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Once you're in a relationship, do you continue to lean back? Do you continue to let him lead & you only respond? Is there a different way of "being" once you're in a relationship?
Great question! I would say as a general guideline, the answer is yes (especially if he's a masculine-energy man) - although once his energy is consistently coming towards you and you're confident in his feelings for you, you can really do anything!
Hi I am a 50 years old woman and fall in love with a 70+ years old man and he is married too, but we are meet each other. He use to be very kind and wanted to meet me me or texted me every nights and morning, but recently he ignores me lees talks what should I do Please, do not tell me he is married and you have to leave him I can’t do that I tried many ways but did not work I am an independent woman have three children and I am working.
I get a call every 3 days and a text every 2 days. I see him at weekend but he complaints alot. My towels are not soft enough? Internet too slow and he wants to drink only bottled water. This weekend I'm taking a step back and I told him I need space. In all honesty I have no clue what Im doing. Feel like I'm hurting myself in this time away from him as I feel this will push him away
Just In a- G Towels not soft enough?? Internet too slow, bottled water.... Be honest with yourself. How does this truly make you feel?Please trust your God given intuition. This has an undertone of the beginning of covert narcissistic abuse- I'd be really cautious ❤
Why is it that in person he's very engaging and ask so many questions and want to connect, but he doesn't text much online? For our last meeting in person, it was hard for me to open up bc he didn't respond to my texts much, he was so enthusiastic to see me and was very engaging, but when he saw how distant I was, he grew frustrated. The day didn't end well, and we didn't talk for 4 months. We reconciled a few days ago, I admitted that I was wrong and he admitted he was wrong. Right now we're not talking much through text, yet again. I know you said in a previous video that feminine women lean back and let him initiate the text conversation, so I've been following this advice. But because I was the one that left that day, shouldn't I be the one that mend things?
Feminine energy is more of a state of mind - it’s about not being attached to the outcome of any interaction you have with a man. This episode might be helpful for your situation: ruclips.net/video/HCYYrEXhSHQ/видео.html
Do financial problems affect your relationship with a man? There is this guy who is always nice to me and used to approach me. But lately, I knew through his best friend that he has financial problems and literally said to me that he is in a shit position. This guy always replies back to my messages whenever he can, sometimes it’s immediate other times it’s not but he never ignores. However the thing is that he never initiates the conversation. How do you explain that specially that face to face he is amazing and caring to me?
What if you confessed your feelings and he told you that he doesn't feel the same, and he only sees you as a good friend? I told him that I understood and I'd keep my distance, But shortly after confessing to him msging here n there tured into frequent conversations, random phone calls(rarely happened before), late night conversations(nothing sexual) on the phone, video chatting frequently. He initiates the msgs, phone calls, and video chats. And recently started confiding in me about his stress, or calling me up right away when he has bad news, or just no reason at all. I'm confused as to why his behavior has suddenly changed after I confessed my feelings, only to get rejected, but yet he talks to me way more than he used to. Please help me.🙏
What about if he’s doing theses thing and he has several friends some of them are women some are men and he somehow makes and creates time for them I get a text twice a week and a baby conversation during those text.... is he interested?
For instance he invites me with a group get together we have a good time we have good chemistry I hear about him a day after then the next day then three days off no text then two days in a text message it’s not really deep conversation super casual conversation....
We’ve been dating for 2 yrs and we haven’t talked in a month because he needed space. My sister checked in on him and he told her that he’s kinda waiting on me to make the first move. What exactly do I say if I do make that first move? Or should I not say anything at all?
Fyi My situation is that I was suffocating him and it was a month of no contact. But I think he’s scared that I might blow up on him again if he did contact me. I know better now and your videos have helped me so much with that!
Every situation is different, but these videos might be helpful and give you some ideas: ruclips.net/video/HxhizkrTqbU/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/EFjOGdW_c60/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/VEkz-OSVDbo/видео.html.
I'd like to welcome some insight into my situation. I went on a date with a guy who showed a lot of interest at the beginning and we primarily communicated via Messenger on Facebook. He was quite communicative and was good at responding to me. Lately, his communication pattern changed and his messages became lackluster and he sometimes didn't even reply to me. I kept hoping to hear more from him but after about 8 days of him not contacting me, I got so upset that I unfriended him on Facebook. And instead of deleting our message thread, I just archived it so that it would be out of sight. Did I do the wrong thing by unfriending him? He still hasn't made any effort to contact me. I've been trying to forget about him but I haven't been able to get him totally out of my head and heart. Is there any more that I can do about my situation? Thank you :)
I think I was coming from a place of hurt and I interpreted his lack of response as him no longer being interested in dating me and as a general rejection. Maybe it was too much of a brash move to unfriend him and I'm second-guessing myself if I did the right thing. I was hoping that by unfriending him, I'd be able to forget about him and move on. But truthfully, he's still in my thoughts and I'm dealing with the typical "what-ifs" scenarios that you've mentioned in other videos.
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I delete our text strings already..didnt know it was a strategy! But it helps bc it's like clearing my head.
Yes! I agree.
dang I wish I had this 10 months ago, but I know better now.
Once you're in a relationship, do you continue to lean back? Do you continue to let him lead & you only respond? Is there a different way of "being" once you're in a relationship?
Great question! I would say as a general guideline, the answer is yes (especially if he's a masculine-energy man) - although once his energy is consistently coming towards you and you're confident in his feelings for you, you can really do anything!
People make time for what they want.
Yes, absolutely! My husband and I talked about that in this video: ruclips.net/video/_D37APGOy8Y/видео.html
Hi
I am a 50 years old woman and fall in love with a 70+ years old man and he is married too, but we are meet each other. He use to be very kind and wanted to meet me me or texted me every nights and morning, but recently he ignores me lees talks what should I do
Please, do not tell me he is married and you have to leave him I can’t do that I tried many ways but did not work
I am an independent woman have three children and I am working.
I get a call every 3 days and a text every 2 days. I see him at weekend but he complaints alot. My towels are not soft enough? Internet too slow and he wants to drink only bottled water. This weekend I'm taking a step back and I told him I need space. In all honesty I have no clue what Im doing. Feel like I'm hurting myself in this time away from him as I feel this will push him away
Just In a- G
Towels not soft enough?? Internet too slow, bottled water.... Be honest with yourself. How does this truly make you feel?Please trust your God given intuition.
This has an undertone of the beginning of covert narcissistic abuse- I'd be really cautious
❤
Honey he sounds too feminine 🙄✌🏾
I always am.attracted to older.men like 20 30 yrs older bc they underdtand me better than my aged ones. Crazy huh? 😣
I text him everyday, maybe 3-4 times only but he never texts back. But if i say I miss you he shows up.
Why is it that in person he's very engaging and ask so many questions and want to connect, but he doesn't text much online? For our last meeting in person, it was hard for me to open up bc he didn't respond to my texts much, he was so enthusiastic to see me and was very engaging, but when he saw how distant I was, he grew frustrated. The day didn't end well, and we didn't talk for 4 months. We reconciled a few days ago, I admitted that I was wrong and he admitted he was wrong. Right now we're not talking much through text, yet again. I know you said in a previous video that feminine women lean back and let him initiate the text conversation, so I've been following this advice. But because I was the one that left that day, shouldn't I be the one that mend things?
Feminine energy is more of a state of mind - it’s about not being attached to the outcome of any interaction you have with a man. This episode might be helpful for your situation: ruclips.net/video/HCYYrEXhSHQ/видео.html
@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you, Helena! I'll check out the video. Your videos are very helpful, thank you ❤️
You’re welcome! 💕
I am perplexed because he barely texts me during the week but then will want to spend the whole entire weekend with me. What’s that about?
It really depends on the situation, but he may just not be a “texter” - especially if he’s never been someone who texts a lot.
Thank you that is helpful
You’re welcome! 💕
Do financial problems affect your relationship with a man?
There is this guy who is always nice to me and used to approach me. But lately, I knew through his best friend that he has financial problems and literally said to me that he is in a shit position.
This guy always replies back to my messages whenever he can, sometimes it’s immediate other times it’s not but he never ignores. However the thing is that he never initiates the conversation.
How do you explain that specially that face to face he is amazing and caring to me?
What if you confessed your feelings and he told you that he doesn't feel the same, and he only sees you as a good friend? I told him that I understood and I'd keep my distance, But shortly after confessing to him msging here n there tured into frequent conversations, random phone calls(rarely happened before), late night conversations(nothing sexual) on the phone, video chatting frequently. He initiates the msgs, phone calls, and video chats. And recently started confiding in me about his stress, or calling me up right away when he has bad news, or just no reason at all. I'm confused as to why his behavior has suddenly changed after I confessed my feelings, only to get rejected, but yet he talks to me way more than he used to. Please help me.🙏
What about if he’s doing theses thing and he has several friends some of them are women some are men and he somehow makes and creates time for them I get a text twice a week and a baby conversation during those text.... is he interested?
Why not ask him that question? Just be direct and be open to answer he may give. 😊
This guy is diagnosed with adhd idk if that has a part to play as well?
workalcholics but they also escape into their man cave after work too.. .
chempanda dealing with a workaholic Virgo currently
Cynthia Hunter coincidence?my ex was a cap whose also workaholic.
Thank you so much!
The last day! Talk to him was on the 3of June and after that I haven't heard from him since what should I do
For instance he invites me with a group get together we have a good time we have good chemistry I hear about him a day after then the next day then three days off no text then two days in a text message it’s not really deep conversation super casual conversation....
We’ve been dating for 2 yrs and we haven’t talked in a month because he needed space. My sister checked in on him and he told her that he’s kinda waiting on me to make the first move. What exactly do I say if I do make that first move? Or should I not say anything at all?
Fyi My situation is that I was suffocating him and it was a month of no contact. But I think he’s scared that I might blow up on him again if he did contact me. I know better now and your videos have helped me so much with that!
Every situation is different, but these videos might be helpful and give you some ideas: ruclips.net/video/HxhizkrTqbU/видео.html, ruclips.net/video/EFjOGdW_c60/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/VEkz-OSVDbo/видео.html.
I'd like to welcome some insight into my situation. I went on a date with a guy who showed a lot of interest at the beginning and we primarily communicated via Messenger on Facebook. He was quite communicative and was good at responding to me. Lately, his communication pattern changed and his messages became lackluster and he sometimes didn't even reply to me. I kept hoping to hear more from him but after about 8 days of him not contacting me, I got so upset that I unfriended him on Facebook. And instead of deleting our message thread, I just archived it so that it would be out of sight. Did I do the wrong thing by unfriending him? He still hasn't made any effort to contact me. I've been trying to forget about him but I haven't been able to get him totally out of my head and heart. Is there any more that I can do about my situation? Thank you :)
What was your INTENTION behind unfriending him?
I think I was coming from a place of hurt and I interpreted his lack of response as him no longer being interested in dating me and as a general rejection. Maybe it was too much of a brash move to unfriend him and I'm second-guessing myself if I did the right thing. I was hoping that by unfriending him, I'd be able to forget about him and move on. But truthfully, he's still in my thoughts and I'm dealing with the typical "what-ifs" scenarios that you've mentioned in other videos.