Growing Up In A Polygamous Home - I Said What I Said

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  • Опубликовано: 28 янв 2025

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  • @demiladeodusola2661
    @demiladeodusola2661 3 года назад +66

    Not Bonny and Clyde: Akure Branch😂😂😂😂😂

  • @pharleelat
    @pharleelat 3 года назад +126

    If “THANK GOD WE DON’T LOOK LIKE WHAT WE’VE BEEN THROUGH” was a person! Proud of his strength to share his story👏🏾🙌🏿

  • @tiaraboateng463
    @tiaraboateng463 3 года назад +91

    Tobi narrated his story in a funny manner but it was actually very sad. From physical attack to spiritual attack. God bless his mom for being strong. I have a lot to say but I can't type 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @auntypelz
    @auntypelz 3 года назад +87

    This is WILD! Patience Ozokwor is learning work

  • @DanielOchuko
    @DanielOchuko 3 года назад +45

    Men will embarrass you but won’t be embarrassed 😂😂😂

  • @valerievishnay1358
    @valerievishnay1358 3 года назад +116

    Can I just say that Jola and FK are good interviewers, because they brought the vim out of Tobi with their questions. It would have been easy for the discussion to be just a bunch of stories strung together but they were asking his perspective and using his answers to give clarity. Top tier babes

    • @bolanleadebowale6026
      @bolanleadebowale6026 3 года назад +1

      Came back to watch this the second time. Still so hilarious. I love his spirit.

  • @julietnwoye5501
    @julietnwoye5501 3 года назад +110

    Already listened to the podcast but I have to watch the video to see the facial expressions

  • @n.boakyewaa5589
    @n.boakyewaa5589 3 года назад +86

    The word for this episode is “omo” 😂😂😂

  • @megazimi5040
    @megazimi5040 3 года назад +34

    Ngozi catching them packing stuff from the car was my highlight 😭I can imagine how dramatic that was with the Bournvita and stick 😂😂 Also him getting first position and dancing with the daddy😹

  • @_gbots
    @_gbots 3 года назад +92

    This episode was so chaotic. Truly fuji house of commotion, vayolence every minute and YES Ngozi is a lunatic, my mouth was opened most of the time with a sprinkle of "ah" here and there. BEAT YOUR MIL ?????
    I see that you guys increased the video for us, 30 minutes this time. Thank youuuu ! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @elyon5025
    @elyon5025 3 года назад +91

    the chaos 😭 how can you sell your wife's house to fund your 2nd wedding 😩😭

    • @bethelmame1680
      @bethelmame1680 3 года назад +8

      It's the AUDACITY for me!! I had to pause the video and process what he just said.

    • @oyinadebayo
      @oyinadebayo 3 года назад +2

      Tragic!😂

  • @obianujuibeabuchi465
    @obianujuibeabuchi465 3 года назад +15

    He’s so hilarious and unbothered. I’m glad he finds it hilarious too

  • @olayideeleso7840
    @olayideeleso7840 3 года назад +27

    Polygamous home drama, he maybe be laughing but he is been through alot.
    Love Jola's dress 💓

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 3 года назад +4

    I’m putting “I detest talking stage. If I want you, I will say it” in my Tinder bio.

  • @yetundealabi5151
    @yetundealabi5151 3 года назад +45

    This was hilarious!!!! Tobi's calmness made it more funny. Let me go and listen to the full episode

    • @valerievishnay1358
      @valerievishnay1358 3 года назад +5

      Lmaoooo I swear. Man's was reeling out information like, "Yeah, this shit isn't that wild" 😭😭

  • @tayo380
    @tayo380 3 года назад +38

    The BOUNCE was truly back in this episode

  • @oladapoolarinoye982
    @oladapoolarinoye982 2 года назад +12

    This actually made me tear up and laugh and the same time. Tobi is such a great guy , after all he has been through he turned out better than his experiences...sending love and light his way.

  • @sinegugungwenya7663
    @sinegugungwenya7663 3 года назад +18

    It’s me binging all of the audio episodes and coming on RUclips to see how the guests look 😂 and FK & Jola’s reactions!

  • @stellagana
    @stellagana 3 года назад +14

    I really really like how FK talks😂😂😩

  • @adeo506
    @adeo506 Год назад +3

    So happy and proud that Tobi could share all he has overcome- seems like such a great guy! BUT no offence it was SOO hard to listen with yall interrupting all the time and editing so harshly! Really wanted to hear the story about Tobis mum beating the Ngozi lady

  • @asalaboluwaduro
    @asalaboluwaduro 3 года назад +24

    I like this longer version.

  • @olummiddey
    @olummiddey 3 года назад +47

    this guy sure has seen a lot and he’s so calm. i really like that he’s not resentful and affected by everything. shows he’s in charge of how he feels and is not easily influenced.
    great episode all together.
    Jollz looks fabulous.

  • @Estherogbole
    @Estherogbole 3 года назад +19

    I just want to give Tobi a big hug.

  • @ItsToyoo
    @ItsToyoo 3 года назад +8

    FK's expressions are too funny!
    By the way, this is a story that is worthy of tears...I don't even know how he's still smiling. I'm sure there must have been a lot of tears in years past.

  • @mkpoikanajacob6508
    @mkpoikanajacob6508 3 года назад +8

    When he said “I detest talking stage” 😂

  • @niolasanni5539
    @niolasanni5539 3 года назад +14

    Naaaaah I am screaming😂😂😂😂! I love Jola’s dress

  • @bumzoflife1644
    @bumzoflife1644 3 года назад +14

    What!!!!
    Tobi is naturally hilarious.
    Thanks for this.
    We all deserve peace ✌, this one is beyond me.

  • @Fabztolly
    @Fabztolly 3 года назад +13

    I had to come back and say that this episode over-delivered. Even the hosts were shook. Loved it!

  • @ifeoluwapoadebayo5640
    @ifeoluwapoadebayo5640 3 года назад +10

    I can relate all of Tobi’s story. Trust me if you dint grow up in a polygamous home you won’t understand this. I look forward to telling my story one day.

  • @ijeoj
    @ijeoj 3 года назад +38

    Men honestly ONLY think about themselves. And do what is best for them. Smh.

  • @bama9215
    @bama9215 3 года назад +12

    Jola, is looking extra peng today! 🥰🥰
    Thank you for the longer snippet!

  • @kerenuzo
    @kerenuzo 3 года назад +8

    My best episode so far, thank you for making it longer. This guys story really cracked me up and how he was able to laugh about it is so commendable

  • @ijeomaokebe1456
    @ijeomaokebe1456 3 года назад +3

    I can really feel the pain behind all the laughter. I’m just happy you turned out good in spite of all the drama. I also hope Ngozi is ashamed of her past

  • @adebamboboluwatife2891
    @adebamboboluwatife2891 3 года назад +22

    He didn’t want stress but he created stress

  • @_gbots
    @_gbots 3 года назад +12

    You guys look so good 🥺🥺😍😍
    I love FK's dress !!

  • @demiladeodusola2661
    @demiladeodusola2661 3 года назад +4

    Omoooo😂😂😂, the wife and mother-in-law part killed meeee

  • @JaneHart-gc7ew
    @JaneHart-gc7ew 4 месяца назад

    I'm rewatching this episode and I'm so glad Tobi shared this story and laughed about it ❤

  • @pharleelat
    @pharleelat 3 года назад +3

    OMG!!!! I didn't want this to end. I also saw tears from the deep laughter in FK's eyes. Omo, his story is too funny than sad tbvh, can't even begin to imagine what he and his mum must have gone through.

  • @victoriaezetv6736
    @victoriaezetv6736 3 года назад +137

    This sounds like the secret lives of baba segi’s wives

  • @E_Angel03
    @E_Angel03 3 года назад +11

    I enjoyed watching this!! When i wasnt laughing my Jaws were dropped from what i was hearing. At some point i became a bit sad. He narrates this story with a lot of comic which says a lot, but i cant imagine how living in a home like that was for his mum and sibling (the anxiety from having to walk on egg shells).
    Though My father had just one wife (my mum), my mum, sibling and I still had to walk on egg shells cos we werent sure when World war III would break out! Unfortunately this kind of messed up upbringing follows you to your adulthood

  • @ronkegiwa1
    @ronkegiwa1 3 года назад +3

    This was super hilarious to watch! Oro buruku with laughter. The wall gecko part!!!!!!!

  • @ibukunodujoko5245
    @ibukunodujoko5245 Год назад

    I paused the new episode to catch up .. Guys I'm crying this is so hilarious

  • @oyinadebayo
    @oyinadebayo 3 года назад +8

    If I were in his shoes, I’d probably be in tears. But I hope that someday, I get to tell my story w my face lit up like his 🤍

  • @badrahlawal5031
    @badrahlawal5031 3 года назад +5

    Jola’s laughter really had me screaming 😂😭

  • @kangwa_mushili
    @kangwa_mushili 2 года назад +2

    Am just out of words ...but listening to this is a whole therapy session

  • @seyinaike
    @seyinaike 3 года назад +3

    Watching this after listening 🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @teemah_b5220
    @teemah_b5220 3 года назад +7

    I can’t imagine what this guy and his family would be going through at the time😭 narrating it like this make it sound so funny 😂 i am laughing my ass out here🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @LAFONESS
    @LAFONESS 3 года назад +2

    My soul was in tears listening to this story 🥺

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 3 года назад +5

    This episode is still crazy to me, because my guy is living in a whole Wale Adenuga production 😭

  • @BokuaAdwoa
    @BokuaAdwoa 3 года назад +1

    just when i thought of subscribing, the intro just hit me! this is my 4th video watching from ISWS today

  • @chopcaringche8080
    @chopcaringche8080 3 года назад +5

    Finished listening to the podcast and I said I must see your face 😂 . You, your mom and siblings went through very dark times .

  • @zeea6507
    @zeea6507 3 года назад +6

    This is juicy o. Polygamous family seems toxic, chatoic and stressful. Throughly enjoyed this episode.

    • @jlewis122
      @jlewis122 3 года назад

      They definitely are. Why would anyone chose that lifestyle?

  • @IamTemiGold
    @IamTemiGold 3 года назад +3

    One thing about problems is that it's not usually funny during that time but after it has passed you laugh about it.

  • @JennyOyubu
    @JennyOyubu 3 года назад +2

    This was so fun to watch like i was laughing from beginning to end. What a light weight way to discuss such a topic

  • @treycybanana
    @treycybanana 3 года назад +2

    came here after listening to the podcast because i needed to see the reactions for myself.

  • @MichaelRhodesno1
    @MichaelRhodesno1 3 года назад +1

    This episode was a jaw dropper ALL through! Just....WHATTT???? Tobi, I hope you're well & keeping safe!

  • @lornamaria
    @lornamaria 3 года назад +13

    I was laughing and sad because this was chaotic, traumatic and dramatic all at once 😂😭

  • @tagbochioma5730
    @tagbochioma5730 Год назад

    If you can tell your story and laugh about it...That's the one step to healing. Thank you for sharing Tobi!

  • @stephhadassah6144
    @stephhadassah6144 3 года назад +2

    I like the way tobi choose to do better regardless of how he grew up..... beautiful show

  • @Iwasimidele
    @Iwasimidele 3 года назад +1

    Lmbo ta len bere 🤣😂🤣🤣. That took me out!!

    • @Iwasimidele
      @Iwasimidele 3 года назад

      Lmbo this guy deserves a radio show! He and his mom

  • @adesubomiadegbite
    @adesubomiadegbite 3 года назад +2

    Absolutely loved this episode, so chaotic 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sinegugungwenya7663
    @sinegugungwenya7663 3 года назад +1

    One thing about Ngozi 🤣 she constantly chose violence!
    It’s the attacking the granny for me 😭

  • @ameenahalabi
    @ameenahalabi 3 года назад +6

    This is the real fuji house of commotion.....No one can sell polygamy to me and it will be palatable. Imagine going through this at a young age.

  • @TheMillennialCEOKE
    @TheMillennialCEOKE 3 года назад +2

    Best episode ever! He's such a great storyteller 😅

  • @ngoziokwuegbuna3387
    @ngoziokwuegbuna3387 3 года назад

    Listened to the podcast a while ago, but coming here to see the facial expressions and I’m just wowed all over 😭

  • @christabellanaku
    @christabellanaku 3 года назад +3

    Aaahhhh.....yeeeehh!!! There is resilience in the land..And Tobi you are resilient and strong because....i dont understand how you do not have personality dissociative disorder, schizophrenia??, Borderline personality disorder?, or any kind of trauma related personality disorders...Coz Jesu....this is above nollywood and bollywood production budget🙆🏾‍♀️ God bless you and thank you for sharing!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Ninuolaa
    @Ninuolaa 3 года назад +3

    Aunty jola thank you for a long video o, we appreciate because i know its you, its you lol. Thank you guys for this episode i genuinely enjoyed the chaos..... As usual the bounce is back.

  • @AestheticallyCookie
    @AestheticallyCookie 3 года назад +4

    I listened to it on apple podcast but I had to see Tobi 😂 he’s a good gist giver 🤗

    • @olingonberry134
      @olingonberry134 3 года назад +1

      Exactly; had to see the face of the gist. Because wow

  • @Stylebyshima
    @Stylebyshima 3 года назад +2

    This made me laugh so much, like ya'all laughter is soo contagious.🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @simdadedam2688
    @simdadedam2688 3 года назад

    I just listened to this episode and at different points in the story, my mouth and eyes just kept getting wider. This episode was chaotic

  • @enehuwazakariyya2098
    @enehuwazakariyya2098 3 года назад +1

    This episode is so SHOCKING and CHAOTIC! The story that makes me sadder is Shola’s. I still can’t wrap my head around it. “Seeing the foetus?” Wtfffffffff

  • @georginagory5968
    @georginagory5968 2 года назад +1

    This was fun to watch...
    Love love love you guys.

  • @mobolajiadebayo9326
    @mobolajiadebayo9326 3 года назад +1

    I enjoyed every bit of this. I laughed all through.

  • @ifeodugbesan9062
    @ifeodugbesan9062 3 года назад +4

    Why is this funny and sad at the same time?😭

  • @adebayoadeniran6675
    @adebayoadeniran6675 Год назад

    this episode needs a part 2 please. 🙏🏽

  • @nextgistchannel6964
    @nextgistchannel6964 3 года назад +2

    Why am I just discovering this channel 🤩I love love your ladies 😘 new sub here....so glad am here I enjoyed every bit 😁

  • @akporiayej
    @akporiayej 3 года назад +8

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tobi sounds soooo shy. But he have seen something in this life 😂😂😂

  • @damilolafamakinwa8057
    @damilolafamakinwa8057 3 года назад +1

    Awesome piece! Welldone....Tobi is the real deal!

  • @eyeSinreverse
    @eyeSinreverse Год назад +1

    This guy is dealing with his trauma in the best way possible. With frank humour.

  • @sadeo3279
    @sadeo3279 3 года назад +1

    Really enjoyed this! Please keep the longer videos coming

  • @ednaathunge6956
    @ednaathunge6956 3 года назад +6

    I love this episode, it sounds like a movie.
    Jola is so beautiful. Love you girls 😍
    Please let's keep this 30min and maybe upwards now.

  • @lifeofabisola5142
    @lifeofabisola5142 3 года назад +3

    Screaming...this episode is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

  • @iam_tessyb
    @iam_tessyb 10 месяцев назад +1

    I feel Ngozi used jazz on the father sha.

    • @iheukumerechimsom85
      @iheukumerechimsom85 6 месяцев назад

      Of course she was a very diabolical woman. That was what was giving the audacity

  • @gabrielleegwu
    @gabrielleegwu 2 года назад +1

    Omg!! I love him!! I absolutely loved this episode. I laughed all through! 😂😂😊

  • @damisho
    @damisho 3 года назад +9

    Tobi can not. Will never. Won’t ever do polygamy

  • @amakatee3186
    @amakatee3186 3 года назад +2

    Gush!! this episode is crazy I hope Tobi is okay, we need season 2 abeg😃

  • @The_Cruise_Fam
    @The_Cruise_Fam 3 года назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 OMG! I laughed so hard… story stared kinda sad, but Tobi made it fun at the end. He’s the kind of friend I need in my life to lol all day everyday.

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 3 года назад +1

    The mention of the blood convenant kills me every time 😭

  • @springchigbu1058
    @springchigbu1058 3 года назад +1

    I can truly relate. And I like all the points he made👏

  • @ifeodugbesan9062
    @ifeodugbesan9062 3 года назад +4

    Baba say I detest talking stage😂😂😂

  • @seyifunmioye
    @seyifunmioye 3 года назад

    I listened to the podcast and knew I just had to watch the video. This was so fun

  • @ladunfoods3205
    @ladunfoods3205 2 года назад +1

    Lmaooo I'm not from a polygamous but I lived with one. It was just always crazy. I can relate to the Ngozi stories😂😂😂

  • @lightandspace7938
    @lightandspace7938 3 года назад +1

    This boy needs to write a book, biko.

  • @blessingokorafor939
    @blessingokorafor939 Год назад

    This episode made me laugh hard!! Prolly my funniest...Tobi is really strong tbh...sending u love Tobs

  • @omotoyosi5036
    @omotoyosi5036 3 года назад +2

    😂😂😂 I literally laughed from beginning to end

  • @praisevandeh52
    @praisevandeh52 2 года назад

    It gets chaotic with every minute 😂😂

  • @georgeoshoms3120
    @georgeoshoms3120 3 года назад +4

    Polygamous homes are so traumatic.my gosh,such drama 🤦

  • @rebekahopara4179
    @rebekahopara4179 9 месяцев назад

    'This one even bleached my mum didn't bleach' 😂😂😂😂

  • @Lovehillary
    @Lovehillary 3 года назад +1

    I ran back here just so comment!!!
    this episode was too crazy ??😂😂😂😂
    what😂😂😂

  • @dadatomiwa8040
    @dadatomiwa8040 3 года назад +3

    Tobi is dramatic himself. Great interactive session 👌