The meltdowns are very transparent . It actually makes you more relatable . I felt you when you let out that overwhelming breath when they were crying . Girl you’re an outstanding mother !!!! I’ve learned a lot on this channel . Thanks 🥰
@@marissathomas9327 thats exactly what i said. Some youtubers seem too perfect its such a high standard to live up to perfect. She is so relatable and real
شكرا لانك عرضتي الجانب السلبي من يومك ياريت دائما تعرضيه لان كنت اشوف حياتك مثالية لكن هي تشبه حياتنا فيها فوضى ونوبات غضب احييكي على صبرك انتم تتحملون اكثر من عدنه هم أطفال صغار وجرو بالبيت وانتي صبورة وغير عصبية 👍👍👍🌸🌺👏😘
Totally understsnd what you ment about adam being out the house, im way more productive when im alone because there is no one to rely on so u just get it done!
I agree! My husband stayed home for two weeks after I had my second baby and I thought I was going to struggle a lot with two but I just adapted to the I HAVE TO DO IT mindset and I just do it. Same goes with going shopping or going anywhere with two it’s such a transition but we are SUPER moms when it comes to raising our kids and no one should have the right to judge or question parenting traits as long as your children are safe tantrums and meltdowns are a part of a child’s development it’s hard when people judge you because your kids meltdown in public as if you wanted that to happen?? I’m learning so much and it’s so nice to connect with other moms.
Felt huge relief and less frustration after my divorce!! LOL. Much easier to do it myself than hope he helps and then be frustrated when he doesn’t. Not suggesting anything here. Haha
@@ashleycogan4000 me too, he just wants to chill and relax but then when he goes back to work I'm stuck with all the aftermath lol so I prefer to stay on track him at work me at home maintaining it "clean"
Giiiirrrrl, I can relate to what you were taking about at he end SOOOO much, lol. When my husband is at home, I expect him to pitch in, don’t get me wrong, he definitely does, but not always as much as I’d like or he doesn’t do things the way I do them, so I get annoyed. On one hand, I like having his help, but on the other hand, it’s easier when I just do everything myself so that things get done right the first time.
These are my favorite types of vlogs! ❤️ Meltdowns and all, this is so relatable with me (A stay at home mama of 3 with a hubby who works long hours!) thank you for the real honest content! I love every minute of it! It makes me feel like I’m not alone when I have hard times with the craziness of raising 3 kids! Love your channel Tara!
You’re such a great mom Tara! I totally agree about not showing the meltdowns.. we all know kids do that. It’s normal and like you said we don’t need to blast it on the internet. 💕
The Brin Fam it’s still good for other parents (mothers especially) to see that they aren’t alone, it’s not fair to paint a perfect picture on the internet either, real life is just that, REAL, and people appreciate the honesty and can relate to it so much more
I appreciate how real and raw this is. Especially the morning frenzy with toddlers and a newborn. Shay throwing her breakfast on the floor and you needing to nurse Grayson right before leaving is literally my life.
Have you thought about taking the girls to the library? Perhaps borrowing books will help them to understand respecting books and they will adopt that mindset for at home.
Completely relate! It’s nice having your other half home to help with the children and housework etc but also nice to have your own routine with the kids when they go to work. You inspire me so much for my content on my channel ❤️
Thank you for not showing your kids meltdowns. It’s not right. I’ve unsubscribed from a lot of RUclips moms for showing too much. There’s a fine line that some people cross over where it just becomes pure exploitation. I respect that! Thank you.
What you said at the end totally resonated with me... When my partner is home, I almost feel resentment when he is here and doesn't realize he could be doing ALL OF THE THINGS (however my reasonable side knows I should give him grace because he doesn't have the maximum efficiency mom mode we have). Good job, Tara. You're awesome!
I love how well you explained why you don’t show your children’s most vulnerable times during meltdowns to the entire world ❤️ I avoid taking pictures or videos of mine during those times as well. It’s just not something I feel is right for me to do to them. I think a lot of people in today’s world of social media and the internet forget that the small moments in time they see of a family’s life are just that, small moments... not every moment. They are short, curated pieces of their day that they want to share. I have certain family member who always ask how my kids are so “perfect” also, then act shocked when I say that my 2.5 old has been almost in a constant meltdown state for the past 4 months. It’s just not something I want to share when I know she’s having a rough time already. Also, we LOVE Biscuit books and those word puzzles. My son was a super early reader and is now reading around a 3rd grade level in 1st grade. Making learning fun is such a wonderful thing. As far as trying to encourage a little one not to tear books up, we’ve really just always encouraged them to respect the books so they can read them for longer and to use gentle hands. Little hands can have such a hard time grabbing pages to turn and remembering not to be too rough when they’re excited :)
Tara!! I don’t know how you do so much! The idea of loading up a newborn and 2 toddlers alone into the car every morning is overwhelming. You handle it like a boss and are inspiring. Kids will be kids. Tantrums are normal! You seem to remain calm and handle it well. You’re doing a great job, and the kids are so beautiful, smart and well loved. I’m always impressed with Bailey and how much she knows and can do. Enjoy these crazy moments.
This has got to be my favourite RUclips video I’ve ever watched. So real and honest yet not something your kids will look back on and cringe, they’ll just laugh. I loved this vlog! Oh and I seen other comments suggesting visiting a library and borrowing books, I’d love to see your local library! As a library employee, don’t worry about your kids possibly damaging books, so many come back damaged and ruined it’s not a big deal, especially for children’s material. Love your family! ❤️
You are one amazing Mother. You did so great...2 toddlers,newborn and a puppy.....cleaning,feeding, cooking, school trips...shopping and you did a face mask. All without letting it get to much or loosing it. I hardly cope with 2 boys and 3 dogs. You're my motivation and inspiration. Just love you to bits🤗💗
I love that you showed a small clip of your babies and the speech you gave with it, we all know the struggle and we all respect that 100% 😊 Just writing to say you're doing an AMAZING job momma! 💪❤
Yes girl I completely get what you’re saying about being by yourself! That’s how I am too and I find that I am much more productive and have less anxiety/stress when I’m taking care of all three kids without someone else to help. Glad I’m not the only one who feels like it’s embarrassing to the kids to show tantrums, they deserve their privacy too. Much love from one momma to another! ♥️
My 2 year old also has her meltdowns everyday. You share what you choose to and we all appreciate it. You're a perfect mum to your kids thats what matters I know how you feel when your partner isn't home. Mine works long hours.
I’m so glad you shared that at the end talking about being more productive when your husband isn’t home....I thought I was the only one but it’s almost like I’m more anxious when he’s around the whole day. It just feels so much smoother with my baby at home. You’re such a good momma and very inspiring!!
I completely understand what you mean about being solo for the day vs having someone there. It’s just a mindset that you know you are responsible for everything so you end of being as productive as possible to make sure everything runs smoothly. And no expectations of someone else means no fighting. I know just with one child I get in the mindset. I expect my boyfriend to do certain things and then we argue but if he wasn’t home, I would have just done it myself anyway 😂 but that doesn’t mean when he is home, he can just relax haha
اتمنى لو يرجع فيني الوقت يوم كانووالدي صغارومشغوله فيهم على طول هالحين كبرووكل واحد راح في حال سبيله وانا بعد وفاة زوجي الله يغفرله جالسه لحالي اتمنى احد يزورني او اطلع معهم فسحه الله المستعان احبك بنتي تاراومعجبه فيك وفي اطفالك الحلوين حياتك متعبه بس جميله مافيها ملل ماشاءالله🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺
حبيبتي أثرت فيني .أقسم والله العضيم إذا كنت في نفس البلاد اللي أنا فيه لكنت صرت أمي و أزورك وتزورني و تكوني أحلى جدة لأولادي و الله كلامي من القلب . أنا أعرف الوحدة صعبة جدا ولكن إيماني بالله عز وجل أعطاني القوة و أولادي زينو حياتي الحمد لله على كل حال . أتمنى لك السعادة و الهناء بالقرب من الله عز و جل
A 28 min video from Tara?! 🙌Yes Please!! Baby Gray looks so much better! Yay to happy babies!! My baby is 3 months old and is a total thumb and fist sucker
As Chloe gets older and taller you should look in to an elevated bowl for her so along the line she doesn’t have any neck issues. I learned that the hard way with my chocolate Labrador.Just my opinion but it’ll be a good thing to think about💕
This was a much needed video!! I understand you not wanting to show the meltdowns BUT it is so much more relatable when you do. No one expects you to show it daily but it makes it seem more real. And I love the activity book and the puzzle you had out for the girls I may have to snag one for my kiddos! 💕 Much love Tara!
Girl, I feel you on it being harder when you’re SO is home. My fiancé tells me that I need to tell him what needs to be done and I feel like I shouldn’t have to tell him, that is should be common sense what needs to be done. During the week my daughter and I have a schedule and on the weekend it’s just more stressful. I appreciate you talking about that, it’s nice knowing I’m not alone feeling like that!
i love that you just showed a snippet of the behind the scenes of the vlogs and what we don't always see. ppl need to realize that we are all human and just because we dont show the meltdowns and tantrums doesn't mean it doesnt happen. im glad you dont show too much of when the kids are in a not so good mood, you have a great balance of your life in your videos. its perfect! love you tara 💕 same!!! when my husband is home i dont complete the tasks i normally would tackle when he's not home & sometimes i get annoyed too bc i expect too when my husband is home. idk its difficult to explain, lol i think its us organized, get ish done moms 😂
Your such a great momma. Keep it up girl. Love the girls and Grayson so much. Love seeing yalls days. I totally get why you don’t share the meltdowns but don’t feel like your blasting their “bad” behavior. Who cares if and when they have a tantrum. Your not perfect nor do you try to be. Your just like every other beautiful hard working momma. So proud of the mom you are Tara. Your such an inspiration love. God bless your entire family.
Yessss, I feel the same with my husband, when he is home is expect him to do something and if he doesn't I get very frustrated 😂😂 I think we all go through that, love you Tara and your family 😉😉
I can totally relate with the whole getting it done when you're by yourself with the kids. When the hubby's home I tend to expect things from him that often don't get met and only adds to my frustration. You are doing amazing though, girl! We are literally in the same situation (except the dog part, and my baby's about a month older), and I remember feeling so overwhelmed and almost always on the verge of tears when my husband went back to work from paternity leave. You are one freakin strong mama!! I love watching your vlogs. Love from the island of Guam 💛💛💛
I'm so glad you said that about being solo and having your spouse not at home. I relate so much and feel the same. It's like I feel more normal, such a hard thing to explain.
I know what you mean about having your spouse home, i get more laxy daisy too lol its nice to get your motivation back and get back in the swing of things.
Girl I completely understand the feeling of it being a little easier getting things done when your spouse is out of the house! My husband is a Boilermaker and works crazy hours so when it’s just my girls and I we have a routine down to get things done. When he’s home, I expect him to do some of the house chores or whatever it may be, then when it doesn’t happen I get frustrated. Yes it’s great when they are there but I know the feeling of motivation to get it all done when you’re the only one to do it. Love you girl and your vlogs are the best 💕💕💕
I totally understand where you're coming from!! I am the same exact way when hubby is out of the house lol you're doing a wonderful job Tara I love you all so very much!! ♥️
I love you and your family! You’re such a good mom and I admire you so much! Love how real with us you are and how down to earth you are! my wish for the world is that more people have open minds to accept the reality in peoples lives in what is chosen to be shown.
Bailey’s face when everyone was losing it 😂😂😂 she was like “seriously?!?!” Girl I feel ya. Having a speech delayed 2 year old I totally feel ya. She loses it at least 3 times a day.
You are such an incredible Mother. As a mom of 3 and Grandma of a 2 year old really appreciate what you share with us. It is not easy and they will have tantrums just like we did when we were kids 🤦 give yourself a pat on the back for all you do Tara ❤️
You might want to check out both Instacart and Shipt for grocery Shopping and delivery. I get Target purchases from Shipt. I think you do a great job in showing the good and the challenging in day to day life. I think you are amazing at handling the chaos and such a patient mom. Because you are organized you’re able to get things done. I am working toward being more organized and you are my role model for that. I love your channel. ❤️❤️❤️
Love you Tara! You and Adam have made a beautiful family and you’re such an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your life through the good AND THE BAD! Just wanted to give some love 💕
Hey tara u r such a brave mom to show the tantrums n realities of raising the kids a pooch and a new born all alone with all house hold chores.... No one talks about all these challenges along... Thanks for encouraging nad showing n proving it again n again that a mother can do everything all by her self.... God bless ur family... Amen
One reason why i cant stop watching you is that youre so good to be one true momma...the patience is there and i salute you Tara..God bless you and your family..
The way you do Baylee’s bun is the way I do my daughters buns, especially when we are in a rush it saves so much time every time I do it for them. & oh my goodness I know exactly what you mean about getting back into a routine, I’m always so nervous for change, like after I had my son I didn’t want my husband to leave back to work but I had to get into a routine with all 4 of my kiddos.
Thank you so much for your honesty. It’s so hard to find a middle ground when you see the PICTURE PERFECT lives you tubers portray and it makes it so hard to feel accomplished. I’m literally watching your video and typing this and folding laundry but I just had my second baby boy June 28th so seeing your newborn journey with a toddler like shay because my first baby is 14 months old it has been very nice to relate to a mom whose going through it. Your an amazing role model and I just want to say thank you for just being real and for putting your family first. It’s so hard to take care of everything and still feel like your not doing enough but again it’s nice to be able to connect on a real level. I started my channel a year ago when I had my first baby and I became so discouraged because I wasn’t able to do videos like everyone else and still take care of my baby now I have two and I guess I’ve just been trying to find time which I will never have again and maybe I just need to share what I’ve learned just like you are. It’s not always perfect but I know you’ve helped me get through it so I want to do the same. THANKS A MILLION! You deserve all the good things in your life. 💐
This is one of the best and most realistic vlogs I’ve seen lately. You are so right, it’s almost like it’s more work when they are home. You are a badass.
I can not stop watching your videos, I love how much energy you have, how much you love your kids and we can see that throught your videos. Keep doing it
I'm currently experiencing being a stay at home mom now. I tell you I feel like I should just go back to work😭😭 love my kids dearly,but the work load is bizarre kids are 13, 4, and 2 months old. Before staying home I was a full time nurse. I'm so not use to this life!
Going thru the same thing right now. I feel like being a stay at home mom, is so much harder than just going to work everyday. The hardest part has been the isolation, not seeing coworkers everyday. I have a nine month old, and it’s hard to get out of the house. Since I don’t live close to town, and I try to keep her nap routines everyday. I sure hope like people say, that it gets better. Because part of me does miss work, even though I love my daughter so much.
06peggs it’ll get better. I had to just get over wanting the life I had before I had my first baby a year ago. It’s almost like i expected for things to be the same after he was born and they will never be the same. I now have a newborn and I wouldn’t trade my life now for anything but missing what you had just reminds you that what your doing now is so much more significant because you are raising tomorrows generation. Being a mom comes with such a strong and challenging territory but just know that your not alone and that while you have to limit yourself or change certainly things or plan around nap times it will get better and they will grow up so fast that looking back and wanting to hold them like little babies won’t be possible just enjoy the NOW and try not to wish on the past. Look at the present so that your days feel like new beginnings. 💐your daughter has the best mom for choosing to stay home with her to raise her. Your doing great! Hang in there.
Omg tera....i am just out of words to even try to explain how much i appreciate u as a wife...a mother...and more than everything else as a person...i just started following ur vlogs and everyday i wait for the updates...much love
Tara i just wanna say ur a super mama! even with all the things you do for ur kids and home, ur still incredibly patient and pump out these vlogs for us to see. ur doing amazing and these videos inspire me to be more patient and feel empowered to tackle anything i have on my plate. thanks so much for sharing ur beautiful family with us!!
Ok first of all I loved this vlog! Hats off to you because that made me so tired 😂 but I totally agree with you on the spouse being gone being easier! After many years of my husband working night shift and doing everything (homework, dinner, bath and bed) by myself with the kids when he switched to days I was so out of my element.
Your very real something we just don’t see much anymore. This is your outlet if you reach for the camera to film your emotions and your trials your reaching out for support and we’re here for you to cry and vent because us mothers that have been there understand and have been in your shoes enough to sympathise. ((Hugs)) your doing the hardest most important job ever❤️
Yessss to the last part! When my husband is home I feel like we Totally wait for the other to do it😂😂 then i get frustrated at him! When I’m alone, I’m in flight or fight mode 🤷🏽♀️😬
Your a amazing mom and I LOVE watching all your videos...That’s what makes your channel salty so good is because your real and raw and you don’t pretend to be the perfect family...You brighten my days when I watch your vlogs...Thank you for being so honest and real
I 100% agree with what your saying about having your spouse home/ around more etc. I’m a stay at home mom and things are totally different when my hubby is off and with us all day. Especially multiple days in a row. You did great that day!!!
Hi Tara . Am really obsessed with your videos lately. Love ya . Shay and baylee are the cutest little sis ever seen . Just can't wait for baby gray to grow up and play with her sis.🥰🥰🥰 Please like my comment.
I think it's a good habit to wash hands after touching the dog before touching the foods and the baby grayson☺ please take it positive. And how cute shay is feeding the dog.❤
Thank you for being real! It’s nice to see the real life struggles that every family has. I do find it very nice though that you don’t show some things, your one of my favorites to watch because of that.
Girl I can relate. I have a 15 month old boy and a 4 year old boy. My 4 year old just started school and it feels like I have my days back. Husband is in the military so he's gone often so I can relate that when hes gone I can get things done easier without a 3rd kid (him) adding to my to do list. You are doing great and personally I love to see toddlers throw tantrums. It like a comedic break in my day. I look forward to your videos everyday and watch them when my toddler is sleeping. Stay at home moms unite!
I relay on my husband as well when he’s here and just makes me frustrated as well I totally get you! And my kids become really noisy when he’s here idk why this happens a lot so I really enjoy having my husband out of the house lol
I thought I was the only feeling that way. a lot of mommy’s always look like they got it together when really were all going through the same. Hopefully those who understand and going thru the same. We all overcome it together in time! ❤️ love you Tara! You’re a great mother and wife. Theirs nothing wrong with expecting your significant other to help you do some things when you can’t or don’t wanna. Being a mother is a lot of work. We deserve a break. I hope someday men can acknowledge and understand what women go thru as a mother!
I can completely understand what you saying with the hubby being home. When our 3rd baby was born he was in a different state so it was just me 24/7 and I got everything done plus some. Now we had our 4th born and he works overnight shifts 5 days a week and sleeps during the day so it just me and I get wayyy more done than when he has days off. We deff feel empowered and put our supermom capes on. Great job momma.
100% YES!!!!! 27 minutes and 13 seconds......it is harder with my husband home because I feel like it should be easier but instead it is harder and I'm running late and it's chaos. When I'm alone with our daughter, we are in a routine and things move along. Just know you are amazing and I love your videos! ~Laura
Big hug to you! I so enjoy your videos I look forward to see how you and your family are doing each week. You handle everything so well and rational. Take care of yourself.
The meltdowns are very transparent . It actually makes you more relatable . I felt you when you let out that overwhelming breath when they were crying . Girl you’re an outstanding mother !!!! I’ve learned a lot on this channel . Thanks 🥰
Tara is SO relatable🤗
She’s such an awesome mother and a role model for others. And I’m glad other young mothers are able to watch and share.
Right . I need to see those things so I dont feel alone 😭😭
@@marissathomas9327 thats exactly what i said. Some youtubers seem too perfect its such a high standard to live up to perfect. She is so relatable and real
شكرا لانك عرضتي الجانب السلبي من يومك ياريت دائما تعرضيه لان كنت اشوف حياتك مثالية لكن هي تشبه حياتنا فيها فوضى ونوبات غضب احييكي على صبرك انتم تتحملون اكثر من عدنه هم أطفال صغار وجرو بالبيت وانتي صبورة وغير عصبية 👍👍👍🌸🌺👏😘
ونحن الغضب والعصبية طول الوقت
@@امنورةامنورة-ز3س نعم دائما مانتحمل بسرعة نتعصب ع اطفالنا
هل هناك ترجمة في الفيديو
لايوجود شخص مثالي لكن تعتبر مثاليه بالنسبة لنا
لا يوجد احد مثالي كل وحد عندو جانبو السلبي هدي هي طبيعة البشر والكامل لله وحده
Totally understsnd what you ment about adam being out the house, im way more productive when im alone because there is no one to rely on so u just get it done!
I agree! My husband stayed home for two weeks after I had my second baby and I thought I was going to struggle a lot with two but I just adapted to the I HAVE TO DO IT mindset and I just do it. Same goes with going shopping or going anywhere with two it’s such a transition but we are SUPER moms when it comes to raising our kids and no one should have the right to judge or question parenting traits as long as your children are safe tantrums and meltdowns are a part of a child’s development it’s hard when people judge you because your kids meltdown in public as if you wanted that to happen?? I’m learning so much and it’s so nice to connect with other moms.
Yes! That part was so relatable! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 💯
Felt huge relief and less frustration after my divorce!! LOL. Much easier to do it myself than hope he helps and then be frustrated when he doesn’t. Not suggesting anything here. Haha
Me too! I feel I'm lazy when my husband is home & more productive when he's gone
@@ashleycogan4000 me too, he just wants to chill and relax but then when he goes back to work I'm stuck with all the aftermath lol so I prefer to stay on track him at work me at home maintaining it "clean"
You're a super mom. I get overwhelmed with 2 kiddos I can't imagine 3. You're doing amazing.
Christina Sullens same here! And completely agree! She’s super mom!
Giiiirrrrl, I can relate to what you were taking about at he end SOOOO much, lol.
When my husband is at home, I expect him to pitch in, don’t get me wrong, he definitely does, but not always as much as I’d like or he doesn’t do things the way I do them, so I get annoyed.
On one hand, I like having his help, but on the other hand, it’s easier when I just do everything myself so that things get done right the first time.
Lol sooo true. Gotta love em haha
💯🤦♀️ I couldn't have said it any better myself!
I Feels so much addiction to yours vlogs Tara 🙈💓you’re such amazing women and a mother such inspiration 😇🙏💖
These are my favorite types of vlogs! ❤️ Meltdowns and all, this is so relatable with me (A stay at home mama of 3 with a hubby who works long hours!) thank you for the real honest content! I love every minute of it! It makes me feel like I’m not alone when I have hard times with the craziness of raising 3 kids! Love your channel Tara!
You’re such a great mom Tara! I totally agree about not showing the meltdowns.. we all know kids do that. It’s normal and like you said we don’t need to blast it on the internet. 💕
The Brin Fam it’s still good for other parents (mothers especially) to see that they aren’t alone, it’s not fair to paint a perfect picture on the internet either, real life is just that, REAL, and people appreciate the honesty and can relate to it so much more
Your a great mom! I think Shay was just exhausted from being woke up early by the storm and then her long day at school.
I feel like even a 28 minutes vlog is not long enough 😄😄😍 you are an amazing mom
Tina E I agree 💯
Tina E right . We need 2 hours lol . I wish
I appreciate how real and raw this is. Especially the morning frenzy with toddlers and a newborn. Shay throwing her breakfast on the floor and you needing to nurse Grayson right before leaving is literally my life.
Have you thought about taking the girls to the library? Perhaps borrowing books will help them to understand respecting books and they will adopt that mindset for at home.
Schultedm21 oh that’s a great idea!! I might do this myself. My daughter loves destroying books 🤦🏻♀️
I took mine to library 3-5 times since she was half year . But she still occasionally tear some pages😂
Lol. It definitely isn't fool proof, kids are kids! But maybe it would help. Who knows😀
Gx
@@yunzhu4815 hello
Exactly kids tantrums are completely normal.... and I agree with keeping kids behavior private
Completely relate! It’s nice having your other half home to help with the children and housework etc but also nice to have your own routine with the kids when they go to work. You inspire me so much for my content on my channel ❤️
Thank you for not showing your kids meltdowns. It’s not right. I’ve unsubscribed from a lot of RUclips moms for showing too much. There’s a fine line that some people cross over where it just becomes pure exploitation. I respect that! Thank you.
What you said at the end totally resonated with me... When my partner is home, I almost feel resentment when he is here and doesn't realize he could be doing ALL OF THE THINGS (however my reasonable side knows I should give him grace because he doesn't have the maximum efficiency mom mode we have). Good job, Tara. You're awesome!
I love how well you explained why you don’t show your children’s most vulnerable times during meltdowns to the entire world ❤️ I avoid taking pictures or videos of mine during those times as well. It’s just not something I feel is right for me to do to them. I think a lot of people in today’s world of social media and the internet forget that the small moments in time they see of a family’s life are just that, small moments... not every moment. They are short, curated pieces of their day that they want to share. I have certain family member who always ask how my kids are so “perfect” also, then act shocked when I say that my 2.5 old has been almost in a constant meltdown state for the past 4 months. It’s just not something I want to share when I know she’s having a rough time already.
Also, we LOVE Biscuit books and those word puzzles. My son was a super early reader and is now reading around a 3rd grade level in 1st grade. Making learning fun is such a wonderful thing. As far as trying to encourage a little one not to tear books up, we’ve really just always encouraged them to respect the books so they can read them for longer and to use gentle hands. Little hands can have such a hard time grabbing pages to turn and remembering not to be too rough when they’re excited :)
Tara!! I don’t know how you do so much! The idea of loading up a newborn and 2 toddlers alone into the car every morning is overwhelming. You handle it like a boss and are inspiring.
Kids will be kids. Tantrums are normal! You seem to remain calm and handle it well. You’re doing a great job, and the kids are so beautiful, smart and well loved. I’m always impressed with Bailey and how much she knows and can do. Enjoy these crazy moments.
I love how real and raw you are motherhood is not easy and you are doing a fantastic job! Great video
This has got to be my favourite RUclips video I’ve ever watched. So real and honest yet not something your kids will look back on and cringe, they’ll just laugh. I loved this vlog! Oh and I seen other comments suggesting visiting a library and borrowing books, I’d love to see your local library! As a library employee, don’t worry about your kids possibly damaging books, so many come back damaged and ruined it’s not a big deal, especially for children’s material. Love your family! ❤️
You inspired me so much, I organised my closet and kitchen. I have two kids and always made excuses that I don't have time. You're amazing mom 🙂
You are one amazing Mother. You did so great...2 toddlers,newborn and a puppy.....cleaning,feeding, cooking, school trips...shopping and you did a face mask. All without letting it get to much or loosing it. I hardly cope with 2 boys and 3 dogs. You're my motivation and inspiration. Just love you to bits🤗💗
I love that you showed a small clip of your babies and the speech you gave with it, we all know the struggle and we all respect that 100% 😊
Just writing to say you're doing an AMAZING job momma! 💪❤
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Yes girl I completely get what you’re saying about being by yourself! That’s how I am too and I find that I am much more productive and have less anxiety/stress when I’m taking care of all three kids without someone else to help. Glad I’m not the only one who feels like it’s embarrassing to the kids to show tantrums, they deserve their privacy too. Much love from one momma to another! ♥️
You are a wise mum for protecting your children! Yes, lots of hard work for you! But, it’s a blessed life!!❣️😄
My 2 year old also has her meltdowns everyday.
You share what you choose to and we all appreciate it.
You're a perfect mum to your kids thats what matters
I know how you feel when your partner isn't home. Mine works long hours.
حبيبتى مفيش حاجة مثالية انتي إنسانة جميلة وعايزة حياتك أفضل الاطفال مسؤولية صعبة الأمهات عندهم صبر وحنان كبير عن الرجل ربنا معاكي
I’m so glad you shared that at the end talking about being more productive when your husband isn’t home....I thought I was the only one but it’s almost like I’m more anxious when he’s around the whole day. It just feels so much smoother with my baby at home. You’re such a good momma and very inspiring!!
Thanks for sharing about your kids behavior. It makes me appreciate all your challenges.
Watching you remain calm throughout your day whatever it may throw your way is so calming to me! Thanks for being you, Tara. You’re doing great ❤️
Kristin Gilmartin I know right?!
I completely understand what you mean about being solo for the day vs having someone there. It’s just a mindset that you know you are responsible for everything so you end of being as productive as possible to make sure everything runs smoothly. And no expectations of someone else means no fighting. I know just with one child I get in the mindset. I expect my boyfriend to do certain things and then we argue but if he wasn’t home, I would have just done it myself anyway 😂 but that doesn’t mean when he is home, he can just relax haha
يوم كامل وجميل مع الأطفال، استمري عزيزتي وأتمنى لك وعائلتك صغيرة مزيدا من التألق والإبداع
اتمنى لو يرجع فيني الوقت يوم كانووالدي صغارومشغوله فيهم على طول هالحين كبرووكل واحد راح في حال سبيله وانا بعد وفاة زوجي الله يغفرله جالسه لحالي اتمنى احد يزورني او اطلع معهم فسحه الله المستعان احبك بنتي تاراومعجبه فيك وفي اطفالك الحلوين حياتك متعبه بس جميله مافيها ملل ماشاءالله🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺
اللة يساعدج حبيبتي الوحدة صعبة اذكري اللة انشاللة خير
حبيبتي أثرت فيني .أقسم والله العضيم إذا كنت في نفس البلاد اللي أنا فيه لكنت صرت أمي و أزورك وتزورني و تكوني أحلى جدة لأولادي و الله كلامي من القلب . أنا أعرف الوحدة صعبة جدا ولكن إيماني بالله عز وجل أعطاني القوة و أولادي زينو حياتي الحمد لله على كل حال . أتمنى لك السعادة و الهناء بالقرب من الله عز و جل
I love how real you are!! I have a 2 1/2 month old and a 12 year old kiddos. Watching your videos is super helpful and makes me not feel alone.
A 28 min video from Tara?! 🙌Yes Please!! Baby Gray looks so much better! Yay to happy babies!! My baby is 3 months old and is a total thumb and fist sucker
Any day is an accomplished day when you can get some laundry done!
I absolutely loved how organized your home is! It's so beautiful and you are such an amazing mother! Your videos are so inspiring ❤️
As Chloe gets older and taller you should look in to an elevated bowl for her so along the line she doesn’t have any neck issues. I learned that the hard way with my chocolate Labrador.Just my opinion but it’ll be a good thing to think about💕
This was a much needed video!! I understand you not wanting to show the meltdowns BUT it is so much more relatable when you do. No one expects you to show it daily but it makes it seem more real. And I love the activity book and the puzzle you had out for the girls I may have to snag one for my kiddos! 💕 Much love Tara!
Some people deserve happiness and you are one of them❤ all the best for you and your family
Girl, I feel you on it being harder when you’re SO is home. My fiancé tells me that I need to tell him what needs to be done and I feel like I shouldn’t have to tell him, that is should be common sense what needs to be done. During the week my daughter and I have a schedule and on the weekend it’s just more stressful. I appreciate you talking about that, it’s nice knowing I’m not alone feeling like that!
Girl, keep going. You’re such an amazing mama of 3. Keep it going 💪🏽💋
i love that you just showed a snippet of the behind the scenes of the vlogs and what we don't always see. ppl need to realize that we are all human and just because we dont show the meltdowns and tantrums doesn't mean it doesnt happen. im glad you dont show too much of when the kids are in a not so good mood, you have a great balance of your life in your videos. its perfect! love you tara 💕 same!!! when my husband is home i dont complete the tasks i normally would tackle when he's not home & sometimes i get annoyed too bc i expect too when my husband is home. idk its difficult to explain, lol i think its us organized, get ish done moms 😂
Try the “Thunder wrap” to calm nervous dogs in storms and for any anxiety.
Your such a great momma. Keep it up girl. Love the girls and Grayson so much. Love seeing yalls days. I totally get why you don’t share the meltdowns but don’t feel like your blasting their “bad” behavior. Who cares if and when they have a tantrum. Your not perfect nor do you try to be. Your just like every other beautiful hard working momma. So proud of the mom you are Tara. Your such an inspiration love. God bless your entire family.
Yessss, I feel the same with my husband, when he is home is expect him to do something and if he doesn't I get very frustrated 😂😂 I think we all go through that, love you Tara and your family 😉😉
My husband thinks im a nag bc he has to jump in amd help. Blah blah
I can totally relate with the whole getting it done when you're by yourself with the kids. When the hubby's home I tend to expect things from him that often don't get met and only adds to my frustration. You are doing amazing though, girl! We are literally in the same situation (except the dog part, and my baby's about a month older), and I remember feeling so overwhelmed and almost always on the verge of tears when my husband went back to work from paternity leave. You are one freakin strong mama!! I love watching your vlogs. Love from the island of Guam 💛💛💛
احس بنشط لما اشوفها مميزه ماشالله عليها 😍😍
I'm so glad you said that about being solo and having your spouse not at home. I relate so much and feel the same. It's like I feel more normal, such a hard thing to explain.
I know what you mean about having your spouse home, i get more laxy daisy too lol its nice to get your motivation back and get back in the swing of things.
Girl I completely understand the feeling of it being a little easier getting things done when your spouse is out of the house! My husband is a Boilermaker and works crazy hours so when it’s just my girls and I we have a routine down to get things done. When he’s home, I expect him to do some of the house chores or whatever it may be, then when it doesn’t happen I get frustrated. Yes it’s great when they are there but I know the feeling of motivation to get it all done when you’re the only one to do it. Love you girl and your vlogs are the best 💕💕💕
نحبك تارا انتي مذهله 💜💜💜
We love you Tara You are amazing mother 💜👍🏻
Love Love LOVE you sharing real life moments, truly helps me not so feel alone. Mom life is awesome and brutal at times. You are rocking it girl! xo
I totally understand where you're coming from!! I am the same exact way when hubby is out of the house lol you're doing a wonderful job Tara I love you all so very much!! ♥️
I love you and your family! You’re such a good mom and I admire you so much! Love how real with us you are and how down to earth you are! my wish for the world is that more people have open minds to accept the reality in peoples lives in what is chosen to be shown.
I feel the EXACT same way when my husband is home too! You described it perfectly.
I truly appreciate you sharing Shay's melt down. My 2 year old does the exact same thing and it's so good to know im not alone!!
Bailey’s face when everyone was losing it 😂😂😂 she was like “seriously?!?!” Girl I feel ya. Having a speech delayed 2 year old I totally feel ya. She loses it at least 3 times a day.
You are such an incredible Mother. As a mom of 3 and Grandma of a 2 year old really appreciate what you share with us. It is not easy and they will have tantrums just like we did when we were kids 🤦 give yourself a pat on the back for all you do Tara ❤️
You might want to check out both Instacart and Shipt for grocery Shopping and delivery. I get Target purchases from Shipt. I think you do a great job in showing the good and the challenging in day to day life. I think you are amazing at handling the chaos and such a patient mom. Because you are organized you’re able to get things done. I am working toward being more organized and you are my role model for that. I love your channel. ❤️❤️❤️
i wish had calm morning like this, you are so calm and patient with your kids
Love you Tara! You and Adam have made a beautiful family and you’re such an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your life through the good AND THE BAD! Just wanted to give some love 💕
Hey tara u r such a brave mom to show the tantrums n realities of raising the kids a pooch and a new born all alone with all house hold chores.... No one talks about all these challenges along... Thanks for encouraging nad showing n proving it again n again that a mother can do everything all by her self.... God bless ur family... Amen
I can definitely relate to the meltdowns, my two year old is the same way. You are doing great! ❤️
One reason why i cant stop watching you is that youre so good to be one true momma...the patience is there and i salute you Tara..God bless you and your family..
يوم جديد جميل مع تارا
The way you do Baylee’s bun is the way I do my daughters buns, especially when we are in a rush it saves so much time every time I do it for them. & oh my goodness I know exactly what you mean about getting back into a routine, I’m always so nervous for change, like after I had my son I didn’t want my husband to leave back to work but I had to get into a routine with all 4 of my kiddos.
Seriously when Bailey gets older I really hope she has her own RUclips channel.
I can definitely understand what you mean when the significant other is gone! You can just get things done to your liking and it’s a lil smoother
احبك تارا انتي ام جيده💙
Ilove you you are good mom
Thank you so much for your honesty. It’s so hard to find a middle ground when you see the PICTURE PERFECT lives you tubers portray and it makes it so hard to feel accomplished. I’m literally watching your video and typing this and folding laundry but I just had my second baby boy June 28th so seeing your newborn journey with a toddler like shay because my first baby is 14 months old it has been very nice to relate to a mom whose going through it. Your an amazing role model and I just want to say thank you for just being real and for putting your family first. It’s so hard to take care of everything and still feel like your not doing enough but again it’s nice to be able to connect on a real level. I started my channel a year ago when I had my first baby and I became so discouraged because I wasn’t able to do videos like everyone else and still take care of my baby now I have two and I guess I’ve just been trying to find time which I will never have again and maybe I just need to share what I’ve learned just like you are. It’s not always perfect but I know you’ve helped me get through it so I want to do the same.
THANKS A MILLION! You deserve all the good things in your life. 💐
These are the hard days ughhh, I personally hate doing it alone!! Yes I get it all done with tunnelvision but it really drains my energy heavily
This is one of the best and most realistic vlogs I’ve seen lately. You are so right, it’s almost like it’s more work when they are home. You are a badass.
I can relate to you 1000%. Thank you Tara for making us feel like we're not alone
I can not stop watching your videos, I love how much energy you have, how much you love your kids and we can see that throught your videos. Keep doing it
Omg being a stay at home is the hardest job.
Iliana Gonzalez yes it is
I'm currently experiencing being a stay at home mom now. I tell you I feel like I should just go back to work😭😭 love my kids dearly,but the work load is bizarre kids are 13, 4, and 2 months old. Before staying home I was a full time nurse. I'm so not use to this life!
Going thru the same thing right now.
I feel like being a stay at home mom, is so much harder than just going to work everyday. The hardest part has been the isolation, not seeing coworkers everyday.
I have a nine month old, and it’s hard to get out of the house. Since I don’t live close to town, and I try to keep her nap routines everyday. I sure hope like people say, that it gets better. Because part of me does miss work, even though I love my daughter so much.
06peggs it’ll get better. I had to just get over wanting the life I had before I had my first baby a year ago. It’s almost like i expected for things to be the same after he was born and they will never be the same. I now have a newborn and I wouldn’t trade my life now for anything but missing what you had just reminds you that what your doing now is so much more significant because you are raising tomorrows generation. Being a mom comes with such a strong and challenging territory but just know that your not alone and that while you have to limit yourself or change certainly things or plan around nap times it will get better and they will grow up so fast that looking back and wanting to hold them like little babies won’t be possible just enjoy the NOW and try not to wish on the past. Look at the present so that your days feel like new beginnings. 💐your daughter has the best mom for choosing to stay home with her to raise her. Your doing great! Hang in there.
06peggs it gets better, hang in there!
Omg tera....i am just out of words to even try to explain how much i appreciate u as a wife...a mother...and more than everything else as a person...i just started following ur vlogs and everyday i wait for the updates...much love
can you do a small tutorial on how you do your liquid eyeliner?
Tara i just wanna say ur a super mama! even with all the things you do for ur kids and home, ur still incredibly patient and pump out these vlogs for us to see. ur doing amazing and these videos inspire me to be more patient and feel empowered to tackle anything i have on my plate. thanks so much for sharing ur beautiful family with us!!
Ok first of all I loved this vlog! Hats off to you because that made me so tired 😂 but I totally agree with you on the spouse being gone being easier! After many years of my husband working night shift and doing everything (homework, dinner, bath and bed) by myself with the kids when he switched to days I was so out of my element.
Thanks for including the meltdowns, here i am a first time mom and needed to see that other people have the same issues. ❤️
Oh man, Yes.
I actually only feel stressed when he’s home.
I don’t feel that way when it’s just me and the kids.
Your very real something we just don’t see much anymore. This is your outlet if you reach for the camera to film your emotions and your trials your reaching out for support and we’re here for you to cry and vent because us mothers that have been there understand and have been in your shoes enough to sympathise. ((Hugs)) your doing the hardest most important job ever❤️
Yessss to the last part! When my husband is home I feel like we
Totally wait for the other to do it😂😂 then i get frustrated at him! When I’m alone, I’m in flight or fight mode 🤷🏽♀️😬
Your a amazing mom and I LOVE watching all your videos...That’s what makes your channel salty so good is because your real and raw and you don’t pretend to be the perfect family...You brighten my days when I watch your vlogs...Thank you for being so honest and real
Lol girl, you don’t even need to explain.
When husbands are home, it just feels like we have to babysit the babysitter 😂
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I 100% agree with what your saying about having your spouse home/ around more etc. I’m a stay at home mom and things are totally different when my hubby is off and with us all day. Especially multiple days in a row. You did great that day!!!
Hi Tara . Am really obsessed with your videos lately. Love ya . Shay and baylee are the cutest little sis ever seen . Just can't wait for baby gray to grow up and play with her sis.🥰🥰🥰 Please like my comment.
Your video brought tears to my eyes. Your house has chaos sometimes too and I needed to see that today. Thank you Tara! I feel a little more normal 🙂
I think it's a good habit to wash hands after touching the dog before touching the foods and the baby grayson☺ please take it positive. And how cute shay is feeding the dog.❤
Thank you for being real! It’s nice to see the real life struggles that every family has. I do find it very nice though that you don’t show some things, your one of my favorites to watch because of that.
Omg!!! Tara and her family 😍💜😘
Girl I can relate. I have a 15 month old boy and a 4 year old boy. My 4 year old just started school and it feels like I have my days back. Husband is in the military so he's gone often so I can relate that when hes gone I can get things done easier without a 3rd kid (him) adding to my to do list. You are doing great and personally I love to see toddlers throw tantrums. It like a comedic break in my day. I look forward to your videos everyday and watch them when my toddler is sleeping. Stay at home moms unite!
I relay on my husband as well when he’s here and just makes me frustrated as well I totally get you! And my kids become really noisy when he’s here idk why this happens a lot so I really enjoy having my husband out of the house lol
I thought I was the only feeling that way. a lot of mommy’s always look like they got it together when really were all going through the same. Hopefully those who understand and going thru the same. We all overcome it together in time! ❤️ love you Tara! You’re a great mother and wife. Theirs nothing wrong with expecting your significant other to help you do some things when you can’t or don’t wanna. Being a mother is a lot of work. We deserve a break. I hope someday men can acknowledge and understand what women go thru as a mother!
ما شاء الله دائما بيتها مرتب وكل شي تضعه في مكانه
سوالي من يساعدها في تنظيف البيت ولملابس والكي وغيره
sara2005 الشرقي زوجها
muna mohammed هههههههههه
Alyaa Mohammed اشفيك 😊
I can completely understand what you saying with the hubby being home. When our 3rd baby was born he was in a different state so it was just me 24/7 and I got everything done plus some. Now we had our 4th born and he works overnight shifts 5 days a week and sleeps during the day so it just me and I get wayyy more done than when he has days off. We deff feel empowered and put our supermom capes on. Great job momma.
I would love to see your cleaning routine!! Also love your family ❤️
100% YES!!!!! 27 minutes and 13 seconds......it is harder with my husband home because I feel like it should be easier but instead it is harder and I'm running late and it's chaos. When I'm alone with our daughter, we are in a routine and things move along. Just know you are amazing and I love your videos! ~Laura
I laughed so hard at Shays face after she took her vitamin 😂😂😂😂
Big hug to you! I so enjoy your videos I look forward to see how you and your family are doing each week. You handle everything so well and rational. Take care of yourself.