I'M A FAILURE.
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- Опубликовано: 17 дек 2021
- my instagram: napiorkowska
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Impostor syndrome, Imposter syndrome, low self esteem, sometimes a part of major depression.
Just a little sound/video experience portraying what it's like to suffer from IMPOSTER SYNDROME / LOW SELF ESTEEM.
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Keep going, you CAN do it!!! Youve gone to hell and back. Its okay to feel like shit. Its good too. For me it clears my head💜
Kat could you do a video on agoraphobia? I’m about to become an empty nester and I feel myself to compound this issue even further. 🥺😞
I have one.
@@KatAmarie title please♥️
@Kat, I sent you an email, appreciate your reply, please.
being honest these voices are in my head 24/7 lmao
What are you suffering from , anxiety ?!
@@finallyinnerpeace8043 umm tbh many things.... don't really know how to explain it but yea
Relatable
@@samyakjain9823 I hope you get through this , and I also wish you all the happiness and health in your life.
This is so relatable. Hope there is a switch to turn off this constant feeling
I feel like this sometimes.. hope everyone IS doing well
Problem is when all of it is true, and what ever you do, you cant be better.
@@tomaslacus8086 so true...
This is very accurate to how alot of people feel. Everytime something good happends to you your brain makes you believe its a mistake and it is not you putting in the work🤔😐😫
this just sent the biggest shiver down my spine. It's what goes through my head everyday i've never seen it externalised so well
Wow this is literally my mind...
I suffer impostor syndrome and is really difficult to deal with 🥺💕 but every day we should try anyway to believe in our inner power and be confident ❤️
This was really relatable, thank you for making this.
i found out about imposter syndrome last year. i never knew there was a term that defined what i was going through or how i was feeling.
I really hope I could support your work. Everything you do is simple yet so expressive and rich.
If you mean financially, her pinned comment has a link to where you can donate ~
crazy how i think this all the time, and even when i’m aware of it, it doesn’t stop me from thinking i’m not worth it
Man. I hope for this content to never end.
Imposter syndrome sucks because it's nearly impossible to remember everyone is also an imposter. Literally every single person on the face of the earth also thinks they're a failure who doesn't deserve whatever they have. Literally every person feels like they don't know anything!!!! Some people just fake it better than others. But it's super easy to forget
This is so accurate to me. It's just sad
oh no, the "just give up" hit me so hard..
I loved it...i feel so related to this ✨💔❤
No one even understands me than this channel! I wish one day I could donate some!!!💞
this is how i feel all the time
These thoughts made me panic attacks and now my skin and nerves pierce me
I love your videos too much
Thank you Kat xoxo.
Hit me like a brick wall. So True ;(
What’s more relatable than this 💔
I can't relate to all of this but this is a good video.
When i get success i will check if i have this syndrome cuz now i'm a genuine failure
These are exactly my thoughts on "the worse days."
I really like this part listen to this song
I'm very good with my mental health now and have been for over a year for the most part.
As someone who has struggled heavily with poor mental health for many years, there's something fascinating I've learned about many of us.
It's our fault. So much of what's wrong with us is OUR fault. We need to stop pretending that we have no responsibility for ourselves.
We CHOOSE what we think.
We FOCUS on what we choose.
We DWELL on things deliberately
We THINK what we choose.
We ALLOW what others say to us to affect us.
We CHOOSE to overvalue someone's negative opinion about us.
Then eventually we start thinking bad about ourselves and take our opinions of ourselves as factual.
We get to a point where we CHOOSE to believe ourselves as less.
Everything is a choice.
Once I found this out, I used this knowledge to my advantage.
Studied habits and how to structure my thinking. Learned how to separate my emotions from what's fact.
No more emotionally based decisions.
A decision is choosing to believe you are less.
Just because I felt like less, I knew I wasn't. So I'd shift my focus DELIBERATELY.
If I can deliberately think of myself as " less " then why can't I do the same and think of myself as " good " ?
Feelings. Because feelings.
Undervalue your negative feelings and things start to change. Take charge of yourself. Learn to manage yourself. Develop self awareness.
An example:
If someone talks me down and is being mean to me, I'd CHOOSE to think " What makes this person qualified to say these things? Are they having a bad day? Are they unhappy at home and that's why they are lashing out? I hope they are ok "
So instead of me feeling bad about the mean words they said to me, instead I feel compassion. I wouldn't feel like shit. I would feel compassion. That's a much better outcome than feeling like less.
That's a choice.
I'm glad you're doing well but it's not that simple. It's my situation that is causing it, and I find it impossible to just choose to be content. If it's only a bit of social anxiety, sure I can deal with that. It's the complete isolation that gets to me as we come out of yet another lockdown. Even so I'm surprisingly calm, just not doing great.
My favourite RUclipsr
I wonder what syndrome is belief that your achievements are only thanks to you and your skills.
I gave up .. I don't wanna complete this way 😔
And those would be the falling angels sending those messages they do it to most of us
This is how i feel most of the time
relatable
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I’ve never been so confused
that scene... looks like she's dead.
Wait, I’m not the only one?
Worst failure in this world is to lose a battle against yourself, which is the greatest battle; but still the greatest failure, and I'll never let myself to lose against myself, that keeps me going, if I surrender, I'll surrender with absolute zero chances for any better day to come, and I'm persona of chances, we all have second and third chances, why? Because God gives chance to everyone, it is up to you if you will see if you have chances or not, this is the law of jungle, this world cage, so break free from chains.
I feel the same a lot lately…
Will you ever make a video about perfectionism?
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Whatever position you are in use the resources you may have now, family, physical friends, distant friends, government programs, whatever you need right now to ease some of the stress if you're struggling. Survive until you make it somewhere. Anywhere but more than here.
Is there gonna be a longer video on impostor syndrome?
What lens and camera were used here. So much character
we all are.... till we found the real us
Can you make longer video please, this is too short at least make it 5 min, but anyway i love ur videos❤👌 keep going
I feel like this everyday, but I’m pretty sure I don’t have imposter syndrome, I just have very low self esteem
I don’t know that I am going through that kind of syndrome right now
wé need to reclaim our inner child ( cf John Bradshaw)
How can we fix that situation?
This is what voices in my head really look like.
And no one seems to care about it
No family member or friend will listen to you?
@@jaym.1446 unfortunately all of my friends moved to other cities because of university, so we've gradually lost contact with each other. Now I don't have a friend I feel so close to share what's happening inside my head, I just smile and pretend everything is ok. I don't want to upset my family either, 'cause my parents are always busy with their works... It's not like they don't care, they're actually unaware of how I'm feeling right now
@@nicolettazenobini4632 you think opening up and talking to your own loved ones will upset them? Just cause they work don't mean they don't have time for you or wanna neglect your issues, you need to talk about it cause its a very serious thing and they would want to know trust me
@@jaym.1446 I really hope I'll find the courage to talk to them💪🏻
@@nicolettazenobini4632 Yeah find your balls kid and man up!
"imposter syndrome"
Me: Amogus
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This world is a mistake
Apparently.
Who is the girl lying on the floor?
You can add of Arabic translation
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Przykre, że już nie ma polskich napisów, do tych chociaż krótkich filmików, takich jak ten.
Przykre, ze jak były to mój kanał został zaatakowany przez Polaków przez co straciłam zasięgi i cześć monetyzacji. Napisów więcej nie będzie w związku z tym.
She's pretty. Needs to work on her self-esteem though....lol
Just work out a become a capitalist 😅
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