A decision an adult makes in life should be respected in death. It's unfair to impose a toxic union that becomes irreconcilable when people are alife. Allow people to remarry if they can and move on.
Do not be colonized with this way back thinking. If you're in Christ you're free from your tribe. You're under Christ. Just take that for information of how things were done in the past. If you're Christian get people who are mature in the faith to help you study and see the best way to go about this. As an SDA I think I heard a lot of stuff which doesn't make sense. Christianity doesn't promote immorality and it is against divorce too. All he is explaining here in complex Kisii words is simply what they did when divorce happened in the community. You shouldn't marry someone else if you messed (messing means adultery) the union till the other party marries. You're free to marry another person when the other party dies if you messed the union. If you were messed in the relationship, you can ask for a divorce and marry someone else if that's your decision. However Christian patience and forgiveness is highly encouraged on your part so that you can save your partner if possible. In the event you can't bear it is not sin to get of that union and marry someone else. The church can advice you better. Separation is highly encouraged if you're being abused in your union but not a divorce. The spirits of the dead don't exist as the Bible teaches. There is no curse for someone to make the mistakes highlighted. When we die the Bible teaches that the dead have nothing to do with what is happening at the surface of the earth. It is good to remind you that prior to Christianity coming the tribe had order. People sat down centuries ago and decided this is the way we will do things as Kisiis. Each tribe has their way of doing things. We are not doomed to be Kisiis. It doesn't make sense that curses will happen to someone in Kisii for doing that and it won't happen for someone else in another place. Unless you believe there are more than one forces acting in humanity. Kisii understanding of our existence has no bearing or benefit or hope. It is shallow about our afterlife. It gives no hope. It is time to rethink how to define yourself and what you're. Are you a Kisii or a child of God. Adventism is not far from other Christian sects in this matter but I hope they will help you too.
I'm happy to see Mr Obino I was about to mention something I learnt from ENOGO TV
Kaka nitafutie huyu mzee ni muhulishe maswali anijibu😢😢😢
Wooooow this man has to sit down and tell as more tusiachie watoto wetu laana
Life is spiritual....Mr. Obino is right.
Waah!!amakongu bori gososora mapema mbuya bitarakonga.
Waaaaa amakong'u bori gaki gusii yabeire bobe piii gaki abagusii ninki kere gaki but nyasae atokonye😢😢😢😢😢
Kaka this is a good one. Mr. Obino great work
And what happens kama one's dowry was returned..? Anazikwa kwao or at 1st husband's....chimuma echi gwaa
Ooh good information
No ya huyo mzee plz tuko na mswali abene
Wakisii new mila everytime
Hii ni kweli, iko ivi si mchezo.
Amakumi gusii yaito
Onye kwanywometwe ritangani rakini omosacha akagoseria kore na abana baye, nere takaneti ngombe.harafu akagende are angao nabana bomongu boreo.
Hakuna kulipiwa ng'ombe twice, lazima familia ya mke ikatae kaa hawana jeuri na tamaa.
Naboigo kaka my sister nakwete igo rakini amatanga nakoretwe buya gaki
Mr obino,they paid dowry but bokima tiborugiri abwo rende natindekwe aria eritan'gani???
Gwa amakong'u gaaki ntanya koigu
Bari baakaneire kabere rende??
Echio nechitaang'uche😅😅😅
Bari rende baakaneire Kabere?Necentury eye ya come we stay,no even dowry is paid,ntobwate chimuma.
Mila mila kila corner ya Kisii, mie naoa kutoka kwingine sasa sitawezana na hizi mehemehe
Hapo kwingine ndio uakutana na Mila chafu hata afathali hizi mababu zako wameishi nazo for thousands of years
Naroo oretetwe ekenyoro gia seito but ere tatindegetwe kegima
What if angekuwa amepata watoto kwa iyo second marriage but hakulibiwa mahari😢
Vimila was destroyed by the blood of jesus
A decision an adult makes in life should be respected in death. It's unfair to impose a toxic union that becomes irreconcilable when people are alife. Allow people to remarry if they can and move on.
Kaka ninaomba unijibu sasa tusema sahii watu tumeokoka tumetuba ekemira tutafanyaaje
Mogweko kwa kina mama yangu
Oonsi nekeene pi, ❤.
Please please kaka nataka kuongea na wewe nisaidie naumia mbya kweli 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Do not be colonized with this way back thinking. If you're in Christ you're free from your tribe. You're under Christ. Just take that for information of how things were done in the past. If you're Christian get people who are mature in the faith to help you study and see the best way to go about this. As an SDA I think I heard a lot of stuff which doesn't make sense.
Christianity doesn't promote immorality and it is against divorce too. All he is explaining here in complex Kisii words is simply what they did when divorce happened in the community. You shouldn't marry someone else if you messed (messing means adultery) the union till the other party marries. You're free to marry another person when the other party dies if you messed the union. If you were messed in the relationship, you can ask for a divorce and marry someone else if that's your decision. However Christian patience and forgiveness is highly encouraged on your part so that you can save your partner if possible. In the event you can't bear it is not sin to get of that union and marry someone else. The church can advice you better. Separation is highly encouraged if you're being abused in your union but not a divorce.
The spirits of the dead don't exist as the Bible teaches. There is no curse for someone to make the mistakes highlighted. When we die the Bible teaches that the dead have nothing to do with what is happening at the surface of the earth.
It is good to remind you that prior to Christianity coming the tribe had order. People sat down centuries ago and decided this is the way we will do things as Kisiis. Each tribe has their way of doing things. We are not doomed to be Kisiis. It doesn't make sense that curses will happen to someone in Kisii for doing that and it won't happen for someone else in another place. Unless you believe there are more than one forces acting in humanity. Kisii understanding of our existence has no bearing or benefit or hope. It is shallow about our afterlife. It gives no hope. It is time to rethink how to define yourself and what you're. Are you a Kisii or a child of God.
Adventism is not far from other Christian sects in this matter but I hope they will help you too.
Nipee number yako please nikupingie
Amakongu gusii yaito