I once was walking home and saw a young girl on the streets in a sleeping bag I was about 21 she was 17 it was really cold on very late I said to her would you like to come and stop on my sofa till the morning she said yes she asked if I was going to do something to her I said no we went in the flat and watched a film had some food and went to bed she slept on the sofa I woke up at 8 she had gone left a message saying thanks never saw her again I did walk past a few times to see if she was there I still always wonder what happend to her am 36 now
This happened to me when I was in the streets. Im suprised she even went with you because guys are psychos and pray on homeless women. A guy offered me a hotel room and I refused thinking he was trying to pull some shit but low and behold, he took me to his house to get food for me then rented the room and left me there. He asked if he could stay because the 2 beds but I said I would rather leave. He told me he would give me privacy but talk to me in the morning. He left $40. I didn’t feel safe so I left super early in the morning and left a note telling him thanks. When homeless, it’s hard to get out because you don’t trust if someone is genuinely trying helping or hurt. I’m sure she didn’t go to sleep at all, she was too nervous. The streets end up feeling safer when you are homeless
CriscianaLovely oh yes I understood when she asked me the question was I going to harm her but I actually think she was comfortable once we got to my flat and had food and watched full monty she was laughing but there was no bad intentions it was very cold and really late I just felt sorry for her I would actually like to no what happened to her there was no Facebook then or owt lol
James 84 she left because she didn’t trust you and thought you might bring harm. She realized she let her guard down. Believe me. It’s constant paranoia. I met girls on the streets who were murdered, raped or stabbed by strangers..... and it’s never just other homeless people. It’s by working class men with families and wives who are undercover psychos.. living 2 double lives. They get away with it by being nice to homeless women or prostitutes
CriscianaLovely yeah she put her trust in me I could have been any one to be fair but she had a warm place to stay some nice food and a good film to watch I was going to ask her if she wanted a shower but I thought best not she mint think am a creepy or summit lol...well I take it your back on your feet now then
SHE HAS A LION HEART! SHE IS CLEANING STREETS AND TEACHING DIGNITY. BAD THINGS HAPPENED TO HER, BUT SHE HAS SUCH A STRENGTH AND BEAUTY. LOVELY, YOU ARE LOVELY!
@Legal Fiction Natural Fact Well, he may very well be engaging n those acts himself so let the boy speak for himself I know for a fact he's not in no way attempting to degrade any woman by any means especially when the only reason for his existence is because a woman gave him life.
Being homeless changes a person forever. I was homeless for over 2 years. I wouldn’t change those experiences. It makes you appreciate the little things!!!!! Thanks for sharing 💪🏾
This is the truth! I was homeless from 13-15 not of my choice either. But the experience is beyond anything it made me super strong till this day I know I have it in me to get through things and furthermore, appreciate every got dam thing I have in life, and this life, period. ❤
It doesn’t matter if they are homeless, it doesn’t matter if they are addicted to drugs, it’s doesn’t matter if they are alcoholics, it doesn’t matter if they have a mental illness, it doesn’t matter why or how they got homeless, they are people who have feelings and don’t deserve hate. I stop and give what I can almost every time I see them on the corner. I don’t care what they use the money for. Once it’s out of my hands, it’s no longer my business but I make sure to shake their hands and converse with them while at the red light. Even a few words means a lot to someone. I don’t always have money on me but I always roll my window down and say words of encouragement. Little acts of kindness goes a long way.
all time it’s my money and I can give it to whom I want to. I don’t make assumptions on what they use the money for and it’s not my business either. After a long hard day I like a cold beer. I’m sure if I was in the side of the road with people yelling at me, I’d want a drink after that too. Plus I spent a long time in the Army and I learned real quick, when ur starving, u can’t sleep good. So after awhile they will buy food anyways. After all of my tax money that is given to women that stay at home and have multiple kids with multiple fathers and get welfare, food stamps and section 8 housing, why do the homeless deserve less? Better than giving it to woman who lays on her back with her legs spread just so she can collect free money.
Wow you are such a good person. And so humble. What a great guy. You are changing the world by giving homeless people money. What would we do without you.
I was on the edge to become homeless 20 years ago. But I turn the table around one day at a time. Today I own a home without being abused and no disturb. No more. Never again.
I said the same thing I posted earlier and yep I hope she's doing well she has an energy about her even through this video you just feel it you know you just feel it 🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@lovelynakooka995 OMG! That's SO amazing that you responded and are now well. I'm so people of you! Do you have PayPal or Cashapp? I just want to send you $20 to treat the kids or whatever. I was homeless for only a couple months and I know how hard it was to get out (nevermind years AND being a female!) Keep reaching for your dreams Lovely! Once again... I'm very proud of you. Leave that cashapp or PayPal for me (& any other person who might want to send you a lil 💖) Take care 😊
I am homeless. I also served 5 years in the Marine Corps. I have a daughter. She was abducted and then kidnapped when the mother left California and moved to New York. I haven't seen them in 11 years. New York says I owe child support for all that time. And there is an interest rate. I can't afford to pay the interest rate. So the debt continues to grow. Any money I put in the bank is taken by the state. My wages are garnished. I work over 60 hours a week, and I still can not afford a home. If I pay rent, I can't eat. So I live in a Semi Truck, where I work. And I'll have to keep driving a truck until I am unable to drive. And by that time, I'll be in more debt even though I am making payments. I might as well burn the money because it's paying the people who forced me into a hardship, to continue to labor with no possibility of retirement. I am not just homeless. I am a slave.
Your story is not that unusual unfortunately, i know a guy that got divorced, wife and kids got allotted more support than he could afford, he moved to another state and went 'under the radar', otherwise he would have probably been homeless too. It's so sad
you need a lawyer homeboy, no way they should be charging you more money than you can afford. I love how the US treats its veterans you risk your life and if you survive we destroy it. USA! USA!
In Canada we pay so much for everything just because it is so expensive for anything we need. Like food and gasoline, rent and everything even supplies like lumber if a person needed it. Most people live paycheck to paycheck. A person here struggles to put any money aside and it always needs to go somewhere. Like oh shit I need winter tires or new work boots. And gas can go up 30 cents a litre in two weeks. Fuck I can't believe it here. They tax the hell out of us.
You need to cut down some of your expenses and save as much as possible just incase something happens to u, and if u can invest that savings for a side income DAT can reaaly keep you financially sound.
I worked till I was 52, became too sick to work because of a heart condition. Two weeks after my 401 ran out I spent three years on the street fighting for my disability. Finally got it they only paid back pay for to years. I'm now of the streets, it's a sad thing to feel lost and hopeless. My prayers go out to all homeless wish I could help them all.
I was homeless from the age of 14 to 16 ,living from day to day I was asleep one night and some drunk men kicked the living daylights out of me ,I was 14 ? Taken into hospital and I managed to escape from people that wanted to put me in care in them days you were never treated right . I'm 59 now and never a day goes by that I know how easy it is to be back there, being diabetic I would never survive now, adds to the fear but I stay positive,I have too. Thank you for your input from the UK.
I'm stuck on what she said "she went to the cops to tell them she s been raped and they told her You find a drug dealer we find your rapist" WTF SMFH! Damn shame I hope she reported them.
Niylah JayPheonix same thing happened to me with the cops when I was raped and tortured by police. The cops won't help. So now I don't call the cops at all. I fight to the death.
Niylah- jay.- typical guuttless pigs/ gestapo, Shitt themselves every time. As a ex castrater farmer jist bring the rapist's too me and ahh will make Senorita Bobbit off Ecuedor look like a nun.
You learn who your real friends are when u hit rock bottom... Them friends/best friends disappear... I never did drugs but I was a drinker...I went into rehab got a job n my own place... IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE
I believe there isn't no freinds in this world. Completely agree with that statement. You see allot more when you hit rock bottom. Clear picture. Smh. God is the only true freind. Have faith in him. The only one who truly cares. Thank you jesus. For everything you done in my life. And continue doing. 🙏😞🙏
Thank you for this. Broke my heart to see her suffering, that poor girl's going through. She deserves to have a dad and a mom who loves her unconditionally. Blessings to her and the strength she gained help others that she can relate to.
It is 2018, I watched the video and was very touched by Lovely's story. As someone who experienced the streets for a year as an 11-12 yr old, and foster homes, I really hope that Lovely is happy and doing well. All the best to her.
Liberty Drew in this world there is little compassion,the way I look at it all is only the strong survive period.And being weak in this world would be for your disanvatage.Now why do you think the number ratio from the poor out numbers the rich by a serious long shot.Now there would be a number of factors for that why the majority of humans are poor but I'll leave that up to your imagination..
dream warrior wrote: "you reap what you sow" - Is that a comment about the individuals or on this uncaring society that does not respect human beings unless they have money. The US spends most of the tax revenue on the military, invasions, occupations of other countries, instead of education, healthcare and housing. And billionaire leeches stash their wealth offshore instead of paying their share. Don't blame homeless people for the ills of this sick society.
I was homeless for 18 months and now living in transitional housing. The most important thing I learned: *When you're homeless, you have to come to your own rescue, or you won't survive.* have a nice day, -Christian J.
There are so many nasty things people are saying here. Not everyone has a healthy mind. The majority of homeless are mentally ill. They can't afford medication and unless you have been even close to mentally sick you have no idea why or how they got where they are. I don't understand why the ones that are so angry about this girl watch the video and why do you feel the need to write something so awful. Why not just move on? I'm thinking several people that are so offended by her have no idea what REAL struggle is. I don't mean just regular life struggles either. I mean the serious shit. People are so fast to just judge. I'm sure I will get some nasty comments but it's fine.
Kimberly W.. Yes i agree with you about why people are so negative, I just do not understand the negative messages i see every where at times for it pays dividends when we choose to be nice & when those negative people choose to be mean & harsh, So why not win by being nice?
Yes, people can be amazingly ignorant. Everyone can have something happen but many have something happen or something worse without reliable supports. People are becoming more and more isolated and disconnected from community and agencies might not be reliable or known. Notice she was asked to do research for police in exchange for the police taking care of the crime that was committed against her, when she should have been helped as a matter of course and was probably too worn out from it all to do anything. It is amazing the extent to which people judge, judging when many are a step away from it themselves and would not recover without secure supports. Some simply have lost these supports and things happen. On a side note, I heard a high percentage of people by their 40s in the US have had some period of homelessness, the difference perhaps was that they had a way to be helped out and backup resources with trusted friends’ or relatives’ sofas to sleep on.
L O V E L Y I S O K I was touched by her story and courage, I have reached out to her online, she is doing well.. And seems to be living the dream now...
@nic sharp Yo are you serious? I KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT ENDED UP HOMELESS. THEY ARE NOW ON THEIR FEET AND YOU COULD BECOME A BUM SINCE YOU THINK THAT UNFORTUNATE PEOPLE ARE BUMS. IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU. SHE HAD NO FAMILY TO GUIDE HER. YOU SUCK!
Hello, please let me know how I can contact her. I want to send her a care package. I am a substance abuse counselor with many years working in mental health. Although it's the most beautiful state I've ever lived in, I've seen so much evil in California. That's the least I can do.
Sad, I remember a Lovely from being in the same situations as a kid. I also have been homeless, and went to school for nursing while sleeping in a car. Got sober with the help of a high-power then paid lots of money to expunge my record, and prayed a lot. Luckily made it to the other side: so sad to see her in this situation 🥺 Praying for you young lady!🙏🏼🙌🏼
Because most people are managing their own living situation like a piece of fragile glass....it could fall to pieces at any time. A person could be living in a shack that's crumbling down around them, but it feels like they live in a mansion cauz at least its theirs, and they aint out on the street. Man. People have GOT to take better care of themselves. Because Self is all we truly have.
Most people only have their own homes, they do not have extra homes. And, let's face it- most people are afraid to take in a stranger into their homes because they don't know what kind of people they are taking in. The person could be on drugs, be a thief or cause them harm. That is just the reality of things, not trying to judge or put all homeless people in the same class. But, one bad apple will ruin it for all. There have been people who took in homeless people to help them get on their feet and the homeless people killed the person that tried to help them. So, I'm sure we can understand that fear. Then, people realize that they themselves have to 'work' in order to have a home (and sometimes they are barely making ends meet), so they cannot take care of another adult. Another thing to look at is a person home may be full already, they have family in the home they are taking care of. Plus, people are going to or should be very careful who they bring around their children. There are just so many factors to look at. It's not that people don't want to help.
@@harrykaminski3627 Hmm....sounds like you only have half a heart. HELP BOTH! Then you'll be doing the right thing. ps...No one is exempt from being homeless. Not even you!
God is can use her to reach people that were in her situation. The unreachable. People that wont listen to someone in a suit and tie. She is a beautiful daughter of god
'whitey' doesn't care, it's a prerequisites for said to thrive the most (where it applies), along with mass incarceration of proportionally mostly latinos/blacks (working class whites aside)..
I am heart broken for those of you that have hurtful things to say, but won't take it personal, it is what is this is how social media works apparently. And I myself have been childish and currently can be lol. I would personally like to say thank all you of for taking 8 minutes out of your time to watch and listen to me, I had no idea that this would go viral. And hi to everyone that recognized me. Those of you who know me, and have witnessed what I have been through thank you for being there for me when you were. I hope that my story has been able to lift those that are down. I hope that I can inspire you to want a good LIFE and to go get it. I didn't realize that my video was going to be used for donation purposes to the DOWN TOWN STREETS TEAM. And I don't mind I love the down town streets team and want to give back as much as I can! I will contact the people who filmed this and you can look at me now....
Ever thought of coming back to Hawaii. Man my heart ached for a second at the beginning of your story. Local girl homeless many miles from home I hope and pray you will be ok.
my respect for you and team-go on-be strong and belive in your self and you will get there -may the Force be with you Lovely and thank you for the video
Just remember those that leave those types of comments are usually just projecting thier own hurt or insecurities through social media...it's just the way this online stuff works now. I was really inspired by your story and that you found the stepping stone you needed to rise up. Keep moving forward and staying strong.
This was me. I'm now in my 30s and an addictions counselor and social worker. You have it right girl. Not all of is are strong enough to get back up. You are. If I can you can. I pray you're well.
You're indeed lovely! Such a kind spirit and warm smile, I'm rooting for you! Sitting here in Sweden so I can't really do anything for you guys, but I'm trying to help here locally. With your spirit you should be able to go far!! This video really touched me
Hello from Corpus Christi. You are special in Gods eyes. And dont mind the little people who look down on you. If they only knew how much God truely loves you no matter what your decision are. I wish i could be there to extend a helping hand, and a warm hug. You are loved. God bless you Lovely, keep on smiling dear. Its contagious. I pray these messages reach you.
R A Amen sister. Also another God warrior from Corpus Christi. The best thing we can do is send prayers for one another. Take care and I hope she is doing well in this crazy world we live in.
This video made me cry! How can a beautiful child be let down like this!!!??? How can society let a beautiful girl such as Lovely just fall through the cracks when she was suppose to be safety netted???!!! Took notice of that this video was taped almost 3 years ago. I hope things have improved for Lovely and that things are looking up for her!!! And I hope she makes her way into a successful photography career! I sense that she would be an outstanding professional photographer!!!
good job sista Lovely! born in Hawaii you have that inner warrior to set your mind at over coming anything. you have a very bright future! I once was in your situation for 9 years as a young adult. I over came it been clean for 14 years. and enjoy my ohana every single day!... we have that inner warrior instilled in us from our ancestors. I admire your strength n beauty. blessings to you and your endeavors! IMUA!
big red let me take you to KINg Kamrhameha's hei'au that he built. leave you there over nite. so you can tell him that n let's see if your narrow minded conclusion is still the same.
Thank you guys for helping these poor people out! Plenty of love and blessings to you, as well as Lovely, she seems so amazing and deserves to live out her dreams.
I dont get how people that make music and barely put any effort can be milionairs while other people who work their ass off day and night turn homeless ,the world is messed up
Don't underestimate the hardships of creative work and especially music, even many of those that become famous have had rough periods with some even becoming homeless for some time
I don't think comparing effort without specifics is productive or worthwile. You never know what people have gone through to be where they are, whatever that place may be.
IQ matters, some people just know how to invest, sell, and manage. It’s a complicated world and there is no place for people who can’t hack it. We have to do a better job of offering hots and cot as cheaply as possible. The problem of that solution is people would rather use drugs on the street, then stay in a situation of three hots and cot and no drugs allowed.
I have been arguing this point for years. Why actors, footballers, t.v personalities are paid more and idealised when nurses, doctors, care workers are paid less. Why is someone paid more because they can sing better than you and I. How ridiculous is that?
Mike... ROFL... you a fool. Do you want people to watch ? I hope not because if you do then that makes you a sexual freak ! If you do it by yourself..... then your still okay.
rita pita.... FACTS. I feel sorry for some, but let us see what got them there in the first place to analyze if we need to be sorrowful or just call them a dumb ass. The lady in the video "choose" to get into trouble then she seemed to be hanging out (so to speak) with the wrong people. If you chilling with low lives, criminals, wrong doers all day, then you can't cry wolf on how you got mistreated. She choose it.
GravityLee... God is with those ladies every day that get raped and sold by ISIS. He is also on the killing fields to watch their husbands, fathers, brothers (men) get slaughtered for no reason also. He does not do anything about it though.... he is just there. (Faith euphoria is the worst)
All it matters is who can push and shove you out of the way to prosper in life. In smallest things you will encounter normal decent people doing little tricks to get ahead of others.People who you otherwise will not regard as crooks but are clever and mean too .Those who cant do it are good hearted people who gets hurt . World moves on.
I've been homeless 2 and half years due to hurricane Harvey. Being a female makes it much worse. She's right, your scared to sleep at night and never really get much rest. . Sleep deprivation makes it even worse. I sometimes hold a sign during the day begging.... and because I feel safe with so many people around, I sometimes just atomativally fall asleep?! I've had people accuse me of being drunk, or high! ,but I'm not... Please don't judge all.
I agree. Unfortunately, it only takes a few bad examples to make the rest of us look bad. Many homeless are not lazy, want to work, dont use drugs. We just want to get back to a normal lifestyle
Thelondonbadger some pedos are classy. My uncle was always a gentleman whenever he touched me. Long story short he shot himself before his final court date. So he’s in heaven now
Jassy Redd you are right because while i was homeless i never drank then nor done drugs & i went to walmart or gas stations to wash up ( at Walmart stores) & no one knew i was homeless at all because i kept my self clean & wore nice clothes then as well, It was an adventure even though it was 17 years because of not able to work because of bad car accident & wow was that a big change for me because i always had plenty of money & that was some change for me but i'm very optimistic & a positive person who views life much different than most others, Love & Peace To All!!
Wish I could help you - but I am in South Africa - On Pension - also struggling financially - If u ever visit South Africa - I live in the free state town of Odendaalsrus with my wife & daughter + 3 cats - you would be most welcome !! my name is George : wife's name i Theresa :-)
George Pollastri God bless you and your family. The USA is not what people think. There's lots of homeless STARVING PEOPLE . Don't get sick cause you'll die. No joke. Jon from Ireland Dublin.....
Sherri Vonch I take homeless in my apartment. It was a 3 bedroom apartment in Jamestown NY. My 2 sisters, my Fiance, and myself rent it. We have about 7 - 8 people staying with us at a time. In the small attic. And basement(wich is decent).
Soooo proud of you I am in tears. A good attitude is the starting point I think. Finding people that care about you is solo important as we all need to be and feel loved. Your experiences will assist others as you begin to heal and this can take a very long time. I am so happy you found this group and I give you big hugs.
God bless all homeless people. My prayers go out to you all . I wish I was someone that had the resources to help all the homeless. My heart literally bleeds watching this 😔
My heart it's crying for all the homeless ppl regardless no one deserves sick harsh life everyone deserves hot shower hot meal and dignity dear Lord 😢🙏🙏🙏❤
I pray that those of you who have shared your story in these comments are truly blessed the way I have been and some...... I hope to meet you all one day! I run into strangers almost everyday that stop me just to give me a hug because they have seen my story. I had no idea how much of an impact this video would make. I am so grateful for this opportunity.
i want you to know that someone does care ok i may not be able to help you get off the street but i can tell you that someone does care and i wish you the best of luck getting off the street.
It is rare as the system is underfunded and therefore understaffed and frankly having lived in the foster system and worked in it foster parenting should be paid more.....dr.s being paid a lot didn't ruin their profession why is it that women's work and emotional and mental health are treated so poorly?
I was in foster care also. I definitely can relate .This was hard to watch. I pray shes on the path of healing.How's she doing now? Is there an update?
Beautiful story, almost made me cry. I'm from Mexico and in my country we don't have the programs and resources to help homeless people to get back on their feet. I'm a homeless man myself, I can speak four languages and have a master's degree in business, but no one wants to employ me because I'm 63 years old. Watching this amazing young woman I feel like not giving up. Thanks for this great article.
Eventually half the population in los Angeles will be homeless. I'm struggling rightnow paying my bills with a descent paying job rent is just too high in los Angeles.
I ALWAYS ASK MYSELF ONE DAMN QUESTION.... HOW IN THE HELL ARE THE RESIDENTS IN CALIFORNIA ARE MAKING IT? I KNOW THE STRUGGLE IS ALL THE WAY REAL THERE!
Sukha. I work 50 to 60 hours a week" paying $1300 a month rent, $450 car note, $160 car insurance, $150 gas, $200 food, $400 utilities I can't remember the last time I baught me some clothes I basically wear my work uniform every day, to avoid being homeless I'm literally a slave for my job.
I was homeless for 2 years, but god blessed me got me off the streets, Now some friends and i go out every morning to give coffee and donuts to the homeless. It makes me cry when i see them cause i know most of them are hurting inside, but if i can brighten their day just a little by letting them know that someone does care MAN time well spent
I hope you see this lovely. Never forget you are beautiful, worthwhile and God loves you. This is not His plan for you, it’s the enemies. You are a daughter of God, completely put your trust in Him and He will lift you up ❤️
@@tonykemp4645 Thank you so much, I often receive a lot of hate on here for just trying to spread love thru Jesus. It’s so refreshing for someone to send positivity and love my way. God bless you and Happy New Year to you and yours! ❤️
I am so proud of you you are a very beautiful girl and I speak to my grandchildren and my two young grandchildren who are going on 11 and I speak to them about how we should be so grateful for the food that's put on the table weather Grandma makes makes it good or not I'm not the best cook but it is food it is sustenance I always try to explain to them how there are so many people in this world that suffer from homelessness starvation abuse and grow up in ways that I could never imagine and as I think they think it or they know it they don't really see it so you're an inspiration for me to teach my grandchildren to not be so self-absorbed and think of others and to give to others and to start saving in they're little Banks to give to the homeless and yes there is a stigma with some homeless people where you feel like you give them the money and they're going to just go buy beer or drugs yet when I see them standing on the corner and I'm able to roll my window down and give it to them I give it to them graciously without any expectations and believe me I'm on a very fixed income because I'm in poor health and the poor health was because I abused my body when I was younger yet I had it all which means I had and upper-middle-class family a loving mother and father who were married for 60 years and I had very strict rules and I would run away and that would cause me problems because I felt they were too strict but now looking back on it I knew that my parents were right and for the times that I ran away it was disgusting it was horrible and the things I had to do for a roof over my head and or sleep in the elements was horrible so as I wasn't actually homeless for long periods of time I experienced being on the streets by my own choice and I know how hard it can be so my dear friend I hope you reach all of your dreams because you are a beautiful girl and I see the strength in you and the willpower and I just know that you're going to go places keep kicking it Forward girlfriend and keep us informed on how you're doing
Homeless does not mean helpless!! Working for others is not how we should be living our life. By others, I mean corporations and banks. Many people work for nothing after you pay ur rent/ mortgage; utility bills, cable company, food and up keep. Then ur material goods. You want to change the word from homeless to simple living. If you want to change the situation, we need to think outside the box. Govts spend so much dealing with homeless people. They can use city owned land to set up a safe environment, housing, medical and mental health and training for a better future. Banks that will help these people with free bank accounts.
zeineguy so true , there are a lot of vacant land in America , the government can built tiny homes or use shipping containers and charge a small rent fee because some person live psy cheque to pay cheque , the rent out there is so high , charge little two hundred dollars a month until they finished and it will be theirs. No everyone was or is fortunate to a have a high paying job.
Haha....put your money in a bank!..... I keep mine in cash.in my pocket.....I like travelling around too...... regular society is so overrated.... people are unhappy everywhere doing what is expected of them....... I was asked once why I didn't want a normal life...... I said.... I had all that and wasn't happy...... I'm happier like this..... I'm free.
zeineguy when are you going to realize that the government will never rescue you or anyone else without helping themselves. wake up! We have to find our way through Christ!
Only those of you who WASTED and squandered your life away. Those of us who are educated and understand economics and know how to crunch the numbers will never belly up. Especially if we have already made our fortunes.
@J J THE TRUTH WILL ALWAYS HAVE A CERTAIN RING TO IT THAT FOOLS AND JACKASSES LIKE YOU CANT HEAR AND THE CREAM ALWAYS RISES TO THE TOP, AND SHIT LIKE YOU ALWAYS GETS FLUSHED.
I will help the homeless. Giving out food or haircuts or money. I don't have much but I have more than them. I feel so sorry for Lovely, it's painful. To know that an innocent person was brought to this world to only be used and tossed out like trash. No one deserves that. I hope she is doing better and that we as a society start giving them the much needed help.
It is the worst irony and injustice when children are taken away from parents or the parent goes to prison or dies that the child ends up with even more abuse and challenges. The best we can do is to help these wonderful, valuable, salvageable humans to reject victimhood and blame and know that within them is the person who will save them. I speak from experience being homeless for 17 months. I was in my mid 50's all alone, bitter and full of deep resentments until one night when I lay my head down, freezing cold and wet from the rain I suddenly had the most dumbfounding realization: Nobody but me was to blame for my circumstances and even my choice might not have been the "wrong" one. I laughed out loud at such a ridiculous idea. What? How could that be? Nevertheless, as astonishing as it was I KNEW it was the truth. I studied everything that had occurred to me in the five years before my homelessness. I really studied the "bad" things that had happened that I had been so sure was this person's fault or that persons doing. But in every case, I found that it was I who had made a critical choice that led to the consequence I experienced. Then I looked at what that consequence had taught me and I was BLOWN AWAY! I really had made hard choices not bad ones and each had positive learning experiences to help me process the next choices. Wow, I was on a roll. Literally the NEXT day I was off the street and smiling with every step I took toward my future. I have a job been working for the same boss for 7 years now My job came with free room and board in a beautiful home in a quiet, safe and friendly neighborhood. I do not regret for one second my hard times living under a bridge or in an abandoned home, nor do I regret anything that has ever happened to me because I know I am the one who sails my ship and life is a learning experience full of adventures and misadventures. I still wish I could stop stubbing my toe or burning the soup but hey that is life on life's own terms. All the rest is mine! Love to you all.
What you say is true, I changed because I had been taught at an early age the work ethic, responsibility and I was taught to not expect handouts and freebies. I thought for a while that my parents,part5icularly my father had it all wrong, that the government should take care of you when you fall down even though it was by your own choices. But it did not take me long to see how my father's wisdom was engrained in me. I could not ignore what he taught me. For others that I saw on the street, trying to help them understand that good values and taking personal responsibility (same thing) was the quickest way to get all that you need and most of what you want....well it was as though I spoke in a foreign tongue and I was suspect to them, they thought I was a secret cop or the enemy. I grew up in a family that sat around the dinner table and talked about whatever were the current events of the day. My dad was home most of the time as we had a farm. Mother worked part-time when my siblings and I were older. Family matters. Parents raising their own kid's matters. Most of the street kids had nothing that came close to family. It is what feminism and the economy has done to this country. It is shameful and sad.
@@janinesjourneys1250 Firstly, let me say that I am not sure many on the streets would consider me the "lucky" one. I know you think that my upbringing and the fact that my parents put useful tools in my bag to carry throughout my life gave me an advantage over those who were not given such things as a sense of personal responsibility and drive. But here is the point you are missing; those homeless adults are not without the ability to understand what it takes to tackle, say their addictions, they have lived long enough to know it is done and even observe others do it. They also know what it really takes to get off the streets because they learned that in the same in the same way. So life itself provides the tools if you are truly interested in making the effort. It is in that last word that we see so much failure. Do you imagine that it was somehow easier for me to pull myself out of the hole I had dug for myself than any other homeless individuals? It was a commitment and a stubborn effort with hard work involved. Most homeless people no matter what circumstances came before the homelessness have grown accustomed to having someone else take care of things for them. Sure many needs are not met and most are met inadequately, Still, it beats taking responsibility, not only for your choices but for own wellbeing. Trust me becoming homeless for many was not a choice but staying homeless...that is a whole different concept.
@Faye Flower I am not heartless, remember I was once homeless and alone. Let me explain what life had been like for me in the year prior to my becoming homeless. I had been very happily married to my husband of 22 years , we lived on a farm which we both loved, life was idyllic. My husband had MS but had few symptoms and still held fulltime work and gardened on weekends. Suddenly, in early spring of that last year, he became very ill very fast. I was in shock. I watched my beloved husband dying by inches before my eyes and try as I might I could not will him to good health. Meanwhile unknown to me, my inlaws were plotting a way to keep me from the inheritance of the farm and a large sum of money My husband's rich Grandfather had left us when he died two years earlier. My mother-in-law had always praised me calling me an "angel" who married her son. But that was a lie apparently and I was too naive to see it. One day they came to the house for an unexpected visit saying they wanted to give me a break from caring for my bedridden husband so they would take him for the day and bring him back the next day. I did not want him to go because I worried that they would not know what to do in an emergency since they rarely ever came to visit him. They did not bring him back. They had an injunction against me saying I was not caring for him well which was totally false. They got a court to give them basically custody of him and my sister-in-law became his legal guardian and filed for divorce. They were able to get into my personal bank account and withdraw $46,000 leaving me with only my business account to pay for an attorney. Consequently, I lost my business (Hospice Care) because I could no longer pay my employees. A restraining order kept me from seeing my husband and I knew he was suffering as much as i was from the loss of love. During that time our large group of friends dwindled away and the church my husband and I were members of shunned me. (my mother-in-law talked to a great many people in order to prove she was reasonable in what she did.. I was so devasted I could barely think, I thought my mind would snap. I took a week to go hiking in the mountains to clear my head and find some spiritual strength. But when I returned criminals had been in my mailbox and stolen my mail. The postmaster found checks and credit cards in an abandoned brand new Camero that had my id in it and my name on everything. The criminals were caught but not before they had wiped me out and charged over $125,000 dollars in my name. I was in the bank every day for weeks signing affidavits for every item that showed up that was not my charge. It was crazy, I was slowly losing my mind. In the end, I lost the farm and the inheritance, I lost my husband without being able to say goodbye, he died. My friends were all gone, then my only support, my mother also died and then my beloved pug was killed by the neighbor's dog right in front of me, I had spent $66,000 on an attorney who did nothing to help me get my husband back. Then I learned Ifrom my doctor that had Lupus.. So I checked out. I literally checked out of life, almost catatonic at first, I talked to myself all the time and lived like a crazy bag lady. Trust me I know what horror is, one month after living in a park I tripped over a woman in the dark and saw that my shoe was covered in blood. A homeless alcoholic woman had been stabbed six times in the neck. Two days later I was violently raped and left battered and bleeding in the mud Never doubt that I needed mental health and a great many other services. But I knew the only person who could change my life was me and that with the help of Almighty God. I could find a path to save myself.
@Faye Flower You made a powerful point when you mentioned the Vets on the street. Nothing but nothing made me more ashamed and angry than to see all the Veterans of war who live in poverty and despair, many with severe injuries including the mental scars. They go to war as heroes and come home to people who have moved on and forgotten them. We are better than this we should never let one single brave hero sleep in the cold shadows of the mean streets it is just shameful. Thank you, Faye, your point is well taken. God blee our Vets!
Wow god bless you, I wish o could get a chance. I’m not homeless and am a recovering addict. Because of my legal history, no one will give m a shot at a career in my fields. Associates in H-care Admin., and 2certificates, Medical Assistant, and Medical Billing and Coding, and 5classes away from Bachelors in H-care Admin. Or when I apply they want 2 years experience, not just my schooling. So my question is, after 59,000 + in school loan debts, how can I get an open door? I feel it has all been wasted time and debt.
I was homeless and it's hard to explain but you feel literally helpless and so depressed that even if someone tries to help you it won't work most of the time.
I once was walking home and saw a young girl on the streets in a sleeping bag I was about 21 she was 17 it was really cold on very late I said to her would you like to come and stop on my sofa till the morning she said yes she asked if I was going to do something to her I said no we went in the flat and watched a film had some food and went to bed she slept on the sofa I woke up at 8 she had gone left a message saying thanks never saw her again I did walk past a few times to see if she was there I still always wonder what happend to her am 36 now
This happened to me when I was in the streets. Im suprised she even went with you because guys are psychos and pray on homeless women. A guy offered me a hotel room and I refused thinking he was trying to pull some shit but low and behold, he took me to his house to get food for me then rented the room and left me there. He asked if he could stay because the 2 beds but I said I would rather leave. He told me he would give me privacy but talk to me in the morning. He left $40. I didn’t feel safe so I left super early in the morning and left a note telling him thanks. When homeless, it’s hard to get out because you don’t trust if someone is genuinely trying helping or hurt. I’m sure she didn’t go to sleep at all, she was too nervous. The streets end up feeling safer when you are homeless
CriscianaLovely oh yes I understood when she asked me the question was I going to harm her but I actually think she was comfortable once we got to my flat and had food and watched full monty she was laughing but there was no bad intentions it was very cold and really late I just felt sorry for her I would actually like to no what happened to her there was no Facebook then or owt lol
James 84 Now I wonder if that guy wonders where I am now. Lol
James 84 she left because she didn’t trust you and thought you might bring harm. She realized she let her guard down. Believe me. It’s constant paranoia. I met girls on the streets who were murdered, raped or stabbed by strangers..... and it’s never just other homeless people. It’s by working class men with families and wives who are undercover psychos.. living 2 double lives. They get away with it by being nice to homeless women or prostitutes
CriscianaLovely yeah she put her trust in me I could have been any one to be fair but she had a warm place to stay some nice food and a good film to watch I was going to ask her if she wanted a shower but I thought best not she mint think am a creepy or summit lol...well I take it your back on your feet now then
Most of us are only 2 paychecks away from being homeless!
Yep
legasiguy thank God for Trump we are now 7 checks from being homeless.
🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸TRUMP 2020🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Yup
Bigger checks or cheaper houses ?
Irwin Wins Hahaha!
Sometimes we need help getting up when we fall down.
And sometimes there ain't no help. A person's goal better be to STAY UP. and help themselves.
Miss Shannon, true
agree
something in me was born knowing you help your brothers and sister because just a little help can go a long way for someone when they need it.
@@missshannon9790 You're absolutely right, but of course that isn't always possible either.
SHE HAS A LION HEART!
SHE IS CLEANING STREETS AND TEACHING DIGNITY.
BAD THINGS HAPPENED TO HER, BUT SHE HAS SUCH A STRENGTH AND BEAUTY.
LOVELY, YOU ARE LOVELY!
Yeah, any other girls would just be giving BJ's 24/7 and saving up hundreds per week...
Haven, LOL. Spoken like a typical dude. You have no fucking clue. It's hilarious. X)
@Legal Fiction Natural Fact Well, he may very well be engaging n those acts himself so let the boy speak for himself I know for a fact he's not in no way attempting to degrade any woman by any means especially when the only reason for his existence is because a woman gave him life.
@@starlitecc lol
@@DexterHaven that's a hustle though profitable
Being homeless changes a person forever. I was homeless for over 2 years. I wouldn’t change those experiences. It makes you appreciate the little things!!!!! Thanks for sharing 💪🏾
I been homeless off and on last few years.. And yes you are right..
Facts! I was homeless for a year in NYC in 2014. It really does change you.
Amelia Knife Ae man sorry. I always lusten to Rocky to motivate me.
you americans have it tough, respect
This is the truth! I was homeless from 13-15 not of my choice either. But the experience is beyond anything it made me super strong till this day I know I have it in me to get through things and furthermore, appreciate every got dam thing I have in life, and this life, period. ❤
It doesn’t matter if they are homeless, it doesn’t matter if they are addicted to drugs, it’s doesn’t matter if they are alcoholics, it doesn’t matter if they have a mental illness, it doesn’t matter why or how they got homeless, they are people who have feelings and don’t deserve hate. I stop and give what I can almost every time I see them on the corner. I don’t care what they use the money for. Once it’s out of my hands, it’s no longer my business but I make sure to shake their hands and converse with them while at the red light. Even a few words means a lot to someone. I don’t always have money on me but I always roll my window down and say words of encouragement. Little acts of kindness goes a long way.
all time it’s my money and I can give it to whom I want to. I don’t make assumptions on what they use the money for and it’s not my business either. After a long hard day I like a cold beer. I’m sure if I was in the side of the road with people yelling at me, I’d want a drink after that too. Plus I spent a long time in the Army and I learned real quick, when ur starving, u can’t sleep good. So after awhile they will buy food anyways. After all of my tax money that is given to women that stay at home and have multiple kids with multiple fathers and get welfare, food stamps and section 8 housing, why do the homeless deserve less? Better than giving it to woman who lays on her back with her legs spread just so she can collect free money.
Ben, well stated.
Amen, god bless you.
Wow you are such a good person. And so humble. What a great guy. You are changing the world by giving homeless people money. What would we do without you.
"Their choices don't matter, we should just give them everything they want"
-Logic of Ben Vasilinda, dumb ass 2019.
I was on the edge to become homeless 20 years ago. But I turn the table around one day at a time. Today I own a home without being abused and no disturb. No more. Never again.
We are all one paycheck from being homeless. I KNOW,, BEEN THERE
Ching lan Lie ++good job I can relate
Ching lan Lie wow yr blesd how did you get yr home good job
More people need what you have its called drive and a positive outlook.
What job did you get?
I know that this video is 4 years old. I hope Lovely is still doing well
God bless you for your beautiful thoughts
I said the same thing I posted earlier and yep I hope she's doing well she has an energy about her even through this video you just feel it you know you just feel it 🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm okay thank you. I am now a mother of 4 children and have been housed since 2014. Thank you for watching my story and your support.
@@lovelynakooka995 OMG! That's SO amazing that you responded and are now well. I'm so people of you! Do you have PayPal or Cashapp? I just want to send you $20 to treat the kids or whatever. I was homeless for only a couple months and I know how hard it was to get out (nevermind years AND being a female!) Keep reaching for your dreams Lovely! Once again... I'm very proud of you. Leave that cashapp or PayPal for me (& any other person who might want to send you a lil 💖)
Take care 😊
Lovely Nakooka Amazing! So happy for you.
Regardless of what brought you to homelessness you deserve dignity and to be treated humanely God Bless
I am homeless. I also served 5 years in the Marine Corps. I have a daughter. She was abducted and then kidnapped when the mother left California and moved to New York. I haven't seen them in 11 years. New York says I owe child support for all that time. And there is an interest rate. I can't afford to pay the interest rate. So the debt continues to grow. Any money I put in the bank is taken by the state. My wages are garnished. I work over 60 hours a week, and I still can not afford a home. If I pay rent, I can't eat. So I live in a Semi Truck, where I work. And I'll have to keep driving a truck until I am unable to drive. And by that time, I'll be in more debt even though I am making payments. I might as well burn the money because it's paying the people who forced me into a hardship, to continue to labor with no possibility of retirement. I am not just homeless. I am a slave.
Matt's Van Life wtf man that’s fucked up
The system is fu*k'd.
Smh
Your story is not that unusual unfortunately, i know a guy that got divorced, wife and kids got allotted more support than he could afford, he moved to another state and went 'under the radar', otherwise he would have probably been homeless too. It's so sad
you need a lawyer homeboy, no way they should be charging you more money than you can afford. I love how the US treats its veterans you risk your life and if you survive we destroy it. USA! USA!
I personally live paycheck by paycheck..if I fall ill tomorrow or anything bad happens to me, I could very easily end up in that situation.
Only Gameplays i feel u man
In Canada we pay so much for everything just because it is so expensive for anything we need. Like food and gasoline, rent and everything even supplies like lumber if a person needed it. Most people live paycheck to paycheck. A person here struggles to put any money aside and it always needs to go somewhere. Like oh shit I need winter tires or new work boots. And gas can go up 30 cents a litre in two weeks. Fuck I can't believe it here. They tax the hell out of us.
Only Gameplays agree.....
You need to cut down some of your expenses and save as much as possible just incase something happens to u, and if u can invest that savings for a side income DAT can reaaly keep you financially sound.
+Stop Smoking For Life I don't believe this was any advice for you! Dumbdumb
I worked till I was 52, became too sick to work because of a heart condition. Two weeks after my 401 ran out I spent three years on the street fighting for my disability. Finally got it they only paid back pay for to years. I'm now of the streets, it's a sad thing to feel lost and hopeless. My prayers go out to all homeless wish I could help them all.
where was your family and how did they FEEL about you being out on the streeeeeet 😮💨🙄🙄??
I was homeless from the age of 14 to 16 ,living from day to day I was asleep one night and some drunk men kicked the living daylights out of me ,I was 14 ? Taken into hospital and I managed to escape from people that wanted to put me in care in them days you were never treated right . I'm 59 now and never a day goes by that I know how easy it is to be back there, being diabetic I would never survive now, adds to the fear but I stay positive,I have too. Thank you for your input from the UK.
My heart goes out to that lovely soul . She's a champion for just being alive. Shine on .
Thank you
@@lovelynakooka995 💚 I hope you are doing ok over there.
I'm stuck on what she said "she went to the cops to tell them she s been raped and they told her You find a drug dealer we find your rapist" WTF SMFH! Damn shame I hope she reported them.
I agree!!!
Niylah JayPheonix same thing happened to me with the cops when I was raped and tortured by police. The cops won't help. So now I don't call the cops at all. I fight to the death.
hurts real bad indeed
I'm not buying it.
Niylah- jay.- typical guuttless pigs/ gestapo, Shitt themselves every time. As a ex castrater farmer jist bring the rapist's too me and ahh will make Senorita Bobbit off Ecuedor look like a nun.
She actually is lovely...God bless this child please!
Everyone deserves a home, it breaks my heart
RIGHT😔..AMEN💔
I appreciate ur opinion plz will you be my friend
Im. Homels my. Sealf. Is. Very. Dificult. One. Day. At. They. Time. Con. Problemas. Emocionales. Metal. Probless they. Pression. donde. Perdy. Todo. Y. No. Tengo. Problemas. De. Drogas. Para. Nada. Pero. Si. Problemas. emocionales. Seria. Mente. donde. Tengo y sufro. De. Prostrauma. P T S D. con. Esto. Estoy. Viviendo. Para. Dormir. Tengo. Que. Tomar. Calmantes. Muy. Fuertes. Aveces le. Pido. A. Papa. Dios. Que. Me. Deje. Dormido. difinitiva. Mente. Sin. Despertar. Y. Sin. Sufrir. La. Malloria. Delas. Personas. Nos. Rechasan. Y. Nos. Desprecian por. Tener. Problemas. De. Este. Tipo. cuando. Sedan. Cuenta. Que. Somos. Desanparados. Y. Muchos. Nila. Familia. Nos. buscan nos. Tiran. Al. Menos. Y. Nos. Desprecian. nos. Miran. Inferior. para. La. Sosieda. Y eso. duele. Mucho. y. No. Lodamos. ademostrar. pero. Senos. Gunta. El. cielo. yla. Tierra. Delo. Mal que. Nos. Sentimos. gracias. vendiciones para. Ustedes
Sister then there is no work for the politicians and the burocrats.
You learn who your real friends are when u hit rock bottom...
Them friends/best friends disappear...
I never did drugs but I was a drinker...I went into rehab got a job n my own place...
IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE
Giving me hope and this comment is definitely true you learn who’s really there for you
As a grown-up god and ya money is ya best friend
So true you really know who your true friends r when u hit rock bottom with no fault of ur own.
I believe there isn't no freinds in this world. Completely agree with that statement. You see allot more when you hit rock bottom. Clear picture. Smh. God is the only true freind. Have faith in him. The only one who truly cares. Thank you jesus. For everything you done in my life. And continue doing. 🙏😞🙏
Alcohol is a hard drug
Thank you for this. Broke my heart to see her suffering, that poor girl's going through. She deserves to have a dad and a mom who loves her unconditionally. Blessings to her and the strength she gained help others that she can relate to.
Very sad and depressing makes me wanna cry. God help and bless the homeless! Shout out to the producer of this video/story 🙏
I am so glad this young lady was able to get some help .thank you Jesus
It was Joy within her all along
That made her have patience, be Kind,and stay strong. Even when she was at her breaking points .
Amazing how her spirit seemed to lifted up!
Should tell Jesus to not have put her through all that crap in the first place
Amen, Thank you Lord.. "oh to be his hand extended.. reaching out to Him in Praise...
where were your jesus when she got raped
It is 2018, I watched the video and was very touched by Lovely's story. As someone who experienced the streets for a year as an 11-12 yr old, and foster homes, I really hope that Lovely is happy and doing well. All the best to her.
You are stronger than most people,keep going my dearly!!!
I have reached out to her online, she is doing well.. And seems to be living the dream now...
❤
Hey Stewart thank you. Sorry I stopped responding. It's just hard to trust anyone
@@StewartMarsden she has any social media?
All there faces show so much pain yet the eyes still sparkle with hope!
thought the same
eyes so bright
Jenny&Brett you reap what you sow..
Liberty Drew in this world there is little compassion,the way I look at it all is only the strong survive period.And being weak in this world would be for your disanvatage.Now why do you think the number ratio from the poor out numbers the rich by a serious long shot.Now there would be a number of factors for that why the majority of humans are poor but I'll leave that up to your imagination..
citizens of the.... last days?it was my impression, grettings from argentina, nice coment.
dream warrior wrote: "you reap what you sow" - Is that a comment about the individuals or on this uncaring society that does not respect human beings unless they have money. The US spends most of the tax revenue on the military, invasions, occupations of other countries, instead of education, healthcare and housing. And billionaire leeches stash their wealth offshore instead of paying their share. Don't blame homeless people for the ills of this sick society.
I was homeless for 18 months and now living in transitional housing. The most important thing I learned: *When you're homeless, you have to come to your own rescue, or you won't survive.*
have a nice day,
-Christian J.
YEPPP..😔
Sink or swim.
I agree with you.
There are so many nasty things people are saying here. Not everyone has a healthy mind. The majority of homeless are mentally ill. They can't afford medication and unless you have been even close to mentally sick you have no idea why or how they got where they are. I don't understand why the ones that are so angry about this girl watch the video and why do you feel the need to write something so awful. Why not just move on? I'm thinking several people that are so offended by her have no idea what REAL struggle is. I don't mean just regular life struggles either. I mean the serious shit. People are so fast to just judge. I'm sure I will get some nasty comments but it's fine.
Kimberly W.. Yes i agree with you about why people are so negative, I just do not understand the negative messages i see every where at times for it pays dividends when we choose to be nice & when those negative people choose to be mean & harsh, So why not win by being nice?
Kimberly W some people don’t know what they talking about
Yes, people can be amazingly ignorant. Everyone can have something happen but many have something happen or something worse without reliable supports. People are becoming more and more isolated and disconnected from community and agencies might not be reliable or known. Notice she was asked to do research for police in exchange for the police taking care of the crime that was committed against her, when she should have been helped as a matter of course and was probably too worn out from it all to do anything. It is amazing the extent to which people judge, judging when many are a step away from it themselves and would not recover without secure supports. Some simply have lost these supports and things happen. On a side note, I heard a high percentage of people by their 40s in the US have had some period of homelessness, the difference perhaps was that they had a way to be helped out and backup resources with trusted friends’ or relatives’ sofas to sleep on.
Amen Kimberly ,people are judgmental and very sad inside . No room for non empathetic people send them mars.
Finally some compassion!
L O V E L Y I S O K
I was touched by her story and courage, I have reached out to her online, she is doing well.. And seems to be living the dream now...
@nic sharp Yo are you serious? I KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT ENDED UP HOMELESS. THEY ARE NOW ON THEIR FEET AND YOU COULD BECOME A BUM SINCE YOU THINK THAT UNFORTUNATE PEOPLE ARE BUMS. IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU. SHE HAD NO FAMILY TO GUIDE HER. YOU SUCK!
"Living the dream"? What does that mean. What is the dream bozo? Lovely is alive but living the dream she isn't. I doubt that you know this woman.
Lovely ♥️
@@baremax Yup
Hello, please let me know how I can contact her. I want to send her a care package. I am a substance abuse counselor with many years working in mental health. Although it's the most beautiful state I've ever lived in, I've seen so much evil in California. That's the least I can do.
This is so heartbreaking, she's a very very strong woman, thank you so much for helping her change her life
Sad, I remember a Lovely from being in the same situations as a kid. I also have been homeless, and went to school for nursing while sleeping in a car. Got sober with the help of a high-power then paid lots of money to expunge my record, and prayed a lot. Luckily made it to the other side: so sad to see her in this situation 🥺 Praying for you young lady!🙏🏼🙌🏼
@Jay Phive~ how strong are you to make a better way for yourself. God be with you sir. 🙏✝️👊
❤️
Well done you. I hope this see girl finds her path.
My mother always told me ppl will give you food to eat, before they give you a place to stay ..
Because most people are managing their own living situation like a piece of fragile glass....it could fall to pieces at any time.
A person could be living in a shack that's crumbling down around them, but it feels like they live in a mansion cauz at least its theirs, and they aint out on the street.
Man. People have GOT to take better care of themselves. Because Self is all we truly have.
Some people don't even offer that
Most people only have their own homes, they do not have extra homes. And, let's face it- most people are afraid to take in a stranger into their homes because they don't know what kind of people they are taking in. The person could be on drugs, be a thief or cause them harm. That is just the reality of things, not trying to judge or put all homeless people in the same class. But, one bad apple will ruin it for all. There have been people who took in homeless people to help them get on their feet and the homeless people killed the person that tried to help them. So, I'm sure we can understand that fear. Then, people realize that they themselves have to 'work' in order to have a home (and sometimes they are barely making ends meet), so they cannot take care of another adult. Another thing to look at is a person home may be full already, they have family in the home they are taking care of. Plus, people are going to or should be very careful who they bring around their children. There are just so many factors to look at. It's not that people don't want to help.
@@missshannon9790 God is all we have we just have to trust in God and do as good as we can
@@jesuschristislordofmeandmy5122 amen to that. Tryna believe more!
I wish I could help them all, I really do. God be with them and keep them. safe. 🙌🙏
You look like a junky too.
Nicole Tate You're an idiot.
I'd rather help animals
@@harrykaminski3627
Hmm....sounds like you only have half a heart.
HELP BOTH! Then you'll be doing the right thing.
ps...No one is exempt from being homeless. Not even you!
Are u even real😂😂
Lovely i see big things for you keep truckin sister you can do this and help reach so many people. Im so proud of you (big hugs)
whip master that does not matter the lord loves her just the same as he loves you
God is can use her to reach people that were in her situation. The unreachable. People that wont listen to someone in a suit and tie. She is a beautiful daughter of god
The replies are fkn stupid, marisa you're correct, i agree with you 100%✊🤜🤛
@@5tonyvvvv hopefully by this time you grew up from your comment on this🙄🤷♂️
So sad to see another indigenous woman lost and on the streets. Especially with the amount of them going missing.
'whitey' doesn't care, it's a prerequisites for said to thrive the most (where it applies), along with mass incarceration of proportionally mostly latinos/blacks (working class whites aside)..
I am heart broken for those of you that have hurtful things to say, but won't take it personal, it is what is this is how social media works apparently. And I myself have been childish and currently can be lol.
I would personally like to say thank all you of for taking 8 minutes out of your time to watch and listen to me, I had no idea that this would go viral. And hi to everyone that recognized me. Those of you who know me, and have witnessed what I have been through thank you for being there for me when you were. I hope that my story has been able to lift those that are down. I hope that I can inspire you to want a good LIFE and to go get it. I didn't realize that my video was going to be used for donation purposes to the DOWN TOWN STREETS TEAM. And I don't mind I love the down town streets team and want to give back as much as I can! I will contact the people who filmed this and you can look at me now....
Ever thought of coming back to Hawaii. Man my heart ached for a second at the beginning of your story. Local girl homeless many miles from home I hope and pray you will be ok.
my respect for you and team-go on-be strong and belive in your self and you will get there -may the Force be with you Lovely and thank you for the video
Jesus bless you Lovely😚🕇💓💓💓💓
Lovely Nako'oka Be strong👏🏼
Just remember those that leave those types of comments are usually just projecting thier own hurt or insecurities through social media...it's just the way this online stuff works now.
I was really inspired by your story and that you found the stepping stone you needed to rise up.
Keep moving forward and staying strong.
This was me. I'm now in my 30s and an addictions counselor and social worker. You have it right girl. Not all of is are strong enough to get back up. You are. If I can you can. I pray you're well.
You're indeed lovely! Such a kind spirit and warm smile, I'm rooting for you! Sitting here in Sweden so I can't really do anything for you guys, but I'm trying to help here locally. With your spirit you should be able to go far!! This video really touched me
I like her Voice, she's cute, hope she has found her way to a better life....
Hello from Corpus Christi. You are special in Gods eyes. And dont mind the little people who look down on you. If they only knew how much God truely loves you no matter what your decision are. I wish i could be there to extend a helping hand, and a warm hug. You are loved. God bless you Lovely, keep on smiling dear. Its contagious. I pray these messages reach you.
ur beautiful
R A Amen sister. Also another God warrior from Corpus Christi. The best thing we can do is send prayers for one another. Take care and I hope she is doing well in this crazy world we live in.
R A Amen
Amen
beautiful young lady very strong great smile her name fits her beautiful spirit
Gary Murray nice comment man..good to see there is caring people out there
This video made me cry! How can a beautiful child be let down like this!!!??? How can society let a beautiful girl such as Lovely just fall through the cracks when she was suppose to be safety netted???!!! Took notice of that this video was taped almost 3 years ago. I hope things have improved for Lovely and that things are looking up for her!!! And I hope she makes her way into a successful photography career! I sense that she would be an outstanding professional photographer!!!
Poor homeless girls. It is always more cruel for them. They can't avoid being raped, none of them.
*My heart goes out to Lovely. May God bless her for always.*
good job sista Lovely! born in Hawaii you have that inner warrior to set your mind at over coming anything. you have a very bright future! I once was in your situation for 9 years as a young adult. I over came it been clean for 14 years. and enjoy my ohana every single day!... we have that inner warrior instilled in us from our ancestors. I admire your strength n beauty. blessings to you and your endeavors! IMUA!
Earl Kepa'a dont forget that not everyone was a warrior. Its the warriors job to protect those who dont have what it takes to fight.
Earl Kepa'a Hawaiians have never won a war and are not warriors lol
big red let me take you to KINg Kamrhameha's hei'au that he built. leave you there over nite. so you can tell him that n let's see if your narrow minded conclusion is still the same.
Thank you guys for helping these poor people out! Plenty of love and blessings to you, as well as Lovely, she seems so amazing and deserves to live out her dreams.
I dont get how people that make music and barely put any effort can be milionairs while other people who work their ass off day and night turn homeless ,the world is messed up
Don't underestimate the hardships of creative work and especially music, even many of those that become famous have had rough periods with some even becoming homeless for some time
I don't think comparing effort without specifics is productive or worthwile. You never know what people have gone through to be where they are, whatever that place may be.
Because helping a person who actually needs it is totally "Communist."
Too many Children in high positions. And not enough Adults.
IQ matters, some people just know how to invest, sell, and manage. It’s a complicated world and there is no place for people who can’t hack it. We have to do a better job of offering hots and cot as cheaply as possible. The problem of that solution is people would rather use drugs on the street, then stay in a situation of three hots and cot and no drugs allowed.
I have been arguing this point for years. Why actors, footballers, t.v personalities are paid more and idealised when nurses, doctors, care workers are paid less. Why is someone paid more because they can sing better than you and I. How ridiculous is that?
i hope y’all help these people since y’all interviewing them
Amen!
Why dont you help? If your not part of the solution, then your part of the problem.
this interview ai already a big help..don't you think so?
+Ezer's Corner Yup sure is!!!😇God Bless
Joe Caster are you helping them Joe??
Character is who you are when nobody is watching...
I jerk off when nobody is watching. What does that make me?
Honesty First. So, you are saying it is ok if I masturbate even if people are watching? Please give me the green light.
Mike... ROFL... you a fool. Do you want people to watch ? I hope not because if you do then that makes you a sexual freak ! If you do it by yourself..... then your still okay.
rita pita.... FACTS. I feel sorry for some, but let us see what got them there in the first place to analyze if we need to be sorrowful or just call them a dumb ass. The lady in the video "choose" to get into trouble then she seemed to be hanging out (so to speak) with the wrong people. If you chilling with low lives, criminals, wrong doers all day, then you can't cry wolf on how you got mistreated. She choose it.
GravityLee... God is with those ladies every day that get raped and sold by ISIS. He is also on the killing fields to watch their husbands, fathers, brothers (men) get slaughtered for no reason also. He does not do anything about it though.... he is just there. (Faith euphoria is the worst)
Oh baby I pray for you that all your dreams come true and you never sleep another night on the street! Your story made me cry! God bless you sweetie
Ruru Petr0syan I can really feel your heart for this girl. Thank you for compassion.
Thank you
Your a beautiful young lady! Don't ever give up! May God be with you always!
I have so much respect for you, Lovely. and everyone that experiences similar things. So much strength and beauty
Thank you!
She is very well spoken, seems to me she had some education.
May God give her a lot of blessings.
East or west Only good people suffer the most, the people who have the greatest and sweetest hearts are in Pain. and bad people control the countries.
Yaman Alyafi'i True
All it matters is who can push and shove you out of the way to prosper in life. In smallest things you will encounter normal decent people doing little tricks to get ahead of others.People who you otherwise will not regard as crooks but are clever and mean too .Those who cant do it are good hearted people who gets hurt . World moves on.
This is so true. When you serve Satan you get what you want.
U are so right, i lived for others and now am homeless and those who i have suffered greatly for are gone
Of course, I agree. I know first hand
I've been homeless 2 and half years due to hurricane Harvey. Being a female makes it much worse. She's right, your scared to sleep at night and never really get much rest. . Sleep deprivation makes it even worse. I sometimes hold a sign during the day begging.... and because I feel safe with so many people around, I sometimes just atomativally fall asleep?! I've had people accuse me of being drunk, or high! ,but I'm not... Please don't judge all.
All homeless ppl aren't on drugs or have smells
I agree. Unfortunately, it only takes a few bad examples to make the rest of us look bad. Many homeless are not lazy, want to work, dont use drugs. We just want to get back to a normal lifestyle
Thelondonbadger some pedos are classy. My uncle was always a gentleman whenever he touched me. Long story short he shot himself before his final court date. So he’s in heaven now
What if a person smells does that make them less?
Jassy Redd In a decline of economy anyone could be homeless
Jassy Redd you are right because while i was homeless i never drank then nor done drugs & i went to walmart or gas stations to wash up ( at Walmart stores) & no one knew i was homeless at all because i kept my self clean & wore nice clothes then as well, It was an adventure even though it was 17 years because of not able to work because of bad car accident & wow was that a big change for me because i always had plenty of money & that was some change for me but i'm very optimistic & a positive person who views life much different than most others, Love & Peace To All!!
Wish I could help you - but I am in South Africa - On Pension - also struggling financially - If u ever visit South Africa - I live in the free state town of Odendaalsrus with my wife & daughter + 3 cats - you would be most welcome !! my name is George : wife's name i Theresa :-)
George Pollastri God bless you!
George Pollastri creeper
George Pollastri
God bless you and your family. The USA is not what people think. There's lots of homeless STARVING PEOPLE . Don't get sick cause you'll die. No joke. Jon from Ireland Dublin.....
tom ee - FUCK OFF !!
How kind...
I used to take in homeless... I hope they all find shelter.
Take me in. Come on why not! From L. A.
Sherri Vonch I don't trust no one period especially homeless people they are rogue or loose cannons if I say..lol
Sherri Vonch
I take homeless in my apartment. It was a 3 bedroom apartment in Jamestown NY. My 2 sisters, my Fiance, and myself rent it. We have about 7 - 8 people staying with us at a time. In the small attic. And basement(wich is decent).
What a shame, poor lass, so pretty and you feel for her. I hope she gets what she needs to be herself. I hope and pray for you Lovely.
No one is above homelessness 💀paychecks aren’t guaranteed !!!!!!!!
the capitalistic dream
You are 100% right. I NEVER trust any job and tell other people to NEVER trust a job. Thanks for your words of wisdom
Kelly Norvell JOB = just over broke
USA ALWAYS how right you were! Not knowing that this virus would hit and upset the economy like it did
Soooo proud of you I am in tears. A good attitude is the starting point I think. Finding people that care about you is solo important as we all need to be and feel loved. Your experiences will assist others as you begin to heal and this can take a very long time. I am so happy you found this group and I give you big hugs.
That could be me. I’m disabled and I know this can happen to me.
I am so happy that she gets a second chance. She deserves it. ♥️🙏🏽
Hey if you're single hit me
Sooo glad u didn't give up. Your are such a blessing & the world needs more people like you!🙌☺️🙏
Everybody needs somebody..
This is what happens when u have nobody..😢..
I pray that God will help them find their way..
5starMommy Greer Your an idiot.. Everyone I know is a user..
5starMommy Greer 5 STAR PEICE OF SHIT.. HOW DARE U..GET IN NEED N C WHO HELP'S YOU BITCH..YOU HAVEN'T LEARNED YET. BE HUMBLE M CARING.
god LOL
I have nobody
@@josephletellier6324 are you okay Joseph? it's hard being alone huh
God bless all homeless people. My prayers go out to you all . I wish I was someone that had the resources to help all the homeless. My heart literally bleeds watching this 😔
Nice to see you can still smile after all that you have gone through.
My heart it's crying for all the homeless ppl regardless no one deserves sick harsh life everyone deserves hot shower hot meal and dignity dear Lord 😢🙏🙏🙏❤
You are my hero I. Am homeless also but be proud we are still here
Homeless with internet
Sweetheart, you deserve so much more. I'm so sorry people have failed you since day one. No one is immune to becoming homeless. Only spread love.
I always give to the homeless whenever I can. And that's truth! I realize that you can be up today and down tomorrow.
Such a beautiful human being. Lovely is definitely lovely! :)
I pray that those of you who have shared your story in these comments are truly blessed the way I have been and some...... I hope to meet you all one day! I run into strangers almost everyday that stop me just to give me a hug because they have seen my story. I had no idea how much of an impact this video would make. I am so grateful for this opportunity.
You're amazing!
She has such a pretty smile. I hope she is doing well, no one deserves to be homeless.
You go Lovely! Stay up stay Strong!
Thanks for talking about homeless people.
I appreciate it.
Sometimes i think i will end up like them.
The world has not been kind to me.
God has heard your crys you are strong women keep up the good work prayers to the homeless this lovely lady.
Lovely, I'm from Oakland California, and vow to come find you to give you a personal hug and thank you!
Have you found her?
Fine her pls
send her the money instead
briaunna kay pls update here if you met with her 😇
She don’t want no damn hug!!
I've been Homeless a lot in my life.......Thanks for sharing Love, very brave of you, God bless
like a god's blessings help
i want you to know that someone does care ok i may not be able to help you get off the street but i can tell you that someone does care and i wish you the best of luck getting off the street.
God Bless you. You have such a beautiful soul. Hope all your dreams come true !!!
many ppl do not realize how the system treats wards of the state who go into the system. there are SOME children who get proper homes. I feel her...
It is rare as the system is underfunded and therefore understaffed and frankly having lived in the foster system and worked in it foster parenting should be paid more.....dr.s being paid a lot didn't ruin their profession why is it that women's work and emotional and mental health are treated so poorly?
Sherri Vonch me too😢😭
I was in foster care also. I definitely can relate .This was hard to watch. I pray shes on the path of healing.How's she doing now? Is there an update?
Kenna Miller 🤗
GOD I pray for you to send guardian angels to protect this young woman
I pray for her too
My heart goes out to all those living on the streets. To MY understanding no one can identify with being homeless until it happens to them...
Beautiful story, almost made me cry. I'm from Mexico and in my country we don't have the programs and resources to help homeless people to get back on their feet. I'm a homeless man myself, I can speak four languages and have a master's degree in business, but no one wants to employ me because I'm 63 years old. Watching this amazing young woman I feel like not giving up. Thanks for this great article.
As I scrolled through these stories I am appalled at how many elderly are in the homeless population. With the cost of housing going up, up 8:17 8:17
And social security going down, I am afraid I may be homeless soon. It keeps me awake at night.
How sad that she could not get help from the cops when she was assaulted... that is a tragedy
Eventually half the population in los Angeles will be homeless. I'm struggling rightnow paying my bills with a descent paying job rent is just too high in los Angeles.
James Stephens hahahaha rent is high in l.a? pshh shut up bruh...
I ALWAYS ASK MYSELF ONE DAMN QUESTION.... HOW IN THE HELL ARE THE RESIDENTS IN CALIFORNIA ARE MAKING IT? I KNOW THE STRUGGLE IS ALL THE WAY REAL THERE!
James Stephens I lived in California for a little bit, too expensive, so I came back to Arkansas
Sukha. I work 50 to 60 hours a week" paying $1300 a month rent, $450 car note, $160 car insurance, $150 gas, $200 food, $400 utilities I can't remember the last time I baught me some clothes I basically wear my work uniform every day, to avoid being homeless I'm literally a slave for my job.
James Stephens well time to buy a nice used rv buddy lol
i pray she is doing well, recording music and taking beautiful photos. i pray shes following her dreams and happy!!!
I was homeless for 2 years, but god blessed me got me off the streets, Now some friends and i go out every morning to give coffee and donuts to the homeless. It makes me cry when i see them cause i know most of them are hurting inside, but if i can brighten their day just a little by letting them know that someone does care MAN time well spent
I hope you see this lovely. Never forget you are beautiful, worthwhile and God loves you. This is not His plan for you, it’s the enemies. You are a daughter of God, completely put your trust in Him and He will lift you up ❤️
@Finding Faith~ beautifully said. God bless
You have a BEAUTAFULL heart just like the woman living on the street I love your comment about her I wish you a happy New year stay safe take care
@@tonykemp4645 Thank you so much, I often receive a lot of hate on here for just trying to spread love thru Jesus. It’s so refreshing for someone to send positivity and love my way. God bless you and Happy New Year to you and yours! ❤️
@@findingfaith2683 there's a lot of hate out there alright I am a kind hearted person I like to thankyou for your reply GOD BLESS
Love love love. Proud of you 🙏🏻❤️
I am so proud of you you are a very beautiful girl and I speak to my grandchildren and my two young grandchildren who are going on 11 and I speak to them about how we should be so grateful for the food that's put on the table weather Grandma makes makes it good or not I'm not the best cook but it is food it is sustenance I always try to explain to them how there are so many people in this world that suffer from homelessness starvation abuse and grow up in ways that I could never imagine and as I think they think it or they know it they don't really see it so you're an inspiration for me to teach my grandchildren to not be so self-absorbed and think of others and to give to others and to start saving in they're little Banks to give to the homeless and yes there is a stigma with some homeless people where you feel like you give them the money and they're going to just go buy beer or drugs yet when I see them standing on the corner and I'm able to roll my window down and give it to them I give it to them graciously without any expectations and believe me I'm on a very fixed income because I'm in poor health and the poor health was because I abused my body when I was younger yet I had it all which means I had and upper-middle-class family a loving mother and father who were married for 60 years and I had very strict rules and I would run away and that would cause me problems because I felt they were too strict but now looking back on it I knew that my parents were right and for the times that I ran away it was disgusting it was horrible and the things I had to do for a roof over my head and or sleep in the elements was horrible so as I wasn't actually homeless for long periods of time I experienced being on the streets by my own choice and I know how hard it can be so my dear friend I hope you reach all of your dreams because you are a beautiful girl and I see the strength in you and the willpower and I just know that you're going to go places keep kicking it Forward girlfriend and keep us informed on how you're doing
Homeless does not mean helpless!! Working for others is not how we should be living our life. By others, I mean corporations and banks. Many people work for nothing after you pay ur rent/ mortgage; utility bills, cable company, food and up keep. Then ur material goods. You want to change the word from homeless to simple living. If you want to change the situation, we need to think outside the box. Govts spend so much dealing with homeless people.
They can use city owned land to set up a safe environment, housing, medical and mental health and training for a better future. Banks that will help these people with free bank accounts.
zeineguy so true , there are a lot of vacant land in America , the government can built tiny homes or use shipping containers and charge a small rent fee because some person live psy cheque to pay cheque , the rent out there is so high , charge little two hundred dollars a month until they finished and it will be theirs.
No everyone was or is fortunate to a have a high paying job.
Haha....put your money in a bank!..... I keep mine in cash.in my pocket.....I like travelling around too...... regular society is so overrated.... people are unhappy everywhere doing what is expected of them....... I was asked once why I didn't want a normal life...... I said.... I had all that and wasn't happy...... I'm happier like this..... I'm free.
zeineguy when are you going to realize that the government will never rescue you or anyone else without helping themselves. wake up! We have to find our way through Christ!
This is awesome. Thank you downtown streets for helping these souls. Programs similar are needed all over... 💗
"Isn't she Lovely"and a Wonder? You got this girl👏
I have been in their shoes... it sucks and can be near impossible to rebuild
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*We are all close to being homeless, I feel for u, God Bless you, you’re beautiful, I used to be homeless*
Only those of you who WASTED and squandered your life away. Those of us who are educated and understand economics and know how to crunch the numbers will never belly up. Especially if we have already made our fortunes.
@@theanswerisinthebackofyourhead WOW OBAMA HATER is that how it works! thank you soooooo much! now I'll never have to worry again! God bless you!
@@theanswerisinthebackofyourhead fooled by randomness
@J J THE TRUTH WILL ALWAYS HAVE A CERTAIN RING TO IT THAT FOOLS AND JACKASSES LIKE YOU CANT HEAR AND THE CREAM ALWAYS RISES TO THE TOP, AND SHIT LIKE YOU ALWAYS GETS FLUSHED.
@@lanny1076 THATS HOW IT WORKS, ONLY JACKASSES AND FOOLS DONT KNOW THIS. WHICH ONE IS YOU???
You are so strong and beautiful. 🙏🏽
Keep working on it and you'll shine lovely, your a beautiful soul .
I will help the homeless. Giving out food or haircuts or money. I don't have much but I have more than them. I feel so sorry for Lovely, it's painful. To know that an innocent person was brought to this world to only be used and tossed out like trash. No one deserves that. I hope she is doing better and that we as a society start giving them the much needed help.
It is the worst irony and injustice when children are taken away from parents or the parent goes to prison or dies that the child ends up with even more abuse and challenges. The best we can do is to help these wonderful, valuable, salvageable humans to reject victimhood and blame and know that within them is the person who will save them. I speak from experience being homeless for 17 months. I was in my mid 50's all alone, bitter and full of deep resentments until one night when I lay my head down, freezing cold and wet from the rain I suddenly had the most dumbfounding realization: Nobody but me was to blame for my circumstances and even my choice might not have been the "wrong" one. I laughed out loud at such a ridiculous idea. What? How could that be? Nevertheless, as astonishing as it was I KNEW it was the truth. I studied everything that had occurred to me in the five years before my homelessness. I really studied the "bad" things that had happened that I had been so sure was this person's fault or that persons doing. But in every case, I found that it was I who had made a critical choice that led to the consequence I experienced. Then I looked at what that consequence had taught me and I was BLOWN AWAY! I really had made hard choices not bad ones and each had positive learning experiences to help me process the next choices. Wow, I was on a roll. Literally the NEXT day I was off the street and smiling with every step I took toward my future. I have a job been working for the same boss for 7 years now My job came with free room and board in a beautiful home in a quiet, safe and friendly neighborhood.
I do not regret for one second my hard times living under a bridge or in an abandoned home, nor do I regret anything that has ever happened to me because I know I am the one who sails my ship and life is a learning experience full of adventures and misadventures. I still wish I could stop stubbing my toe or burning the soup but hey that is life on life's own terms. All the rest is mine! Love to you all.
What you say is true, I changed because I had been taught at an early age the work ethic, responsibility and I was taught to not expect handouts and freebies. I thought for a while that my parents,part5icularly my father had it all wrong, that the government should take care of you when you fall down even though it was by your own choices. But it did not take me long to see how my father's wisdom was engrained in me. I could not ignore what he taught me. For others that I saw on the street, trying to help them understand that good values and taking personal responsibility (same thing) was the quickest way to get all that you need and most of what you want....well it was as though I spoke in a foreign tongue and I was suspect to them, they thought I was a secret cop or the enemy.
I grew up in a family that sat around the dinner table and talked about whatever were the current events of the day. My dad was home most of the time as we had a farm. Mother worked part-time when my siblings and I were older. Family matters. Parents raising their own kid's matters. Most of the street kids had nothing that came close to family. It is what feminism and the economy has done to this country. It is shameful and sad.
@@janinesjourneys1250 Firstly, let me say that I am not sure many on the streets would consider me the "lucky" one. I know you think that my upbringing and the fact that my parents put useful tools in my bag to carry throughout my life gave me an advantage over those who were not given such things as a sense of personal responsibility and drive. But here is the point you are missing; those homeless adults are not without the ability to understand what it takes to tackle, say their addictions, they have lived long enough to know it is done and even observe others do it. They also know what it really takes to get off the streets because they learned that in the same in the same way.
So life itself provides the tools if you are truly interested in making the effort. It is in that last word that we see so much failure.
Do you imagine that it was somehow easier for me to pull myself out of the hole I had dug for myself than any other homeless individuals? It was a commitment and a stubborn effort with hard work involved. Most homeless people no matter what circumstances came before the homelessness have grown accustomed to having someone else take care of things for them. Sure many needs are not met and most are met inadequately, Still, it beats taking responsibility, not only for your choices but for own wellbeing. Trust me becoming homeless for many was not a choice but staying homeless...that is a whole different concept.
@Faye Flower I am not heartless, remember I was once homeless and alone. Let me explain what life had been like for me in the year prior to my becoming homeless. I had been very happily married to my husband of 22 years , we lived on a farm which we both loved, life was idyllic. My husband had MS but had few symptoms and still held fulltime work and gardened on weekends. Suddenly, in early spring of that last year, he became very ill very fast. I was in shock. I watched my beloved husband dying by inches before my eyes and try as I might I could not will him to good health. Meanwhile unknown to me, my inlaws were plotting a way to keep me from the inheritance of the farm and a large sum of money My husband's rich Grandfather had left us when he died two years earlier. My mother-in-law had always praised me calling me an "angel" who married her son. But that was a lie apparently and I was too naive to see it. One day they came to the house for an unexpected visit saying they wanted to give me a break from caring for my bedridden husband so they would take him for the day and bring him back the next day. I did not want him to go because I worried that they would not know what to do in an emergency since they rarely ever came to visit him. They did not bring him back. They had an injunction against me saying I was not caring for him well which was totally false. They got a court to give them basically custody of him and my sister-in-law became his legal guardian and filed for divorce. They were able to get into my personal bank account and withdraw $46,000 leaving me with only my business account to pay for an attorney. Consequently, I lost my business (Hospice Care) because I could no longer pay my employees. A restraining order kept me from seeing my husband and I knew he was suffering as much as i was from the loss of love. During that time our large group of friends dwindled away and the church my husband and I were members of shunned me. (my mother-in-law talked to a great many people in order to prove she was reasonable in what she did.. I was so devasted I could barely think, I thought my mind would snap. I took a week to go hiking in the mountains to clear my head and find some spiritual strength. But when I returned criminals had been in my mailbox and stolen my mail. The postmaster found checks and credit cards in an abandoned brand new Camero that had my id in it and my name on everything. The criminals were caught but not before they had wiped me out and charged over $125,000 dollars in my name. I was in the bank every day for weeks signing affidavits for every item that showed up that was not my charge. It was crazy, I was slowly losing my mind. In the end, I lost the farm and the inheritance, I lost my husband without being able to say goodbye, he died. My friends were all gone, then my only support, my mother also died and then my beloved pug was killed by the neighbor's dog right in front of me, I had spent $66,000 on an attorney who did nothing to help me get my husband back. Then I learned Ifrom my doctor that had Lupus.. So I checked out. I literally checked out of life, almost catatonic at first, I talked to myself all the time and lived like a crazy bag lady.
Trust me I know what horror is, one month after living in a park I tripped over a woman in the dark and saw that my shoe was covered in blood. A homeless alcoholic woman had been stabbed six times in the neck. Two days later I was violently raped and left battered and bleeding in the mud Never doubt that I needed mental health and a great many other services. But I knew the only person who could change my life was me and that with the help of Almighty God. I could find a path to save myself.
@Faye Flower You made a powerful point when you mentioned the Vets on the street. Nothing but nothing made me more ashamed and angry than to see all the Veterans of war who live in poverty and despair, many with severe injuries including the mental scars. They go to war as heroes and come home to people who have moved on and forgotten them. We are better than this we should never let one single brave hero sleep in the cold shadows of the mean streets it is just shameful. Thank you, Faye, your point is well taken. God blee our Vets!
Wow god bless you, I wish o could get a chance. I’m not homeless and am a recovering addict. Because of my legal history, no one will give m a shot at a career in my fields. Associates in H-care Admin., and 2certificates, Medical Assistant, and Medical Billing and Coding, and 5classes away from Bachelors in H-care Admin. Or when I apply they want 2 years experience, not just my schooling. So my question is, after 59,000 + in school loan debts, how can I get an open door? I feel it has all been wasted time and debt.
Nice lady, she deserves BETTER than this!!!! I sincerely wish you all the best ''Lovely''!!
I was homeless and it's hard to explain but you feel literally helpless and so depressed that even if someone tries to help you it won't work most of the time.
I've been homeless multiple times. Shes right it can happe to anyone
DST... subscribed hopefully you all continue on your work to continue making these positive life changes.
That's wonderful Lovely.❤
You are a Inspiration to us all.