Sibling Rivalry: The One About Narcissism
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- In this episode of "Sibling Rivalry," Bob and Monet engage in a candid conversation about narcissism. With their trademark humor and unfiltered honesty, they delve into the question of whether they themselves exhibit narcissistic traits and share personal anecdotes that provide a glimpse into their own self-reflection. Additionally, the dynamic duo explores the broader theme of narcissism within the drag queen community, and how the term is being used on platforms like TikTok. With a mix of humor and self-awareness, Bob and Monet offer viewers a thought-provoking and entertaining exploration of this buzzword.
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@BobTheDragQueen
@MonetXChange
Jacob really be coming in at the most random times saying the most crazy things💀💀😭🤣
Lmao and I live for it 😂
Assertive twink Era baby, get into it
LMAO that killed me 😭😭
The spiciness of the siblings is rubbing off on them
I mean I have seen it a few times and have done the sucking once on a dance floor. 💀
A whole episode about Bob!!!
SHADEEEEE
The way Monet confidently says Canada has 5 provinces and one of them is Victoria… is the most American response
Victoria, Calgary, Alberta and Quebec 😅 tf Monet
Literally 😂
same energy as 3 cities she would like to visit
Bob has been trying to tell us for years.... Monét's knowledge of geography is as non-existent as her hairline
I CRINGED
monet listing victoria and calgary as canadian provinces was wild lmaoo but then again when i was a kid i went on vacation to los angeles and san francisco and i was confident that california, los angeles and san francisco were 3 different us states 💀💀
You were a kid though... I love Monét, but she's grown and in her 30s. Not only that, but she's been to Canada many times before on different tours, including her own lmao. Bob too....
@@SMAnthonyWbut then again, I’m from a small country and I don’t know the number of provinces in our nearest neighboring country (even smaller). I wouldn’t be able to name more than two even if I know a lot of city names and som general geography. We basically speak the same language and share both history and culture but that wouldn’t help either. I’m 41 and generally pretty knowledgeable, but that question would stump me. Let’s normalize not knowing everything, it’s not a sign of disinterest or lack of respect.
what was wild was listing alberta and Calgary as two different provinces
Here we go, Bob and his sneaky little boyfriend again
I think that Monet is confusing narcissism with the ego. We all deal with balancing our ego. Entertainers probably deal with this more profoundly on a daily basis.
Bob: I think I'm coming to terms with the fact that I had an eating disorder and called it something else to make me feel better about it
Monet: Have you ever been to that pressed juice place in LA? A three day juice cleanse
Bob, I just want to say that I for one really appreciate how open minded and accepting you are about bodies and body image on this podcast. I've been listening to the pod for years now, and your constant reminders and affirmations have helped me unlearn a lot of the fatphobia, body shaming, disordered eating, etc. that has been normalized in modern culture. So thank you for that.
I love that Bob doesn’t like the question ‘what are you doing?’ here but that’s what he asked RuPaul when he saw him at the airport 🤣🤣🤣
Hooking...hookin'
Narcissism has always been a pathological disorder and its only been since mental health awareness has made a huge shift into the zeitgeist that we use that term commonly and incorrectly. Narcissism is never a good thing, its always a problem. Big ego is probably what monet means
Thank you for affirming to me that I shouldn't watch/listen to this one. I have a cluster b diagnosis, and it *infuriates* me how flippant people are. Not everyone out there that's selfish or that disagrees with you is a narcissist.
I think that most people, when in their own country talking to others from that country, will use a region or province name to give context, especially when talking about a smaller town or city. They also know that information isn't really useful when talking to foreigners so they just say the country name. Us narcissistic Americans tend to assume foreigners just know about the US inherently so we add the state regardless
I’ve traveled abroad a bit and non-North Americans will ask me “oh where you from?” and when I say the US they ask “what state” and I tell them and they have no idea where it is. This has happened multiple times. Also, I don’t think it’s American narcissism-Americans are simply trained to think of their place in space in relation to a region within a continent-sized country. Each state has its own distinct culture, geography, infrastructure, political history, ethnic makeup, and general history, so of course we’re going to be more inclined to give our state. British people will give their county or city of origin when asked where they’re from because, much like the US, every inch of the UK is unique and distinct in its own right in a way almost no other part of the world is, simply by how things shook out historically and economically. Again, I don’t say my state out of narcissism but because simply stating your country of origin tells people absolutely nothing, and anyone who assumes telling someone your country of origin and just your country of origin gives anyone any insight on who you are is fooling themselves. We should be introducing ourselves by city or state/province and then country, no matter where we’re from.
That sneaky little boyfriend is living LIFE! OMG 🥴😵💫💀
Not the hotel room bob promised was never gonna be in the show again
Dead 😂😂😂😂
some people with NPD perceive themself to be empathetic because they are so accustomed to projecting they simply mistake their own emotions as belonging to others.
some people with NPD experience empathy and are able to understand other people's emotions but place zero value on those emotions except as instruments for manipulation.
some people with NPD are legit cool and spend a ton of energy managing their empathy disability for the benefit of the people they come into contact with.
ones where ones is due, tens where tens is due!
Thank you! I don't have NPD, but I've been diagnosed with BPD, and the way people just assume you're an inherent abuser is so disheartening. Abuse is always a choice, and many of us fight every day to make sure that we're not putting any harm out into the world.
I always ask: Which is worse? Having empathy and choosing to not use it, or having impaired empathy and still trying your best? People *really* complain about "you don't have empathy," and then turn around and refuse to have any, like that person had a choice in the matter.
@kaylinsmith6921 the number of therapists who will refuse to treat people with bpd cuz their prejudice is so frustating and the profession of psychology should be ashamed. i've got very close friends with bpd and i'm so proud of them 💜
@@CosmonautZer0Oh, the way people throw out, "Go to therapy!" like it isn't a 4 year wait to get into a DBT program that is just as likely to harm you further as it is to help you. Like people in psychology don't look down their noses at us. Ugh.
Your comments made me cry. I'm so glad that someone out there gets it. Hope you're doing well. 💜
(43:20) Kudos to Bob for putting in the work on himself and calling out flippant criticisms of his "politically correct" statements. Anyone who reacts to someone pointing out problematic wording/behavior with accusations of "wokeness" or "virtue signaling" clearly doesn't realize that the whole point of these "woke" statements is to be more inclusive by highlighting and removing the tools of discrimination and oppression. The only reason you would have an issue with that is if you think (either intentionally or subconsciously) that those tools are still useful (usually to oppress others for your own benefit).
omg Monet, we need to see you do a label the Canadian provinces and territories cause that was hilarious.
💀💀
Jacob.... What kinda dance floors have you been to????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Jacob what we not even 5 minutes in 😂😂😂
The silence and stares after Jacob talks about gettin active on the dance floor was so loud lmaaoooo
What was that ending?
Moné: "...I love you very much"
Bob: (Nothing for the last 2 minutes. Just silence.)
I was just about to comment this 😂😂.
Not Jacob getting that suckity slurpity on the dance floor
20:20 Omg Monet! You're so articulate with your words. Beautifully said!
Absolutely cackling at Monets knowledge of Canada's "Providences".
When Monet said Canada has 5 provinces of Victoria, AB, Calgary, QC, and smth else 😂😂😂 To those wondering, in Canada we have 10 provinces and 3 territories… and Victoria/Calgary are cities lol
I have highly narcissistic parents one of them likely has flew blown NPD who I no longer have contact with. Both of them have those qualities due to significant early childhood trauma. We all have some levels of narcissism but the key for folks who are HIGH on the spectrum are low empathy for others and self-absorption that doesn’t allow them to look beyond their own pain and needs as well as very low self-awareness of their impact on others. They have a tendency to make every conversation and action about themselves. Also being raised by those types of parents makes you prone to attaching to highly narcissistic folks as an adult bc it’s normalized.
Just wanna chime in and thank Bob for the way she talks about bodies on the show. I've always noticed and appreciated it and it has helped me learn to speak about my body and others bodies in a way I prefer. So thanks, Bob! xox
We called it “freaking” NO FREAKING AT THE SCHOOL DANCE. LOL
Canada’s provinces and territories are: Ontario, Quebec, Alberta, Manitoba, Saskatchewan, British Columbia, New Brunswick, PEI, Nova Scotia, Nunavut, Yukon, Northwest Territories, and Newfoundland and Labrador 😊
people who live in canada say "edmonton, alberta" - it's just that americans don't say that because most of you don't know the names of the provinces 🤣 we're just happy when you know anything about canada outside of toronto. i'm from edmonton- and when i'm in america and people ask me where i'm from i always say "alberta- it's above montana" because i already know 4/5 americans won't know where alberta is lololol....
You overestimate how many Americans can find Montana on a map. I mean, I can, but...
if it helps, idk where Montana is either (FL education)
Jacob:"We've all been there"
HAVE WE?? I must've missed the memo
Love the convo about disordered eating. So much of “health” advice is not about being healthy but literally starving ourselves to be smaller, which is not good for your health.
I love how the Siblings are sponsored by Quip. They have become the official successor to What's The Tea.
there are 10 provinces and 3 territories in canada and monet only named 2 😂😂
Monet naming the "5" Canadian provinces ... 😂😂😂😂
They be taking breaks mid sentences lmao
Bob’s energy 📉
Only 5 mins after they posted and I’m LISTENING!!
Im here cooking for the family, an next thing you know you mention Nova Starr. Wait.....
im cooking in her kitchen... they said thank you for the shout out, it made her night.
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I used to be queen of asking people "what are you doing here" so on behalf of all awkward people everywhere it was just the unexpectedness of seeing someone you aren't expecting to see.
Cabbage patch dance came from a rap group Gucci Crew II doing that dance move to a song named cabbage patch after the dolls popular at that time
Not Monét thinking Canada only has 5 provinces/territories 😭😭😭 drag Ontario, Nova Scotia, PEI and all the other ones she didn’t name LOL
I think the American City State thing is because states have such unique identities, but lots of other countries (like canada where I am) are more uniform identities.
As someone who is cluster B (what Narcissistic Personality Disorder is) with two cluster B siblings (I have BPD and one sibling has BPD and another ASPD), it's so refreshing how Bob goes into the discussion not wanting to go off of stereotypes and armchair diagnosing (a big problem....) right off the bat, especially considering a big component to why we get these disorders is from trauma ❤❤ People definitely have ableist stereotypes about cluster Bs, sometimes from experiences of those who they did in fact armchair diagnose, when not every person with a personality disorder is abusive and not every abusive person has a personality disorder..... I'm always so on edge when I hear people go to discuss them, and it's so nice to hear people who do not just go into straight negativity on the topic 🥹🥹
As a South African, we say just the city, but then when you talk to people outside South Africa we say City + Country.
LOL THE ENDING
This video is giving very much, we don’t have anything to talk about, we just need to upload a video……
and we love every bit
This was a very interesting episode and topic(s). ❤
Not monet saying Canada has 5 provinces two of them being Victoria and Calgary lmao
45:12 id love for y’all to collab with maintenance phase
Unhinged Jacob is the best!!!
Listing cities as provinces 🤣🤣 We have 10 provinces and 3 territories, and while most Canadians assume American's don't know them all despite them assuming we know every state, Victoria and Calgary are cities lmao
I think Bob just likes to hear Money says she loves apples lol
Do y'all listen to Maintenance Phase? Their episode about the Master Cleanse was wild!
Nymph Echo would like to have a conversation with Jacob….
As a albino gay man I’ve been treated indifferent in the gay community and in other circumstances so I 100% agree that people treat pretty people better.
Monet always be talking about bathhouses and how he went to some in Europe recently during tour like???
As a Canadian, listening to Bob and Money talk about our country is WILD. And hilarious. Victoria and Calgary are cities not provinces, baby!
money!
@@nouh2397 🤣 Ooops!
I currently live in San Diego and can confirm these “hookup bushes” at blacks beach😅
Not narcississies 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow this whole episode is about bob! They never talk enough, or about themselves enough for that matter.. 😂
i think we say (city, state) in the US because the federal government or the United States isn’t really a place but a governing body. I think of each state being it’s own individual thing, we just all agreed to be under one constitution. most other countries are so small compared to the united states. and places like Russia or China are much more nationalist than we are so they kinda think of the entire country as one thing. I’m from Michigan so i’m a Michigander first and an American second. idk if that made sense
"wuhan's a small town" not wuhan having a larger population than NYC!
Love you both ❤❤❤
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Now I thought Canada had 10 provinces
As a Canadian listening to this is WWWWWWWWWILD
Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease come to South Africa! I'm first in line to buy tickets to a Siblings show here.
I can’t believe I’m saying this but…… it was not enough arguing for me 😂😂
In Canada we say Edmonton Alberta and we have 10 provinces and 3 Territories. Americans are Narcissistic so it's hard for you. 😂
Monet listing Canada's 5... no, 4 provinces took me OUT! Especially considering she's been to my province twice and didn't even mention it. I'm cackling
What was that ending 😅🤣
Canada has 10 provinces and 3 territories. Victoria and Calgary is not a province.
I've walked in on 2 duded going at it under Santa Monica peer 😆 It was literally broad day light. My husband ushered me to the other side of peir real quick, but what I saw it was fascinating 😉 hopefully no families walked by there....
I would ask my parents all the time "what are you doing here," instead of "why are you home early."
3:42 😂😂😂
we call it [city, state] because we’re the united STATES i feel like
dubbing, giving dubs, comes from whining. W = dub but i’m pretty sure it’s nyc area slang. but i haven’t really heard the term used since like early 2010s?
Where they talking about Beyoncé? at 26:50?
I've always said Bob is funnier than Bianca Del Rio.
“Cleansing. “ is ED
Detoxing just happens in the liver
We have ten provinces (from west to east- British Columbia who's capital city is Victoria and biggest city Vancouver, then Alberta, where Edmonton and Calgary are, Manitoba, Ontario, which is where Toronto and Ottawa are, Quebec which has Montréal, New Brunswick, Nova Scotia, Prince Edward Island, and Newfoundland and Labrador. We have three territories, the Yukon, Northwest Territories, and Nunavut. Each of our provinces are huge except for the 4 maritime provinces in the East. Quebec is the largest province, in the world. It is bigger than Alaska, the biggest US state, and twice the size of Texas, but has only a 3rd of the population of Texas. Only Siberia in Russia is bigger than Quebec, but it is made up of several smaller units called oblasts, which is Russia's equivalent to a province or state.
New title- Sibling Rivalry: The One About Bob TDQ! #istandwithmonet
bob the only reason you dont say the state of a city in other countries is because you dont know them. its normal to not know the states of other countries, i guess thats something you only know if you're from any other country in the world
Century spa is def a 🛁 🏡
Arianna! What are you doing here?
MY TWO FAVORITE BALD BABIES LOVE U GUYS PURRR XOXO
Jacob, I saw your other twin Jacob on Lego masters season 2. Go check him out you’ll die. He looks just like you. I’m surprised no one has every brought this up
Islam is similar to Christianity and Judaism. They have a lot of the same teachings and tell the same stories, same characters, same god. The main difference between Christianity and Islam is the prominence and position of Jesus. Plus the Quran is in Arabic instead of Hebrew. If Christianity is a continuation of Judaism, Islam is a continuation of Christianity
I thought I was the only one that found Bob was painfully PC lol.
Shame BTDQ knows nothing about cleansing 😂
I loved Century though it was a Korean spa also, it was separate facilities for Men and Women so the gays were wildin in the steam room or the empty Jade room, clay room, Himalayan salt room lol
That Segway was rough
Bob looks like a tired teacher idk
Dark Wade (Jacob) is getting out of hand, he said he doesn't suck the Ducks on the dance floor...but he be watching
Y’all sounded so uninterested
It’s wILD that you don’t know anything about Canada. You’ve toured there, it’s right above you, not the same as China ladies 🥲🥲 love you both tho
it seems like they dont like each other anymore 😭 hurtful to watch
lmaoooo
Bob doesn't know a narcissist? Madonna is one of biggest
I'm early!
Bob consistently trying to one-up Monet is a sign of narciccism, FOR ME!!!!
Oh, good, a clinical psychologist finally makes a diagnosis.
Monet is really out here spreading false information about Canadian Provence’s 😂😂😂
Providences * LOL