Married at First Sight: Happily Ever After? - Morning Sickness (Season 1, Episode 1) | Lifetime
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- Pastor Calvin drops in to visit Bobby and Danielle at home where they talk about how they split up their responsibilities in this clip from Season 1, Episode 1, "Room For Improvement". #MarriedAtFirstSight
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They haven't fought because Bobby doesn't verbalize what he needs from Danielle...he just accepts and does everything. Her lack of communication in regards to her feelings for him IS an issue - he just never addresses it! He does literally EVERYTHING for her, and eventually resentment will build, but he's spent so much time avoiding confrontation - he won't know how to communicate it.
A R TOTALLY agree! It will be bad once it all blows up
I still can't believe that they haven't at least had ONE disagreement. No relationship, I repeat No relationship is perfect!! It seems like that's what they're trying to convey. I wouldn't want major problems In my relationship but i wouldn't want to be like its sunshine and flowers all the time. In my opinion that's sending the wrong message.
Yes! I agree! Its gonna blow up at some point, its inevitable
Bingo! ✔️
yep totally agree for her not to come up with some amazing things to say about him especially since he does everything i am shock i know this is the first season wonder if there still together
Everyone can't figure out why they have yet to have a fight but I'm just glad that her eyebrows aren't so harshly drawn in anymore.
😁😁😁😁😁 her eyebrow was bad
MilkCh0c0lat3 why did I say the same thing!? 😂🤣
😆😆😆u a mess!!
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I feel like Bobby is gonna explode one day, I feel like he is internalizing his anger or pushing it aside until that last drop
Why? He seems genuinely happy.
I don’t think he’s a slave to her, I think they’re both so comfortable with themselves and have zero ego that they’re as strong and flexible as bamboo. There were tidbits in the show where Bobby voiced where his limits would be re the foster dogs and Danielle agreed to honor his boundaries but no one remembers that. She had a three hour drive daily so he could be closer to his home and work and he chose to care for the dogs in return. I was on bed rest two out of three pregnancies with no one to care for me. My hat’s off to this gentleman for the way he cares for his wife. And kudos to the wife for respecting his boundaries.
The "experts" matched a giver and a taker.
🤔😏
Somewhat better than if they were the same
That's normally the way though. One is the garden, the other the gardener.
Opposites attract, maybe if she was too independent he would have walked out already.
He takes care of/serves her on another level.
Hopefully she genuinely appreciates Bobby and conveys words of affirmation too.
She doesnt. Bobby is a straight up beta male.
@@MikeyPaper yea
My parents have been married 40 years and they have never fought! Have never even heard them raise their voices at each other !
Yeah some people are really good at communicating and compromising. Years later they’re still together and happy.
I know a lot of couples like that. They all pretty said they were just good at night fighting or arguing in front of people or telling people about their problems. But they had them.
Bobby is not a partner. He is a caretaker.
Whoa! Nail. Head. HAMMERED!
Nonya' those two ain't sharing .... none of anyone's business! Jokes on those so-called professionals, that have a terrible success rating!
EXACTLY..... She might as well be disabled the way he taking care of her...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Agree
I understand she is pregnant but I genuinely hope she’s taking care of him too. Wanting to take care of each other is a partnership when both people are meeting the needs of the other
As long as Danielle doesn't take Bobby for granted...it's ALL GOOD! I've been happily married to my own "Bobby" for 10 years now & we didn't have our 1st major fight til about year 7. 😝
He is romantic, a good provider, cooks, cleans, gives me massages (feet included lol 🤣) etc. Nothing wrong with a man taking good care of his wife and vice versa...but there is always one that gives a little more than the other even though I try to out give...he always gives a little more than me🤗🤗.
We each have different love languages & mines is not words but actions & I APPRECIATE ALL "My Bobby" does for me & our family SO YES LADIES, THERE ARE GOOD MEN OUT THERE ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU ALLOW GOD TO BE YOUR MATCHMAKER!!! 🌻
She was domestically useless before the pregnancy. Now that she’s pregnant, she’s settling in. It will only get worst
Uh yeah....this just feels off. My husband did his best to serve me while I was pregnant, but being pregnant doesnt mean your incapable of doing things. Come on now
Samantha Baker I agree .
She's really milking this pregnancy thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She’s so clueless to his feelings and he thinks all his feelings will pass so he can handle it. Smh.
Yup, he has taken a temporary approach to a, supposedly, permanent decision (marriage).
I’m still confused. So they got pregnant after two months? And they are wearing this “we have not caught” as a badge of honor. Nothing wrong with fighting. Bobby is not sharing his true feelings.
I think it’s weird that people find it odd that he does things for her that normally a wife would do. The roles are reversed but that doesn’t mean they aren’t happy. You see two minutes of there lives.
Bobby does a lot and he admitted that she does step in and help. One thing that has been forgotten about is her 3 hour commute to work throughout the week. I think bobby see's that as a huge sacrifice and want to make sure she could just relax after a long day at work and on the road. However, I hope Danielle start using the weekend to show her appreciation and to cater to him.
Bobby, wake up! One thing is not fighting over silly things or projecting anxiety/work stress on your partner, but another is just glossing over big big issues like family planning! Don't let this person walk all over you, it's just going to explode one day!
At least the pregnancy has made her eyebrows better..............
Andrea Chung too funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
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I think the only reason they don't argue is because Bobby let's Danielle walk all over him. He's not her husband, but her home health aide basically. She has an excuse for every reason why Bobby does everything around the house. I wish them nothing, but the best though.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bobby needs to get a disability check for her...
Me and my boyfriend had no arguments for the first 3 years of our relationship and he also did everything for me. He held back a lot of things From me to seem like the perfect boyfriend. Now he resents doing everything for me and gets mad at me for not doing my part in the relationship
I agree, she seems to be the one who wears the pants in the relationship. He's basically her maid and he's such a nice guy but he hasn't found his voice yet. I hate to say it but he will blow one day and the dynamic will change hopefully for the good. But I honestly wish them both the best and with a baby on the way such happy times ahead .
Oh my gosh this was painful to watch. That poor guy. He needs to get some b-s and tell the lazy queen to get up and grow up!
This is NOT a fair deal .... build a pantry and learn how to be a wife! You did not get pregnant accidentally
Poor guy. She treats him like a chamber maid. I hope he learns how to express himself. Pampered princess.
It is possible to be married and not fight. We have been married 37 years this month. We don’t fight. It is all in how you present your opinion. You each figure out what is important to you and what is important to your spouse. Yes we have raised 3 kids too. We have been through all sorts or hard times of health issues, unemployment, deaths in the family and kid issues.
It is all a matter of your mindset.
Congrats, at 37yrs together you're definitely an anomaly. I feel there is a difference between being a couple that fights vs a couple who has disagreements. I'm sure you & your husband have had many disagreements & I'm sure he has frustrated you (& vice versa) on many occasions over 37yrs. Bobby & Danielle are saying they haven't had any type of conflict or disagreement & that's abnormal...
I’m kinda appalled by the fact that people are saying marriage without a fight is some type of fantasy world. I’ve never seen my parents fought. They’ve been married for 25+ years. They still have this immature hots for each other. Embarrassing sometimes lol. Let’s say they may have fought behind closed doors, I’ve been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We never fought. She gets emotional or upset as we’re humans. But we never resent each other and escalate negative emotions. I’m 23 and I think I’ll marry her but nothing will change.
They are a perfect couple with God's Grace and ie. what Grace does for you...absolute peace & wellbeing forever ..... Bobby is the perfect gentleman. There is nothing wrong with all he does.... Taking care of just one woman he loves is a joy.... not a job at all...
La la land will continue as long as Bobby does everything. She's got a pretty good deal going on not having to do a thing. Who would want to live like that. Marriage should be more equal.
Oh wow. I still feel bad for Bobby.
Too early to have a child. They should learn more about eachother. the good the bad and the ugly.
All Names Are Taken right. It's not going to last smh
I’m glad they made this follow up show.
I find the comments quite interesting. Bobby is doing what women have "always" done for thousands of years, and she is responding as "good" men have responded throughout history when every need is anticipated and met by the wife. She's even "bringing home the bacon." I bet that if this couple was exhibiting historically established roles for husband and wife, the comments would be far more supportive and affirming of this marriage.
Cecelia Futch Wow you’re right. I haven’t thought about it like this.
Cecelia Futch
The difference is that he works plus he takes care of her
But have women liked having to break their backs for men? NO we haven’t. That’s why modern women are dismantling those roles, it’s unrealistic. And the same criticism applies to Bobby having this excessive responsibility as well.
I disagree. Yes that is what women have done in the past, but I think in today’s society most people strive for equality. Splitting up duties. Maybe the woman may take on cleaning and the man cooking, whatever it may be. Obviously not every couple... but even if this was reversed I wouldn’t commend them at all and would be just as repulsed by it.
@@ashleyb4984 Thanks for your comment. I really wish I could agree with you. It would be wonderful to really see men and women striving for equality in their relationships. While there are many couples who demonstrate a more egalitarian relationship, the reality is that the bulk of the responsibility for the home life still falls predominantly on women's shoulders. We have a far way to go to actually reach the ideal. BTW, I wasn't espousing traditional roles in my response to the clip, rather I was raising a question based on observation of responses to this clip and wondering how the responses might have been different if the couple exhibited more traditional roles. I was not condoning anything, least of all traditionally accepted divisions of labor.
It’s not natural to not have any arguments AT ALL. I wonder why the experts aren’t concerned about it? It’s just not realistic. It seems like Bobby does everything and agrees with everything just to make her happy and she just avoids confrontation.
Ruth Ann Roberson they are concerned. The pastor tried to dig but I also saw that he was trying not to pry too much.
I noticed that too. He is probing gently.
They mentioned it in season 7. They can see what's going on and are trying not to obvious about it. But Bobby already knows.
The perfect pair. I just think they are both easy going non confrontational. So happy for them ❤❤❤❤❤❤
They don’t argue because Bobby doesn’t express his feelings and holds everything in...Danielle has nothing to complain about because Bobby does everything!! Why would she argue, she’s living a good life?
I actually like them and I have been in this position before. I had me a Bobby and instead of just enjoying it like Danielle is doing I kept thinking that it was too good to be true and I just kept poking to try to get him to talk just so I could see if there was "another side". turned out there wasn't and that's just how he was. Long story short we are no longer together and I regret it everyday. So if you have a guy that is willing to take care of you aka " a Bobby" just relax and enjoy it and if it turns out that its too good to be true, at least you enjoyed the good parts of it.
The guy was lucky he didn't get stuck being your slave.
Very true some people show love through acts of service that's what my man is like and I appreciate and love him very much
Arcosian Cosine Would it have been a slave had the genders been reversed?
@@ajbreezy11 Yes.
What does he bring to your life...he does everything, he's my slave , I don't have to put in any real effort...he's just glad to have me!
He is too afraid to face the truth about his marriage.
Ok, one more comment. Before child, he takes care of the dogs, do the cooking, basically a maid. After the baby, he's going to take all of that plus taking care of the baby by himself. Because, this lady is not a partner, she is a taker, and she will not be taking care of that child. Who is going to wake up at midnight? Change the diapers? Take the child to daycare? Make dinner? Omg, I'm just getting overwhelmed at the thought.
That's so true. She seems like a taker in everything. Relationships like that don't last. You need to be a team player. the man (or woman) will get fed up eventually. We all have limits.
True
They shouldn't live their lives out for cameras. They should cut off the reality tv and move on with normal lives. These experts want to find a negative issue to air on tv. All relationships have issues and need to be solved by couples with support from families. Tv relationships NEVER end well.
Bobby is a modern day Boaz no lie
Mimi you said it right ..I pray He isn't holding anything in.
I want that in my life now and forever. I just hope he isn't holding anything back. 🙏❤
@bailey1950
What evidence do you have to support that claim you're making?
Lily ZeMengist exactly ....she isn't using him at all. He is in love and I little blind at that but wait still baby comes...
bailey1950 what's there, do tell!
Bobby loves her and loves doing for her. There's nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all. He's in it because he wants to be in it. So let the man be.
Oluchi Osueke exactly! And no one would have a problem if it was the other way around. But Bobby is a man so he’s a slave for serving his wife, I guess...
Match in heaven? Hey, don't look for the other shoe to drop. That's how most couple break up. Always thinking that there is going to be something wrong, will become a self fulfilling prophecy. I've met many long term relationship couple that never had a major disagreement. This is a plus for them. The longer they go without an argument the more history they built with each other and the stronger their bonds get. So, when there's a disagreement they won't walk away or give up so easily.
Honestly I think this is the first woman bobby has had in his life so he,s doing everything it takes and this woman is already becoming the man in this relationship.
The sister confirmed it was not. She reminded him of how he over exerted himself for girls in the past and it didn’t work. I’d think if he were over exerting himself again he would leave as he had in the past.
Iyanla Vanzant said something once about not giving so much of yourself that you make the other person a thief. I hope this relationship isn't stealing this young man's joy and vigour, and taking him for granted. I hope in return she does things to not only "refill" him but balance their relationship. Anything unbalanced always falls. (Btw didn't he say initially he wanted the lifestyle where he works and financially takes care of the household and she takes on the traditional roles of a woman, seems like that has changed)
I think Bobby and Danielle are cute together but they way Danielle treats him sometimes is wrong. Like when she was video chatting with her friend and she said "what do you like about the marriage?" and she said "well he makes me breakfast, cooks dinner, cleans up after the dogs...I don't have to do anything really"UGH! you don't want a husband, Danielle. You want a maid! And this last episode of happily ever after when Bobby said "she would make this exercise about Henry (the dog)" TELL HER THAT!
Their marriage seems very one-sided. I wonder if Danielle ever gives Bobby the same attention that he gives her. Bobby will probably be extremely overwhelmed when the nugget arrives if Danielle doesn't actively participate in parenting.
He could always hire someone to come keep the house clean.
Years layer we are here talking about this lol. That's what I'm worried about. I saw where he was cleaning up the dog mess multiple times and she was standing there laughing not helping. How is that going with a baby? Then when he expressed his stress about fostering dogs in their MAFS season, she literally said she doesn't think she could stay with someone that couldn't support her passions. Every time he has expressed his frustration concerning that she got weird. I'm concerned he's afraid of losing her. Notice in final episode before she could answer in the finale if ahe wanted to stay married to him, he interrupted her quickly before she could answer. Those are red flags to me. Parenting no doubt has probably brought up some serious issues and they are probably sweeping it all under the rug.
I have no idea how I even showed up on this video. Haha. But... I found myself watching it. Sounds like she may have HG, pretty much severe morning sickness. My 2nd pregnancy was like that and it was horrible. Some days I could work, some days I couldn’t. I hired a nanny for my 2 year old daughter because there were days I couldn’t get out of bed without throwing up. It used up a lot of my savings actually. My daughters dad wasn’t as helpful as this guy. But....... I didn’t stay this way forever. After the pregnancy, I was back to normal. And I really started feeling better in the 3rd trimester. Soooo...... it is tricky to tell with legitimate health problems what the issue is. That’s all. :). I didn’t see anyone talking about how sad that her pregnancy is so difficult or what a sweetie he is to step up to the plate when she has had health problems. And thought it had to be said. I think many of us would want a spouse to step up like this if we got sick.
You know why people aren't saying that? Its because we've watched the show and noticed that she did nothing before the pregnancy either. She shelthers dog, yet left all of the responsiblity on her husband to take care of them. He does all of the household work and works on top of that. He's been stepping up to the plate since this relationship started and nothing is being reciprocated back
Brooke Shields should be commenting .... maybe Tom Cruise can attack too!! Meanwhile everyone has judged her including a Pastor!! wth! This couple is not entertaining...think on that. It's their lives, not for us to compare with ours. However I can relate to Danielle and I'm sure the two of them laugh once the cameras are off, cause we are their entertainment!! (ps...I empathize Juliannes mommy)
Just started remembering their season. He said he lived her waaaay before she said it back. Like, she didn't say it till decision day, after he proposed. This is uneven.
She has been bedridden at home being waited on hand and foot but when they go on this honeymoon trip she seems fine. If she's so sick all day how is she able to get out of bed now? Also i observed one morning she said she was ready to vomit and a few minutes later she had a huge plate of food in bed with her. I think she's gonna milk this pregnancy as long as she can. I also think he'll be the one feeding and diapering the majority of the time.
0:40 They've had disagreements but they just don't let it turn into big fights that will hurt their relationship.
He is a great guy! She really lucked up
Not one single fight! I don’t believe it I think they’ve probably had a small fight. But if they haven’t they’re gonna have one once that baby is born. Congrats❤️
I wouldn't want to see him mad.
I can tell he would go from
0 to 1000 yes a 1000 real quick.. Lol
She doesn’t love him she can’t even tell him.
I feel like they're In a fantasy life..
Some couples don't argue. I mean Bobby seems to just be a laid back guy or might like taking care of someone. Some people are like that
Yeah and he has a lot of experience so he’s good at it and probably doesn’t feel like it’s work because he has it all under control.
A lack of argument can mean the relationship is toxic actually with one party overbearing the other. That's not necessarily a strong relationship 🤷♀️
There is no way I would participate in this social experiment.
OMG...really???? No wonder they don't fight. He freaking does everything!
She’s carrying his child so he has to help out.
Bobby is avoiding conflict and burying his feelings 🤷🏼♀️ he’s gonna crack
She's taken advantage of him..He's such a good man & she just seems lazy to me, he is going to get overwhelmed by her "Princess" attitude.
She seems to be taking him for granted considering that is willing to let him do EVERYTHING for her. He will come to resent it if he ever learns to speak up for himself. Why hasn't he gone to talk to his father about this or is this what he saw his father do for his mother?
I thought Shaniece was the most honest wife when it came to rating their marriage. Jepthe still has some manning up to do.
Bobby doesn't even speak...
omg. this is so unreal. so basically, she does nothing and he does it all............ thats not relationship for adults, more like a father taking care of his toddler daughter.
You can tell that there is something there because he couldn’t make eye contact with the doctor. What that something is I’m not sure 🤔
Please leave this young couple alone there is 2 types of people in the world
Givers
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Takers ! Some husbands are content being the giver and that’s very ok.
She’s clueless to his feelings and he’s harboring a lot.... this can turn really bad
Well my grandma and granddad never argue either
Poor Bobby. Listen man, stand up now. You will not lose her. And if you do consider yourself lucky. You have parental rights over your child regardless. And more than that, your pure commitment to Danielle will be rewarded despite the outcome.
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Every relationship doesn't have to argue, the experts need to stop finding issues to create problem for t.v. There's a thing called DISAGREEMENT, which couples find ways to agree and resolve it. I think Bobby and danielle have disagreements but it never lead to a fight or heavy argument because they are mature enough to talk it thru.
I do not like arguing myself, makes me feel like I have to then exit the relationship because we are incompatible (call me delusional), but I am standing for what feels right to me so I do not see the issue here. Disagreements sure, but not "fights." Maybe my definition of a fight in a marriage may be distorted but sounds TOO MUCH, a disagreement that leads to discussion can easily solve these issues.
He is doing everything, she has a servant and see no problem with it. She doesn't care to do anything for him, a marriage of convenience is what she loves.
What a lucky woman!!!!!
He's a "Yes Man"
And I believe he thinks if he doesn't create conflict it will be easier for her to express her feelings more.
“Most good men get tired eventually” is what comes to mind. He is spoiling her a lot but I don’t see her doing that for him from the clips were being shown. Not sure if that’s just a narrative the show is portraying or if it’s a reality for this couple but if it is, it’s unfortunate.
Bobby looks sad 😢
Feel so bad for Bobby
Food looks good
I need a Bobby to make my coffee and dinner. He’s somewhat of a Butler 🤔.
It’s probably not that hard if he has a dishwasher, etc.
girl you got a very good man. he is a king and he treats you like the the queen you are. good luck and god bless. you guys are the best that have been on the show. can t wait to see that beautiful baby.
They don't fight because they walk around each other on egg shells
I think Bobby is great for Danielle...There’s nothing wrong if he decides to take the role of taking care of her..They are married and I know there’s less than 1% of male(husband) that are like Bobby..They accept each other for who they are...and people have different love languages....she didn’t want to have a baby right away but she’s pregnant and to me that’s telling Bobby I love you even if I don’t say it I want to have your baby and be with you forever... We shouldn’t judge them from the 1 hour or even less than that we see on TV
Them not fighting isn't really a big deal to me, because me and my fiance just started fighting and we're five years in with a 6 month old. Give it time a baby will change all that. Lol
HE NEEDS TO STEP BACK AND LET HER DO SOMETHING!! And the more you just lay there in bed you feel more sick. She just needs To get up and move.
And she NEVER HAS SOMETHING GOOD TO SAY ABOUT HIM..
Ignore the hate guys. Enjoy your relationship
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Can't argue with someone who just agrees
The power of culture
But yeap he's holding back to avoid conflict
Oh whatever let them be happy. Me and my husband never fought until we had been married for a few years so it is possible
Hey guys
A few people snapped on me in the comments when I said this was the worst match ever, I still stand by that
MyComplicatedBeautiful I don't think it's the worst relationship at all BUT if they don't address some issues there is potential for it to fall apart. If they never fight they probably aren't communicating their true feelings or growing on a deeper level. Bobby shows his affection by doing stuff for her but she needs to know his love language and make sure she reciprocates that for him so he feels he is getting something in return. It's not a bad relationship but it's not perfect. The outcome depends on if they work on communication or internalize little things over time.
Larissa T I think it’s a bad relationship because soon he’s not going to be able to hold in his frustrations and he’s going to snap and now they have a child on the way. They should have waited a little longer because, a kid will definitely bring about some arguments.
Bobby is doing what he saw his father do in the home sad little boy that wife is going to continue to take advantage of his love.
Obviously, it worked out in his dad’s marriage, so that is why Bobby is emulating it in his own marriage with Danielle.
Ur pregnant not dying I was moving furniture and cleaning while pregnant with bad morning sickness.. just laziness
To me she is taking advantage of him and being lazy and taking advantage of the situation.
Well Boby if you keep on giving her service and do everything she is going to get use to it and then to change its going to bring so much problems and arguments. You are a lovely kind guy but you need to hold your ground because marriage is all about sharing taking and giving but I can see take take take in here
Danielle sounds lazy and she should make her husband breakfast sometimes. Why can’t Bobby see that a good wife doesn’t just appreciate she contributes.
Honestly i am a bobby as well i do all that for my husband and more. It does get to a person unless the other person is good with compliments and apperciation when u love someone i feel a need to give them the world on a platter but it would also be nice to get it back too they will fight and find a balance it takes awhile
Jessica Kinnett
Me too girl. I treat my husband just the same and it works out for us.
@pink girl
Are you married?
And no one will be mad at that Jessica because you’re a woman. But because Bobby is a man, he’s a SLAVE for loving his wife!
It’s so weird they haven’t argued . Not healthy at all .
What Bobby is going thue now... My sister has gone thue for years and still is now
2:12 @Danielle it's in your best interest to keep up with yourself because as soon as you lose your looks other women will try to *snatch him up* I'm not even kidding
I went through morning sickness with no help 3 months...she's spoiled. And he's eventually going to get tired. But I'll take him. He's the only white man i would marry💚 if he wasn't married
This doesn't seem like a mature, lifelong adult relationship. They get along because they don't seem to have much depth to their current relationship. He wants so badly to be married that he's appeasing this woman and I don't get the sense that absent their desire for marriage that they would actually choose each other. It's not sustainable for Bobby to simply cater to his wife indefinitely and never raise an issue about equity or feeling used (and she is using him a bit).
I mean is the problem that he’s doing the housework while she’s sick carrying their child?! No body has a problem when a woman does all the work on a general basis somehow.