Most children will remember the most traumatic time in their childhood rather than the most happy times, funny enough I am the Same as Sukali, I remember being kidnapped as a child, and burial of my grandmother. Talking about it alone is healing.its good you found each other.🎉
Wow! What a story! People really go through stuff. I'm glad they're reunited. Their mother did a good job of raising them in love. I can understand why their aunt couldn't take all three kids. Their dad sounds like a traditional man. It would have been hard to challenge him, as children are usually seen as belonging to the father in patrilineal cultures. We really must listen to children and help them face problems in healthy ways. You guys have the richest conversations!
Bambi Marvin. He's such a solid guy. When the young lady said she stopped speaking luganda. I felt her and can relate. When my parents died I went to live with relatives. We were about 11 people in that home( if you know Ugandan homes you know) causins and young uncles and auntys.lots of gossiping took place in that home and the gossiping was in our local language. I come from the eastern part. I refused to learn the language just because I didn't want to hear what they were gossiping about because according to my other cousins who could understand, the people gossiping were saying really horrible things about some people in the home. Todate, I can not speak my mother tongue. I only speak luganda, and I made it a point to learn luganda in school so that I could at least have a language besides English. But just know it's possible to detach yourself from a language when it's used in a certain way towards you.
i really admire how open & honest sukali is about his past & upbringing. the level of trauma he’s experienced isn’t easy to talk about! especially on a platform like this. mad respect🤍
21:01 I’m actually crying for a man I don’t know. I’m so sorry the adults in your life didn’t protect you. No child deserves to experience what you’ve been through.
DT, As a Ugandan man who speaks pidgin and luganda has been to both Uganda and Nigeria many times, Nigerians can also be quite racist. Our people are welcoming from both sides but Nigerians are the one country in Africa that doesn't care who you are and where you're from unless they can relate to you. My best friend who is Arab was born and raised in Nigeria and to this day, Oyinbo just rings off of people's tongues even though hes was born on the same soil.
But Oyinbo is just like saying Muzungu (a white person). Not necessarily a derogatory word. Even a very very light skinned black is jokely called Oyinbo (white person in Yoruba). We can even go deeper in that meaning. But my Yoruba isn’t that deep.😂😅😊.
Wow....this program has been incredibly informative for households with different family dynamics
Your sister seems like a really nice person. A good soul.
Thank you x
Sending you maximum virtual hugs at Sukali 🫂 🥰 🤗 .
Most children will remember the most traumatic time in their childhood rather than the most happy times, funny enough I am the Same as Sukali, I remember being kidnapped as a child, and burial of my grandmother. Talking about it alone is healing.its good you found each other.🎉
Appreciate you sharing and so sorry that happened to you 🙏🏾
Wow! What a story! People really go through stuff. I'm glad they're reunited. Their mother did a good job of raising them in love.
I can understand why their aunt couldn't take all three kids. Their dad sounds like a traditional man. It would have been hard to challenge him, as children are usually seen as belonging to the father in patrilineal cultures.
We really must listen to children and help them face problems in healthy ways.
You guys have the richest conversations!
Bambi Marvin. He's such a solid guy. When the young lady said she stopped speaking luganda. I felt her and can relate.
When my parents died I went to live with relatives. We were about 11 people in that home( if you know Ugandan homes you know) causins and young uncles and auntys.lots of gossiping took place in that home and the gossiping was in our local language. I come from the eastern part. I refused to learn the language just because I didn't want to
hear what they were gossiping about because according to my other cousins who could understand, the people gossiping were saying really horrible things about some people in the home.
Todate, I can not speak my mother tongue. I only speak luganda, and I made it a point to learn luganda in school so that I could at least have a language besides English. But just know it's possible to detach yourself from a language when it's used in a certain way towards you.
So sorry you went through this and appreciate you sharing with us. Hopefully things will get better and you can learn your language again 🙏🏾
i really admire how open & honest sukali is about his past & upbringing. the level of trauma he’s experienced isn’t easy to talk about! especially on a platform like this. mad respect🤍
This was such a lovely episode, honestly made me tear up a few times 🥹❤️
🎉🎉🎉🎉 I really appreciate this we are still under construction keep growing
This part 👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you 🙏🏾
21:01 I’m actually crying for a man I don’t know. I’m so sorry the adults in your life didn’t protect you. No child deserves to experience what you’ve been through.
Amazing episode 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Sukali promised to make uzoma cry in part 1 now his eyes are red 20:23😅
Great episodes ‼️
You all need to join the challenge 🙌🏽
Thank you again for having me on guys xx
DT, As a Ugandan man who speaks pidgin and luganda has been to both Uganda and Nigeria many times, Nigerians can also be quite racist. Our people are welcoming from both sides but Nigerians are the one country in Africa that doesn't care who you are and where you're from unless they can relate to you. My best friend who is Arab was born and raised in Nigeria and to this day, Oyinbo just rings off of people's tongues even though hes was born on the same soil.
But Oyinbo is just like saying Muzungu (a white person). Not necessarily a derogatory word. Even a very very light skinned black is jokely called Oyinbo (white person in Yoruba). We can even go deeper in that meaning. But my Yoruba isn’t that deep.😂😅😊.
Amazing! Let’s have one about autism. I work with autistic children and I have an autistic child.
Checkout Episode 76 where discussed Autism 🙏🏾
In Nigeria back then we has half cast, even mix Indians. Half cast were usually seen as the most beautiful.
Jesus these stepmums, how & why would you treat a child like this ?
Mannn you need to be mindful of stepmothers some are a God send me others are angry that you exist even if they were there after you, internal hate.
It’s so sad 🥲
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