It’s because her life is boring especially with her partner and this boy comes along and gives her all this excitement and all the sneaking adds to that so she chooses to do that
Yeah you are right everything becomes worst when you cheat even if you fall in love with someone else just break up with your partner first b4 cheating
problematiqueintheshowbiz Yes it is but when you don't take care of your woman and neglect her what do you expect her to do? Keep loving you? I think not..
milulofficial if you're a shitty husband and you know you are, talk. If you have a shitty husband don't just run off to another man.. I think they should just talk and i mean they didn't just get married for no reason. But anyway, if it's not working out, divorce.
I feel sorry for the husband , even though he didn't pay enough attention anymore nobody deserves that , and she didn't even stay with the guy , so wtf?
+Escarleth Izaguirre Nobody deserves that but she made a decision. We make decisions all the time, our decisions affect others and sometimes we don't have to care for others, sometimes we have to care for ourselves, and when we make that decision you have to be aware of that, we'll always hurt somebody even though we don't want to. That's life.
Wow..how sad the world is today. It celebrates infidelity and divorce. Instead of communicating and working on their marriage they let it fall apart and she leads on a young man in the process, and you guys are all like, "Yay! Bravo for her!" I understand sometimes these things happen. I don't judge those that have it happen to them..but still, it shouldn't be celebrated!
I actually watched the movie and there isn't no happy ending at all. she doesn't stay with her husband or stay with Caleb she leaves them both. In the movie she askes her husband What's the purpose of their relationship. caleb and Jane's relationship had a purpose. after years of being in a strained relationship she felt fresh, new, and liked doing fun things. he made her realize what she wanted in life so she ended up leaving both of them. yeah both of their hearts got broken but she learned some important things about herself.
+Brooksie Reinhard I don't get cheating. Sex doesn't just take 1 secound. It takes a few, and in all these secounds that lead to minutes or to hours, you never stop and think, hey i'm cheating i should stop i'm better than this. I'm not a bad person.
I pretty much agree with peTEA. Cheating shouldn’t be glorified or anything, especially in films which have the power to be misleading and influential, but this seems kinda realistic. What’s the point in trying to force yourself into loving someone, when there’s no love there? It seems she only married her husband for the baby, a baby she later lost. I don’t think she was passionately, crazily, utterly in love with Caleb, but the feelings she had with him and around him allowed her to feel happy and realize what all’s out there- her time with him gave her a realization. That she was unhappy and didn’t want to be where she was anymore, and that she COULD be happy. I feel bad for the kid, and the husband, but it makes... sense? Idk.
every love story: wanting to fall in love, have crazy love that seems unreal, be free and do things u can only see in movies. I guess that is why is only happens in movies.
I truly recommend this movie. It is from her perspective as a film. And it portrays the human condition almost like a harsh reality that we are all trying to escape from. Her dreams are phantoms she can never quite catch up to and when she does get them and cheats she realizes they aren't even what she really wants. It is a sick irony an a true beauty
so.. husband has a high pressured job, wife doesn't work, complains of no attention, feels neglected and decides to cheat with some unemployed loser.. great story
I felt a hard kick in the stomach while I was watching this. It was complete spot on. This is my story, my boyfriend is working in a high pressure job while I dont work. I thought about cheating but I never slept with him though we hang out with a younger guy coz I thought I'm invisible to him never gives me enough attention and never curious of my day to day life. So I ended up breaking up with him and told me "go wherever you are happy". I can very well relate to the movie. Kate B. I think she still does love her husband but too hurt coz she can't get or see what she expects to see in him, he's quiet, serious and most esp dedicated to his career shove her aside but doesn't completely mean he doesn't love her. But there is no denying their relationship is....empty. They can't talk about anything she was liberated, no matter how hard she tries to connect with him she just can't, he's not the man she is clearly looking for. He's just not there.
Maybe what’s missing in your life is not the man of your life, but finding your own passion, whether that is work or art or meditation or whatever. I have nothing against a woman being a stay at home mom or a good girlfriend, but the truth of this world is that it has become a lot more career based and it’s hard to find a person that will really sit down and pay attention to another. So, go out there and find your hidden talents. Also, make some good friends; friends are different because they’ll always be there for you but there’s also no obligation for complete loyalty, like that of a partner. Sometimes the deepest and longest relationships are friendships. Also I’m sorry about what happened with your relationship, you’re a good person for not cheating and for being open and honest with your partner.
Also, I highly recommend watching the Bollywood movie “Queen.” It’s not over the top cheesy like other Bollywood movies, it’s actually really really good, and after hearing about your situation, I think you’d really appreciate the film!
I think the movie tries to show what happens when love fades and when another person comes along. It shows how people easily fall in and out of love. Movies like these are realistic -- you're not supposed to find them beautiful or romantic. You can, but you also have to see the realism behind many home-wrecking situations.
honestly I think this movie is really powerful and relatable to most people who are living in this situation. Marriage is not always perfect, and yes I know communication is key but you reach a point where you feel like it's pointless because let's be honest would you like it if you tell your husband hey! buy me flowers or when he just does without telling him? right it's two different scenarios but it goes along way. I believe this movie has a really good ending because she chose neither one of them. With the kid, she felt sense of self, care, euphoria, and attention that she miss in her marriage, but she left them both because she didn't want to continue being miserable with her husband neither does she want to stay with the kid because deep down she know it's not ganna last. However, she realized that she should focus on herself. I liked it, it's very relatable in a way where I can say that even when she cheated, she didn't seem to be a horrible character to me as much as I felt toward her husband.
I loved it, too. Realistic. Unfortunately we sometimes hurt others in order to find Ourselves. This woman hurt two people and neither of them deserved that. I feel sorry for both of them. And I would like for Leonard to ask her, what inspired her. I'm sure, it would be something we wouldn't like
Loved it. It was very artistically crafted. I love the occasional intrusion of the Grandma's voice that seemingly narrates the scene or the general direction of the story. I love the consistency of the husband's character, the youthfulness of Caleb and the carefree attitude he brings, and I love how Jane chose herself instead of either the two at the end. I love the transitions, the song at the end, and the setting! Highly recommended!
One of my fave movies. I've seen this months and months ago but it's bothering me because there have been comparisons between this and The Lifeguard because they have the same storyline, but trust me, they're very different. I actually saw The Lifeguard months before watching this and I can say I liked this one better. I love it, it's one of my (three) comfort movies. Some may find this boring because it is quiet and a bit slow paced but that's what I loved about it, it's not overwhelming with scenarios that barely happen in real life, it's not loud, it's almost so real, I wished I was her (mostly because i fell in love with jamie blackley). It took a while before Kate showed emotions though.
Don't find yourself spending the rest of your life with the wrong person. If you don't have passion then you have nothing at all. That is feeling ALIVE while we're here! :)
YES! give me more movies like this. i mean, only seen the trailer but i'd be liking the italian, travel, foreigner, care free, adventure and romance tone.
One of my favorite movie. As with others, I am glad she chose herself. This is the movie that makes me fall in love with Kate. Her acting is incredible in this movie.
Definitely agree with all the comments on infidelity being romanticized. And on a total sidenote: who listens to their ipod and tunes out the world when they're in such a BEAUTIFUL PLACE???
I felt so sorry bc the lover. He really falled in love with her, but he didn´t have a true chance, never had really. Was the passage that she used to be able to leave her husband. But all this story is settled in so beautiful place, looks like the paradise!!! They seem a couple from the Renaissance living an impossible love.
So many different comments on this trailer.. It seems like a good movie when watch this, guess I shoold figure it out myself and just watch it. I hope it won't be a disapointment!
So, I have two tabs open right? One tab is youtube and I'm watching a trailer for a movie set in Italy (this movie of course), and the other tab is a social networking sight with ads that sometimes play automatically. I'm in the middle of this trailer when I start hearing an ad for The Olive Garden...
This is my favorite movie, i hate the ending, good history, incredible history 💕💕💕😲😲😲 I love the actress, i love the music, i love the history, complete movie clip
When I went to Italy, ALL the guys there were like that. They follow you around, there are a lot of hopeless romantics there and some of them do it all while having an American GF. I met many quality bf material in Europe and then I had to come back to Canada.
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I can understand her, but I don't approve of the cheating. End your previous relation before starting a new one!
I like that he says "I've committed myself." It's to his work, but I feel like it's also symbolic because she's cheating
It’s because her life is boring especially with her partner and this boy comes along and gives her all this excitement and all the sneaking adds to that so she chooses to do that
Yeah you are right everything becomes worst when you cheat even if you fall in love with someone else just break up with your partner first b4 cheating
It happens, life isn’t fair sometimes
Oh my god, gooseflesh.
Totally right!
the guy is so pretty wtf
caleb???? definitely watch the film if i stay he's the main guy and hes soooooo so so cute omg
Molly E yeyeye I have watched it but I barely recognized him with long hair like waaat
I only watched it coz Jamie is fit
And that is the only reason why I watched that movie.
+Molly E omg i didnt even know that was him!!! holy
I feel timothee chalamet vibe in this boy
That’s what I was thinking!!
Exactly
saaame !
Yeah it’s very timothee vibe
This whole movie has cmbyn vibes... even though this one came first haha
cheating is not romantic
The only thing you saw in the movie was a woman cheating her husband?
+milulofficial cheating is the fucking worst.
problematiqueintheshowbiz Yes it is but when you don't take care of your woman and neglect her what do you expect her to do? Keep loving you? I think not..
milulofficial
if you're a shitty husband and you know you are, talk. If you have a shitty husband don't just run off to another man..
I think they should just talk and i mean they didn't just get married for no reason. But anyway, if it's not working out, divorce.
Agreed 100%
He's so hot. I can't even deal.
he looks like Cameron Dallas!!
+❤jessk❤ eww no
+saratatas val 😂😂😂😂
+Emely Siegel in this movie he does
+❤jessk❤ mhh I don't think so sorry 🙊
I actually can't believe this is the same guy as in if I stay. am I the only one?
I Know right. I thought of the same thing.
Melissa Bremer Shut up Melissa you jerk!
James Lipton What did I do?
Omg trueeee!!!!😨❤
I looked him up after this and I was like WHAT this is Adam ??????? like he looks so different
I feel sorry for the husband , even though he didn't pay enough attention anymore nobody deserves that , and she didn't even stay with the guy , so wtf?
+Escarleth Izaguirre why stay with someone you're not happy with ugh...
+problematiqueintheshowbiz i get ur point but I don't get why she didn't stay with the other guy
Escarleth Izaguirre
yeah, didn't get that either..
+Escarleth Izaguirre Nobody deserves that but she made a decision. We make decisions all the time, our decisions affect others and sometimes we don't have to care for others, sometimes we have to care for ourselves, and when we make that decision you have to be aware of that, we'll always hurt somebody even though we don't want to. That's life.
kuhoi
I can just tell this movie is going to break my heart.
Lulay Ibrahin v
Wow..how sad the world is today. It celebrates infidelity and divorce. Instead of communicating and working on their marriage they let it fall apart and she leads on a young man in the process, and you guys are all like, "Yay! Bravo for her!"
I understand sometimes these things happen. I don't judge those that have it happen to them..but still, it shouldn't be celebrated!
I actually watched the movie and there isn't no happy ending at all. she doesn't stay with her husband or stay with Caleb she leaves them both. In the movie she askes her husband What's the purpose of their relationship. caleb and Jane's relationship had a purpose. after years of being in a strained relationship she felt fresh, new, and liked doing fun things. he made her realize what she wanted in life so she ended up leaving both of them. yeah both of their hearts got broken but she learned some important things about herself.
+Brooksie Reinhard I don't get cheating. Sex doesn't just take 1 secound. It takes a few, and in all these secounds that lead to minutes or to hours, you never stop and think, hey i'm cheating i should stop i'm better than this. I'm not a bad person.
Maybe watch the movie before commenting.
brooks i.e. Reinhard qqpicturi de apa
I pretty much agree with peTEA. Cheating shouldn’t be glorified or anything, especially in films which have the power to be misleading and influential, but this seems kinda realistic. What’s the point in trying to force yourself into loving someone, when there’s no love there? It seems she only married her husband for the baby, a baby she later lost. I don’t think she was passionately, crazily, utterly in love with Caleb, but the feelings she had with him and around him allowed her to feel happy and realize what all’s out there- her time with him gave her a realization. That she was unhappy and didn’t want to be where she was anymore, and that she COULD be happy. I feel bad for the kid, and the husband, but it makes... sense? Idk.
I Only want to watch it because of ITALY.
Yea me 2
every love story:
wanting to fall in love, have crazy love that seems unreal, be free and do things u can only see in movies. I guess that is why is only happens in movies.
purpleheart300 so fuc*ing true
No, it happens in real life and that's why we put it in movies. Lmfao 🤣 what kind of boring predictable mundane lives are you living? Lmfao 🤣
I truly recommend this movie. It is from her perspective as a film. And it portrays the human condition almost like a harsh reality that we are all trying to escape from. Her dreams are phantoms she can never quite catch up to and when she does get them and cheats she realizes they aren't even what she really wants. It is a sick irony an a true beauty
so.. husband has a high pressured job, wife doesn't work, complains of no attention, feels neglected and decides to cheat with some unemployed loser.. great story
Life is not all about money. I've learned that lesson in Italy.
+Malak Ikram 😂😄
That’s the way if you see things like an superficial imbecile
So they’re both unemployed what the hell is she going to do if she leaves her husband, live on the street like?
watch the film first
Poor kid, she broke his little heart.
I don't think so, he knew it wasn't gonna work
saratatas val ok, and he still got his heart broken by her...your point?
I think he didn't feel it wasn't gonna work. He was a dreamer, believer. He didn't plan anything in advance
I felt a hard kick in the stomach while I was watching this. It was complete spot on. This is my story, my boyfriend is working in a high pressure job while I dont work. I thought about cheating but I never slept with him though we hang out with a younger guy coz I thought I'm invisible to him never gives me enough attention and never curious of my day to day life. So I ended up breaking up with him and told me "go wherever you are happy". I can very well relate to the movie. Kate B. I think she still does love her husband but too hurt coz she can't get or see what she expects to see in him, he's quiet, serious and most esp dedicated to his career shove her aside but doesn't completely mean he doesn't love her. But there is no denying their relationship is....empty. They can't talk about anything she was liberated, no matter how hard she tries to connect with him she just can't, he's not the man she is clearly looking for. He's just not there.
Maybe what’s missing in your life is not the man of your life, but finding your own passion, whether that is work or art or meditation or whatever. I have nothing against a woman being a stay at home mom or a good girlfriend, but the truth of this world is that it has become a lot more career based and it’s hard to find a person that will really sit down and pay attention to another. So, go out there and find your hidden talents. Also, make some good friends; friends are different because they’ll always be there for you but there’s also no obligation for complete loyalty, like that of a partner. Sometimes the deepest and longest relationships are friendships. Also I’m sorry about what happened with your relationship, you’re a good person for not cheating and for being open and honest with your partner.
Also, I highly recommend watching the Bollywood movie “Queen.” It’s not over the top cheesy like other Bollywood movies, it’s actually really really good, and after hearing about your situation, I think you’d really appreciate the film!
@@anonymouse7773 Your comment was just what I was looking for, Thank you! also Queen was an amazing movie absolutely loved it :)
Being able to relate with a wh*re , amazing
I think the movie tries to show what happens when love fades and when another person comes along. It shows how people easily fall in and out of love. Movies like these are realistic -- you're not supposed to find them beautiful or romantic. You can, but you also have to see the realism behind many home-wrecking situations.
honestly I think this movie is really powerful and relatable to most people who are living in this situation. Marriage is not always perfect, and yes I know communication is key but you reach a point where you feel like it's pointless because let's be honest would you like it if you tell your husband hey! buy me flowers or when he just does without telling him? right it's two different scenarios but it goes along way. I believe this movie has a really good ending because she chose neither one of them. With the kid, she felt sense of self, care, euphoria, and attention that she miss in her marriage, but she left them both because she didn't want to continue being miserable with her husband neither does she want to stay with the kid because deep down she know it's not ganna last. However, she realized that she should focus on herself. I liked it, it's very relatable in a way where I can say that even when she cheated, she didn't seem to be a horrible character to me as much as I felt toward her husband.
I never cared for flowers or jewelry but still never had a man love me. Isn’t that ironic?
i'm gonna watch this because they played clair de lune in the background... i hope the movie will at least try to keep up to the soundtrack.
snj prl whaaaaat !! we share the same mind .
romeonso5 haha now that would be interesting :D
oh my god I was thinking that !!
omg i was thinking EXACTLY the same
hearing classic music makes me somehow think that the movie is more reflexive than all the others
My favorite piece ❤️❤️
am i the only one that actually liked this movie? i thought it was brilliant
I loved it, too. Realistic. Unfortunately we sometimes hurt others in order to find Ourselves. This woman hurt two people and neither of them deserved that. I feel sorry for both of them. And I would like for Leonard to ask her, what inspired her. I'm sure, it would be something we wouldn't like
it was beautiful. a great rumination on life
Loved it. It was very artistically crafted. I love the occasional intrusion of the Grandma's voice that seemingly narrates the scene or the general direction of the story. I love the consistency of the husband's character, the youthfulness of Caleb and the carefree attitude he brings, and I love how Jane chose herself instead of either the two at the end. I love the transitions, the song at the end, and the setting! Highly recommended!
One of my fave movies. I've seen this months and months ago but it's bothering me because there have been comparisons between this and The Lifeguard because they have the same storyline, but trust me, they're very different. I actually saw The Lifeguard months before watching this and I can say I liked this one better. I love it, it's one of my (three) comfort movies. Some may find this boring because it is quiet and a bit slow paced but that's what I loved about it, it's not overwhelming with scenarios that barely happen in real life, it's not loud, it's almost so real, I wished I was her (mostly because i fell in love with jamie blackley). It took a while before Kate showed emotions though.
Sinong nandito dahil sa movie ni anne na just a stranger 🙋🏻♀️
whyy?? anong connect
I had to check because of a comment in anne's trailer. ahahaha
Ako
tumpak.. pati yun all black na suotan vibe lol
onting plot twist lang siguro para hindi halata haha
Wala naman talagang originality Lahat na filipino movies lmao
Who remembers Kate Bosworth from Blue Crush?! That will always be one of my favs!
it's like the lifeguard all over again...the main guy even looks like him!
Yes, it is like the lifeguard - but the better version.
i love lifeguard
Gaby stay strong me too! it was a really good movie
agreedddd!
Dude -- I know this is late, but I literally thought that within the first 20 seconds of the trailer. Haiwennie
Don't find yourself spending the rest of your life with the wrong person. If you don't have passion then you have nothing at all. That is feeling ALIVE while we're here! :)
You can't base a lasting relationship on passion though. Love is a choice not a feeling
YES! give me more movies like this. i mean, only seen the trailer but i'd be liking the italian, travel, foreigner, care free, adventure and romance tone.
I absolutely loved this movie. Till date one of my top 10 romantic movies.
i feel like the trailer gives away the whole movie
One of my favorite movie. As with others, I am glad she chose herself. This is the movie that makes me fall in love with Kate. Her acting is incredible in this movie.
I loved every second of this movie!
Kids, the lesson here is if you follow a lady long enough, she will eventually sleep with you.
Go make this movie proud!
+Hardknok
HAHAHA
+Hardknok Hahaha THIS COMMENT!
rofl best comment😂😂
Now that kids, is considered stalking and is frowned upon by most societies.
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For anyone who wants to know the song with the piano its Claude Debussy : Clair de lune 🎹🎼🎤
Aphrodite thanks u little angel
THANK YOU SO MUCH :)
dude, kate bosworth can make any man thinks shes their soulmate ok.
I have seen so many versions of that topic, but I think it never loses its attraction. The movie looks really good!
Simply perfect... one of the most beautiful movies i've ever seen
Definitely agree with all the comments on infidelity being romanticized. And on a total sidenote: who listens to their ipod and tunes out the world when they're in such a BEAUTIFUL PLACE???
She wasn't tuning it out. You don't understand: the music makes it all the more magical. :)
Natalia Nigro
Okay, fair enough. I'll accept that.
the husband reminds me of alex turner omg please tell me im not alone on this
This is one of my favorite movies ever made
The end was crazy, made me cry and say "damn!" a lot!! Love this movie
I find it amusing how people take movies so seriously. "HOW DARE YOU SAY CHEATING IS OKAY!" ….It's just a movie, calm down there.
I love the wardrobe for this movie.
I kinda read the title as
“And they were roommates”
One of my favourite films.
cheating is cheating no matter how many beautiful movie you make about it
Why is everyone talking about the cheating when that is obviously not the point of the movie?
That is EXACTLY the point of movie! Cheating ! Cheating! Cheating!
👏👏👏
is anyone watching trailers for fun during quarintine cuz ur bored
10× recommend this movie!!
Reader00
NO IT WILL BREAK YR ROMANIC HEART
It broke my heart when caleb talk about the travel (he was talking so nervous) and she just kiss his head and leave, agh.
oh italy
so many negative comments on this video - please watch the film first
One of my favorite movies
Thanks for all the love and support. Seriously blown away by the love from all of you❤Thank you all❤️❤
20 seconds within the trailer I decided to watch. Looks good!
This ending really hits me like OMMMMG WHY!!!
Must find on Netflix if possible.
The trailer is so much better than the movie
this movie was beautiful
He's the dude from If I Stay! I couldn't even recognise him here. :D
Really loved watching this movie and the cinematography is beautiful makes me wanna go to Italy
what a cute trailer
the music
the legend of 1900
reminds me of the lifeguard
I felt so sorry bc the lover.
He really falled in love with her, but he didn´t have a true chance, never had really.
Was the
passage that she used to be able to leave her husband.
But all this story is settled in so beautiful place, looks like the paradise!!!
They seem a couple from the Renaissance living an impossible love.
Im literally going watch this only because of the opening set of lines...so cute
Great another movie that will make me cry
I love this movie! the message is wonderful
what? to cheat
No, the strength it took her to be liberated.
that means cheating but in different words :)
hh h haha ok.
omg
im crying what
Love a good "indie".
loved the ending... the title is so strong, loved it
So many different comments on this trailer.. It seems like a good movie when watch this, guess I shoold figure it out myself and just watch it. I hope it won't be a disapointment!
The actress IS so beautiful 💜😍
Beautiful Movie, had the opportunity to watch it at Tribeca 2012 in Black and White.
call me by your name vibe
Now that's what you call a trailer!
some of the shots, colours used and music reminds me of Call me by your name
Yes!!! Same small-town feel.
I did actually like this movie surprisingly
Wow she's so so pretty!
Come back here after finish watching this movie. I love it so much but poor the young guy
as much as i do not condone cheating, this movie gives me the shivers, the good kind of shivers.
this is gonna be heartbreaking,isn't it
so many people in this comment section clearly never watched the film lmao it doesn’t romanticize cheating. it’s more complex than y’all are making it
i loved the movie! Great one...
Must see this! With boxxy software I can add subtitles and audio in my language. I did't expect it will be great like that.
GORGEOUSGORGEOUS MOVIE.... ONE OF THE BEST I HAVE EVERR SEEN...
this is such a good movie, just watch
I love the beginning of this trailer hahah
So, I have two tabs open right? One tab is youtube and I'm watching a trailer for a movie set in Italy (this movie of course), and the other tab is a social networking sight with ads that sometimes play automatically. I'm in the middle of this trailer when I start hearing an ad for The Olive Garden...
it's just a movie guys, watch and enjoy it.
The younger man she had an affair is handsome in my personal opinion
This is my favorite movie, i hate the ending, good history, incredible history 💕💕💕😲😲😲 I love the actress, i love the music, i love the history, complete movie clip
this film is so good!
Ok, the husband definitely need to practice 40 hours a day on that violin lol
Thanks for all the love and support. Seriously blown away by the love from all of you❤Thank you all❤️❤
Who is here in 2019?😂😂❤️
Maria Gilbert, I am.
I really hate the way they make the trailers for these films. They almost show the whole movie.
When I went to Italy, ALL the guys there were like that. They follow you around, there are a lot of hopeless romantics there and some of them do it all while having an American GF. I met many quality bf material in Europe and then I had to come back to Canada.
looks really good, shame that I feel like I watched the whole movie from the trailer
this movie broke my heart
This is literally my favourite movie ever
cheating is allowed when ur "professional violinist" husband clearly has never played violin
i loved this movie!
Naples...💙