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You look privileged! You really have 'that look.' I would never believe you have ever struggled if you hadn't said so

I love this advice! Thanks for sharing all your life lessons with us. BTW can you do a hair tutorial? Your hair is beautiful.

Thanks for this video I am moving in a few weeks, this is helpful.

❤thank you, and yes, please continue this series.

Throw away stuff that is not serving you. So helpful. Immediately thought of shirts been sitting in my drawers unworn for 2 summers. Interested in how you find role models to look for inspiration on how to change mindset.

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What a gem 💎 you dropped when you said "Fear & holding on is not compatible with getting to more" 🙌🏾 Overall this was a great video please make a part 2!

Yes to a part 2

💕🦋💕 great info, as always. I’m shifting my mindset

Great video. Would like to see more like this one. So motivational and inspiring. Thank you, Kristie.

I haven’t a clue but I will for sure try the seasoning! 😂👍🏽

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Wow excellent video Kristi!

I usually rewatch your videos when i need to get more into a positive mindset, but today, i had to watch this one back to back. #greatinspirationalvideo

I appreciate you putting in the work and then sharing what has worked with us. Speaking from lived experiences makes it all the more trustworthy.

Oooo girl this video is stepping on all 10 of my toes 😢😢😢😢

Having the vision and then take the right steps. And getting around people that are where you want to be. Is key! And its working for me😊

Good video, Kristi! These are great actionable steps. On the getting rid of stuff front, I found the whole concept of not saving things for my fantasy self anymore really helpful. I don’t need clubbing outfits when I’m usually in bed by 9pm. Sometimes, privilege can just be giving more room to who you are now- in my case, an early bird, instead of a night owl. 😄

Yes!

A good post, but I would like to mention one more thing: I've noticed that after a divorce or separation, financial anxiety can arise because you're holding on to things. This fear may have been experienced in the past and continues into the present. Especially as a woman, the financial situation of having to support yourself alone and take care of everything leads you to hold on to many things because this reflects the monetary value of money. Which of course can only be partial, but at the wrong level. Thanks You very much for Your Clip and sharing!

Needed to hear this shift specifically from you, thank you🌟

Greetings from Australia 🇦🇺

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It's pronounced Alio Olio the g is silent it means garlic and oil

Thats a fun way of saying it 🎉

Leilani Mews

Wow! This video struck some chords. I've never been able to set boundaries and I let other people take up all my time, getting me sick, unable to finish tasks or whatnot... I also didn't know there was a "soft life" thing and the hustling mindset always tore me apart. Thank you for your words and I'll be sticking around to hear more of them ☺️

Its difficult living with someone else who is a "collector" and it isn't mine to give away or throw out.

I really enjoyed this, thank you for the insight. I will definitely reflect this n this and the opportunities I have so I don’t lose my power.

Novella Mountain

Layer 1 - Out of side, out of mind (mails, papers…) → no emotional attachment so easiest to throw away => set a timer and break it into smaller tasks if needed & start to throw things away. Can do that why enjoy watching TV or listen to music, make it fun Layer 2 - Happy memories (nice to have things: postcards, children’s artworks, gifts we don’t like...): little emotional attachment → ask yourself: - do I want this item → if No → toss it. - Yes → can you keep it digitally → If yes, take picture and toss it. - No → organize it in a place that you can easily see & go back to and commit to re-evaluating if you still want that Layer 3 - The ideal self → attached to our ideal version of self (clothes don’t fit, things saved for later…) → ask yourself: - Why do I want this? - Am I actively working to use this (change diet, healthy lifestyle…)? - does this item make me feel good about myself, inspire me? - where I am in my life would I buy this? - → if no → toss it Layer 4 - It's so hard to say good bye → emotionally attached very closedly (late family member’s stuff, valuable memories) → very hard to let go.

This is God speaking to me. Thank You Lord for the explanation! I GET it now. Yes Dad, I'll listen again. Wow Kristi, from His heart thru your lips. The mindset that if i need it, He will provide it. I do NOT have to buy enough. HE has enough.

I moved from the west coast to the east coast in May of covid. I was 2 yrs in holding pattern, 98% of my stuff in boxes. Now for 2 yrs I'm in a MUCH smaller house. I've spent 2 yrs trying to find places to put things. I don't know what I'd like to do anymore. Do I still like to paint? I don't know. But I'm not going to get rid of the canvases I have because in 6 months when things are calmer maybe I'll want to. I also have a business in my home. I am so overwhelmed with trying to find places to put stuff it gets me depressed

Im just laughing and crying through video