The fact the son still showed up for the monthly check from his mommy after agreeing with the wife about the grandchildren not visiting shows just how much of a self- centered, oblivious coward the son is.
what a rollercoaster of emotions! It's heartbreaking how much you've been through, but it's so inspiring to see you standing your ground and finally getting to enjoy time with your grandkids. They’re lucky to have you in their lives!
Congratulations to you and your son and your grandchildren being able to spend time with you. You your son and your grandchildren live your best lives ever and GOD bless you too.
@ I’m not asking how, I’m asking why? If you are struggling financially then maybe you should be trying to save money by not spending it on unnecessary things. Why would you spend someone else’s money on vacations when you could save it or spend it on essentials. Did you even read my question?
@joyparrish5998 Yes, I read your question and the same answer applies. Grandma treated them to vacations or took the grandkids. Private school is an investment in your kid's future. It's not an 'unnecessary thing'. Dad was paying for it and then grandma took over to avoid dragging the children out of their school and disrupting their education. So they weren't struggling while grandmother was supporting them. That's all explained in the video as I said before.
My in-laws make great money, the first time my kids went to a lot of places was with their grandparents. The first time they went on a trip out of town, to the snow, and to Disneyland, was without me. Sure, I was disappointed to have to miss those experiences but my husband and I work a lot. Still, I was grateful they could do these things with the kids and that my kids could have these experiences.
Both happy enough to have holidays which OP pay for as long as OP doesn’t go but doesn’t like it when it’s clear to the children that OP is paying.. they don’t want OP to spoil the kids but really she’s been spoiling the son and daughter in law
Bet you a lot of their expenses wouldn’t exist if they were the ones paying for it all, no doubt the daughter in law planned all those holidays knowing she wouldn’t have to pay
Es una situación muy difícil para ambas partes. Tal vez sería útil tratar de abrir un diálogo honesto y respetuoso para encontrar una solución que beneficie a los niños y fortalezca los lazos familiares.
At the end of the day the only thing you got out of this is seeing your grandchildren. There’s no love between your son and you anymore. I wished your son had said to you after his divorce “ thank you mom for all your help when I needed it as well as thinking of the children’s financial future however I got a new job out of state and believe the children and I need a fresh start away from this toxic environment . 😂
"Your issues with me" That's rich, maybe she can pay off the debt that way. Wow, so in her mind, since she is the bread winner, she can go and cheat on him? I wonder how well it would have gone over if he was screwing around when only he worked and said that to her. Something tells me this is a rules for thee but not for me moment.
The fact the son still showed up for the monthly check from his mommy after agreeing with the wife about the grandchildren not visiting shows just how much of a self- centered, oblivious coward the son is.
Never bite the hand that feeds you😊
Make sure grandkids trust funds are untouchable by parents
Oh we don't have enough money to pay the housing costs or food, but we send our kids to 'PRIVATE SCHOOL' !!!!!!
Hubby isn't a peacemaker he is a simp to the wife. Plus a user money wise to his mother.
henpecked husband
what a rollercoaster of emotions! It's heartbreaking how much you've been through, but it's so inspiring to see you standing your ground and finally getting to enjoy time with your grandkids. They’re lucky to have you in their lives!
Congratulations to you and your son and your grandchildren being able to spend time with you. You your son and your grandchildren live your best lives ever and GOD bless you too.
If they don’t have money, why are the kids in private school? Why are they taking vacations?
Because the dad used to have a good job and then the grandmother paid for it after he lost his job. Did you even listen to the story?
@ I’m not asking how, I’m asking why? If you are struggling financially then maybe you should be trying to save money by not spending it on unnecessary things. Why would you spend someone else’s money on vacations when you could save it or spend it on essentials. Did you even read my question?
@joyparrish5998 Yes, I read your question and the same answer applies. Grandma treated them to vacations or took the grandkids. Private school is an investment in your kid's future. It's not an 'unnecessary thing'. Dad was paying for it and then grandma took over to avoid dragging the children out of their school and disrupting their education. So they weren't struggling while grandmother was supporting them. That's all explained in the video as I said before.
The daughter-in-law needed to do was go back to work. Not start an Only fans when she hah young kids.
Why isn't she working?
Play petty games, win petty prizes 🎯
Why does she have daycare costs if she doesn’t work?
Wow. A lesson about being careful who you marry. Not all mothers should be mother’s nor wives.
Grandma should have filed for grandparent visitations.
NTA, she wanted to teach you a lesson, but it seems like she’s learning one now 🤷♀
from Kathy to Minura????? :D :D :D :D :D :D
The children are spoiled? What what about her?
Ikr. The son and dil are the one who are spoilt 😒 Using their mother's money like she's an ATM🙄
My in-laws make great money, the first time my kids went to a lot of places was with their grandparents. The first time they went on a trip out of town, to the snow, and to Disneyland, was without me. Sure, I was disappointed to have to miss those experiences but my husband and I work a lot. Still, I was grateful they could do these things with the kids and that my kids could have these experiences.
Why isn’t the mother working? Instead she’s taking money from an old lady! No more money ever! First story nta
Wow! Frankfurt Germany!
That wife is a joke😂 you telling me you have a reasonable out to have a babysitter n you hate there guts
Both happy enough to have holidays which OP pay for as long as OP doesn’t go but doesn’t like it when it’s clear to the children that OP is paying.. they don’t want OP to spoil the kids but really she’s been spoiling the son and daughter in law
Bet you a lot of their expenses wouldn’t exist if they were the ones paying for it all, no doubt the daughter in law planned all those holidays knowing she wouldn’t have to pay
Good luck to OPs son with his money hungry wife
Wait kids in daycare. She doesn’t work why daycare
Es una situación muy difícil para ambas partes. Tal vez sería útil tratar de abrir un diálogo honesto y respetuoso para encontrar una solución que beneficie a los niños y fortalezca los lazos familiares.
At the end of the day the only thing you got out of this is seeing your grandchildren. There’s no love between your son and you anymore. I wished your son had said to you after his divorce “ thank you mom for all your help when I needed it as well as thinking of the children’s financial future however I got a new job out of state and believe the children and I need a fresh start away from this toxic environment . 😂
Old story. Can content creators be sued for copyright infringement ?
Lady get your own life your grand children will grow up. You didn't birth them... 😢
"Your issues with me" That's rich, maybe she can pay off the debt that way.
Wow, so in her mind, since she is the bread winner, she can go and cheat on him? I wonder how well it would have gone over if he was screwing around when only he worked and said that to her. Something tells me this is a rules for thee but not for me moment.
Wow the version of only fans now rears its ugly head. At least a judge saw through the mom for her explicit consent
Stop her cash she'll soon change her mind