knew the laws are in her favor. It's the one way aggression he often talks about. Female on male abuse isn't taken nearly as seriously as male on female abuse.
Bruh even at times these women will be physically abusive and don't make mention of it. I experienced this first hand. They do things that any ordinary person on the street would get knocked out for but you are expected to keep composure . Even when you do keep composure you are labeled as emotionally abusive it's a term that triggers everyone puts a shield around women and a sword to the man's throat
@@killaswing1000 had a friend when we was 15 his girlfriend would hit him daily even hit him in school in front of the class before everyone just laughed at that point i didnt even fell bad for him because he allowed it i honestly think part of him likes it
@Eastern fence LizardI'm absolutely positive I tagged the original commenter of this post, I wasn't typing you so let the lady answer. She can defend her statement I'm sure. Don't type to me unless I'm speaking to you. Good day!!
@Love heals, Grudge kills...FACTS!! Had a woman tell me that any man who argues with a woman is a "B!" Said men are supposed to take it because women are emotional. Moral of the story, a verbally abusive woman puts a man in a very difficult predicament because...1. If he does nothing, he's left feeling like a "B", 2. If he argues with her, she perceives and treats him like a "B", and 3. If he responds the way he would to anyone else stepping that strong to him, he'll likely end up behind bars! The best solution is to get as far away as possible from a verbally abusive woman because it will not end well!!
I was just having conversation with someone about the "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" That was professed to us as kids. It is VERY inaccurate. The things that have ruined my self image and esteem have been WORDS; words of rejection and non support. And i had been in physically abusive relationships. The fights did not hurt nearly as much as the verbal abuse and manipulation. He would tell me I was going to hell everyday because I was not raised Christian. Told me my soul wasn't right, yet here I was financially taking care of him, providing transportation, support, etc.... And when I went to travel to perform in hip-hop dance at an arena for 30k people I was the happiest I had been. This guy laughed at me and told me "you cant dance." Dream killer and joy thief. I left him shortly after that. WORDS HURT. Women stop verbally abusing men and thinking its OK. Those words broke me for a long time, the scratch from the physical fights are still on my body but those words run through my mind when I feel inadequate.
My first wife cheated on me while I was working and paying for school for both of us. I didn't finish because of the stress from the divorce. My current wife pushed/inspired me to finish my graduate degree. Now we prosper TOGETHER. Find the right woman.
It's AMAZING to me that EVERY! SINGLE! SHOW! Without fail, he has to CONSTANTLY tell women to TURN OFF RUclips! Its frustrating to watch and it makes you women look incompetent. Blows my mind.
Awesome insight. Highly needed. Wisdom is amazing. Can totally relate, some times just still need confirmation. Food for my everloving thoughts to teach my daughters as for me, time is up. It's their turn as time moves forward. Thank you! ❤🙌🏾😍
@@leonelorozco2514 Thank you. It truly does but it's so rewarding when we get over the hump. Sending blessings your way, these young, gifted humans deserve our wisdom. Let's ensure they get the best of us. You can do this King!!! 💪🏾 ❤🔥
Damn his bullshit detector!!! Outstanding. This woman is a train wreck waiting to happen. I can only imagine her telling this to someone on a first date. ...She would be the same type you see on LinkedIn acting superior because if her title, but outside her immediate profession, her opinions and attitude are childish.
My first hand experience of a woman being the antagonist: I have a sister who would complain about her kids father being abusive. He was indeed an A-hole, but I never witnessed any abuse. He would always say my sister was disrespectful, but I was never seeing when they had drama so I didn't take any sides... I lost my job a few years ago and ended up having to stay with my sister for a while. She was generally in good spirits, but whenever she got upset, she would indeed become disrespectful. I've witnessed her argue with every male in our immediate family. Me, our brother, her son.. one day she was on the phone with her kids father and she just started flipping out on him because he wasn't agreeing to something that she felt he should. She was VERY disrespectful and at that point I realized it wasn't all the baby daddy's fault. We almost fought one day because I happened to be there when he was being disrespectful, but after hearing the way she talked to him on the phone, I'm glad I didn't get involved, because she was part of the problem. Well over da
**Women more likely to initiate violence** (article from the Irish Times) "Dr Farrell, who has examined 54 international studies of the subject, said 53 of these found one of two things: "Women and men batter each other about equally or women batter men more," he said. "Almost all studies found women were MORE likely to initiate violence and MUCH MORE likely to inflict SEVERE violence." **The Surprising Truth About Women and Violence** (from Time magazine) "Family and intimate relationships-the one area feminists often identify as a key battleground in the (non-existent so-called) "war on women"-are also an area in which women are MOST likely to be violent, and not just in response to male aggression but toward CHILDREN, ELDERS, female relatives or partners, and non-violent men, according to a study published in the Journal of Family Violence." Rampant toxic femininity is an issue that desperately needs to be addressed, and ultimately brought under control.
@@swaguccideep9270 yeah, and trust me, he was definitely the type of guy to possibly be that way, but my thing was unless I witnessed it first hand I wasn't going to get involved because then I would look stupid once the police showed up. I'm glad I took that stance, even though my sister doesn't respect me for it
As weird as this sounds, watching your videos makes me feel good about myself. The fear of missing out was strong in me for many years until I met my Fiancé; because I never went through the route of having sex with a bunch of guys, but instead starting relationships with guys when I was 17+ (guys around my age) and just learn/grow. My dream is to be a successful woman/wife/mother. Each relationship lasted years (grew apart and wanted different things). I learned that men think so differently, talk differently, have different meanings for so much. It's crazy lol. Guys just seem to have their own language, but it's probably the same for them when they look at us. When I started to live with my fiancé, it was tough because we had to learn each other and how men/women are naturally. I'm more affectionate, soft, empathetic, etc. He's protective, a problem solver, firm, etc. We're meant to naturally compliment each other, but we had to accept that because society tells us that we don't need anyone. At first he saw my femininity as weakness. I saw him as too aggressive. But we stayed, worked hard, and learned from each other. We learned to appreciate the differences, along with our own personality quirks. Even worse, at the time, I worked a stressful job that demanded my mind, body, soul and it still wasn't enough; it was ridiculous, because how can I become a mother and wife under these conditions, that company was becoming my life and stressing me out. I even remember my man saying, "I'm angry, because I can't do anything to help you! I can't punch your boss, because you'll get fire!" Eventually, my man and I drifted apart. I quit that job. Got a new job that allows me to have stable hours and work from home. Our relationship got crazy close and so much better, immediately. It's only been a year and some change since I got this new job, now we're working on starting a business together; we have an actual partnership. If I didn't actually lived with a man and experienced/learned how he thinks (vice versa for him), I would have neither like nor understood your videos.
@Connor Hoskins No Worries is a fairly gender neutral identifier with no Avi ... Could be a simping white knight, maybe, or is this just more SIGN language?
@Connor Hoskins It wasn 't a joke. Bill Burr was dead serious and he was right. Kevin was spot on throughout the entire conversation with that caller. Women take no responsability for their violence towards their men, be that verbal, emotional or physical and they'll happily see their man thrown into jail due to their one sided claims. Thankfully, they're getting called out on their bs by people like Kevin. Almost every woman I've ever known has brought up her the 'abuse' they received in their previous relationship. When I ask them if they were abusive too, they do everything in their power to deflect and use the victim card.
@@e69alpha No worries. Mexico is incredibly poor and under developed. I don't it can be compared with Ireland and US. The social problems of gender which KS talks about are only in rich countries.
I am the same age as Kevin and if anybody that’s young enough to be my child, refers to me as bro, the conversation, the interaction or the transaction just ended there.
That was 100% out of order & I'm pleased he didn't let it slide. Outrageous, especially from a Nigerian descendant. Historically Nigerian culture is opposite of what we witnessed here.
Ks detect the BS and get in their feelings in a twinkle of an eye ,his tactics and strategy just like mike Tyson in the ring his combination questions are magnificent ,that's why he ask YES or No questions 🔚 you can't dodge that and most women can't answer questions directly then he opened them out like a book putting them in their place and is all over. # GODFATHER#
What you have said to us men. Thank you Kevin. I never had my father in my life and I feel if I had I’d be a better man. Much more capable. I’d have the things I want. But most importantly I’d avoid so many of the bad women I’ve met. I’d have years of my life back. Years I cannot ever get back. Thank you brother for everything your risking. Thank you on behalf of all the men who in desperate need of your wisdom. I’ve dodged so many toxic women in the 8 months that’s I’ve watched you. Please keep healing us. We don’t have many men doing this and it has been to men’s detriment that you are not here. Thank you!!!!
@@JamalW239 I’ve met plenty of successful men to take on those roles of a stepfather and have done so beautifully so that’s your personal opinion. But don’t speak for the men who do it right and know how to, and have done so greatly.
@@CassLee2208 I said ‘values himself’. Being with someone who has children when you don’t has large down sides. If you have options you can find someone similar without the children and emotional baggage. There’s no way you can get around that or dress it up, regardless of what you tell yourself as to not hurt your feelings and ego
@@CassLee2208 why should it be a role a man has to “Handle”. Theses that glorification of single mothers trying to make them seem like something special that a “man has to be capable of dealing with”. Baby mommas are a bad deal period and the days of glorifying them and forgiveness of their mistakes are over.
KS is risking himself for a better improved black community so our children and so on won’t have to suffer. I am literally seeing the change all around me. I appreciate you brother.
@@justus7181 Why are you here then? Obviously you either don’t have a man or you feel some type away because you are not happy..Obviously not happy at all
@@justus7181 you sound bitter. Millions of people clearly disagree with your POV but go off... He doesn’t have to help anyone but chooses to do so to better our community. You’ve probably never even see a full video from him the way you’re talking. If all you get from K.S is that he is hateful then you need to take a long look in the mirror and recognize who the real problem is. The level of hate you have for that man will cause you to die alone with nothing. Be open to the information he provides FOR FREE. You’re saying you’ve never heard Kevin say anything positive/beneficial to the community or modern women?
I needed to hear this today! This video changed my perspective about everything!! God bless you Kevin for real! Keep putting the work your waking up people! 🙏🏽💯🔥♥️
A kevin I think you done sparked the brain of men I see alot of outlets sparking the same conversation that the internet world bashing you for keep up the good work fam✊
I respect your channel and this segment that any form of abuse should not be tolerated, BUT of course, one form of abuse leads to death or serious injuries. Verbal abuse does not justify a man or woman physically harm someone
@@noreallyitsok8574 He chose to end his own life ultimately. They weren't even married and he could have got out of the relationship. When you put your hands on someone else, you are potentially endangering their life...
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My husband and I are making plans now for me to work for him. He’s going to teach me the business so I can help him and I’m an accountant, so I’m also going to keep his books. I’m tired of corporate!
This is exactly what my wife did for our business. It worked out well and we made great advances with her working for the home team.
That's a blessing. Corporate is full of WW telling HR that BW are "aggressive" and are not "team players" yet they the first ones to ride the coattails of successful BM on projects. Hopefully I get out of corporate and start my own business too.
Beautiful.
Woooow that's nice to see. Keep it up ma'am
Yes indeed good to hear
Until I started watching Kevin I had no idea things were so bad between men and women. Never knew how bad the younger woman were. My daughter is 33 and has been married for 5 years. I tell her regularly don't listen to these single women. Focus on your husband and marriage.
Unfortunately, the sisters in the mid-60s linked up with white feminism. What we have once a 85% marriage down to 27 or 30% marriage. Many of our sisters are growing up in the house without a father Uncle no men insight. And it sounds like many of our sisters are getting advice from single women with no man
Yes ma’am. It’s pretty bad out here. I would say it’s an evil society we are in. I personally wouldn’t want kids growing up in this evilness!
That’s why the birth rate is at a all time low including marriage, men are waking up.
I believe our society will get worse, it’s just a matter of time. Hopefully I’ll be out of the U.S. before 💩 hits the fan. Everyone else that’s staying, better be prepared for what’s coming.
@@MrMannface So true. My daughter is a scientist and used to work with some bitter, single women that were always bashing men. My son in-law told me about it. I had a talk with her and told her to knock it off. She no longer works with them and disassociated with them. Us older women have to school the younger ones.
@@mmills1782 get em !!!!!, 👍
@@MrMannface one movement that is constantly left out that occurred during the same time which also increased to those numbers were the free love era. The combination of the 2 was destructive to the black family unit.
So happy you tapped into this topic!!! I’m a pharmacist that is married w/kids and I work for my husband by running the social media for his business and you better believe he’s working double time to retire me from corporate life! After we had kids, working just felt like a burden bc I had to spend so much time away from them. Call me old fashion, but I would much rather be with my husband and kids!
Respect
So your degrees were an expensive vanity project
I completely understand
And it’s crazy that many modern women see a thriving interaction such as the one you have between a husband and wife as weak on the woman’s part. These modern women don’t understand the strength, the skill, the knowledge a woman must bring to support her husband’s business the way you do. Much respect and I hope more ladies will follow your example
@@kemetazubuike8958 I wouldn’t say they were because that is a valuable skill that can command a high wage. Advanced degrees in psych, communications and humanities are expensive vanity projects. She was able to get into cooperation with her husband to the point where she doesn’t have to tap into that portion of her life and can utilize her talents to support her husband and the family. I applaud her for it
A false accusation can REALLY hurt a man. Some women have zero understanding of this, and others know exactly what they are doing when they play this card. I once invested years in a stepfather role to my GF's daughter. She became depressed at some point, and got insanely jealous of time I spent with the daughter, even though she didn't want to leave the couch herself most of the time. She made a vague accusation about me being too interested in young girls, which she later tried to dismiss as "just a feeling" as if it was nothing. This is one of the very real dangers of dating women with children.
That is so sad 😞 Situations like these can make men apprehensive about taking on that responsibility.
That's that BS that stains a man's reputation, could get him locked up & wind is from dealing with single daughter mother's. That's a risk.
Since the days of those crazy New England witch-hunts, women are protected to do and say whatever they feel - especially against heterosexual BM.
@@justus7181 that's not the norm. And we're not talking about the very small percentage of bad dudes / peds who commit this crime repetitively; we're talking about the narrative laid out. Moving the needle changes the point.
@@khingblack14 It turns out the data says female are peds at the same rate as men but some researchers believe female peds might be greater than male ones because the courts play down female peds and since society shames men for not "liking it" most male victims never speak up.
I own a business and was dating to a woman earlier this year. We came up with a plan for her to quit her job after we get married and she work in my business. She is 32 and wants to stop having children by 35 because of a health concern.
I was seriously planning to propose to her later this year.
She messed it up because she wanted attention(flirt) from men online and thought it was okay to do so. I had to bounce her.smdh
Glad you found out before you married her and brought her in your business.
Save yourself black men
Never work with your spouse.
after 30 and you still wanted to marry her? And she played games? She stupid
The right one will come to you bro. Stay blessed
He is preaching faaaaacts!!!
I’m staying home raising and educating the kids and when I’m done I will go to work for my husband. I’m so much happier and the hate is real! 🤭
@Eastern fence Lizard your wife is a blessed woman. It’s an honor to be able to raise my own children. It is taxing but well worth it.
@@TheLuxeAngel agree ♥️🙏🏽💯 blessed
It's strange logic to think about, honestly. People that are against you, it's like... you want to have kids but you don't want to actually raise them?
“You do not want another man’s influence inside your woman” LITERALLY and figuratively 🌚😂
Facts lol
@@justus7181 another angry feminist
@@justus7181 OH LOOK!! A SJW divester misquoting Kevin again. Let's finish that quote you're talking about "Is it worse for a man to put his hands on a woman, or a woman to put her tongue on a man, because I don't know any man who puts his hands on a woman for no french toast reason." What Mr. Samuels is saying is if you poke a bear, a bear will retaliate but if you don't poke a bear it will not attack you. All he's saying is treat others the way you want to be treated. SMH another 304 making up lies on Mr. Samuels.
@@justus7181 you seem to be a little obtuse, so ill try to explain.
Men know that you watch your mouth, or you stop talking and play Catch These Hands.
Women aren't used to getting punched in the mouth for violating, and don't respect men enough to act appropriately. Your privilege has led to arrogance and assumptions of righteousness.
Again, the vast majority of men do not lash out without reason, and the 1% that do does not represent then 99% that don't.
@@gabrielmeth4844 Seriously IT'S NOT THAT HARD!!! Divesters really putting those 2 braincells to work. LMAO!!!!
Us ladies need to focus on respecting our men. Please listen to them, don’t interrupt them, work with them and not against them and watch things fall into place.
Stay classy y’all ♥️
True
Facts
Blessings to you Sheila
couldnt agree more! It makes life and the relationship so much more fulfilling
@@leonelorozco2514 and to you as well :)
I used to share a condo wall with a married couple, a big tough cop and his petite wife. Several nights a week I would hear his wife screaming at him and sometime he would break down in tears. I knew all their secrets. Sad situation.
Doesn't seem so tough to me
@@jondoe384 Please tell me, what _would_ be the tough thing to do then?
@@Likexner leave her
@@splash4890 That would be the _right_ thing to do. I wanted to know what would be the _tough_ thing to do. John Doe was the one who brought toughness into this.
We all know what would be the tough thing to do. Not react at all and if she kept going, a little slap to put her in her place. But thats worse than murder nowadays, so we just let women like that do whatever they want.
Nobody gives a crap when women abuse men.
@@Likexner never strike a woman unless in self defense. Simply divorce her and return her to her parents. Budoshoshinshu 🔥
"Just leave" when a situation becomes abusive is literally THE BEST life advice. 100% true.
Yes.... for women AND men 👍🏾
Is that life advice or is it common sense?
I never understood that. Why people complain about being in abusive relationships when they're not married or live together.
@@asiatic_black sometimes it’s hard to leave. Many women stalked and abused by “romantic” partners. Police can’t do anything . And a piece of paper won’t keep the men away.
@@cloverleaf9532 that’s cap there are waaaaaay to many women’s shelters social wokers and programs, and in many states if the police are called on a domestic they legally have to take someone in. Evidence or not. What happens is when these people and programs get involved and the women just goes back, at that point, their hands are tied.
"Do not invoke another man's name in your home!".......KS dropped a gem right there, ladies! Pay attention!
Not even Jeebus?
@Charles Emerson Winchester, III
Lol... he was of Christian faith, no doubt, but he always said that men submitted to God and the woman submitted to her man....
"Pressure is made for shoulders, not hips". Best quote of this channel.
I agree. Heard it here first.
Loved that as well
What time of the video did he say it, I missed it
Thats true but I can squat more than I could shoulder press. I skep legs days sometimes too.
@@HeyItsMike985 I apologize I thought this was my comment section
Abuse should *never* be tolerated. A lot of times we focus on physical abuse but don’t pay enough attention to psychological, emotional and verbal abuse. The scars of physical wounds may eventually disappear, but the scars of psychological wounds can last a lifetime. Nobody-male or female-should accept abuse. Strength is absolutely *not* determined by how much abuse you can take.
Amen
virtue signalling
There's no crime/charge for the psychological, emotionally abusive or provoking words spoken BUT there are charges when the person spoken to physically reacts. So one looks like an angel and one looks like devil. Which isn't accurate.
EXACTLY your not strong for how long you take abuse you need to get AWAY from it man or women. ESPECIALLY MEN, so men stop taking verbal abuse or disrespect from women just for sex it’s not WORTH IT.
@The Esquire of Sports® Oh yes, it can go in the opposite direction. Men aren't the only ones who abuse unfortunately.
How many times have you seen a 40 year old woman who destroyed her own family by disrespecting her husband, acuse him of violance, filed for divorce then "Where have all the good men gone?". You can't count them..... Millions of times. Sht is sad and scarry.
No. She actually admited being verbally and emotionally abusive before he became violant. The "abusive" sharade is a blant lie. Millions of women all of a sudden became víctims in order to get half his money and estate.
@@darealtruth3095 Dude you are a real piece of shi* or a woman behind the profile. You make excuses for the women who are emotionally abusive to men.
@@darealtruth3095 well, if you're stupid enough to be verbally violent and not expecting a response is dumb. Everyone knows men don't argue like women, we fight. So play stupid if you want to.
@@Mikedread876 he isn't playing stupid. He is stupid.
Correct
If Kevin ever decides to sell merch of any kind, he's going to need a "Unmute Yourself" shirts.
And of course the "shut the french toast up!" shirts
@@romeoo5272 😂 😂
@@romeoo5272 i need that buy a dog shirt
Don't they already have "I'm stupid" shirts?
And one that say "don't over talk me"
kevin is the Goat of debate! boy single handed made a lawyer bow down!!!!! i love you kevin!!! keep it up!
Right. He makes sure the women admit their faults too
lawyers don't practice "law" but procedure.
My poor brother messed up bad. He married a lawyer and had one child with her and it's been a living hell for him since.
Maybe. Maybe not.
@Eastern fence Lizard
Good observation. I’ve never heard married man suggest I get married IRL.
My nephew married a lawyer had one child, she left him for another lawyer, had another child and he left her... Can't make this shit up
@@MelaninMagdalene Facts. Only unmarried & miserable women & men who don’t understand women promote marriage like there isn’t even type of bad situations happening from divorces. Married men who deal with bad harsh consequences from their divorce marriage tell men to not get married and Women who has never had marriage or never had a good marriage at all ever promotes men to get married. We all know who men should listen to when talking about marriage.
@@MelaninMagdalene Facts. People think Marriages are love and rainbows but people who mention marriage don’t most times talk about the hard bad stories of divorce marriages
Amazing how many women despite their education want a dude that’s paid so they can simply kick back for the rest of their lives. The nanny will raise the kids while they shop and take trips. But the man that makes 45-60k that is earning his way through life is thought of as less than. What a warped sense of reality.
The nannies raising the kids bothers me. I didn’t have nannies but I was in daycare with strangers so her mom could pursue being a medical receptionist… she literally had more pride and joy from that than she got from raising her kids.
Winter is coming
Listening to that attorney lady was so draining!
That's why people can't stand attorneys, especially really GOOD ones! They're the best at employing every argumentative tactic, and I'm sure they may get particularly aggressive about it as well. I can only imagine the kinds of things she would say to make a man wanna hit her. I'm sure she was particularly cruel.
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@@TheUltimateRage I’ve dated an attorney before. Every convo felt like I was being cross examined
It was for sure. She is passive-aggressive. She is 😠.
“Weaponized victimhood” a black woman’s favorite choice in avoiding responsibility. Glad Kevin got to speak on this
Currently, our society caters to weaponized victimhood. Men and women of all ages/races wield it like pros. Accountability is now a dirty 14-letter word 😓
@@TheMentalHealthSistas nice try. Women dominate in this area and BW particularly, but good attempt at avoiding responsibility by grouping everyone into the category lol
We were actually expanding on your statement as we’ve seen this in individuals across the lifespan. But thank you for your comment 📣
Women love the drama of being a victim. It’s a story that they can tell their girlfriends. This is why although I want to treat women like queens, I treat them with indifference. I give them a messed up story to tell and that make them stay with me and work harder to stay with me as long as I don’t go too far.
@@TheMentalHealthSistas right, except you attempted to scapegoat and “lessen the blow” so to speak of my original statement. Finding the root and origin of an issue is the way to fix it. Your very limited anecdotal experience is not overriding the facts at hand. In a way it proves the very point i was trying to make; lack of accountability. But thanks for the comment though 😉
Your monologue this round was amazing. You’re spot on about women leaving the work force and quality of life increasing. I wish more people talked about this, it’s simple economics. I’ve been saying it for a long time, but it’s so “toxic” of a topic. Thank you KS!
@RUclips IsNazi wow
His monologues are by far my favorite part of his videos. If he was a paid public speaker, he would be wealthy just off that alone.
I love not working for anyone else and spending everyday with my husband. We found a way and I’m so thankful to continue to build with him for our son and future family.
@@wc3362 he wouldn’t because the mass wouldn’t be able to hear it and still go back to their daily lives. That’s why people like that get killed or disappear.
Hey Kevin, I recently stumbled upon your channel and I can't stop watching your videos. I am from Europe and white and can still relate to so many topics you speak about online. You helped me realise how simpy I was towards my exgirlfriend. I provided for her for 5 years and fell into a depression because of 'rona unemployment. You gave me the perspective to level up my game and stop chasing after low quality women that don't think longterm. Thank you very much! Keep up the good work! We definitely need more men like you on this world.
The information is Universal especially in Western Society
@@AdonaiZedek Yes, that's what I also feel like! I must say though I am coming from an immigrant family, we have trauma in our family (my parents fled the iron curtain). Maybe the universal thing is, that in western society we tell everyone they can be who they want to be. But the right thing would be to tell that they just should be who they are. I believed in equal partnership, but when I started leaning on my woman for emotional support she dropped me like a hot potatoe. Equal my ass.
@@robertrosen2703 ben there done that..good luck to you. thomas sowell talks about having a set of options
Greetings from Las Vegas.🎰
@@robertrosen2703 yeah I can't remember which video was it, it was one of the ones for men self-development, where Kevin says never rely on or go to women for emotional support, they'll drop you, go to your male friends or parents if they're still around, I use my therapist, awesome to hear his msg reaching so far
First rule of going into business for yourself: Don't count on family or friends. If you disagree you have not been in business long enough.
Why not?
@@TheOlzee Because the very people you think will support you won't. It's like a weird psychological thing that happens when you try to start a business. Family will show you MAD support if you get a new job, but when you're trying to start a business they treat it like the plague until they see you start doing well. Obviously this isn't the case 100% of the time, but for most people this is how it goes.
Yup. They won’t do shit to help you. But will have their hands out the moment your business becomes successful.
True statement
Your right, just leave it to your family.
This man is speaking sound biblical wisdom and modern women are sleeping on him. I looked in the past and reminisced on the many times my fiancé tried to hire me and put me in position to help progress his vision but I was too busy focus on my own goals and my own bills. Those days are over I’m going stand behind him reopen his gym ASAP.
Good luck and Yahuah bless y'all. Keep updated!
Ain’t nothing more powerful that a true woman standing behind her man
I agree with some of what Kevin says but kill that Biblical noise cause he not on that level
He's got some wisdom but it's not biblical ..if it was he'd advise people to wait to have sex until marriage
Respect sis, i pray you flourish.
My dad was shocked when I told him that I have no interest in pursuing a PhD or masters etc.I am putting all my time,energy,attention,love,care into my man,relationship and prioritising marriage.
I know I cannot do it all.I don't want to do it all. I want a man in my life.I need a man in my life.
Am not saying that women shouldn't pursue these but for me, my priority is him & marriage.
Was your dad shocked from a good side or bad side?
@@bull.dog. Bad. His goal for me is for me to have these much like him.His a CEO of a company.
However,I had to explain that for him;he had my mum who supported him and she took care of us,household etc.
If I want to be a wife,mum,home maker etc and have the space to support my husband,then this is not the direction for me.
@@kha_leesi2596 you are a smart woman!!! Women with "PhD" are too opinionated, argumentative and want things to be their way. Because women see details in front of them, but not a big picture, that's why women need men, as women aren't looking ahead, you look at the details and lose the big picture
You must be young🥴😂😂😂 You are gonna learn the hard Way my dear...
@Dian Be no she is gonna end up a broke, divorced, single mother with no degree or skills because marriages DONT LAST, her dad knows its unfortunate but sometimes we have to learn the hard way
I think Kevin NEEDS to address the new reality of most women wanting weddings instead of husbands. Truly, I believe that many women figure out that a wedding over being a wife is not cracked up to what they thought it would be early on in their marriage and correct the problem…
Maybe we need to skip weddings and elope. So if the woman really cares about her man, she won’t mind running off to the hills with him to have an intimate and private wedding.
@@kacpermoney2820 Been married 22 years.... went to the courthouse...been a witness to huge weddings...only one couple stayed married...the rest are splitsville.
Bridezillas is a perfect example of this... I always say, you can plan your wedding but not your marriage. In a marriage your lust, greed and ego will be tested. For both partners.
Kevin has talked about this a few times on other shows.
It's a box to check off, for many, just like a car and a house.
I really appreciate how Kevin always acknowledges the male experience of abuse in a relationship. We need to hold women accountable for their verbal, emotional, and physical abuse toward men. Men deserve happy and respectful relationships.
@The Esquire of Sports® I agree, I have watched all of his shows and there is a constant theme of women saying "I left a toxic relationship" However never being accountable for their actions. Anyone who is physically abusive in a relationship should be held accountable, unfortunately it is rare to see women held accountable for it.
I appreciate you saying this
Yes
I once heard that there was an anonymous survey of women in shelters for abused women, wherein two thirds of them admitted that they initiated the violence. Now thats only taking into account the physical part, not even the psychological part which preceded that. I cant vouch for this as i have been unable to confirm this stat, but if anyone wants to check if this is true, please do.
Kevin is trying to fix the broken link that causes miscommunication between some BW and BW. I salute you sir for being this daring💕💖💕
speak to your peers
Hes the 🐐
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@joe johnson Real talk. Just turn the dial on the setting they want based on their mood.
Where’s the amazing Lucas at April ? Lol
High value men can be " jerks "
Translation : they dont want me
Yep. Or how about "I'm single by choice"?
*won't
High value men can be jerks...I deal with one. However, he has never told a lie, and has said everything I need to hear. It just hurts at first....
I walked away from my career during covid in the healthcare industry to manage my husband’s cleaning company. It was 💯 worth it! It has set the foundation for our marriage and the bond is concrete. Everything he has said is on point because I was calling my husband crying stressed out and ready to walk out the office door. I will be opening my own business here shortly.
This is the BEST relationship advice I have ever heard. Young men PLEASE listen to this man. Take notes if you are not a good listener. Play this twice a day for 7 days if you have to, this is good word fellas!
I have watched nearly 5O of his videos and have caught every live for the past two months.....this episode is my favorite !
Fellas if she ever says “bro” to you exit stage left immediately! It will only get worst! That is the major sign of an masculine women.
This is most the 20 year olds in this generation YALL wish to date so good luck ! I am 31 and had a younger friend she was 24 called me bro and other people bro all the time I constantly had to tell her my name is Lauren . Also I tried to hook her up with a nice 21 year old man . Very spiritual and just a good man over all (we all were coworkers ) she said no cause she think she is too thug for him wtf ???! I said you are a lady we don’t refer to ourselves as thugs. Nothing about her screamed a thug so I was confused .that’s when I looked at the type of guys she dates . Drug dealers . Her dad is still in the streets (but very active in her life ) and he is a drug dealer. 50 year old man smh .
Kevin is not lying about this topic. Work be having me stressed.. especially my first job.. I used this time off from covid to learn more, eat right and get a trainer lost 25 so far. Omw to attracting a good quality man.
Good luck. Hope you don't have a messy history like these women.
Congrats, keep at it!!!🏆👏👏👏
Keep it up, stay positive and keep the positive energy once you find that man. It will be worth it.
@@antoniotula262 thank you
Mental health is important. Maybe check in with a professional. That isn't meant to be disrespectful. It's helpful to learn new coping mechanisms, and possibly discover trauma you may need to deal with before getting your king.
I was in a 3.5 year relationship with the perfect example of a modern woman!
She held no accountability for anything!
She was not cooperative!
And she would go to OTHER people to talk about OUR problems during arguments!
When I had a question she would respond with a question!
1:12:45 Never call a man in a suit a "bro". Nope, no, and just no way. Utterly disrespectful. That's like you saying that he's only dressed that way because he's going to court as the defendant.
True but stop thinking cause a men in a suit above u, he’s human obv goes to who the person is & the content/context but yes it’s rude but stop pedestaling some1 cause they in a suit but yes the RESPECT is warranted & needed
Women calling a man "bro" is the ultimate turn off. It doesnt even matter if she is my own sister. That is masculine behavior.
Men don’t like that at all.
@@josheasy6716 That's besides the point, genius.
She tried to passively aggressively shame Kevin by saying it was "hurtful to go back to the past". That's an attempt to avoid responsibility.
As KS says, she weaponized victim hood and used it to her advantage. It’s evident that she has not done any personal work to heal from the past and become a better human being. A lot of modern women will use their past and refusing to fix the issues present as their own personal emotional crutch
“Well, nobody’s perfect Kevin.” *Correct* That’s why it’s so important for people to get therapy to address old wounds, process traumas that affect current decision-making, unlearn negative thinking/behavioral patterns, and make different choices today to bring about better outcomes tomorrow. Everybody can make mistakes. But after the 4th, 5th or 6th mistake you’ve gotta start asking yourself, “Is it me?” If yes, then “What *must* I start doing differently TODAY?” Disrupt the pattern.
Yes
Wow this even hit home for me as a man, I'll admit I have my demons and mental health is very important to help bring me to a place I never thought I deserve to be at. Because I been falsely accused and salty over it because it happened so many times. And now that I say nothing to them the women are upset because I just don't want to deal with it anymore. But I learned how to let go of the past because the past cannot be changed but your present, your future that can be worked and the future can always be changed into something greater into something better than society had already had attended for you.
So to the advocates of mental health thank you, when it comes to all of the jobs around and about you are the best there is.
Why 4 or 5 times? What's the clinical rule?
How am I not perfect?
Nobody is perfect is a deflection. What she need to do is get results.
I APPLAUD the way Mr. Samuels addressed the subject of abuse in the attorney's marriage as not just the husband's vault physically, but hers as well VERBALLY and EMOTIONALLY, as women in those kind of relationships use that to control the narrative, "weaponize their victimhood" and demonize the male when speaking about the relationship to others, habitually omitting the harshness and verbal abuse they contributed to a tumultuous situation. in a storm, there is thunder......... AND lightning!
And she took the child and the money. Wrecking the husband, the child and herself on the long run. Women need protection from their own selfish choices.
@@darealtruth3095 someone with some sense. Thank you. Can’t Believe these people.
There's always two sides to a story... Always.
I wish they would make it illegal to verbally abuse
@@darealtruth3095 You cannot have thunder without lightning. Both will kill depending on location. If you are close to lightning path, the rapid air expansion (Thunder shockwave) can kill or permanently damage you. AND @Muls mentioned them as a consequence of a storm(Tumultuous situation) caused by both parties but you convoluted as synonyms for Verbal and physical abuse.
I'm a women, I know women who are abusive, and will just push and push a person while they are walking away to calm themselves. I've experienced it first hand and it has caused me to lash out violently. I didn't want to but there's only so much a person can take, like why keep bothering them?
My mom is that type of woman.
@@msi8311 ngl i was referring to my mom and sister.
@balle reale i do
"nObODy'S pErFECT kEVin" at 1:38:30. Basically means I need a HVM who's willing to take care of me and my 5 kids from 5 different baby daddies while I sit at home and spend his money while nagging about the dirty dishes in the sink. You can never please ratchet BW. Stay safe brothers.
@@oldjuicebox8198 She says it at around 1:38:30 but Kevin was talking to her since 1:15:00, where she revealed she verbally abused her ex-husband. Worth watching the whole interaction.
There's always a Boyce out there fellas
“Big Shirley Needs A Snickers” 😂😂😂
@@l.l.pozeguy6223 Lmaooo I just peeped that too
There is someone for everyone. Look at that felon who became a model and had a child with an heiress. Get in where you can fit in.
The godfather is cooking... "Weponized victimhood " ladies listen carefully this abuse is a 2 way street .. ive always felt this way and always been crucified by ladies for expressing the same exact sentiments ... this is why most of us brothers ride with KS . ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
I’m fine fit and friendly and I can’t sit at home and do nothing!!! I’m a asset to my man I represent him and his company! I work hard for him, and my family and I do it effortlessly ✌🏼
Some women are genuinely self destructive.
Even when successful men are telling them what they are doing wrong or how to improve, they ignore it
My ex gf
I've been waiting for him to say this. One of the biggest Ls modern society took was sending women to go and compete for jobs against men. Double the workforce, half the pay. Corporations won. We lost.
Exactly. That’s that Democratic Party/liberal feminism hogwash
@ it's not political. It's just factual. Relax
@ Cringe. You know most of us (the silent majority) don't care about your left wing, right wing nonsense. That stuff is for weirdos. The rest of us just want solutions. Stop being weird and help
@@2020_Visi0n he’s right though - 3rd wave feminism has warped relationships. Conservative values are what men really want but everyone has been conditioned to think that being conservative is a bad thing.
I like the multiple conversations. It definitely makes for a better showing. Keep it simple, short, and moving.
A woman at my job would always say to me, “I wish I could be a stay at home mom.” She was saying this because my wife never really had to work after having our first child. Little did that woman know that my wife took/takes every last bit of it for granted. I always wanted my life to be this way, I just wish I had some guidance early on that would have helped me pick a woman that would be more appreciative of the position she was put in.
That really is a shame..... It's never enough it seems.
I feel for you my brother. I know it’s complicated but Patrice taught me that my happiness is paramount. Peace and blessings
I’ve been saving to stay home since I got my first paycheck, my mom sounds like your wife, not appreciative of the ability to stay home and raise her own children. Guess tradition isn’t for anyone, but I am pretty sure it’s for me which is why I’m trying to come into a relationship with capital and plenty of skills.
Try changing her situation for a week or a day and see how she reacts
@@jayrobbins2087 LOL. That’s why she knows she’s good for a while. She knows that my #1 thing has always been to not be my father, so anything that even has the slightest hint of actions that man might take, I’m avoiding. I’ve made peace with that. We don’t yell and scream at each other, but I’m definitely not appreciated. But I’m keeping in shape, eating right, all I need is a kite every now and then and some money on my books. Little man is growing fast, I’ll be out soon. LOL.
I actually came to this realization and acceptance in January of this year - why tf am I using alll of my time and talent for companies instead of building our family and finances!?? Ever since, I've been home with my babies more and I have NEVER been happier - and my Husband sees and feels the difference
💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿. Spread that knowledge to other younger women.
Exactly
Facts sis.
I’m glad I took the time to hear what you have to say. You are not the callous, self hating person you are portrayed to be. This is good information for any person but most especially black women. You’re intelligent and very helpful to those who are receptive. Congrats on the growth of you channel!
“I never set out to do it this way.” This is the realization of many people today. If you want success in any given area, relationships especially, you have to seek help & put in some work. You’re not Isaac Newton. Don’t expect an apple to fall on your head and you discover gravity. If you want to get to California, plan, map a trail, and get moving. And if you’re religious, say a prayer as you move!
Just US get a regular guy. HVM are out your league and they cheat. If you are avarage looking get and avarage man instead of nagging strangers on line. No hate intended.
I am a successfull busines man and artists. I have my children and choice of women. Who the hell are you? No body. I am here to spred the message for NEWer generations of women not to become stupid depressed feminist like you.
@@justus7181 And he did say just because they have options that does not mean they have to exercise them.
I hope the attorney caller reads this message.
Kevin always helps toxic femininity show it’s face the SOONEST.
Your answer wasn’t wrong, your mindset was.
~RELEASE RESET REPROGRAM
By taking offense upfront instead of being humble, the conversation steered the way you didn’t want it to go but it went where it needed to go. Nice watching you grow on the spot…very refreshing. I am 38 and saw the change PAINFULLY happening 😂 keep it up sis.
We have a national epidemic of toxic femininity in this country. It's very sad to see because a lot of women are being hurt in the process.
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@Anika Griffith most definitely! I find Kevin’s space comfortable like family. People talk ish because you know how “we are”. Hurt people, hurt people. So good for you to be brave and bold!!! Kevin’s made me cry about three or four times because of the unveiling of information that is sometimes sobering but mostly shocking for me. Glad you DID get to read my comment and thanks for replying back.😇❤️🔥
@@johnames6430 I am so new to all of this and who are you telling?! I’m new to learning about all of this gender war stuff and as I started learning about this I started studying women because I am a woman and I had no idea that a lot of women were acting the way that they are. I also didn’t know it was a bad thing to say the words toxic and femininity next to each other LOL. Not that I mind because I will say whatever is bluntly needed to anyone’s face if it’s going to provoke the truth being risen in their spirit. Hopefully other women will feel this power to stand up to other women who are exercising toxic femininity so that we don’t all look bad across the globe. It’s about awareness, accountability and action while utilizing education in applying logic and removing feelings.
@@Wynter_Heat The "masculinization" of women is not giving them better results (or society in general better results) but all you see now is propaganda in the media with EVERY single movie..."strong female character" is all they do now. Which is great if it actually helped anyone...but it's not. Be very careful of Hollywood and "feminism". Being "woke" is a cancer on society, anyone can lose their entire livelihood at any moment for something they said 10-20yrs ago. This is insanity. It's time to reject this. You notice Kevin is not for this "woke" victimhood mentality...because it gets you nowhere. If you see yourself as a victim you already lost the game. You are not a spectator in life, you are an active participant. If you see yourself as a victim for your race, gender, or whatever...then there is no way forward.
I have not met many men who will come through the door looking to physically abuse their woman. Many men have been emotionally / mentally abused by their woman, and they just snap.
I remember very few of my physical injuries, but I clearly remember all the times I was hurt internally. Don't turn men into your punching bag, then get shocked when he can't take anymore. Even a docile, sweet dog will bite if pushed to the edge.
Exactly well said.
On point and honest.
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@RUclips IsNazi They very rarely do. I have known people in mutually abusive / toxic relationships, but a lot of the time the woman follows the man when he tries to get some space during an argument and keeps running her mouth. You need to know when to stop--more importantly, leave a relationship. Not saying there aren't bad men out there, but let's not act like it's always the man at fault.
Love your new set. Thank you for sharing your knowledge to help . All ladies if you truly listen to this very insightful gentleman. He is for real very 100 percent on point. God bless all. I am 57, married for 40 years and learning so much from you Kevin. Keep Sharing and Caring ❤ . Oh and I do cherish the shit out of my man💋
You got married at 17? Wtf
This was great 💯🙏🏾
Appreciate your channel my dude, keep grinding 👊🏿
I can say that my finance background has assisted my husband and I tremendously. Kevin is so right. The best networking occurs over dinners and professional social gatherings.
In my country, a lot of women, whether married or not, when they are being promiscuous you catch them next Sunday praying the whole day at church.
It's really stupid how women actually believe that some miracle made by some "greater being" will erase their past.
What's even more ironic is how when they become grandma's they blame God for anything bad they did.
@@alexander8548 The Lord will forgive them only if they believe in Paul’s gospel. Otherwise their words fall on deaf ears. You are right about their penance… being forgiven by the Lord doesn’t mean that it absolves them from their mistakes. They still have to pay the penalty. And the penalty is missing out on being a wife and a mother. The Lord sent them man after man and they thought he was lame or a square. Black women are gone, man.
@Black Boy King TV 👏👏👏
Hebrews 10:26 : "For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins".
This means that Jesus' sacrifice can't even help you if you're willfully sinning without working toward change.
@Don Urban lmao she told you she was a virgin and you believed it? She was saying that to save face/reduce her perceived hypocrisy levels
I remember when the “me too” movement had the slogan “believe all women”. I was like “nope, I will not believe all women” because I have seen too many women lying on good men. I’ve seen 2 women lie on men saying they were raped. Both women ended up getting caught lying.
And they walked FREE right?
True. Did you notice how MeToo was suddenly dead after Tara Reade? It was nothing more than a political ploy for female supremacy.
Everyone should be heard. Because people think women are lying is why so many women stay quiet about their abuse.
@@chloefontain5469 allowing them to be heard is one thing. Believing them without evidence is another. Don't conflate the two.
@@josephdunn4388 Of course they did
My girl works for me part time. While my marketing campaigns run she answers the phone and sets appointments for my contractual meetings and I go close the deals. Each contract I land makes us more money and improves our quality of life. I learned business and how to incorporate my woman into it from my mentors who are high value men and this was before KS came around. Thank you for helping the black community Kevin. May you rest in peace my brother!
Kevin, god your advice is sage. I grew up in S. Cal as a surfer in the 60-70’s my long hair limited me from getting good career path jobs. So I learned to sell up, now as a ferried CEO I’m comfortable. I’m in my 70’s dating 40 year old beautiful women.
Love your show.
Robin
She’s using you lmao
The attorney doesn’t have good active listening skills. And it’s not that she can’t get along / cooperate with a man on a lower socioeconomic level- it’s that she’s not capable of cooperating with any man. Too combative.
She needs therapy. Very passive-aggressive.
She’s Arrogant
I’ve dated an attorney before. They’re never wrong and never will be. Every convo felt like I was being cross examined.
Bruh I was married to one. That shit was straight hell man. Argued every damn day. Even now after divorce she still trying to throw the law at me and I’m doing what I’m suppose to do. It’s hell.
@@mariolong3604 😂
Yikes… I am SO sorry. 😂 I’m an attorney and I PROMISE we’re not all like that. Being cross examined is no fun.
My wife works as a teacher at my son's private school (K-12) so she takes him to school and brings him home. When he is off, she is off so it's great for all of us. A (little) extra money and my son is taken care of all day.
Nicce😆
Also about the abuse... ladies, what kevin is saying isn't that he condones men hitting women at all, he's just not blind to the fact that a lot of the women who claim abuse conveniently omit the fact that they too were verbally or emotionally abusive and they were deliberately provoking the man bc she knew the laws are in her favor.
It's the one way aggression he often talks about. Female on male abuse isn't taken nearly as seriously as male on female abuse.
Bruh even at times these women will be physically abusive and don't make mention of it. I experienced this first hand. They do things that any ordinary person on the street would get knocked out for but you are expected to keep composure . Even when you do keep composure you are labeled as emotionally abusive it's a term that triggers everyone puts a shield around women and a sword to the man's throat
@@killaswing1000 had a friend when we was 15 his girlfriend would hit him daily even hit him in school in front of the class before everyone just laughed at that point i didnt even fell bad for him because he allowed it i honestly think part of him likes it
@TheHoneybunEmpress So men/women can be physically abusive to one who's verbally or emotionally abusive?
@Eastern fence LizardI'm absolutely positive I tagged the original commenter of this post, I wasn't typing you so let the lady answer. She can defend her statement I'm sure. Don't type to me unless I'm speaking to you. Good day!!
@Eastern fence Lizard WTF
“The stroke of the whip maketh marks in the flesh: but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the bones.”
Words are powerful
Some words are like bullets u cant call dem back after you go shooting your mouth off and those words gonna leave damage/scars..
True indeed. Very well spoken
@Love heals, Grudge kills...FACTS!! Had a woman tell me that any man who argues with a woman is a "B!" Said men are supposed to take it because women are emotional. Moral of the story, a verbally abusive woman puts a man in a very difficult predicament because...1. If he does nothing, he's left feeling like a "B", 2. If he argues with her, she perceives and treats him like a "B", and 3. If he responds the way he would to anyone else stepping that strong to him, he'll likely end up behind bars! The best solution is to get as far away as possible from a verbally abusive woman because it will not end well!!
I was just having conversation with someone about the "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" That was professed to us as kids. It is VERY inaccurate. The things that have ruined my self image and esteem have been WORDS; words of rejection and non support. And i had been in physically abusive relationships. The fights did not hurt nearly as much as the verbal abuse and manipulation. He would tell me I was going to hell everyday because I was not raised Christian. Told me my soul wasn't right, yet here I was financially taking care of him, providing transportation, support, etc.... And when I went to travel to perform in hip-hop dance at an arena for 30k people I was the happiest I had been. This guy laughed at me and told me "you cant dance." Dream killer and joy thief. I left him shortly after that. WORDS HURT. Women stop verbally abusing men and thinking its OK. Those words broke me for a long time, the scratch from the physical fights are still on my body but those words run through my mind when I feel inadequate.
@@allotatalent You are amazing me I do believe that Words count and we should be very mindful of what we say to anyone.
“Such is the way of an adulterous woman; She eateth, and wipeth her mouth, And saith, I have done no wickedness.”
Proverbs 30:20 KJV
Amen!
Kevin you ain’t lying. I rather work for my husband than any man!! We can build more and faster together. Oh and make love while doing it. ❤️
Lmao ya freak huh
Happily married. Y’all look good Mrs Edwards
My first wife cheated on me while I was working and paying for school for both of us. I didn't finish because of the stress from the divorce. My current wife pushed/inspired me to finish my graduate degree. Now we prosper TOGETHER. Find the right woman.
It's AMAZING to me that EVERY! SINGLE! SHOW! Without fail, he has to CONSTANTLY tell women to TURN OFF RUclips! Its frustrating to watch and it makes you women look incompetent. Blows my mind.
Dropping them gems again! Always look forward to your videos. Thanks Mr. Samuels!
What’s your IG?
The man added "HADOUKEN!!" to the soundboard llooll, respect.
Fan base in Fiji growing Kevin!!! Loving the content.
Awesome insight. Highly needed. Wisdom is amazing. Can totally relate, some times just still need confirmation. Food for my everloving thoughts to teach my daughters as for me, time is up. It's their turn as time moves forward. Thank you! ❤🙌🏾😍
Good Luck and God Bless you on your journey
@@AdonaiZedek Thank you. Likewise. Do it King 🙌🏾🤴🏾❤🔥
Blessings to you Eve. It requieres courage to accept flaws. I also want the best for my daughter.
@@leonelorozco2514 Thank you. It truly does but it's so rewarding when we get over the hump. Sending blessings your way, these young, gifted humans deserve our wisdom. Let's ensure they get the best of us. You can do this King!!! 💪🏾 ❤🔥
I love every Patrice O‘’Neal mention
Damn his bullshit detector!!!
Outstanding.
This woman is a train wreck waiting to happen. I can only imagine her telling this to someone on a first date. ...She would be the same type you see on LinkedIn acting superior because if her title, but outside her immediate profession, her opinions and attitude are childish.
A person playing the victim when they’re wrong is a person trying to victimize you. That woman who says her man was abusive was the CLEAR abuser.
... and until she admits it and gets help will do it again.
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Yea she kicked his azz all over the place
My first hand experience of a woman being the antagonist:
I have a sister who would complain about her kids father being abusive. He was indeed an A-hole, but I never witnessed any abuse. He would always say my sister was disrespectful, but I was never seeing when they had drama so I didn't take any sides...
I lost my job a few years ago and ended up having to stay with my sister for a while. She was generally in good spirits, but whenever she got upset, she would indeed become disrespectful. I've witnessed her argue with every male in our immediate family. Me, our brother, her son.. one day she was on the phone with her kids father and she just started flipping out on him because he wasn't agreeing to something that she felt he should. She was VERY disrespectful and at that point I realized it wasn't all the baby daddy's fault. We almost fought one day because I happened to be there when he was being disrespectful, but after hearing the way she talked to him on the phone, I'm glad I didn't get involved, because she was part of the problem.
Well over da
**Women more likely to initiate violence** (article from the Irish Times)
"Dr Farrell, who has examined 54 international studies of the subject, said 53 of these found one of two things: "Women and men batter each other about equally or women batter men more," he said. "Almost all studies found women were MORE likely to initiate violence and MUCH MORE likely to inflict SEVERE violence."
**The Surprising Truth About Women and Violence** (from Time magazine)
"Family and intimate relationships-the one area feminists often identify as a key battleground in the (non-existent so-called) "war on women"-are also an area in which women are MOST likely to be violent, and not just in response to male aggression but toward CHILDREN, ELDERS, female relatives or partners, and non-violent men, according to a study published in the Journal of Family Violence."
Rampant toxic femininity is an issue that desperately needs to be addressed, and ultimately brought under control.
@@darrylrevok9936 I'm bookmarking that article/website. Thanks Mr. Revok
@@MistahUnknown You're welcome. People need to be aware of this stuff. 😉
Men die over these allegation all the time when it’s more likely then not a two way street of violence.
@@swaguccideep9270 yeah, and trust me, he was definitely the type of guy to possibly be that way, but my thing was unless I witnessed it first hand I wasn't going to get involved because then I would look stupid once the police showed up. I'm glad I took that stance, even though my sister doesn't respect me for it
"I'm assuming I'm talking to adults'
...bold assumption....
@32:30 KS dropped a great piece of knowledge. WE don't like to stress about things outside of our range of help.
So true
Absolute facts, that's why so many people have so much anxiety, worrying about things outside of their control.
Kevin, thank you for wisdom. You’ve made me see how lucky and blessed I am. 🙏🏽♥️ thank you. Love you
Is it a coincidence that the lawyer who was drinking wine, taking her clothes off and not paying attention, turned our to be a garbage person?
A lot of lawyers are the scum of the earth. Many of them become politicians when they can't make it into a white-shoe firm.
I tried my hardest to give her a chance but she removed all hope in a matter of minutes, the moment she came in playing victim.
Even a black female lawyer will not take accountability.
@@SniperKingz Think law and most high status professions attract certain types of personalities.
As weird as this sounds, watching your videos makes me feel good about myself. The fear of missing out was strong in me for many years until I met my Fiancé; because I never went through the route of having sex with a bunch of guys, but instead starting relationships with guys when I was 17+ (guys around my age) and just learn/grow. My dream is to be a successful woman/wife/mother. Each relationship lasted years (grew apart and wanted different things). I learned that men think so differently, talk differently, have different meanings for so much. It's crazy lol. Guys just seem to have their own language, but it's probably the same for them when they look at us. When I started to live with my fiancé, it was tough because we had to learn each other and how men/women are naturally. I'm more affectionate, soft, empathetic, etc. He's protective, a problem solver, firm, etc. We're meant to naturally compliment each other, but we had to accept that because society tells us that we don't need anyone. At first he saw my femininity as weakness. I saw him as too aggressive. But we stayed, worked hard, and learned from each other. We learned to appreciate the differences, along with our own personality quirks.
Even worse, at the time, I worked a stressful job that demanded my mind, body, soul and it still wasn't enough; it was ridiculous, because how can I become a mother and wife under these conditions, that company was becoming my life and stressing me out. I even remember my man saying, "I'm angry, because I can't do anything to help you! I can't punch your boss, because you'll get fire!" Eventually, my man and I drifted apart. I quit that job. Got a new job that allows me to have stable hours and work from home. Our relationship got crazy close and so much better, immediately. It's only been a year and some change since I got this new job, now we're working on starting a business together; we have an actual partnership. If I didn't actually lived with a man and experienced/learned how he thinks (vice versa for him), I would have neither like nor understood your videos.
“You were complicit in the destruction of your own marriage ie you wrecked your own home”
KS went full courtroom mode on the lawyer 😂😂😂😂😂
“Ladies, can we not act like every ass-kicking just falls out of the sky?!” - Bill Burr
@No Worries watch Bill Burr's comedy video ... There's a reason why he's way more successful than you
@Connor Hoskins No Worries is a fairly gender neutral identifier with no Avi ... Could be a simping white knight, maybe, or is this just more SIGN language?
@Connor Hoskins It wasn 't a joke. Bill Burr was dead serious and he was right. Kevin was spot on throughout the entire conversation with that caller. Women take no responsability for their violence towards their men, be that verbal, emotional or physical and they'll happily see their man thrown into jail due to their one sided claims.
Thankfully, they're getting called out on their bs by people like Kevin.
Almost every woman I've ever known has brought up her the 'abuse' they received in their previous relationship. When I ask them if they were abusive too, they do everything in their power to deflect and use the victim card.
Bill Burr is secretly one of the goats if men’s rights and Manospheric comedy straight up!
"Why did the Lion try to maul you ma'am? Were you talking loud to it? Were you fk'n with it?!" -Bill Burr
This man is a prophet. I'm white and from Ireland.
Didn't know the western problem touched Ireland. Mexico seems to be the only place to escape it
@@e69alpha It's as bad or worse here. Same factors contributing to the mess.
@@e69alpha Not sure why you're comparing us to Mexico. Ireland is one of the wealthiest counties in the world my friend.
@@doggychops7304 I'm saying Mexico is part of the western world like us but don't got this problem
@@e69alpha No worries. Mexico is incredibly poor and under developed. I don't it can be compared with Ireland and US. The social problems of gender which KS talks about are only in rich countries.
KS is a good man, he's like America's new father for so many fatherless children. You can't cancel him, b/c he shows his worth. The People got him.
Nicole Eboni rite
He needs to go city to city and do seminars hed make a killing while spreading the truth id def be there.
@DJ Red Pill an adjustable 2 at best 😂
I am the same age as Kevin and if anybody that’s young enough to be my child, refers to me as bro, the conversation, the interaction or the transaction just ended there.
That was 100% out of order & I'm pleased he didn't let it slide. Outrageous, especially from a Nigerian descendant. Historically Nigerian culture is opposite of what we witnessed here.
@@antoniotula262 I bet she stayed in USA too long and started copying bad habits
She wasn’t calling Kevin bro…she was talking about her ex
@Cap’n Cooks Krystal Ship we not buying yo cookies
It's the Nigerian women born in the "West" not the ones born in Nigeria.
Brah kevin be taking out lawyer's like it's nothing 😆 🤣 😂 he's the goat 🐐.
Comment on the young lady accountant: such a powerful statement. I spend all my time helping others with their problems and issues.
Kevin is preaching. As a super successful licensed Financial Advisor i agree with 100% of what he opened with. Ladies take heed
Ks detect the BS and get in their feelings in a twinkle of an eye ,his tactics and strategy just like mike Tyson in the ring his combination questions are magnificent ,that's why he ask YES or No questions 🔚 you can't dodge that and most women can't answer questions directly then he opened them out like a book putting them in their place and is all over.
# GODFATHER#
Yep the 26 year old that’s lazy. Broke her down!!
What you have said to us men. Thank you Kevin. I never had my father in my life and I feel if I had I’d be a better man. Much more capable. I’d have the things I want. But most importantly I’d avoid so many of the bad women I’ve met. I’d have years of my life back. Years I cannot ever get back. Thank you brother for everything your risking. Thank you on behalf of all the men who in desperate need of your wisdom. I’ve dodged so many toxic women in the 8 months that’s I’ve watched you. Please keep healing us. We don’t have many men doing this and it has been to men’s detriment that you are not here. Thank you!!!!
If you’re a single man without kids dating a Single Mother or Baby Mama, you’re priorities in life is all jacked up and backwards my G! 💯🤷🏽♂️
If this isn’t a role you can handle just say that 🙄😹
@@CassLee2208 it’s a role that no childless man who values himself and has options would take on. Multiple severe cons with no pros
@@JamalW239 I’ve met plenty of successful men to take on those roles of a stepfather and have done so beautifully so that’s your personal opinion. But don’t speak for the men who do it right and know how to, and have done so greatly.
@@CassLee2208 I said ‘values himself’. Being with someone who has children when you don’t has large down sides. If you have options you can find someone similar without the children and emotional baggage. There’s no way you can get around that or dress it up, regardless of what you tell yourself as to not hurt your feelings and ego
@@CassLee2208 why should it be a role a man has to “Handle”. Theses that glorification of single mothers trying to make them seem like something special that a “man has to be capable of dealing with”. Baby mommas are a bad deal period and the days of glorifying them and forgiveness of their mistakes are over.
I love how KS make up new phrases🤣, “the color purpling of America”
Kevin didn’t make up the term
That been around.
Hilarious
@@MrAthinkingperson my bad, I didn’t know. It’s my first time hearing that term
They jumped on you so quick . Geez
I could use a good girl to help with my trucking company. We could go far!
Amen
KS is risking himself for a better improved black community so our children and so on won’t have to suffer. I am literally seeing the change all around me. I appreciate you brother.
Amen ❤️
@@justus7181 No he’s not he’s uplifting and having y’all make better decisions
@@justus7181 Why are you here then? Obviously you either don’t have a man or you feel some type away because you are not happy..Obviously not happy at all
@@justus7181 as a black women I must say you are WRONG. Kevin is making history. Modern relationships need people like him. 🙏🏽
@@justus7181 you sound bitter. Millions of people clearly disagree with your POV but go off... He doesn’t have to help anyone but chooses to do so to better our community. You’ve probably never even see a full video from him the way you’re talking. If all you get from K.S is that he is hateful then you need to take a long look in the mirror and recognize who the real problem is. The level of hate you have for that man will cause you to die alone with nothing. Be open to the information he provides FOR FREE. You’re saying you’ve never heard Kevin say anything positive/beneficial to the community or modern women?
When their smoke detectors are chirping, you know there’s no man around.
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Im cackling too hard at this 🤣🤣
I needed to hear this today! This video changed my perspective about everything!! God bless you Kevin for real! Keep putting the work your waking up people! 🙏🏽💯🔥♥️
Can we make verbally abusive and emotionally violent against the law like physical abuse?
That would straighten a few.
A kevin I think you done sparked the brain of men I see alot of outlets sparking the same conversation that the internet world bashing you for keep up the good work fam✊
I respect your channel and this segment that any form of abuse should not be tolerated, BUT of course, one form of abuse leads to death or serious injuries. Verbal abuse does not justify a man or woman physically harm someone
Female was just sentenced to 12 years for bullying her ex boyfriend into killing himself
@@noreallyitsok8574 He chose to end his own life ultimately. They weren't even married and he could have got out of the relationship. When you put your hands on someone else, you are potentially endangering their life...
@@cammys9200 HE WAS A WEAK FRAGILE MAN. PHYSICAL ABUSE IS AN ASSULT. PERIOD. IF WORDS HURT YOU GET THERAPY.
My wife and I have worked together since we met, 45 years later we are both retired and well off.