Yikes, those Zara Boots sound dredful🤪....Whoa, now you falling out of love with the Betty Cardigans is a shocker, because I know you adore them, but I totally understand. Truly appreciate your honesty Vilma, and it shows that a person's personal style is always evolving and that's what makes fashion fun😊.
This was an interesting and useful video, Vilma. I think that as our style evolves, we do grow out of certain looks and gravitate towards what feels like us. And it is important to cull our wardrobe of the pieces that we don’t love to wear. I have always had the impression that you think about your purchases and what you add to your wardrobe. This is clearly visible in the fact that you do not have many pieces that you regret buying.
@@cristinafrancisco6773 hey lovely. I try my best to always plan before making a a new purchase. I go through the process even it arrives at my house of styling it different ways to insure I love it. Sometimes it doesn’t work and I return the items. The ones that stay, I always believe it was good choice until the evolution process starts and I feel they no longer give me joy ❤️
A very honest review that I personally appreciate a lot. There should be more like this. Because I often buy items suggested by influencers and they aren't that top. So, thank you!!
Thanks Vilma for your thoughts on the Betty cardigan, I was thinking of getting it but been on the fence for a while and now I know I won’t like it. You said the magic word: “ structured” and I’m not a fan of that silhouette. Tip for blisters, use scholl blister shields they work wonders.
Hi Vilma, I got the striped Arket linen trousers. I felt the same as you. Somehow not enough fabric on the legs. So I started to wear them with an oversized white shirt over them for a very casual look. Now I’m fine with them. Give it a try. Thank you for your posting and have a great weekend and coming week 👏💐😎
It's one of those things when your style evolves. Mine also went from smarter, lady like (very much like Lydia Tomlinson) to a more cool, oversized, relaxed modern look. I sold about 56 pieces on Vinted which was quite devastating as you get so little for items, even when fairly new. But once you know you won't go back there's just no point in holding on. I also have some Ancient Greek sandals that killed me, and I had to sell them and re-buy one size bigger. Now they are perfect. I think they do run a bit small :(
@@shellbell8062 omg yes, I agree with you on the value of things sold on Vinted. We never get what we paid for but, holding on to things we don’t wear is so much worse I find. Yes, the Ancient Greek sandals do run small. The ones I’ve mentioned fit me perfectly but the leather straps kill me I need to find a different way to style the straps 😂
Thanks so much for sharing this. It reminds me to take stock of the things that I really ❤❤, wear, and spark the most joy. 😊 I truly appreciate what you do to help me create a wardrobe that works best for me. 🤗 🍂🌻🍂
I’m a new subscriber and I’m so glad I found your channel! You have a wonderful, clear way of explaining your thought process with fashion. Thank you for posting!
What a valuable video thank you so much :) I totally agree with you. We change year after year and we need to declutter our wardrobes and only wear the clothes that we really love. When I buy something new or on vinted I want to be 100% sure that I am gonna love this piece. I have so many clohes to sell off . But this process is so long and devastates me a little bit hehe
@@gochagory I know how hard it can be to part ways with things that we use to or still love. We hope that at some point we will wear it but, it’s better to let go in order to make space for things we love ❤️
Hi Vilma, I really enjoyed seeing your regrets and I liked all of them but could understand why you had regrets at the same time. I enjoyed seeing how you styled all the outfits and am looking forward to seeing more of you.
@@que2h.690 the quality is absolutely amazing!! And the fit was lovely but not for my lifestyle…I love seeing it in others but on me I prefer the Gaspared jumper. I have 3 of them and love love love them ❤️
I also fall out of love with some really nice items in my wardrobe but I learned to keep them away from my sight before taking a plunge to sell on vinted. Mood and preferences change over time and if in 1 year it’s a strong “no” then it’s really time to say goodbye.
@@pathos9864 I love your concept!! I’m in a similar trail of thought!! If I don’t reach for it for 8-12months and the items could have been worn at anytime during that period, I let them go ❤️
For me, every single regret I ever have is always buying jeans in the first place. I hate them so much lol, I love tailored trousers and I have to accept that's what it is. I also regret whenever I buy wool cardigans/jumpers, my skin really can only stand Cashmere
This was a great video. I must say I was surprised by many of the pieces you listed. Sometimes i see influencers and think they always find the right/perfect pieces. And I think what am I doing wrong when some of my pieces don’t work out or I regret buying them. So this makes it very relatable. You are so well put together and everything you buy is intentional. I’m like damn Vilma always picks the perfect pieces! Lol. So it’s nice to know that you, like us, also have certain regrets or might just be surprised that the item wasn’t as perfect as it seemed at first. In addition, our aesthetic evolves over time so that’s just a natural process with outgrowing certain pieces. Also this video was very helpful in case we were considering buying some of those available pieces. Because now with your experience you are able to tell us why they didn’t work out. That’s great feedback and good to know if we were considering purchasing them so we don’t waste our time and money. Thank you!
@@zaramichaels3339 hey lovely. Yes, we all go through ups and downs and evolution of our styles. I go through this every 1-2 years. Most pieces I buy, I love and wear them loads but at times, things just don’t work for us. I’ll be doing the opposite of this video soon and I’ll share things I absolutely love wearing in the past year! It will be a long video 😅. I’m glad you have found this video helpful and never think you’re the only one who makes mistakes cause we all do it 🥰
Felt exactly the same about my Cos Arch jeans - they really felt uncomfortable and I only wore them when I knew I wouldnt be sitting much😅 got a size up and I love thrm now!
I just finished watching it on tv and had to run to my phone to like it else I'll forget 😫. Nonetheless, thanks for sharing some of your clothing regrets. I have some that I need to sell off. I'll be traveling to London for the first time for work and super excited to visit Arket since we don't have one in the U.S. I'm hoping to purchase classic items and not go overboard 😅
Hi Vilma, I bought the exact Arket, grey cloud jeans and feel exactly the same as you! I have the light blue cloud jeans too and love them. You are absolutely right (imho) the material of the grey ones has put a whole different feel (and look to a certain degree!) to them. I currently have mine on Vinted!🫣🤷🏾♀️😅😮Fab video as always Vilma. Take care.
I had the same issue with the Cloud jeans but in the super light wash. The fabric is just too light and doesn’t drape the same way the medium/darker washes do
I bought a pair of Colimn jeans from Cos recommended by a fashion blogger , and they were very uncomfortable and stiff. I’m so glad I was able to return after a long time . Gland I didn’t take off the tags .
@@Dina-jp6qu o also have that style. I like them but didn’t reach for them as much this summer as again, I like looser fitting jeans. It’s always good to have a more fitted one tho 😌
It's very useful video! We all have some pieces we really wanted and now regreting... but sometimes it's hard to get rid of it because we wanted it so badly! Right 😁🙋♀️
I bought those Uniqlo pants in the same Color and return them right away opting for natural materials for any summer dress pants. However, I did buy them in black for the winter season. I work in a not always clean public school and can’t imagine ruining a pair of wool pants! I totally regret my pleather chunky loafers! But I’ll beat them up until I can’t anymore! Nice to see even the most stylish people like yourself regret purchases! 😂
@@despinastrongilos3977 I brought similar ones in black also in Uniqlo for my daughter. She wears them for school and loves them!! Yea, I make mistakes every year lol 🤣
Do you have any tips how to successfully sell on unworn clothes/shopping mistakes like that? Whenever I check what people are willing to pay it just seems hardly worth the effort… uploading, shipping etc…
@@AkA-sw7rl I think it depends what websites are charging on their fees. I sell my items on Vinted with no fees. I also don’t sell for the same price I bought my items. Any return I get on my pieces , I use it for something else. Also, it depends on what your selling. I always say, every little return you get is better, than having unused items in your wardrobe 🙏
Olá Vilma! Adoro os teus vídeos :) Eu comprei as calças da Uniqlo por tua causa e adoro-as! Gosto tanto delas que comprei todas as cores. Usei tanto as brancas que já estão com mau aspecto e vou voltar a comprar mais um par na Primavera.
I'm not sure if your dark denim jeans are the COS tapered jeans that retail at £85? I bought those jeans & absolutely love them. They often get sold out. However, if you have a pair in the wrong size, I can imagine they would be pretty uncomfortable.
@@ifeyhome yes, I beleive these are the same jeans!!! When I tried them in store, the size above was too big so I went for my usual size. I think I just prefer in general looser fitting jeans so I might give these a try again but in the bigger size and wear them with a belt. But I’ll chill for now as I have enough denim 🤭
Forgive me, I’m in language for a career. Never ever say ‘these ones’ just say these and drop the one. I hope you know the spirit of this suggestion is well intended.
Coming to terms with and accepting the comfortability our clothes offer is soooo freeing! We want to look good AND feel good! Thanks for sharing! 😅
@@brittneyk0158 I agree!! I’m more leaving towards comfortable pieces than other styles ❤️
Yikes, those Zara Boots sound dredful🤪....Whoa, now you falling out of love with the Betty Cardigans is a shocker, because I know you adore them, but I totally understand.
Truly appreciate your honesty Vilma, and it shows that a person's personal style is always evolving and that's what makes fashion fun😊.
This was an interesting and useful video, Vilma. I think that as our style evolves, we do grow out of certain looks and gravitate towards what feels like us. And it is important to cull our wardrobe of the pieces that we don’t love to wear. I have always had the impression that you think about your purchases and what you add to your wardrobe. This is clearly visible in the fact that you do not have many pieces that you regret buying.
@@cristinafrancisco6773 hey lovely. I try my best to always plan before making a a new purchase. I go through the process even it arrives at my house of styling it different ways to insure I love it. Sometimes it doesn’t work and I return the items. The ones that stay, I always believe it was good choice until the evolution process starts and I feel they no longer give me joy ❤️
A very honest review that I personally appreciate a lot. There should be more like this. Because I often buy items suggested by influencers and they aren't that top. So, thank you!!
@@gemmina69 I’m so pleased you’ve enjoyed this video ❤️🥰
Thanks Vilma for your thoughts on the Betty cardigan, I was thinking of getting it but been on the fence for a while and now I know I won’t like it. You said the magic word: “ structured” and I’m not a fan of that silhouette.
Tip for blisters, use scholl blister shields they work wonders.
@@NorahsYarnArt thanks for the tips hun ❤️
Hi Vilma, I got the striped Arket linen trousers. I felt the same as you. Somehow not enough fabric on the legs. So I started to wear them with an oversized white shirt over them for a very casual look. Now I’m fine with them. Give it a try.
Thank you for your posting and have a great weekend and coming week 👏💐😎
@@Monika-kc8vv hey Monika. Thanks so much for the tip. I’ll try it next year for sure!! Have a lovely weekend ❤️
It's one of those things when your style evolves. Mine also went from smarter, lady like (very much like Lydia Tomlinson) to a more cool, oversized, relaxed modern look. I sold about 56 pieces on Vinted which was quite devastating as you get so little for items, even when fairly new. But once you know you won't go back there's just no point in holding on. I also have some Ancient Greek sandals that killed me, and I had to sell them and re-buy one size bigger. Now they are perfect. I think they do run a bit small :(
@@shellbell8062 omg yes, I agree with you on the value of things sold on Vinted. We never get what we paid for but, holding on to things we don’t wear is so much worse I find.
Yes, the Ancient Greek sandals do run small. The ones I’ve mentioned fit me perfectly but the leather straps kill me I need to find a different way to style the straps 😂
Thanks so much for sharing this. It reminds me to take stock of the things that I really ❤❤, wear, and spark the most joy. 😊 I truly appreciate what you do to help me create a wardrobe that works best for me. 🤗 🍂🌻🍂
@@pytg4213 I’m so, so, so pleased you’ve enjoyed this video my lovely 🥰
@@vilmasclosett Always. 🥰 🌿🌹🌿
I’m a new subscriber and I’m so glad I found your channel! You have a wonderful, clear way of explaining your thought process with fashion. Thank you for posting!
@@katherinebeachler9455 thank you so much for joining the family ❤️
You looked so gorgeous in the cream trousers, but I totally understand you loving natural fibers.
@@MoonLightOnWater1 thank you soooo much ☺️
What a valuable video thank you so much :) I totally agree with you. We change year after year and we need to declutter our wardrobes and only wear the clothes that we really love. When I buy something new or on vinted I want to be 100% sure that I am gonna love this piece. I have so many clohes to sell off . But this process is so long and devastates me a little bit hehe
@@gochagory I know how hard it can be to part ways with things that we use to or still love. We hope that at some point we will wear it but, it’s better to let go in order to make space for things we love ❤️
Hi Vilma, I really enjoyed seeing your regrets and I liked all of them but could understand why you had regrets at the same time. I enjoyed seeing how you styled all the outfits and am looking forward to seeing more of you.
@@virginiav.1172 thank you so much for watching ❤️
Nooooh! I love the Betty ! Am looking for another one in different color. The merino wool/style is fantastic. Oh well different styles for each of us.
@@que2h.690 the quality is absolutely amazing!! And the fit was lovely but not for my lifestyle…I love seeing it in others but on me I prefer the Gaspared jumper. I have 3 of them and love love love them ❤️
I also fall out of love with some really nice items in my wardrobe but I learned to keep them away from my sight before taking a plunge to sell on vinted. Mood and preferences change over time and if in 1 year it’s a strong “no” then it’s really time to say goodbye.
@@pathos9864 I love your concept!! I’m in a similar trail of thought!! If I don’t reach for it for 8-12months and the items could have been worn at anytime during that period, I let them go ❤️
For me, every single regret I ever have is always buying jeans in the first place. I hate them so much lol, I love tailored trousers and I have to accept that's what it is. I also regret whenever I buy wool cardigans/jumpers, my skin really can only stand Cashmere
@@VBoo459 thank you so much for sharing your regrets lovely ☺️
This was a great video. I must say I was surprised by many of the pieces you listed. Sometimes i see influencers and think they always find the right/perfect pieces. And I think what am I doing wrong when some of my pieces don’t work out or I regret buying them. So this makes it very relatable. You are so well put together and everything you buy is intentional. I’m like damn Vilma always picks the perfect pieces! Lol. So it’s nice to know that you, like us, also have certain regrets or might just be surprised that the item wasn’t as perfect as it seemed at first. In addition, our aesthetic evolves over time so that’s just a natural process with outgrowing certain pieces.
Also this video was very helpful in case we were considering buying some of those available pieces. Because now with your experience you are able to tell us why they didn’t work out. That’s great feedback and good to know if we were considering purchasing them so we don’t waste our time and money. Thank you!
@@zaramichaels3339 hey lovely. Yes, we all go through ups and downs and evolution of our styles. I go through this every 1-2 years. Most pieces I buy, I love and wear them loads but at times, things just don’t work for us. I’ll be doing the opposite of this video soon and I’ll share things I absolutely love wearing in the past year! It will be a long video 😅.
I’m glad you have found this video helpful and never think you’re the only one who makes mistakes cause we all do it 🥰
Felt exactly the same about my Cos Arch jeans - they really felt uncomfortable and I only wore them when I knew I wouldnt be sitting much😅 got a size up and I love thrm now!
@@Noriumuzikos ❤️
But the white trousers are beautiful....and the Sezane Cardigan😮😮😮😮😮OMG 😮😮😮
@@cristinapiano6190 yes, but I was not reaching for any of them. Specially the Betty cardigans. Didn’t reach for them at all since last year😩
I just finished watching it on tv and had to run to my phone to like it else I'll forget 😫. Nonetheless, thanks for sharing some of your clothing regrets. I have some that I need to sell off. I'll be traveling to London for the first time for work and super excited to visit Arket since we don't have one in the U.S. I'm hoping to purchase classic items and not go overboard 😅
@@yaamo awww you’re a star!! 💫!! I hope that you love your stay here and that you shop, just enough ❤️
Hi Vilma,
I bought the exact Arket, grey cloud jeans and feel exactly the same as you! I have the light blue cloud jeans too and love them. You are absolutely right (imho) the material of the grey ones has put a whole different feel (and look to a certain degree!) to them. I currently have mine on Vinted!🫣🤷🏾♀️😅😮Fab video as always Vilma. Take care.
@@jocampbell6962 hey lovely. Thanks for the feedback on your experience with the Arket Cloud jeans 😀
I had the same issue with the Cloud jeans but in the super light wash. The fabric is just too light and doesn’t drape the same way the medium/darker washes do
@@1588chrissy it seems to be a common issue for sure. Thanks for sharing your experience with them 🩷
I bought a pair of Colimn jeans from Cos recommended by a fashion blogger , and they were very uncomfortable and stiff. I’m so glad I was able to return after a long time . Gland I didn’t take off the tags .
@@Dina-jp6qu o also have that style. I like them but didn’t reach for them as much this summer as again, I like looser fitting jeans. It’s always good to have a more fitted one tho 😌
It's very useful video! We all have some pieces we really wanted and now regreting... but sometimes it's hard to get rid of it because we wanted it so badly! Right 😁🙋♀️
@@anetamay7 😅❤️❤️
I bought those Uniqlo pants in the same Color and return them right away opting for natural materials for any summer dress pants.
However, I did buy them in black for the winter season. I work in a not always clean public school and can’t imagine ruining a pair of wool pants!
I totally regret my pleather chunky loafers! But I’ll beat them up until I can’t anymore!
Nice to see even the most stylish people like yourself regret purchases! 😂
@@despinastrongilos3977 I brought similar ones in black also in Uniqlo for my daughter. She wears them for school and loves them!!
Yea, I make mistakes every year lol 🤣
Do you have any tips how to successfully sell on unworn clothes/shopping mistakes like that? Whenever I check what people are willing to pay it just seems hardly worth the effort… uploading, shipping etc…
@@AkA-sw7rl I think it depends what websites are charging on their fees. I sell my items on Vinted with no fees. I also don’t sell for the same price I bought my items. Any return I get on my pieces , I use it for something else. Also, it depends on what your selling. I always say, every little return you get is better, than having unused items in your wardrobe 🙏
The cardigan you are wearing looks gorgeous on you! 💕 Is it the cashmere cardigan from COS?
@@slo88805 yes, it is!! Love love love it 🥰
@@vilmasclosett I knew it! You have such lovely style!! You always look beautiful! 💞
@@slo88805 awww thank you soooo much xx
I bought a pair of grey jeans impulsively too. They were so worn out looking and that’s just not me. Sent them to the GW unfortunately.
@@mercedes523 our shopping experiences can be challenging, right😅
I have a strong urge to declutter after this video 😂
@@filiasolis5495 hahaha!! Go ahead girl 😅❤️
Olá Vilma! Adoro os teus vídeos :) Eu comprei as calças da Uniqlo por tua causa e adoro-as! Gosto tanto delas que comprei todas as cores. Usei tanto as brancas que já estão com mau aspecto e vou voltar a comprar mais um par na Primavera.
@@andreianunes3066 olá fofa. Que maravilha que gostou das calças!! E sempre um bom investimento, quando usamos as peças até ficarem bem gastas 😀
I can totally relate.
@@MaxMax-ll7mo ❤️
I'm not sure if your dark denim jeans are the COS tapered jeans that retail at £85? I bought those jeans & absolutely love them. They often get sold out. However, if you have a pair in the wrong size, I can imagine they would be pretty uncomfortable.
@@ifeyhome yes, I beleive these are the same jeans!!! When I tried them in store, the size above was too big so I went for my usual size. I think I just prefer in general looser fitting jeans so I might give these a try again but in the bigger size and wear them with a belt. But I’ll chill for now as I have enough denim 🤭
Betty cardigans are incredibly hot.
@@TheVolorand ❤️
Forgive me, I’m in language for a career. Never ever say ‘these ones’ just say these and drop the one. I hope you know the spirit of this suggestion is well intended.
It's amazing how many people use "these ones."
@@YOLONOW5280 thank you for the correction!! I’m taking notes 🙏❤️