Realizing that: everything is always pointing us towards our desires. Even what we don’t want is a reminder of what we DO want. What we don’t want: a man who makes a woman feel like she has to choose between him and one of her passions. A man who makes her feel guilty or like she’s not doing/being/saying xyz enough to prove her love for him. What we DO want: a man who loves that his woman pursues her passions. A man who encourages and supports her vision. A man who tells her and makes her feel like she is doing/being/saying enough for him and the relationship and appreciates/cherishes her for it all. Even though it hurts and sometimes I wanted to get back together with them or wondered if the breakup was a mistake, I had to admit to myself: I wasn’t satisfied with how things were either. (Not in a selfish way but moreso as an objective truth.) Made me realize: I’m not mourning them nor the whole relationship. I’m grieving the idea of what we could’ve had together or an idea of who/what I thought they were and would be.. ^but that’s all it was.. an idea. 🙏🏻🩵
Inner child work, parts work, understanding what the partner was showing me, ie repressed parts in myself that they were reflecting to me and help me to access. Getting and prioritising more compatible, closer and supportive friendships. Different healing modalities for clearing energy cords and such. Wishing you all the best in your healing! 🙏
Hey, friends🐇Many of you asked how I am doing, which I really appreciate. I'll be honest with you: I am probably in the best mental space I've been in for a while. I am very grateful for the amazing relationship I've had, but sometimes, the best act of love you can perform is letting go. Love you all🖤
“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore.” - Lady Gaga Chasing your dreams will lead you to independence and make you a free woman
I love your honesty (as usual). I think a lot more girlies relate to this than we think. If we don't work, or don't do anything outside of our role at home, we are labeled as "lazy", or a "gold digger", or we become a "trophy wife". But if we do, it begins to interfere with our personal relationships. And even if we don't experience this name-calling, ambitious women with "big" dreams cannot only think about those dreams. It's a constant tug and war between your work/purpose project and your social life & relationships. People talk about balance all the time. But man, it's really hard.
It made me emotional how you spoke about your family and the legacy of the family business. We don't have the same circumstances, but I feel that fire inside you. One advantage I can see being born into wealth is the confidence you have to fan the flames of that fire. The affliction plaguing my humble beginnings is an inner dialogue of limitation and low self worth. If I don't feed my mind a steady diet of external positivity and surround myself with possibility, I regress into the limited thinking of my ancestors. It might be a deviation from your brand, but I selfishly want an interview with your father about how he built his empire. I love what you're doing here. It feels like a 2024 version of Tatler, but it's relevant, global... and has substance.
As a girl with the anxiety and panic, I know what you mean❤️ I hope life continues giving you peace and calm mentally. My mom too: she was the caring one, I am more business focused :/ (both of us feminine anyways). I also immigrated here to CA, and doing what I love. My family back in my country.
One of your best videos, honestly. You just showed your heart and gave us a glimpse of the business and what a day in your life looks like. It felt so honest and pure. Wishing you the best, Albina. You are doing very well ❤️
I loved your interview with Bobby now knowing that you were going through a break up wow i commend you because you were composed and not emotional the whole interview. Your desire to continue your fathers business is valid and it does not make you less feminine. Letting go of a relationship that does not serve you anymore is valid. I wish you well.
16:20 Be very careful, Albina. Your legacy is not just your family's business. It is also your health and your well-being and honoring the time you set aside for your relationship with yourself, your significant other, and future kids. The legacy your dad created is not a sacred altar at which you should burn and sacrifice the other important aspects of your life that matter to you. It is there to serve you and your descendants, and you take care of it and contribute to it, yet you are not meant to deny your other needs and desires to prop it up. There is a time to build an empire, but since you often speak about desiring a traditional relationship, remember that if you want biological children of your own, you want to do so while you are still young and healthy because that is not always guaranteed tomorrow. Yes, with your family's fortune, you can potentially extend that time with fertility treatments and even surrogates, but again, carefully consider the ramifications of overemphasizing work when you have competing timetables. There's a way to have it all, but certain things have inherent urgency.
All the best to you! Like the little view into your life and whats going on behind the scenes. Kinda also a very nice perspective on priviledge. Keep it going!
Thank you Albina for being so honest. I really appreciate you sharing your experiences and being so real and taking the risk to be vulnerable. That is pure strength! Thank you! You have become my biggest role model. I myself had that certain trembling in my hands (and sometimes it still comes back), but better times will come! That's the whole way of growing.
Albina, you have such a strong personality and you are truly inspiring person! Please make more vlogs like this, this is very enjoyable watching! I wish you the best! ❤
always appreciate your realism and light-hearted narration! and your willingess to share the guarded world /you're stronger than u know and will pass this
Hey, Albina. Hope you spend some time with your emotions, it’s really important to just process them slowly to get over the breakup. The situation you’ve described is very similar to the relationship I had before, except I’m the man. Thankfully, my current partner is supportive of my working a lot - that’s really a blessing. Please, get through it - it will get better, I promise! I’ve also noticed that many women I know that are from well-off families (~20-30 yo) have a similar burning desire to achieve something themselves or to build out a life they envision, including my sister. You and your middle sister as well. Makes me think there is a pattern there - generational or any other. What do you think? I feel like nowadays we “get” the hard work it takes to be successful, so we grow up with this mindset. I’m rambling a bit but the gist is - it’s okay to want to succeed and not be “just a stereotypical traditional wife”. You can be however you want to be.
розридалась на 11-й хвилині, бо я настільки розділяю ці думки щодо жіночності 😭 я б хотіла мати сім'ю та дітей, дуже. але ось це про благоговіння перед успішним бізнесом і вайбом Нью-Йорку... це просто жиза. теж нещодавно спіймала себе на думці, що я просто не можу віддавати стільки уваги у стосунки, особливо зараз. і я не знаю, коли це зміниться. я хочу робити внесок в економічний розвиток нашої країни, систему освіти, типу, мені здається, у мене стільки роботи, для якої потрібна саме я (і теж не з якогось токсичного примусу, це просто я так відчуваю). я думаю, ми не маємо себе переробляти. мені здається, поняття жіночності трохи викривлене. жінки буквально здатні створювати людей, це ж вимагає нереальної сили як внутрішньої, так і фізичної. у кожній жінці є щось, не побоюся цього слова, божественне. і ми в праві вирішувати, куди цю силу направляти. я не відчуваю, що створення сім'ї і створення бізнесу вимагають кардинально різних чеснот. для мене і те, і те про велику внутрішню стійкість, витривалість, і тд. тож, може, ця легка жіночність і не існує, жіночність завжди про силу? я не думаю, що з нами щось не так. просто всьому свій час, і з тією людиною все трапиться саме так, як має. все трапляється найкращим чином для нас самих. обіймаю тебе міцно.
Анна, мені також дуже близькі ваші слова про особистий внесок на благо країни. захоплює та надихає що наші люди так мислять! і так, з нами все так само! мені просто здається життя це шлях пізнання себе та пошук балансу, і ми на цьому шляху:) дякую за такі теплі слова, обіймаю🖤
Alina, I really admire how you’re focused on preserving your family’s legacy while creating generational wealth. But I was curious-why did you decide to get a green card? Are you thinking about becoming a U.S. citizen? The U.S. has some of the highest taxes, and that can really dilute your wealth over time. Maybe you’ve got some insights on how to manage that while building your empire here? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
Loved this video! I appreciate you talking about yours and other’s privilege from an insiders perspective. I haven’t found any other channels that talk about the privileged in a good way, everyone just blames the rich for their problems and I hate it. While I recognize that some people are poor due to circumstances and generational poverty and trauma, others are poor bc they wasted their opportunities, are lazy, not very intelligent or simply don’t have the drive to do more with their life.
Your father is my hero. He makes me want to raise my child the same way. God Bless him. Look at you so confident and articulate even after a break up! #highselfworthgoals
Hey, can you make a video on how to act around your rich friends as a new money person, without them thinking less of you? Sometimes it feels as if they are measuring their experiences and successes and it gets tiring. At this point I am not sure if I even want to continue putting effort for them and our friendship.
It's always a third child/girl who has to the responsibility on their own to take over the family business (same in my family, we have three girls and family business to take over, I am first)
Can’t you get your ex on board with your production company. You’ll be unique couple, both coming from wealth. I thought you had it in you to create something great if you combine forces. I am sure your parents also went through times where they couldn’t give each other enough attention, but they stuck through it. If in the core your ex is a good person, I think there always is a way to make it work and giving up is just hurting both sides
hi! If it is okay to ask I would like to know how rich kid deal with their citizenship/visa? I see many of them come here to the US or basically go everywhere for vacations. What happens if some rich kid has some 'weak' passport? Do they apply for different visa when they travel? Thanks!
You are just want to realize your potential. There is nothing more natural than that. Plus clearly your dad put you on “son” role. That’s a lot of pressure
Yes it is, if you both work at the same business and face the same struggles at work and home, so no one says you do more, you do less. I have clients like that. But it’s too damn hard, they are extremely stressed.
what helped you to get over a heartbreak?
Based on my experience, the best option is to dive in your passion, your business and avoid be alone with your thoughts ✊️
Realizing that: everything is always pointing us towards our desires. Even what we don’t want is a reminder of what we DO want.
What we don’t want: a man who makes a woman feel like she has to choose between him and one of her passions. A man who makes her feel guilty or like she’s not doing/being/saying xyz enough to prove her love for him.
What we DO want: a man who loves that his woman pursues her passions. A man who encourages and supports her vision. A man who tells her and makes her feel like she is doing/being/saying enough for him and the relationship and appreciates/cherishes her for it all.
Even though it hurts and sometimes I wanted to get back together with them or wondered if the breakup was a mistake, I had to admit to myself: I wasn’t satisfied with how things were either. (Not in a selfish way but moreso as an objective truth.)
Made me realize: I’m not mourning them nor the whole relationship. I’m grieving the idea of what we could’ve had together or an idea of who/what I thought they were and would be..
^but that’s all it was.. an idea.
🙏🏻🩵
Paint party with the girls🎉
❤
Inner child work, parts work, understanding what the partner was showing me, ie repressed parts in myself that they were reflecting to me and help me to access. Getting and prioritising more compatible, closer and supportive friendships. Different healing modalities for clearing energy cords and such. Wishing you all the best in your healing! 🙏
Hey, friends🐇Many of you asked how I am doing, which I really appreciate. I'll be honest with you: I am probably in the best mental space I've been in for a while. I am very grateful for the amazing relationship I've had, but sometimes, the best act of love you can perform is letting go. Love you all🖤
Love you Albina, never give up on life and yourself ❤
“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore.” - Lady Gaga
Chasing your dreams will lead you to independence and make you a free woman
Unless you get cancelled, lose your job or become disabled.
I love your honesty (as usual). I think a lot more girlies relate to this than we think. If we don't work, or don't do anything outside of our role at home, we are labeled as "lazy", or a "gold digger", or we become a "trophy wife". But if we do, it begins to interfere with our personal relationships. And even if we don't experience this name-calling, ambitious women with "big" dreams cannot only think about those dreams. It's a constant tug and war between your work/purpose project and your social life & relationships.
People talk about balance all the time. But man, it's really hard.
11:49 your dad is a true inspiration of how to raise children. Please make an episode with him🙏
I think her dad it s a Capricorn or Scorpio. Truly inspirational, my target is to build a loving rich family as he did
thank you and trying to convince him🤫
@@火垂るの墓-j4t Aries! Mom is a capricorn though :)
I am always hoping she’ll interview her dad
this is officially my comfort channel 😌
so happy to hear that❣
It made me emotional how you spoke about your family and the legacy of the family business. We don't have the same circumstances, but I feel that fire inside you. One advantage I can see being born into wealth is the confidence you have to fan the flames of that fire. The affliction plaguing my humble beginnings is an inner dialogue of limitation and low self worth. If I don't feed my mind a steady diet of external positivity and surround myself with possibility, I regress into the limited thinking of my ancestors. It might be a deviation from your brand, but I selfishly want an interview with your father about how he built his empire. I love what you're doing here. It feels like a 2024 version of Tatler, but it's relevant, global... and has substance.
wow, thank you so much for such kind words as well as sharing your wisdom🖤
As a girl with the anxiety and panic, I know what you mean❤️ I hope life continues giving you peace and calm mentally.
My mom too: she was the caring one, I am more business focused :/ (both of us feminine anyways).
I also immigrated here to CA, and doing what I love. My family back in my country.
Your middle sister sounds like a gem ✨
She’s also very humble according to this comment
What about her oldest? Man.. she sounds amazing too
This is just the perfect middles siblings comment ahaha
One of your best videos, honestly. You just showed your heart and gave us a glimpse of the business and what a day in your life looks like. It felt so honest and pure. Wishing you the best, Albina. You are doing very well ❤️
Thank you, Lena
I loved your interview with Bobby now knowing that you were going through a break up wow i commend you because you were composed and not emotional the whole interview. Your desire to continue your fathers business is valid and it does not make you less feminine. Letting go of a relationship that does not serve you anymore is valid. I wish you well.
16:20 Be very careful, Albina. Your legacy is not just your family's business. It is also your health and your well-being and honoring the time you set aside for your relationship with yourself, your significant other, and future kids. The legacy your dad created is not a sacred altar at which you should burn and sacrifice the other important aspects of your life that matter to you. It is there to serve you and your descendants, and you take care of it and contribute to it, yet you are not meant to deny your other needs and desires to prop it up. There is a time to build an empire, but since you often speak about desiring a traditional relationship, remember that if you want biological children of your own, you want to do so while you are still young and healthy because that is not always guaranteed tomorrow. Yes, with your family's fortune, you can potentially extend that time with fertility treatments and even surrogates, but again, carefully consider the ramifications of overemphasizing work when you have competing timetables. There's a way to have it all, but certain things have inherent urgency.
Wow❤. This speaks to me so much. Thank you for writing this.
I agree with you
Albina thank you for been so transparent with us. You are killing it. Keep going 🫶🏽
All the best to you! Like the little view into your life and whats going on behind the scenes. Kinda also a very nice perspective on priviledge. Keep it going!
Thank you Albina for being so honest. I really appreciate you sharing your experiences and being so real and taking the risk to be vulnerable. That is pure strength! Thank you! You have become my biggest role model. I myself had that certain trembling in my hands (and sometimes it still comes back), but better times will come! That's the whole way of growing.
Not gonna lie, it was the first time I was debating if I should post it or not because it was so personal haha:) thank you for your encouragement🖤
I never comment but have been watching you since you had 10k on tiktok, and this is one of your best videos yet!
i am so honored and touched. Thank you so much for your support, it means the world to me and our team🖤
Waw, my dad wants me to stop working and travel for 2 years... Dreamdad haha amazing
Albina, you have such a strong personality and you are truly inspiring person! Please make more vlogs like this, this is very enjoyable watching! I wish you the best! ❤
I'm with you gurl! Keep those standards high!
always appreciate your realism and light-hearted narration! and your willingess to share the guarded world
/you're stronger than u know and will pass this
Wait I loved the outro music ❤️ this channel is filled with talented people and amazing researching skills 🫶🏻
Hey, Albina.
Hope you spend some time with your emotions, it’s really important to just process them slowly to get over the breakup.
The situation you’ve described is very similar to the relationship I had before, except I’m the man. Thankfully, my current partner is supportive of my working a lot - that’s really a blessing.
Please, get through it - it will get better, I promise!
I’ve also noticed that many women I know that are from well-off families (~20-30 yo) have a similar burning desire to achieve something themselves or to build out a life they envision, including my sister. You and your middle sister as well.
Makes me think there is a pattern there - generational or any other. What do you think?
I feel like nowadays we “get” the hard work it takes to be successful, so we grow up with this mindset.
I’m rambling a bit but the gist is - it’s okay to want to succeed and not be “just a stereotypical traditional wife”. You can be however you want to be.
розридалась на 11-й хвилині, бо я настільки розділяю ці думки щодо жіночності 😭 я б хотіла мати сім'ю та дітей, дуже. але ось це про благоговіння перед успішним бізнесом і вайбом Нью-Йорку... це просто жиза. теж нещодавно спіймала себе на думці, що я просто не можу віддавати стільки уваги у стосунки, особливо зараз. і я не знаю, коли це зміниться. я хочу робити внесок в економічний розвиток нашої країни, систему освіти, типу, мені здається, у мене стільки роботи, для якої потрібна саме я (і теж не з якогось токсичного примусу, це просто я так відчуваю). я думаю, ми не маємо себе переробляти. мені здається, поняття жіночності трохи викривлене. жінки буквально здатні створювати людей, це ж вимагає нереальної сили як внутрішньої, так і фізичної. у кожній жінці є щось, не побоюся цього слова, божественне. і ми в праві вирішувати, куди цю силу направляти. я не відчуваю, що створення сім'ї і створення бізнесу вимагають кардинально різних чеснот. для мене і те, і те про велику внутрішню стійкість, витривалість, і тд. тож, може, ця легка жіночність і не існує, жіночність завжди про силу? я не думаю, що з нами щось не так. просто всьому свій час, і з тією людиною все трапиться саме так, як має. все трапляється найкращим чином для нас самих. обіймаю тебе міцно.
Анна, мені також дуже близькі ваші слова про особистий внесок на благо країни. захоплює та надихає що наші люди так мислять!
і так, з нами все так само! мені просто здається життя це шлях пізнання себе та пошук балансу, і ми на цьому шляху:) дякую за такі теплі слова, обіймаю🖤
@@aliyevaalbina 🫶🏻
I'm so sorry for you. It's always though. Listen to your soul and follow that drive. You'll land on your feet, don't worry.
Alina, I really admire how you’re focused on preserving your family’s legacy while creating generational wealth. But I was curious-why did you decide to get a green card? Are you thinking about becoming a U.S. citizen? The U.S. has some of the highest taxes, and that can really dilute your wealth over time. Maybe you’ve got some insights on how to manage that while building your empire here? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
you will figure things out along the way (navigating relationships and business) , we always do ♥
Another good vlog with amazing insights❤ thank you Albina for sharing with us
thank you for watching and supporting me since DAY 1! 🖤
Your very cool Alina! Stay strong, I know you will go through this.
You are doing amazing sweetie ❤. Be your bold self always. The one who will match your fire will always appreciate you 🫶🏻
Loved this video! I appreciate you talking about yours and other’s privilege from an insiders perspective. I haven’t found any other channels that talk about the privileged in a good way, everyone just blames the rich for their problems and I hate it. While I recognize that some people are poor due to circumstances and generational poverty and trauma, others are poor bc they wasted their opportunities, are lazy, not very intelligent or simply don’t have the drive to do more with their life.
Your father is my hero. He makes me want to raise my child the same way. God Bless him. Look at you so confident and articulate even after a break up! #highselfworthgoals
Леша & Виталий yet so international 😂 Love it
Your videos bring peace of mind and feels comforting
Thanks
Hey, can you make a video on how to act around your rich friends as a new money person, without them thinking less of you? Sometimes it feels as if they are measuring their experiences and successes and it gets tiring. At this point I am not sure if I even want to continue putting effort for them and our friendship.
It's always a third child/girl who has to the responsibility on their own to take over the family business (same in my family, we have three girls and family business to take over, I am first)
love the vlog!!
We are with you❤❤❤❤
Wanna see you interviewing my your mom too! Interested in her femininity 😊
24:02 share the story please
Can you have an interview with your sisters? Talking about 2nd generation and learning about business as a 2nd generation
I loved this ❤
So we found out who the rabbit is 😁
PFP supremacy!😍
Wish u speedy healing💙💙💙
Love you queen, go go go!!!
I am very sorry. You do amazing Albina
If possible, could you please interview your eldest sister Sasha?
We are planning to do interviews with all family members🫶🏻
@@privilegedfewproductions thank you so much!
This is the dilemma of feminism and the core of some women’s desires to have a family. Is it possible to do both?
I love your channel
Great job 🔥🔥
How did you get your green card?
Can’t you get your ex on board with your production company. You’ll be unique couple, both coming from wealth.
I thought you had it in you to create something great if you combine forces.
I am sure your parents also went through times where they couldn’t give each other enough attention, but they stuck through it.
If in the core your ex is a good person, I think there always is a way to make it work and giving up is just hurting both sides
hi! If it is okay to ask I would like to know how rich kid deal with their citizenship/visa? I see many of them come here to the US or basically go everywhere for vacations. What happens if some rich kid has some 'weak' passport? Do they apply for different visa when they travel? Thanks!
YOU ARE A BOSS
Lmao. Jokes on David. You secure that generational bag girl💸
we have great respect for each other and I wish him nothing but the best:)
Let’s take on the city (nyc right?) together!! You r my modal and I m in my 40s 😅
yasssss
You are just want to realize your potential. There is nothing more natural than that. Plus clearly your dad put you on “son” role. That’s a lot of pressure
9:50
Am I beyond poor guys 🤐 like is there any chance for me🤧🤧
you should focus on running your dads massive business as opposed to your tiktok business
This is the dilemma of feminism and the core of some women’s desires to have a family. Is it possible to do both?
I don't think It is possible to do both
Yes it is, if you both work at the same business and face the same struggles at work and home, so no one says you do more, you do less. I have clients like that. But it’s too damn hard, they are extremely stressed.