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  • Опубликовано: 18 янв 2025

Комментарии • 61

  • @bakedalpaca9299
    @bakedalpaca9299 4 месяца назад +25

    “Get big 4 on your resume and you can go anywhere and do whatever you want” the fact you are having a hard time as well and you have big 4 on your resume is CRAZY. It’s not us, it’s them!😭 i hope you get a job Abby!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад +2

      Thank you!!! It’s definitely a strangeeee job market right now 😅

  • @jadecavanagh
    @jadecavanagh 4 месяца назад +3

    It’s crazy how often we go through the same experiences at the same time and just hearing about how you feel makes me feel so seen because I feel the exact same way!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      😭🩵 I hate that yall go through some of the not so great stuff I do but I’m glad we are at least in it together!!!

  • @mirandabeall2686
    @mirandabeall2686 4 месяца назад +10

    “I’m way more inefficient when I have less to do” I could not relate to this statement more!!!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад +2

      I thrive in chaos and I hate it more than anything 😂😭 glad I’m not alone but I’m sorry that you can relate hahaha

  • @outofthegoldandblue
    @outofthegoldandblue 4 месяца назад +2

    I resonate so much with you said about work, success, jobs, etc! Im a CPA left public accounting and also recently left another job in search for the next thing rn - very comforting hearing your perspective on it all!!!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      Ahhh best wishes to you on finding your next role!!! 💛😭

  • @Brenda_xo
    @Brenda_xo 4 месяца назад +1

    Can I just say that the overall makeup look is fire? 🔥 So beautiful! Love how down to earth you are and love your channel! 🩷

  • @ashleykenney3862
    @ashleykenney3862 4 месяца назад

    I am a transplant to Houston and became a mom this past year, and the part about living far from family really hits home!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      Awww I hope you’re enjoying houston 🫶🏼 it’s so hard moving far from home!

  • @JamieRenee101
    @JamieRenee101 4 месяца назад +3

    Omg love this type of video! ❤❤❤

  • @bubba061796
    @bubba061796 4 месяца назад +1

    Hey Abby! Def recommend using a recruiter! They can do the digging for you and I have had such better luck with jobs I apply to with them. They get your foot in the door way easier than just applying and also are a great help with interview prep and answering questions you have that you don’t necessarily want to ask. Best of luck with the job search!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      I def need to! I have a bunch in my linked in dms for tax roles and was overwhelmed with who to respond to LOL. I’ve had connections within my network help me with applying to some things but I told myself I def need to get in touch w a recruiter if this round of interviews I have doesn’t work out. Thank you!!!

  • @ashleylaughbox
    @ashleylaughbox 4 месяца назад

    loved watching this video and can't wait to see what's next for you!

  • @zaracolley
    @zaracolley 4 месяца назад

    I smiled so big when you mentioned the nighttime giggles bc yes!!! so funny lol. I also just saw the other day that claire daverley is coming out with book #2 next spring! this video was so fun 💓

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      Bahaha I’m glad you get it 🤭 omg next spring!!! I’m excited yay 😍

  • @PolkaDot8721
    @PolkaDot8721 4 месяца назад

    i loveee this video style abby

  • @maryc1923
    @maryc1923 4 месяца назад

    I moved from NJ to NC to be with my boyfriend and his family 3 years ago and I can tell you it’s been the hardest thing. Especially being someone who is so so close with my family, I understand the struggle

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      It’s soooo hard 😅 I hope it gets easier for us both 🫶🏼

  • @samieastton3354
    @samieastton3354 4 месяца назад +1

    Definitely related when you spoke about how hard it is to move from your family. Thinking about post-grad where I want to live and moving from them seems so difficult/the guilty conscience. But also how lucky we are to have parents we miss and want to be around lol.

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад +1

      ugh yes exactly! i often have to remind myself of how fortunate i am to have parents/a family i miss and want to live near and def dont take that for granted!!

  • @nanawordie7967
    @nanawordie7967 4 месяца назад

    such a great video! loving hearing you answer these questions. Also the job market is so rough right now!! give yourself grace because I've applied to 100+ jobs and only had 2 interviews and did not get them. it's such a difficult time right now but they're saying next month is the September Surge so that's when a lot of companies will be hiring

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      Thank you, same to yourself!! I’m sorry it’s been difficult for you and I hope you can find a good position soon. And YES omg i keep hearing the same thing so hopefully it’s true!

  • @amyworley6221
    @amyworley6221 4 месяца назад

    i would love to see personal finance content if that’s something you’re interested in doing!

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 4 месяца назад +2

    Hi Abby how are you happy Wednesday afternoon to you and I enjoy your channel and you are amazing supporter

  • @jeahavvalentin980
    @jeahavvalentin980 4 месяца назад +1

    Excellent video 👍😊

  • @bekkkabby
    @bekkkabby 4 месяца назад +2

    I'm 29 and I've been with my husband for 12 years, married for 4, and I still feel like it would be a full on scandal teen pregnancy moment if I got pregnant lmao

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      HAHAHAHAHHA I’m cryinggggg. It never goes away 😂😂😂

  • @TaliaLea
    @TaliaLea 4 месяца назад

    I love this I feel like we’re getting ready together or just chatting like old friends I wanted to reply in real time hahaha

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад +1

      Awe YAY that was the goal 🥰💛

  • @marissa9522
    @marissa9522 4 месяца назад

    The moving away from family is so true, thank you for talking about that !! Before y’all were married how did you split things like groceries or rent, is that 50/50? Loved the video 😊

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад +1

      Ofc! Yes all of that was mainly 50/50. There were a few bills I covered while I was working 2 jobs & made more than griffin (like our electric bill & I covered groceries for a bit) just because it wasn’t fair to make it be 50/50 when I had 2 pretty decent incomes lol. Prior to being engaged though I’d say it was prob like 60/40 and once we got engaged, I covered a little bit more!!

  • @JesusISKingNoMatterWhat
    @JesusISKingNoMatterWhat 4 месяца назад

    YES. IM UNEMPLOYED..... the struggle is tough, but it has given me time to just look around and see nature as beautiful and play with my dogs, clean my apartment and spent time with my husband.
    Also I am spending time to know God more and reading books about God or mystery or romantic books.
    Money is to survive and live a simple life. When we die we can't take anything with us. I have been giving away clothes and I am back in grad school.❤❤❤❤❤

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      Amen to that!!! You have a wonderful outlook 🩵🩵🩵

  • @amelialarroque757
    @amelialarroque757 4 месяца назад

    I feel so seen, my current contract job ended today and i have already applied to soooo many positions and they really ghost instead of give no’s! It’s so annoying

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      Ahh good luck! I know it’s such a difficult process, I wish it was standard to get responses back :’)

  • @aubreyp3489
    @aubreyp3489 4 месяца назад

    What is the favorite book you mention about high school characters you love? I want to read? Better than the movies??

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      Yes, better than the movies!!

  • @mirandaalexis
    @mirandaalexis 4 месяца назад +1

    im 32 and realized i girlbossed a bit too hard bc im not married nor with anyone to have kids with lol

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад +1

      We’re all on our own timelines!!! Don’t put too much pressure on yourself :)

  • @LottieSmalley
    @LottieSmalley 4 месяца назад

    loved watching this and catching up with you 🩷 your vulnerability is the best 🌼

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      thank you 🥹🥹🥹🩵

  • @LottieSmalley
    @LottieSmalley 4 месяца назад

    wild berry tall boy poppi 🥵

  • @RJ-bj8ic
    @RJ-bj8ic 4 месяца назад +1

    💛💛💛💛💛

  • @LIVEINPEACE2023
    @LIVEINPEACE2023 4 месяца назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @Riyasharma68657
    @Riyasharma68657 4 месяца назад

    Hey dear i am your new subscriber ✨. I am also interested to do CPA so can you plz guide me that's it's good to do CPA course or not ?

  • @ellie8782
    @ellie8782 4 месяца назад

    What are your predictions on the upcoming US election?

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад

      Hmmm I don’t really have any predictions, I could see either candidate having a chance but we’ll see 😅

  • @S2323-z9g
    @S2323-z9g 4 месяца назад +1

    Girl the accountant shortage is fake 🤣🤣 they lied to us in college

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 4 месяца назад +5

    Can't wait for 100K Subscribers Abby🥹🥹🩷 and I am so so so glad that I've Found your youtube channel

  • @imnotlikethem1
    @imnotlikethem1 4 месяца назад +1

    Have you considered whether you might be neurodivergent? I’m AuDHD and you often describe a lot of things I relate to that might be ADHD. I know you’ve talked about going to therapy, but it’s not the same if you’re trying to do something that’s aimed at a different brain wiring than you have. I was late diagnosed and it’s been life changing for the way I see myself and the way I approach life, so just wanted to share in case it helps in any way for you ♥️ also not expecting you to share either way.

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  4 месяца назад +1

      I haven’t tbh, but it’s just never been presented/brought up to me so it hasn’t been a thought! But that totally makes sense about the brain wiring though! I’m so happy for you that you found some answers that have helped you so much and I appreciate you sharing 💛