#89 Should Husbands ALLOW Their Wives To Work? || Chai With My Bhai
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- Опубликовано: 3 авг 2024
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*_It is FARD/obligatory upon The True Muslim to affirm the Asma/Names & Sifat/Attributes of Allah, without committing:1️⃣Tahreef:To attach figurative & metaphorical meanings to the attributes of Allah, while denying the apparent meaning of the attribute2️⃣Ta'teel:Leaving & vacating🔥Negation/Denial of His Attributes & denial of His Self & Being. Denial of the real meaning proved by the Quran & Sunnah🔥Tahreef includes Tateel but Ta'teel does not include Tahreef🔥There are 2 types of Tateel:❌️1)Absolute Tateel: Which the Jahamiyyah committed:Denying all attributes of Allah❌️2)Partial Tateel:Which the Ash’ariyya & maturidiyya commit:Denying all attributes of Allah by Tahreef & affirming only 7 (Ashariyah) & 8 (Maturidiyah) attributes of Allah3️⃣Takyeef:To have faith that the Attributes of Allah are such & such or to put questions as to the state of His Attributes. The term "beghair Takyeef' means that the AhlusSunnah deny having knowledge of Allah's condition as Allah alone knows the state of His Self & His Attributes4️⃣Tamtheel: To have faith that the Attributes of Allah are like the Attributes of His creatures5️⃣Tafweed: To have faith that it’s not the apparent meaning which is meant but only Allah alone knows the meanings of the attributes6️⃣Tajseem:To have faith that Allah has a body. (We as AhlusSunnah neither affirm nor negate the attribute of body, since nothing has come in Quran & Sunnah concerning it & Aqeeda is a matter purely based on Revelation/Wahi as mentioned by Shaykh IbnUthaymeen RAHIMAHULLAH & Shaykhul Islam IbnTaymiyyah RAHIMAHULLAH✅So we do NOT affirm that He has a body while affirming his attributes). The Salaf understood the meanings of the passages of the Quran & the Sunnah & proved these meanings in the favour of Allah. However they would submit the knowledge of the reality (how of the attribute) To Allah. Imam Malik RAHIMAHULLAH was asked about the state of Istawa (Rising Above) of Allah on the Throne, he said Istawa is known but ‘how’ He ascended is unknown. The code of conduct of the AhlusSunnah wal Jamah is as the clear Quran’s verse:“There is nothing like Him.”-Quran (112:4)✔️The correct Aqeeda therefore, is NOT that the Attributes are completely denied as is the way of the Mutazila🔥(A Deviant sect), NOR is it to try to prove them completely as is the way of the Mumathila🔥(Another deviant sect✏Rather the true Aqeeda is to make an affirmation of the Attributes without similitudes/likeness✅SALAFIYYAH✅️_*
*Breaking down DEVIANT AQEEDAH OF SUFI/deobandis/asharis/matureedis🛐❌1️⃣They claim to follow imam AbuHanifa infact they follow him only in fiqhi issues, so they can fight with us that fold hands below navel or dont do Raful-Yadayen2️⃣The aqeedah of sufi/ashari/maturidi/deobandi is of sufi🔥WAllahu Alam from where they got this Shirk belief🔥Their aqeedah is of Mohammad bin Mohammad matrudi🔥If you know that matrudi is the fiqh who are wrong in the tawheed asma-wa-siffat of Allah.. They don't believe in every names of Allah, holding on only 7-8🔥They were wrong before & they're still wrong❌3️⃣Whilst in performing deeds they follow Sufi's 4 sub categories qadiri→chishti→naqshabandi→suharwardi👎🏻They're undercover Sufi🛐❌4️⃣SUFI/ASHARI/MATUREEDI/Deobandi claim that they follow 4 imams, but they follow imam matrudi in aqeedah & in fiqh they follow imam AbuHanifa, they leave 3 Imams as if they never existed!*_
*_WHERE IS ALLAH⁉️ImamAbuHanifah☝🏻AbuMutiAlBalkhi reported:I asked Imam AbuHanifah about a person who says:I do NOT know whether my Rab (Allah) is above the heavens or on earth⁉️AbuHanifah said:A person who makes such a statement becomes an apostate because Allah, the Exalted says:The Merciful has ascended above THE ARSH & THE ARSH OF ALLAH IS ABOVE HIS HEAVENS🔥I ALSO ASKED ABUHANIFAH🔥What if such a person admits, Allah is above His Arsh BUT EXCLAIMS:I do not know whether His Arsh is above the heavens or on earth‼️AbuHanifah responded🗣If he denies that the Arsh is above the heavens, he is an apostate‼️If the person apostatizes by saying that he did not know where is the ARSH of Allah, then by right a person who denies the Loftiness of Allah altogether is definitely worse than an apostate🔥ImamMalik🔥Abdullah binNafi reported:MalikBinAnas said:ALLAH IS ABOVE THE HEAVENS BUT HIS KNOWLEDGE encompasses everything. NOTHING ESCAPES HIS KNOWLEDGE🔥ImamShafi said:THE CREED which I hold is the same creed the MUSLIMS BEFORE me were holding, namely, the Testimony of Faith:There is no god worthy of being worshipped except Allah, that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah & that Allah is ABOVE HIS ARSH, above the heavens. He descends to the lowest heaven whenever He wishes📚ImamBinKhuzaimah a SHAFI himself said:Whoever DOES NOT BELIEVE that Allah is above His ARSH☝🏻Above His 7 HEAVENS & THAT HE IS SEPARATE from His creatures, is a KAFIR🔥Such person must be ordered to repent & disavow his belief or else he must be beheaded and thrown on a garbage dump so that neither Ahlul-Qiblah nor Ahludth-dthimmah be annoyed by the foul odour of his carcass🔥AbuBakr MuhammadatTamimi, a Shafi'ite imam of Naisabur said:"I do not pray behind a person who denies the attributes of Allah & does not recognise that Allah is above His Arsh🔥ImamAhmad🔥He was asked: Is Allah above His Arsh, above the 7th heaven, separate from His creatures, & is His knowledge & power encompassing everything everywhere⁉️He replied:'Certainly, He is above His Arsh & NOTHING escapes His knowledge. All of the above show that the entire Muslim ummah, in the past & present, is in unison regarding the belief in the Loftiness & SUPREMACY OF ALLAH THE EXALTED_*
*_5 PILLARS OF ISLAM1⃣SHAHADAH2⃣SALAH3⃣ZAKAH4⃣SAWM5⃣HAJJ_*
*_6 PILLARS OF EMAN1⃣AMANTU BILLAHI2⃣WAMALAIKATIH3⃣WAKUTUBIH4⃣WARUSULIH5⃣WALYAWMILAKHIR6⃣WALQADRI KHAYRIHI WASHARRIHI MINALLAH_*
*THERE ARE 17 FARD/COMPULSORY RAKATS OF 5 DAILY PRAYERS✅OF WHICH 11 ARE BATINI/QUIET RAKATS & 6 ARE JAHRI/LOUD RAKATS✅SURAH FATIHA MUST BE RECITED IN EVERY RAKAH AS PROVEN IN MANY SAHIH HADITHS & SURAH FATIHA IS NOT FORGIVEN OR EXCUSED FOR ANYONE WHETHER ITS THE IMAM OR CONGREGANTS/THE ONES PRAYING BEHIND AN IMAM✅ALL THE SAHABA RECITED SURAH FATIHA EVEN IN THE LOUD RAKATS WHERE THE IMAM FINISHES HIS FATIHA AS PROVEN FROM ALL THE SAHIH HADITHS ABOVE*
1⃣4⃣ *PILLARS OF SALAH1⃣STANDING2⃣OPENING TAKBIR3⃣SURAH FATIHA 4 BOTH IMAM & CONGREGANTS4⃣RUKU/BOWING5⃣STAND FROM RUKU6⃣SUJOOD/PROSTRATING7⃣RISING FROM SUJOOD8⃣JALSA/SITTING BETWEEN 2 SUJOODS9⃣CALMNESS IN ALL ACTIONS OF SALAH🔟PERFORMING ALL PILLARS IN ORDER1⃣1⃣FINAL TASHAHHUD1⃣2⃣SITTING DOWN 4 IT1⃣3⃣SENDING SALAT ON MUHAMMADﷺ1⃣4⃣2 TASLEEMS* ☑
8⃣ *WAJIBAT OF SALAH1⃣ALL TAKBIRS EXCEPT OPENING TAKBIR (SINCE ITS A PILLAR)2⃣SAY SAMIALLAHU LIMAN HAMIDAH 4 BOTH IMAM & CONGREGANTS3⃣SAY RABBANA WALAKAL HAMD4⃣DURING RUKU SAY SUBHANA RABBIYAL AZEEM5⃣DURING SUJOOD SAY SUBHANA RABBIYAL A'LA6⃣BETWEEN 2 SUJOODS SAY RABBIGHFIRLEE7⃣1ST TASHAHHUD8⃣SITTING DOWN 4 IT* ☑
Hadith
*حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ، مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلاَءِ حَدَّثَنَا زَيْدُ بْنُ الْحُبَابِ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَامِرٍ الْعَقَدِيُّ، ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنِيعٍ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو أَحْمَدَ الزُّبَيْرِيُّ، قَالُوا حَدَّثَنَا كَثِيرُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ رُبَيْحِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ، أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ قَالَ*
*لاَ وُضُوءَ لِمَنْ لَمْ يَذْكُرِ اسْمَ اللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ*
*It was narrated from AbuSaeed that:The Messenger of Allah said: "There is no ablution for one who does not mention the Name of Allah (before doing it)✅Hasan✅Darussalam💧Vol. 1 Hadith 397 Book 1 Hadith 429 Ibn Majah*
💧 *WUDU MUST BE MADE WITH CORRECT STEP BY STEP PROCEDURE EVEN IF A PERSON DIPS IN A POOL OR TAKES A FULL SHOWER💧BCUZ 1 OF THE CONDITIONS OF WUDU IS IT MUST BE DONE IN CORRECT ORDER💧YOU CAN MAKE WUDU ANYTIME💧WITH OR WITHOUT CLOTHES WUDU IS VALID💧REMOVING CLOTHES DOES NOT BREAK OR SPOIL WUDU IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM* ✅
*1 Wash hands starting from the fingers to the wrist 3 times* *2 Rinse & gargle ur mouth thoroughly & spit out 3 times* *3 Hold water with right hand close to nose & inhale & sniff some water slowly inside & clean the nostrils & blow out the water from the nose itself 3 times* *4 Wash entire face 3 times with both hands cupped with water & it must reach ear to ear door as well as from forehead hair line to neck* *5 Wash right hand starting again from the fingertips to elbows 3 times* *6 Wash left hand likewise* *7 Take little water with both your wet hands & wipe your entire head from forehead to the back of your neck & WIPE BACK TO THE FOREHEAD IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION ONLY ONCE!* *8 Use wet index fingers to clean the inside of ears & thumbs to clean the outside ONCE* *9 Finally wash right foot upto the ankle thrice* *10 Wash left ankle likewise*
⛔☝🏻💡 *CORRECT YOUR MISTAKES IN WUDU💧ESPECIALLY ISTINSHAAQ=CLEANING THE NOSTRILS☝🏻I ESPECIALLY ALERTED ABOUT ISTINSHAAQ BCUZ MOST people just sprinkle water into their noses without even INHALING & sniffing it inside AND EXHALING & BOWING IT OUT BY THE NOSE ITSELF!👃💧THIS IS THE ONLY VALID METHOD❗✔IF YOUR WUDU ABLUTION IS INVALID, ALL YOUR PRAYERS ARE ALSO INVALID🔥FEAR ALLAH SHARE THE KHAIR WITH EVERYONE JazakAllahukhairaa🗣Tag any1 who is unaware of the dangers of NOT following the proper procedure like the Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم ﷺ* 🌴
*That awkward moment when Takfiris/Khawarij go to Hajj in the land of 'Taghut'🤦♀They call the Saudi King kafir & spend all day hurling abuses & accusing the entire Saudi government of kufr🔥Allahul MustaAn🇸🇦🕋✅May Allah preserve the Muslim rulers especially those of Saudia, the land of Tawheed🔥If you're 1 of those people who sits there constantly hurling curses, abuse & criticism at Saudi Arabia based on every piece of trash you read in the media then here's some guidance if you're going to perform Hajj:●When you land at the airport - don't use any of the state - financed buses or coaches that take you onwards. It's better to walk or ride a camel because you don't want to support these "oppressors"●At every service station there is a masjid but don't use it because that might count as supporting the "taghut" & we cannot pray behind those who hate the muslim ummah & plot against them●When you reach the Haram of Makkah don't sit in any of the air-conditioned areas of the masjid nor pray on the carpets nor drink any of the zam zam water that is provided. It's better for you to get the water out of the well yourself or to bring your own water from your sharia-compliant home⛔👊●Don't pray behind the imams because they are 'scholars 4 dollars" "palace scholars coconuts etc.". Lead your own prayers somewhere on the outskirts in the desert because the trillions of dollars used to build & maintain the masjid is from selling the blood of the muslims & you don't want a part of that sin⛔👊●When you get hungry don't eat in any of the malls etc because this is also financed by the "taghut" - catch your own food outside of makkah somewhere. Or better still, bring your own 100% certified halal tawheed al hakamiyyah butchered meat👊●Don't shop in any of the malls etc because according to your media sources - they are turning Makkah into "Vegas". Allah forbid you shop there❗●When you go to mina don't stay in the tents provided by the government. Sleep outside. Likewise with the toilets - find somewhere quiet & dig a hole - but be careful not to desecrate a holy site like the saudis have apparently been doing👊●If you want to visit Madina you'll need to walk or ride a camel. The coaches are mostly operated by the Hajj ministry so that's a no-go👊We can go on & on. The point? Sort out your own house before pointing at the rulers. The people were NOT united under Uthman ibn affan or Ali (radiAllahu Anhuma) so how is it possible that we will ALL be happy with someone after them. From the traps of shaytan is that he busies us with the rulers such that we forget to implement sharia in our own homes👊Yes There are issues Yes. They are serious Yes We ask for Allah's assistance & rectification. No. Spreading these faults & busying ourselves with them won't benefit. No It won't change anything. No We don't control the affairs. No We shouldn't believe everything that comes in the media☝️😎🇸🇦🕋🕌✅To Allah belongs all control & rectification won't come except by coming back to Tawheed & Sunnah. May Allah guide us especially our youth Ameen* ☝🏻
*_MuslimSkeptic Daniel Haqiqatjou says:“I support Deobandis, they are the real ones. Most scholars are deobandis. I’m a fanboy of deobandis. They are preserving Islam, according to the Salaf(!)” Also DanielHaqiqatjou: “I’m Athari, Hanbali” Sorry, but this man is a deceiver. Daniel is a sympathizer of Khawarij who praises innovators from Deobandi sect upon soofiyyah. Wahdat ul Wujood is one of the worst forms of shirk and this is one of the core beliefs of Deobandis and barelvis. The Ulama of Deoband propogate and defend this kufr but the majority of their public does not know this Aqeedah. Mirza Ghulam Ahmad Qadiani had the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood as well. Haji Imdadullah Makki is the “Shaikh ul Ulama”, “Murshad”, “Syed”, “Aala Hazrat”, “The Shuyyookh ul Shuyookh of the Mashaaikh” of Deobandis. He writes in Kulyaat-e-Imdaadiya Page 18 printed by Darul Ishat that:“And after this he should be engrossed in the Zikr of HOO HOO so much so that he himself becomes the Mazkoor (i.e Allaah) and this is the meaning of Fana dar Fana. Upon achieving this state he will become a capapie of Noor”_*
*DANIEL HAQIQATJOU PRAISED INNOVATORS LIKE SUFI SECTS OF DEOBANDI DEVIANTS WHO HAVE PANTHEISM WAHDATUL WUJOOD AQEEDAH🔥🔥BUT innovators like deobandi naqshbandi barelwi etc. don't deserve any praise no matter how much khair they do or how many huffaz they produce each year! USING THAT LOGIC WE SHOULD ALSO START PRAISING THE QURANIST APOSTATES WHO ARE HADITH REJECTORS BUT "HAVE DONE SOME KHAYR"🔥ALLAH CURSED THE INNOVATOR AS WELL AS THE 1 WHO ACCOMMODATES THE INNOVATOR‼️🔥Let alone promotes such innovators' ideologies or sect or deviated beliefs!*
*ALL MY COMMENTS ARE DETAILED REFUTATIONS OF KHUROOJ AGAINST RULERS BY SPEECH OR WEAPONS! ALHUMDULILLAH JAAHIL SKEPTIC DH, ALI DAWAH, MH, BROHAJJI ETC. HAVE BEEN DEBUNKED IN ALL MY COMMENTS & VIDEOS!*
*FOLLOWING QURAN AND AUTHENTIC SUNNAH ACCORDING TO ASLAAF IS WRONG ACCORDING TO IKHWANI JAAHILS*
*_Deobandi sufis & Homosexual lustful relationships🔥Is there any truth in their own books and scriptures for such an accusation? Or is 'Mufti Aziz ur Rehman's scandal a one off thing⁉️‼️Lets read from works of Deoband which reads:Book: Hikayat ul Awliya, Arwah thalatha, page no. 228🔥Hafiz Mohammad Ahmad sahib, my father mentions that, once there was a gathering at khanqah (certain dedicated area) of Gangoh (name of place). All the mureeds (blind followers) & shagird (students) of Gangohi & Nanotwi (deobandi scholars) were present there🔥Gangohi said to Nanotwi with lots of love: Why don't you lie here a bit (with me)🔥At this Nanotwi, got a bit shy, but Gangohi persisted🔥So Nanotwi lay down flat as per request🔥Gangohi, got onto that same charpai (bed)🔥Then Gangohi placed his hand on to the chest of Nanotwi while lying on that bed facing him, in such a way as how an 'ashiq' (sexual lustful lover) tries to satiate their heart through it🔥Nanotwi objected:Miyan(word means husband, but can be used in a way of respect for a person as well), what are you doing!?🔥WHAT WILL THE PEOPLE SAY⁉️🔥Upon hearing this, Gangohi replied:Let them say whatever (i.e. I don't care)!_*
*_Haji Imdadullah Makki is the “Shaikh ul Ulama” “Murshad” “Syed” “Aala Hazrat” “The Shuyyookh ul Shuyookh of the Mashaaikh” of Deobandis. He writes in Kulyat-e-Imdadiya Page 18 printed by Darul Ishaat that:🔥“And after this he should be engrossed in the Zikr of HOO HOO so much so that he himself becomes the Mazkoor (i.e Allah) and this is the meaning of ‘Fana dar Fana’🔥Upon achieving this state he will become a capapie of Noor”🔥Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi confirms in Imdad ul Mushtaq page 62 that, “He (Imdadullah Makki) used to say that the human being is outwardly a slave and inwardly (Batini) the Haqq (Allah).” Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi further elaborates, “The batin is the reality which is manifest in the human, and the batin should not be considered a part of the human"🔥🔥🔥Deobandis seemed to have applied this recipe, hence in Fadhaail Sadqat page 558 Published by Kutub Khaana Faizi, Molana Zakriya Kandholwi narrates a dua from Rasheed ahmed gangohi in which he is asking Allah to forgice him & says:“O Allah forgive me🔥I am a Liar, I am nothing… What am I? I am nothing and whatever I am, It is You. And me & you are Shirk upon Shirk”🔥So he first admits that he is a liar, he is nothing and then tells Allah that what ever I am, it is you as well and that me & you are shirk upon shirk🔥Astaghfirullah🔥This is Wahdat ul Wujood. Now see the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood from Mirza Qadiani which he mentioned in one of his books🔥“I saw in my kashf that I am Allah Himself and I believed with certainty that I was definitely Him..”_*
*_Zakariya Kandhalwi was narrating from a letter of Rasheed Ahmad Gangohi to his Shaykh Imdadullah AlMakki🔥(All3️⃣are from the elders of deoband)🔥Ashraf Ali Thanvi confirms in Imdad ul Mushtaq page 62 that, “He (Imdadullah Makki) used to say that the human being is outwardly a slave & inwardly (Batini) the Haq (Allah).” Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi further elaborates, “The batin is the reality which is manifest in the human, and the batin should not be considered a part of the human…”🔥Deobandis seemed to have applied this recipe, hence in Fadhail Sadqat page 558 Published by Kutub Khaana Faizi, Molana Zakriya Kandholwi narrates a dua from Rasheed ahmed gangohi in which he is asking Allah to forgive him & says:🔥“O Allah forgive me… I am a Liar, I am nothing… What am I? I am nothing & whatever I am, It is You. And me and you are Shirk upon Shirk”🔥So he first admits that he is a liar, he is noting and then tells Allah that what ever I am, it is you as well & that me & you are shirk upon shirk🔥Astaghfirullah🔥This is Wahdat ul Wujood. Now see the same Aqeedah of Wahdat ul Wujood from Mirza Qadiani:🔥“I saw in my kashf that I am Allah Himself and I believed with certainty that I was definitely Him..”_*
*_Do NOT marry these types of "men":1️⃣A "man" who is NOT a True Orthodox Sunni Salafi Ahlul Hadith Athari Muslim in his Aqeedah Manhaj & TawHeed✅2️⃣A "man" who does NOT pray his 5 daily obligatory Salat/Prayers & does NOT wake you up for Fajr3️⃣A "man" who cannot earn & provide HALAL/Islamically Lawful Rizq/provisions for you4️⃣A "man" who is not capable of loving & respecting you5️⃣A "man" that is not a REAL MAN in the Sight of Allah i.e. The Creator of the whole Universe6️⃣A "man" whose character & deen/religious commitment do not please you7️⃣A "man" who does not marry & please you for the sake of Allah☝🏻Rather he "loves" you only for using you in bed & missing Fajr/early morning Prayers & for showing you off to others & posts/exposes your beauty to other men in public/online etc.⚡_*
Alhamdulilah a lot of us sisters are turning back to our fitrah and we will gladly stay at home if we are provided for. After being influenced by our parents to study full time and go get 9-5s after, a lot of ppl are seeing the light and how detrimental it can be to our faith and family lives due to being too independent and out in the workplace.
*_Do NOT marry these types of "men":1️⃣A "man" who is NOT a True Orthodox Sunni Salafi Ahlul Hadith Athari Muslim in his Aqeedah Manhaj & TawHeed✅2️⃣A "man" who does NOT pray his 5 daily obligatory Salat/Prayers & does NOT wake you up for Fajr3️⃣A "man" who cannot earn & provide HALAL/Islamically Lawful Rizq/provisions for you4️⃣A "man" who is not capable of loving & respecting you5️⃣A "man" that is not a REAL MAN in the Sight of Allah i.e. The Creator of the whole Universe6️⃣A "man" whose character & deen/religious commitment do not please you7️⃣A "man" who does not marry & please you for the sake of Allah☝🏻Rather he "loves" you only for using you in bed & missing Fajr/early morning Prayers & for showing you off to others & posts/exposes your beauty to other men in public/online etc.⚡_*
*_1️⃣Would the Prophet صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ﷺ ALLOW Aisha💕رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕OR ANY OF HIS WOMENFOLK to promote so-called WESTERN KUFFAR DEFINITION of "female empowerment" through spreading selfies & VLOGS of herself⁉️THE ANSWER IS A BIG NO🔥2️⃣WOULD THE SAHABA ALLOW THEIR WOMENFOLK TO POST SELFIES/VLOGS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO PROMOTE THE KUFFAR WESTERN DEFINITION OF "feminine empowerment" & "freedom" ⁉️THE ANSWER AGAIN IS A BIG NO🖐🏻🔥STOP FILMING YOUR WIVES SISTERS DAUGHTERS & MOTHERS U SHAMELESS GHEERAHLESS DAYYOOTH_*
*_Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا said💕That she accompanied the Prophet ﷺ on a certain journey💕At that time she was a mere girl & was neither fat nor bulky💕The Prophet asked the people to move on & they MARCHED FORWARD💕Then the Prophet said to me💕"Come on, let us have a race."💕Aisha says that she ran & remained much ahead of him💕The Prophet kept quiet for some time💕Later on when Aishah grew fat & loose bodied & she forgot the previous incident💕Again she accompanied the Prophet on some journey💕The Prophet AGAIN ASKED THE PEOPLE TO MARCH AHEAD & THEY MOVED AHEAD💕THEN THE PROPHET AGAIN ASKED HER TO HAVE A RACE WITH HIM💕THIS TIME THE PROPHET DEFEATED HER & SHE LAGGED BEHIND 💕 NOW THE PROPHET LAUGHED & SAID☑️"This is in reply to our previous defeat💕Ahmad Safwat asSafwah Vol. I p. 68💕💕This is A Famous Sahih Hadith Incident where OUR💕Prophet Muhammad ﷺ💕BEAUTIFULLY INSTRUCTS the whole UMMAH on how to treat your wives & have fun time with them💎👀👁️💕He ﷺ raced with Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا 🚫BUT🚫 1️⃣ BEFORE HE RACED WITH HER HE COMMANDED ALL THE PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD & ONLY THEN HE RACED & LOST TO AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕💕 SUBHANALLAH HE DID NOT SHAMELESSLY HAVE FUN TIME WITH HIS WIFE IN FRONT OF THE PUBLIC LIKE TODAY'S MANY ❌"Modern day Couples"❌WHO DO HARAM BY POSTING SELFIES & VLOGS OF WOMEN WITH THEIR HUSBANDS🔥NAOOZUBILLAH!_*
*_WHERE IS YOUR GHEERAH YA AKHI⁉️HAVE U GONE INSANE⁉️HAVE U ALL ABONDONED THE SUNNAH OF THE PROPHET ﷺ & HIS WIVES & SAHABA RADIALLAHUANHUM⁉️ASTAGHFIRULLAH NAOOZUBILLAH FEAR ALLAH YAA IKHWAN & AKHAWAAT💎THE HADITH CONTINUES THAT LATER ON THE PROPHET ﷺ DEFEATED AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN A 2ND RACE & HE ﷺ STARTED LAUGHING AT HER😍SUBHANALLAH HOW BEAUTIFUL IS THE TEACHINGS OF RASOOLULLAH ﷺ & FULL OF UTMOST HAYA MODESTY & GHEERAH PROTECTIVE JEALOUSY TO MAKE SURE NOBODY WATCHES👀THEM WHILST THEY ARE ENJOYING THEMSELVES TOGETHER‼️IN BOTH THE RACES THE PROPHET ﷺ STRICTLY MADE SURE TO 1ST COMMAND ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD SO THAT HE ﷺ CAN ENJOY HAVING FUN WITH HIS WIFE AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN COMPLETE SECLUSION & OUT OF SIGHT OF NONMAHRAMS (STRANGERS)‼️DO U KNOW ISLAM & THE CONCEPT OF HAYAA & AWRAH BETTER THAN RASOOLULLAH ﷺ⁉️FEAR ALLAH & DELETE ALL YOUR HARAM SELFIES & VLOGS WHERE YOU EVER FILMED YOUR WIFE SISTER MOTHER OR DAUGHTER ETC‼️_*
Hadith
*_حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو صَالِحٍ الأَنْطَاكِيُّ، مَحْبُوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ، - يَعْنِي الْفَزَارِيَّ - عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، وَعَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي سَفَرٍ قَالَتْ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقْتُهُ عَلَى رِجْلَىَّ فَلَمَّا حَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ سَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقَنِي فَقَالَ❤️هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ السَّبْقَةِ_*
*_Narrated Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا Ummul Muminin:💕While she was on a journey along with the Messenger of Allahﷺ:💕I had a race with him (The Prophet ﷺ) & I outstripped him on my feet💕When I became fleshy, (again) I had a race with him (the Prophetﷺ) & he outstripped me💕He said: This is for that outstripping☑️Sahih☑️AlAlbani💎AbuDawud 2578_*
Our parents did us a service by preparing us for the worst case scenarios that our husband drops dead. We should be independent and not teach our daughters to be financially dependent. Of course it's a blessing however if a man can provide for us.
@@sanasaleem4337 as a wife you always be dependent and restricted in islam. Just accept it. There is no such thing as independent. This is how Allah swt has made the rules
@@sanasaleem4337and our parents didn’t prepare us for the worst case scenario. Because thats the only scenario they gave us (im speaking for the general parents btw)
this shouldn’t be debated. Women have been given the right by Allah to work. point blank periodt
The topic was more tailored not to the ruling but the advantages and disadvantages of a wife working
And Allah has also given the husband the right to restrict her from working and she has to obey. Point blank periodt.
@@Altair-El-Haddad Yessir
You seem to not realise that women can work if their husband AGREES to it
@@Altair-El-Haddad You realize there are circumstances in which the husband is not allowed to restrict his wife from working such as in preforming Farhdul kifaya, it becomes obligatory for her otherwise she is sinning!
As a Muslim father, I believe your daughter should get some education or knowledge about how life is and how to read and write, communicate and also be able to fill out documents and write a resume before sending her off to marry someone. Speaking English if they live in a western world is a minimum. After that if she decides to stay home after marriage, then that is her choice. We have to educate our Muslim daughter to empower themselves so if somethings happens to the husband or herself, she can go out and support herself and her family. Plus we as a father, we don't know the heart of the male we a sending off to marry. In in this generation, there is a lot of divorce and a lot of our Muslim sisters have no where to go as they solely rely on their husband to provide and they stay because they don't know nothing. Most of them get moved abroad away from their family home to a place where they don't speak English and have no family and friends to support them and they feel scared. Unfortunately a lot of our muslim men now days just work and don't help their wife at home. Looking after a child, is the hardest job in the world. The lack of sleep and exhaustion lead to depression. Alot of them get alot of verbal abuse at home and stay quite. You can tell by the brother answers, their wife has no say in anything and their decision is already made for them. As a father watching, this is heart breaking. The correct answer would of been, I spoke to my wife and she is happy not to work and happy to look after our children and I support her decision and if she wants to work, its an option but I wouldn't allow her to be the bread winner of the family. Prophet Muhammad (saw) wife had a business and she was a smart women. Prophet Muhammad (saw) would always talk to her about his problem because she was intelligent to understand and comprehend his issues. Allah chose Her to marry Prophet Muhammad (saw) because she was intelligent. So, as a muslim women, we should all try to strives to be like her and as a muslim father, its our responsibilities to empower our daughters before we send them off for marriage. If we don't educate our sisters, how can they know what right from wrong?
She had a business prior to Islaam.
There is no jumah for women,more reward for prayer at home and it is recommended for them fo stay at home. Surah Ahzab [33:33]
Fathers like you are often seen crying when their daughter free mixes and becomes the family shame.
The best thing I’ve read so far!!!
@@taimurahmad
No, you clearly have biased, extreme views. A woman being educated doesn’t automatically mean she does wrong. So much projection here. I went to college and it was usually the Muslim MEN who were dating and free mixing. The Muslim women were typically more practicing. Women pursue their education. Get over it.
staying at home does not mean to beccome uneducated and illeterate, nowadays people only study for jobs not for knowledge, there is no harm in studying even if it is a phd[especially helpful if in muslim countries with separate colleges] , having knowledge of surrounding , politics, history, medicine, business, work from home, part time islamic jobs, no problem with that, but there are some men who want to marry a woman who has job bec they are golddiggers[ not all]
Well said sir. I agree with this. The key is self-sufficiency, choice and balance. The choice is ultimately up to the woman and the man can share his opinion and they come to an understanding.
As a Muslim woman, having a job sounds like a nightmare. I would much rather stay at home and raise children. I was born and raised in the US even though I come from an Arab background, there’s a lottt of pressure on women to work and it’s nauseating. It is unfortunately common even among other Arabs here. I’m happy my family at least supports my decision to not want to work, and I hope when I get married I’m able to be a stay at home mom. I’ve heard from nonmuslim women around here complain about their jobs and it doesn’t even cross their minds to depend on their menfolk to provide for them because the culture here dictates that a woman who doesn’t work is no good and lazy. Being able to stay at home and not worry about working is truly a blessing from Allah.
Well, I don't know how it is in the US but in Germany the salaries are mostly so low that a man wouldn't be able to pay alone for all the bills
@@Nicilampi This type of thinking is a trap from the shaitan. The people here say this, too. Allah is Ar Razzaq, everyone’s rizq (provisions; including and especially money) is metered out by Allah. Everyone’s rizq has already been decreed. It’s similar to why the kufar who fornicate and end up with pregnancies end up aborting them because they think they “cannot afford the child”, which we know to kill a child for fear of poverty is haram. May Allah guide me and you. I hope you are able to understand. :)
Edit: ofc fornication is haram too, clarifying before anyone points it out lol
I support your answer to @NiciLampi.
I live in Norway and its so expensive here.. I am a student, living alone in a apartment, have a car and pay all of my expenses myself.. Have a job that I only work 3 times a week after school. People want luxury living not modest/simple living..
Why do you want to continue in this crazy anti woman mad religion?? 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I’m sry but I love working as woman. everyone is different that’s all I believe everyone should hv there choice weather to work or not . As husband shouldn’t stop ur wife from her career one day ur husband can get sick.., his human too nowadays 😊one income is not enough just sitting home watch ur husband work 2 to 3 jobs nd ur healthy nah at that point marry someone rich then suffering someone son . a lot of marriage end do to that it’s become too much for the husband nd u wonder why his not spending time with kids when all u do is sit home nd eat his hard working money nd stop being selfish use that education that was given to you u didn’t go to school just to sit home . 💯😊
Needs to see some actual chai for the 100th episode 😂
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At the end of the day, we need more Muslim women who are teachers, doctors, lawyers, shop owners and much more.
To be able to send your child to public school and have a sense of relief because there are sisters who are Muslim. To be able to walk into a doctor’s office and be able to request a female doctor who is a Muslim. To support and buy from Muslim women. No matter how loving your husband is, women should not back down from pursing a halal job. We need them.
The key is balance, not stop working.
OMG FACTSSSS
No we don't. What we need is Muslims to make Hijrah to their country of origin or another Muslim country and stop trying to fit in a kuffar country.
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100%… this channel is scary thanks God some of us see right throught them
As a woman i dont want to work honestly if you get such a responsible man, but you know personally i am so scared of financially depending on a man. Not all but most men take advantage of the fact that their wife is dependent on them and they start being abusive. And i am not just saying this out of nowhere, their are real life examples that i have seen. Its so scary to be trapped and have no way out because you dont know where to start and sometimes kids are involved, the abuse can even extend to physical abuse. And i think this is one of the major reason why most women want financial independence.
Yes never depend on a man. Earn on your own and he can never abuse you. If he can’t stand a working woman, he’s not the one 👍
@@Peaches10608 thats honestly pathetic, unfortunately its reality for many.
If a sister marries a men who truly fears Allaah SWT then he will in shaa Allaah never abuse his wife. So if you marry the right men you don’t have that problem.
@@Sona77. Or just find a man who aligns with what you want?
@@subrasiham Inshallah you find a responsible man who follows the deen and doesn't abuse you. Trust Allah and then you can never be scared. I hope everything works out for you!
I’m a women and I work part time as a professional and I absolutely love it. I cook and clean ahead on the days I am at home and Alhamdulillah I have a very good balance. I have home cooked food 6/7 days and the 7th day is a day out as a family when we eat out. I also don’t deprive my husband. I have three children who are thriving educationally , both secular and Islamic. My husband and I have found where our strengths are and utilise that for our kids such as he teaches them the Quran and I teach maths and English booster.
Why do you beared men in thobes always go to the extreme of 9-5 full time job and commuting on a tube? There are so many flexible ways of working such as part time, working from home, working in between school hours. It’s healthy for women’s wellbeing and actually benefits the marriage. You guys need to explore further than 9-5 jobs. One of my jobs was two days a week 8am-4pm and 5 min away from home and I balanced it so well with my household. Please educate yourself .
Why are you generalising people based on what they look like? Especially when the appearance is an Islamic appearance and you comment something bad about all people with that appearance.
The bearded men are following the sunnah. While you are in your non islamic mutabarrija clothes acting like a kaafira. Enjoy that lifestyle for this life is too short.
You’re right , I have generalised, but when these comments come about women and how they discourage them from working , it’s usually from men who have a beard and a thobe. Otherwise please direct me to a bearded man in a thobe who doesn’t ‘generalise ’ working women to those who only work 9-5 and explores other ways of working such as part time, flexible hours, from home, school hours, etc and managing house hold duties/children’s upbringing
@@jenniehaque4075 You still generalising. I have seen many bearded men in thobes who accept everything you said. Just find a man who aligns with what you want as long as it's within Islam. Bearded or not i hope you find your man lol
@SisterinIslam87 I know it’s Sunnah. But don’t take my comment out of context.
The poverty rate in the UK amongst Muslims is astronomical. What does "providing" look like with a stay at home wife the vast majority of the time in the UK?
Living off of state benefits.
That is a humiliation. Let's be clear about the kind of lifestyle that is being advertised in these circles.
Don't fall for this brain-dead rhetoric.
If you make choices that contribute to your weakness, how will you pay for private tuition for your kids to go to Islamic school? How will you afford hijrah?
This is beautiful.
This is usually the perspective of South-East Asians and some Arabs for their wives not to work. A lot of Africans who have educated wives set up an active business and an assistant for their wives if they prefer her not working.
Secondly, it is sad when a lot of Muslim women move/migrate to the west and 30 years later, their English-speaking ability, skill level and level of education remain the same.
Lastly, this is the same mentality that keeps these women completely dependent on begging for Sadaqah and the Masjid when either they get separated or lose their spouse to death.
May Allah SWT guide us all.
As long as he doesnt treat you like dirt and as an unpaid house slave, then a woman should be grateful and honoured to stay at home.
*_Do NOT marry these types of "men":1️⃣A "man" who is NOT a True Orthodox Sunni Salafi Ahlul Hadith Athari Muslim in his Aqeedah Manhaj & TawHeed✅2️⃣A "man" who does NOT pray his 5 daily obligatory Salat/Prayers & does NOT wake you up for Fajr3️⃣A "man" who cannot earn & provide HALAL/Islamically Lawful Rizq/provisions for you4️⃣A "man" who is not capable of loving & respecting you5️⃣A "man" that is not a REAL MAN in the Sight of Allah i.e. The Creator of the whole Universe6️⃣A "man" whose character & deen/religious commitment do not please you7️⃣A "man" who does not marry & please you for the sake of Allah☝🏻Rather he "loves" you only for using you in bed & missing Fajr/early morning Prayers & for showing you off to others & posts/exposes your beauty to other men in public/online etc.⚡_*
*_1️⃣Would the Prophet صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ﷺ ALLOW Aisha💕رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕OR ANY OF HIS WOMENFOLK to promote so-called WESTERN KUFFAR DEFINITION of "female empowerment" through spreading selfies & VLOGS of herself⁉️THE ANSWER IS A BIG NO🔥2️⃣WOULD THE SAHABA ALLOW THEIR WOMENFOLK TO POST SELFIES/VLOGS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO PROMOTE THE KUFFAR WESTERN DEFINITION OF "feminine empowerment" & "freedom" ⁉️THE ANSWER AGAIN IS A BIG NO🖐🏻🔥STOP FILMING YOUR WIVES SISTERS DAUGHTERS & MOTHERS U SHAMELESS GHEERAHLESS DAYYOOTH_*
*_Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا said💕That she accompanied the Prophet ﷺ on a certain journey💕At that time she was a mere girl & was neither fat nor bulky💕The Prophet asked the people to move on & they MARCHED FORWARD💕Then the Prophet said to me💕"Come on, let us have a race."💕Aisha says that she ran & remained much ahead of him💕The Prophet kept quiet for some time💕Later on when Aishah grew fat & loose bodied & she forgot the previous incident💕Again she accompanied the Prophet on some journey💕The Prophet AGAIN ASKED THE PEOPLE TO MARCH AHEAD & THEY MOVED AHEAD💕THEN THE PROPHET AGAIN ASKED HER TO HAVE A RACE WITH HIM💕THIS TIME THE PROPHET DEFEATED HER & SHE LAGGED BEHIND 💕 NOW THE PROPHET LAUGHED & SAID☑️"This is in reply to our previous defeat💕Ahmad Safwat asSafwah Vol. I p. 68💕💕This is A Famous Sahih Hadith Incident where OUR💕Prophet Muhammad ﷺ💕BEAUTIFULLY INSTRUCTS the whole UMMAH on how to treat your wives & have fun time with them💎👀👁️💕He ﷺ raced with Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا 🚫BUT🚫 1️⃣ BEFORE HE RACED WITH HER HE COMMANDED ALL THE PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD & ONLY THEN HE RACED & LOST TO AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕💕 SUBHANALLAH HE DID NOT SHAMELESSLY HAVE FUN TIME WITH HIS WIFE IN FRONT OF THE PUBLIC LIKE TODAY'S MANY ❌"Modern day Couples"❌WHO DO HARAM BY POSTING SELFIES & VLOGS OF WOMEN WITH THEIR HUSBANDS🔥NAOOZUBILLAH!_*
*_WHERE IS YOUR GHEERAH YA AKHI⁉️HAVE U GONE INSANE⁉️HAVE U ALL ABONDONED THE SUNNAH OF THE PROPHET ﷺ & HIS WIVES & SAHABA RADIALLAHUANHUM⁉️ASTAGHFIRULLAH NAOOZUBILLAH FEAR ALLAH YAA IKHWAN & AKHAWAAT💎THE HADITH CONTINUES THAT LATER ON THE PROPHET ﷺ DEFEATED AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN A 2ND RACE & HE ﷺ STARTED LAUGHING AT HER😍SUBHANALLAH HOW BEAUTIFUL IS THE TEACHINGS OF RASOOLULLAH ﷺ & FULL OF UTMOST HAYA MODESTY & GHEERAH PROTECTIVE JEALOUSY TO MAKE SURE NOBODY WATCHES👀THEM WHILST THEY ARE ENJOYING THEMSELVES TOGETHER‼️IN BOTH THE RACES THE PROPHET ﷺ STRICTLY MADE SURE TO 1ST COMMAND ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD SO THAT HE ﷺ CAN ENJOY HAVING FUN WITH HIS WIFE AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN COMPLETE SECLUSION & OUT OF SIGHT OF NONMAHRAMS (STRANGERS)‼️DO U KNOW ISLAM & THE CONCEPT OF HAYAA & AWRAH BETTER THAN RASOOLULLAH ﷺ⁉️FEAR ALLAH & DELETE ALL YOUR HARAM SELFIES & VLOGS WHERE YOU EVER FILMED YOUR WIFE SISTER MOTHER OR DAUGHTER ETC‼️_*
Hadith
*_حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو صَالِحٍ الأَنْطَاكِيُّ، مَحْبُوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ، - يَعْنِي الْفَزَارِيَّ - عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، وَعَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي سَفَرٍ قَالَتْ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقْتُهُ عَلَى رِجْلَىَّ فَلَمَّا حَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ سَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقَنِي فَقَالَ❤️هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ السَّبْقَةِ_*
*_Narrated Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا Ummul Muminin:💕While she was on a journey along with the Messenger of Allahﷺ:💕I had a race with him (The Prophet ﷺ) & I outstripped him on my feet💕When I became fleshy, (again) I had a race with him (the Prophetﷺ) & he outstripped me💕He said: This is for that outstripping☑️Sahih☑️AlAlbani💎AbuDawud 2578_*
Life being expensive men expect the wife to earn some kind of income or at least claim gov assistance. Staying at home and not earning is going to be difficult
You say “grateful” as if she isn’t doing work at home. At the end of the day, he clocks out. Stay at home mom is a full time job but you use the word “grateful” as if she’s just sitting, doing nothing. That’s exactly why women don’t take that advice anymore. The attitude is way too problematic.
@@amatulfulani6390 facts! Stay at home moms are expected to also to earn even if it’s online now a days.
Have a cousins she in the same position she looks half dead. There seems to be generation ignorance
As a Muslim woman, hear me when I say, I do not want to work a 9-5! Let me stay home, run my websites and blogs, maybe a faceless RUclips channel or two, and I am good lol
Exactlyyyy
*_Do NOT marry these types of "men":1️⃣A "man" who is NOT a True Orthodox Sunni Salafi Ahlul Hadith Athari Muslim in his Aqeedah Manhaj & TawHeed✅2️⃣A "man" who does NOT pray his 5 daily obligatory Salat/Prayers & does NOT wake you up for Fajr3️⃣A "man" who cannot earn & provide HALAL/Islamically Lawful Rizq/provisions for you4️⃣A "man" who is not capable of loving & respecting you5️⃣A "man" that is not a REAL MAN in the Sight of Allah i.e. The Creator of the whole Universe6️⃣A "man" whose character & deen/religious commitment do not please you7️⃣A "man" who does not marry & please you for the sake of Allah☝🏻Rather he "loves" you only for using you in bed & missing Fajr/early morning Prayers & for showing you off to others & posts/exposes your beauty to other men in public/online etc.⚡_*
*_1️⃣Would the Prophet صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ﷺ ALLOW Aisha💕رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕OR ANY OF HIS WOMENFOLK to promote so-called WESTERN KUFFAR DEFINITION of "female empowerment" through spreading selfies & VLOGS of herself⁉️THE ANSWER IS A BIG NO🔥2️⃣WOULD THE SAHABA ALLOW THEIR WOMENFOLK TO POST SELFIES/VLOGS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO PROMOTE THE KUFFAR WESTERN DEFINITION OF "feminine empowerment" & "freedom" ⁉️THE ANSWER AGAIN IS A BIG NO🖐🏻🔥STOP FILMING YOUR WIVES SISTERS DAUGHTERS & MOTHERS U SHAMELESS GHEERAHLESS DAYYOOTH_*
*_Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا said💕That she accompanied the Prophet ﷺ on a certain journey💕At that time she was a mere girl & was neither fat nor bulky💕The Prophet asked the people to move on & they MARCHED FORWARD💕Then the Prophet said to me💕"Come on, let us have a race."💕Aisha says that she ran & remained much ahead of him💕The Prophet kept quiet for some time💕Later on when Aishah grew fat & loose bodied & she forgot the previous incident💕Again she accompanied the Prophet on some journey💕The Prophet AGAIN ASKED THE PEOPLE TO MARCH AHEAD & THEY MOVED AHEAD💕THEN THE PROPHET AGAIN ASKED HER TO HAVE A RACE WITH HIM💕THIS TIME THE PROPHET DEFEATED HER & SHE LAGGED BEHIND 💕 NOW THE PROPHET LAUGHED & SAID☑️"This is in reply to our previous defeat💕Ahmad Safwat asSafwah Vol. I p. 68💕💕This is A Famous Sahih Hadith Incident where OUR💕Prophet Muhammad ﷺ💕BEAUTIFULLY INSTRUCTS the whole UMMAH on how to treat your wives & have fun time with them💎👀👁️💕He ﷺ raced with Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا 🚫BUT🚫 1️⃣ BEFORE HE RACED WITH HER HE COMMANDED ALL THE PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD & ONLY THEN HE RACED & LOST TO AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕💕 SUBHANALLAH HE DID NOT SHAMELESSLY HAVE FUN TIME WITH HIS WIFE IN FRONT OF THE PUBLIC LIKE TODAY'S MANY ❌"Modern day Couples"❌WHO DO HARAM BY POSTING SELFIES & VLOGS OF WOMEN WITH THEIR HUSBANDS🔥NAOOZUBILLAH!_*
*_WHERE IS YOUR GHEERAH YA AKHI⁉️HAVE U GONE INSANE⁉️HAVE U ALL ABONDONED THE SUNNAH OF THE PROPHET ﷺ & HIS WIVES & SAHABA RADIALLAHUANHUM⁉️ASTAGHFIRULLAH NAOOZUBILLAH FEAR ALLAH YAA IKHWAN & AKHAWAAT💎THE HADITH CONTINUES THAT LATER ON THE PROPHET ﷺ DEFEATED AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN A 2ND RACE & HE ﷺ STARTED LAUGHING AT HER😍SUBHANALLAH HOW BEAUTIFUL IS THE TEACHINGS OF RASOOLULLAH ﷺ & FULL OF UTMOST HAYA MODESTY & GHEERAH PROTECTIVE JEALOUSY TO MAKE SURE NOBODY WATCHES👀THEM WHILST THEY ARE ENJOYING THEMSELVES TOGETHER‼️IN BOTH THE RACES THE PROPHET ﷺ STRICTLY MADE SURE TO 1ST COMMAND ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD SO THAT HE ﷺ CAN ENJOY HAVING FUN WITH HIS WIFE AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN COMPLETE SECLUSION & OUT OF SIGHT OF NONMAHRAMS (STRANGERS)‼️DO U KNOW ISLAM & THE CONCEPT OF HAYAA & AWRAH BETTER THAN RASOOLULLAH ﷺ⁉️FEAR ALLAH & DELETE ALL YOUR HARAM SELFIES & VLOGS WHERE YOU EVER FILMED YOUR WIFE SISTER MOTHER OR DAUGHTER ETC‼️_*
Hadith
*_حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو صَالِحٍ الأَنْطَاكِيُّ، مَحْبُوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ، - يَعْنِي الْفَزَارِيَّ - عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، وَعَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي سَفَرٍ قَالَتْ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقْتُهُ عَلَى رِجْلَىَّ فَلَمَّا حَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ سَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقَنِي فَقَالَ❤️هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ السَّبْقَةِ_*
*_Narrated Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا Ummul Muminin:💕While she was on a journey along with the Messenger of Allahﷺ:💕I had a race with him (The Prophet ﷺ) & I outstripped him on my feet💕When I became fleshy, (again) I had a race with him (the Prophetﷺ) & he outstripped me💕He said: This is for that outstripping☑️Sahih☑️AlAlbani💎AbuDawud 2578_*
So if no women work are you ok to be seen by a make gynecologist when needed?
@@53fczunbjust because some women don’t want to work, doesn’t mean there aren’t still women that do want to work. also, male gynos aren’t an issue
"Women should have passion projects".. YES
I think this is the only Chai with Bhai full episode I've watched and I have to say it's really beneficial and inspiring. You've encouraged me to keep striving. Barak Allahu feekum
Lowkey this is a ridiculous topic. If these are the same men who are saying they don't want their wives or are debating at large, rather, on whether or not Muslim women should work- who do they expect their wives to get certain services from? By this logic, do they want their same wives to be seen by male Ob-Gyns?, male nurses?, have only male teachers for their children? There are so many benefits that women enjoy from having women professionals in certain fields and someone has to step up and do the job. It's very discouraging to see this kind of debate with, of course, no actual woman involved in the conversation to add another perspective.
This was addressed in the episode...maybe watch it before commenting paragraphs?
@@RighteousnRichwhy would some women want to do these jobs then if other lazy women don’t want to? If Muslim women are raised with the idea that they don’t need to work then trust me there won’t be any female doctors, nurses, teachers etc. please stop preaching such extreme ideas as you have a big audience and Muslims are already brainwashed enough as it is.
They can't have another woman in the discussion as it could be seen as free-mixing which some scholars have opinions on. It's not free-mixing if there's an audience or public place. So it's safer to have only one gender
@@RighteousnRichbefore commenting paragraphs 😂😂
Nice to hear so much about the topic. My husb was pakistani but could only say "my wife will never work", thanks God. Allowing us to focus on the home duties. Ps. The chairs for your set are FANTASTIC. Love the set-up.
Women out there, don’t depend on the man for finance, please. At least have a nest egg before you decide to quit…
THIS!!
I’m only 12 minutes in and the discussion is an interesting one. The issue with expecting a woman to work and provide for herself, the kids and you, or even helping out, is that she is placed into the role of a man.
I appreciate that these brothers don’t want their wives to work. Allahuma barek lahum. The sad reality is, however, that a lot of our brothers have been poisoned by red pill ideology and will go so far as to say nonsense like what do you bring to the table? Is bearing your children, raising them, maintaining your household, cooking, cleaning, taking care of you emotionally, physically, spiritually nothing? There are so many dayouth masquerading around as men it is sickening.
Most women would love to stay home and raise their kids instead of sending them to school to be indoctrinated. The only problem is people treat marriage like a joke and divorce over the tiniest thing. Women are scared to trust men to provide for them because when you financially depend on someone it opens you up to being abused by them, especially if they know you have no way out or support system.
But I dnt understand how men wanna do only (provide what she needs) and nothing she wants but dnt want her to work
The “having leverage over her” comment is so messed up.
Very manipulative
Bottom line, Allah did not forbid women from working. Im of the opinion that women need the permission of their Khawamun (maintainers aka husbands) to work. The husbands job is to maintain his wife, and protect her from any perceived danger or risk of immorality such as zina. If he determines that her workplace is alright, its fine and its their business alone. As long as a woman has her husbands permission, and its halal work, its permissible. Yes, neither should infringe on the rights of their spouse. Good talk
That's not an opinion, Allah did say women need their permission from their husband to work
@@j86485 okay which Ayat? Lol
@@Wisdomseeker1028 This is linked to the verse in the Quran about women having to obey their husbands. Women working isn't a requirement as it is for men so the husband is allowed to prevent them working. Here’s a Quran verse on the wife having to obey husbands:
“Men are the caretakers of women, as men have been provisioned by Allah over women and tasked with supporting them financially. And righteous women are devoutly obedient and, when alone, protective of what Allah has entrusted them with...” (Quran 4:34)
@@Wisdomseeker1028 “And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance...” [Quran 33:33]. According to the Shariah, the Quran and Hadiths, the woman’s place is at home. It is the responsibility of the husband to support his wife and fulfil all her needs. If a woman does not have any financial support, then only she may seek employment. In such a situation, she must adhere to the laws of Hijab
@@Wisdomseeker1028 Remember that it is obligatory to obey your husband unless he tells you to do something sinful. So if a husband tells his wife not to go out to work or to study, she has to obey him, and this will lead to her happiness and salvation. According to a hadeeth narrated by Ibn Hibbaan in his Saheeh, “If a woman prays her five daily prayers, fasts her month (of Ramadaan), guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said to her: ‘Enter Paradise from whichever of its gates you wish.’” (Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, no. 661).
But the husband should not exploit this right to hurt his wife’s feelings or ignore her opinion or go against her wishes. Rather he has to fear Allah and try to consult with his wife and discuss with her, and explain the Sharia ruling to her, and give her permissible alternatives that will make her happy, develop her potential and achieve some of what she wants.
If the kids are in full-time school and your wife's got skills like a Dr or social worker, she's a graduate, then if she is bored at home, shouldn't she work if her husband is fine with that? It's not always about extra income, sometimes a woman feels she is going braindead cleaning the house only.
then she can pay the husband tax of 75% of her income. And I have never heard of women going braindead...
@@taimurahmad it's a figure of speech, u taking that literally says a lot about u.
@sanasaleem4337 don't worry sis he's just arguing for no reason. Many women who are used to using their brain suffer when they move from intellectual activity to chores only. As Muslims we should care about the real experienced of men and women, not ignore the life experiences of women so that they can fit into the ideal image of housewife.
@@ZM-et7ztenrol her to online courses. Encourage her to study Arabic, Quran , hadith, history, business… there are simple and positive solutions.
How can anyone be bored at home if they have children..I can tell you have no clue
Salaam brothers. May Allah reward you for your efforts. One thing for the listeners to understand.. Its not haraam for a woman to work and help and man out and pay for bills ect IF they both have an understanding. Its when its made to feel obligatory by the man to his wife that's when we go back to the shari'a to understand each role and responsibility by default. E.g my local imam could not find a halal way of buying a house with his wife so they both showed their income and qualified for a halal mortgage and avoided interest. The wife willingly gave up her right to be catered for to aid her husbands to avoid interest or go into renting. No way i would say his not being a man. We aid each other in marriage as long as it doesn't affect our religious responsibilities. Allah comes first. Hope this helps. JazakAllah.
There is no such thing as a halaal mortgage.
@@BlacFireSan Have u looked into Islamic mortgages?
@@tarakkhandakar7332 depends where? In a non Muslim country or are you talking about in a Muslim country?
The most realistic discussion done by men podcasters so far. Keep up the good work
Ma Sha Allah may Allah bless Brother Abass and all Brothers on the set for such closing remarks Amin
Alhamduliah for Islam🌷
Salaam, I have no formal education, minimal work experience, and don't have the privilege of having access to resources which will allow me to become an entrepreneur - in this cut throat economy, there is no way I could be the sole provider for my spouse, unless I work two full time jobs, so both my wife and I work a standard 9-5 to make ends meet.
Can a brother seriously be expected to support his spouse with these realities in place?
What advice or comments would you have for a brother in my circumstance?
"and don't have the privilege of having access to resources which will allow me to become an entrepreneur"
Bro you're on RUclips, one of the greatest resource hubs for free valuable content!
As a woman with many hobbies skills and talents I can't imagine myself not doing anything other than raising kids and being a wife, yeah sure I don't wanna go out there and do the 9-5 or work with men and have a boss telling me what to do, we can still do our thing at home, have a studio or a small shop in the home or near it, in order for me to give my 100% to my family I need my own separate thing without them, because a day will come when the kids will grow up and the husband might have other wife/s so I need to have my own thing too. Can't be selfish enough to tell ur wife YOU CANNOT WORK!
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes . Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [Al-Ahzab 33:33].
Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are leading examples for the believing women.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is `awrah (i.e, she should not display herself in front of men), and if she goes out, the devil raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” (Narrated by Ibn Hibban and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as authentic by Al-Albani in As-Silsilah As-Shahihah, no. 2688)
Moreover, he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud (567) and classed as authentic by Al-Albani in Sahih Abu Dawud)
Please please drop more videos we are all benefitting Alhamdulillah
I’m all for raising kids and taking care of the husband, but I don’t want to be bored out of my mind and waste my skills for nothing. I would personally work on part time basis to spend my money on spoiling my family.
You could pay for a cleaner, nanny and things to help you manage both
Yes and i would love to have multiple nikkah done i feel it is a waste of my strenght to be bored out of my mind with 1 woman but i have to follow shariah and guidelines and put my desires on the back seat.
(Bdw i absolutely adore and love my wife to even think about looking at another woman so it was just a hypothetical) i hope you see the point
I’m sure your husband would approve the extra income
@@187A1 look I don’t oppose my hubby getting a second wife. And I do like the idea of being a part time wife if he gets married again. But if he does then I would like occupy myself doing something Interesting and fulfilling to keep my brain active.
I love these series
Subhan Allah!!! These shuyukhs are so excited to do this show they can't stop their legs moving!!!
Masha’Allah these brother’s are very honest and Masha’Allah they want to protect their womenfolk.That’s manly thinking Allhum barik
They want to have control over women not protect them. How a woman working in a woman's environment like a kindergarten or primary school teacher is bad?
The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes . Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [Al-Ahzab 33:33].
Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are leading examples for the believing women.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is `awrah (i.e, she should not display herself in front of men), and if she goes out, the devil raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” (Narrated by Ibn Hibban and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as authentic by Al-Albani in As-Silsilah As-Shahihah, no. 2688)
Moreover, he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud (567) and classed as authentic by Al-Albani in Sahih Abu Dawud) @@jurateb.9794
@@jurateb.9794 The basic principle is that a woman should remain at home, and not go out except for necessary purposes . Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance” [Al-Ahzab 33:33].
Although this is addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it also applies to the believing women. It is only addressed to the wives of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) because of their honour and status with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), and because they are leading examples for the believing women.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Woman is `awrah (i.e, she should not display herself in front of men), and if she goes out, the devil raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allah than when she stays in her house.” (Narrated by Ibn Hibban and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as authentic by Al-Albani in As-Silsilah As-Shahihah, no. 2688)
Moreover, he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said concerning a woman’s prayer in the mosque: “Their houses are better for them.” (Narrated by Abu Dawud (567) and classed as authentic by Al-Albani in Sahih Abu Dawud)
I am a working mother and wife and I would love to stay at home for the kids and my husband. Its very difficult for me to do all the things at home, but with only one income of my husband isn't enough. We never gone on vacation, living very budgetfriendly en we are happy Alhamdoeilliah. That's why we have chosen to work hard the next five years inschaAllah and then move back to Morroco from Europe. This will make it possible for me to start over and let my husband be te provider. Sometimes a couple doesn't have a choice then to work both, because even basis needs are WAYY TO expensive!
Sincerely i really want to know what these brothers and other muslim man thinking about marrying a muslim woman in healthcare area. Especially a muslim woman doctor who has night shifts, for example an obstetrics and gynecology doctor working for the sake of Allah. Ummah needs muslim woman in healthcare workers and its fard-ul kifayah. Mostly they say they dont want their wife to work. Is there an exception for healthcare area in your mind or you wouldnt mary even if the reason of the woman is the sake of Allah ? I am asking this to sincerely know how is a muslim mans toughts. Beacause i have seen religious muslim mans rejecting muslim woman doctor only reason they dont want their wife to be busy outside.
If possible can you guys make a video where viewers give you a situation they might be facing and you guys give as much advice as possible?
Asa Wr Wb brothers and I appreciate your conversation and weaponizing terms is very real.
Yes!!!! Please do an episode about benefits wallah soooooooo important. Because I remember watching a video about that subject and the wording hit hard when the lecturer said if the government is providing for your wife while you’re being a bum then the government is your wife’s provider making it her husband. That was so intense to hear
Wow, what a good point.
Brilliant episode
If my wife wanted to work, no problem. 2 incomes better than one. Welcome to the 21st century.
*_SUBHANALLAH THIS WHOLE QURANIC STUDY CLARIFIES & REFUTES YOUR BASELESS ARGUMENT TRYING TO JUSTIFY FREE MIXING WITH NONMAHRAMS🚷FEAR ALLAH☝🏻📚Surah Ahzab 33💎In this surah which was revealed at the time of the battle of the trench (also known as the battle of Ahzab), hijab was introduced as a formal requirement for Muslim women💎This was a revolutionary change💎The Arab society of the time was a stranger to the idea of segregation & hijab as mentioned in ayah 33 below🚷This era was declared as a dark era of ignorance (Jahliyat oola or earlier Jahilya) & the new Muslim community was asked to move away from its cultural & social practices. The qualifier Aula (earlier) implies the prophesy of a later Jahliya & what we are witnessing today in the modern world fits the bill🚷Those who are trying to reconcile Islam to this modern Jahilya have been working hard to water down these teachings🚷Among their arguments is that these ayahs were meant ONLY for the wives of the Prophet🚷Little do they realize that the household of the Prophet was charged with becoming the model that the rest of the community would follow, for a revolutionary change in such practices required the presence of cultural leaders😎A careful reading of the following ayahs will make that clear💎يَا نِسَاءَ النَّبِيِّ لَسْتُنَّ كَأَحَدٍ مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ ۚ إِنِ اتَّقَيْتُنَّ فَلَا تَخْضَعْنَ بِالْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ الَّذِي فِي قَلْبِهِ مَرَضٌ وَقُلْنَ قَوْلًا مَّعْرُوفًاO wives of the prophet U R NOT LIKE any other women, if U observe taqwā (righteousness)💎So Do NOT be too soft in your speech, lest some1 having disease in his heart develop fancies (about U) & do speak with appropriate words _**_33:32_**_💎This ayah makes 2 points:1️⃣The wives of the Prophet are at a level above other women because of taqwa2️⃣In talking to other men their talk should avoid display of female charms to prevent the development of any fancies💎R we to believe that developing taqwa & preempting the possibility of development of lust were only the concern of the wives of the Prophet?وَقَرْنَ فِي بُيُوتِكُنَّ وَلَا تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ الْأُولَىٰ ۖ وَأَقِمْنَ الصَّلَاةَ وَآتِينَ الزَّكَاةَ وَأَطِعْنَ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ ۚ إِنَّمَا يُرِيدُ اللَّهُ لِيُذْهِبَ عَنكُمُ الرِّجْسَ أَهْلَ الْبَيْتِ وَيُطَهِّرَكُمْ تَطْهِيرًاRemain in your homes & do not flaunt your charms as they used to flaunt them in the days of earlier ignorance & establish Salāh & pay Zakāh & obey Allah & His Messenger. Allah only intends to keep (all sorts of) filth away from you, O members of the family (of the prophet) & to make you pure through a perfect purification💎_**_33:33_**_💎Here again the question will be whether breaking from the Jahliya practices was only required of the wives of the Prophet? What about Salah & Zakah? Why are they mentioned in this “exclusive” COMMAND? .. ۚ وَإِذَا سَأَلْتُمُوهُنَّ مَتَاعًا فَاسْأَلُوهُنَّ مِن وَرَاءِ حِجَابٍ ۚ ذَٰلِكُمْ أَطْهَرُ لِقُلُوبِكُمْ وَقُلُوبِهِنَّ ۚ💎& when you ask any thing from them (blessed wives of the Prophet), ask them from behind a curtain💎That is better for the purity of your hearts & their hearts💎_**_33:53_**_💎We can continue the same question here💎Was the purity of hearts only needed for the wives❓💎USE THE COMMON SENSE WHICH ALLAH HAS GIVEN YOU_*
*Are you one of those sisters who like to post their photos online⁉️Ukhtil Kareema INTENTIONS MUST BE FOLLOWED BY RIGHTEOUS ACTIONS FROM QURAN & SUNNAH✅YOUR ACTION OF DISPLAYING YOURSELF TO NONMAHRAMS ONLINE IS HARAM🚮🚷THEREFORE YOUR INTENTIONS ARE USELESS❌ITS LIKE SAYING I WANNA DO HARAM WITH GOOD INTENTIONS😓😢ITS NONSENSE YAA UKHTIL KAREEMA💎💎DELETE ALL YOUR PICS IF U FEAR ALLAH & FOLLOW THE QURAN & SUNNAH💎💎And then what of our beloved sisters who now indulge in the “Niqabi selfie?” Is not one of the best MAIN CONDITIONS OF HIJAB & NIQAB to deflect & avert the eyes of the people?*
*The Muḥaddith of this era, Muḥammad Nāṣir al-Albānī (rahimahullaah), makes this point in his book Ḥijāb al-Mar’ah alMuslimah, where he mentions that one of the conditions of the Muslim woman’s dress is that it should not be an adornment in and of itself. He states, after mentioning the verse in Surah alNūr:“…and not to show off their adornment.” [Nūr **24:31**]*
*This includes their outer garment if it is adorned, attracting the attention of men.” [10]*
*And what does posting a selfie say-even in niqāb-other than “look at me,” in effect attracting the attention of men. This, no doubt, contradicts the very purpose of the hijab & Allah knows best.*
*The author of Nihāyah al-Muḥtāj writes:"The preponderant position is that it is impermissible to look at the woman wearing niqāb, displaying nothing other than her eyes and what surrounds them.”*
*He goes on to say:"& how much are the eyes like daggers.”*
*This along with the fact that the “niqabi selfie” is oft-times accompanied by the beautification of the eyes with mascara, eye shadow and the likes.*
*A questioner asked Shaykh Bin Bāz (rahimahullah) about the permissibility of a woman applying kuḥl to her eyes.*
*He answered: It is permissible for a woman to beautify her eyes with kuḥl around other women, her husband, or her unmarriageable male relatives. As for in front of marriageable men, it is not permissible for her to uncover her face or her eyes, lined with kuḥl; this is due to the statement of Allāh:"And when you ask [his wives] for something, ask them from behind a partition. That is purer for your hearts and their hearts.” [al-Aḥzāb **33:53**]*
*There is no harm in wearing the burqaʿ, from which one or both eyes appear, but without being lined with kuḥl before marriageable men. [12]*
[10] Ḥijāb al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah (p. 119)
[11] Nihayah al-Muḥtāj (6/188)
[12]"www.binbaz.org.sa/node/2211www.binbaz.org.sa/node/2211
*This is an excerpt from the below excellent article: The Fitnah of Selfie-Amazement-Compiled by Abul-Hasan Maalik Ibn Aadam
3amaal-qulub*
*This is not only to niqabis, hijabis are also obliged to abstain from tabarruj and so are non hijabis. Muslim women in general must not expose themselves to non mahram men on social media.*
*ASTAGHFIRULLAH U CALL HOME JAIL ?*
*ALLAH COMMANDS U TO STAY AT HOME*
*SO YOU SHOULD BE PROUD OF YOUR HOME!*
*SINCE ALLAH COMMANDED SO IN SURAH AHZAB **33:33*
*SO YOUR HOME IS YOUR PALACE & U R RABBATUL BAYT QUEEN OF THE HOUSE/PALACE* 💎💎
*DONT BE AFFECTED BY WESTERN KUFFAR CULTURE & STANDARDS OF LIVING YA UKHTIL KAREEMA*
*AND ALSO FEAR ALLAH & NEVER CALL ALLAH'S COMMANDS backwards or "jail"*
*ASTAGHFIRULLAH NAOOZUBILLAH*
*_1️⃣Would the Prophet صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ﷺ ALLOW Aisha💕رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕OR ANY OF HIS WOMENFOLK to promote so-called WESTERN KUFFAR DEFINITION of "female empowerment" through spreading selfies & VLOGS of herself⁉️THE ANSWER IS A BIG NO🔥2️⃣WOULD THE SAHABA ALLOW THEIR WOMENFOLK TO POST SELFIES/VLOGS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO PROMOTE THE KUFFAR WESTERN DEFINITION OF "feminine empowerment" & "freedom" ⁉️THE ANSWER AGAIN IS A BIG NO🖐🏻🔥STOP FILMING YOUR WIVES SISTERS DAUGHTERS & MOTHERS U SHAMELESS GHEERAHLESS DAYYOOTH_*
*_Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا said💕That she accompanied the Prophet ﷺ on a certain journey💕At that time she was a mere girl & was neither fat nor bulky💕The Prophet asked the people to move on & they MARCHED FORWARD💕Then the Prophet said to me💕"Come on, let us have a race."💕Aisha says that she ran & remained much ahead of him💕The Prophet kept quiet for some time💕Later on when Aishah grew fat & loose bodied & she forgot the previous incident💕Again she accompanied the Prophet on some journey💕The Prophet AGAIN ASKED THE PEOPLE TO MARCH AHEAD & THEY MOVED AHEAD💕THEN THE PROPHET AGAIN ASKED HER TO HAVE A RACE WITH HIM💕THIS TIME THE PROPHET DEFEATED HER & SHE LAGGED BEHIND 💕 NOW THE PROPHET LAUGHED & SAID☑️"This is in reply to our previous defeat💕Ahmad Safwat asSafwah Vol. I p. 68💕💕This is A Famous Sahih Hadith Incident where OUR💕Prophet Muhammad ﷺ💕BEAUTIFULLY INSTRUCTS the whole UMMAH on how to treat your wives & have fun time with them💎👀👁️💕He ﷺ raced with Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا 🚫BUT🚫 1️⃣ BEFORE HE RACED WITH HER HE COMMANDED ALL THE PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD & ONLY THEN HE RACED & LOST TO AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕💕 SUBHANALLAH HE DID NOT SHAMELESSLY HAVE FUN TIME WITH HIS WIFE IN FRONT OF THE PUBLIC LIKE TODAY'S MANY ❌"Modern day Couples"❌WHO DO HARAM BY POSTING SELFIES & VLOGS OF WOMEN WITH THEIR HUSBANDS🔥NAOOZUBILLAH!_*
*_WHERE IS YOUR GHEERAH YA AKHI⁉️HAVE U GONE INSANE⁉️HAVE U ALL ABONDONED THE SUNNAH OF THE PROPHET ﷺ & HIS WIVES & SAHABA RADIALLAHUANHUM⁉️ASTAGHFIRULLAH NAOOZUBILLAH FEAR ALLAH YAA IKHWAN & AKHAWAAT💎THE HADITH CONTINUES THAT LATER ON THE PROPHET ﷺ DEFEATED AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN A 2ND RACE & HE ﷺ STARTED LAUGHING AT HER😍SUBHANALLAH HOW BEAUTIFUL IS THE TEACHINGS OF RASOOLULLAH ﷺ & FULL OF UTMOST HAYA MODESTY & GHEERAH PROTECTIVE JEALOUSY TO MAKE SURE NOBODY WATCHES👀THEM WHILST THEY ARE ENJOYING THEMSELVES TOGETHER‼️IN BOTH THE RACES THE PROPHET ﷺ STRICTLY MADE SURE TO 1ST COMMAND ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD SO THAT HE ﷺ CAN ENJOY HAVING FUN WITH HIS WIFE AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN COMPLETE SECLUSION & OUT OF SIGHT OF NONMAHRAMS (STRANGERS)‼️DO U KNOW ISLAM & THE CONCEPT OF HAYAA & AWRAH BETTER THAN RASOOLULLAH ﷺ⁉️FEAR ALLAH & DELETE ALL YOUR HARAM SELFIES & VLOGS WHERE YOU EVER FILMED YOUR WIFE SISTER MOTHER OR DAUGHTER ETC‼️_*
Hadith
*_حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو صَالِحٍ الأَنْطَاكِيُّ، مَحْبُوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ، - يَعْنِي الْفَزَارِيَّ - عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، وَعَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي سَفَرٍ قَالَتْ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقْتُهُ عَلَى رِجْلَىَّ فَلَمَّا حَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ سَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقَنِي فَقَالَ❤️هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ السَّبْقَةِ_*
*_Narrated Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا Ummul Muminin:💕While she was on a journey along with the Messenger of Allahﷺ:💕I had a race with him (The Prophet ﷺ) & I outstripped him on my feet💕When I became fleshy, (again) I had a race with him (the Prophetﷺ) & he outstripped me💕He said: This is for that outstripping☑️Sahih☑️AlAlbani💎AbuDawud 2578_*
*_Do NOT marry these types of "men":1️⃣A "man" who is NOT a True Orthodox Sunni Salafi Ahlul Hadith Athari Muslim in his Aqeedah Manhaj & TawHeed✅2️⃣A "man" who does NOT pray his 5 daily obligatory Salat/Prayers & does NOT wake you up for Fajr3️⃣A "man" who cannot earn & provide HALAL/Islamically Lawful Rizq/provisions for you4️⃣A "man" who is not capable of loving & respecting you5️⃣A "man" that is not a REAL MAN in the Sight of Allah i.e. The Creator of the whole Universe6️⃣A "man" whose character & deen/religious commitment do not please you7️⃣A "man" who does not marry & please you for the sake of Allah☝🏻Rather he "loves" you only for using you in bed & missing Fajr/early morning Prayers & for showing you off to others & posts/exposes your beauty to other men in public/online etc.⚡_*
Even if she worked she doesnt owe u anything
@@geesixremain2481 agreed. She doesn't owe me anything. No issues there.
48:19 to the end hit hard- may Allah bless this brother!
This podcast is timed perfectly for me. What am I to do if I want to get married but I can’t afford accommodation as a full time student?
24:32 Quran "Marry off the ˹free˺ singles among you, as well as the righteous of your bondmen and bondwomen. If they are poor, Allah will enrich them out of His bounty. For Allah is All-Bountiful, All-Knowing."
Do not wait, Allah promised to sufficiently provide us with finances, do not prolong marriage for something that is not promised.
@@khanhamid3744 then my question would be why is he thinking about marriage when he still needs to take steps for himself?
@@khanhamid3744 Its not the parents choice who or who not to give their daughter to anyway
@@khanhamid3744 I didn’t say I can’t look after myself. I currently have shared tenancy with a couple family members, that way the bills are manageable. I just want me and my wife to have our own place, which I can’t afford right now because I’ve taken a break from working to study full time this academic year.
@@khanhamid3744 yes, there are many factors, and the first thing you stated isn't exactly correct. If the parents have no valid reason, she is not obligated to listen to it.
Also, regarding finances that is something unpromised and again based on context, if you have a sufficient job alhamdulilah with time make sure the two get ready, if not continue your studies and bettering yourself and making dua to allah, and if allah wills it, marriage will find you.
May allah increase us both in knowledge. do not prolong a goal that is unsure of potentially being reached.
Jazakallah u khayran
Salaams man what camera do you use for these podcasts?
I wanna stay at home so bad but I’m not married yet and my mom is forcing me to work
Same except Alhamdulillaah my mum is not forcing me. But I feel like I'm trapped into having a job just so I have a means and to help my mum out.
*_Do NOT marry these types of "men":1️⃣A "man" who is NOT a True Orthodox Sunni Salafi Ahlul Hadith Athari Muslim in his Aqeedah Manhaj & TawHeed✅2️⃣A "man" who does NOT pray his 5 daily obligatory Salat/Prayers & does NOT wake you up for Fajr3️⃣A "man" who cannot earn & provide HALAL/Islamically Lawful Rizq/provisions for you4️⃣A "man" who is not capable of loving & respecting you5️⃣A "man" that is not a REAL MAN in the Sight of Allah i.e. The Creator of the whole Universe6️⃣A "man" whose character & deen/religious commitment do not please you7️⃣A "man" who does not marry & please you for the sake of Allah☝🏻Rather he "loves" you only for using you in bed & missing Fajr/early morning Prayers & for showing you off to others & posts/exposes your beauty to other men in public/online etc.⚡_*
*_1️⃣Would the Prophet صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ﷺ ALLOW Aisha💕رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕OR ANY OF HIS WOMENFOLK to promote so-called WESTERN KUFFAR DEFINITION of "female empowerment" through spreading selfies & VLOGS of herself⁉️THE ANSWER IS A BIG NO🔥2️⃣WOULD THE SAHABA ALLOW THEIR WOMENFOLK TO POST SELFIES/VLOGS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO PROMOTE THE KUFFAR WESTERN DEFINITION OF "feminine empowerment" & "freedom" ⁉️THE ANSWER AGAIN IS A BIG NO🖐🏻🔥STOP FILMING YOUR WIVES SISTERS DAUGHTERS & MOTHERS U SHAMELESS GHEERAHLESS DAYYOOTH_*
*_Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا said💕That she accompanied the Prophet ﷺ on a certain journey💕At that time she was a mere girl & was neither fat nor bulky💕The Prophet asked the people to move on & they MARCHED FORWARD💕Then the Prophet said to me💕"Come on, let us have a race."💕Aisha says that she ran & remained much ahead of him💕The Prophet kept quiet for some time💕Later on when Aishah grew fat & loose bodied & she forgot the previous incident💕Again she accompanied the Prophet on some journey💕The Prophet AGAIN ASKED THE PEOPLE TO MARCH AHEAD & THEY MOVED AHEAD💕THEN THE PROPHET AGAIN ASKED HER TO HAVE A RACE WITH HIM💕THIS TIME THE PROPHET DEFEATED HER & SHE LAGGED BEHIND 💕 NOW THE PROPHET LAUGHED & SAID☑️"This is in reply to our previous defeat💕Ahmad Safwat asSafwah Vol. I p. 68💕💕This is A Famous Sahih Hadith Incident where OUR💕Prophet Muhammad ﷺ💕BEAUTIFULLY INSTRUCTS the whole UMMAH on how to treat your wives & have fun time with them💎👀👁️💕He ﷺ raced with Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا 🚫BUT🚫 1️⃣ BEFORE HE RACED WITH HER HE COMMANDED ALL THE PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD & ONLY THEN HE RACED & LOST TO AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕💕 SUBHANALLAH HE DID NOT SHAMELESSLY HAVE FUN TIME WITH HIS WIFE IN FRONT OF THE PUBLIC LIKE TODAY'S MANY ❌"Modern day Couples"❌WHO DO HARAM BY POSTING SELFIES & VLOGS OF WOMEN WITH THEIR HUSBANDS🔥NAOOZUBILLAH!_*
*_WHERE IS YOUR GHEERAH YA AKHI⁉️HAVE U GONE INSANE⁉️HAVE U ALL ABONDONED THE SUNNAH OF THE PROPHET ﷺ & HIS WIVES & SAHABA RADIALLAHUANHUM⁉️ASTAGHFIRULLAH NAOOZUBILLAH FEAR ALLAH YAA IKHWAN & AKHAWAAT💎THE HADITH CONTINUES THAT LATER ON THE PROPHET ﷺ DEFEATED AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN A 2ND RACE & HE ﷺ STARTED LAUGHING AT HER😍SUBHANALLAH HOW BEAUTIFUL IS THE TEACHINGS OF RASOOLULLAH ﷺ & FULL OF UTMOST HAYA MODESTY & GHEERAH PROTECTIVE JEALOUSY TO MAKE SURE NOBODY WATCHES👀THEM WHILST THEY ARE ENJOYING THEMSELVES TOGETHER‼️IN BOTH THE RACES THE PROPHET ﷺ STRICTLY MADE SURE TO 1ST COMMAND ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD SO THAT HE ﷺ CAN ENJOY HAVING FUN WITH HIS WIFE AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN COMPLETE SECLUSION & OUT OF SIGHT OF NONMAHRAMS (STRANGERS)‼️DO U KNOW ISLAM & THE CONCEPT OF HAYAA & AWRAH BETTER THAN RASOOLULLAH ﷺ⁉️FEAR ALLAH & DELETE ALL YOUR HARAM SELFIES & VLOGS WHERE YOU EVER FILMED YOUR WIFE SISTER MOTHER OR DAUGHTER ETC‼️_*
Hadith
*_حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو صَالِحٍ الأَنْطَاكِيُّ، مَحْبُوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ، - يَعْنِي الْفَزَارِيَّ - عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، وَعَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي سَفَرٍ قَالَتْ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقْتُهُ عَلَى رِجْلَىَّ فَلَمَّا حَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ سَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقَنِي فَقَالَ❤️هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ السَّبْقَةِ_*
*_Narrated Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا Ummul Muminin:💕While she was on a journey along with the Messenger of Allahﷺ:💕I had a race with him (The Prophet ﷺ) & I outstripped him on my feet💕When I became fleshy, (again) I had a race with him (the Prophetﷺ) & he outstripped me💕He said: This is for that outstripping☑️Sahih☑️AlAlbani💎AbuDawud 2578_*
Get married have kids with a good Muslim guy that’s what I done and I’m so happy not working
@@simonesimone1101 easier said then done. Esp in the west/UK where I'm from.
This was a very chaotic episode
Are you guys going to release a video about leaving the typical 9-5 lifestyle?
You are not looking at the bigger picture. Life is not as smooth as we would love it to be. Okay you can provide for your wife no problem with that. What happens one day you paralyse and you're unable to do provide for her. You have made her so dependant on you she doesn't know how to go about this new change. Another we want women yo stay home and not work . What happens if she gets pregnant and everyone has the same mentality that women should stay home. All the doctors are men since women are staying home. You're the same person who wouldn't let any man stare at your wife much less touch them in fear of being labelled dayooth. Can't you see that will impractical? Women should be able to rely on themselves and not blindly trust men because ppl do change. You'll give up on working because your husband agreed on providing for you later on the man will switch up on you and not keep his promise. Our muslim women should be educated both secular and religious education to manovre through life smoothly. TWO INCOMES in a household are better than one stop living in a bubble.
What you mentioned are all exceptions. To be fair he said at the beginning generally speaking no but there are exception where it is needed. However that is your opinion if things are working out for you then good for you
Women and their imaginary hypotheticals 😂😂😂
@@khanhamid3744what’s wrong with stacking shelves, I swear you are literally a clown and you are nobody to tell women what to do in the name of God so please move along and stop watching these extreme videos.
@@Altair-El-Haddadmen and their hypothetical 4 wives😂. Most of you can’t even pull one without your Momma’s help bribing some damsel in distress from back home lol. Even the one’s back home don’t want you anymore! Useless men will always remain useless and the reason why you want women to depend on you so much is because you know that you have nothing else to contribute other than money. As soon as a women makes her own money she does not need you nor care about you and therefore will show you the door and rightly so.
@@Altair-El-HaddadBecause men never get hurt? They never get into accidents? They never get cancer? They never get killed by drunk drivers?
Mr. Does that Make Sense is crazy jittery
Very nice video
Most workplaces are mixed anyways, making it not suitable without a dire need
*_Do NOT marry these types of "men":1️⃣A "man" who is NOT a True Orthodox Sunni Salafi Ahlul Hadith Athari Muslim in his Aqeedah Manhaj & TawHeed✅2️⃣A "man" who does NOT pray his 5 daily obligatory Salat/Prayers & does NOT wake you up for Fajr3️⃣A "man" who cannot earn & provide HALAL/Islamically Lawful Rizq/provisions for you4️⃣A "man" who is not capable of loving & respecting you5️⃣A "man" that is not a REAL MAN in the Sight of Allah i.e. The Creator of the whole Universe6️⃣A "man" whose character & deen/religious commitment do not please you7️⃣A "man" who does not marry & please you for the sake of Allah☝🏻Rather he "loves" you only for using you in bed & missing Fajr/early morning Prayers & for showing you off to others & posts/exposes your beauty to other men in public/online etc.⚡_*
*_1️⃣Would the Prophet صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ﷺ ALLOW Aisha💕رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕OR ANY OF HIS WOMENFOLK to promote so-called WESTERN KUFFAR DEFINITION of "female empowerment" through spreading selfies & VLOGS of herself⁉️THE ANSWER IS A BIG NO🔥2️⃣WOULD THE SAHABA ALLOW THEIR WOMENFOLK TO POST SELFIES/VLOGS ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO PROMOTE THE KUFFAR WESTERN DEFINITION OF "feminine empowerment" & "freedom" ⁉️THE ANSWER AGAIN IS A BIG NO🖐🏻🔥STOP FILMING YOUR WIVES SISTERS DAUGHTERS & MOTHERS U SHAMELESS GHEERAHLESS DAYYOOTH_*
*_Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا said💕That she accompanied the Prophet ﷺ on a certain journey💕At that time she was a mere girl & was neither fat nor bulky💕The Prophet asked the people to move on & they MARCHED FORWARD💕Then the Prophet said to me💕"Come on, let us have a race."💕Aisha says that she ran & remained much ahead of him💕The Prophet kept quiet for some time💕Later on when Aishah grew fat & loose bodied & she forgot the previous incident💕Again she accompanied the Prophet on some journey💕The Prophet AGAIN ASKED THE PEOPLE TO MARCH AHEAD & THEY MOVED AHEAD💕THEN THE PROPHET AGAIN ASKED HER TO HAVE A RACE WITH HIM💕THIS TIME THE PROPHET DEFEATED HER & SHE LAGGED BEHIND 💕 NOW THE PROPHET LAUGHED & SAID☑️"This is in reply to our previous defeat💕Ahmad Safwat asSafwah Vol. I p. 68💕💕This is A Famous Sahih Hadith Incident where OUR💕Prophet Muhammad ﷺ💕BEAUTIFULLY INSTRUCTS the whole UMMAH on how to treat your wives & have fun time with them💎👀👁️💕He ﷺ raced with Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا 🚫BUT🚫 1️⃣ BEFORE HE RACED WITH HER HE COMMANDED ALL THE PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD & ONLY THEN HE RACED & LOST TO AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا💕💕 SUBHANALLAH HE DID NOT SHAMELESSLY HAVE FUN TIME WITH HIS WIFE IN FRONT OF THE PUBLIC LIKE TODAY'S MANY ❌"Modern day Couples"❌WHO DO HARAM BY POSTING SELFIES & VLOGS OF WOMEN WITH THEIR HUSBANDS🔥NAOOZUBILLAH!_*
*_WHERE IS YOUR GHEERAH YA AKHI⁉️HAVE U GONE INSANE⁉️HAVE U ALL ABONDONED THE SUNNAH OF THE PROPHET ﷺ & HIS WIVES & SAHABA RADIALLAHUANHUM⁉️ASTAGHFIRULLAH NAOOZUBILLAH FEAR ALLAH YAA IKHWAN & AKHAWAAT💎THE HADITH CONTINUES THAT LATER ON THE PROPHET ﷺ DEFEATED AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN A 2ND RACE & HE ﷺ STARTED LAUGHING AT HER😍SUBHANALLAH HOW BEAUTIFUL IS THE TEACHINGS OF RASOOLULLAH ﷺ & FULL OF UTMOST HAYA MODESTY & GHEERAH PROTECTIVE JEALOUSY TO MAKE SURE NOBODY WATCHES👀THEM WHILST THEY ARE ENJOYING THEMSELVES TOGETHER‼️IN BOTH THE RACES THE PROPHET ﷺ STRICTLY MADE SURE TO 1ST COMMAND ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE TO MOVE & MARCH FORWARD SO THAT HE ﷺ CAN ENJOY HAVING FUN WITH HIS WIFE AISHA رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا IN COMPLETE SECLUSION & OUT OF SIGHT OF NONMAHRAMS (STRANGERS)‼️DO U KNOW ISLAM & THE CONCEPT OF HAYAA & AWRAH BETTER THAN RASOOLULLAH ﷺ⁉️FEAR ALLAH & DELETE ALL YOUR HARAM SELFIES & VLOGS WHERE YOU EVER FILMED YOUR WIFE SISTER MOTHER OR DAUGHTER ETC‼️_*
Hadith
*_حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو صَالِحٍ الأَنْطَاكِيُّ، مَحْبُوبُ بْنُ مُوسَى أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ، - يَعْنِي الْفَزَارِيَّ - عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، وَعَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي سَفَرٍ قَالَتْ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقْتُهُ عَلَى رِجْلَىَّ فَلَمَّا حَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ سَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقَنِي فَقَالَ❤️هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ السَّبْقَةِ_*
*_Narrated Aisha رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا Ummul Muminin:💕While she was on a journey along with the Messenger of Allahﷺ:💕I had a race with him (The Prophet ﷺ) & I outstripped him on my feet💕When I became fleshy, (again) I had a race with him (the Prophetﷺ) & he outstripped me💕He said: This is for that outstripping☑️Sahih☑️AlAlbani💎AbuDawud 2578_*
Yea brother but I don't even see that there is any scenario where it is appropriate for a man to let his wife work with men...
Even if they were to starve to death he should have Ghairah and manhood.
why do you think these sisters like to work ? it is a nice excuse to meet other men...
dats harsh but tbh kinda true
@@AbdalMalik-ye1df
لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له له الملك وله الحمد بيده الخير يحيي ويميت وهو على كل شيء قدير
ولا حول ولا قوة الا بالله العلي العظيم
There's just something about Sa'ad that makes him my favourite 😂
If there's two ways of dping something is it not sunnah to take the easier one?
Everyone looking for stay at home women until their wife/mother/daughters have a vaginal issue and want female doctors😂
Exactly. This is unrealistic
Well then it comes back to you now if you dont want to be a stay at home mum are you gonna be a female doctor or other important roles. Or work in a 9 to 5 office 🤔
It is halal to see a male doctor if female not available
@@rsm5627 would u be happy to let a male doctor feel your wifes or daughters breasts if they think she may have breast cancer?
@@rsm5627 "if not available" so why should this even be a situation in the first place? women doctors are needed for women. Men have no business doing those roles.
Eventho it's a bit chaotic, it"s a very important issue. I appreciate your enthusiasm in teaching muslims to be real men according to Islam. Tq for always reminding men not to be dayouth, lazy bum, irresponsible. It reflects badly on Islam. Jazakumullahu Khaira
What happens when the husband dies??? Every woman should be financially Independent!!!
You guys keep interrupting the brother that doesn’t have an anything on his head (idk his name). He brings great points and nuance to the topic but you misunderstand what he says. Let him finish speaking and answer what he says instead of diverting :/
My name is Abubakr, appreciate the comment Akhi ❤️
Even as a doctor in the US, it’s been hard to find a stay at home wife
gotta look for a wife abroad
@@mtdollazyeah but make sure she is NOT from a 3rd world country because they are gold diggers looking for a way out
@user-ue4fh5mv9s I disagree I actually encourage everyone marry from a 3rd world country. But this only works for masculine men as the women in 3rd world countries are very traditional and expect a mans man a soft simp.
USA is absolutely cooked brother, UK is turning the same way unfortunately.
@Altair-El-Haddad UK is finished 10 years ago the Islam was pure and traditional. Now the UK has yaqeen institutes version of Islam.
I feel like some of the reasons that sisters want to work is to also help out their family example, they want to help out their dad and mom through retirement. so they decide to get a job in order to help out
yala ya akhwan next video were waiting
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when mine wants me to work i want to at home😂
I would love to work part-time if I didn't have children, or if the children are old enough to be in school etc where perhaps I can still work part-time during their school hours etc. I have also worked in education so I would even see if I can work at their school. But tbh, working full-time takes so much time and energy away from being a woman in islam. I miss praying at home or even in the masjid (But I am at work.. alhamdulillah still). In sha Allah, Allah swt provides us sisters with good muslim men who do provide and protect.
Dawah Man. I recommend you to change the thumbnail because, as I am a teen who lowers his gaze, the thumbnail sexualy arouses me || Great work, keep it up
@nasheea sessions
Women should be allowed to work, but most don't want to unless she has some kind of calling to do so. It makes total sense, mother stays at home with her children, men bring home the bread. Both roles are equal in importance. Simple and effective.
Convey message of Islam to all people of the world and to everyone who will come also convey message of Islam to all world leaders..........
Masha'Allah these brothers have good manners and speak with respect about their respective responsibilities and those for spouses/wives.
Bro Ali Dawah and Mahdi need to watch and learn and change their attitudes!! Come across very rude vile in some cases.
you are not smart enough to comment.. I would assume
Don't forget to make the episode on benefits you mentioned at 38:30
@NaseehaSessions
It’s releasing this Thursday inshallah
@@RighteousnRich inshaAllah
She should be able to work but ideally she should not have too.
Women actually caused the problem. Back in the 60's families wanted a little extra, mom went and got a job. Business said families have more money so now we can charge more.
So now in a lot of cases they have no choice.
Here in Australia a young couple wanting to buy a house need almost $ 300 000 income to support a mortgage.
With houses floating around $ 700000 and some banks wanting 30% deposit we have really stuffed things up.
I’m curious how old you are, whether you’re married, and if you understand the current economic context in western nations. Do you think women DONT prefer to stay home and raise the children without going through the daily trauma of separating from them at daycare everyday? Do you think women actually want to work? Too many women living in the west are unfortunately forced to work for these reason:
- extremely high cost of living means a single income (from the man) can barely cover the cost of living for he, wife, and a few children (unless those people are using government welfare to supplement the income, which is how Muslims stay poor and powerless)
- Muslim families have witnessed abusive behaviour from men and teach their daughters to study, have a job, and be self reliant as an insurance should a husband be abusive or abuse his rights and responsibilities as a husband
- in the west, our families are so nuclear that husbands and wives no longer have the support of grandparents, siblings, and trustworthy aunts/uncles to help raise the kids. Everyone is so individualistic and anti social because that’s what capitalism does.
And don’t get me started about how abysmal the conditions in Muslim countries have become. Also high cost of living and divorce rates that are much higher than in western countries. Barely any one from Canada, US, Australia or Europe etc wants to move back to their Muslim mother land because of how morally corrupt and poorer our homes have become. My homes of Sudan and Libya are completely destroyed, for example.
@3l3phantz Yes, I am married I do understand. It started back in the 60's with women's rights and wanting more.
They went to work but couldn't see the future when business found families had more money and up went the price of everything .
When I got married, my wife wasn't working we lived in a small town miles away from everything, but it eventually got absorbed into the suburbs .
She said she was bored back then and only one car.
We moved to a bigger house then she started working only 10 years ago.
I bought another house for my daughter after she came out of an abusive relationship with 2 little kids. I don't charge rent and even send her money.
The company I was with was another problem. A very active program to employ women, especially into management , they provided training only for promotion of women and other special events for women only.
I can see and when the company went on a gay month with gay training with gay lunch and suggested we all be gay and seek gay events. I said this would offered our Islamic employees as was Haram. I was told to shut up and let them complain as not a company agenda. The whole place is F.
@@chuckmaddison2924 ahh I see. You’re old so you got to see how feminism got infiltrated by capitalism to trick women into believing that working outside of the home is best for them.
I’m recently married and we’re currently expecting our first child. My dad is old too and always says he feels bad for our generation because he sees how impossible it is to exist today with the high cost of living. Houses are expensive, rent is ridiculous, university is 800% what it used to cost during my dad’s time, men are less educated and employable than women, Hajj costs close to 30,000$ per person, ….. and on top of that, what you said about the LGBTQ agenda infiltrating our employment and schools.
Alhamdullilah there’s a lot to be grateful for but we still ask that Allah shields us all.
All the sisters who are saying they are happy to stay home, i have a genuine question, would you stay at home of you wadnt to be gluesed to a phone or have access to a phone like our mothers did, and be a mother/housewife that way, or are you only 3anting to stay work free at home just to be on social media all day?
yes of course !! not everyone is addicted to social media. staying at home also means i got the time to learn my religion, and pick up any skills i want to learn . i got the time to take care of myself , my husband and children . decorate the house, planting flowers, creating moral stories for the children, work on cooking skills ,and many many other things .
Even if a woman wanted to be glued to her phone all day, withstanding that she did her household duties, that’s her complete right.
But to answer your condescending question, yes, too many people are addicted to their phones these days. This is especially dangerous for newborns, infants and toddlers whose mothers are facing their screens instead of connecting with their children.
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
As a single woman who doesn't want to work...i rely on Allay for sustenance
Not against what ur saying but isn’t that wrong cuz u don’t want to work, yet u want provision ? .. unless if u get married
@@JemimaRuby29 Allah is capable of providing regardless of our efforts..think of how He looked after virgin Maryam...I don't know...should I still feel guilty?
@@BlueBlue23 she was the chosen woman out of all of the worlds … for us we need to work In order to receive provision we can’t just sit there and make dua and not put in effort
so you admit you are lazy and fat ?
@@JemimaRuby29 Good point but I was wondering does the dad still need to Islamically provide for his daughters if they aren't married but are adults? Or does he only have to provide until they reach adult age because they are expected to be married by then?
does her needs include £70+ abayas and jilbabs? these are how much one piece is priced, including plain and simple ones that are actually modest ;-; if my spouse (not married yet) let me work and considering I take care of my duties, of course, it's not to take over his role but to earn a little on the side to buy these ridiculously priced abayas. If he can buy them then fine but I'd feel soooo bad even though I'm not controlling these businesses and their prices. And before someone says buy them off temu or shein, THEY ARE SEE THROUGH AND ITCHY MATERIALS.
p.s. how do i send this to my parents without sending it to them-
Speak into their siri and say "shall a woman need to work in Islam".. hopefully next time they go into RUclips it should come up.
Or ask a close aunt who can forward this to your parents without mentioning who sent it to u x
The average price for abayas and jilbabs are £40 online siss idk where you’re looking. Even THAT I find to the pricey side because if you go to the market (in the netherlands there is a market with abayas etc) you’ll find the same abayas etc for €15-€20. Not saying that you shouldn’t get them or your husband shouldn’t get them but £70 is deff not the minimum price for a good quality jilbab/abaya!!
These Muslim brother have the softest and smoothest hands in the world. They should all be hand models.
brother, you should not say gay things. if you are homosexual, then it is upon you but dont tempt others.
@@AbdalMalik-ye1df Lol
Y’all shake your legs so much like you are playing some sort of musical instrument or something. May Allah bless your hearts and nerves, اللهم امين
Could be ADHD
@@Rosa-hi1xq Hmm relax, I think it’s just nerves.
Imagine being a grown adult and being told by another adult what you can and can not do. Geez the angels wept.
So I cant tell a rapist that rape is wrong???? Who decides morslity??
Allah and He already legislated the rights of a husband. Now go cry about it to Him.
(Sees “2d ago”) bro how did I miss this
Why can’t a husband and a wife work together to make their marriage work? Wether she works or not.. it’s kinda of a ridiculous conversation… also dawah man’s leg constantly moving… please stop 😂
I mean idk how would a man be ok with his wife working in a mixed workplace.
may be if she is working with women only that's ok.
@@zeusor but doesn’t a man also work with women at a workplace.. it’s something that can’t be avoided, if a woman wants to work she has a right it’s not always about the man their needs to be some partnership here
It's obligatory for the man to earn money not the woman.
That's why it's prohibited for the woman to work in a mixed environment not the man
as it's not his choice
given that he lowers his gaze and he doesn't engage with other women.
also as I said, I don't think there is a real muslim man with Gheeraah and honor who would be ok with his wife mixing with men
@@Yasminschannelxx
@@Yasminschannelxxthe husband also has the God given right to restrict her from working, as most working environments are mixed. It is the duty of a man to provide so he's allowed to work and only interact with them when it's needed.
We can agree to disagree may that man and that woman need to make that clear then!
You guys your wife's are lucky i have to work
In Islam, do women become professionals? I mean gynacologists. doctors,teachers etc...? What kind of generations would stay at home mothers create for their duaghters?
It is definetly a good and NEEDED thing. They live in the West having other Female doing thid Job thats why they can tell their Wifes to stay at Home. Where i live we Sisters are treated dominantly by Male(except gynecology). Just 3 Weeks ago i had a very bsd Kidney infection. No Female but MALE Internist, so you need to uncover your Belly and talk about Intim Stuff cause some Infection comes from Urinary Tract. No other Options so i dont understand that ALL Female should stay Home. Nobody needs Models or whatever but as you said Doctors Female we NEEED. Btw i was also Operated 3 Years ago, was it Female? Of course not there is no Female Internist 😂 it was 2 Male Doctors and a whole Group of Male Assistants and 1! Nurse. If i would say no i coule Die. We should think further in that Topic.
@@susanneal6063 we have a growing problem in the muslim culture...some cultures encourage professional women others don't but at the end it will be our women who will have to bare the shame when there are personal matters to deal with. Men don't see this coming....it is so bizarre
What about the one example Of jobs like female doctors Isn’t it better to have one?
some women have to work because their husband cant fulfil the minimum amount for her and her childs needs. can u imagine a highly paid husband giving his wife and toddler £50 a month but gives his own mother £1500 for her beauty treatment (considering she doesnt have a husband). so brothers dont get angry over women working or go against that
Subhan Allah you brothers kill me... can we have a moment of silence for that brother 😂😂😂😂... But seriously you make some very valid points Subhan Allah... However you need to give a more balanced view. Marriage is a 2 way street. As stated many woman would like to stay at home BUT have no choice but to work. Some families Allah made poor and the reality of surviving in today's world is no joke Subhan Allah. In addition not all women can find men to marry who make 4+k per month to be able to stay at home. This is shallow and narrow minded and seriously negates what Allah intended marriage for. It seriously can not be a prerequisite because if it were it could potentially create fitnah and the ummah would be in a worser state than it currently is with many more remaining single. Also please refer to Quran and sunnah more when discussing points as this would not only make your gathering more blessed it would give more meaning that can not be swayed by opinion. Please show eachother a little more respect by not speaking over each other, allow others to speak and stop going on your phones when the other is talking. May Allah forgive and bless us all and may He keep us in His Infinite Ocean of Mercy Ameen
The level of immaturity in this video is very telling I don’t know how anyone would take these boys serious.
Akhi I don't know so I'm asking. Is your thumbnail halal. It just has a woman emoji thing without any eyes and hijaab. But she has lipstick and her expression. Idk I've been through an evil kind of jahiliyah, and that emoji reminds me of a few images from that time.
You need to change the title to: being a wife and mother is jihad for a woman, and how I can support her as a husband fulfil this WORK. My wife isn't allowed to work, insinuates she doesn't work. The real leverage is on her side, she's fulfilling jihad, you're just collecting the risq Allah swt has already provided for the family.
This whole issue makes no sense, why is it even a discussion point.
The ideal islamic family structure is the husband works and the wife stays at home raising the kids. If you look in Quran and Sunnah plus then look at the family structures of the Sahaba its obvious this is the normative Islamic family structure.
Howeve this like most Islamic issues has as normative idealistic base like praying 5 times a day and fasting 30 days in Ramadan or fulling an oath or a vow.
But in each of the above cases due to certain circumstances you are legally allowed to break the normative rule. Sometimes you can join prayers together, if travelling in Ramadan you can not fast and if you make an oath or vow that is to do something haraam you are allowed to not break that oath or vow.
So often Allah sets out what is idealistic and normative but then allows the freedom due to certain circumstances to not implement what is idealistic and normative.
For instance like I explained husband working, wife staying at home (raising the kids, looking after the house etc.) seems to be Islams idealistic and normative family structure.
But Allah allows for this structure to be broken. In circumstances in which this family structure is not ideal for a particular man and woman this structure can be broken. Hence Allah did not make this structure obligatory or haraam to break. It seems just permissible not even recommended (mustahab).
Allah has allowed for women to work; for women to have thier own income; women to have their own property; women to be educated; for women to be the main provider (more wealth than her husband so the main financial provider if she wishes - husband still needs to work unless him and his wife agree he does not have to work); for men to raise the children, for men to do house work (cooking, cleaning, gardening etc.) and for men to not work and stay at home (with wifes agreement).
Since Allah has permitted all of the above it is clear that the Shariah has been set up in such a way that, the idealistic family structure can be broken if individuals need it to be.
Thus wife working, husband working, wife studying, husband studying, wife staying at home or husband staying at home are all choices the Shariah has given every couple.
Meaning there is no wrong or right.
Remember the ummah is huge and there are billions of married couples. Therefore holding a blanket rule its best for a wife to work or its best for a wife to work is very restrictive - going beyond the limits of the shariah.
Allohu akbar kabiro wal alhamdulillahi kathiro wa SubhanAllohi bukratau uasuila
Can you do a podcast on polygamy marriage and if it’s something brothers do or if you would do etc. I know it’s permissible but would like to see maybe an in depth conversation about it. Jazak’Allah Khayr
Why do you want to know if it’s something they do or want to do is my question to you quite nosy if you ask me
@@khanhamid3744If’s the complete opposite; there are more men than women in the world until the age of 60. Women outnumber men only in the senior ages. Polygamy in Islam is just another proof of how capitalistic the deen is. The rules are made for rich men ;)
Say one day, God forbid something happens to the husband, who looks after the wife and kids?
Assalam alaykom
Special situation doesn't overrule the general rule. If something like that would happen it depends on the husband and wife. Is it okay for the husband that his wife works if the job is halal? He doesnt want? Does his wife want divorce then? Is it another option? Every situation is unique.
@@Idris.1994.Norway Do women become professionals in Islam? Teachers,Doctors,lawyers etc..
No. Husbands can be evil and use Islam to control women and vice versa. Men and Women have to be independent,educated and thinkers. What kind of education will the daughters get in such a household that think women are just there to bring up children. Say if the woman cannot have children? Then life is meaningless? You are creating field of competition for women. High anxiety. Islam is there to spread peace not anxiety among generations of women. Think about what you are saying,act with wisdom not authority. Or your daughters and women will suffer.
@@tairabibi5366 Absolutely, i am not denying that we need muslim women to be educated and have these kind of professions if the society is need of that (teachers, nurses, doctors and other professions were it is needed). Again, can husband be evil and take advantage yes. Can a woman not have children yes. How many women doesnt have children at all? How many practicing muslim husbands want to take advantage of their wifes who they love and respect? I understand that some women think that way if they have had bad family environment or have had bad experience with their previous husband. But this is not something normal.
@@Idris.1994.Norway it's very normal. We need living Islam, rather than textbook lines....Idris, you seem like a reasonable human-look in your community....the men in the video are from a different status or environment and im sure their woman are raised in their environment so they will not question it. I do question it cause i was left on the road with four children. No man supported me, my ex was too busy wanting to build a house abroad. My parents did not educate me....now Alhadulliallah, I'm a mathematician , a teacher and look up to Islamic mathematicians of the past. But my parents always told me that my husband would provide for me. But he didn't. He made us beg for food. At the end he threw all of us out as there was no use of us.This is reality of human fitra. How do you place your trust in men who have financial control? I raised my daughters and sons to be independent financially and educated. I never told my children that they are only on this world to have children-never! The men above in the video see to come from stable backgrounds and who know what responsibility is but this is not the norm. Prepare your daughters in particular for tribulations, do not sugar coat the notion that another human will be their provider-that is untrue.
Men choosing to get the wife pregnant is a responsibility you’ve decided to make
Providing for your wife is one responsibility babies are a while different responsibility since they need you from birth especially as there father the protector
Some people should just simply stop doing podcasts. Like Pleaaaaasee
Les femmes ont travaillés depuis toujours, aller chercher l'eau aux sources, cultiver la terre, s'occuper du bétail,... il suffit d'aller dans les pays sous développés pour constater que les femmes travaillent et malheureusement même les enfants ... C'est stupide de réduire le travail au travail moderne classique 7-17 Non, l'homme et la femme sur cette terre travaille et quand il ou elle peut se permettre de ne pas travailler, bien sur qu'elle va réduire ou ne pas travailler et faire d'autres choses: bénévolat, hobby, éducation,... La vie ne se résume pas à faire à manger, faire la vaisselle, ranger sa maison, c'est ennuyant à la longue... faut être humain !!
Yeah these men don’t seem to be human and just hide behind Islam. Maybe they should think twice before giving their extreme opinions as Muslims are so brainwashed nowadays and becoming more and more extreme by watching videos like this.
Brother should really stop shaking his leg
why you loooking at his legs and peni$ ?? not good, sister
Ikr lol
This group is setting the Muslims back 100 years. Me as a Muslim I would love to find a Muslim female doctor and teachers..this mentality is setting us back to ice age and it’s sad.
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No I don’t think I can change a guy
I can not imagine wanting to give up my independence so that a man can provide and have any kind of power over me vs being a team and creating a life together. Ladies if you allow yourself to depend on your man do not be suprised if they take you for granted or want to buy another wife once they hae more money. There will be a point they feel that you spoken and paid for so ye may as well be a hooker with or without a baby
Ok Liz
@@User-ts2jj secret squirrell did ye just curse me with a symbol from a rap video bruh, I thought we were friends. You know I only added this comment to help the video gain traction, love and support
@@elizabeth3280you're not a Muslim anyways so it doesn't matter
@@elizabeth3280 Are you even Muslim? Women are not expected to work however if they want to then just find a man who agrees to that. SIMPLE. But what you said about freedom is completely false. Women working actually limits their freedom to do other stuff especially their main role to raise kids because most of their time is spent on working. Women are proven biologically from studies without no environmental/societal pressures to not want to work
@@elizabeth3280 Also stop giving bad advice and misleading other Muslim women. If you wanna work go for it, if you don't want to then don't work
Stop moving your leg
men shouldn't be discussing anything concerning women (womens responsabilities, dressing etc..)
focus on your own self!