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Комментарии • 151

  • @bethfeather7895
    @bethfeather7895 2 года назад +15

    I am so glad you are sharing your experience with the vaccine. Especially for your little bubba! It is so important! Thank you. Sending you and your family well wishes.

  • @tiffa1
    @tiffa1 2 года назад +58

    Good use of your platform to discuss the importance of helping the health of the community 💪🏼 It’s a divisive subject and I’m glad you’ve leaned into it when others wouldn’t, to prevent causing a stir.

    • @krissywilhelmsen4359
      @krissywilhelmsen4359 2 года назад +12

      I agree! Vaccination is so important and I'm so glad that you are sharing your vax journey as I hope that it may encourage others who may be hesitant

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +5

      thank you ❣️

    • @SarahSmith-nr2wj
      @SarahSmith-nr2wj 2 года назад +1

      Anybody here research what's in it?

    • @tiffa1
      @tiffa1 2 года назад

      @@SarahSmith-nr2wj chemicals in different quantities deemed safe by various scientific bodies and deemed effective at teaching the immune system how to respond more effectively to the covid 19 virus… everything is made up of similar chemicals in different quantities…

  • @sarahowick5456
    @sarahowick5456 2 года назад +53

    Been watching for a few years and always loved your content. I love it even more now that you've shared your vaccine experience. It's so important for people with influence to do so. Well done and thank you!

    • @ezilram
      @ezilram 2 года назад

      I am going to wear sunscreen so YOU dont get sunburned sounds stupid hey

    • @suzanneleroux5473
      @suzanneleroux5473 2 года назад +4

      @@ezilram Do you even know how vaccines work?! Not even remotely comparable with sunscreen.

    • @ezilram
      @ezilram 2 года назад

      @@suzanneleroux5473 why should people encourage others to take a shot ( gene therapy) that has NO long term safety studies for a “virus” that has a 99% recovery rate. Looks to me people only take it to go back to “ normal” it’s part of agenda 2030. We will never go back to normal welcome to the one world order.

    • @suzanneleroux5473
      @suzanneleroux5473 2 года назад +3

      @@ezilram Firstly, Ellie never encouraged anyone to do anything they are uncomfortable with. As for the rest of your comment: the vaccine does not alter dna, it is not “gene therapy” because it never interacts with your chromosomes. It’s easy for you to say “yeah it’s only 1% casualty so fuck that 1%, I wanna live my life”, but what if that 1% is one of your family members? And it isn’t only the death toll that the vaccine reduces. It reduces the load on public hospitals because of the decreasing number of severe cases. The medical equipment can then be used for other diseases or conditions that isn’t as easily treated as a vaccine.

  • @kellynabors516
    @kellynabors516 2 года назад +15

    Thank you so much for thinking of others!

  • @katiewainwright4998
    @katiewainwright4998 2 года назад +1

    Look forward to your vlogs every week! You create such natural, relatable and down to earth content. Thank you for sharing an insight into your life! Such a beautiful family x

  • @alizastrock4841
    @alizastrock4841 2 года назад +4

    Alex’s knife skills are v impressive! Also Bowie’s laughing in the car is just the sweetest sound in the world 💜 lots of deliciousness here too that ramen! Yum!!!

  • @ashvinaliusinnetamby5046
    @ashvinaliusinnetamby5046 2 года назад +1

    I get such good vibes and energy from watching your videos 🥺💗 I have hopes of moving to Australia in a couple of years, and your videos always motivates me more and more!! 🙌🏻

  • @michellew8066
    @michellew8066 2 года назад +1

    we need that potato salad! looks good! love your content!!!! I look forward to it each week! I also love that you drink - so relatable and so balanced. You should show us more cocktails that you make! I need some inspiration!

  • @chloerayner4673
    @chloerayner4673 2 года назад

    ahhh I love these vlogs so much. so keen to visit those farmers markets hopefully one day 🤞and try the wrap. Bowie is so cute and is definitely showing his cheeky side 🥰

  • @jessrobertson5063
    @jessrobertson5063 2 года назад +41

    Yes to vaccine talk!!! thanks for sharing! 🎉🎉

  • @Chantal-Brose
    @Chantal-Brose 2 года назад +3

    Lol the honey yogurt scene and when you scoop it up and out!! LOL. Totally something my boyfriend would've done along with the poking the nose with the noodle on the end part made me LOL Hilarious! Bowie is totally awesome and you guys are doing such a fantastic job!!!

  • @danicasawtell7148
    @danicasawtell7148 2 года назад

    Great video! As always your food looks incredible!

  • @Mar-js1er
    @Mar-js1er 2 года назад

    More power Elsa and to your lovely fam!

  • @juliaarchibald5859
    @juliaarchibald5859 2 года назад +20

    Really enjoying your vlogs and insta stories lately! Feel like we are seeing a new side to you and it is so nice :) Congrats on the vax! We are the same, glad to be a part of the solution of getting out of this… plus getting to see family and friends again is SO worth the dead arm heheh

  • @roskidd
    @roskidd 2 года назад +3

    love this food content!! needing that recipe for the crispy potato salad and the creamy ramen 🥺

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад

      thank you!! 😋 yes i needa make a ramen recipe up like that! you can find it on the marley spoon website if you google spicy vegan mince ramen marleyspoon.com.au/menu/47708-v2-plant-based-mince-ramen-with-chilli-leek-and-corn

  • @linaaguilar4548
    @linaaguilar4548 2 года назад

    Such a Beautiful parenting, so inspiring.

  • @daphnephilipona4519
    @daphnephilipona4519 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your coconut margarita! Looks amazing! Ahah and love how you said Cointreau!
    Cheers and love from Switzerland

  • @agathaohoshley5630
    @agathaohoshley5630 2 года назад +1

    I have the same reaction when somebody messes with my cooking😂 at least it was a quick save😉 and that salad looked fab!

  • @KristineOleary
    @KristineOleary 2 года назад +13

    yeeeee proud of you for getting your vaccine and sharing that!! Amazing 💪🏻

  • @traveltwoeat.weltenbummler
    @traveltwoeat.weltenbummler 2 года назад +1

    Hi Ellie, love your videos. Im curious about the airfrier. Why do you like it so much? Can it do anything that an oven can't? Love from Portugal ❤️

  • @estherkurniawan
    @estherkurniawan 2 года назад

    I got so excited when I saw the notification! Bowie is adorable! He is growing up so much, what a privilege to watch him grow :)

  • @hollydean4126
    @hollydean4126 2 года назад

    Love the content as always!
    Just wondering what brand the kitchen knife is that you’re using?

  • @Pajalachannel
    @Pajalachannel 2 года назад +1

    The Christmas music was a nice touch haha

  • @helenaj2509
    @helenaj2509 2 года назад

    the "meaty" sauce from your meaty lasagne just over pasta is a great quick and easy end of week dinner! don't need to worry about lots of fresh veggies going sad in the fridge :) a very common one at our place x

  • @olivianevins6265
    @olivianevins6265 2 года назад +1

    Hi Ellie, I seen you’ve been having issues with Bowie eating for a little while. My son is the same age and we had the exact same problem and we actually got a blood test and he was low in in iron, after a month of taking a supplement he eats a lot better now and is less fussy with food 🙂

  • @lynndaniels4935
    @lynndaniels4935 2 года назад

    The salad lunch looked delicious 🤤 I will try to copy the recipe 😘

  • @CaseyWiggin
    @CaseyWiggin 2 года назад

    Keep going with these amazing videos!!

  • @georgetteedwards9017
    @georgetteedwards9017 2 года назад

    Bowie in the car is my everyday vibe 😍

  • @taylamae3421
    @taylamae3421 2 года назад

    Loved this babe! What was the 3rd thing you added into your salad? The grated looking white stuff? And what was the dark green after that? Haha x

  • @erinloi
    @erinloi 2 года назад

    Adorable, thanks for sharing. Where is Bowie’s cute outfits from? X

  • @camilastanzione
    @camilastanzione 2 года назад +1

    loved it as always! hard work on the juice haha, anyways if you do that you take all the fiber out right? I love to drink it as it is, similar to a smoothie

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +1

      yeah, i just don’t think all the fibre of celery tastes great 😂 might just use my cold press juicer next time haha !!

  • @RakelsAlignedLife
    @RakelsAlignedLife 2 года назад

    that mio wrap sounded amazing

  • @oceana3070
    @oceana3070 2 года назад

    Ohohoho no, I felt for you with the juice! I did the same recently and all the blended pith and seeds made it thick and not pleasant. If you guys are into SMEG I highly recommend their basic citrus juicer. We have an orange tree and it’s totally lifted my juice game 🍊. I’m collecting all the SMEG appliances in blue ✨

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад

      haha omg such a nightmare experience ! i think i spent over 30 min making that and then it tastes horrid 😂😂😂😂

  • @allisonlikesyellow
    @allisonlikesyellow 2 года назад +1

    Way to get vaccinated! I gave birth March 2020 in the US and have basically been in quarantine for 18 months. I was luckily still breastfeeding when I got both of my vaccines. It such a hard time and it helps to see others do their part and get vaccinated to help us get one step closer to being out of quarantine. Thank you for using your platform to show yourself!

  • @dmaitri4624
    @dmaitri4624 2 года назад +15

    I'm happy to know that you got the vaccine. Thank you for sharing your experience! 💕

  • @kiahreid6399
    @kiahreid6399 2 года назад +1

    Yet another video that I loved!! Love these insights into your life, thank you so much for sharing with us! Bowie is growing up so much, very cute ☺️💛

  • @allymichelle2255
    @allymichelle2255 2 года назад +1

    This video makes me feel so much better about how my toddler eats. He is the same age as Bowie and he does all the same things with his food. It’s hard to stay calm about how meal times go every day lol.

  • @isabellagoodwin2684
    @isabellagoodwin2684 2 года назад

    This is the life that I manifest as a 19 year old. Incredible El

  • @michellewood7183
    @michellewood7183 2 года назад

    Hi Lovely.
    What shampoo do you use?
    Bowie too?
    Your hair always gorgeous Xx

  • @saralauri96
    @saralauri96 2 года назад

    what brand air fryer did you purchase, I've been on the hunt for a good one but not sure which one to purchase?

  • @priyak5642
    @priyak5642 2 года назад

    Where’s your bom dia t-shirt from? Also all the food looks amazing 😻

  • @christinewaldvogel174
    @christinewaldvogel174 2 года назад

    What knife do you use (large one cutting the fruit) and do you have to sharpen it?

  • @clairem5266
    @clairem5266 2 года назад

    where are all your cooking knives, pots and pans from?

  • @RakelsAlignedLife
    @RakelsAlignedLife 2 года назад +4

    “how do you not like that it’s potato” 😂😂

  • @AgataZKurnatowic
    @AgataZKurnatowic 2 года назад

    Funny looking at Bowie. My son is the same age and behave so familiar! Throwing food away, shouting:) I’m jelaous You live in such a warm country!

  • @kaitlynfresh
    @kaitlynfresh 2 года назад

    Where is that white top from!??😍😍

  • @RakelsAlignedLife
    @RakelsAlignedLife 2 года назад

    I LOVE MY AIRFRYER. I make baked oats and mugcakes in there too lol

  • @Hattie167
    @Hattie167 2 года назад

    LOVE your Bom Dia tee! Could we please know where it is from?

  • @racheld4314
    @racheld4314 2 года назад

    What's the dressing you use on the kale in your potato salad? x

  • @mariarozon2950
    @mariarozon2950 2 года назад

    I was wondering how Bowie does with that plate without any suction. So funny when he poured it into his lap😀

  • @wild.beautifulchaos1638
    @wild.beautifulchaos1638 2 года назад +3

    Yum, what is this salad recipe 😋

  • @lachantal830
    @lachantal830 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for your videos 🤗 and for sharing you vaccine experience 🥰
    I have done the vaccine too 🙌🏻!

  • @tianeblackman5549
    @tianeblackman5549 2 года назад

    do you have a recipe for the salad or the sauce you put on the kale :) x

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад

      i put some tahini ranch i made, coconut yoghurt, and lemon juice :)

  • @TheBlondeAround
    @TheBlondeAround 2 года назад

    Bowie is so cute OMG

  • @mikat2782
    @mikat2782 2 года назад

    Bowie and the rake 😂😍

  • @hayleyphelps8774
    @hayleyphelps8774 2 года назад +1

    Where is your pink set from? 😍

  • @bethsummerfield9855
    @bethsummerfield9855 2 года назад +4

    Congrats on your vaccination! xo

  • @michellewood7183
    @michellewood7183 2 года назад

    The little meal Bowie has it looks yummy my son likes the Annabelle meals at woolies and coles.
    I have to laugh Bowie and the rack...lol
    Gorgeous Family Xxx
    Boys their so annoying....lol

  • @chanelrocko7604
    @chanelrocko7604 2 года назад

    Ah where is your Bom Dia top from? Love all you vids for what I eat so inspiring!!!

  • @jford8545
    @jford8545 2 года назад

    Do you have to put oil on the potatoes when you put them in an air fryer?

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад

      yep! i do! you don’t have too but i think it makes them yummier 🤗

  • @ellegreen4492
    @ellegreen4492 2 года назад +1

    The juicing 😂😂😂

  • @ktht23
    @ktht23 2 года назад

    What brand is your air fryer ?🤩

  • @jasminclasby6270
    @jasminclasby6270 2 года назад

    Hey lovely
    Where is your lilac set from? It’s gorgeous😍

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад

      i don’t recall wearing a lilac set in this video 🤔 was it a pink knitted set??

    • @jasminclasby6270
      @jasminclasby6270 2 года назад

      @@ElsasWholesomeLife lol, yeah I just went back and looked. Clearly I’m colour blind. Definitely pink haha

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад

      haha!! all good, it’s a sample for my brand 😌😌😌

  • @ashleami
    @ashleami 2 года назад +1

    Where's the outfit you wore in the sponsor part from? 😍

  • @emmapowell9878
    @emmapowell9878 2 года назад

    Recipe for that salad pleeeeease

  • @epppm
    @epppm 2 года назад +6

    Long time watcher, first time commenter.. thanks for sharing your vaccination! It’s so important ❤️❤️

  • @anisamaity6526
    @anisamaity6526 2 года назад

    SOO SOOOO AMAZINGGGG...COOL 😘😘😘🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @melissa_vignone
    @melissa_vignone 2 года назад

    One good top if you want Bowie to eat all the food on his plate, my husband would read my toddler a book and I would feed him food 🤣 distractions works a treat. We do that if we knew he didn’t eat enough because let’s us face it, we don’t want overnight wakings because our toddlers are hungry lol. 👏🏼

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +1

      haha yesss i love this because we do this some nights too! the funniest thing is so often he assumes he doesn’t like a food but if we distract him and give him some he will realise he actually likes it 🥴😌

    • @melissa_vignone
      @melissa_vignone 2 года назад

      @@ElsasWholesomeLife Haha that’s right! Oh also, when you fed Bowie the potatoe dipped in yoghurt, Yummm and he spat it out, maybe because it was a little too big 🤷🏻‍♀️ cut it even smaller and he probably would of ate the whole potatoe. Usually toddlers get “scared” of big pieces even though it’s safe to eat. Just a thought. Sometimes my 2.5 year old will say “mummy big” and I will cut it in half ☺️

  • @ellen9018
    @ellen9018 2 года назад +5

    Hey Ellie, just wondering how you went about initially introducing Bowie to non-vegan allergens such as dairy, egg and shellfish? I’ve been vegan for over 12 years but I’m keen to do what I can to prevent allergies in my daughter who is starting solids soon, so I will be giving her all allergens, following Solid Starts 100 Days Program (though I don’t think I can handle introducing meat).
    Whilst I would prefer she stays on a plant based diet as a child, I of course can’t control her diet forever and don’t want to put her at risk of anaphylaxis if I can avoid it (I know it’s complicated and it’s not always preventable). Is this something you’d be happy to talk more about? x

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +6

      yeah for sure! we followed the same protocols for introducing allergens as recommended, like for the nuts we used nut butters, once at a time etc. but it’s also important for them to have regular exposure so while we don’t cook things like shellfish at home, if we are at a restaurant we will order something like that so he can have it more than just the 2-3 times, if that makes sense? he eats eggs regularly now, and we don’t have dairy in our household so we just buy some dairy from time to time and swap between the vegan alternatives and dairy versions so he’s getting regular exposure.
      hope this was somewhat helpful! let me know if there’s a specific question 😊

    • @ellen9018
      @ellen9018 2 года назад

      @@ElsasWholesomeLife thank you so much for the detailed reply. This makes complete sense. I have hated the smell of seafood my whole life so honestly the prospect of cooking it is daunting af. Makes sense to do it when dining out. A lot easier now that we’re out of Sydney lockdown too! Thanks again x

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +1

      yeah haha!! although for initial 2-3 exposures definitely do these at home so you can monitor bub closely 🤗🥰

    • @priyak5642
      @priyak5642 2 года назад

      @@ElsasWholesomeLife we are vegan and I haven’t exposed my baby to shellfish yet as we don’t eat it, but it , cook it or even like it. Do you think I should? Worried now!

  • @mollieefrances
    @mollieefrances 2 года назад

    Ooo where is your Bom Dia shirt from?

  • @nicoledavies7735
    @nicoledavies7735 2 года назад

    Hello! Where is your two piece white outfit from please??

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +1

      hmmm i can’t remember what i was wearing do you have time stamp? xx

    • @tegancampbell8341
      @tegancampbell8341 2 года назад +1

      20:17

    • @nicoledavies7735
      @nicoledavies7735 2 года назад

      @@ElsasWholesomeLife Hello yes, here is a link to the time: ruclips.net/video/sAZaw3TC7Dk/видео.html (I don't know how to do it shorter like Tegan has above sorry).
      Love your video's and the wholesome store! Thank you xx

  • @mariahcowan3509
    @mariahcowan3509 2 года назад

    Where is your pink two piece set from? 😍 every meal looked unreal xxx

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +2

      the pale pink knitted one is new samples 🤗🥰

    • @mariahcowan3509
      @mariahcowan3509 2 года назад

      @@ElsasWholesomeLife I can’t wait to get my hands on it, in love with it 😍 xxx

  • @Joanhunte7752
    @Joanhunte7752 2 года назад +1

    Isn't Bowie the cutest of the cute! Sometimes I look at him & think you could quite easily mistake him for a little girl,😄So Beautiful pretty & gorrrrgeous. Just love love you guy's Your so AWSOME!😍❤❤❤

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад

      haha he gets mistaken for a girl often 🥲

    • @Joanhunte7752
      @Joanhunte7752 2 года назад

      @@ElsasWholesomeLife He's just so Beautiful!😍

  • @HarrietBeattie
    @HarrietBeattie 2 года назад +1

    Jeez Alex is so fast and good at chopping... was he a chef in a past life or something :)

  • @hippiegirl5828
    @hippiegirl5828 2 года назад

    Cool

  • @alainajane23
    @alainajane23 2 года назад

    Just use the juicer 🤪

  • @echoecho8291
    @echoecho8291 2 года назад +1

    Love your videos it’s literally life goals 🌸😍 Alex has some knife skills! 🔪would you be interested in doing a what’s in my kitchen / kitchen essentials video 😍 love your food content. Love your little family 🐶

  • @user-yd6sc5ps9i
    @user-yd6sc5ps9i 2 года назад

    love you your vlogs your f

  • @ranibriggs9519
    @ranibriggs9519 2 года назад

    At least you didn't get juice on your white tshirt 😂

  • @klaroization
    @klaroization 2 года назад +1

    Hey Elsa! Would love to know why you’ve forward faced Bowie so early?! My sons 18 months and we want to forward face because he’s just miserable in the car these days, but everything’s telling us not to?! 😩

    • @klaroization
      @klaroization 2 года назад

      Ooh and where are the plates from that you use for him?! Xx loved this vlog so lovely 😌

    • @christinewaldvogel174
      @christinewaldvogel174 2 года назад

      I do know it is dependant on weight, so if they are already at the weight allowed you can do it.

    • @Jane22223
      @Jane22223 2 года назад

      @@christinewaldvogel174 australia doesn’t use weight based seats :)

  • @christinewaldvogel174
    @christinewaldvogel174 2 года назад

    Curious....have you ever eaten gluten free? And if so, why did you stop? Did it make you feel better eating gluten free or did nothing for you?

  • @RakelsAlignedLife
    @RakelsAlignedLife 2 года назад

    I got my 2nd dose yesterday and i feel so so awful and sick now😩😩

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +4

      hope you feel better soon! from all reports i’ve heard it passes in 1-2 days

    • @RakelsAlignedLife
      @RakelsAlignedLife 2 года назад

      @@ElsasWholesomeLife thanks xx hope yours goes well too

    • @RakelsAlignedLife
      @RakelsAlignedLife 2 года назад +1

      @@jenaya_laila2442 true lol

  •  2 года назад +2

    I cannot handle how cute Bowie is especially his Lil ponytail 😍😍😍

  • @kirstydowning5124
    @kirstydowning5124 2 года назад +10

    Thank you for sharing that your getting your Covid vacc ! Fully vaccinated breastfeeding mum here too 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @albanycedeno1108
    @albanycedeno1108 2 года назад

    Next time use a spoon to move the pulp in the colander

  • @user-rx7lc1od7w
    @user-rx7lc1od7w 2 года назад +1

    drinking and breastfeeding is ok?

  • @nelehprice5933
    @nelehprice5933 2 года назад

    Does no one else think she’s pregnant

    • @nelehprice5933
      @nelehprice5933 2 года назад

      Wait I just saw her drinking alcohol oops

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад

      hahahah plenty of alcohol consumed across the weekend 🥲😋

    • @ElsasWholesomeLife
      @ElsasWholesomeLife  2 года назад +1

      but what made you think i could be? 🤔🙃

  • @jennalouise4161
    @jennalouise4161 2 года назад +16

    Kinda wish you put a trigger warning that this had jab talk, some people have a lot of trouble mentally surrounding this whole situation. :(

    • @ellaa5528
      @ellaa5528 2 года назад +26

      Bit of a unavoidable situation

    • @happyhappyaus2128
      @happyhappyaus2128 2 года назад +22

      Get a grip!!!!!!!

    • @danielanereu3799
      @danielanereu3799 2 года назад +5

      Lolol

    • @sarahowick5456
      @sarahowick5456 2 года назад +5

      what lol?

    • @juliaarchibald5859
      @juliaarchibald5859 2 года назад +16

      She was so gentle with sharing her opinions on this, if you are feeling stressed about people sharing their vax feelings, this is probably the calmest way to have someone speak about it!