Thank you Chef! You are sooooo adorable! 😍 Thanks for this particular podcast. I had no idea what Gobela's (in general) go through during these initiation processes, their shares are really enlightening! My only issue though is that it sounded like it's the female initiates that are problematic and males ones are always best behaved.............? Surely that's not necessarily the case?
@@munchiesandthoughts9222 please bring both sides .....i wish this was a live show so we can ask questions because wow ai ngeke, theres alot i need to understand la , i have alot of unanswered questions and it sounded like female twasas are problematic ALWAYS! whats wrong with a twasa choosing to leave the space they feel is not right for them anymore? if its a mistake then its their mistake to learn from.. 🤷♂🤷♀ inkinga la is this WHOLE INITIATION THING IS MOTIVATED BY MONEY! and not the problem at hand....and where is the line of respect start and end when it comes to privacy? Gobela's now must access your phone and browse your personal space that has nothing to do with "idlozi" ? if they suspect such bad things ,send them home and tell them to rethink their life and come back when they are ready again, kanti whats the problem there ?
This is a very serious issue chief some of ogobela turn to ukuvala ukuthwasisa because of this things that are happening now I understand why they end up benzenjalo 😢
Sometimes we need tp be honest as people, I've seen a lot of broken people in psychiatric hospitals dealing with all the trauma that came with being at an initiation institute. I've helped some and ended up feeling everything they've felt & still feel. May we not defend those who can defense themselves? Love love the show Khehla🤝
I think ppl have changed, thwasas n Gobelas, T.H.O shud be educating Gobelas abt how to handle todays youth, cause times change and youth today ask everything it needs to make sense to them now so they don't loose interest, also initiation isn't uniform, all the mimoya aren't uniform, so Gobela has to work closely with thwasa yakhe and ppl pls show love show amathwasa uThando. Cause everything is abt uThando noMveliqangi, ngimela. ❤
My Munchies Thokoza Mina ngisesifiso sokuba ulethe oGobela abathwasisa abantwana emakhaya abo, like ukuthwasela ekhaya okhulele kulona not ukuhlala kaGobela
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Chef wam ngathi beka lit this episode😂😂😂😂. I actually added a new layer of knowledge. A support group for gobelas is so necessary
Lol 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 mara wena y'y exposing me lol 😂 😂 thank you for the support and love
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All matwasa who left initiation before gobelas traumatized them let's gather here🎉🎉 🎉🎉cheers to the dlozi who said pack your begs and go❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Siyabonga ❤ my Munchies
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Thank you guys for ukuthinta lendaba yokuhlukunyezwa koGobela👏👏 abo gobela bendlula ezintweni eziningi and leyo akukhulunywa ngayo
Thank you so much for the support and love.. More fresh content coming
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Siyakhala manje🤣🤣🤣🤣the Dr with glasses is on fire🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯straight talk oneway
He's amazing ❤️ thank you so much for the support and love
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I chased mine away I'm at peace now❤ . Parents please teach your children manners cause bayasxaka once they're at ephehlweni.
Ash yah kunzima
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Please do a show about ama patients axhaphazwa by traditional healers and prophets.
Thank you so much for the support and love yessss soon
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"Gijy" o tshwere setxo sa nnete! Big up, Mntomdala!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
He's amazing ❤️
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Thank you Chef! You are sooooo adorable! 😍 Thanks for this particular podcast. I had no idea what Gobela's (in general) go through during these initiation processes, their shares are really enlightening! My only issue though is that it sounded like it's the female initiates that are problematic and males ones are always best behaved.............? Surely that's not necessarily the case?
Thank you so much for the support and love.. I think 🤔 I need to bring it back just to hear from both sides
Regards
Chef Phathanani Mbatha
@@munchiesandthoughts9222 please bring both sides .....i wish this was a live show so we can ask questions because wow ai ngeke, theres alot i need to understand la , i have alot of unanswered questions and it sounded like female twasas are problematic ALWAYS! whats wrong with a twasa choosing to leave the space they feel is not right for them anymore? if its a mistake then its their mistake to learn from.. 🤷♂🤷♀ inkinga la is this WHOLE INITIATION THING IS MOTIVATED BY MONEY! and not the problem at hand....and where is the line of respect start and end when it comes to privacy? Gobela's now must access your phone and browse your personal space that has nothing to do with "idlozi" ? if they suspect such bad things ,send them home and tell them to rethink their life and come back when they are ready again, kanti whats the problem there ?
This is a very serious issue chief some of ogobela turn to ukuvala ukuthwasisa because of this things that are happening now I understand why they end up benzenjalo 😢
Ash yah kunzima
Regards
Chef Phathanani Mbatha
Sometimes we need tp be honest as people,
I've seen a lot of broken people in psychiatric hospitals dealing with all the trauma that came with being at an initiation institute.
I've helped some and ended up feeling everything they've felt & still feel.
May we not defend those who can defense themselves?
Love love the show Khehla🤝
Thank you so much for the support and love..
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Chef Phathanani Mbatha
…..YEBO and that’s only the tip of the berg. Enkosi for the comment wethu.👏🏾👏🏾
I need to share this with iGqirha lam, who is also my husband. That part yoba kunzima ubangu male Gobela.
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LOVE THIS
Thank you so much 😁
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Are ancestral spirits forcing Sangomas to be Gobelas. Can one be sangoma without having students?
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Thokozan zindlondlo nakuwe mhlali ngaphambili mm le sihloko saze sangithinta kakhulu mina ngikwazi kahle lokhu kodwa isikhathi esininzi kuthwa yithi bogobela bahlukumezayo nemindeni mase kukho inkulumo wzikanje bema nengani zabo ngaphandle kokuza kuwe gobela bathi nayi ngani khala ngalokhu ngifisa ngathi abantu bangazi ukuthi amathwasa yasidelela wasihloniphi kodwa sizothini ngoba sibizelwe kona ke mathwasa yakwazi ukukuqambela manga futhi akufanele lawo manga yha ne kungivusela manxeba kakhulu le topic kodwa ngiyabonga kakhulu nokwazi ukuthi nabanye ogobela bayahlangana nazo inkinga ezikanje
Thank you so much for the support and love..
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Zyakhala la😊
Kakhulu manje..
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Thanks
Thank you so much for the support and love
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Yooo the moods i m not even interested now ukuthwasisa
Uxolo 🤗
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I think ppl have changed, thwasas n Gobelas, T.H.O shud be educating Gobelas abt how to handle todays youth, cause times change and youth today ask everything it needs to make sense to them now so they don't loose interest, also initiation isn't uniform, all the mimoya aren't uniform, so Gobela has to work closely with thwasa yakhe and ppl pls show love show amathwasa uThando. Cause everything is abt uThando noMveliqangi, ngimela. ❤
Amen 😁
Thank you so much for the support and love
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Thank you so much for the support and love..
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Sthundu ke eng?
Thank you so much 😁 😁 appreciated and yes I will ask them
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My Munchies Thokoza Mina ngisesifiso sokuba ulethe oGobela abathwasisa abantwana emakhaya abo, like ukuthwasela ekhaya okhulele kulona not ukuhlala kaGobela
Woooow thank you so much 😁 😁 it's will be done soon
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🤩 "promo sm"
Thank you so much for the support and love
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Can we have Abba ayalew Amlak on the show......... So much imput lapho.
Thank you so much for the support and love.. Will try and get hold of him soon
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Use of language, Slwane!!! No!
Apologizes we promise to do better next time
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