She probably doesn't really know what that means either. Exes have a tendency to say vague yet "promising" things to keep you holding on because they don't really want you to move on from them either. The problem becomes they have little to no intention of follow through or taking any action.
Me and my ex ended up our relatioship in good terms, we were hugging and kissing and both of us were really sad at the moment. we broke up after she felt "left behind" and told me she cares about me and that she doesn't want to be a problem for me. We are on NC for at least 3 weeks, i've made significant changes in my life since then, changed things that made her upset and learned my mistakes. We were togheter for 4 years and a half. Should i talk to her during the holydays and try to meet her in person?
how much time of NC did you make? i called and we chated for about an hour, couldn't change her opinion, she's on the first stages of the post breakup yet, gotta wait a little longer. i wish you the best of luck my friend! don't surrender @@mafox3059
Happy holidays clay! Clay me and my ex have been hanging out so much in the past month at least 5 days of the week she’s accepting gifts from us we’ve been connecting emotionally a lot more then we have the past 7 months we’ve been divorced. She’s not telling me any negative resistances as much but she still doesn’t want to get back together. I’ll throw little hints here and there but she’s not budging is their something I need to increase or slow down on?
My has got into a rebound relationship 5 days after she broke up with me. It's been about a month and a half since then. She still stalks my social media and tells everyone she wants to be friends with me, but ignores me.
Had a positive interraction last week, this time had more depth than usual, still playful. This week she’s kinda lukewarm cold ish, still happy to see me but emotionally unavailable. Looking at the big picture theres progress yes, but part of me thinks, maybe its wishful thinking.
@@tb87670 I see. today she went from lukewarm to cold and slighly hostile. Like if i slapped their mom or something. Have you experienced anything like this? Like as she tried to make a point, not sure what though, last week we got closer than ever.
@@garden6300 Yes, I'm experiencing this a lot. From kissing her on cheek as she leans in for that, then she fabricates a mini-argument a few days later. Seems like positive pullbacks. Stage 3 riding the dragon really sucks like this
The last thing my ex told me. That she doesn't know how our relationship will be in the future. I'm not even sure what that even means.
She probably doesn't really know what that means either. Exes have a tendency to say vague yet "promising" things to keep you holding on because they don't really want you to move on from them either. The problem becomes they have little to no intention of follow through or taking any action.
Do you need help to fix your relationship or your problem ❤❤
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Whassp
Me and my ex ended up our relatioship in good terms, we were hugging and kissing and both of us were really sad at the moment. we broke up after she felt "left behind" and told me she cares about me and that she doesn't want to be a problem for me. We are on NC for at least 3 weeks, i've made significant changes in my life since then, changed things that made her upset and learned my mistakes. We were togheter for 4 years and a half. Should i talk to her during the holydays and try to meet her in person?
Do you need help to fix your relationship or your problem ❤❤
Whassp
Bro I am in the similiar situation. I am going to call her tommorow
how much time of NC did you make? i called and we chated for about an hour, couldn't change her opinion, she's on the first stages of the post breakup yet, gotta wait a little longer. i wish you the best of luck my friend! don't surrender
@@mafox3059
Happy holidays clay! Clay me and my ex have been hanging out so much in the past month at least 5 days of the week she’s accepting gifts from us we’ve been connecting emotionally a lot more then we have the past 7 months we’ve been divorced. She’s not telling me any negative resistances as much but she still doesn’t want to get back together. I’ll throw little hints here and there but she’s not budging is their something I need to increase or slow down on?
Do you need help to fix your relationship or your problem ❤❤
*@✛2347025934857👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴。
Whassp
I would definitely give it time, don’t push it more right now, try to match her energy
My has got into a rebound relationship 5 days after she broke up with me. It's been about a month and a half since then. She still stalks my social media and tells everyone she wants to be friends with me, but ignores me.
Do you need help to fix your relationship or your problem ❤❤
*@✛2347025934857👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴。
Whassp
Had a positive interraction last week, this time had more depth than usual, still playful. This week she’s kinda lukewarm cold ish, still happy to see me but emotionally unavailable. Looking at the big picture theres progress yes, but part of me thinks, maybe its wishful thinking.
It's been going like that for me for months now. Slow baby steps here and there then stuck in hot/cold for a while.
@@tb87670 I see. today she went from lukewarm to cold and slighly hostile. Like if i slapped their mom or something. Have you experienced anything like this? Like as she tried to make a point, not sure what though, last week we got closer than ever.
@@garden6300 Yes, I'm experiencing this a lot. From kissing her on cheek as she leans in for that, then she fabricates a mini-argument a few days later. Seems like positive pullbacks. Stage 3 riding the dragon really sucks like this
Do you need help to fix your relationship or your problem ❤❤
*@✛2347025934857👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴。
Doubtful as she’s really trying to make her new relationship work
Do you need help to fix your relationship or your problem ❤❤
*@✛2347025934857👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥🪴🪴❄️❄️🔮香港的决定令人高兴。
Whassp
What if your ex is not even responding to you....