A painful truth about life you don't want to hear.
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The devil we know, is better than the one we don't. Thank you again David, good job
so true
The opening of the video, hit me hard in a good way! As an OCD sufferer, uncertainty is my biggest enemy! So, now that I’m working towards tolerating uncertainty in every aspect of life, I understand how uncertain life really is. We ought to live the best we can, while keeping in mind that …life just happens sometimes!
It is not the uncertainty, it is the unrealistic expectations. Let go of your expectations, and you won't care what the outcome will be. Take your example about the video not being good, that is your expectation, and that is the reason you don't want to make it, not the uncertainty. People build up very high expectations in their lives about everything, from basic things, to friendships, and relationships.
Your video has reminded me of a saying. I’m not sure of the exact wording, but it’s something like this: There are two paths before you, one of them is the pain of discipline (or perseverance), and the other the pain of regret. I’d say the first one is much better than the second, particularly in the last years of life.
Exactly the message I needed today. Thank you!
I've known I _want_ to pursue various stuff for some time... finally taking the plunge and decided to vlog the process... exciting but also terrifying! (Of course, the difference between fear and excitement is remembering to breathe!) Thank you for your video... the magic truly is in the uncertainty... bring it on!
awesome!
I've been told over and over that I overthink. I'm only glad someone anyone noticed because if anyone knows this about me, more is myself. I smile😊 thank you, David.
thank you :)
Holy CRAP is the timing of this synchronistic (for me)! The details of it in my life don't matter (except to me) but thank you, I am very glad you posted this video.
thank you! :)
Hey! Just wanted to reach out and say I really appreciate you, your unique experiences, and your videos sharing them with us
If you were lucky enough to find this video, like it and share it with a coworker/friend.
Life is for the living.
This was absolutely brilliant! It made me think about the need to get comfortable with uncertainty in all areas of life in a time where I’ve been really scared of the thought of not being in control of everything. I needed this so much. Thank you, David! ❤
thank you for watching!
Thank you for this message.
thank you for watching:)
This is good advice, but I guarantee you that business owners are experiencing far LESS uncertainty than the employee. Investors less than those who actually do the work. Bankers less than those who take the loans. Regular citizens less than political leaders. Those on the bottom serve as shock absorbers for those at the top, who are able to increasingly protect themselves against uncertainty. That's really the whole point of wealth and power. That's the point of control.
So while I completely agree with your points about uncertainty, I think you've inverted the whole system of dominance and hierarchy that our society is built on.
uncertainty is just another form fear takes
I have a difference of opinion on this matter, but it holds gently what you posit here as a belief. If we ever have a chance to discuss it I feel it would be a beautiful conversation. Thank you for your offering
Love ur channel. Thank you ♥
Glad you enjoy it!
Amazing video, David! I feel like choosing path where you feel that life is uncertain allows to live life more fully. One can be honest about it much easily in such case.
thanks Sam! hope you're doing well :)
Very inspiring video, the harder part is to put in into practice but I'll do my best. David you should write a book there are so many things I learned from your vidoes. Thanks.
cheers Adam
Thanks!
Thank YOU! such an honour to have you here, thank you for your kindness.
As a former brick and mortar owner, this is so true. I experienced so much envy and targeting from jealous staff members who didn't understand the risk and sacrifice I took to be the leader. Also dealing with their constant entitlement and whining. Employees are so ungrateful lol now I work completely alone and it's so much better.
Could it be that you were too selfish and paranoid about your staff and your evaluation of them might not be accurate
@@clementokoro5563 no. I was over giving and got taken advantage of
@@clementokoro5563 I was only 25 when I opened it and extremely naive and a people pleaser. I learned a lot of hard lessons about humanity. Anyone who owns a business with staff needs to read 48 laws of power to protect themselves from predatory people. Unless they themselves are the predator lol that is the key to quick success in business unfortunately
It doesn't suck. Pretty good video ! I wish I had your skills. keep it up man ! You learn from failure
haha, cheers Lawrence!
great video. I would phrase the comparison slightly differently - I think the 9-5 job gives you the illusion of certainty but that illusion is believed fully by the employee, so there is a tangible psychological relief in that (regardless of the actual certainty or uncertainty involved - e.g. the CEO might be about to fold the company but ignorance is bliss on the part of the employee) .
The other benefit of a job is it gives you the ability to take your foot off the gas, you don't have to constantly stay proactive and aggressive and action-biased. Basically it allows you to be a fair bit lazier and feel a lot safer, at an ENORMOUS opportunity cost and time cost when we are talking about a full-time position
totally, the psychological relief is what we're after and if you can convince yourself that you are safe then you will feel safe, whether you are actually safe or not. Cheers for the input!
agreed....
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Hey dude your awesome, I have the urge too and I want to ask if I ever make a movie can I put this in it !!❤❤
sure, why not!
I woult say life is pintless/senseless but not in a sucide way. I mean we hold in to Hope (the "universe" or Gott or whatever) that everything make Sense one day but what is there is nothing and life Just sucks Sometimes? That thought ist Kind of calming to me. There is No Hope. It Just is what it is. Pointless.
no one knows.
it really doesnt matter, we are food for the earth but nice try
Very unnecessarily conplex food lol
haha, love it. :)
delicious nihilism