@@thegreath.sapiensapien6907 obviously by your youtube name you're an evolutionist/satanist. Take my following advice: either repent and put your trust in Jesus Christ, or leave Christians alone.
This is a true message whether you are a man or a woman. Being with someone who does not have the same religious aspects and values as you , you are just hoping and praying that the Holy Spirit enters that other person life. If that person is not receptive enough to allow the Holy Spirit in you may be wasting your time. The problem with today’s society is most people I meet are good people, but have no religious, upbringing, and or following. The pathway to hell is paved with good intentions. And I rather be single than waste my valuable time.
I'm now currently in a relationship and she's great!! God is good! He brought us together so effortlessly. She's a real exhorter. Wow so good! We are two wholes coming together.
Soooo True!! I'm in my single season. And have been for 7yrs now. This video helped me alot. God has told me I will have a husband and another child. I'm almost 30 and feel like it's taking to long. But today I choose to accept God's timing and trust him completely.
Girl, you are so sensible and so right! I'm always amazed about who God annoints with the gift of teaching, and you my sister in Christ have taught us a lot. So glad I found your channel, so glad God found me. Holding out for the man God chooses for me! Amen.
The way she puts it: if he's not SUBMITTED to God then he's not fit to lead you. This is so accurate and so helpful. A person can be a Christian - has accepted Christ as Savior - yet not submitted to God. That is the perfect way to explain it. Thank you!
Thank you for this message. I like the part when you say "when you put something whole and a broken thing, division becomes the outcome." because I can totally relate to that. I've been thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend to seek the Lord. We are either two broken souls or he's whole and I'm broken which only creates division if not more "brokeness". I need to seek God and him alone at this moment. I need to heal from my past; heartbreak that were caused unto me.
Right on, Allyson. Knowing the purpose and structure of marriage spares you from unecessary grief and primes you to prepare yourself in the Word and respond to God's calling at the right time.
Truly You are a gift to the Body Of Christ Amen thank you for following you Call and being a leader being an example at a time it is needed in this generation!! So true to be equally yoked together especially in the call of God to glorify God and to produce fruit!!!!
Love this my ex was a narcissist and we share a child together I'm still broken up about this and I made the mistake by dating this guy I met in church who I thought was the man God had for me thank goodness God revealed to me the type of person he is a ego narcissistic loser. I also learned I need to stay single and build my relationship with God first
You should marry a man that Loves God first and you secondly...If a man Loves you He Will tell you things that are straight to your Heart. HOLY SPIRIT WILL BE WITH HIM...DONT LET OTHER PPL EVEN CHRISTIANS CHANGE YOUR HEART FOR HIM...I AM IN BATTLE RIGHT NOW....BC OF FEAR BUt NOT ON MY PART.. ladies don't forget what Jesus said....All things are possible thru God...A weak man in God will not peruse you for very long...Wash your self of all worldly views..
Hey there ! I just ran across your youtube thing here and it is spot on. I have a single guys ministry ( Bible studies, warfare, relationship junk etc... ) Here in upper east Tenn. I will be sharing your messages and good insight with the group. Do stay focused on walking in the Spirit and fighting the good fight of faith my friend. H. Lee Dye & God Bless
Everything you explain are very good just your lexicon sounds different. No offense, I respect you. You are teaching very beautiful things to people who really needs to listen these and make better decisions for their lives. GOD Bless you for this act.
Don't be in rush to get married. That's so true, people these days are getting in a rush to get marry but they have no idea how great singleness is. Listen, spend time with God, hangout with people that love the lord, and grow fruitfully.
100% truth married and with my husband 27 years.. Got up and left me, remarried a year and a half later.. My story ended in betrayal.. Now I'm having to start over. We both walked with God our whole marriage was in Ministry lived and breathed God and it ended up tragic.
You speak truth, but also a really high standard. We’re all imperfect, but as long as you and your perspective spouse love God and want to grow together with God then that should be enough prerequisite to get married. And 1/.5 is 2.
I don't know. I do agree with you in several points you made in your video. We should be looking for godly people who would help us grow in holiness and build strong Christian families. We should indeed take our "singleness"as a treasure and be rushing into hasty relationships left and right. I've always said to my friends that jumping into a relationship right when you just ended one is not gonna be of any good. Nonetheless, I feel that godly men such as myself are at a disadvantage all the time. Women nowadays seem to be looking for the "bad guy." I've seen many women claim that they want a gentleman just to end up with a jerk. It boggles my mind. Anyhow, you should definitely make a video about that topic. ;)
Two words: daddy issues. Haha but seriously. I was always that woman. It's taken me 10 years to figure out a trend. The way a woman's father treated her is the type of guy she's going to go for. All you can do is depend on the father to be your new father to change the man you're going for.
There's another thing, I've seen this a lot of times. You say you are a good man and women fall for "bad boys";have you thought though, are you a good guy based on who's judgement? Many guys behave like it is women's fault what they pursue, when in fact, all that women see is guys that are just bad, with varying negativeness. They are used to bad guys because good guys are very rare. I have seen men I knew labelling themselves "good guys" when all they did was going after flesh, sexism and egoism. Maybe we are not good "enough" to expect the right people to notice us. Just some thoughts.
You don't want a woman who wishes for a bad boy. Such a woman would make you miserable! You need a woman who loves you, has your back and thanks God every day for having a good, decent man in her life. That's the kind of woman you deserve, a sweet, caring, loving human being. I pray you find her and get to be happy.
There is a generational curse over my family. All the women in my family end up single mothers. I am 36 years old and I fear I will never find a husband. I meet men that want a relationship but don't want marriage. Will someone please pray for me?
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A wife is to be a help mate, not a "suck the life out of you mate"...LMAO too good, I applaud you girl.
we should be ready for Christ return at any moment
Montreal Photographer Joanna yes n the fun
the testimony once in a lifetime moment
that a God use
I’m a guy and I approve of this message 👏.
DONT GET MARRY first of all stay in couple is better, married is a trap
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@@thegreath.sapiensapien6907 obviously by your youtube name you're an evolutionist/satanist. Take my following advice: either repent and put your trust in Jesus Christ, or leave Christians alone.
This is a true message whether you are a man or a woman. Being with someone who does not have the same religious aspects and values as you , you are just hoping and praying that the Holy Spirit enters that other person life. If that person is not receptive enough to allow the Holy Spirit in you may be wasting your time. The problem with today’s society is most people I meet are good people, but have no religious, upbringing, and or following. The pathway to hell is paved with good intentions. And I rather be single than waste my valuable time.
"If you dont motivate him to be the best he can be, if you dont drive him, if you dont challenge him, you're no good for him"🔥🔥🙏
EVERY girl and woman needs to hear this message. Well Said! 👏
Jamie Amen
I like how she says "God" 😊😊
Hercules mac she sounds Hispanic sometimes lol
Hercules Mac me too
I like that .... if he's not with God he' s not fit to lead you !
Dayuum thats a lot of wisdom! she's right I need to submit to God first. pray for me!!
My God, me too!
YOU BOTH WILL KEEP BEING PRAYERFUL ND TRUSTING GOD
I'm now currently in a relationship and she's great!! God is good! He brought us together so effortlessly.
She's a real exhorter. Wow so good! We are two wholes coming together.
God Bless
So good!!
Healed people HEAL people
Broken people BREAK people
Loved people LOVE people
YES 👏🏻👏🏻
Soooo True!! I'm in my single season. And have been for 7yrs now. This video helped me alot. God has told me I will have a husband and another child. I'm almost 30 and feel like it's taking to long. But today I choose to accept God's timing and trust him completely.
THIS!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 You just spoke a WORD!!!! This was AWESOME!
That point you made about two broken people cannot come together really hit me. ❤️
Wise words Sister. We Salute you.
Shes so beautiful, and an inspiring motivational speaker. Preach that word girl :)
LuXRaY94 submit to Jesus Christ for forgiveness of sins.
You are gorgeous.
I agree with you Allyson! :) God Bless You. :) A man should respect woman! :)
Future WWE no. A man should respect God first. The respect of a woman is a byproduct of the respect he has for her father - God!
you gotta be with someone who makes u happy and better yourself daily
You are Very beautiful and smart! God keep blessing!!! 😀😘
U are also a very beautiful and smart ,God bless u
Wow powerful I hope I find a woman like her
Define “whole” and “broken.”
Mic drop.
Minister you are wise beyond your years. Love you !!!
Lauretta Graham 😂🤗🤗 you're paying compliments to the Spirit of God within her. Hallelujah!
Girl, you are so sensible and so right! I'm always amazed about who God annoints with the gift of teaching, and you my sister in Christ have taught us a lot. So glad I found your channel, so glad God found me. Holding out for the man God chooses for me! Amen.
Beautiful person inside and out.
This young lady is not human she’s an angel .
Ally spits nothing but facts
The way she puts it: if he's not SUBMITTED to God then he's not fit to lead you. This is so accurate and so helpful. A person can be a Christian - has accepted Christ as Savior - yet not submitted to God. That is the perfect way to explain it. Thank you!
Ha! Love you Sister!! Thank you!! 😄🙏🏻❤️✨
I Agree, We should be together! Let's not waste anymore time!
Glory to God! This is EVERYTHING!
Amen! This is so short & sweet! God bless you! thank you!
Thank you for this message. I like the part when you say "when you put something whole and a broken thing, division becomes the outcome." because I can totally relate to that.
I've been thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend to seek the Lord. We are either two broken souls or he's whole and I'm broken which only creates division if not more "brokeness". I need to seek God and him alone at this moment. I need to heal from my past; heartbreak that were caused unto me.
So good- I wish I could be stronger, patient, and secure in saying this for myself- God help
Amen preach the truth. If people don't like it to bad. God first in a marriage.
Amen, Amen, & Amen.
First time hearing girl saying things like this.It shows that there is still hope in this world.You're soo dope and awesome
God is number one in your marriage very true but you must wait sex after marriage!! Otherwise no blessing
Right on, Allyson. Knowing the purpose and structure of marriage spares you from unecessary grief and primes you to prepare yourself in the Word and respond to God's calling at the right time.
Allyson you are right.
If he is for you his heart will beat for you...
Truly You are a gift to the Body Of Christ Amen thank you for following you Call and being a leader being an example at a time it is needed in this generation!! So true to be equally yoked together especially in the call of God to glorify God and to produce fruit!!!!
Love this my ex was a narcissist and we share a child together I'm still broken up about this and I made the mistake by dating this guy I met in church who I thought was the man God had for me thank goodness God revealed to me the type of person he is a ego narcissistic loser. I also learned I need to stay single and build my relationship with God first
God bless you sister. Praise the Living Jesus!
#YouPreachingSis!!
Not only women, men needs to heed this one.
You should marry a man that Loves God first and you secondly...If a man Loves you He Will tell you things that are straight to your Heart. HOLY SPIRIT WILL BE WITH HIM...DONT LET OTHER PPL EVEN CHRISTIANS CHANGE YOUR HEART FOR HIM...I AM IN BATTLE RIGHT NOW....BC OF FEAR BUt NOT ON MY PART.. ladies don't forget what Jesus said....All things are possible thru God...A weak man in God will not peruse you for very long...Wash your self of all worldly views..
You said a mouth full punch after punch good God almighty I need to rewatch this!!!!!!!
This really brought some things into perspective. Amidst all the desires I pray for a mate who will walk in purpose with me.
I approved of this message. Very well done
Allyson my sister, you are definitely on point. Keep spreading the truth we all need to hear. May God continue to bless you with the word.
Give all things to God. Ask and you shall Receive
Amen Allyson Amen 💖🙏
Love you Allyson!! Thank you for these videos. Very encouraging!!!
Beautiful words...they've gone through my mind and stayed in my heart... very powerfull... God bless you...
PRAISE THE LORD. This is truth. 🙏🏽
Simple , point, blank!!
Bravo bravo bravo!!! Right to the point. And I’m a man as well!
Amen about the man seeking God. This warrior is waiting on God's timing.
God speaks through this
Agree. That’s why I’m still single
Thanks. You voice my thoughts. Pray I don't chicken out when the time comes!
Got my own demons to face, but this is an angel..
0:54 "If he is not submitted to God, he is not fit to lead you"
Hey there ! I just ran across your youtube thing here and it is spot on. I have a single guys ministry ( Bible studies, warfare, relationship junk etc... ) Here in upper east Tenn. I will be sharing your messages and good insight with the group. Do stay focused on walking in the Spirit and fighting the good fight of faith my friend. H. Lee Dye & God Bless
so agree. as a Christian woman, i believe we have have to be equally yoked with our prospective husband
Needed this today so true... God always speak on time🙏🏽😇
Heavy hitter there!!You summed it up perfectly !WOW..good word!
Everything you explain are very good just your lexicon sounds different. No offense, I respect you. You are teaching very beautiful things to people who really needs to listen these and make better decisions for their lives. GOD Bless you for this act.
Honest loyal person it loves you . And has God in there Life.🙌🙏🙌💞
Totally loving your channel. PREACH sister! Stay blessed
This is the best teaching I've ever heard on singleness.
Don't be in rush to get married.
That's so true, people these days are getting in a rush to get marry but they have no idea how great singleness is.
Listen, spend time with God, hangout with people that love the lord, and grow fruitfully.
Wise...
I have so much respect and admiration for your words of speak you are anointed
As a man, i totally agree with what she said. Bravo!
Finding these messages has been a blessing to my new walk with Christ....I watch them all...Thank you....
To me the message says wait and be patient, that's what god is telling me when I watch this message
Very powerful 👏🙏
That's a good one broken with broken juz gets u broken.
100% truth married and with my husband 27 years.. Got up and left me, remarried a year and a half later.. My story ended in betrayal.. Now I'm having to start over. We both walked with God our whole marriage was in Ministry lived and breathed God and it ended up tragic.
Awesome advice.
Thank you Allyson, I was truely blessed.
Real talk I had to get whole the whole 2 years getting in shape and changing my stat e of mind and focusing on my goals and God🤓
ALL THE LANGUAGES IN THE WORLD AND GOD CHOSE TO SPEAK THE LANGUAGE OF "FACTS" THROUGH YOU WITH THIS MESSAGE
AMEN
Amen.. keep preaching I Loved it..
Well said these are great words of wisdom. This spoke to my heart we need more women of God sold out like this individual God bless you
Wow thank you!
this os such a powerful mesage, i am so blessed!
My lord this girl is beautiful
You speak truth, but also a really high standard. We’re all imperfect, but as long as you and your perspective spouse love God and want to grow together with God then that should be enough prerequisite to get married. And 1/.5 is 2.
I don't know. I do agree with you in several points you made in your video. We should be looking for godly people who would help us grow in holiness and build strong Christian families. We should indeed take our "singleness"as a treasure and be rushing into hasty relationships left and right. I've always said to my friends that jumping into a relationship right when you just ended one is not gonna be of any good. Nonetheless, I feel that godly men such as myself are at a disadvantage all the time. Women nowadays seem to be looking for the "bad guy." I've seen many women claim that they want a gentleman just to end up with a jerk. It boggles my mind. Anyhow, you should definitely make a video about that topic. ;)
Two words: daddy issues. Haha but seriously. I was always that woman. It's taken me 10 years to figure out a trend. The way a woman's father treated her is the type of guy she's going to go for. All you can do is depend on the father to be your new father to change the man you're going for.
Balken Kreuz Good point though there are many women who choose to put their trust in God.
+Jewel For Jesus Amen sista O:-) God bless you O:-)
There's another thing, I've seen this a lot of times. You say you are a good man and women fall for "bad boys";have you thought though, are you a good guy based on who's judgement? Many guys behave like it is women's fault what they pursue, when in fact, all that women see is guys that are just bad, with varying negativeness. They are used to bad guys because good guys are very rare. I have seen men I knew labelling themselves "good guys" when all they did was going after flesh, sexism and egoism. Maybe we are not good "enough" to expect the right people to notice us. Just some thoughts.
You don't want a woman who wishes for a bad boy. Such a woman would make you miserable! You need a woman who loves you, has your back and thanks God every day for having a good, decent man in her life. That's the kind of woman you deserve, a sweet, caring, loving human being. I pray you find her and get to be happy.
Excellent video and advice, Allyson.
There is a generational curse over my family. All the women in my family end up single mothers. I am 36 years old and I fear I will never find a husband. I meet men that want a relationship but don't want marriage. Will someone please pray for me?
You were in an abusive relationship because you wanted to "fix" him. This is like a virus going around! Beautiful woman in abusive relationships...
EXACTLY YOUR KIND ID LOVE TO MARRY
WOW!! AMEN SISTER!! THANKS FOR BEING A VESSEL!! GLORY TO OUR FATHER!!!
Allyson is speaking from heart and God is smiling
Well said ! Great wisdom . you pretty much covered most of my questions . Thank you , I can wait .
Thank you from Chicago
I LIKE HOW SHE SAY "PERIOD" like city girls🌍😭😭🙌