Having anxiety doesn't give someone the right to project their misery onto everyone else around them. If Statler can't function under pretty basic circumstances, perhaps it wasn't a good idea to move into a tiny van and force all of her own mental issues onto Dempsey. Statler needs help, not a girlfriend in a tiny van.
I totally relate with anxiety and panic attacks but like we can't expect people around us to suffer with us dude; it's not fair. Statler needs therapy and medication. She does seem miserable and there's help; she doesn't have to be that anxious and miserable. And if our mental illness is so out of control that it brings others down, I'm sorry, but people are allowed their peace. Saying this as someone too depressed to even date right now lol. It's like Dempsy is expected to never enjoy herself...
While we’re playing armchair therapist I also think she has cptsd. Being in a relationship with the wrong person could also bring up anxiety and depression so it’s probably her body reacting. Regardless I do think she does need to work on herself alone
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Exactly! Statler should not have gone on this trip without preparation and figuring out how she was going to take care of her own mental health. Dempsey is not responsible for studying up on how to relieve her anxiety. Statler expects way too much of other people, like they should coddle her and cater to her all the time.
Lily is very patient. I would have already kicked Josh out of my house. He seems to find excuses for everything "I am here alone, I am ill, there are flashlights everywhere and blablabla". He is not into her. Very sad to watch. I hope that Lily will find her soulmate. I am afraid that Josh is not the one.
Dempsey dumping Statler as well she should. Statler has been extremely annoying with her horrible friend's words in her head thinking Dempsey is using her. If she doesn't trust her, don't go.
One thing admirable about shekinah is that she stands her grounds and not afraid to call sarper out when he’s crappy and to leave him. Although she has such a high tolerance for his crap. 🤣 Still I like that she calls him out and walks away. Rather than some women in this show that’s like doormat. 🙄
YES STATLER, YOURE GOING TO GET DUMPED BECAUSE YOU WERE INEXCUSABLY UNECESSARILY NASTY, HOSTILE & RUDE TO DEMPSEY DURING YOUR PANIC ATTACK. HAVING A PANIC ATTACK DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO MISTREAT SOMEONE. YOU CAN STILL BE KIND IN A PANIC ATTACK.
Dempsey was wrong for not giving Statler her space! Statler asked her numerous times to leave her in peace while on the boat. I would have. Reacted the same way if my partner was getting after me like Dempsey was.
right I'm tired of people using excuses for everything you don't have to be rude but she keeps talking about how she was adopted and has mental illness then you really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't handle life.
STATLER SNAPPING AT DEMPSEY WAS THE LAST STRAW, DEMPSEY CONFRONTED HER BECAUSE STAT HAD INSULTED & SNAPPED AT HER ALL THE WAY TRAVELLING THERE MAKING HER CRY, SHE WAS DISRRAUGHT BY THIS POINT ON THE BOAT, & READY TO CALL IT QQUITS IF STATLER KEPT BEING ABUSIVE TO HER. BUT AGAIN STATLER WOULD NOT CONSIDER DEMPSEYS FEELINGS.
Dempsey is an ableist b who wants her disabled girlfriend to support her while Dempsey gets "excited" travelling, plus she has to mirror Dempsey's moods, not have her own experiences and emotions. Dempsey literaly tells Statler she is not panicking, when she is, and has told Statler that Autism and ADHD don't exist, that's it's all in her mind! That's so cruel! She decided to ignore Statler's dual diagnosis and now is blaming Statler in the middle of her panic attack. Why is Dempsey asking to be accomodated in having to accomodate her disabled girlfriend, who also doesn't want to "feel like this". Statler is actually the one going through it, but Dempsey is making it all about her, while making it worse for Statler, to the point she has to cover her ears.
For someone on the spectrum that is terrified with anxiety Dempsey is a nightmare Being neurodivergent myself watching that scene gave me anxiety on how much Dempsey was harassing her and I thought Statler did very well trying to hold it together And I don't think that Dempsey is intentionally mean I just don't think she understands at all and it's good that they broke up
Shekinah made Sarper give up his female clients, made him give up his furniture at his home, made him post her on his social media according to her criteria, made him get rid of all his memories of the past, makes him buy her gifts only she chooses and gets upset if it isn't exactly what she wanted, she is the most controlling woman ever. Sarper is not an alpha male by any means.
I hope Sarper and Shekinah make it and have a happy life together,, and their families support them. I'm not certain what i think about Josh and Lily. Dempsey and Statler are like a house on fire. With Statler seemingly wallowing in misery 90% of the time, or telling Dempsey she thinks she's being scammed, i don't think they will stay together. I also find it hypocritical that Statler didn't sell her car, to keep it for a backup plan, but is upset Dempsey has saved 500 pounds from the sale of her car. Also, Statler was the one who was pushing for and trying to rush their living together.
I would've dumped Stat long time ago. And I'm talking as someone that has mental health issues. Being nasty and mean isn't excused just because you have mental health issues. That's a choice you make. Actively.
Dempsy dump her. She has had agenda since arriving funny last season other than hooking up with ex upon arriving unlike current situation everything stresses her. Look its not Dempsy fault she lived within her means unlike Statler that liked the best and went in debt ...
Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can go to the Father except through him.❤ Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤ Jesus saves, Jesus heals and Jesus grants peace
Shocker: not everyone wants to move to the states!
Exactly!!
Not everyone. But everyone on this show does
@@pauladiaz7101 Irish man did not.
I would never leave Europe for the States
@@pauladiaz7101the show is literally called ”the other way” bc it’s the American moving to the other country…
Stadler is an emotional bully.
Dumpsey is a passive aggressive manipulator
Shocker. You hide your marriage from your own kids for 2 whole years and they didn't like it. Is she serious????
Joanna is so irresponsible and behaving like a teenager. She’s putting her kids through trauma and shock. That dude doesn’t even have a job! Come on 😨
Having anxiety doesn't give someone the right to project their misery onto everyone else around them. If Statler can't function under pretty basic circumstances, perhaps it wasn't a good idea to move into a tiny van and force all of her own mental issues onto Dempsey. Statler needs help, not a girlfriend in a tiny van.
I totally relate with anxiety and panic attacks but like we can't expect people around us to suffer with us dude; it's not fair. Statler needs therapy and medication. She does seem miserable and there's help; she doesn't have to be that anxious and miserable. And if our mental illness is so out of control that it brings others down, I'm sorry, but people are allowed their peace. Saying this as someone too depressed to even date right now lol. It's like Dempsy is expected to never enjoy herself...
right 👏 👏👏💯💯
While we’re playing armchair therapist I also think she has cptsd.
Being in a relationship with the wrong person could also bring up anxiety and depression so it’s probably her body reacting. Regardless I do think she does need to work on herself alone
Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can go to the Father except through him.❤
Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤
Jesus saves, Jesus heals and Jesus grants peace
Exactly! Statler should not have gone on this trip without preparation and figuring out how she was going to take care of her own mental health. Dempsey is not responsible for studying up on how to relieve her anxiety. Statler expects way too much of other people, like they should coddle her and cater to her all the time.
Statler is soooooo exhausting 🙄!
Statler who lives with Dempsey needs space and to be alone? Then why did you think a cramped van was good idea? No space. Never alone.
Statler is so desperate she needs to grow the HELL UP!!!!
Lily is very patient. I would have already kicked Josh out of my house. He seems to find excuses for everything "I am here alone, I am ill, there are flashlights everywhere and blablabla".
He is not into her. Very sad to watch.
I hope that Lily will find her soulmate. I am afraid that Josh is not the one.
After seeing light flash understand reference but no big deal either camera taking picture.
The way Sharper said " ALL OF THEM" sounded like a toddler getting rid of their pacifiers.
Actually he took the bottles to a bank vault 😂
What kind of mom is shekinah? She never mentions her daughter. Seems kind of sad...
Or she's protecting her from crazy people on the internet...
She doesn’t need to talk about her daughter.
Maybe it makes her a better mother
She does talk about her daughter..
I mean we seen Jasmine and Larissa so not good 😂 they only care about themselves
Dempsey dumping Statler as well she should. Statler has been extremely annoying with her horrible friend's words in her head thinking Dempsey is using her. If she doesn't trust her, don't go.
One thing admirable about shekinah is that she stands her grounds and not afraid to call sarper out when he’s crappy and to leave him. Although she has such a high tolerance for his crap. 🤣 Still I like that she calls him out and walks away. Rather than some women in this show that’s like doormat. 🙄
She simply likes the drama and attention…
Yeah she's a bit of a boss like that, I agree
Yea, but she will always go back to him.
YES STATLER, YOURE GOING TO GET DUMPED BECAUSE YOU WERE INEXCUSABLY UNECESSARILY NASTY, HOSTILE & RUDE TO DEMPSEY DURING YOUR PANIC ATTACK. HAVING A PANIC ATTACK DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO MISTREAT SOMEONE. YOU CAN STILL BE KIND IN A PANIC ATTACK.
Dempsey was wrong for not giving Statler her space! Statler asked her numerous times to leave her in peace while on the boat. I would have. Reacted the same way if my partner was getting after me like Dempsey was.
right I'm tired of people using excuses for everything you don't have to be rude but she keeps talking about how she was adopted and has mental illness then you really shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't handle life.
@@bubblyunicornif you would react that way then you shouldn’t be in a relationship.
STATLER SNAPPING AT DEMPSEY WAS THE LAST STRAW, DEMPSEY CONFRONTED HER BECAUSE STAT HAD INSULTED & SNAPPED AT HER ALL THE WAY TRAVELLING THERE MAKING HER CRY, SHE WAS DISRRAUGHT BY THIS POINT ON THE BOAT, & READY TO CALL IT QQUITS IF STATLER KEPT BEING ABUSIVE TO HER. BUT AGAIN STATLER WOULD NOT CONSIDER DEMPSEYS FEELINGS.
@@Minifigcreator97wow
Josh clearly came for the money
Shaking and Sarper are so fake 😂 I cannot take them seriously
Josh misses his Legos, he's not a man 😂
I’m convinced this host is AI
Forreal..
That’s definitely what it is
This filter is hideous
I can’t stand Josh.. he just wants to use Lilly .. Lilly open your eyes!
I tell my kids everything what is with the mom not telling her kids....selfish
Of course the kids were gonna be upset Joanne. You and Sean made a poor choice.
Statler who needs constant attention for her various personality needs cannot will not empathize with her girlfriend.
Statler is always miserable
All that money on her face and body, and they drive a hunk of crap
Dempsey is an ableist b who wants her disabled girlfriend to support her while Dempsey gets "excited" travelling, plus she has to mirror Dempsey's moods, not have her own experiences and emotions. Dempsey literaly tells Statler she is not panicking, when she is, and has told Statler that Autism and ADHD don't exist, that's it's all in her mind! That's so cruel! She decided to ignore Statler's dual diagnosis and now is blaming Statler in the middle of her panic attack. Why is Dempsey asking to be accomodated in having to accomodate her disabled girlfriend, who also doesn't want to "feel like this". Statler is actually the one going through it, but Dempsey is making it all about her, while making it worse for Statler, to the point she has to cover her ears.
For someone on the spectrum that is terrified with anxiety Dempsey is a nightmare Being neurodivergent myself watching that scene gave me anxiety on how much Dempsey was harassing her and I thought Statler did very well trying to hold it together And I don't think that Dempsey is intentionally mean I just don't think she understands at all and it's good that they broke up
Shekinah made Sarper give up his female clients, made him give up his furniture at his home, made him post her on his social media according to her criteria, made him get rid of all his memories of the past, makes him buy her gifts only she chooses and gets upset if it isn't exactly what she wanted, she is the most controlling woman ever. Sarper is not an alpha male by any means.
GET YOUR PEACE DEMPSEY 🌹
Sorry, but I would NEVER move to the states!
I hope Sarper and Shekinah make it and have a happy life together,, and their families support them. I'm not certain what i think about Josh and Lily. Dempsey and Statler are like a house on fire. With Statler seemingly wallowing in misery 90% of the time, or telling Dempsey she thinks she's being scammed, i don't think they will stay together. I also find it hypocritical that Statler didn't sell her car, to keep it for a backup plan, but is upset Dempsey has saved 500 pounds from the sale of her car. Also, Statler was the one who was pushing for and trying to rush their living together.
Statler is a manipulator of note. Dems needs to leave before she looses her mind.
Idk what Joanne is doing with this “young man” she needs to be getting worried about Social Security disability, AARP and icy hot with her old self
I would've dumped Stat long time ago. And I'm talking as someone that has mental health issues. Being nasty and mean isn't excused just because you have mental health issues. That's a choice you make. Actively.
Why. Does. Josh. Talk. Like. This?
He is talking to her as though she's stupid. It's that lecturing tone again.
Statler is one of the entitled women
Dempsy dump her. She has had agenda since arriving funny last season other than hooking up with ex upon arriving unlike current situation everything stresses her. Look its not Dempsy fault she lived within her means unlike Statler that liked the best and went in debt ...
What an odd situation and relationship.😂
Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can go to the Father except through him.❤
Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤
Jesus saves, Jesus heals and Jesus grants peace
Hallelujah ❤