Another toxic trait yung iinvalidate ni friend 1 yung experience or struggle ni friend 2, like friend 2 would say "hindi ako makakapasok kasi hanggang tuhod ang baha" then friend 1 would go on saying "samin nga lagpas tao baha pero nakapasok pa din ako" criiiiiinge!
Inka is incredible, as long as she's in the podcast she makes it really interesting and broad. when u get to listen to her, you become more and more fond of her.
I love when Inka said "that's why you don't have time to hate people" on Aryn's talking about her keeping busy❤ Bullseye! na you have to keep yourself busy and focus to your own thing that minding someone's else business is way out your system.
Okay, hear me out. I found this video while looking for something to play in the background while taking a shower. And now I watched all those episodes featuring you guys. Amazing people and amazing thoughts! Can't wait for more.
I learned in social psychology class is that people has the urge to do bad things in social media or even in face to face interaction is because of anonymity.
Guys please continue to create a video like this I really want this kind of topic well lahat naman ng topic nyo ay gusto ko stay strong guys wag mag sasawa sa pag create ng vid labyo🫶🏻
I wish I was around this type of energy and conversations growing up and studying in the Phils ❤ looks like there is so much growth in how young people speak and think now ❤ love to see it!!!
I'm so shocked because we used this topic for our panel discussion in school and it was like the same everything 😂 it's happy to see topics like this are now openly talked about
I feel like the bahala ni Batman trait is more like a type of mentality-- like it means you are flexible (?) mentally. It might also stem from faith that someone higher than us is preparing something bigger than we can ever imagine. Love this ep!
toxic culture , im on my 50's now, i hated our toxic culture, what i do to fix it i never contintued all these with my family, if we stop bad the culture and ignore comments "parang kano ka" "wala kang pakisama" "kalakaran yan" "bastos walang respeto" hopefully this culture will be over in 20 years! love your podcast! it all works!
Grabe, I love this podcast. Walang patay na moment, ganda ng banter puro malaman! Thank you so much for making these kind of podcasts, I love listening to this as background while working. More power!
Hii!! Thank you!! That’s actually what I was telling Aryn before we signed up for the show-that a podcast gives us the opportunity to show a more realistic version of ourselves because it’s in conversation with others, instead of what we can do with short form videos which can be very limiting!
youtube algo has graced me this amazing channel today. im learning so much, not because i dont know what the subject is but how people perceive and opinions to these topics. tysm
Oh wow nabanggit 'yung "marites" culture in the Philippines is one of the reasons why we don't have serial killers. Because I think I read that study/article as well and it's true!
Good job guys, you guys are really entertaining, besides there is a lot to learn. I hope many people will watch it, especially young people. I always look forward to your POV especially Atty's short.
New fan hereeeeee! I cant stop myself watching your videos while I am working. Very healthy ng conversation in all general topics that covers about family, relationships, friends! Etc.. thank u so much❤
You got a sub from me. This podcast is amazing, I'm listening to this masterpiece while folding my clothes in my room. Very insightful, educational and the consolidate ideas makes this podcast a 10/10. Social media made our span time less but then again guess what? I was hooked until this episode ended.
There are so much topic in their plate. I wish there are chosen contents only. However, most part of the podcast shows how intelligent the three hosts. I love all of them❣️🧡
The dynamics of your team is great! Aryn gives the practical/structure side of the conversation, Inka is more in the emotional side and Atty is on the legal/men pov side of the convo. It also helps that you let each other talk even if you don't agree with each other it lets people hear different povs/angle to look at the topic. Hopefully soon you'll be inviting more guests who are advocates in the topic who are also open into the way of conversations you are doing here.
I will make my new years resolution revolve here, andaming kong natutunan sa show na ito. dami kong na rerealize as a college student and be aware sa mga nagagawa ko. Best of luck sainyo and hope for more videos to come
Pwede bang 2-3 times a week ung podcast nyo? I really love it! As a WFH gal, ang hirap mag focus tlaga kapag may maingay sa background pero your podcast doesn't have that effect on me. Relatable, agreeable, so much to learn from diff perspective of people, entertaining and hindi boring. I feel like each time mag sasalita si Atty, Inka and Aryn, lahat may sense kahit joke lang naman minsan un hahaha
I grew up in the Philippines, haved lived and worked in America with Americans almost all my life. All these toxic traits are not exclusive.. everyone has them. What separated me to becoming successful are two things: commitment and discretion. Highly Successful individuals value people who commit and are discrete. These two things alone will overwrite our Maritess and Island time syndrome. Good discussion and thank you for sharing.
i hope SB19 would have the opportunity to be in this podcast. people just don't know yet how deep these guys are. also, they are unfiltered. they talk their minds. walang ka showbiz showbiz. they're real.
I'm a crammer/procrastinator too. I code in the states for a large company and I've been very successful. Although I hate being late, my work gets done at the end of the due date. I think people who do that are comfortable in stressful situations which make sense. Production fires or when crap hits the fan are when I shine the most.
Super love all of your topics. Watched all of it and can't wait for the next upload. Big thanks to you three Aryn, Inka and Atty for making me hooked on your videos!!!
6:21 May tawag dun. Ningas-kugon. Yung sa umpisa lang magaling tapos hindi na tatapusin kung ano man yung sinimulan. Ganun ako HAHA sana mabago ko na rin yun.
i just watch your podcast today and i've been hook to every topic u had.thank you for educating, sharing your knowledges and experiences to us .. kudoss❤❤
I absolutely love this podcast! I binge-listened to all the episodes yesterday, and I can't get enough of the topics they cover. It’s so engaging that I honestly feel like I’d love to join them in person! Hahaha 😅 More soon plssss 🎉
You can be grateful if your parents did their part as responsible parents. That always results to kids helping their parents financially without asking. On the other side, kids won't be thankful if they experience hardship with fear towards their parents. We can always learn from other people's mistakes, we have a bunch of examples around us. We don't have to always learn by experiencing them. Build a sense of foresight.
In just a few minutes, just by looking at the thumbnail, I was like oh, this trio would be my therapy this coming year 2025. Especially Ms. Aryn of Spit Manila.
"LOUDER!" That's the only thing that I want to say about the topic and subtopics all throughout the whole video especially the part where the "Utang na loob" toxic trait has been discussed. Hands down once again to you guys👏🙌
I found my people 😭, I love listening / watching this healthy, open, aware, emotional intelligence I could go on forever most importantly safe space they provide the communication skills. New subscriber here DESERVE!!! 😭🫶🏻✨
the edi ikaw na matalino...I have that experience where my friend got so mad regarding one of my suggestion. I thought I'm just being mayabang on how I deliver may idea but I'm not that kind of person. then I realized, baka mas expose lang me sa specific scenario that I know it gave me edge to give idea about certain topic.
This is my first time watching your content, and I'm thoroughly impressed and inspired. Thank you for the refreshing perspective. Although familiar with the topic, I gained valuable insights from your presentation. God bless y'all!
I totally agree with Atty. Anselmo. Walang inggitan sa mga Chinoy. My mom had a Chinoy best friend and whenever may kapatid sila na naluluginang negosyo, to take rescue agad ang mga kapatid kaya walang naiiwan sa ilalim.
The chemistry of these people is unimaginable. Listening to them is really therapeutic.
I root for this kind of friendship. Hoping to come across people like this. Walang inggitan, this is such a breath of fresh air.
I could listen to them for hours.......pleasssse mag podcast marathon na kayo😂😂😂😂
true
yes pls🥹
Yessss!!! Me too. I could listen to them all day while working.
ayoko nga
Yes! yes please!
Another toxic trait yung iinvalidate ni friend 1 yung experience or struggle ni friend 2, like friend 2 would say "hindi ako makakapasok kasi hanggang tuhod ang baha" then friend 1 would go on saying "samin nga lagpas tao baha pero nakapasok pa din ako" criiiiiinge!
Reeaaallll nakakairita yang mga one-upper na yan, siguro kakakwento satin ng mga matatanda tungkol dun sa palakasan joke, ginawang personality ng iba
another toxic trait din ng Filipino yan EXCUSES!
kung biruan ok lang pero kung IRL or THAT IT IS HAPPENING THAT TIME.. agree
Then I think you have the wrong friends!
Inka is incredible, as long as she's in the podcast she makes it really interesting and broad. when u get to listen to her, you become more and more fond of her.
You frikkin made my day 😤❤️ thank youuu🤗
agree❤
This is by far one of the best conversations i've heard recently. nakakaumay na talaga ang social media recently. hayyssss i need this so much.
Natapos ko yung mga dapat kong gawin by just listening to this podcast. Who needs calming music to be productive? All i need is this trio!
I love how passionate they are about this topic. Listening to how self-aware they are allows me to reflect and become more aware myself.
Been watching these 3 people since day one. Lahat ng topic solid.❤
Agree, me too since Ep 1.
Wow! Adorable.
I like how miss Inka's eyes light up when she explains her thoughts. Napaka childlike 😁
Aaaaa 🙈
I hope for a 2-hr episode! HAAHA love POV since day 1!
I love when Inka said "that's why you don't have time to hate people" on Aryn's talking about her keeping busy❤
Bullseye! na you have to keep yourself busy and focus to your own thing that minding someone's else business is way out your system.
Okay, hear me out. I found this video while looking for something to play in the background while taking a shower. And now I watched all those episodes featuring you guys. Amazing people and amazing thoughts! Can't wait for more.
I learned in social psychology class is that people has the urge to do bad things in social media or even in face to face interaction is because of anonymity.
Wow, three people I admire in one podcast??? So so happy!
ANG GANDA NI ARYN 😭😭😭😭 CAN'T STOP STARING AT HER 😍
Mas Maganda ako. Charot hahaha
Guys please continue to create a video like this I really want this kind of topic well lahat naman ng topic nyo ay gusto ko stay strong guys wag mag sasawa sa pag create ng vid labyo🫶🏻
I wish I was around this type of energy and conversations growing up and studying in the Phils ❤ looks like there is so much growth in how young people speak and think now ❤ love to see it!!!
Been watching three POVs so far...and I love that I get different perspectives on 1 topic. Watching this is a learning experience.
I'm so shocked because we used this topic for our panel discussion in school and it was like the same everything 😂 it's happy to see topics like this are now openly talked about
this is the kind of conversation i love to listen to, specially in the morning. I want to start my morning with smart thinking.
Couldn't agree more!
I love this trio! Thank you youtube i fofollow ko na sila sa podcast app!!
I feel like the bahala ni Batman trait is more like a type of mentality-- like it means you are flexible (?) mentally. It might also stem from faith that someone higher than us is preparing something bigger than we can ever imagine. Love this ep!
Agree! "Bahala na!" actually came from "Bathala na!"
Yung last 2 minutes ng vid, naging 1 hour 😂. This episode is my fave so far. Sana may part 2.
Di KO napanood lahat Ng vid, pero this I can say is one of my fave
Ive been binge watching this pod series. Grabe..you can really see Aryn's improv side in all videos. she's so expressive hahaha super cute ni Ms. Aryn
toxic culture , im on my 50's now, i hated our toxic culture, what i do to fix it i never contintued all these with my family, if we stop bad the culture and ignore comments "parang kano ka" "wala kang pakisama" "kalakaran yan" "bastos walang respeto" hopefully this culture will be over in 20 years! love your podcast! it all works!
Grabe, I love this podcast. Walang patay na moment, ganda ng banter puro malaman! Thank you so much for making these kind of podcasts, I love listening to this as background while working. More power!
Grabe. It's like all in one. Daming "oo nga noh" and 😂. Nag enjoy ako pakinggan ♥️♥️♥️
Am so thankful ur show landed on my feed. Very on point and entertaining!
Its crazy to me that I am not your fan in other platforms of these host pero I am a fan here sa youtube acnt na to. I like these contents.
Hii!! Thank you!! That’s actually what I was telling Aryn before we signed up for the show-that a podcast gives us the opportunity to show a more realistic version of ourselves because it’s in conversation with others, instead of what we can do with short form videos which can be very limiting!
Stumbled on this when I opened my YT. The dynamic of you three are great & topics hit close to home. Thank you & I look forward to more of these!
youtube algo has graced me this amazing channel today. im learning so much, not because i dont know what the subject is but how people perceive and opinions to these topics. tysm
tinitingala ko talaga tong sina Inka and Attorney Anselmo! I love you Ms Inka!! ❤💯
I love you too🥹
ngaun ko lang na discover to through Spotify podcast... I like how good of a conversationalist si Inka
aw thank you!! appreciate that
Oh wow nabanggit 'yung "marites" culture in the Philippines is one of the reasons why we don't have serial killers. Because I think I read that study/article as well and it's true!
Napasubscribe na agad ako sa channel nato especially andito si Ms. Inka. 🥰 So relevant topics these days...
Good job guys... Y'all deserve a million subs!!! 👍
I am Ofw here in HK. While working , listening mode. Since ist episode, I'm in. Never missed an episode. More power and more informative episodes 😊.
Good job guys, you guys are really entertaining, besides there is a lot to learn. I hope many people will watch it, especially young people. I always look forward to your POV especially Atty's short.
New fan hereeeeee! I cant stop myself watching your videos while I am working. Very healthy ng conversation in all general topics that covers about family, relationships, friends! Etc.. thank u so much❤
You got a sub from me. This podcast is amazing, I'm listening to this masterpiece while folding my clothes in my room. Very insightful, educational and the consolidate ideas makes this podcast a 10/10. Social media made our span time less but then again guess what? I was hooked until this episode ended.
Yayy ah we’re so glad!! Please let us know if you want us to tackle anything, guest anyone, etc❤
Instead of watching TV while doing my business I'm listening to your podcast. I'm learning also. Thank you
I love the balance of you three ❤ Keep up the good work. This is so fun and I learn some stuff from u
3am is never boring hearing you guys😊 hoping for more to come
I know that I am late but as always, I am indeed grateful na na-create itong podcast na ito. AND ALSO, ATTY MUKHA KANG HIRONO. U SO POGI. HAHAHAAH.
There are so much topic in their plate. I wish there are chosen contents only. However, most part of the podcast shows how intelligent the three hosts. I love all of them❣️🧡
The dynamics of your team is great! Aryn gives the practical/structure side of the conversation, Inka is more in the emotional side and Atty is on the legal/men pov side of the convo. It also helps that you let each other talk even if you don't agree with each other it lets people hear different povs/angle to look at the topic. Hopefully soon you'll be inviting more guests who are advocates in the topic who are also open into the way of conversations you are doing here.
wew.. first time ko ata tumapos ng ganitong video... 1 hour ☺.. thanks for this kind of videos.. i realize a lot of things...
I will make my new years resolution revolve here, andaming kong natutunan sa show na ito. dami kong na rerealize as a college student and be aware sa mga nagagawa ko. Best of luck sainyo and hope for more videos to come
Nice hearing intellectual people talk about this kind of topic. Healthy discussion, and I love it!
Nakaka-fall yung honesty ni Atty
Totoo toh and this is timely! Great job sobrang love them 3.
This is my second video. Finally nahanap ko rin! Sana next ep with Wil Dasovich please. ❤
Pwede bang 2-3 times a week ung podcast nyo? I really love it! As a WFH gal, ang hirap mag focus tlaga kapag may maingay sa background pero your podcast doesn't have that effect on me. Relatable, agreeable, so much to learn from diff perspective of people, entertaining and hindi boring. I feel like each time mag sasalita si Atty, Inka and Aryn, lahat may sense kahit joke lang naman minsan un hahaha
🤍🤍🤍 28:01 Thank you sa Part na to kase relate ako dito lalo na sa Toxic Family din ako eh. 🙃🙃
Grabe yung sarap sa feeling that were finally being validated
Buti na lang nakita ko to sa YT. nagkaron ng silbe oras ko. thank you. ❤
You gain a fan here! I should have discovered this channel long long ago.
I grew up in the Philippines, haved lived and worked in America with Americans almost all my life. All these toxic traits are not exclusive.. everyone has them. What separated me to becoming successful are two things: commitment and discretion. Highly Successful individuals value people who commit and are discrete. These two things alone will overwrite our Maritess and Island time syndrome. Good discussion and thank you for sharing.
i hope SB19 would have the opportunity to be in this podcast. people just don't know yet how deep these guys are. also, they are unfiltered. they talk their minds. walang ka showbiz showbiz. they're real.
Can I just say they are so healthy in all aspects!!! Sana lahat ganyan mag isip
I'm a crammer/procrastinator too. I code in the states for a large company and I've been very successful. Although I hate being late, my work gets done at the end of the due date. I think people who do that are comfortable in stressful situations which make sense. Production fires or when crap hits the fan are when I shine the most.
Super love all of your topics. Watched all of it and can't wait for the next upload. Big thanks to you three Aryn, Inka and Atty for making me hooked on your videos!!!
Part 2 of this topic please! We need to talk more about gaslighting!!
I just love POV! Inka and Aryn, you are both so pretty! Next topic-Narcissists please?!
miss inka is a wide reader for me. 😊 She has lots of 💡.
i could listen to you guys for hours and hours. Thank you! ❤
6:21 May tawag dun. Ningas-kugon. Yung sa umpisa lang magaling tapos hindi na tatapusin kung ano man yung sinimulan. Ganun ako HAHA sana mabago ko na rin yun.
same
Found another gem podcast.. Love the vibes and everything! ❤❤❤
I like how Inka explained gaslighting. She gave perfect example and even cited the origin of it.
Thank you for this topic. Madami akong natutunan sa episode na to
This is my 3rd episode from this morning,and im listening while working🙂
i just watch your podcast today
and i've been hook to every topic u had.thank you for educating, sharing your knowledges and experiences to us ..
kudoss❤❤
I love you 3!!! Watching from Davao.🩵
I absolutely love this podcast! I binge-listened to all the episodes yesterday, and I can't get enough of the topics they cover. It’s so engaging that I honestly feel like I’d love to join them in person! Hahaha 😅 More soon plssss 🎉
Thank you so much for the love! We’re so happy you’re enjoying the podcast 💜
Part 2 pa sana..more of this topic please..😊
This is perfect when Im working.. No need to watch just listening to these awesome people
YES ANOTHERRRR EPISODEEEE I LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCHHHH
napakaraming matututunan at realizations sa podcast na to. 🤙🏼
You can be grateful if your parents did their part as responsible parents. That always results to kids helping their parents financially without asking.
On the other side, kids won't be thankful if they experience hardship with fear towards their parents.
We can always learn from other people's mistakes, we have a bunch of examples around us. We don't have to always learn by experiencing them. Build a sense of foresight.
Kind of conversation I want❤❤❤
In just a few minutes, just by looking at the thumbnail, I was like oh, this trio would be my therapy this coming year 2025. Especially Ms. Aryn of Spit Manila.
Intelligent, informative and just substantial conversations, im hooked!! 👍
Good talk! Well informed & very well discussed! I very much appreciate that this is discussed.
Sobrang ganda ni Aryn and Inka. Pakissssssss ❤
"LOUDER!" That's the only thing that I want to say about the topic and subtopics all throughout the whole video especially the part where the "Utang na loob" toxic trait has been discussed. Hands down once again to you guys👏🙌
Sa palagay ko, pera lang ang utang na binabayaran. Pero sa utang na loob, dapat tinatanaw.
I love this! It is super realistic and educational!
I found my people 😭, I love listening / watching this healthy, open, aware, emotional intelligence I could go on forever most importantly safe space they provide the communication skills. New subscriber here DESERVE!!! 😭🫶🏻✨
WOOHOO WE LOVE YOU
@ OMG!!!😱
Listening to this while making materials for my ESL students! This is by far the most productive one hour of my life, in 2025. Thanks, SQUAD! 🙌
Binge-watched all the eps for a day 😂
I miss my friends because of you guys!
We learn a lot from this episode but most importantly, accountability and self-awareness. Love this! ❤
the edi ikaw na matalino...I have that experience where my friend got so mad regarding one of my suggestion. I thought I'm just being mayabang on how I deliver may idea but I'm not that kind of person. then I realized, baka mas expose lang me sa specific scenario that I know it gave me edge to give idea about certain topic.
This is my first time watching your content, and I'm thoroughly impressed and inspired. Thank you for the refreshing perspective. Although familiar with the topic, I gained valuable insights from your presentation. God bless y'all!
Sarap makinig sa ganito while working ..❤
I love it! New subscriber🙋🏻♀️
Cute cute ni Inka, apaka invested sa topic hahahha
HEHEHE
Finally!!!! a podcast that is worth watching.🙂🙂🙂
This is so nice ❤ I can relate
I totally agree with Atty. Anselmo. Walang inggitan sa mga Chinoy. My mom had a Chinoy best friend and whenever may kapatid sila na naluluginang negosyo, to take rescue agad ang mga kapatid kaya walang naiiwan sa ilalim.
I am thankful I found this channel!
We are so thankful you found us 🙏
Love this episode. Topics that I have hard time opening up to earlier generations 😅😅