I spoke very disrespectfully last year to my brother and I didn't speak to my mom for 7 days. My mom was VERY mad at me. I felt anger, pain, frustrations, and strain. But I learned to NEVER speak like that AGAIN.
Learning to forgive is in our best interest. To forgive someone doesn't mean their actions were right, but it is an amazing act of kindness and is liberating. Holding on to hurt feelings and anger make us prisoners of the past and trap us in a dark place. The hardest thing in the world would be for someone to actually experience love for the person who you want to hate, love for the person you're angry at. You don't want to experience love because then you'd experience forgiveness and when you experience forgiveness then we have to let go of everything. The feeling of being right, the feeling of being hurt, the feeling of being better. It doesn't matter that you were right and that he or she wronged you. It no longer matters. It is simply love there. We have to appreciate the nature of this world and that most people are quite imperfect and struggling. Because of this, we can expect that we will sometimes be trespassed against. It may not even be intentional, but people often are not aware of what they are doing and saying. If we are quick to forgive, then this will help us the most. Holding onto anger harms us the most. Of course, this does not mean, that we cannot or should not point out to others when they did something seriously wrong. But we can do it in a caring way with the aim to help them see what they could have done better.
I was a bully, violent and verbally very mean to people my whole life when I was younger. My self-hate is strong. Pray for me. I need the wisdom, strength and inspiration of others.
You are stronger than you think. You haven’t discovered all that’s in you. You’ll never know how strong you really are, until you face pressure that you’ve never faced. It may seem unbearable, but the fact that God allowed it means that you can handle it. He didn’t say He would make a way of escape so you can run from it, so you can avoid it, He said so you can bear it. You can look back at times where you didn’t think you could go on, the pressure seemed unbearable, but somehow it didn’t defeat you, you had the strength to get up another day, you kept going when you didn’t feel like you had anything left. Why didn’t it break you? Because you were stronger than you thought. God designed you to handle that pressure. He wouldn’t have allowed you to get in it, if He hadn’t already put in you what you needed to handle it. You will always be able to bear whatever comes your way. Thanks for reading this comment, I hope you are blessed and uplifted by it. We are a new and growing channel, your support and blessings is much appreciated. Thanks and God bless you. Amen
I think he’s right; there is beauty in our mistakes as long as we do learn from them..to possibly use those lessons to help someone else along our journey…that is truly beautiful
I agree there is beauty in making mistakes. Probably the only thing that holds a person back is knowing the people you hurt along the way.. that is the hardest part of forgiving yourself.
Future does not exist. Present determine your future focus on the present and present lead u in future that we want to be. Focus in the future without absences of the present moment.
wow i think this video just changed my whole mindset on my life. Ive been constantly trying to blame myself for everything i did nd question why i did certain things. instead of accepting wat i did and apologizing to myself . thank u for this video
Forgive Yourself First, echoes clear, In self-compassion, find healing near. Let go of burdens, release the weight, In forgiveness, find a new slate 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Are the themes of self-accountability and determination adequately explored in this poem, or could there be a deeper examination of the complexities and challenges individuals face on their paths to success?
When we focus on the past that brings guilt, if we focus on the future it brings us anxiety, we have to focus on the present instead, forgive yourself!
I don't think I can forgive myself for my obnoxious past behavior. I have reason to believe that ASD makes you stand out and apply to _"That's just wrong."_ That _we're_ weird and different, not everybody in the world. It feels that way at work for me. Do you know how often I said dumb things? I stupidly mentioned a man’s right to hit a woman for self-defense, and a new coworker proposed a new topic. And I know she doesn’t like me, because when I was casually chatting with a baker while waiting for the desserts, she entered and said “harassing the baker, John?” I asked why she thought that, and she said “Because you’re John.” Or how about the time I told a coworker (whom I didn’t think would resent this, since he’s clownish and once made a weight joke to a guy) “put a sock in your àss. I mean mouth.” Shockingly, he actually did resent that and told me I can’t speak to him that way. I didn’t intend harm; he had interrupted a question of mine to another worker to, if I remember correctly, playfully diss me. I guess I was annoyed with the clownish interruption, but I didn’t mean for it to be obvious. But when it was, I approached him and apologized. But he replied unfairly: “you’re good, man. You just need to learn how to speak to people.” Way to make an apologetic person who already feels bad feel worse, hypocrite And a jocular dick giving me the lecture feels worse. In fact, he's actually quite popular and well-liked at work. I've seen him have fun and get along so well with my coworkers, while acting like I don't exist at all. We pass each other in the hall or wherever, and he doesn't speak to me. Of course, I'll admit that I started the silence, since his hypocritical rudeness that one time, but I don't know for sure if he's giving me the silent treatment or anything. Either way, I'd say I'm not on his "good buds to joke with" list. I know he likes my coworkers better than me. Just the concept of being ignored hurts, and it doesn't help when they show admiration for the guy whom I think is obnoxious. And that's not the worst part about my stupid ASD. I was taken to my supervisor's office with her and a high-ranking chef. They (or mostly the chef) told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much. Not THAT type of touch, of course not! Just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. I was always very outgoing at work. When I asked her if anyone reported a complaint, she said it didn't matter (so I assume that means yes). She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, and that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school (I work at a university's catering service). She told me I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers. Now yeah, I pretty much don't have a filter, and sometimes I guess I do say inappropriate stuff at work, but not horribly nor intentionally. I like to joke around and have fun with my coworkers, but I guess it isn't like that after all (more or less). I really didn't get specific information from the chef about what and who. She understands and likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits, for good behavior and my coworkers' sake. And again, that I shouldn't touch my coworkers (shoulders or arms) without their consent. But seriously, I'm not a creep! I don't randomly hug people or anything like that. I didn't mean to be so "handsy" (I say loosely). I'm so embarrassed about the office lecture. I am not like Biden at all. I'm really not. Have I really gone that far at work? I already hate being on the spectrum, and sometimes I actually hate myself. I kind of even wish I had been some kind of accident that day or the next, to make the boss and chef suddenly see the good in me and not see me as this obnoxious, creepy guy. If a person I disliked was in some accident, I wouldn't care at all about their unlikeable moments, I would just want them okay. If I EVER have a kid who inherits my disorder, I'm gonna do what I can to raise them right and as normal as an autistic person can be. I won't let him or her make the same mistakes I have.
..for betraying the lessons in hopes of a faith that world is a nice place. That Every human has a pure heart and it deserves time/effort/patience to prove themselves irrespective of their adopted malice in the journey of life. Nope! Such pple NEVER fail to reassure the saying of our elders. Never.
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Everyone makes mistakes. We learn from our mistakes. We learn to do something better, or never again! Thank you, Lord, for our lessons learned!
But if people judge you from you mistakes then
@@DARKKNIGHTTV-w2iit's not our duty to think about others😊
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"Take me to the past , the past doesn't even exists."
I spoke very disrespectfully last year to my brother and I didn't speak to my mom for 7 days. My mom was VERY mad at me. I felt anger, pain, frustrations, and strain. But I learned to NEVER speak like that AGAIN.
Learning to forgive is in our best interest. To forgive someone doesn't mean their actions were right, but it is an amazing act of kindness and is liberating. Holding on to hurt feelings and anger make us prisoners of the past and trap us in a dark place.
The hardest thing in the world would be for someone to actually experience love for the person who you want to hate, love for the person you're angry at. You don't want to experience love because then you'd experience forgiveness and when you experience forgiveness then we have to let go of everything. The feeling of being right, the feeling of being hurt, the feeling of being better. It doesn't matter that you were right and that he or she wronged you. It no longer matters. It is simply love there.
We have to appreciate the nature of this world and that most people are quite imperfect and struggling. Because of this, we can expect that we will sometimes be trespassed against. It may not even be intentional, but people often are not aware of what they are doing and saying. If we are quick to forgive, then this will help us the most. Holding onto anger harms us the most. Of course, this does not mean, that we cannot or should not point out to others when they did something seriously wrong. But we can do it in a caring way with the aim to help them see what they could have done better.
Learn from mistake is better than from scholars...is perfect..🎉
I was a bully, violent and verbally very mean to people my whole life when I was younger. My self-hate is strong. Pray for me. I need the wisdom, strength and inspiration of others.
Amy
You are stronger than you think. You haven’t discovered all that’s in you. You’ll never know how strong you really are, until you face pressure that you’ve never faced. It may seem unbearable, but the fact that God allowed it means that you can handle it. He didn’t say He would make a way of escape so you can run from it, so you can avoid it, He said so you can bear it. You can look back at times where you didn’t think you could go on, the pressure seemed unbearable, but somehow it didn’t defeat you, you had the strength to get up another day, you kept going when you didn’t feel like you had anything left. Why didn’t it break you? Because you were stronger than you thought. God designed you to handle that pressure. He wouldn’t have allowed you to get in it, if He hadn’t already put in you what you needed to handle it. You will always be able to bear whatever comes your way.
Thanks for reading this comment, I hope you are blessed and uplifted by it. We are a new and growing channel, your support and blessings is much appreciated. Thanks and God bless you. Amen
I think he’s right; there is beauty in our mistakes as long as we do learn from them..to possibly use those lessons to help someone else along our journey…that is truly beautiful
I agree there is beauty in making mistakes. Probably the only thing that holds a person back is knowing the people you hurt along the way.. that is the hardest part of forgiving yourself.
Thanks for your messages💛
Future does not exist. Present determine your future focus on the present and present lead u in future that we want to be. Focus in the future without absences of the present moment.
Forgiveness is the key to success 🙏
Thanks so much
This is the best video on forgiving myself that I've watched. Thank you. 🙏
Thankyou
wow i think this video just changed my whole mindset on my life. Ive been constantly trying to blame myself for everything i did nd question why i did certain things. instead of accepting wat i did and apologizing to myself . thank u for this video
Amen and amen
I needed this . Thank you.
Thank you for this.
Thank you
Thaaankuhhh soomuchhh!!! I just needed this right now❤
Amen
What a voice....great message
Amen 🎉
Love this video so much
Man... what a video. Subscribed
Forgive Yourself First, echoes clear,
In self-compassion, find healing near.
Let go of burdens, release the weight,
In forgiveness, find a new slate 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Are the themes of self-accountability and determination adequately explored in this poem, or could there be a deeper examination of the complexities and challenges individuals face on their paths to success?
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When we focus on the past that brings guilt, if we focus on the future it brings us anxiety, we have to focus on the present instead, forgive yourself!
Easier said than done. What if the past produced a tangible product/act/person? How do the person move forward?
With a plan, action and radical responsibility! Do you struggle with it?
Right exactly I agree
I lost myself in thinking past. How to move on
You need the exact steps in order to do that. If you need help let me know.
@@ShaunHolden i need help sir
Cool man
I made a mistake and bcz of that I lost a person 😭
Sure thing.
🤔Abuse isn’t a mistake - it’s a choice. How do you grieve and heal from all the losses and abuse?
I don't think I can forgive myself for my obnoxious past behavior. I have reason to believe that ASD makes you stand out and apply to _"That's just wrong."_ That _we're_ weird and different, not everybody in the world. It feels that way at work for me. Do you know how often I said dumb things? I stupidly mentioned a man’s right to hit a woman for self-defense, and a new coworker proposed a new topic. And I know she doesn’t like me, because when I was casually chatting with a baker while waiting for the desserts, she entered and said “harassing the baker, John?” I asked why she thought that, and she said “Because you’re John.”
Or how about the time I told a coworker (whom I didn’t think would resent this, since he’s clownish and once made a weight joke to a guy) “put a sock in your àss. I mean mouth.” Shockingly, he actually did resent that and told me I can’t speak to him that way. I didn’t intend harm; he had interrupted a question of mine to another worker to, if I remember correctly, playfully diss me. I guess I was annoyed with the clownish interruption, but I didn’t mean for it to be obvious. But when it was, I approached him and apologized. But he replied unfairly: “you’re good, man. You just need to learn how to speak to people.” Way to make an apologetic person who already feels bad feel worse, hypocrite
And a jocular dick giving me the lecture feels worse. In fact, he's actually quite popular and well-liked at work. I've seen him have fun and get along so well with my coworkers, while acting like I don't exist at all. We pass each other in the hall or wherever, and he doesn't speak to me. Of course, I'll admit that I started the silence, since his hypocritical rudeness that one time, but I don't know for sure if he's giving me the silent treatment or anything. Either way, I'd say I'm not on his "good buds to joke with" list. I know he likes my coworkers better than me. Just the concept of being ignored hurts, and it doesn't help when they show admiration for the guy whom I think is obnoxious.
And that's not the worst part about my stupid ASD. I was taken to my supervisor's office with her and a high-ranking chef. They (or mostly the chef) told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much. Not THAT type of touch, of course not! Just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. I was always very outgoing at work. When I asked her if anyone reported a complaint, she said it didn't matter (so I assume that means yes). She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, and that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school (I work at a university's catering service). She told me I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers. Now yeah, I pretty much don't have a filter, and sometimes I guess I do say inappropriate stuff at work, but not horribly nor intentionally. I like to joke around and have fun with my coworkers, but I guess it isn't like that after all (more or less). I really didn't get specific information from the chef about what and who. She understands and likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits, for good behavior and my coworkers' sake. And again, that I shouldn't touch my coworkers (shoulders or arms) without their consent. But seriously, I'm not a creep! I don't randomly hug people or anything like that. I didn't mean to be so "handsy" (I say loosely). I'm so embarrassed about the office lecture. I am not like Biden at all. I'm really not. Have I really gone that far at work? I already hate being on the spectrum, and sometimes I actually hate myself. I kind of even wish I had been some kind of accident that day or the next, to make the boss and chef suddenly see the good in me and not see me as this obnoxious, creepy guy. If a person I disliked was in some accident, I wouldn't care at all about their unlikeable moments, I would just want them okay. If I EVER have a kid who inherits my disorder, I'm gonna do what I can to raise them right and as normal as an autistic person can be. I won't let him or her make the same mistakes I have.
..for betraying the lessons in hopes of a faith that world is a nice place. That Every human has a pure heart and it deserves time/effort/patience to prove themselves irrespective of their adopted malice in the journey of life. Nope! Such pple NEVER fail to reassure the saying of our elders. Never.
This speech you take it from thewizard liz
@thewizardliz you speech
Thank you
Amen 🎉