And if her friends don't come around, no big loss. I have not kept with anyone from high school. Life changes, you change, you move away, you make new friends. Her family will definitely come around at some point. So nice to hear someone that is young handling a hard situation so maturely.
I’m 23 years old and this is the first year I actually know where I stand in this world. Politically, morally, historically. I used to think I’m a feminist and the embarrassment I feel while I’m writing this is immense. Even years ago I realized how uncomfortable I feel in this “leftist”, “liberal” role but now it’s clear as a day to me that I’m a conservative girl. We’re always RIGHT because we know the truth. We’re not WOKE, we’re AWAKENED.
To the teen mom- as a very young mum myself just wanted to let you know that when that baby is born it will all be worth it. All the embarrassment of your situation will disappear and suddenly it will just be you and your little man against the world. And you will be beyond grateful that lil boy is in your life, and struggle to imagine any different. That's not to say it will be easy but it will also be your greatest achievement to life in give you this strange sense of purpose that connects you to millions of women before you. Welcome to the club girl. The tough moments will test you but the sweet moments will keep you going. Also important point to make, remember that just because "you got yourself into this" doesn't mean that you aren't entitled to the help and resources any first time mum would. Don't be afraid to ask for help from others. Another important point that will help you in your new motherhood journey is making sure you continue to make time regularly for one of your favourite hobbies and past times. Remember that just because your a mum now doesn't mean you have to dedicate your entire identity to being a mum. You are still a young woman also with your own likes and dislikes. Try to find that balance of still being yourself but also being a mother to this new person.
@@Teeterto is it though? I’ve seen them on a few political/military channels I follow commenting some fairly opinionated things that don’t seem to be copied from anywhere. You could be right, just hasn’t seemed like it to me.
I’m 16 and seeing someone like Brett Cooper literally speak out exactly what’s been going through my mind is just so great. A great role model to keep me sane in this insane world.
Girl who is having baby. We support and love you. I can not express how much I am cheering you on. Please reach out to local mamas, and grandmas. Find a local church. Explain your situation. They want to help.
I definitely agree in the "Purpose vs Passion" question. I work in a warehouse and i make a pretty decent living. I earn quite well but the job is not fulfilling or meaningful in and of itself but I do draw satisfaction from both being active and contributing my small part to the cogs of society moving forward. Even a "boring" job helps to boost me up in many different aspects and i think its important to learn and force yourself to do things you dont really wanna do.
This is so underrated. My husband working a factory job lets me focus on homeschooling. That's really meaningful for us. He also has really engaging hobbies.
Yes! We need people doing all the little parts of society and it is definitely meaningful if only for that reason, or like another commenter said, because it let's you and your family do other meaningful things. We all are a part of our little communities and that is the real way we make a difference.
Brett Cooper! As someone roughly the same age as you, I gotta say thanks for giving me hope in the rest of our generation. I’m glad there are others outside my immediate circle that share a such a similar outlook with the issues facing our world today. You use your platform in such a positive way and you’ll have my support for a long time to come!
I’m extremely thankful for my dad. He told me that he would never let me have snap because of what goes on there. My sister and all my friends have it, which makes me jealous and left out of my friend group, but I’m thankful I’m not addicted to that app like everyone else is.
I’m a bit older, but even in my generation parents were already wanting to be “friends” with their kids and not say no. My parents were that way, but luckily there wasn’t as much dangerous stuff and no internet. I guess I woulda figured we’d learn lessons from that in my generation, but no way, it’s gotten WAY worse. Especially with trans stuff etc, all of a sudden these kids are fully functioning adults who are capable of deciding to butcher their bodies.
For the young mom question… I was in your exact situation! I got pregnant at 17 YO. My husband and I decided to get married. We had very little support. My best friend tried to talk me out of the marriage and into adoption the night before our wedding. Our relationship never fully recovered. My parents very very cautiously supported us. They had a lot of doubts. The rest of our family thought we were crazy. I lost all of my friends. DO IT ANYWAY!!! We have been married for 10 years now and it’s the best decision I ever made! The first few years were tough as a young mom because I found it really hard to make mom friends because I was at least 5-10 years younger than everyone. Eventually I found my people. ❤️ You got this! And in case no one else has told you, CONGRATULATIONS on your son AND your marriage! I’m celebrating with you from afar!
"A lot of growth is really, really uncomfortable and not fun but it makes you a better person, it makes you a stronger person." Brett said this completely impromptu and I think it's something a lot of people need to hear.
I think this should definitely be a series, Brett: It’s a way of reaching out to your audience and building a rapport with them. I feel like this is quite reminiscent of the old TV shows there used to be where people would call in live and they would be able to talk to the host of the show. Perhaps something like that could be fun too!
Brett, I am a Brazilian Subscriber with a limited English vocabulary but I try my best to write you good compliments. I think you are a Beautiful, smart, talented, and very charismatic young lady.
Brett could you do videos on what it means to be a conservative young woman growing in this society? I have two young daughters, they way you convey information I think could really reach the youth. I hope you see this 💙 Thank you and The Daily Wire for the work you do 🤙🏻💯
As a young mom myself, there is nothing more toxic than teen moms! They generally have loose morals and shame other moms behind their backs (little girl drama). Find “veteran moms” or older moms with more experience/mature, rather than little girls who encourage you to stay childish.
.....meanwhile the tr@nny reading your comment, planning "HER" next elementary school strip tease show and drinkin bud light says..."HOLD MY BEER GIRLS..."
This was great! Solid advice given, and this is coming from someone who has children older than you. 😅 Definitely should make this a regular thing (along with doing a video with Candace every month or so, I had so much fun watching you two on her channel the other day. ❤Nice change of pace from the guys' Backstage which is SO political all the time).
Brett, I am 68 years old (oh god, really?!?), but in my head I feel 21. You have such a great head on your shoulders and I really like listening to you. Although your answers were “on the fly”, you gave some really sound advice. Keep being real. I appreciate you.
As someone who had a baby at 17 and married the father, it's hard but you can make it work! Prioritize your child and the family you've built and your parents and the people that love you will see and respect that effort. It will take some time, but having a child isn't the end of your life, even if it means a slightly premature ending of your own childhood. My daughter is 9, and I honestly can't picture my life without her in it 💜
I LOVE your take on finding passion in serving a purpose, even if that purpose is comparatively small. I've always honestly loved working in food service, from waiting tables to just working the drive thru window at a fast food place. People make fun of me for it, ask when I'm going to get a "real job," but I genuinely always loved what I do. I can't picture myself doing any other kind of paid work, and I've tried working in other industries. My main priority is taking care of my two small children, and I love the flexibility that comes with food service (I can be with my kids all day, and just work a couple hours in the evening). I love spreading positivity to other people by serving them their food and drinks with a smile, and taking care of any issues they may have. It's a small way to make an impact and serve your community but it genuinely makes me happy. Hearing you talk about your experience at Trader Joe's made me feel less alone, so thank you!
@Gina DalPezzo. I went through a period when going out to eat was a once in a great while treat, even at the cheapest place. It made a real difference when the service was friendly. Then a treat became a very nice experience. Your attitude towards your job and customers are a credit to you. Thank you
That last question hit me home, but my situation turns out to not be about me. I never thought I'd reach the point of being a homeowner, married, successful, and now a father. And that last one there, answers that question of "What do I do with my life?" Well, it's not about what to do with my life, but what do I do with the life of my family, which is now growing and in turn helps me grow further. Awesome video and great advices!
To pregnant teen, my love and prayers to you on this journey. I strongly believe you will never regret giving life to the unexpected blessing that comes from an unplanned pregnancy. My youngest, we didn't plan on having another. We were both surprised and it took time to get excited, but he's added so much to our lives and i can't imagine not having him. He's my crazy little man, and was actually born on my birthday. He just turned 5 the day before Easter. Keep on, lean into the ones that are there with you and build you up. Sadly, those that don't, you don't owe them. Keep on, keep strong, and so excited for you!!❤❤
One of my favroite things to do when I read books especially in school is to write on sticky notes about important characters, dates, locations, or events and stick them in between pages of books especially if I have to locate the infomation later.
The girl at 8:00 is such an incredible young woman. I’m so happy to hear that she’s keeping her child instead of buying into the lies of modern day feminism and dating culture. I know it’s anonymous, but whoever you are, I’M PROUD OF YOU!
For the 17yo about marriage. I moved 9 hours from home and got married at 18, we got pregnant the next year. It was HARD, extremely hard. My parents did not support it in the beginning but I did what I wanted. They grew to accept it and love my husband. We're still married 22 years later and happier than ever. So I suggest, do what she thinks is best and what will make her happy. The rest will fall into place over time
For the young girl that is pregnant, her mom might be upset with her now while she is pregnant, but I can guarantee that the first time her mom holds that baby boy, all her anger and upset she has currently will fade away in an instant and she will do everything for that baby boy like she has done for you, your entire life and she will now also want to protect him too. I have given this same advice to friends that have had their teenagers get pregnant and everyone has called me afterwards and told me that I was right, all their anger melted the second they looked that baby in the face and that they thought that they loved their kids with everything, but that love didnt even compare to the love they have for their grandchild. I am sending you all the positive vibes and goodluck and just remember, just because you are having a baby together with your boyfriend, you do not have to get married at such a young age either, living together and raising your son together and just showing him a loving relationship and home environment is more important than that title and piece of paper are. You can always get married in a few years when youre a little older and know yourself better. A new marriage and a newborn are not the perfect combination, because that newborn stage tests a relationship more than i believe anything else does and this is from a woman that put her husband on a plane to the middle east when my oldest was only 10 days old and then when he returned home 11 months later, I was pregnant again within 3 months and even though it was our second child together, it was the first time we went through those first few months of a newborn together and it honestly tested our marriage more than the army or any of his deployments did. I was against getting married even though I was pregnant and my husband made me promise him that if he got orders that he was going to deploy I had to marry him. We were not teens though, I was 24 and he was 28 when we got married, so I jokingly agreed because in my heart I didnt want that phone call to come ever but I knew dating someone in the army especially the job he did there was a very big chance it was going to happen and it would be sooner rather than later due to the main surge. Well it was early March so I was right about 3 months pregnant when that call came in at 6am on a Sunday morning. I was still living at home with my parents at this point and my now husband was staying there with me since I had been pregnant and I got up and ran downstairs screaming and crying and my poor mom thought I was having a miscarriage and I couldnt get out what I was even trying to tell her, but she was also trying to get me calmed down because I have seizures and stress and things like that trigger them and thats the last thing you want to have when pregnant because it can stop oxygen to the baby. Thankfully my husband came running down after me and explained to my mom what was going on which only made things worse because she is dramatic. Thankfully my husband got me calmed down and then we had to figure out a plan to go tell his parents because that was the hardest part breaking that news to his mom, because he was definitely a momma's boy and just as much as he was the light of her life, she was the light of his and I loved watching the love they had for each other and it showed me the love I wanted between my sons and myself and I think thats what i have, but I am sure if you ask them, they will tell you I am weird and a pain in their asses but that they love me. Thats the joys of teenagers that you have to look forward to, but just know those toddler years are the ones that will show you how strong of a woman you truly are.
Hey I love this idea!!! When I was 7 I loved listening to “A Pastor’s Perspective” when I was 7 tell I pastor Chuck Smith died. It was a similar concept but obviously it was a pastor answering life problems. I love the work and pray you continue with great health!!
I’m 31. I was never big into social media really at all, but in 2020 I officially deleted everything except for RUclips because I love watching videos like these, TikTok because it’s entertaining, and Snapchat. Although, I barley use Snapchat anymore and I kept FB messenger to stay in touch with extended family and friends. Actually, I forgot to download it on my newest phone I bought in December. Lol. Anyway, I never miss it and it’s been the best decision I’ve ever made. I never once regretted it and I encourage others to do the same. You really gave some great advice, Brett! I’m constantly taken aback by how intelligent and way ahead of your years you are. I find myself relating to you more often than not. To add to that one life advice question involving pregnancy and to echo what Brett already alluded to: If those friends aren’t there to support you during such an important chapter of your life, they aren’t worth losing sleep over. Yeah, it sucks. Believe me , we’ve all been there. But, they’ve shown you who they really are and you deserve friends who won’t abandon you for growing up and being responsible.
This is actually solid advice. I especially agree with the second question advice about purpose and work. You can keep passions and hobbies just hobbies but you also don’t want to hate your job just because it may be meaningful. Enjoy your work, find a career where you can find the purpose no matter how small that keeps you going day in day out. But keep your passions and hobbies out of your paycheck/job.
6:15 If the person asking about dating advice while in college is reading this, here's one suggestion. Buy her dinner. But how you ask. Call/submit an order at her fav restaurant or eatery of choice. Pay for it. Then either have it delivered or she can pick it up. When you're burdened by a 1000 things, a cooked meal is the last thing you want to put effort in to. And just feeding her is an act of taking care of her. Bonus points if you can do a video call date and have dinner together.
I am far outside the age demographic for this content, I think it was recommended because I watch other Daily Wire stuff, but it's refreshing to see this content. It's reassuring to know that no matter how heavily the scales seem to be weighted against conservatism in this culture war, there are young women like you with solid values and a well calibrated moral compass that can help guide and influence my kids. Thanks for this, keep up the great work.
Hey, just wanted to thank you Brett. I used to think I am something of an anarcho-syndicalist, but honestly, after watching your videos for about half a year maybe I now consider myself to be libertarian, so, thanks!
I agree with the pro life advice you gave. So in therapy, it's something I've had to learn as well. Essentially you just described setting boundaries, in the form of doing what you need to do to protect the child. And also, you can't control what others say or think about you, so when it comes to your friends and family with different beliefs, it will work itself out in the form of losing friends / family which do not support you or keeping / gaining friends of family which do support you. Your mother being your mother will always want a relationship with you and will come around once you're able to master these things as it shows her you're capable of being an adult. The other thing to look out for is "I told you so" moments, where persons who gave advice which you went against make you feel like you made a mistake. Look at it as you made a learning opportunity for yourself. If for instance you went against the advice and you succeeded within it, they would not have had that to say. We all make choices we wish we didn't but best to learn from them rather than ruminating over it. GL teen mom! You got this.
I hope the guy gets to see your advice about dating his girlfriend from afar while in college. You gave some great tips and advice for him to try. Too often I feel that couples who have been dating for several years look for more reasons not to be together instead of reasons to stay together. I can promise you young people the grass is not greener on the other side and relationships are alot of work but well worth the effort and definitely worth fighting for. I work in the elder care industry and so many couples that I meet are in their 70's up to even their 90's and have been married for 40-70 years and in this day and age you rarely see that anymore. Everyone wants the newer better model or latest version of everything in life yet that is not what will ultimately make you happy. Working hard to keep the person you fell in love with will ultimately bring you a much deeper love and connection than you ever thought possible. Never give up on keeping your family together. You will be healthier and so will your children. Thank you Brett for the fun Q&A!! You are amazing and wise beyond your years!! ❤
Brett, I absolutely love watching your content. I have a hard time watching Ben and the other older daily wire hosts because they're hard for me to relate to, so I'm so happy to find someone of my generation explaining this kinda stuff. (Also this may sound weird but your voice makes great background noise while I draw 😂)
Further advice to the student question about info retention, the idea that Brett referenced about "teaching" is central to the "See One-Do One-Teach One (SODOTO)" method of learning frequently used in healthcare professional degrees/training.
12:09 Paul (CarnivoreMD) actually ended up switching from a strictly carnivore diet to what he now likes to call an “animal based” diet. In addition to meat, organs, and butter, he also eats fruit and honey and consumes raw dairy. He avoids vegetables due to their defense chemicals. I’ve been following these principles for my own diet and I’ve gotta say - it works!
i just learned that you are younger than me and im shook lol in a good way. My younger sister turned me onto your videos more recently and said watch her youre gonna love her. You literally give me faith back into humanity for the even younger generations because they look up to you.
Honestly, these kinds of videos are cool. It's great to see some perspectives that aren't really something I completely understand or that I'm going through.
I love this video. It's great to see inside your brain and get some advice from someone who is more experienced.... keep up the great work, I absolutely love the content.
I suspect the last question was more of a svicidal "I didn't think I'd be alive rn so I didn't plan for the future and now I have nothing" type question rather than to do with a job/work. Thank you Brett and the team for the great video!
to the girl at 8:01, it’s hard in the beginning. my mom and dad were in the same situation when they had my brother. my grandpa was pissed. he refused to babysit my brother when he was super young. but trust me, they’ll warm up. by the time i was born we’d visit my moms parents often. 22 years after my brother was born, and we all hang out and talk, the anger has dissipated. as long as you keep growing with your future husband and work for your son, you’ll go a long way. don’t let your “friends” sway you and tell you your life is ruined. if my mom can finish high school, go to college with three kids on her hip, become a registered nurse and later a nurse practitioner, and my dad can establish his own business you and your husband are capable of the same and even greater. it’s hard work, but you can do it!
Yes! I always say understanding the things that you disagree with is so important to being able to effectively argue against it and it feels like so many people don’t do this. (This is kind of why I started watching your videos but I’m ending up agreeing with you more than I disagree)
@@Super.Aguacate Of course! As if Bret would directly message anyone in the comments. I feel bad for anyone who would fall for that. Cat fishers are pathetic.
@@TheDudeAbides95 Absolutely, I hate scammers with all my heart. It breaks my heart when I see an honest person is scammed. I am constantly learning about new scams and how to protect yourself... I dream with a world without scammers, without p.e.d.o.p.h., without thieves, etc.
@@Super.Aguacate It’s a fallen world. I doubt things like this will be fully eradicated. As a Christian I worry about the future. But there is hope, luckily we have people at the forefront of this mess. Like Bret and the rest of the people at the Daily Wire calling out the insanity we face in society.
@@TheDudeAbides95 DW is doing a great job. The good think is that is they are not the only one that is doing it. There are more people fighting against all this crap too in America and other countries. The important thing is that we (not famous people) also do things to help to the rest. For example, helping a neighbour, helping family members, participate on community proyects in neighborhoods, etc. Being an active person for a better society. If we want to survive to all this woke/corrupted/crazy world, We can't be selfish and don't care about the rest anymore.
I really like the point that you made where you said that if you can't get over someone's political party to be friends with them, then you shouldn't be friends. I have 3 best friends, 1 conservative like me, one leftist, and one who is still trying to find what they believe. I feel that it is so important to be able to accept that you can disagree with someone yet still be their friend.
Hearing Brett talk about working at Trader Joe’s, was very telling how she was raised . You really don’t see that today. I’m very impressed the more I learn about her . I hope more young people are like her and will follow her lead
Good stuff here Brett - and thank you! It's quite insightful to sit and learn from other's experiences, and to hear what you have to say. And, well done to those who share so willingly for the rest of us to learn from.
I really hope as a well-grounded 21 year old (well shocked thought you were older tbh) your parents are proud of the well-adjusted young lady that you have become. Btw your "comments section" makes you even more relatable to your followers, so keep it going 🙂🙂🙂
Solid advice given. Brett Cooper is quite the accomplished lady, and serves as an inspiration to everyone, both men and women, young and old. I do wish for her to achieve many more great things(Which I know she will), and hope she continues to remain as humble and grounded throughout. Since that is one of the most important things in life. Wonderful work, Brett.👍
I watch and you could easily be my grand child. You are a good example to the lost generations that have followed mine. We were already pretty messed up in my generation but now?!? We are puckered!
That’s so cool you worked at Trader Joe’s, lol, I’ve been there for 7 years and one thing I’ve learned, you gotta create your own purpose there because it can often times be a thankless job. You may not read this but if you do, did you run any sections or write any orders while you worked there? I’ve done quite a few myself. Thanks Brett.
Just found you, love your content! Sub'ed I seriously doubt im the first to say this, and it is a complement, but you look and speak so well, i thought you could be Ben's sister!
Im 14 and brett has been a great role model to me, and helps me stay sane in these crazy times :)
If you’re here, you’re on the right path 🤙🏻 good for you
I’m one year younger than you! And same
same age brett lovers! lets goo! :)
I am a similar age and I am grateful that there are other people as well - read and educated as I. Thanks for sharing guys!
Ah yes. Those are some… interesting…times. Stay safe out here.
It amazes me that she’s only 21!! She is so well grounded and really got it together!
She looks like 25! Maturity matters
She still seems like a child
We may have more of these intelligent people knowing that the left keep (sadly) killing their kids.
@@HBC423 no
@@HBC423 you sound like a child.
I love how Brett is so kind to everyone in her responses ❤
I try to be that way myself, very hard some times, especially online 😂 much respect ❤
Don’t be fooled, she’s not kind.
She’d rather have a gun in her hand than let kid’s go to school safe.
That is obvious.
To the young teen mom - just focus on being a good mother and your family and friends WILL come around. I promise.
And if her friends don't come around, no big loss. I have not kept with anyone from high school. Life changes, you change, you move away, you make new friends. Her family will definitely come around at some point. So nice to hear someone that is young handling a hard situation so maturely.
“Boredom is a choice.” That was such a good statement, very thought provoking! Thanks Brett
Thank you Brett for helping young teens like me, realize the truth. I used to be " woke" and now I know the truth. thanks
i second this! 23 now and finally thinking clearly
Same. Last easter, i was super woke and believed i was trans. I started watching brett and ben and now have new friends and a healthier lifestyle.
Tbh woke could mean a lot of things Matt Walsh thinks children knowing what consent is , is woke you don’t always have to be fully on one side
Same
I’m 23 years old and this is the first year I actually know where I stand in this world. Politically, morally, historically. I used to think I’m a feminist and the embarrassment I feel while I’m writing this is immense.
Even years ago I realized how uncomfortable I feel in this “leftist”, “liberal” role but now it’s clear as a day to me that I’m a conservative girl. We’re always RIGHT because we know the truth. We’re not WOKE, we’re AWAKENED.
We want this to be a series! Wise Brett is best Brett.
Its crazy how Brett is so well read and well rounded. Daily wire made such an amazing job in recruiting her
I cannot wait to watch Brett grow up and have a family ❤
How cool would it have been to have a name that a trillion other girls had?? 😂 I love the name “Brett” for a female.
To the teen mom- as a very young mum myself just wanted to let you know that when that baby is born it will all be worth it. All the embarrassment of your situation will disappear and suddenly it will just be you and your little man against the world. And you will be beyond grateful that lil boy is in your life, and struggle to imagine any different.
That's not to say it will be easy but it will also be your greatest achievement to life in give you this strange sense of purpose that connects you to millions of women before you.
Welcome to the club girl. The tough moments will test you but the sweet moments will keep you going.
Also important point to make, remember that just because "you got yourself into this" doesn't mean that you aren't entitled to the help and resources any first time mum would. Don't be afraid to ask for help from others. Another important point that will help you in your new motherhood journey is making sure you continue to make time regularly for one of your favourite hobbies and past times. Remember that just because your a mum now doesn't mean you have to dedicate your entire identity to being a mum. You are still a young woman also with your own likes and dislikes. Try to find that balance of still being yourself but also being a mother to this new person.
This is beautiful. I hope she sees it! 😊
That was so good!! Praying she see it!
We need more common sense people like Brett Cooper in this world
Holy fk, man. Commenting on YT videos is like a full time job for you 😂
Same turtle
@@floridasoldat it’s a bot
@@Teeterto is it though? I’ve seen them on a few political/military channels I follow commenting some fairly opinionated things that don’t seem to be copied from anywhere. You could be right, just hasn’t seemed like it to me.
This guy is everywhere with his generic comments.
I’m 16 and seeing someone like Brett Cooper literally speak out exactly what’s been going through my mind is just so great. A great role model to keep me sane in this insane world.
Girl who is having baby. We support and love you. I can not express how much I am cheering you on. Please reach out to local mamas, and grandmas. Find a local church. Explain your situation. They want to help.
I Appreciate your comments and love towards this post ❤️,will still love to hear more of your thoughts 🌩️so make sure to give me a message-👆..
I definitely agree in the "Purpose vs Passion" question. I work in a warehouse and i make a pretty decent living. I earn quite well but the job is not fulfilling or meaningful in and of itself but I do draw satisfaction from both being active and contributing my small part to the cogs of society moving forward. Even a "boring" job helps to boost me up in many different aspects and i think its important to learn and force yourself to do things you dont really wanna do.
Thank you. We all benefit from your contribution to our economy.
This is so underrated. My husband working a factory job lets me focus on homeschooling. That's really meaningful for us. He also has really engaging hobbies.
Yes! We need people doing all the little parts of society and it is definitely meaningful if only for that reason, or like another commenter said, because it let's you and your family do other meaningful things. We all are a part of our little communities and that is the real way we make a difference.
So insightful, Brett! Please do put it on your community post as well for those of us who don't have Instagram!
Brett Cooper! As someone roughly the same age as you, I gotta say thanks for giving me hope in the rest of our generation. I’m glad there are others outside my immediate circle that share a such a similar outlook with the issues facing our world today. You use your platform in such a positive way and you’ll have my support for a long time to come!
I’m extremely thankful for my dad. He told me that he would never let me have snap because of what goes on there. My sister and all my friends have it, which makes me jealous and left out of my friend group, but I’m thankful I’m not addicted to that app like everyone else is.
I’m a bit older, but even in my generation parents were already wanting to be “friends” with their kids and not say no. My parents were that way, but luckily there wasn’t as much dangerous stuff and no internet. I guess I woulda figured we’d learn lessons from that in my generation, but no way, it’s gotten WAY worse. Especially with trans stuff etc, all of a sudden these kids are fully functioning adults who are capable of deciding to butcher their bodies.
I see so many people using snapchat every day, and I really feel bad for them because it is such a massive waste of time.
For the young mom question… I was in your exact situation! I got pregnant at 17 YO. My husband and I decided to get married. We had very little support. My best friend tried to talk me out of the marriage and into adoption the night before our wedding. Our relationship never fully recovered. My parents very very cautiously supported us. They had a lot of doubts. The rest of our family thought we were crazy. I lost all of my friends. DO IT ANYWAY!!! We have been married for 10 years now and it’s the best decision I ever made! The first few years were tough as a young mom because I found it really hard to make mom friends because I was at least 5-10 years younger than everyone. Eventually I found my people. ❤️ You got this! And in case no one else has told you, CONGRATULATIONS on your son AND your marriage! I’m celebrating with you from afar!
"A lot of growth is really, really uncomfortable and not fun but it makes you a better person, it makes you a stronger person."
Brett said this completely impromptu and I think it's something a lot of people need to hear.
I think this should definitely be a series, Brett: It’s a way of reaching out to your audience and building a rapport with them. I feel like this is quite reminiscent of the old TV shows there used to be where people would call in live and they would be able to talk to the host of the show. Perhaps something like that could be fun too!
Brett, I am a Brazilian Subscriber with a limited English vocabulary but I try my best to write you good compliments. I think you are a Beautiful, smart, talented, and very charismatic young lady.
I was born and raised in Portugal, I’ve lived in England for the past 5 years and I think your English is pretty good! Mandou bem 😉
Brett could you do videos on what it means to be a conservative young woman growing in this society? I have two young daughters, they way you convey information I think could really reach the youth. I hope you see this 💙 Thank you and The Daily Wire for the work you do 🤙🏻💯
I’m 18 and would like this very much! Great idea :)
Have your parents on as guests sometime, I wanna meet the people who raised this brilliant young woman.
This is a great idea. Can't wait to see more of it in future videos
As a young mom myself, there is nothing more toxic than teen moms! They generally have loose morals and shame other moms behind their backs (little girl drama). Find “veteran moms” or older moms with more experience/mature, rather than little girls who encourage you to stay childish.
.....meanwhile the tr@nny reading your comment, planning "HER" next elementary school strip tease show and drinkin bud light says..."HOLD MY BEER GIRLS..."
Find a local MOPS group, meet mom friends who value motherhood!
This was great! Solid advice given, and this is coming from someone who has children older than you. 😅 Definitely should make this a regular thing (along with doing a video with Candace every month or so, I had so much fun watching you two on her channel the other day. ❤Nice change of pace from the guys' Backstage which is SO political all the time).
Brett, I am 68 years old (oh god, really?!?), but in my head I feel 21. You have such a great head on your shoulders and I really like listening to you. Although your answers were “on the fly”, you gave some really sound advice. Keep being real. I appreciate you.
People like you give me hope in the mankind.❤
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Great advice, in just a year you’ve become one of the best channels on RUclips.
As someone who had a baby at 17 and married the father, it's hard but you can make it work! Prioritize your child and the family you've built and your parents and the people that love you will see and respect that effort. It will take some time, but having a child isn't the end of your life, even if it means a slightly premature ending of your own childhood. My daughter is 9, and I honestly can't picture my life without her in it 💜
I LOVE your take on finding passion in serving a purpose, even if that purpose is comparatively small. I've always honestly loved working in food service, from waiting tables to just working the drive thru window at a fast food place. People make fun of me for it, ask when I'm going to get a "real job," but I genuinely always loved what I do. I can't picture myself doing any other kind of paid work, and I've tried working in other industries. My main priority is taking care of my two small children, and I love the flexibility that comes with food service (I can be with my kids all day, and just work a couple hours in the evening). I love spreading positivity to other people by serving them their food and drinks with a smile, and taking care of any issues they may have. It's a small way to make an impact and serve your community but it genuinely makes me happy. Hearing you talk about your experience at Trader Joe's made me feel less alone, so thank you!
@Gina DalPezzo. I went through a period when going out to eat was a once in a great while treat, even at the cheapest place. It made a real difference when the service was friendly. Then a treat became a very nice experience. Your attitude towards your job and customers are a credit to you. Thank you
That last question hit me home, but my situation turns out to not be about me. I never thought I'd reach the point of being a homeowner, married, successful, and now a father. And that last one there, answers that question of "What do I do with my life?" Well, it's not about what to do with my life, but what do I do with the life of my family, which is now growing and in turn helps me grow further. Awesome video and great advices!
To pregnant teen, my love and prayers to you on this journey. I strongly believe you will never regret giving life to the unexpected blessing that comes from an unplanned pregnancy.
My youngest, we didn't plan on having another. We were both surprised and it took time to get excited, but he's added so much to our lives and i can't imagine not having him. He's my crazy little man, and was actually born on my birthday. He just turned 5 the day before Easter.
Keep on, lean into the ones that are there with you and build you up. Sadly, those that don't, you don't owe them. Keep on, keep strong, and so excited for you!!❤❤
One of my favroite things to do when I read books especially in school is to write on sticky notes about important characters, dates, locations, or events and stick them in between pages of books especially if I have to locate the infomation later.
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Hello Brett!! Huge fan 😁 love the video currently watching it!!❤
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The girl at 8:00 is such an incredible young woman. I’m so happy to hear that she’s keeping her child instead of buying into the lies of modern day feminism and dating culture. I know it’s anonymous, but whoever you are, I’M PROUD OF YOU!
It’s understanding vs. memory. Once you understand (like the big subjects you reference), then it’s with you forever.
I am thrilled to see you doing this Brett! You give some great advice!
For the 17yo about marriage. I moved 9 hours from home and got married at 18, we got pregnant the next year. It was HARD, extremely hard. My parents did not support it in the beginning but I did what I wanted. They grew to accept it and love my husband. We're still married 22 years later and happier than ever. So I suggest, do what she thinks is best and what will make her happy. The rest will fall into place over time
For the young girl that is pregnant, her mom might be upset with her now while she is pregnant, but I can guarantee that the first time her mom holds that baby boy, all her anger and upset she has currently will fade away in an instant and she will do everything for that baby boy like she has done for you, your entire life and she will now also want to protect him too. I have given this same advice to friends that have had their teenagers get pregnant and everyone has called me afterwards and told me that I was right, all their anger melted the second they looked that baby in the face and that they thought that they loved their kids with everything, but that love didnt even compare to the love they have for their grandchild. I am sending you all the positive vibes and goodluck and just remember, just because you are having a baby together with your boyfriend, you do not have to get married at such a young age either, living together and raising your son together and just showing him a loving relationship and home environment is more important than that title and piece of paper are. You can always get married in a few years when youre a little older and know yourself better. A new marriage and a newborn are not the perfect combination, because that newborn stage tests a relationship more than i believe anything else does and this is from a woman that put her husband on a plane to the middle east when my oldest was only 10 days old and then when he returned home 11 months later, I was pregnant again within 3 months and even though it was our second child together, it was the first time we went through those first few months of a newborn together and it honestly tested our marriage more than the army or any of his deployments did. I was against getting married even though I was pregnant and my husband made me promise him that if he got orders that he was going to deploy I had to marry him. We were not teens though, I was 24 and he was 28 when we got married, so I jokingly agreed because in my heart I didnt want that phone call to come ever but I knew dating someone in the army especially the job he did there was a very big chance it was going to happen and it would be sooner rather than later due to the main surge. Well it was early March so I was right about 3 months pregnant when that call came in at 6am on a Sunday morning. I was still living at home with my parents at this point and my now husband was staying there with me since I had been pregnant and I got up and ran downstairs screaming and crying and my poor mom thought I was having a miscarriage and I couldnt get out what I was even trying to tell her, but she was also trying to get me calmed down because I have seizures and stress and things like that trigger them and thats the last thing you want to have when pregnant because it can stop oxygen to the baby. Thankfully my husband came running down after me and explained to my mom what was going on which only made things worse because she is dramatic. Thankfully my husband got me calmed down and then we had to figure out a plan to go tell his parents because that was the hardest part breaking that news to his mom, because he was definitely a momma's boy and just as much as he was the light of her life, she was the light of his and I loved watching the love they had for each other and it showed me the love I wanted between my sons and myself and I think thats what i have, but I am sure if you ask them, they will tell you I am weird and a pain in their asses but that they love me. Thats the joys of teenagers that you have to look forward to, but just know those toddler years are the ones that will show you how strong of a woman you truly are.
Hey I love this idea!!! When I was 7 I loved listening to “A Pastor’s Perspective” when I was 7 tell I pastor Chuck Smith died. It was a similar concept but obviously it was a pastor answering life problems.
I love the work and pray you continue with great health!!
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I love this format ❤
I’m 31. I was never big into social media really at all, but in 2020 I officially deleted everything except for RUclips because I love watching videos like these, TikTok because it’s entertaining, and Snapchat. Although, I barley use Snapchat anymore and I kept FB messenger to stay in touch with extended family and friends. Actually, I forgot to download it on my newest phone I bought in December. Lol. Anyway, I never miss it and it’s been the best decision I’ve ever made. I never once regretted it and I encourage others to do the same. You really gave some great advice, Brett! I’m constantly taken aback by how intelligent and way ahead of your years you are. I find myself relating to you more often than not. To add to that one life advice question involving pregnancy and to echo what Brett already alluded to: If those friends aren’t there to support you during such an important chapter of your life, they aren’t worth losing sleep over. Yeah, it sucks. Believe me , we’ve all been there. But, they’ve shown you who they really are and you deserve friends who won’t abandon you for growing up and being responsible.
It’s really cool seeing a talented young woman that thoughtful. Will be interesting to see what Brett will achieve within her next 20 years.
This is actually solid advice. I especially agree with the second question advice about purpose and work. You can keep passions and hobbies just hobbies but you also don’t want to hate your job just because it may be meaningful. Enjoy your work, find a career where you can find the purpose no matter how small that keeps you going day in day out. But keep your passions and hobbies out of your paycheck/job.
saying Dylan Mulvaney is a real woman is like saying Pinocchio was a real boy
In times like this, Pinocchio might even be black as well for some reason
Excellent comparison. Thank you.
He did turn into a real boy in the end though so that's a bad example.
@@SicketMog to fix it it’s like saying Pinocchio was a real boy the entire time (Is that better? I have no idea I never watched the movie myself)
@@SicketMog I agree it's a bad example but Pinocchio turn into a real boy due to magic. And magic is the only way Dylan will ever be a real woman.
Literally love Brett’s videos
6:15 If the person asking about dating advice while in college is reading this, here's one suggestion. Buy her dinner. But how you ask. Call/submit an order at her fav restaurant or eatery of choice. Pay for it. Then either have it delivered or she can pick it up. When you're burdened by a 1000 things, a cooked meal is the last thing you want to put effort in to. And just feeding her is an act of taking care of her. Bonus points if you can do a video call date and have dinner together.
Love your Q&As! I hope I can catch the next one❤
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I am far outside the age demographic for this content, I think it was recommended because I watch other Daily Wire stuff, but it's refreshing to see this content. It's reassuring to know that no matter how heavily the scales seem to be weighted against conservatism in this culture war, there are young women like you with solid values and a well calibrated moral compass that can help guide and influence my kids. Thanks for this, keep up the great work.
When you said that, you don’t have to make a career out of all your hobbies,
I really needed to hear that, thank you so much❤
You have such a good head on your shoulders Brett! Amazing advice! You're so kind and honest. Love it
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Hey, just wanted to thank you Brett. I used to think I am something of an anarcho-syndicalist, but honestly, after watching your videos for about half a year maybe I now consider myself to be libertarian, so, thanks!
Keep doing these kind of videos. It’s great to hear advice from someone with common sense.
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I agree with the pro life advice you gave. So in therapy, it's something I've had to learn as well. Essentially you just described setting boundaries, in the form of doing what you need to do to protect the child. And also, you can't control what others say or think about you, so when it comes to your friends and family with different beliefs, it will work itself out in the form of losing friends / family which do not support you or keeping / gaining friends of family which do support you. Your mother being your mother will always want a relationship with you and will come around once you're able to master these things as it shows her you're capable of being an adult.
The other thing to look out for is "I told you so" moments, where persons who gave advice which you went against make you feel like you made a mistake. Look at it as you made a learning opportunity for yourself. If for instance you went against the advice and you succeeded within it, they would not have had that to say. We all make choices we wish we didn't but best to learn from them rather than ruminating over it.
GL teen mom! You got this.
HOW is Brett so wise at such a young age?
Crazy!
I hope the guy gets to see your advice about dating his girlfriend from afar while in college. You gave some great tips and advice for him to try. Too often I feel that couples who have been dating for several years look for more reasons not to be together instead of reasons to stay together. I can promise you young people the grass is not greener on the other side and relationships are alot of work but well worth the effort and definitely worth fighting for. I work in the elder care industry and so many couples that I meet are in their 70's up to even their 90's and have been married for 40-70 years and in this day and age you rarely see that anymore. Everyone wants the newer better model or latest version of everything in life yet that is not what will ultimately make you happy. Working hard to keep the person you fell in love with will ultimately bring you a much deeper love and connection than you ever thought possible. Never give up on keeping your family together. You will be healthier and so will your children. Thank you Brett for the fun Q&A!! You are amazing and wise beyond your years!! ❤
Brett, I absolutely love watching your content. I have a hard time watching Ben and the other older daily wire hosts because they're hard for me to relate to, so I'm so happy to find someone of my generation explaining this kinda stuff. (Also this may sound weird but your voice makes great background noise while I draw 😂)
I agree with that belief 5:42 . We shouldn't stay away from things we do not agree with. We all should try to understand it more.
Further advice to the student question about info retention, the idea that Brett referenced about "teaching" is central to the "See One-Do One-Teach One (SODOTO)" method of learning frequently used in healthcare professional degrees/training.
12:09 Paul (CarnivoreMD) actually ended up switching from a strictly carnivore diet to what he now likes to call an “animal based” diet. In addition to meat, organs, and butter, he also eats fruit and honey and consumes raw dairy. He avoids vegetables due to their defense chemicals. I’ve been following these principles for my own diet and I’ve gotta say - it works!
i just learned that you are younger than me and im shook lol in a good way. My younger sister turned me onto your videos more recently and said watch her youre gonna love her. You literally give me faith back into humanity for the even younger generations because they look up to you.
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MORE OF THESE VIDEOS PLEASE BRETT! ❤❤
How does a girl of her age become so wise? Amazing parents!
I don't know why but seeing this woman happy makes me feel good, love the vids keep up the good work
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I love this segment! Your advice is great! Looking forward to seeing more of this.
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I would love to see more of these. I definitely have some questions I'd like to ask.
Honestly, these kinds of videos are cool. It's great to see some perspectives that aren't really something I completely understand or that I'm going through.
I love this video. It's great to see inside your brain and get some advice from someone who is more experienced.... keep up the great work, I absolutely love the content.
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I suspect the last question was more of a svicidal "I didn't think I'd be alive rn so I didn't plan for the future and now I have nothing" type question rather than to do with a job/work. Thank you Brett and the team for the great video!
to the girl at 8:01, it’s hard in the beginning. my mom and dad were in the same situation when they had my brother. my grandpa was pissed. he refused to babysit my brother when he was super young. but trust me, they’ll warm up. by the time i was born we’d visit my moms parents often. 22 years after my brother was born, and we all hang out and talk, the anger has dissipated. as long as you keep growing with your future husband and work for your son, you’ll go a long way. don’t let your “friends” sway you and tell you your life is ruined. if my mom can finish high school, go to college with three kids on her hip, become a registered nurse and later a nurse practitioner, and my dad can establish his own business you and your husband are capable of the same and even greater. it’s hard work, but you can do it!
Well this Brest Cooper, programme makes me happy support and healthy advice to Young Adults
Yes! I always say understanding the things that you disagree with is so important to being able to effectively argue against it and it feels like so many people don’t do this. (This is kind of why I started watching your videos but I’m ending up agreeing with you more than I disagree)
amazing advice! :) very smart and reasonable, wish more people were like brett
Wow! I'm 42 years old, and I feel like I need to hear more advice from Brett.
Your level of maturity amazes me.👍🏻
It amazes me too and the previous comment is from a scammer writting the same to every single person here.
@@Super.Aguacate Of course! As if Bret would directly message anyone in the comments. I feel bad for anyone who would fall for that. Cat fishers are pathetic.
@@TheDudeAbides95 Absolutely, I hate scammers with all my heart. It breaks my heart when I see an honest person is scammed. I am constantly learning about new scams and how to protect yourself... I dream with a world without scammers, without p.e.d.o.p.h., without thieves, etc.
@@Super.Aguacate It’s a fallen world. I doubt things like this will be fully eradicated. As a Christian I worry about the future. But there is hope, luckily we have people at the forefront of this mess. Like Bret and the rest of the people at the Daily Wire calling out the insanity we face in society.
@@TheDudeAbides95 DW is doing a great job. The good think is that is they are not the only one that is doing it. There are more people fighting against all this crap too in America and other countries. The important thing is that we (not famous people) also do things to help to the rest. For example, helping a neighbour, helping family members, participate on community proyects in neighborhoods, etc. Being an active person for a better society. If we want to survive to all this woke/corrupted/crazy world, We can't be selfish and don't care about the rest anymore.
"We remember more by writing it down."
Excellent info. Yes, it's scientifically demonstrated in many, many studies. Great info!
Great advise for the mother to be at 17. Too many take the "easy" way out. Good for you and good for her. Great job!
I liked this. Thanks can’t wait to see a part 2
I really like the point that you made where you said that if you can't get over someone's political party to be friends with them, then you shouldn't be friends. I have 3 best friends, 1 conservative like me, one leftist, and one who is still trying to find what they believe. I feel that it is so important to be able to accept that you can disagree with someone yet still be their friend.
Hearing Brett talk about working at Trader Joe’s, was very telling how she was raised . You really don’t see that today. I’m very impressed the more I learn about her . I hope more young people are like her and will follow her lead
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this was so much fun!!! i'd love to get another episode of this (or an entire series!)
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Good stuff here Brett - and thank you! It's quite insightful to sit and learn from other's experiences, and to hear what you have to say. And, well done to those who share so willingly for the rest of us to learn from.
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I really hope as a well-grounded 21 year old (well shocked thought you were older tbh) your parents are proud of the well-adjusted young lady that you have become.
Btw your "comments section" makes you even more relatable to your followers, so keep it going 🙂🙂🙂
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Yay! I get to watch an episode early!!
I'm 14 and until i found Brett i was super woke. Glad i Discovered her!
Solid advice given. Brett Cooper is quite the accomplished lady, and serves as an inspiration to everyone, both men and women, young and old. I do wish for her to achieve many more great things(Which I know she will), and hope she continues to remain as humble and grounded throughout. Since that is one of the most important things in life. Wonderful work, Brett.👍
She’s wise beyond her years is Brett. God bless you kid keep it up
I watch and you could easily be my grand child. You are a good example to the lost generations that have followed mine. We were already pretty messed up in my generation but now?!? We are puckered!
Great video, Brett! Please do more of these because that was really fun. :)
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3:35 you are now my favorite youtuber ever. a smart person who did ballet? my two fav things mixed together
Need more of this!
This is a dope idea to do. I hope this becomes a regular thing. Keep up the good work Brett. ✌️
That’s so cool you worked at Trader Joe’s, lol, I’ve been there for 7 years and one thing I’ve learned, you gotta create your own purpose there because it can often times be a thankless job. You may not read this but if you do, did you run any sections or write any orders while you worked there? I’ve done quite a few myself. Thanks Brett.
Plz keep doing questions and answers it actually helped with one of mine.
Love your off the clock videos
Just found you, love your content! Sub'ed I seriously doubt im the first to say this, and it is a complement, but you look and speak so well, i thought you could be Ben's sister!
Love that you shouted out Alex Clark from poplitics. Her podcast with really tan man exposed me to the dangers of seed oils 💯
I am 13 and i love watching these videos, brett is such an amazing person and I wish to be like her when Im older
If you turn out like Brett, that is a good thing.
I Love Brett Cooper ❤
I loved all the advices. Can't wait for the next Q&A. Instead of only once every month, I'd love it to be twice at least haha Much love Brett
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