Pastor Embarrasses wife in front of the congregation | survival mode activated | Narcissism !!!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @Lindrish897
    @Lindrish897 Год назад +520

    He actually embarrassed himself because everybody is talking about what he did to his wife.

    • @fillod2613
      @fillod2613 Год назад +37

      He revealed himself what a horrible person he is.

    • @nontoncube8450
      @nontoncube8450 Год назад +15

      But he certainly doesn't care

    • @bonnie8740
      @bonnie8740 Год назад +6

      but no one is reprimanding him.

    • @chocolatequeen5953
      @chocolatequeen5953 Год назад

      Those type of men have no shame because if he did have shame , he would have apologized infront of the congregation! He’s dogshit ! Hmm 🤔

  • @lebohangmasenkane2371
    @lebohangmasenkane2371 Год назад +297

    His actions were an answered prayer to his wife's cries. Him been exposed like this is a start of God working for her

    • @lesego5657
      @lesego5657 Год назад +10

      You are so right, God is at Work 🙏

    • @annitawillis1176
      @annitawillis1176 Год назад

      H jvch h bh b b.😊😊b😊 gj

    • @W.O.V.E.N
      @W.O.V.E.N Год назад +4

      While this is true, she will suffer for his embarrassment. I have face this myself. His narcissistic disease is triggered by embarrassment, shame, lost friendships, basically whenever he is not the center of attention or receiving praise.

    • @W.O.V.E.N
      @W.O.V.E.N Год назад +6

      She has to leave, this type of person can kill his wife, or have her killed.

  • @kimarliafarquharson2223
    @kimarliafarquharson2223 Год назад +105

    I am from Jamaica, and you are the first Christian I have heard speak the truth without turning corners or justified his behavior, am going to subscribe because you are not a hypocrite.

  • @chicecil7240
    @chicecil7240 Год назад +147

    Omg! This man just showed his true personality. Seems like an abuser to the wife. 😢

  • @MayMay-gd9ge
    @MayMay-gd9ge Год назад +200

    The wife needs to quietly leave him without giving him or anyone else close to him information of her whereabouts. She must also save this video for future reference, go to the police, then get a restraining order against this man.

    • @mommieofdos
      @mommieofdos Год назад +19

      I also noticed that when he yelled, she flinched. This poor woman needs to be saved.

    • @MayMay-gd9ge
      @MayMay-gd9ge Год назад +6

      @@mommieofdos Yes you are absolutely right.

    • @olujonzin
      @olujonzin Год назад +7

      Usually he says he's in full time ministry and also asks her not to work so she has no financial independence (He's in charge of everything) if she leaves. It's such a common pattern. I feel so bad on her behalf. She is a typical victim whose self esteem has been constantly eroded.
      Usually such pastors use the Word of God to also bully members into submission.

    • @DivinityStella
      @DivinityStella Год назад +3

      My dear, I studied ministry after my divorce, and happened to fail the Submission module dismally because I’d often use my personal experiences to try and argue my point in as far as Submitting to a husband(as stipulated in the Bible). It’s men like this pastor who make it difficult for wives to submit. How does one submit to brutality and narcissistic behaviour??!!! The day men realise that submission is not commanded but earned will be a joyous day for me. I can only say this to you mamfundisi: “ Love yourself. You’re worthy and you’re enough. Pray for release, otherwise o tlo lemala psychologically.” Prayers prayers🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍

  • @loribrinton131
    @loribrinton131 Год назад +144

    I'm a first-time watcher. Thank you for bringing all of this out. So sorry for this woman. Can you imagine if he does this in public what she goes through in private???

  • @nataliezmbatha4002
    @nataliezmbatha4002 Год назад +584

    I get the sense this man is jealous of his wife, hence the need to discredit her. She is the one with the anointing.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +68

      I have to agree with you on this one

    • @loratomolapisi8173
      @loratomolapisi8173 Год назад +31

      My thoughts exactly🤞

    • @Linda_RoyalPriesthood
      @Linda_RoyalPriesthood Год назад +73

      After listening to her unprepared sermon, i also realized she's the anointed one. Grace is carrying her, and this guy is jealous.

    • @nontoncube8450
      @nontoncube8450 Год назад +36

      this man would still be this way with anyone else because that's who he is.

    • @prettynokoyo-8007
      @prettynokoyo-8007 Год назад +36

      Mybe he felt threatened that the wife is more annointed that him then becomes jealousy

  • @ritatudeme9990
    @ritatudeme9990 Год назад +170

    She did well being able to minister the word.He actually embrassed himself.

    • @tenariascott3551
      @tenariascott3551 Год назад +4

      I would like to know who is he because he's not greater than God

  • @sisterssummit9479
    @sisterssummit9479 Год назад +464

    I believe she even forgot the Bible in the car because of being unstable emotionally

  • @melodygilbert5896
    @melodygilbert5896 Год назад +216

    These women need to seek professional counseling outside the church. The church counselor will take sides with the pastors.

    • @colombeadunagow5196
      @colombeadunagow5196 Год назад +6

      Amen!

    • @12tribes37
      @12tribes37 Год назад

      Not necessarily....

    • @olujonzin
      @olujonzin Год назад +4

      ​@12tribes37 yes but more often than not, that's what happens.

    • @ChychyChychy-b3l
      @ChychyChychy-b3l Год назад

      🟣110%✅

    • @mbili6967
      @mbili6967 Год назад

      There are those of us in the church who are pastoral counselors and good at what we do, because we know abuse occurs within the church as well. I hope and pray that she finds those within her church that she can trust, and those outside her church she can trust, that she starts setting boundaries even within her marriage if she's choosing to stay.

  • @valariegriffin462
    @valariegriffin462 Год назад +76

    My grieving point is the church is filled with people who keep quiet 😢😢😢

    • @fruitypopwhickle6806
      @fruitypopwhickle6806 Год назад +3

      I agree with you. The world is the way it is today because good people keep quiet.

    • @angelamarie222
      @angelamarie222 Год назад +1

      @@fruitypopwhickle6806too often! I was one of them as well. And when it’s time to speak up many times your voice has been silenced so long you’ve forgotten how to use it …

    • @carlamichelle46
      @carlamichelle46 Год назад

      ​@@angelamarie222, I DEFINITELY understand this!! I finally left the cult, I was in, that did stuff like this.

  • @rebeccankwane4310
    @rebeccankwane4310 Год назад +112

    Most man hate a powerful woman and this man is one of them

    • @MotshidisiMavis-ty9dc
      @MotshidisiMavis-ty9dc 7 месяцев назад +1

      I know exactly what ur talking about 🤦‍♀️❤️

  • @risingroses
    @risingroses Год назад +458

    She is a true victim of narcissistic abuse.

  • @disekomotsepe
    @disekomotsepe Год назад +103

    Married to a narcissist. That woman is dying inside. 😢😢😢😢. Worried about her mental health 😢

  • @margaretengendi1385
    @margaretengendi1385 Год назад +352

    If she is embarrassed before people,how is she treated at home?That is what religion has done to us.

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 Год назад +12

      Bondage to one's life.

    • @joyabongwa6223
      @joyabongwa6223 Год назад +36

      Exactly! Religion has blinded our eyes. We no longer know what abuse is. We all need to go back to the Bible

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 Год назад

      @@joyabongwa6223 The greatest tragedy to happen upon the Black man's mind was indoctrination,to trust a religion that was brought by the enslaver and coloniser.We need need to awake from this mentacide.
      It's far more worse than the gene editing.

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 Год назад +39

      Good people, it’s time we understood the difference between being religious and having a relationship with Christ! Yes religion can be dangerous, but a relationship with Christ builds, it doesn’t kill! This man is a narcissist and he will never change, all he wants is the Nebuchadnessar punishment!

    • @peninahwamuyu3349
      @peninahwamuyu3349 Год назад +21

      Narcissists really thrive in religion.

  • @choicendoro7937
    @choicendoro7937 Год назад +66

    Guy was literally barking @ her.
    Plus think about the terrible example he's setting for the men in his church

    • @gloriaony8285
      @gloriaony8285 Год назад +2

      Yes, it usually start with the Pastors. The spirit that rules the pastor often transcend to the men of the church. Men, who are you under(listening to)?

    • @yonelafokazi6465
      @yonelafokazi6465 Год назад

      😂😂 I'm not supposed to be laughing at this comment. But when you mentioned "barking" I just couldn't hold myself because that is exactly what he did "uyakhonkotha"... disgraceful!!

  • @MissTinky_OG
    @MissTinky_OG Год назад +64

    As Christians, we need the discernment to separate the "gift" from the "man/woman". Everyone should be held accountable using the word.

  • @joannahaynes73
    @joannahaynes73 Год назад +32

    Sin like this needs to be exposed more often.thank u for standing for truth🙏🏾

  • @majurymashipe9688
    @majurymashipe9688 Год назад +147

    Signs of abuse right in the open. We need to stand in the gap for her and pray for that marriage

    • @Faircafe98
      @Faircafe98 Год назад +25

      Pray for her to leave

    • @NUBIA30ful
      @NUBIA30ful Год назад +13

      @pork76364 thank you ! In Jesus's name let her find the light and the courage to leave this man so called husband ....amen!!!!

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes Год назад +7

      Pray to leave

    • @γένεσις-ο9ψ
      @γένεσις-ο9ψ Год назад

      When and where did the CREATOR say stay in a mistake that you have made? If no sin is greater than the other and you believe divorce is a sin it can be forgiven. Wicked men have infiltrated the GOOD BOOK for PRIDEFUL control and for submission of a female.

    • @chocolatequeen5953
      @chocolatequeen5953 Год назад +2

      Why should we pray for that marriage , we should pray for it to end ! That man is nothing but dog shit a good man would have gone back to the car and bring her , her Bible ! She needs to leave him ! Hmm 🤔

  • @shalom101-k9r
    @shalom101-k9r Год назад +79

    This is classic abused wife. Narsissism at its core. She lacks confidence, she lack peace and she is so afraid and shocked and shaken.

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 Год назад +10

      Her healing will come outside of this church.

    • @reeniec1016
      @reeniec1016 Год назад +10

      He is abusive. He was never provoked. His ego is very fragile and he’s insecure and definitely a narcissist

  • @dupebetiku1600
    @dupebetiku1600 Год назад +24

    What has this man got to offer the congregation and the viewers? Nothing, he is proud and arrogant. Thank you Madam Speaker, speak more and expose these narcissistic men.

  • @pinkymvuyana314
    @pinkymvuyana314 Год назад +67

    It's embarrassing for all Christians. These things which are being done by pastors, church is now a business of money and not so much of Christ. This why people are now judging us and turning our religion and God to a joke. You spoke well sisi, thank you.

    • @reflioekheswa6314
      @reflioekheswa6314 Год назад +1

      You have said it all

    • @jesusisenough6422
      @jesusisenough6422 Год назад +1

      💯

    • @ladye.j.j5739
      @ladye.j.j5739 Год назад

      Exactly 💯

    • @ParadiseLoading
      @ParadiseLoading Год назад

      I'm not embarrassed by this for the reason that it is showing Jesus' words at Matthew 7:20,21 to be true: "by their fruits, you will recognize those men Not everyone saying to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter into the Kingdom of the heavens, but only the one doing the will of my Father who is in the heavens will."This person proving that Jesus' warning is true. Mistreatment of one's wife is NOT in harmony with God's will. In fact, this man's prayers are not even being heard according to 1 Peter 3:7. He forgot what is stated at Colossians 3:19. So if this "religious leader" is completely out of harmony with Jesus' teaching, and his actions go contrary to the Bible, he's only calling himself a Christian. But actions speak louder than words, and his don't match.

  • @christel4365
    @christel4365 Год назад +61

    I really appreciate your video. I am a Christian counsellor specialised in emotional abuse and I can say that many women are suffering in silence in the church and unfortunately the pastor often takes side for the husband. And the congregation takes side for the pastor without questioning anything. Women in her situation end up very often isolated.
    Thank you for exposing this kind of behaviour.
    God bless

  • @damselola7719
    @damselola7719 Год назад +36

    It's written all over her, she looks so frightening. Oh God help every woman going through this...

  • @chloeg.1137
    @chloeg.1137 Год назад +35

    God won't listen to the mans prayers if the husband dosen't treat his wife well. "Prayers will be hindered". Abuse shouldn't never be accepted i'm praying for strength for her.

  • @abioduncliff4892
    @abioduncliff4892 Год назад +69

    I have been in such situation where I shed tears during worship not just bcos I was being moved by the Holy spirit but the tears was as a result of how depressed I was..At that time I was also married to a pastor too. A well known pastor in my country as at then, indeed many pastors wives are going through alot😢

    • @Justcallme-Janet
      @Justcallme-Janet Год назад +4

      I'm truly sorry, your value comes from God ❤. May God comfort you and give you wisdom.

    • @mrssamuel01
      @mrssamuel01 Год назад +6

      For real I am a pastor wife too and the congregation protects them but other real men of God holds them accountable.

    • @Justcallme-Janet
      @Justcallme-Janet Год назад +5

      @@mrssamuel01 May God help you too

    • @ChychyChychy-b3l
      @ChychyChychy-b3l Год назад

      🤔🙋🏻‍♀️

    • @abioduncliff4892
      @abioduncliff4892 Год назад

      @@Justcallme-Janet Thanks sis🫂❤️

  • @basicallyv9873
    @basicallyv9873 Год назад +61

    No elder in that church will hold him accountable? Thats disgusting behavior and i believe he talks to her like that all the time. In front of the whole church at that. Sometimes the church sets women up amd sometimes men for abuse and that is not christ in any way shape and form. Just sad.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +7

      They are there. They have obviously been enabling this behavior for years

  • @siyabongamahaye3946
    @siyabongamahaye3946 Год назад +36

    She looks devastated... pastors with couches at church while everybody else is on a chair

    • @khumbulamangena7889
      @khumbulamangena7889 Год назад +6

      It says a lot about them

    • @wisemancele8831
      @wisemancele8831 Год назад

      😂 once I see that I'm always left with???

    • @phindymichellesibiya8691
      @phindymichellesibiya8691 Год назад

      Satan😈 of a pastor and hence the abusive behavior towards his wife and proud because of the chairs they are sitting on, he probably picked them...nonsense nxe🤬

    • @nokweyisangqungwana3103
      @nokweyisangqungwana3103 Год назад +3

      Sies. Just like piloticians that we vote for and later we have to hold umbrellas for them. I feel nauseated by these things .

    • @kiri1517
      @kiri1517 Год назад +3

      I've never understood it. that's why I just can't with those churches.

  • @delighttsheni2796
    @delighttsheni2796 Год назад +45

    This man is losing the blessings of the LORD and the is something suspicious about him. We wont be wrong if we say he might be even cheating

  • @heyapostleG777
    @heyapostleG777 Год назад +25

    The way my soul was grieving for this woman of God. I know exactly how that feels to be embarrassed publicly by your husband who is supposed to be a man of God. I pray that she continues to be strong in the Lord, worship is the weapon that the Lord will use to destroy her enemies.

  • @nontoncube8450
    @nontoncube8450 Год назад +141

    Tolerating abuse is not being strong. It's actually being emotionally weak. Strong people don't let other people treat them this way. And I am not bashing them, cause they indeed need strength to pick themselves up and leave. But being strong is not about letting someone hurt you and you are quiet. In the least it shows you have no guts, and have no life of yourself outside this person.

    • @Philsande868
      @Philsande868 Год назад +4

      Wemame wawuzalwe nendoda yini,akaphume kulomshado impilo ikhona noma ungashadile.Lendoda idlala ngalomfazi,kungenzeka iqonyiwe khona la esontweni.

    • @nontoncube8450
      @nontoncube8450 Год назад +4

      @@Philsande868 ayimthandi nix. Kuningi okwenzeka ngemva kwama curtain

    • @lifeofnikkismith
      @lifeofnikkismith Год назад +3

      💯

    • @emeliatibbles1237
      @emeliatibbles1237 Год назад +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @folakemioyesile5135
      @folakemioyesile5135 Год назад +1

      Wish I can like this a thousand times!

  • @OluOgbobine
    @OluOgbobine Год назад +8

    God knows exactly what's happening behind closed doors. Thanks for emphasising this point.
    Beloved pastor's wife, it's time to re-evaluate and take care of yourself

  • @yvette5447
    @yvette5447 Год назад +16

    Because she continued glorify and exalt God through her embarrassment, God will cause her to be lifted up! As for him, he better be careful! Husbands love your wives, as Christ loved the church! How can he profess to be a man of God or even a husband and treat his wife this way! He is no example for the church! If he can do that to his wife, what would he do to me! Help her Lord Jesus!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @manaledimojalefa1868
      @manaledimojalefa1868 Год назад +2

      Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
      1 Peter 3:7

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +1

      Also what is he capable of behind closed doors?

  • @tlouratshabedi
    @tlouratshabedi Год назад +23

    The elders in this church know all this abuse, trust me. and because they are so scared to offend moruti they will never say anything. It is so sad, the church members need help, the mma moruti needs help and if I was the church members I would look for a new church for my family. The boys in this church are going to grow up thinking it is okay to speak to their wives like that. Leave this man ha this is nuisance

  • @brikenni
    @brikenni Год назад +37

    I blame the people who attend such gatherings and just watch

    • @racheloshaksmusic
      @racheloshaksmusic Год назад

      It's part of the African culture that's why. They normalise the abuse even in their own households. The church is treating the pastor like God that's why they are afraid to speak up.

    • @sophiemmaatli9871
      @sophiemmaatli9871 Год назад

      How

    • @TheReader19
      @TheReader19 Год назад +6

      ​@@sophiemmaatli9871 I feel that they should speak up or leave the church

  • @isobelndoro
    @isobelndoro Год назад

    Thank you. This video just started playing on my feed. Thank you so so much. May God bless you.

  • @keyshashields2282
    @keyshashields2282 Год назад +9

    The church responded like culturally they were not suprised! He felt too comfortable doing this, and they were quiet and seemed to not be bothered by it. He was out of order!!!!!

  • @proudlysouthafrican-y7z
    @proudlysouthafrican-y7z Год назад +37

    The shock that went through my body....did he really speak to her like that??? shocking ....this man has issues i tell you...and women endure disrespect and abuse all in the name of marriage...sad

    • @nomthandazotshabalala6512
      @nomthandazotshabalala6512 Год назад +5

      Hay man he must never yhoo, that's not the way to treat his wife in front of the congregation 😢😢

    • @mubukwanunalumino858
      @mubukwanunalumino858 Год назад +2

      Such pastors behavior is related to jealousy,fear that the wife would take over the church.the other thing is he has a girlfriend in the same congratulation and wants to impress her.

  • @nyawivlogs
    @nyawivlogs Год назад +15

    That is one psychotic pastor🤡. May this beautiful lady find herself and know herself ❤

  • @nancymika
    @nancymika Год назад +42

    This is a narcissistic man😪😪 I’m sorry for her😭

  • @emmanuelk.tambwe2628
    @emmanuelk.tambwe2628 Год назад +56

    He is a man full of pride....

  • @HisPrincess_
    @HisPrincess_ Год назад +14

    Oh no ☹️💔. And shes so soft spoken and beautiful. Ladies lets learn to love ourselves and not be naive. Lets treat ourselves w love, care. Lets set standards for ourselves so we dont tolerate such nonsensical behaviour. Also why are the congregants not leaving that room ?

  • @florence.o2099
    @florence.o2099 Год назад +11

    This is pure true. Maybe he was hurrying her, that's why she forgot her bible. And how come he knew she forgot her bible in the car. That's shows he saw it while leaving the car.

  • @likhayadiko6045
    @likhayadiko6045 Год назад +20

    I'm so sad to see this. I went to their wedding in 2019. I worked briefly with Ntando, the lady, she is such a sweet soul and a true woman of God

  • @chicalertng
    @chicalertng Год назад +7

    That woman is a victim of so many other abuses behind closed doors…shudders! I pray she finds a way out 😢

  • @sipprianaw6539
    @sipprianaw6539 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing. You're right on point. To much cover up in the church. Sad situation.

  • @TheSouthAfricanPost
    @TheSouthAfricanPost Год назад +9

    Narcissists in their nature they do not communicate, or accept wrong, so the likely outcome in her situation is that he will blame shift and she will come out and apologize. it is strange but that what will happen,. Also Narcists don't change except in extreme adversity, so she in for ride. May God have mercy on her

  • @nontoncube8450
    @nontoncube8450 Год назад +105

    The saddest thing is that she will pass on these dysfunctional patterns to her children. It's important to think about children when choosing a partner not just you. Now, the kids would go on to create their own pain using these dysfunctional patterns they are taught.

    • @auntyp2980
      @auntyp2980 Год назад +2

      Amen❤

    • @romandaigle455
      @romandaigle455 Год назад +4

      We are all dysfunctional

    • @nontoncube8450
      @nontoncube8450 Год назад +9

      @@romandaigle455 okay. Those who got my message understood what im talking about. Good vibes💫

    • @EN-ne3hu
      @EN-ne3hu Год назад +1

      100% Truth.

    • @inufab
      @inufab Год назад +2

      This is typical where is your finger being pointed? Pointing out her flaws instead of calling a spade a spade how her husband disrespected her and belittled and embarrassed her in front of the congregation. He will pass down those traits to their kids not her, who are you to say that her children may not see her beautiful soul and decide to stand up for her and to their father. Victim shaming is a shame.

  • @ritadaniels3881
    @ritadaniels3881 Год назад +23

    He has the spirit of proud he is dealing with right now ❤

  • @TheunlimitedxXArizonaXx
    @TheunlimitedxXArizonaXx Год назад +15

    My first time here and you spoke with wisdom. Preach sister 🙌 👏

  • @salomemafa5460
    @salomemafa5460 Год назад +8

    This is so true my sister it's time for woman to open up. Ladies know when it is time to leave you owe no 1 nobody an explanation just run for your life.

  • @turningpunkt
    @turningpunkt Год назад +8

    I pity that woman. I pray that woman has courage to leave.

  • @siphokazimgidi643
    @siphokazimgidi643 Год назад +10

    He continued to drag her family this past Sunday, didn't take accountability at all, and it's mostly women who are supporting him. Shocking!

  • @RenataGuzman91
    @RenataGuzman91 Год назад +5

    My pastor did this to me when I was a kid. Ever since I got away from that church I haven't been back.

  • @sontofakude7724
    @sontofakude7724 Год назад +30

    She is not strong at. The poor woman is dying inside🤞

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +6

      Absolutely! People mistake survival mode for strength

    • @doesitworknailoke8125
      @doesitworknailoke8125 Год назад +2

      Very true,I went through the same and people thought im strong but I cried every day and until the day I decided to leave

    • @buhledube6951
      @buhledube6951 Год назад +1

      ​@@doesitworknailoke8125 ...am going through the same thing. Am being abused by my step son and yesterday he threatened to kill me

  • @pa811
    @pa811 Год назад +6

    Maaawwwweeee...my heart breaks for this woman of God 😭😭😭 her composure just has spoken alot.

  • @yakeishabaker5294
    @yakeishabaker5294 Год назад +3

    Thank you for putting this out there so we all can see what this beautiful lady is going through

  • @duffydon1741
    @duffydon1741 Год назад +41

    The one thing that you don’t understand here is how much convictedly brainwashed she is about him and no-matter how much you feel for her she would see you as the devil and not even take a second thought about your video, run away and pay zero attention to woman like her, it would never help a person like her, she would rather die for this narcissist!

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 Год назад +18

      I used to be like this, even to the point of defending him and his behaviour, but one day my eyes opened! The day is coming when she will open her eyes and he won’t know what hit him! It took me 23 years to see the truth about him and when I finally did, I left without looking back! I was vilified and rejected by the church and had to leave and fellowship somewhere else! Up to now the leadership of the church nationally, provincially and locally has never called me to hear my side of the story, but they concluded that I was the nonsense and not him. I’m patiently waiting on God to expose him and the time is near because he’s becoming too comfortable! One day I will write a book about my experience.

    • @fifikkwinana3147
      @fifikkwinana3147 Год назад +2

      @@spm9130🙏please do. Did you consider calling meeting with people you trust more like mentors, or higher pastors.

    • @nontandorambau7157
      @nontandorambau7157 Год назад +3

      @@spm9130 May God be with you.

    • @NileGoddess
      @NileGoddess Год назад +4

      @@spm9130 God Will expose him

    • @localjess838
      @localjess838 Год назад

      She knows
      Sometimes they feel there is no out

  • @ayandagazu3450
    @ayandagazu3450 Год назад +30

    😂😂I couldn't hold myself when you said "she is out there praying and fasting for her marriage "from 7:37 to 7:49 the way you said it😂, but which might be true my sister. She must love herself enough and "God loves her for real". People must not hide behind the bible and treat others like trash.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +8

      🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂I know these things my sister I’ve been there .

  • @valariegriffin462
    @valariegriffin462 Год назад +4

    This woman is talking great sense. This video resonated so much that I have gone through. Lord help her

  • @mildredbibbs1508
    @mildredbibbs1508 Год назад +6

    She's a woman of GOD, she has the GOD'S WORD ROOTED AND GROUNDED IN HER SOUL....❤ GOD NEVER FAILS ❤❤❤❤

  • @bumaschneider
    @bumaschneider Год назад +10

    Yes mama! I've been there, publicly embarrassed in church, I could not share with anyone cus most of the ladies in church were looking up to me as their role model. Didn't know how to quit because it was a taboo for pastor to divorce. Prayed an fasted hoping he will change. But things got worse. Physical violence,.... 😩 Can't say all here. Thank God I finally divorced. And now I'm the bad one. I am the jezabel... 😩 Can't say all here

    • @healthy711
      @healthy711 Год назад +2

      I understand you, the Lord has heard your case a d that's what matters. People will come to know more of the truth in due time. May the God of Israel restore you and lift you to a greater Glory. Amen

    • @diligenceeke3023
      @diligenceeke3023 Год назад

      ​@@healthy711 There is the danger of a single story. She may be correct, but we cannot judge that here. You are sincerely not sure God heard the prayer. Many times the error is both ways. Women in general cover years of both plain qnd subliminal emotional abuse they push on their husbands. They begin to use sex as a reward system for every little issue. It begins to trickle in gently but surely and then you hear RUclips stories that cannot be verified.

    • @Philtabit49
      @Philtabit49 Год назад +1

      Stand strong. Sister! You are precious in the Lord's eyes. He is your strength. He is your Reward. He loves you.

    • @Called_toovercomeinternational
      @Called_toovercomeinternational Год назад

      Walk in your freedom

  • @vincentrasimeni
    @vincentrasimeni Год назад +13

    My opinion in this is that the pastor is having an affair and him ridiculing his wife is his way of try to get out of the marriage by making her seem incompetent in public to get the church members behind him I don't know if I'm making any sense.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +1

      I understand you. I suppose if that the plan then it backfired

  • @ronnieq9706
    @ronnieq9706 Год назад +2

    This is a serious issue in the church. Thank you for exposing this. I pray that someone watching this video will realize that God never intended them to be subjected to abusive relationships and that they find a way of escape before death can occur. Blessings of freedom and deliverance overshadow you.

  • @siphokazivambe7047
    @siphokazivambe7047 Год назад +10

    didn't know you have a RUclips channel, I'm glad I found you here ❤❤❤

  • @ominathisithole6755
    @ominathisithole6755 Год назад +9

    We must remember they’re self appointed pastors. Some the spirit of God has departed from them just a vision that left

  • @nompumelelomahlangu360
    @nompumelelomahlangu360 Год назад +7

    May God give that woman and many other partners abused by their 'holier than thau' partners out there strength to leave and never go back. May they find healing and genuine life partners in future.❤

  • @ellenlungu5778
    @ellenlungu5778 Год назад +11

    You know what, its my first time watching your video,from today,i will be following you,coz you speak the truth. 👏👏👏🤝❤❤❤

  • @itayikaseke3480
    @itayikaseke3480 Год назад +19

    She looked terrified and embarrassed😢

    • @TheReader19
      @TheReader19 Год назад +5

      Karen, you are absolutely right, this man is very scary; I am even prepared to say he has a demonic spirit on him.

  • @NubianLoveGod
    @NubianLoveGod Год назад +2

    This is a wake-up story sis, thank you for sharing this. Know who you are in God. God bless you all.

  • @refilwe2664
    @refilwe2664 Год назад +8

    The truth sets free!She can only sets herself free by being true to herself(she knows very well what she goes through).

  • @HisPrincess_
    @HisPrincess_ Год назад +6

    Yoh 💔. Women really need to be aware of such characteristics/ behaviours and say no, not me 😭💔

  • @Daily4Jesus
    @Daily4Jesus Год назад +4

    Almost went under in my 15 years married to a narcissist. Thank you God am free . I walked away 1 & 1/2 years now. Am healing and believe I will get there one day at a time sweet Jesus.

    • @trudy-annsmall9600
      @trudy-annsmall9600 Год назад +1

      You will as time passes and you focus on your happiness and the love God has for you

  • @beverlybentley8046
    @beverlybentley8046 Год назад +13

    Wonderfully said my sister..lets pray she sees this video of yours..God bless and keep you...1st time seeing you on RUclips. Will subscribe now🎉🎉❤

  • @nachy883
    @nachy883 Год назад +17

    Unfortunately such men are prostitutes and what really surprises me is that women love such me and it breaks me

  • @jumokejohnson9903
    @jumokejohnson9903 Год назад

    I love your channel..i wish there was a support group for pastors wives.. you are right.. most of them are going through a whole lot.. unfortunately they don’t have anyone to talk to because everyone sees their pastor as a god.. you are so right.. God is exposing them one after the other…enough of this false prophets and pastors bringing shame to the name of God.

  • @jabulisilejele9686
    @jabulisilejele9686 Год назад +19

    God is exposing this weaked pastor.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  Год назад +2

      I believe that

    • @maggiemashapa4772
      @maggiemashapa4772 Год назад +1

      True

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 Год назад +1

      He's not a pastor,he's fake.Those churches are the kind Dr PLO Lumumba calls fake factories because they produce fake people.

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 Год назад +1

      Yeah! He’s too comfortable in his nonsense!

  • @Dorisdspecialgirl
    @Dorisdspecialgirl Год назад +21

    What surprises me in this whole thing is the number of people in the congregation,how can he have such a huge crowd with this kind of attitude

    • @kaefdy
      @kaefdy Год назад

      Miracles, that's what delusional and cannal Christians run after.

    • @dianegrimes3975
      @dianegrimes3975 Год назад

      You are so correct!! This is not a man of God he is a male of Satan.

    • @ademolaabolaji9130
      @ademolaabolaji9130 Год назад

      Having A Big Congregation Does Not Mean You Are Of Christ. Most Of This So Called Men Of God Are Ritualists And Occult Members Hiding Behind The Pulpit. In Nigeria We Have Them In Great Numbers. Our Only Hope Is Christ And His Word And Warning.

    • @nhozamadolo5152
      @nhozamadolo5152 Год назад

      My sentiments exactly 😏😏

    • @cynthiacarr2093
      @cynthiacarr2093 Год назад

      Spiritual Brainwashing. You don't realize it at first and it overtakes the mind resulting in Blindness Spiritually. Yet as one seeks a closer walk and relationship with God the Father and The Lord Jesus Led By The Holy Spirit. New Sight comes and you're Delivered and set Free From these Cults. Yes Cults Is what they are. God Will reveal the wickedness and Prepare you to be Released Uncovering All Things Done In the dark.. Bringing You to the Light God! God makes a way of Escape for You! As you are Free he then reveals more to you. Worshipping man will Not Be Accepted By God! When blinded you don't realize this sin. But God will show you. Just repent be forgiven and get 5he eck out of there.
      I know now from experience! I Thank and Praise God for my Deliverance Always!❤❤❤
      My Prayers are for All who are in this situation now to be Delivered And Set Free Frim these sheep in wolves clothing and that be Delivered Also in Jesus Mighty Name Amen and Hallelujah Praise God!

  • @blessedme7788
    @blessedme7788 Год назад +9

    By him singing that song before she came to the pulpit, not knowing he's actually inviting God lead her into preaching . He was trying to embarrass her but unknowingly invited God to lead his wife.

  • @virginiapule1938
    @virginiapule1938 Год назад +4

    I have been there ,married to a narcissist mine was not pastor but a business man, he would yell at me infront of the customers..... but one day God gave me strength and i left.. now in a journey of healing...

    • @fifitsum7853
      @fifitsum7853 Год назад +1

      😂😂😂😂i know that dear. Even assaulted infront of customers.

  • @SophieSpira
    @SophieSpira Год назад +8

    Fortunately for me, and I hope for her - I can preach without the Bible. Plus even ask a congregant to open a verse and read and I would preach from hence. Good Mrs. Pastor.

  • @Thy-Queen
    @Thy-Queen Год назад +6

    This is so painful. This is a perfect example of many are called but few are chosen.

  • @neosjournal_
    @neosjournal_ Год назад +7

    Shame and she will probably never leave him because “batho ba tla reng”

  • @onyekachitemitope4689
    @onyekachitemitope4689 Год назад

    I really like your analogy and you spoke the truth without micing words and without talking down on the Church or Men of God but you addressed the real issue with wisdom and respect for the body of Christ. Thank you and God bless you ma.🙏❤

  • @divine5582
    @divine5582 Год назад +9

    Even if she's familiar, remember that everything is spiritual and she's a true example of that. The husband on the other hand operates in Flesh trying to please people instead of fulfilling God's purpose

  • @kuyofrans8360
    @kuyofrans8360 Год назад +1

    Mummy you show the true definition of a women. I wish her strength and happiness in your life and stay blessed 🙏

  • @derrickdankyi4269
    @derrickdankyi4269 Год назад +3

    The woman was terrified! She must run for her life. The abuse is real! Ruuuuuun!

  • @Angel-su7sl
    @Angel-su7sl Год назад +7

    The woman is strong and I am proud of her, but this man is a disgrace to manhood. A real man will never treat a woman like this. Whether being a Pastor or not, if you are born a woman, if you have sisters or daughters, if your heart has a milk of human kindness, you cannot treat another human being like this. This man exposed himself. Woman of God, I am so sorry you have to go through this, you don't deserve this.

  • @kidchocolate9253
    @kidchocolate9253 Год назад +5

    If he treats her like that in public imagine the treatment in private. This reminds me of Abigail and Nabal.

  • @gee2055
    @gee2055 Год назад

    Well said my sister. May your words go far and wide🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💐

  • @beverleyatuahene9554
    @beverleyatuahene9554 Год назад +7

    He don't love his wife, and made it known in front of people and God, let him tell us how many times he has forgotten things.

  • @beverlyneal3208
    @beverlyneal3208 Год назад

    Thanks for this video, may God continue to bless her. The pastor needs to be called out by the church for his ungodly behavior.

  • @kedibonemolefe916
    @kedibonemolefe916 Год назад +6

    By their fruits we shall know them. Wolves in sheep's clothing. The wife is anointed and the man is riding on the woman's anointing and thereby degrading her, he is draining her ernegy.

  • @cynthiacarr2093
    @cynthiacarr2093 Год назад

    Blessings to them both especially the Wife please God deliver her from this man and this spirit. And Deliverance for him in Jesus Mighty Name Amen and Hallelujah!
    Make a way of escape for your daughter! You speak the Truth my Queen Sister tyfs and your Love for God's People.❤

  • @Odivo541
    @Odivo541 Год назад +5

    He just embarrassed himself. That’s why I’m scared to date pastors they have this ego that’s just quite irritating

  • @meemee5660
    @meemee5660 Год назад +2

    I Peter 3:7 warns husbands to treat their wives. with great consideration, love, and care because if they don't their prayers will not be heard.

  • @pattunde577
    @pattunde577 Год назад +6

    The wife is spiritually powerful, and the husband/pastor can't handle it.

    • @Ellaenchanted20
      @Ellaenchanted20 Год назад +1

      he would have killed, they can not take the humiliation they give pray for her to find a place to run too. The church may still blame her after she leaves .

  • @JerubbaalgodSlayer
    @JerubbaalgodSlayer Год назад +2

    I can’t believe that he barked at her like that! What a *brute beast!* I’d not go to this church, because my flesh would want me to punch him in his throat! 😱🇨🇦

  • @babaloqayi908
    @babaloqayi908 Год назад +19

    She will still protect him as if it didn't matter they are loving Davies. Until few years later then she will start to be a motivational speaker 😢 asking people to remove themselves from abusive partners after she had her share of the abusive 😢

  • @victoriaampofo4042
    @victoriaampofo4042 Год назад +2

    I love your honesty. God bless you 🙏