【Too much talk leads to mistakes, 22 things to avoid when speaking】 Write it down and you will benefit from it for a lifetime. It took us two years to learn to speak. It took me sixty years to learn to shut up. Most of the time, the more we talk, The farther we are from each other, There are more contradictions. Too much talk leads to mistakes. The following are, Twenty-two commandments for speaking. 1. Avoid talking too much: Don't talk too much, because too much talk will lead to mistakes. 2. Avoid speaking lightly: Don't speak rashly. Those who speak lightly invite blame and shame. 3. Avoid speaking nonsense: Don't be ignorant of the seriousness of the matter and talk nonsense. Talking nonsense often leads to regret. 4. Avoid talking nonsense: What is miscellaneous language? Miscellaneous words mean: speech should not be disorganized. If you are disorganized, your words will not make sense. Hurt your own virtue. 5. Avoid joking: Don't make jokes without regard for the situation. Otherwise it will cause conflicts and bring disasters. 6. Avoid speaking bluntly: Don't speak your mind without thinking of the consequences. Otherwise it will cause trouble. 7. Avoid speaking: Speak tactfully. Don't leave room for maneuver. 8. Avoid leaking words: Don't disclose confidential information. Things are accomplished through secrecy, and words are ruined through leaks. 9. Avoid bad words: Don't say rude and slanderous words, Don't speak hurtful words to others. (A wound from a knife heals easily, but a bad word is hard to erase) 10. Avoid clever words: Don't use sweet words. People who are good at sweet talk are definitely hypocritical. 11. Avoid being too reserved: Don't be proud, complacent, or self-righteous. Boasting about yourself, It is a manifestation of lack of self-cultivation. 12. Avoid slander: Don't speak ill of others behind their backs. Talk bad about people behind their backs. It will cause unrest in the world. 13. Avoid criticizing others: Don't attack people's weaknesses or expose their scars. The one who exposes others' scars, It will make people hate you and harm others and yourself. 14. Avoid making promises lightly: Don't make wishes to others easily. Making promises easily will lose your credibility. 15. Avoid strong words: Don't nag. Others don't want to listen, He keeps talking and it's annoying. 16. Avoid making sarcastic comments: Don't say sarcastic things about others. People who like to ridicule and criticize others, Often careless about their own demands. 17. Avoid making inappropriate remarks: Don't say it doesn't fit, One's own identity and status. 18. Avoid indecent talk: Don't be to your subordinates, Talking too intimately. So that your subordinates don't have to cater to you, And fell into a trap. 19. Avoid flattery: Don't say flattery, Flattering words from others. To flatter others, It's a sign of low character. 20. Avoid humble words: Don't be servile. Speak the words of a slave, Because those with great virtue have no humble words. 21. Avoid words that cause resentment: Don't say words that will cause resentment. Sow the seeds of resentment. 22. Avoid words that bring disaster: Don't say words that will bring disaster. Many evils are often caused by The result of speaking inappropriately. Trouble comes from the mouth, remember, Always remind yourself, Be careful what you say.
【Too much talk leads to mistakes, 22 things to avoid when speaking】
Write it down and you will benefit from it for a lifetime.
It took us two years to learn to speak.
It took me sixty years to learn to shut up.
Most of the time, the more we talk,
The farther we are from each other,
There are more contradictions.
Too much talk leads to mistakes. The following are,
Twenty-two commandments for speaking.
1. Avoid talking too much:
Don't talk too much, because too much talk will lead to mistakes.
2. Avoid speaking lightly:
Don't speak rashly.
Those who speak lightly invite blame and shame.
3. Avoid speaking nonsense:
Don't be ignorant of the seriousness of the matter and talk nonsense.
Talking nonsense often leads to regret.
4. Avoid talking nonsense:
What is miscellaneous language?
Miscellaneous words mean: speech should not be disorganized.
If you are disorganized, your words will not make sense.
Hurt your own virtue.
5. Avoid joking:
Don't make jokes without regard for the situation.
Otherwise it will cause conflicts and bring disasters.
6. Avoid speaking bluntly:
Don't speak your mind without thinking of the consequences.
Otherwise it will cause trouble.
7. Avoid speaking:
Speak tactfully.
Don't leave room for maneuver.
8. Avoid leaking words:
Don't disclose confidential information.
Things are accomplished through secrecy, and words are ruined through leaks.
9. Avoid bad words:
Don't say rude and slanderous words,
Don't speak hurtful words to others.
(A wound from a knife heals easily, but a bad word is hard to erase)
10. Avoid clever words:
Don't use sweet words.
People who are good at sweet talk are definitely hypocritical.
11. Avoid being too reserved:
Don't be proud, complacent, or self-righteous.
Boasting about yourself,
It is a manifestation of lack of self-cultivation.
12. Avoid slander:
Don't speak ill of others behind their backs.
Talk bad about people behind their backs.
It will cause unrest in the world.
13. Avoid criticizing others:
Don't attack people's weaknesses or expose their scars.
The one who exposes others' scars,
It will make people hate you and harm others and yourself.
14. Avoid making promises lightly:
Don't make wishes to others easily.
Making promises easily will lose your credibility.
15. Avoid strong words:
Don't nag.
Others don't want to listen,
He keeps talking and it's annoying.
16. Avoid making sarcastic comments:
Don't say sarcastic things about others.
People who like to ridicule and criticize others,
Often careless about their own demands.
17. Avoid making inappropriate remarks:
Don't say it doesn't fit,
One's own identity and status.
18. Avoid indecent talk:
Don't be to your subordinates,
Talking too intimately.
So that your subordinates don't have to cater to you,
And fell into a trap.
19. Avoid flattery:
Don't say flattery,
Flattering words from others.
To flatter others,
It's a sign of low character.
20. Avoid humble words:
Don't be servile.
Speak the words of a slave,
Because those with great virtue have no humble words.
21. Avoid words that cause resentment:
Don't say words that will cause resentment.
Sow the seeds of resentment.
22. Avoid words that bring disaster:
Don't say words that will bring disaster.
Many evils are often caused by
The result of speaking inappropriately.
Trouble comes from the mouth, remember,
Always remind yourself,
Be careful what you say.