@@naomiv7133, hi Naomi, no I don't have kids, that's what probably what made it easier. I did my coursework online instead of in-person. That made it easier:)
@@naomiv7133I am 37 with two kids. Full time college student outside of summer. You need some people (I have one person only but he is strong) around to support but it IS possible! Pray. Make a to do list. Look for resources in your area. Sometimes there are scholarships. Customize it, go online and in person. Go only two days a week. I hope you find your way ❤
I got my bachelor's degree, started my business and started being more intentional about my health and started doing crossfit in my late 30s. I'm 42 now and I feel like my best years are ahead of me. I'm grateful for being a late bloomer.
Could you explain why you're grateful that you achieved all that in your late thirties ? Asking this as a 24 yo who has to remind herself that there's still plenty of time. And congrats on your achievements
@@Noah-yz7yxI’ll say you make better decisions as you age, you feel more positive and calm and I think this is achieved if you aren’t too hasty when you are in your 20s, don’t worry too much and focus on what you are able to do, go at your own pace and take care of your body, mind, spirit, partying and drinking and casual sex is so damaging and you will look and feel terrible in your later years, delayed gratification is the smart way, I use the example of a fruit tree, it lays deep roots (foundations) for years before it bears any fruit
I got married at 37, had a baby at 38. I found my dream career at 40 and started making around 6 figures. With an art’s degree, I never thought I’d ever be a high earner. It’s never too late to be what you might have been.
This is how you eliminate anxiety. Don't look at life as a race, but a marathon. Once you start comparing your life to others, then that's when anxiety sits in. As a underdog, I had no other choice but to be a late bloomer. It's not about your status at the current time, but where you destined to be.
37 years old,no longer dating abusive men,speaking a new language, started going to the gym, doing Nursing school in another continent (Europe). I thank Jesus for my blessings
I’m turning 39 this year. I feel like I was lied to about aging and lied to myself through internalised patriarchy and ageism. It gets better and better 💪🏽 the best decades are yet to come
I finished my bachelors degree at 40, got a good paying IT job, started my masters at a premier university at 41, looking more beautiful than I did in my 20s and 30s. Keep up the faith guys. Life can change in a matter of seconds. At 37, I remember sitting on the bare floor of my apartment crying to God asking why I was suffering so much, I said “Father, I’m about to turn 40 and I have nothing , my hair is falling out, I’m stressed out, just got out of a relationship, why am I useless?. I worked in a warehouse then, drove Uber and Lyft to stay afloat… then I heard a small voice “ I’m about to do a new thing”…. I honestly do not know how I got to where I am with such speed. I hope this gives assurance to any lady in their late 30s that think it’s over. GOD CAN CHANGE THINGS AROUND IN A SPLIT OF A SECOND and IT WILL HAPPEN SPEEDILY.
I can relate to your story. I was with overprotective toxic parents until I was 31. I got married and had my first child. I believe God put her in my life to give me a reason to finally mature. I never thought I was capable of much, mainly due to parental figures who criticized me constantly and found fault in everything I did. Now that I am out of their home, I have finally begun to bloom as a person, and I am 35. I have taken my relationship with God seriously for the first time and He has freed my spirit of so many bonds. As the scripture teaches, you are metaphorically reborn into a new being. God can bless you at any time in life.
The comment section brings me so much joy. So happy for all of you ladies in this comment section doing great things in your 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. Proud of y’all.❤👏🏿🥰🤩
Fellow 43 here! My husband and I restarted parenting at the age of 40 when our boys were 20 and 16. We now have a beautiful baby girl. I went back for my Bachelors while pregnant and graduated. Worked full time and started a business. I’m the poster child for “I should be doing something productive” to the point where I forget to stop and relax. I pressure the crap outta myself.
My late 30s will be my time to bloom. Great things are happening. I’m in school, found a career I love, finally writing the novel, and there is so much more coming. I feel it!
My sister would always say “God will restore time” when you said you didn’t feel like you missed out that’s exactly what she meant. There been a lot of moments in my life where I felt like I missed out but later in my life it was right on time for me. I love this side of RUclips and I want to produce more content like this myself because a lot of people don’t have anyone in their corner telling them that it will be okay 🫂 I just became a subbie ❤
YES, that's exactly what I meant! Sound like you have a smart sister!!! So glad that you found your way over here. Definitely love that it's a growing community of like-minded individuals who want to support one another in being their best selves.
I am a youthful 43. I am vegetarian too! I feel quite content with my life but I have goals. I feel 30. I lost sixty or seventy pounds on my own. I am 209 pounds. I am 5'9. I am comfortable in my own skin.
I will be tuning 46 next month and I am in nursing school. I am a mother of three . My kids are going to high school and they are proud of me. Specially my daughter ❤I am very excited for the rest of my life🎉
I'm 36 and so badly need this. I'm honestly nervous about turning 40 because you really supposed to have it figured it out by then. and I'm still slightly lost.😂
I'm 36 also! We got this! Slow and steady wins the race. Accomplish things in doses and don't get anxious about anything. Enjoy the small wins on the way to the big ones :)
I was also worried about turning 40 and now I can tell you that being 40 is totally great. I didn’t figure everything out however I started to exercise every day at least for 30min and it was a game changer for my energy levels and I feel that I can focus and accomplish so much more when I don’t feel tired all the time.
I still don't have it fully "figured out", but I am great saying "IDK" and figuring it out as I go along. We were BAMBOOZLED into thinking only really grown folks had it figured out. 😂
Whenever you feel left out with your agenates that are flying high please remember other age mates are in hospital fighting for their life 😢 or have passed on .God has given you the grace to be alive and healthy and that should be everything.... Being grateful is key.
Inconsistencies with job security has propelled me towards working on my long-time dream of starting my own business. I launched it in March and it has been going well so far. I hope that I can be fully self-employed in the near future. It’s never too late to start!
I am two classes away from my Bachelor’s degree and I am now praying on whether I should continue to get my master’s degree. I have always wanted to move out of Mississippi so now, when I complete my degree, I will be applying for jobs outside of Mississippi because I will finally have the degree that backs up all of the experience I have acquired over the years.
@kristidoingthings between the message at church today and the 60 day glow up journey you were led to share with us, I find that I have no clue exactly what I want because I have spent most of my life focused on everyone else’s needs and wants. I am on a journey now to find balance while simultaneously finding myself!
I think this is really important. It’s better to be a late bloomer than never bloom at all. A lot of people get caught up in comparing their life to other people’s and just want to give up. As Theodore Roosevelt said, “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Here is another one from Anais Nin, “then the day came when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” It takes courage to believe in yourself. When that belief falters, it sure helps to have someone in your corner who believes in you. For many years, I thought I had to do everything on my own. I’ve learned to reach out to people I respect when I feel discouraged and that has made a huge difference in my life. Choose these people wisely!
This is so true and Its social media that has people comparing their lives to other people they don't even know and social media is just a bunch of highlight reels of people's lives. They only gonna show you the good side of their life but won't the behind scenes and what they go through on a day to day basis
@@kristidoingthings thank you! A move, progress a small business and creative endeavor Ive been working, stay on my health and fitness track. A good man wouldnt hurt either 🤣
Happy Belated Birthday!! I feel you on this. As a single plus sized woman, sometimes you can't help but wonder about when marriage, kids, etc will happen. It doesn't help when people keep singing the "biological clock" tune. However, I've decided to think about the now and do things that will make me happy.
You are so right! 40s are fabulous. I have learned to be open to new opportunities. 10 years ago I would not have imagined I'd be where I am now. But I am so happy I am here. 😊
I'm glad I came across this video because this is exactly what I needed to hear. I'm 42 and I'm going back to school this fall to get my bachelor's degree
I am right there with you! 41 and going back to school full time this fall. Better late than never! This vid gives me hope that I can get through this! What made you decide to go back to school?
Yay! For all of you going back to school. Remember to give your self grace to get the hang of school again. After a few semesters you will be crushing it! Watch!
I am 45 and i agree, when I was younger i dreaded getting older, but I have accomplished alot, I have my own home, got a Bachelor and Masters degree and I have a great job in the Reseach field.I have aged pretty well,I also have 3 sons, there is only one thing missing, I have been unable to secure a life partner but I will wait on god.
I've had the opportunity to serve as a long-term substitute in a classroom and although I am older and this would be my second career, I am more confident that I can make a difference in the classroom.
I really needed this message! I'm 33 turning 34 this year and I'm a late bloomer. Coming out of a long-term relationship, I'm focused on getting back to learning to play my harp (started playing in January), and focusing on hiking and cycling. Although I feel behind on owning a home and creating a family, I'm not going to pressure myself on those things
@trishao3308, same here with what u said. I'm 34, got out of a long term 'situationship' with a covert narcissist 3.5 years ago and working towards saving to get my own home one day. I won't be tricked or bamboozled again with love. 4B movement!
I'm in my mid 30s and deciding about going for my Phd (which I need for my field). I was like oh noooo I'm gonna be 43 when the program ends. I am not married, with no kids, not yet a homeowner. By the time I get done I will be so behind my peers. This blessed me. Thank you.
You’ll be 43 anyway, so the question you should ask your self is do you want to be 43 with a PhD or without one? You better go after your dreams girl ❤️
I turned 41 this month and am grateful to see another birthday! It's so funny to think that at some point most of us have thought 40 was "old" because it really can feel like a new beginning in so many ways. I loved this video, I'm glad it came to me 😊
I'm only 24, but I remember watching The Real and the hosts saying how much they LOVED being in their 40s. So much so that sometimes I'd be thinking to myself that I wanted to be 40 😅
This is too cute!!! Us 40s will welcome you with open arms! It really is a vibe. But enjoy your 20s babe and know that if you don't have it figured out, it's okay. 💜
With age comes growth, maturity and wisdom and once you have experienced different circumstances in life you can become a overall better version of yourself
Okay I’m 47 and been gone they found cancer and cut it out. Then I started to bleed and had to lay flat. They think they got it all out. I’ll find out Monday. But I’m so ready to get back at it. When I was awake I was thinking of all my plans. Plus without eating and lossing blood I lost 4.5 lbs. lol I’ll find it again. Thank you again for RUclips channel
Hey loves! I hope you're having a wonderful Sunday and for all my peeps in the States, looking forward to (hopefully) a relaxing Memorial Day. I really hope this video encourages any of you as afraid of the clock as I used to be! Life really does just keep getting better!
I just turned 39 and at first I was like Yikes! Im getting older. I think the biggest thing for me was that I have so many goals that I haven’t accomplished by now. And yes social media has a part of my mindset, along with what my family was saying as I grew up, and I felt soooo behind. Everyone has children, married, has traveled and done all the things that I desire to do, but me I just now figured out what I want to do in a career. But love you look FABULOUS!❤❤
Girl who you telling? Lol. I'm just now realizing what I should've been doing in my 20s. You are definitely not alone in how you feel, but you can't sit in that. Get up, dust yourself off, and get going. Hobbies, skills, education, whatever it is, take the steps to move forward. You can do it!
God is so good and I believe I was meant to see this video. Because I'm 42 and was feeling overwhelmed with life and where I am at. So grateful I found your channel blessings. ❤
Ok, the algorithm was ON IT today!!! You are a bright light on my page. I needed to hear this especially as I'm nearing 40 and branching out into things outside of my comfort zone. Def subbed, I'm here for this!!
Amen to that…aging exists so don’t ignore it.but don’t dwell on it and make it your entire existence. I am 49.5 years old..I feel great. I go to the gym 3 to 4 times a week..I have not gone this week..another priority..but the point is that .. you don’t waste time cause you won’t get it back. Use it wisely, and you won’t regret it. Thank you for this video
Thank you Holy Spirit fpr placing I feel it again. I am 41 years old, and I live by the mindset of "Its not too late," especially with God at the helm. I am on time to live the life of my dreams! 💕
Your message was exactly what I needed today. I woke up this morning so depressed. I'm 57 years old, I recently moved to Tennessee, and I do not have any friends or family here. My husband is the only one working now, so I'm stuck at hope by myself every day. I'm having a lot of life regrets, but I'm determined not to give up.
Be encouraged @supersparkle66. I fight feelings of regret, depressive thoughts and even depression. It is a way that we keep ourselves bound and down not realizing the beauty we hold within and the resilience we have in the face of anything. Combat the negativity with the thoughts and actions you may have thought were out of reach and then make a plan. I will be happy to be your friend from Mississippi that will help and support you in finding your path to what fulfills you!
@SuperSparkle66, Hang in there Sis. Right with you on the 57 tip! Just turned 57 a few days ago, and returning to college to get my Bachelors. Set your mind to something and like Nike, JUST DO IT! 🙏🏾
I’m 31 and I needed to hear this. We need more older influencers! I often feel ancient in comparison to my friends and coworkers because they accomplished a lot of adulthood “milestones” while I’m just starting. It also didn’t help that a lot of it was impacted by an adverse financial situation (which I’m still recovering from) and I experienced a lot of prodigy pressure growing up. One day, I took the time to write down what I’ve wanted to accomplish in my life and I got comforted that a lot of it is still feasible! It’s so true that your 30s are a rebirth because I’m trying things that 20 something me would never even consider! I rode my first looped roller coaster, got my story published, and graduated with my masters degree at 30. It’s never too late! ❤
Oh my goodness! You are checking things off your do-it list and I am so proud of you!!! Your journey is your journey, no need to compare your life or experiences to your friends. (But I totally understand because I used to do the same.) You are young and still can live the life of your dreams.
Literally wrote in my journal this morning “need to slow down time” lol. I may just have that Yardsale on Saturday, because I need to keep making steps, and getting the basement clean and organized has been my goal for months. I have to let go of everything being done in a perfect and organized manner. I’m stopping myself from progressing.
Late bloomer here. This was sooooo NECESSARY! Thank you for this encouragement! I'll be 41 this August, and I used to compare and think I was behind everyone and lame, lol. Me "blooming" late was Gods protection over my life. God is faithful. I went Vegan on my 40th birthday to protect my health. And I'm finally finishing my degree after years of not believing I could. There is always purpose in every season of time!!!!
I recently learned to let go and let God. I learned to listen to the little voice inside of me and worked through my fears. Even though the fears were there, i pushed through, and i have accomplished so many of my goals and dreams. I'm still moving forward, and i'm so grateful.
Thank you for this! I am in my early 30s and I was getting annoyed actually by people saying, especially from women, that life is over after 30. It is a privilege to get older- the amount of people who never get to be older in this life time but wanted to- I am always reminded of that. I had a health scare and it made realise how grateful I am to be alive. Thank you- Subscribed!
Such a blessing that you are alive and well and able to have time to fulfill your dreams. I too have always hated that thought that life is over after 30. If it was, we wouldn't keep living. I am thankful for the gift of each day and see it as an opportunity to keep growing, learning, evolving, and enjoying life! Thank you so much- so happy you're here!!! 💛💛
I'm 36, 37 in October, and feel like my life is just starting to get good! Totally looking forward to crossing that 40 threshold with wisdom, grace and strength
Omg, I’m turning 30 in a month! This video is exactly what my SOUL needed to hear! I had to pause at 1:52 because I’m laughing sooo hard right now. The people need to stop asking me questions! NOW! ☠️😂
Amazing vid 🎉🤩 RUclips algorithms know me too well. I am 41 and going back to school full time with a bunch of Gen Zs where I am old enough to be their mother! But I am determined to get my degree to pursue a career that will help secure me financially in future, so back to school I go! It is never too late. I am on time to live the life of my dreams! ❤
I am 43 also. I was recently sick with stomach issues and have decided to work on my gut health. I see this as something that is going to benefit me as I age and I am even saving up to see a naturopath. No time like the present!
Yay! We are the same age.😊 Still learning that taking care of myself is not selfish and is actually good for others as well. We are told to love our neighbor as ourself, soo... I have to love myself and take care of myself to honor God.🎉❤
As a 32 year old, I just want to say we look up to you all. We need a lead way, hope, and inspiration. A lot of 90s kids had a shocking life (the internet and world affairs) We will respect the vision set up for us. Please don’t give up your goals and dreams. Sometimes I get discouraged because my 20s were all about surviving I feel so old and washed. I realize some people just “do it for their kids” . Go bigger. Follow your dreams and nothing more. Blessings.
Thanks for sharing! I turn 39 on Monday and I feel I’ve gotten better in time. Once I realized this, I wonder why people are afraid to age. I’m in better shape in my 30s than 20s, more disciplined and smarter. I don’t look “older”, I look & feel great!❤ I had our only son at 34 while my peers have high school graduates. This is my life path and I feel like a better parent as well because I’m ready.
Happy birthday!!! People are so afraid of getting older because we didn't grow up hearing these stories. This side of aging definitely needs to be shared more!
I just talked to God about this TODAY! WOW! Im 38 just got into finance after being in Healthcare for 17 years. I almost had a thought that I was too old to start again but then came this video! Thank you and thanks to all the wonderful, inspiring messages in the comments 🙏
Embracing where we are is so BIG! The experience that pushed me toward my dreams is experiencing loss of people very close to me. It made me more fearless to really live my dreams. I would tend to overthink everything. Now I just take the leap.
Would you mind elaborating further? I've recently been through a lot of bereavement and I seem to go from hope to despair most days. It's mostly left me very depressed and low in energy, lacking motivation etc
@@katec9893 same, I actually feel more fearful and anxious nowadays . I was more carefree, inspired, and fearless before I went through some devastating things.
I definitely understand what you mean. Loss can make us realize how we only have but so much time to do things and give us the push we need to not want to let time pass us by without going after our dreams.
COMPARISON IS THE THIEF OF JOY. I AM TURNING 26 IN A FEW MONTHS AND AT SOME POINT I USED TO BEAT MYSELF HARD OVER AGEING. I'M GLAD I CAME ACROSS YOUR VIDEO ❤🎉
I'm 25 going 26 in 4 months and when I tell you I'm terrified of growing old!! thank you for this video I definitely need to change my mindset about his
So happy to know I’m not the only one feeling like this 45, considering a new career which will require me to go back to school and then I want to relocate. I’m still single, but I know exactly who and what I’m looking for in my next relationship ❤
I started my first apprenticeship with 28, graduated from that with 31 and an GPA of 4.0, which I definitely couldn't have done with 16 or so due to certain health issues. I'm now working my first job and all the things I'm now able to do, including standing up for myself and setting boundaries, are so much easier to do in this age than before. That's something I definitely enjoy about that. So thank you for your video! I used to think as a teenager and in my early 20s, that life is basically over if I don't have a stable career by the end of my 20s but no, my health came in the way and I had to re-arrange my goals and everything. Now, things are just getting started and are better than ever when it comes to me personally. I'm also most-likely going to school again on the side soon, if that's manageable with work, just to keep growing. :)
I am turning 40 next year. I made a plan a few months ago to " get my life together". But also gave myself some grace because my life had many obstacles. I'm glad I found this video and see other women in the same stage of life as me.
I am 32 watching this video and the comments below gives me peace and joy within myself.reminder me that I am still on time to be where I want to be.my best years are yet to come! 🙌🏾🙏🏽 thanks for this video. God bless you!❤
OMG right on time!! I’m turning 40 this year and I’ve been so dreading it! Thank you for lifting this limiting belief of getting “old”. My 30’s has truly been my rebirth as well. So I now welcome this new era.
I can't tell you how much I needed this! Late 30s is scary when you feel like your life is stagnant and you aren't where you (and other people) think you should be.
We definitely go through stagnant seasons, but we keep making moving in the direction we want to go even when it feels like you're walking blindly. As you keep doing that and continuing to seek God for direction, the season will pass.
I'm 44 and just completed my first year pursuing my bachelor's degree. When I started last year I questioned if I was doing the right thing, but it flowed. This morning as I checked my bank account I felt overwhelemed by what I saw, I started to feel bad about myself, wondering if I will ever get out of this mess that I put myself in. I opened youtube and was about to close it out when your video on decluttering popped up, which lead me to this video, I read the comments, and I realize that I am in the right space. I am a big beliver in energies, vibes, and flow. The energy, vibe and flow of this video is everything I needed to hear this morning. I am reminded that I am exactly where I need to be in a time like this. I am a late bloomer, I started my healing journey 2 years ago, and I am so proud of where I am, and who I am becoming. Thank you for this video, I totally subcribed, because...duh!
Oh wow, lady! Congratulations on going after your degree! And thank you so much! 💜💜 I am so happy that you're here and that I can be part of your journey. Many blessings as you continue. Also, school will fly by and be done before you know it!
Refreshing to see a video like this from someone in my age group! This vid hits also bec i feel like I've lost out as well, but in my 20's/30's I was a full on caregiver for my mom and my niece always doing everything for fam and mom has passed, bro passe, niece grew up and now I'm alone feeling sooooo behind! But totally agree with the sentiment that it's not too late and building myself back up. "I am just on time to live the life of my dreams" It's not over!!💜💜
I turned 31 this year and I struggled with this FOREVER. I’m a musician and a singer, and I feel like my time is running out because so many of my peers that ARE artists have made it on major labels, are famous, going on international tours etc. I look at myself and stress so much about how I’m going to make it where they are before I get “old” because let’s be real, we only respect old singers if they reach Legend status. I don’t know when I’ll reach my dreams or what it will look like, but I definitely needed to hear someone older say this because it does put things into perspective for me ❤
It can definitely still happen! Question for you: How are you leveraging those connections with the people you know who are in the same industry doing what you want to do?
I turned 38 and been experiencing anxiety. I know things can happen for me but the societal conditioning is a bit much. I know things get better in time. I’m much wiser than I was in 20’s. Thank you for sharing
You're so welcome! Things will definitely get better, but you do have to free yourself from society's deadlines. They will make you feel like you're failing when, in reality, you're probably in a season or a period of transition.
At 38, and after being derailed repeatedly since my mid-20s by various life circumstances, this video hits home. I don't think I realised how much I've felt like I've "wasted my life" before now. Thank you, Kristi.
Aww, you're so welcome! Life circumstances happen, we can't control those.- And as long as you're doing the best you can at each moment and making decisions in favor of the future you see for yourself, no time is being wasted. It's all just part of the journey. 💜
Oh my what a timing! Before your video I was so nervous getting older but now I am so calm. Thanks so much for your positive energy and you just look flawless! Best wishes from Berlin :)
I just turned 39 recently and man I’m so glad I’ve come across your channel there are channel’s like this because man do I always have that feeling of dread
I’m 33 and I am so proud of who I have become. My 20s were filled with self doubt, insecurities and fear. Nonetheless a lil therapy and stepping out of my comfort zone really did help me be who I am today. God is good, just keep going guys
The key is to stop comparing yourself to others. Your life can completely change in ONE YEAR! So does your age really matter?! Go at your own pace. Do what you want….when you want. It’s YOUR life!
Thank you for this. I’m 24 and have been full on crying trying to figure out what my purpose is and crying about the fact I’ve not accomplished much so far. This makes me feel so much better
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom ! I’m currently in nursing school and I’m about four years behind in it, but I give myself grace because so much has happened. Besides becoming a midwife one of my goals has been to travel to all 197 countries! So far I’ve been to 3 !
Yep, late bloomer here. I also cried when I turned 30 because I never could see what my life could be beyond 30. Plus, I hadn't accomplished those parts of life that I felt I should have like marriage, children, the fabulous career, etc. But, then the life lessons came to grow me through the 30s and I welcomed 40 with excitement and open arms! I love evolving as I age 💗😃.
Love this! I am so thankful for the lessons that I learned and the things that actually didn't work out. I am such a different person and what I want is so changed from when I was 30.
I needed to hear this. I moved back in with my parents at 30 & felt such shame about where i was/am. I compare myself to others & what theyre doing & i put myself down when i do it. So i decided to not get on social media as much, getting back to eating better & working out, embrace my accomplishments (traveling our the country for the first time plus going back to school this fall for my bachelors), trying to reinvent myself after a bad break up. & also being with my family again❤❤❤❤ the moment i complain i think about how blessed i am.
Coming back to gratitude is SO helpful! What a blessing to be able to go back to your parents. Your journey is yours. If you know you're doing the best you can and making the right decision for your life now, forget what other people have to say about it. No feel ashamed. Life goes in seasons and things will be back on the up again! 💜
At 40, I finished my bachelor's degree and finally passed my driver's test:)
Did you have kids? I'm 38 and I really wanna finish my bachelors but with a daughter and full time job I'm feeling like it's impossible. Any tips?
Good for you
Congrats! That’s huge
@@naomiv7133, hi Naomi, no I don't have kids, that's what probably what made it easier. I did my coursework online instead of in-person. That made it easier:)
@@naomiv7133I am 37 with two kids. Full time college student outside of summer. You need some people (I have one person only but he is strong) around to support but it IS possible! Pray. Make a to do list. Look for resources in your area. Sometimes there are scholarships. Customize it, go online and in person. Go only two days a week. I hope you find your way ❤
I got my bachelor's degree, started my business and started being more intentional about my health and started doing crossfit in my late 30s. I'm 42 now and I feel like my best years are ahead of me. I'm grateful for being a late bloomer.
That's wonderful! Congratulations!
Could you explain why you're grateful that you achieved all that in your late thirties ? Asking this as a 24 yo who has to remind herself that there's still plenty of time. And congrats on your achievements
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@@Noah-yz7yxI’ll say you make better decisions as you age, you feel more positive and calm and I think this is achieved if you aren’t too hasty when you are in your 20s, don’t worry too much and focus on what you are able to do, go at your own pace and take care of your body, mind, spirit, partying and drinking and casual sex is so damaging and you will look and feel terrible in your later years, delayed gratification is the smart way, I use the example of a fruit tree, it lays deep roots (foundations) for years before it bears any fruit
Ooh, I love this! Congrats on all of your accomplishments thus far!!! Yes, more and better are ahead!
I got married at 37, had a baby at 38. I found my dream career at 40 and started making around 6 figures. With an art’s degree, I never thought I’d ever be a high earner. It’s never too late to be what you might have been.
Now that’s a Testimony! 🙌🏼 ❤
I really needed to hear this Thanks for sharing your story
I love this! Thank you so much for sharing 💜💜💜
May I ask what you do? Definitely an inspiration.. thanks for sharing
What is your job title? I too want to earn sux figures in an art career.
This is how you eliminate anxiety. Don't look at life as a race, but a marathon. Once you start comparing your life to others, then that's when anxiety sits in. As a underdog, I had no other choice but to be a late bloomer. It's not about your status at the current time, but where you destined to be.
Amen!!! Things can always change.
Destined for greatness 🙌
Well said
I am also a late bloomer my dear and I was worried
why am I assuming that the new language is German, and that you are studying nursing in Germany?
43 year old you GIVING 20 somethings a RUN cause THAT FACE CARD is EPIC
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OMG, you are too kind!!! ♥️♥️♥️
@@kristidoingthingsno seriously I was thinking the same. Do you have a video on staying youthful? Also a self care tips video?
Thank you so much! Hmm, may need to make a video about that.
@@kristidoingthings Just keeping it REAL .
37 years old,no longer dating abusive men,speaking a new language, started going to the gym, doing Nursing school in another continent (Europe). I thank Jesus for my blessings
Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾
Amen!!! What a testimony!
Yay for nursing school at 37!! I’m currently in the same boat. Sending you positive energy to thrive in all you do 💕
That's awesome! I too am aspiring to make my move to Europe this fall. Best of luck with everything!
🙏🏿 🙏🏿 🙏🏿
I’m here to say, at 45, my biggest accomplishment are yet to come! 🙏🏾
Amen to that!!!
40 is the ultimate reset.
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Yesss
Right fresh 40 and I'm seeing signs every where telling me I got this
I’m turning 39 this year. I feel like I was lied to about aging and lied to myself through internalised patriarchy and ageism. It gets better and better 💪🏽 the best decades are yet to come
Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾
Yes, girl!!! 🙌🏽
1,000% agree 👍
I just thought to myself the other day that I like older me A LOT more than younger me! I'll be 37 this August.
Yes I totally agree, every time someone tries to age me I just shrug it off because my mind is beautiful and so Is my confidence
I finished my bachelors degree at 40, got a good paying IT job, started my masters at a premier university at 41, looking more beautiful than I did in my 20s and 30s. Keep up the faith guys. Life can change in a matter of seconds. At 37, I remember sitting on the bare floor of my apartment crying to God asking why I was suffering so much, I said “Father, I’m about to turn 40 and I have nothing , my hair is falling out, I’m stressed out, just got out of a relationship, why am I useless?. I worked in a warehouse then, drove Uber and Lyft to stay afloat… then I heard a small voice “ I’m about to do a new thing”….
I honestly do not know how I got to where I am with such speed. I hope this gives assurance to any lady in their late 30s that think it’s over. GOD CAN CHANGE THINGS AROUND IN A SPLIT OF A SECOND and IT WILL HAPPEN SPEEDILY.
YES, all of this!!!
I can relate to your story. I was with overprotective toxic parents until I was 31. I got married and had my first child. I believe God put her in my life to give me a reason to finally mature. I never thought I was capable of much, mainly due to parental figures who criticized me constantly and found fault in everything I did. Now that I am out of their home, I have finally begun to bloom as a person, and I am 35. I have taken my relationship with God seriously for the first time and He has freed my spirit of so many bonds. As the scripture teaches, you are metaphorically reborn into a new being. God can bless you at any time in life.
The comment section brings me so much joy. So happy for all of you ladies in this comment section doing great things in your 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. Proud of y’all.❤👏🏿🥰🤩
The comment section is just the best!!!
same!!!
I turn 38 this year. I plan to take up Spanish and singing lessons. I’m so excited in this new season ❤️
I’m turning 38 this year too and have the same goals
I plan to learn Spanish as well I have been watching YT videos.. YT university will teach you lol.
I’m 36 and for my 36th bday I enrolled in Spanish classes as my bday treat🎉
That's so exciting!
Immediately subscribed. I wish there were more influencers in their 30’s and 40’s to help us out! Thanks
Aww, you are too kind! Welcome and Thank you so much for being here!!!
I did the exact same thing!
Me too
Eva Monroe is a good channel as well & Patricia Bright
I just subscribed too! So glad this video hit my algorithm! ❤
Fellow 43 here! My husband and I restarted parenting at the age of 40 when our boys were 20 and 16. We now have a beautiful baby girl. I went back for my Bachelors while pregnant and graduated. Worked full time and started a business. I’m the poster child for “I should be doing something productive” to the point where I forget to stop and relax. I pressure the crap outta myself.
43 club!!! You have done a lot in a short amount of time. From a fellow Type A person, remember to take a moment and celebrate all of your wins.
Wow! That’s awesome! Good for you 🙌🏽
My late 30s will be my time to bloom. Great things are happening. I’m in school, found a career I love, finally writing the novel, and there is so much more coming. I feel it!
Get it, girl!!! Love this!!!
My sister would always say “God will restore time” when you said you didn’t feel like you missed out that’s exactly what she meant. There been a lot of moments in my life where I felt like I missed out but later in my life it was right on time for me. I love this side of RUclips and I want to produce more content like this myself because a lot of people don’t have anyone in their corner telling them that it will be okay 🫂 I just became a subbie ❤
YES, that's exactly what I meant! Sound like you have a smart sister!!! So glad that you found your way over here. Definitely love that it's a growing community of like-minded individuals who want to support one another in being their best selves.
Love the line “God will restore time”. Thats a word
God is time itself. He will make up for it
I am a youthful 43. I am vegetarian too! I feel quite content with my life but I have goals. I feel 30. I lost sixty or seventy pounds on my own. I am 209 pounds. I am 5'9. I am comfortable in my own skin.
Yasssssss🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Go girl!!
@@sosobelle6922 Thanks!
this is SOO awesome!!! Congrats babe!
@@kristidoingthings Thank you
I’m 25 and I feel like this, this made me feel better
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Girl.. What? U have a lot a time to accomplish your goals im about to turn 40 and still not where I want to be
Yay!!!
25? Omg I would arm wrestle a tiger to be your age again 🤣 You’ll be fine. 💕
I will be tuning 46 next month and I am in nursing school. I am a mother of three . My kids are going to high school and they are proud of me. Specially my daughter ❤I am very excited for the rest of my life🎉
Aww, congratulations!!! I love this!
Im 41 and in college, studying to become a teacher. Thanks so much for this video ❤
Love this!!! You're so welcome!
I got my doctorate at 29 as well as my license to privately practice 30 now and living well.
Good job!!! 👏👏👏
Get it babe!!!
I'm 36 and so badly need this. I'm honestly nervous about turning 40 because you really supposed to have it figured it out by then. and I'm still slightly lost.😂
Same also 36
Nobody has it figured out. Trust!!
I'm 36 also! We got this! Slow and steady wins the race. Accomplish things in doses and don't get anxious about anything. Enjoy the small wins on the way to the big ones :)
I was also worried about turning 40 and now I can tell you that being 40 is totally great. I didn’t figure everything out however I started to exercise every day at least for 30min and it was a game changer for my energy levels and I feel that I can focus and accomplish so much more when I don’t feel tired all the time.
I still don't have it fully "figured out", but I am great saying "IDK" and figuring it out as I go along. We were BAMBOOZLED into thinking only really grown folks had it figured out. 😂
Whenever you feel left out with your agenates that are flying high please remember other age mates are in hospital fighting for their life 😢 or have passed on .God has given you the grace to be alive and healthy and that should be everything.... Being grateful is key.
Love this so much! So important to be grateful for where we are and what we DO have.
Inconsistencies with job security has propelled me towards working on my long-time dream of starting my own business. I launched it in March and it has been going well so far. I hope that I can be fully self-employed in the near future. It’s never too late to start!
Congrats!!!! 🎉
That's awesome!!
It really is never too late to start. So proud of you for launching your business- what a big leap of faith that had to be!
I am two classes away from my Bachelor’s degree and I am now praying on whether I should continue to get my master’s degree. I have always wanted to move out of Mississippi so now, when I complete my degree, I will be applying for jobs outside of Mississippi because I will finally have the degree that backs up all of the experience I have acquired over the years.
You're so close!!! If having your master's will 1) help you get to the next point or 2) is something you've always wanted to have- go for it!
@kristidoingthings between the message at church today and the 60 day glow up journey you were led to share with us, I find that I have no clue exactly what I want because I have spent most of my life focused on everyone else’s needs and wants. I am on a journey now to find balance while simultaneously finding myself!
Congrats!!
@@ThepeejayThank you
If I may ask what have you been studying?
I think this is really important. It’s better to be a late bloomer than never bloom at all. A lot of people get caught up in comparing their life to other people’s and just want to give up. As Theodore Roosevelt said, “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Here is another one from Anais Nin, “then the day came when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
It takes courage to believe in yourself. When that belief falters, it sure helps to have someone in your corner who believes in you. For many years, I thought I had to do everything on my own. I’ve learned to reach out to people I respect when I feel discouraged and that has made a huge difference in my life. Choose these people wisely!
This is so true and Its social media that has people comparing their lives to other people they don't even know and social media is just a bunch of highlight reels of people's lives. They only gonna show you the good side of their life but won't the behind scenes and what they go through on a day to day basis
This is so true! It is so important to have others in our corners as sounding boards and as cheerleaders! Thank you so much for sharing!!!
I turn 39 on Saturday. I needed this. I think about time a lot. I am a massive late bloomer, but am finally starting to kick into bloom ❤🌺🙏🏾
Happy Birthday ❤
@@user-wd5qw5je3j thank you!
Happy birthday!!! What is something you'd like to accomplish by 40?
@@kristidoingthings thank you! A move, progress a small business and creative endeavor Ive been working, stay on my health and fitness track. A good man wouldnt hurt either 🤣
Happy Belated Birthday!! I feel you on this. As a single plus sized woman, sometimes you can't help but wonder about when marriage, kids, etc will happen. It doesn't help when people keep singing the "biological clock" tune. However, I've decided to think about the now and do things that will make me happy.
I’m going to my first Pilates class on Saturday to help strengthen my body. I have always wanted to go but kept thinking I was too old to try it.
Pilates is a game changer! I hope you enjoy it. It makes me feel strong and toned.
Pilates is so much fun- and challenging! How did you like it?
You are so right! 40s are fabulous. I have learned to be open to new opportunities. 10 years ago I would not have imagined I'd be where I am now. But I am so happy I am here. 😊
Right?! it's crazy (and exciting) to see how things can really change for the better!
I'm glad I came across this video because this is exactly what I needed to hear. I'm 42 and I'm going back to school this fall to get my bachelor's degree
I am right there with you! 41 and going back to school full time this fall. Better late than never! This vid gives me hope that I can get through this! What made you decide to go back to school?
@@KimJilene I use to work in the healthcare field. I decided that I want to change careers. So I'm going back to school to become a teacher
That's amazing !
Yay! For all of you going back to school. Remember to give your self grace to get the hang of school again. After a few semesters you will be crushing it! Watch!
Me too!!
I am 45 and i agree, when I was younger i dreaded getting older, but I have accomplished alot, I have my own home, got a Bachelor and Masters degree and I have a great job in the Reseach field.I have aged pretty well,I also have 3 sons, there is only one thing missing, I have been unable to secure a life partner but I will wait on god.
Good job!! 👏👏👏
That’s amazing!
Hello my twin lol… I am 45 years of age and I have 3 sons. Also, I completed my Masters degree working as a Special Education Teacher🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@katherynstewart6021 congrats hun. Happy for you.
@@katherynstewart6021 Good job!! 👏👏👏
I turned 35 last month and I am living my best life. Your video is a such a blessing ❤
I LOVED my 30s. So glad you're enjoying yours 💜💜💜
tysm for this. at 35 i keep hearing people talk about being 35 like it's 122 and i'm like ?????
This ticked me so much!!! You still have SO much life left to live!
I've had the opportunity to serve as a long-term substitute in a classroom and although I am older and this would be my second career, I am more confident that I can make a difference in the classroom.
You should do it!!! I think subbing is a great way to know whether you'd want to be in the classroom full time.
I really needed this message! I'm 33 turning 34 this year and I'm a late bloomer. Coming out of a long-term relationship, I'm focused on getting back to learning to play my harp (started playing in January), and focusing on hiking and cycling. Although I feel behind on owning a home and creating a family, I'm not going to pressure myself on those things
@trishao3308, same here with what u said. I'm 34, got out of a long term 'situationship' with a covert narcissist 3.5 years ago and working towards saving to get my own home one day. I won't be tricked or bamboozled again with love. 4B movement!
Late Bloomers Club! I love your goals, they all feel so adventurous and fun! There is time for those things to happen.
@@justbeingmewithgod9258
I'm in my mid 30s and deciding about going for my Phd (which I need for my field). I was like oh noooo I'm gonna be 43 when the program ends. I am not married, with no kids, not yet a homeowner. By the time I get done I will be so behind my peers. This blessed me. Thank you.
You’ll be 43 anyway, so the question you should ask your self is do you want to be 43 with a PhD or without one? You better go after your dreams girl ❤️
I am with @siam4016 on this one! Go after it fearlessly!!!
I turned 41 this month and am grateful to see another birthday! It's so funny to think that at some point most of us have thought 40 was "old" because it really can feel like a new beginning in so many ways. I loved this video, I'm glad it came to me 😊
I'm only 24, but I remember watching The Real and the hosts saying how much they LOVED being in their 40s. So much so that sometimes I'd be thinking to myself that I wanted to be 40 😅
For sure it is a new beginning, I turn 41 this month also..June 7
Yay! Happy birthday! OMG, I was SOOO scared in my 20s and 30s that 40 meant I was old 😂
This is too cute!!! Us 40s will welcome you with open arms! It really is a vibe. But enjoy your 20s babe and know that if you don't have it figured out, it's okay. 💜
Happy birthday!!!
47 here…it’s still a work in progress. It’s not over!!!!
With age comes growth, maturity and wisdom and once you have experienced different circumstances in life you can become a overall better version of yourself
Amen!!! So true!
Well said! I’m 40 this year and love my life now.
Welcome to the 40 club!!! Love that you're enjoying your life!🤗
I'm 43, with a Masters in nursing. I am living and owning my life now. You are beautiful and fabulous. Thank you for this message
Aww, thank you!!! Sounds like you're killing it!!!
Okay I’m 47 and been gone they found cancer and cut it out. Then I started to bleed and had to lay flat. They think they got it all out. I’ll find out Monday. But I’m so ready to get back at it. When I was awake I was thinking of all my plans. Plus without eating and lossing blood I lost 4.5 lbs. lol I’ll find it again. Thank you again for RUclips channel
OMG, I am just getting to respond. You've been through it! How are you doing?!
Hey loves! I hope you're having a wonderful Sunday and for all my peeps in the States, looking forward to (hopefully) a relaxing Memorial Day. I really hope this video encourages any of you as afraid of the clock as I used to be! Life really does just keep getting better!
I just turned 39 and at first I was like Yikes! Im getting older. I think the biggest thing for me was that I have so many goals that I haven’t accomplished by now. And yes social media has a part of my mindset, along with what my family was saying as I grew up, and I felt soooo behind. Everyone has children, married, has traveled and done all the things that I desire to do, but me I just now figured out what I want to do in a career.
But love you look FABULOUS!❤❤
Girl who you telling? Lol. I'm just now realizing what I should've been doing in my 20s. You are definitely not alone in how you feel, but you can't sit in that. Get up, dust yourself off, and get going. Hobbies, skills, education, whatever it is, take the steps to move forward. You can do it!
Totally understand!!... feel the same way especially with the unaccomplished goal part...still tryna complete my bachelor's degree!! 😒
Thank you!!! There is SO much pressure to have it figured out, but I've learned that it's normal to still be learning and working through stuff.
God is so good and I believe I was meant to see this video. Because I'm 42 and was feeling overwhelmed with life and where I am at. So grateful I found your channel blessings. ❤
Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾
God knows exactly what we need! So glad that you're here!
Ok, the algorithm was ON IT today!!! You are a bright light on my page. I needed to hear this especially as I'm nearing 40 and branching out into things outside of my comfort zone. Def subbed, I'm here for this!!
This is too sweet! I am so glad that you're here. We are all about getting out of our comfort zones over here!
Amen to that…aging exists so don’t ignore it.but don’t dwell on it and make it your entire existence. I am 49.5 years old..I feel great. I go to the gym 3 to 4 times a week..I have not gone this week..another priority..but the point is that .. you don’t waste time cause you won’t get it back. Use it wisely, and you won’t regret it. Thank you for this video
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and experience! 💜
I am just on time to live the life of my dreams 🙏🏾✨💕
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Thank you Holy Spirit fpr placing I feel it again.
I am 41 years old, and I live by the mindset of "Its not too late," especially with God at the helm.
I am on time to live the life of my dreams! 💕
Amen, amen!!!
Your message was exactly what I needed today. I woke up this morning so depressed. I'm 57 years old, I recently moved to Tennessee, and I do not have any friends or family here. My husband is the only one working now, so I'm stuck at hope by myself every day. I'm having a lot of life regrets, but I'm determined not to give up.
Be encouraged @supersparkle66. I fight feelings of regret, depressive thoughts and even depression. It is a way that we keep ourselves bound and down not realizing the beauty we hold within and the resilience we have in the face of anything. Combat the negativity with the thoughts and actions you may have thought were out of reach and then make a plan. I will be happy to be your friend from Mississippi that will help and support you in finding your path to what fulfills you!
@@purplescorpnaturale Thank you!
Same here dear ... but in my early 30s.. no money no career but married with two kids.. some times I think am late
@@tr7339 Don't give up! Find what it is you want to do and go for it!
@SuperSparkle66, Hang in there Sis. Right with you on the 57 tip! Just turned 57 a few days ago, and returning to college to get my Bachelors. Set your mind to something and like Nike, JUST DO IT! 🙏🏾
I’m 31 and I needed to hear this. We need more older influencers! I often feel ancient in comparison to my friends and coworkers because they accomplished a lot of adulthood “milestones” while I’m just starting. It also didn’t help that a lot of it was impacted by an adverse financial situation (which I’m still recovering from) and I experienced a lot of prodigy pressure growing up.
One day, I took the time to write down what I’ve wanted to accomplish in my life and I got comforted that a lot of it is still feasible! It’s so true that your 30s are a rebirth because I’m trying things that 20 something me would never even consider! I rode my first looped roller coaster, got my story published, and graduated with my masters degree at 30. It’s never too late! ❤
Oh my goodness! You are checking things off your do-it list and I am so proud of you!!! Your journey is your journey, no need to compare your life or experiences to your friends. (But I totally understand because I used to do the same.) You are young and still can live the life of your dreams.
Literally wrote in my journal this morning “need to slow down time” lol. I may just have that Yardsale on Saturday, because I need to keep making steps, and getting the basement clean and organized has been my goal for months. I have to let go of everything being done in a perfect and organized manner. I’m stopping myself from progressing.
Mmm, now that you know it's time to take that next step. You can do it.
Late bloomer here. This was sooooo NECESSARY! Thank you for this encouragement! I'll be 41 this August, and I used to compare and think I was behind everyone and lame, lol. Me "blooming" late was Gods protection over my life. God is faithful. I went Vegan on my 40th birthday to protect my health. And I'm finally finishing my degree after years of not believing I could. There is always purpose in every season of time!!!!
Happy birthday!!! Congratulations on all of your accomplishments and decisions for your health and future. ♥️
I recently learned to let go and let God. I learned to listen to the little voice inside of me and worked through my fears. Even though the fears were there, i pushed through, and i have accomplished so many of my goals and dreams. I'm still moving forward, and i'm so grateful.
Love this!!! Thank you so much for sharing. 💛💛
Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you for this! I am in my early 30s and I was getting annoyed actually by people saying, especially from women, that life is over after 30. It is a privilege to get older- the amount of people who never get to be older in this life time but wanted to- I am always reminded of that. I had a health scare and it made realise how grateful I am to be alive. Thank you- Subscribed!
Such a blessing that you are alive and well and able to have time to fulfill your dreams. I too have always hated that thought that life is over after 30. If it was, we wouldn't keep living. I am thankful for the gift of each day and see it as an opportunity to keep growing, learning, evolving, and enjoying life! Thank you so much- so happy you're here!!! 💛💛
I'm 36, 37 in October, and feel like my life is just starting to get good! Totally looking forward to crossing that 40 threshold with wisdom, grace and strength
Im turning 37 on the 4th of October
@@maureenmatlala8764 omgosh October babies!! 😇
I became a whole new woman in my 30s! So glad you're enjoying them. It gets even better!
@@kristidoingthings Thank you!
Omg, I’m turning 30 in a month! This video is exactly what my SOUL needed to hear! I had to pause at 1:52 because I’m laughing sooo hard right now. The people need to stop asking me questions! NOW! ☠️😂
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I'm so glad! And Happy *almost* Birthday!!!
Amazing vid 🎉🤩 RUclips algorithms know me too well. I am 41 and going back to school full time with a bunch of Gen Zs where I am old enough to be their mother! But I am determined to get my degree to pursue a career that will help secure me financially in future, so back to school I go! It is never too late. I am on time to live the life of my dreams! ❤
Yes, babe!!! Absolutely love this. You can do it!!! How much longer do you have in your program?
I am 43 also. I was recently sick with stomach issues and have decided to work on my gut health. I see this as something that is going to benefit me as I age and I am even saving up to see a naturopath. No time like the present!
Love that! Definitely no time like the present. Best of luck with your gut health journey!
Yay! We are the same age.😊 Still learning that taking care of myself is not selfish and is actually good for others as well. We are told to love our neighbor as ourself, soo... I have to love myself and take care of myself to honor God.🎉❤
Woohoo!!! Go 43 club!!!🙌🏽 Yes, self care is an act of honoring the temple God gave us.
I appreciate this conversation. Women are often given many deadlines
We are and it makes it so rough to appreciate the beauty in aging and how to age gracefully.
As a 32 year old, I just want to say we look up to you all. We need a lead way, hope, and inspiration. A lot of 90s kids had a shocking life (the internet and world affairs) We will respect the vision set up for us. Please don’t give up your goals and dreams. Sometimes I get discouraged because my 20s were all about surviving I feel so old and washed. I realize some people just “do it for their kids” . Go bigger. Follow your dreams and nothing more. Blessings.
Aww, love this! Thank you so much for sharing and encouraging!
1981 in the house. 1000000000% spot on. Also, kudos to you as this topic doesn’t get talked about enough!!!
Tail end of 1980 (December)! So glad you enjoyed!
Thanks for sharing! I turn 39 on Monday and I feel I’ve gotten better in time. Once I realized this, I wonder why people are afraid to age. I’m in better shape in my 30s than 20s, more disciplined and smarter. I don’t look “older”, I look & feel great!❤ I had our only son at 34 while my peers have high school graduates. This is my life path and I feel like a better parent as well because I’m ready.
Happy birthday!!! People are so afraid of getting older because we didn't grow up hearing these stories. This side of aging definitely needs to be shared more!
I'm 38 and really needed to hear this. I have been in a spiritual and overall life rut, but I started making moves to get out of it. Thank you!!
So that that it was helpful! The ruts happen. Sigh. I totally get it. What are some things that are starting to work for you?
I just talked to God about this TODAY! WOW! Im 38 just got into finance after being in Healthcare for 17 years. I almost had a thought that I was too old to start again but then came this video! Thank you and thanks to all the wonderful, inspiring messages in the comments 🙏
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Embracing where we are is so BIG!
The experience that pushed me toward my dreams is experiencing loss of people very close to me. It made me more fearless to really live my dreams. I would tend to overthink everything. Now I just take the leap.
Would you mind elaborating further? I've recently been through a lot of bereavement and I seem to go from hope to despair most days. It's mostly left me very depressed and low in energy, lacking motivation etc
@@katec9893 same, I actually feel more fearful and anxious nowadays . I was more carefree, inspired, and fearless before I went through some devastating things.
I definitely understand what you mean. Loss can make us realize how we only have but so much time to do things and give us the push we need to not want to let time pass us by without going after our dreams.
COMPARISON IS THE THIEF OF JOY.
I AM TURNING 26 IN A FEW MONTHS AND AT SOME POINT I USED TO BEAT MYSELF HARD OVER AGEING. I'M GLAD I CAME ACROSS YOUR VIDEO ❤🎉
Happy almost birthday! Seems like you've accomplished a lot in your 25 years!
I'm 25 going 26 in 4 months and when I tell you I'm terrified of growing old!! thank you for this video I definitely need to change my mindset about his
I could be your mom babe. At 46 I am going to college. Come on age is a number.
What about getting older scares you?
So happy to know I’m not the only one feeling like this 45, considering a new career which will require me to go back to school and then I want to relocate. I’m still single, but I know exactly who and what I’m looking for in my next relationship ❤
Your energy is vibrant and beautiful ❤ we are as old as we feel
Yes we are!!! Thank you so much!!!💛
I’m 29 and I’ve been feeling this way lately. Thank you for the encouragement
you're so welcome!♥️♥️♥️
You are so amazing. I agree with you - no reason to put limit on ourselves. 40s is new 30s.
Amen!!!
I started my first apprenticeship with 28, graduated from that with 31 and an GPA of 4.0, which I definitely couldn't have done with 16 or so due to certain health issues. I'm now working my first job and all the things I'm now able to do, including standing up for myself and setting boundaries, are so much easier to do in this age than before. That's something I definitely enjoy about that. So thank you for your video! I used to think as a teenager and in my early 20s, that life is basically over if I don't have a stable career by the end of my 20s but no, my health came in the way and I had to re-arrange my goals and everything. Now, things are just getting started and are better than ever when it comes to me personally. I'm also most-likely going to school again on the side soon, if that's manageable with work, just to keep growing. :)
I am turning 40 next year. I made a plan a few months ago to " get my life together". But also gave myself some grace because my life had many obstacles. I'm glad I found this video and see other women in the same stage of life as me.
What's 1 big thing/accomplishment you want to do before turning 40?
I am 32 watching this video and the comments below gives me peace and joy within myself.reminder me that I am still on time to be where I want to be.my best years are yet to come! 🙌🏾🙏🏽 thanks for this video. God bless you!❤
Yes you are! God bless you too hon! ♥️♥️♥️
OMG right on time!! I’m turning 40 this year and I’ve been so dreading it! Thank you for lifting this limiting belief of getting “old”. My 30’s has truly been my rebirth as well. So I now welcome this new era.
I LOVED my 30's as well and 40 has only gotten better. It's gonna be fantastic!
I can't tell you how much I needed this! Late 30s is scary when you feel like your life is stagnant and you aren't where you (and other people) think you should be.
We definitely go through stagnant seasons, but we keep making moving in the direction we want to go even when it feels like you're walking blindly. As you keep doing that and continuing to seek God for direction, the season will pass.
@@kristidoingthings ❤️
33 soon 🙌🏾😭 was just thinking everyone life goes at a different flow 5:52 love that quote ty
“If your looking for the perfect time then stop” 🙌🏾
You really do have to just start!
I'm 44 and just completed my first year pursuing my bachelor's degree. When I started last year I questioned if I was doing the right thing, but it flowed. This morning as I checked my bank account I felt overwhelemed by what I saw, I started to feel bad about myself, wondering if I will ever get out of this mess that I put myself in. I opened youtube and was about to close it out when your video on decluttering popped up, which lead me to this video, I read the comments, and I realize that I am in the right space. I am a big beliver in energies, vibes, and flow. The energy, vibe and flow of this video is everything I needed to hear this morning. I am reminded that I am exactly where I need to be in a time like this. I am a late bloomer, I started my healing journey 2 years ago, and I am so proud of where I am, and who I am becoming. Thank you for this video, I totally subcribed, because...duh!
Oh wow, lady! Congratulations on going after your degree! And thank you so much! 💜💜 I am so happy that you're here and that I can be part of your journey. Many blessings as you continue. Also, school will fly by and be done before you know it!
I’m 23 and this very was very inspiring
I am so happy that it resonated with you! 💜
Refreshing to see a video like this from someone in my age group! This vid hits also bec i feel like I've lost out as well, but in my 20's/30's I was a full on caregiver for my mom and my niece always doing everything for fam and mom has passed, bro passe, niece grew up and now I'm alone feeling sooooo behind! But totally agree with the sentiment that it's not too late and building myself back up. "I am just on time to live the life of my dreams" It's not over!!💜💜
It's not over babe! Sounds like it's now time to do something for you. Question is, what do you want to do?
I turned 31 this year and I struggled with this FOREVER. I’m a musician and a singer, and I feel like my time is running out because so many of my peers that ARE artists have made it on major labels, are famous, going on international tours etc. I look at myself and stress so much about how I’m going to make it where they are before I get “old” because let’s be real, we only respect old singers if they reach Legend status. I don’t know when I’ll reach my dreams or what it will look like, but I definitely needed to hear someone older say this because it does put things into perspective for me ❤
It can definitely still happen! Question for you: How are you leveraging those connections with the people you know who are in the same industry doing what you want to do?
I am just on time to live the life of my dreams! ❤
Yes, ma'am!!!
I turned 38 and been experiencing anxiety. I know things can happen for me but the societal conditioning is a bit much. I know things get better in time. I’m much wiser than I was in 20’s. Thank you for sharing
You're so welcome! Things will definitely get better, but you do have to free yourself from society's deadlines. They will make you feel like you're failing when, in reality, you're probably in a season or a period of transition.
I needed to hear this, I'm only 31 and im putting alot of pressure on myself to have my life together in literally five minutes, its exhausting 😢
Yes, girl. That's SO exhausting. Give yourself grace and let the pressure go.
At 38, and after being derailed repeatedly since my mid-20s by various life circumstances, this video hits home. I don't think I realised how much I've felt like I've "wasted my life" before now. Thank you, Kristi.
Aww, you're so welcome! Life circumstances happen, we can't control those.- And as long as you're doing the best you can at each moment and making decisions in favor of the future you see for yourself, no time is being wasted. It's all just part of the journey. 💜
Oh my what a timing! Before your video I was so nervous getting older but now I am so calm. Thanks so much for your positive energy and you just look flawless! Best wishes from Berlin :)
Aww, thank you so much! Berlin! Love seeing where people are from!!! Always so amazed at the power of this community. 💜💜💜🤗
I just turned 39 recently and man I’m so glad I’ve come across your channel there are channel’s like this because man do I always have that feeling of dread
Happy birthday! There’s definitely still time to fully enjoy life 🫶🏽
You look 25.❤
I will take ever bit of that!!!! 😉
I’m 33 and I am so proud of who I have become. My 20s were filled with self doubt, insecurities and fear. Nonetheless a lil therapy and stepping out of my comfort zone really did help me be who I am today. God is good, just keep going guys
Love this!!!
The key is to stop comparing yourself to others. Your life can completely change in ONE YEAR! So does your age really matter?! Go at your own pace. Do what you want….when you want. It’s YOUR life!
THIS!!!
Thank you for this. I’m 24 and have been full on crying trying to figure out what my purpose is and crying about the fact I’ve not accomplished much so far. This makes me feel so much better
You have time. I find that our purpose becomes clear as we are working to improve ourselves.
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom ! I’m currently in nursing school and I’m about four years behind in it, but I give myself grace because so much has happened. Besides becoming a midwife one of my goals has been to travel to all 197 countries! So far I’ve been to 3 !
You're very welcome! Which 3 countries have you traveled to?!
@@kristidoingthings I've been to Canada, Jamaica and Costa Rica!
This was timely, I am 41 returned back to school, lost 53 lbs and on a journey to my best self. I am so excited for my future. I Jesus name
Get it, girl!!!!
Lovely video. Turning 40 this year, I am a bit nervous but really excited at the same time... I'm about to start LIVING ❤❤
It's going to be amazing!!! What month is your birthday?
Yep, late bloomer here. I also cried when I turned 30 because I never could see what my life could be beyond 30. Plus, I hadn't accomplished those parts of life that I felt I should have like marriage, children, the fabulous career, etc. But, then the life lessons came to grow me through the 30s and I welcomed 40 with excitement and open arms! I love evolving as I age 💗😃.
Love this! I am so thankful for the lessons that I learned and the things that actually didn't work out. I am such a different person and what I want is so changed from when I was 30.
I’m only 19 and it’s like my brain is panicking everyday about trying to complete certain milestones.
There are definitely things to do, but you have time to do them. What is one thing you're panicking about?
I needed to hear this. I moved back in with my parents at 30 & felt such shame about where i was/am. I compare myself to others & what theyre doing & i put myself down when i do it. So i decided to not get on social media as much, getting back to eating better & working out, embrace my accomplishments (traveling our the country for the first time plus going back to school this fall for my bachelors), trying to reinvent myself after a bad break up. & also being with my family again❤❤❤❤ the moment i complain i think about how blessed i am.
Coming back to gratitude is SO helpful! What a blessing to be able to go back to your parents. Your journey is yours. If you know you're doing the best you can and making the right decision for your life now, forget what other people have to say about it. No feel ashamed. Life goes in seasons and things will be back on the up again! 💜
Right on time 👏🏾 live your life on your terms 😊