"This next song goes out to anybody who’s ever been told that the way that they think or the way that they feel is the wrong way to think or the wrong way to feel. Goes out to anybody who’s ever been pushed down, held back, walked on… Anybody who doesn’t feel comfortable in their own skin, anybody…everybody - It goes out to everybody. It goes out to all of you! And the reason it goes out to all of you is because every single one of you is fucking beautiful. I’ve noticed that there’s a lot of people in the world trying to tell other people that they’re not beautiful. And I don’t stand for that, I think that’s bullshit. Each and every single one of you are gorgeous, believe in yourselves. This song goes out to all of you. It’s called ‘Therapy’.” -Alex Gaskarth
Im lowkey the opposite. I'll be miserable but as long as I have someone to love it helps. they dont need to care about me at all. I mean dont get me wrong ive been hurt lots of times but I can't imagine a world without other people to love
Because we all know that it's not the right thing to do. We reassure others that they are loved, and that it is not the right way out, because all we want is for someone to do the same for us.
This song reminds me of growing up and being broken apart in a place called "school" where you're supposed to grow up and become smart, but everyone brings you down...
Plasma , I'm in my last year of secondary school (high school) and I feel the exact same. The school system where I live hasn't been changed to fit modern times so I feel as if it's useless.
This song has helped me get through my panic/anxiety attacks. No one knows I have anxiety and depression, so this song is my go to when everything is getting too much. The lyrics, "I'm a walking travesty, but I'm smiling at everything." is the perfect lyric to explain me
+R S I know. I once tried tellingly mom and she said people with anxiety are making it up, so I didn't tell her. people need to stop.judging those with depression or anxiety or bipolar disorders. I wish people would understand what we go through
Fallen Angel Rivers I dont even know what i suffer from exactly because my parents think everything is an excuse for not studying.I only got to see a counsellor once n she said its anxiety but honestly,I believe its not that,or atleast not ONLY that...It's not that I am trying to prove a doctor wrong but its just my opinion.I told my closest friend day before yesterday and she said I do it cuz its "cool"...I don't plan to tell anyone else from now on n I regret tellin that friend.
+R S dude that sucks. I hate it when people do that. what are your symptoms if that's what you call it. do you freak out when you're in a big place and people are around you? that's one sign of social anxiety.
+R S and one more thing. I will never judge anyone with anxiety or depression. I was bullied because of my anxiety so I hate when people are misunderstood
Things do get better. A half a year ago I was the most depressed I've ever been and thought I'd be better off dead. After a few failed attempts of addressing my mental health and trying to get help from adults, I talked to a family member who helped tell my parents how I needed help. I have been going to therapy for months now and it's changed my life for the better and given me the skills I need to cope with stress, anxiety, and depression. My heart aches for everyone who's been through that hell but I want you to know that things can change if you get help. I never used to believe that until I lived it, and became truly happy again. 💙
having depression, anxiety, panic attacks, thoughts of suicide, and issues with self harm, i can tell you the last thing you want is to listen to someone else tell you how to get better with things they will never imagine feeling. all time low says it as it is
Brigit Laughlin that's why I'm glad my therapist actually doesn't force me to say anything. she tries her best to make me feel better whenever I cry. she reminds me of my sister. she always has a smile on her face. and she sometimes let's me trail off. but she understands what its like to have trauma. I can just tell. I have such severe PTSD. my mom thought I had schizophrenia. keep in mind o was adopted. and there's a good reason for why I removed.
This has been my favourite song since 2009 when the album came out. I was only 13 and I didn't fully understand what the hell the lyrics even meant just that they understood exactly how I felt. I'm now 18 and the first thing I did was get lyrics from this song tattooed to my wrist, because there has never been a song that has understood me more than this one. 5 years later and this song still has the ability to make me cry, I can still listen to it on repeat when everything is really crappy in my life, and to me thats a sign of a really beautiful song. I love ATL, and this song only amplifies that love.
I had "love yourself so no one has to" tattooed to me. To other people who don't know the band or the song, it seems like a self mantra about loving myself. But to me I know it relates back to this song and my struggles I've had over the years with depression and anxiety and needing therapy. kate lynch
Theres a story i once read the main character... a guy he tattoed the lyrics 'love yourself so no one has to' thats how i found out about this song it truly is beatiful..i bet your is very meaningful
Around four to five years ago, I would’ve strongly resonated with the lines “I’m a walking travesty, but I’m smiling at everything.” I remember all the times I was so close to crying, but I smiled instead because I didn’t want anyone to see me crying. I wanted the earth to swallow me up every single time I did end up crying. Even just a little tear coming out of my eyes, I willed the rest of the flood back from pouring. So I never let myself feel strong emotions again :’) I’m still like this. But recently, I’ve been letting myself feel more emotions like sadness and anger along with anxiety. I think it’s better now to let them out now rather than bottle them all up forever til I go to the grave 😅 So I still have the problem, but I’m slowly working on it myself. And I’m also super proud of all of you for sharing your stories too! I love this supportive community
My friend tried to kill himself. It was like the scariest moment of my life because he passed out two times. I cried the entire night because I couldn't let him go.
why this song hurt me so bad but it's really damn beautiful specially the part of "in a city of fools, i was careful and cool but they tore me apart like a hurricane" Damn man the back up voice of zack so smooth
I have this odd connection with this song. It reminds me of my past when I was depressed. It was a really bad time in my life my parents took away the one thing I loved more than anything in the world and that was just enough to push me over the edge and I fell in to this pit known as depression. I was too convinced that no one cared about me that I considered jumping off of a bridge, although I didn’t I did dip in to self harm here and there but I ended up throwing my bald into a river. At some point I was so beyond done with all of this and I refused to let my self live like this so I started the long rode to recovery, I’m too afraid to ask for help so I’ve been pulling my self out of this by my self. It’s been hard but I’m strong an know I can get through this. I know that I will be happy some day, I’m trying my best even though sometimes I wish I still had my blade, but I know it’s for the best. Update for anyone who cares✨ Alrighty it's been like 10 months everything has gone to shit. I eventually got better found some good people everything was good for awhile, then the worst possible thing happened. My Little brother told me he didn't wanna live anymore and my dumbass didn't take it seriously. He ended up killing himself and I've never felt so lost and depressed in my life. I don't know what to do anymore. My life is fucked
You're not to blame for your brother's decision. People reflexively hide their deepest pains, so that even an honest cry for help can sound like a joke. I know that won't make you feel better, though. If you want to be happy again, you'll need to forgive yourself, but that's a long road. If you're not there yet, the best thing you can do is simply go on living. Live so that you don't cause others the same pain your brother caused with his death. Live the life he never will. Live to show you understand the beauty of life itself. Just live. In the meantime, you can learn about psychology, or get involved in mental health awareness. Channel your pain into something meaningful. Don't give up hope. When happiness is impossible, you can still push forward with grim determination. Don't let this defeat you. Someday, things will get better. I don't know if you're religious, but I'll be praying for you, for what it's worth.
"The end of one's nightmare can become the beginning of one's daydream." ~ me, right now. You can overcome the dark times, you can of whatever you want and succeed at it, and no matter what you do, you will make it. Uou are good enough, just look past the dark parts. You are loved.
As someone who struggles with many mental illnesses such as PTSD, depression, major anxiety, anger, and issues with self harm.. this song has gotten me through many hard ass days 🥺
Give me therapy. I'm a walking travesty" that line hits hard. So does the next line "But I'm smiling at everything" hits the hardest. God....I wish people knew that just because they are smiling doesn't necessarily mean you are okay. Sometimes smiling is the only way to show that you are happy. When you're not and only true people in your life can tell the difference between a fake smile and a genuine one. I can't believe this is the first time I'm listening to All time Low. I feel like I've missed out on quality music.... I LOVE IT HERE
I've had 15 lousy years of life, I've been excluded, bullied, threatened, attacked, falsely accused of shit, laughed at, kicked around, been called some pretty offensive things and just been through so much... It's all so hard... The only thing I have is my girlfriend who I'm going to be with forever but everyone keeps telling me it won't work. I will prove them all wrong.
This song is forever a favorite and I saw it preformed live for the first time last night and i honestly started sobbing in the pit. This means so much to me.
3 years later I still remember every word to this song, middle school was a wild ride, not the best memories come with it, but this song holds a memory that makes me happy and I'm thankful for that
This is gonna come out different from other comments here, but this song fits and reminds me of my best best friend. He has schizophrenia and has panic/anxiety attacks all the time. It's so sad to see him like that, I'm gonna show him this song. He always enjoys songs that relate to how he feels, iv'e shown him a bunch and he loves alot of stuff i show him. He goes to therapy alot so I think this is perfect. He's good at hiding his feelings and smiles alot, when we first met I never knew. Glad i stayed, I wish i could take away the pain. Anyway, this is a beautiful song.
I love this song so much, I recently found myself discovering that I am transgender. I feel so much happier now that I finally accept that. I hope you all have a lovely day today, and things will always get better; just remember that.
I’ve lost count of how many times I have listened to this song over and over since I stumbled upon it last week. This song said all the things I never have the energy or will to say out loud. I am so great full that I happened on this song. It’s been on replay for ages. And for all of you in the comments, please stay strong. I know I have never met any of you, but I love you. And the fact that you are here, able to comment on this video, able to listen to this message, means that you are winning your war, it means that all this fighting is not in vain. You are here. You are alive. And you will win your war. So keep on fighting, warriors. And give life a big “Fuck off” for me. ♥️
The first time I ever listened to this song I felt like some essence hugged me cuz its felt like I wasn’t alone, and now a million times later listen to this song😂 I know for a fact that there are many people out there just like me and that they understand what I’m going through and that they won’t let me down. 🥰🖤
Anonymous Somebody same! Green Day's my fav band and I've been getting into atl lately, this song always sounded Green Day-ish. (atl covered Longview. I freaked tf out.)
Can I just say, bullying is a huge thing at my school even though my school has 0 bullying tolerance (apparently). I’ve been hurt by some jerks and I asked them to stop this bullying and to stop hurting others’ feelings and letting them down, their response was “it’s not bullying, it’s fun to see you guys get mad” as if it’s a joke. I’m 100% sure that they know what bullying is and that they could possibly end someone’s life. There’re so many comments on here that talk about this, but if only someone would listen. People stand up for their friends and family but can’t stop hurting other’s they don’t even know, it really hurts me to see all this. I’d just wish the world could be at peace
I honestly crude with this song.. It opened all the wounds and the pain flowed back, it was the best emotion I've felt ... I'm Gona use this song to confes to my teacher wen I graduate.. It has given me so much strength I can't believe it. I wish this song was played in enormus speakers so the whole world heard it. I swear it will be the day we see everyone cry
there could not be any song in the world that is more beautiful than this one is. all time low saved my life, they are the reason why i'm still standing. this band has changed me and my life (i don't mind!) and i cannot imagine living my life without them. the words to this song are the most beautiful ever written. ever.
This brings back so many memories with people i now hate, people who have hurt me, have died, or just moved on with their lives and are no longer in mine.
i feel like a walking corpse. i have been so out of it and i feel so so depressed lately. this song makes me feel so much more depressed but at the same time it gives me comfort.
If you can be clean for a day, then i will be proud of you. If you cant last any longer than that, i will still be proud of that. You don't know me, i don't know you, but good luck to you
Got sucked into this hole of depressing songs and honestly .... It's so fucking amazing how far I've come where I can appreciate the song without being hit with memories or being able to relate to it anymore.
I've personally had Anxiety and Depression, and my therapist never paid any attention to me. He just nodded his head, looking out the window. It made me feel unwanted by everyone. I told my parents, but they said they didn't want to pay a lot just for a better therapist, so I left my therapist. This song made me feel like I belonged somewhere. It is amazing how he made a song about something so personal. (Heh, the album is called Nothing Personal)
Honestly, all I can think of when I hear this song is Prompto Argentum. Probably my favorite Final Fantasy character ever. This song relates to him so well, sometimes I wonder if this song is a prediction of Prompto's very personality and life. Reasons why: 1) *Therapy, you were never a friend to me* explains Prompto's horrifying upbringing in Gralea as a magitek soldier and vaguely hints at torture, etc. 2) *I'm a walking travesty, but I'm smiling at everything* explains Prompto's insecurities about not belonging with his best friend Noctis and others. It also explains his doubts and fears about feeling like a monster and being different from everyone else. It also explains his happy-go-lucky attitude and jokes that he makes to cover up his pain. 3) *Arrogant boy, love yourself so no on has to, they're better off without you* again explains Prompto'a feelings of unworthiness and horrible self-esteem. 4) *Arrogant boy, cause a scene like you're supposed to, they'll fall asleep without you, you're lucky if your memory remains* explains Prompto's crazy and loud personality he uses to make everyone think he' ok, when he truly isn't. And Prompto takes pictures of his friends everyday and shows them his photos every single night when they camp together; his own way of feeling like belonging and doing something-maybe the only thing- that Prompto could leave behind as a memory. Sorry for the rant, he's such a lovable and fun character if you've played Final Fantasy XV.
This goes out to anybody who has ever been put down or called crazy, to anybody who’s ever felt like people have a free pass to walk all over them, to anybody who’s ever been made to question themselves or their beliefs or their values. It goes out to anyone who’s ever felt like they’re opinion doesn’t matter, or like the way they think is the wrong way to think. This goes out to anybody who feels like the way they feel, is the wrong way to feel. It goes out to anybody who has ever been told that they’re alone, or who has ever felt alone. It goes out to anybody who feels like they can’t live their life the way they want to live it. This goes out to anyone who’s ever been the victim of someone else’s bullshit, or been held down, or been singles out. It’s for anybody who’s ever been afraid to stand up for themselves for who they are, or for who their friends are. It’s for anybody who has ever been made to doubt themselves, about anything in their lives, by anybody else. Do not let anybody convince you otherwise about who you are, okay? It’s something that happens all the time, and it’s fucked up. This goes out to anybody who has ever been put down, or made to feel like they need help, when all they really need is a hug. To anybody… anybody who just isn’t quite sure where they belong. And it goes out to all of you. Be who you are, no matter what. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise; you are who you are, and that is the most beautiful thing in the world. . There’s no room in the world for intolerance, people. It’s 2011- lets grow the fuck up. There are some bad fucking people man and we all go through it. But, I can tell you this, I can tell you that no matter what you are fucking beautiful. You really are. Don’t take other people’s shit. Believe what you want to believe, live how you want to live, and don’t put other people through the same bullshit, be nice. This song is called Therapy, and it goes like this”
I also have severe depression so they put me on medication. this is probably rare but. I need it because is want to stop crying myself to sleep thinking about the shit that went down.
“Therapy is about every kids nightmare when people are telling you that you need to get help but all you really want is a hug.” - Alex Gaskarth
so true
🖐️
Damn😖😭😭
Wow this hurts as hell now
True, but not just for kids. Finally start to beat alcohol after 3 years. Just sharing.
"This next song goes out to anybody who’s ever been told that the way that they think or the way that they feel is the wrong way to think or the wrong way to feel. Goes out to anybody who’s ever been pushed down, held back, walked on… Anybody who doesn’t feel comfortable in their own skin, anybody…everybody - It goes out to everybody. It goes out to all of you! And the reason it goes out to all of you is because every single one of you is fucking beautiful. I’ve noticed that there’s a lot of people in the world trying to tell other people that they’re not beautiful. And I don’t stand for that, I think that’s bullshit. Each and every single one of you are gorgeous, believe in yourselves. This song goes out to all of you. It’s called ‘Therapy’.”
-Alex Gaskarth
Sibel Psychosocial this comment is just on point 👌👌👌
Sibel Psychosocial love that quote 👏👏👏👏👏
Sibel Psychosocial This comment made me cry
Sibel Psychosocial this made my day Thank you So very much
Jenni S you made me cry💗
People will never realize how warm and comforting are the emo comment sections, unlike the stereotype stands..
Thats because the only people who can comfort someone is some one who is/ has been through the Same shit
Is it weird that this song gives me the same feeling like a hug
Same here!
Babe same I need a hug rn so much it’s not funny
Same
same
Mik P Hands up to that! This song is my refuge.
the people in this comment section seem like the most genuine and kind people. i love being in the atl fandom.
"Arrogant boy, love yourself so no one has to" This is how I live my life. I don't let people in so I don't get hurt. I've been hurt too many times.
Ciel Phantomhive did Sebastian break up with you?
Jk sorry to hear that.
Brianna Raye Yes 😬👍🏻
Im lowkey the opposite. I'll be miserable but as long as I have someone to love it helps. they dont need to care about me at all. I mean dont get me wrong ive been hurt lots of times but I can't imagine a world without other people to love
Brianna Raye
this song came on after i watched painted smiles hehehe kinda funny huh
we're all suicidal kids telling other suicidal kids suicide is not the answer.
True
Because we all know that it's not the right thing to do. We reassure others that they are loved, and that it is not the right way out, because all we want is for someone to do the same for us.
And some of us are just attention-whores.
Diana Lee this is the song of my life for sooo long. I tell my friends not to cut themselves when i myself is also miserable
@@hannahg8439 For sure
This song reminds me of growing up and being broken apart in a place called "school" where you're supposed to grow up and become smart, but everyone brings you down...
Plasma was
Plasma I have never related to anything more than I do right now!!
+Plasma same i think school is just a waste of time of ppl judging me 😒
I'm in high school and I have the same feeling
Plasma , I'm in my last year of secondary school (high school) and I feel the exact same. The school system where I live hasn't been changed to fit modern times so I feel as if it's useless.
This song has helped me get through my panic/anxiety attacks. No one knows I have anxiety and depression, so this song is my go to when everything is getting too much. The lyrics, "I'm a walking travesty, but I'm smiling at everything." is the perfect lyric to explain me
Fallen Angel Rivers Almost same here.The constant battle between the need to share it with someone and the fear of being judged is undeniable...
+R S I know. I once tried tellingly mom and she said people with anxiety are making it up, so I didn't tell her. people need to stop.judging those with depression or anxiety or bipolar disorders. I wish people would understand what we go through
Fallen Angel Rivers I dont even know what i suffer from exactly because my parents think everything is an excuse for not studying.I only got to see a counsellor once n she said its anxiety but honestly,I believe its not that,or atleast not ONLY that...It's not that I am trying to prove a doctor wrong but its just my opinion.I told my closest friend day before yesterday and she said I do it cuz its "cool"...I don't plan to tell anyone else from now on n I regret tellin that friend.
+R S dude that sucks. I hate it when people do that.
what are your symptoms if that's what you call it. do you freak out when you're in a big place and people are around you? that's one sign of social anxiety.
+R S and one more thing. I will never judge anyone with anxiety or depression. I was bullied because of my anxiety so I hate when people are misunderstood
We've all been put through our own special kind of hell.
Daily Dose Of Stupid true
Oh, look. Another homestuck
Dirk Strider Another one right here
Daily Dose Of Stupid and some of us have scars to prove it.
and thats life
I'm randomly hit with a wave of depression & anxiety almost everyday. This song keeps me strong.
Same
ShadowHeart211 I thought I was the only one ... Can we please be frens? No one gets me I feel like you'd be a great fren
ShadowHeart211 and as you can tell I'm from the Clique |-/
Me in school
Remember, "Nothing bad lasts forever"-Luke Hemmings
Things do get better. A half a year ago I was the most depressed I've ever been and thought I'd be better off dead. After a few failed attempts of addressing my mental health and trying to get help from adults, I talked to a family member who helped tell my parents how I needed help. I have been going to therapy for months now and it's changed my life for the better and given me the skills I need to cope with stress, anxiety, and depression. My heart aches for everyone who's been through that hell but I want you to know that things can change if you get help. I never used to believe that until I lived it, and became truly happy again. 💙
"love yourself so no one has too" is that one line that just hits home for me
having depression, anxiety, panic attacks, thoughts of suicide, and issues with self harm, i can tell you the last thing you want is to listen to someone else tell you how to get better with things they will never imagine feeling. all time low says it as it is
Brigit Laughlin that's why I'm glad my therapist actually doesn't force me to say anything. she tries her best to make me feel better whenever I cry. she reminds me of my sister. she always has a smile on her face. and she sometimes let's me trail off. but she understands what its like to have trauma. I can just tell. I have such severe PTSD. my mom thought I had schizophrenia. keep in mind o was adopted. and there's a good reason for why I removed.
+glacier20 I'm glad u have such good support.
*"Arrogant boy, love yourself so no one has to. They're better off without you."*
this song is my therapy
Cat Girl99 same here
Same here
this song reminds me that everybody has to deal with their own kind of hell small or big
Awesomecat Lol that's so true
Normally, I'm not one for slow songs, but this is my first All Time Low song and this is amazing!
This has been my favourite song since 2009 when the album came out. I was only 13 and I didn't fully understand what the hell the lyrics even meant just that they understood exactly how I felt. I'm now 18 and the first thing I did was get lyrics from this song tattooed to my wrist, because there has never been a song that has understood me more than this one. 5 years later and this song still has the ability to make me cry, I can still listen to it on repeat when everything is really crappy in my life, and to me thats a sign of a really beautiful song. I love ATL, and this song only amplifies that love.
What lyrics did you get tattooed if you dont mind me asking?
I had "love yourself so no one has to" tattooed to me. To other people who don't know the band or the song, it seems like a self mantra about loving myself. But to me I know it relates back to this song and my struggles I've had over the years with depression and anxiety and needing therapy. kate lynch
Thank you. This songs has been so much help to me too with my depression and anxiety :) I have my first therapy session in 3 weeks and I'm so nervous!
Theres a story i once read the main character... a guy he tattoed the lyrics 'love yourself so no one has to' thats how i found out about this song it truly is beatiful..i bet your is very meaningful
Stories repeat. I'm thirteen and I don't fully understand the lyrics, but they describe exactly how I feel.
this song is very emotional and All Time Low did a great job with it :3
The 204 dislikes are from therapists because this song does a better job than them.
Yes, agreed lol
This comment itself made me feel better
Agreed
“Give me therapy, I’m a walking travesty” gives me chills omg
I love how I still cry after five years of listening to this song.
How about now with more years passed?
This was 5 years ago omg lol
6 years now
Around four to five years ago, I would’ve strongly resonated with the lines “I’m a walking travesty, but I’m smiling at everything.” I remember all the times I was so close to crying, but I smiled instead because I didn’t want anyone to see me crying. I wanted the earth to swallow me up every single time I did end up crying. Even just a little tear coming out of my eyes, I willed the rest of the flood back from pouring. So I never let myself feel strong emotions again :’) I’m still like this. But recently, I’ve been letting myself feel more emotions like sadness and anger along with anxiety. I think it’s better now to let them out now rather than bottle them all up forever til I go to the grave 😅 So I still have the problem, but I’m slowly working on it myself. And I’m also super proud of all of you for sharing your stories too! I love this supportive community
My friend tried to kill himself. It was like the scariest moment of my life because he passed out two times. I cried the entire night because I couldn't let him go.
I knows how you feel. I've lost 2 friends because they commited suicide. I'm here if you need someone to talk to ok? Just stay strong
OrangePalmProduction
Once is a tradegy.... but twice?! you are strong
Both of You. I'm so sorry
I cried just from reading this
Ur such a strong soul.i oly wish i was lik you.
I like loved this song from the first moment I listened to it, honestly forever one of my favorite songs.
"and the experts say im delirious" yup
i see people that arent there lol.
+im a fheg same lol
@@brohorse6887 Aye same here
Mmm
why this song hurt me so bad but it's really damn beautiful specially the part of "in a city of fools, i was careful and cool but they tore me apart like a hurricane" Damn man the back up voice of zack so smooth
true
"A handful of moments, I wished I could change"
~Alex Gaskarth
2019 and I'm still listening to therapy. A masterpiece song, will never get tired listening to its message itself 💗
I have this odd connection with this song. It reminds me of my past when I was depressed. It was a really bad time in my life my parents took away the one thing I loved more than anything in the world and that was just enough to push me over the edge and I fell in to this pit known as depression. I was too convinced that no one cared about me that I considered jumping off of a bridge, although I didn’t I did dip in to self harm here and there but I ended up throwing my bald into a river. At some point I was so beyond done with all of this and I refused to let my self live like this so I started the long rode to recovery, I’m too afraid to ask for help so I’ve been pulling my self out of this by my self. It’s been hard but I’m strong an know I can get through this. I know that I will be happy some day, I’m trying my best even though sometimes I wish I still had my blade, but I know it’s for the best.
Update for anyone who cares✨
Alrighty it's been like 10 months everything has gone to shit. I eventually got better found some good people everything was good for awhile, then the worst possible thing happened. My Little brother told me he didn't wanna live anymore and my dumbass didn't take it seriously. He ended up killing himself and I've never felt so lost and depressed in my life. I don't know what to do anymore. My life is fucked
Keep your head up better days are coming for you :))
so sorry bout this, man...
You're not to blame for your brother's decision. People reflexively hide their deepest pains, so that even an honest cry for help can sound like a joke. I know that won't make you feel better, though. If you want to be happy again, you'll need to forgive yourself, but that's a long road. If you're not there yet, the best thing you can do is simply go on living. Live so that you don't cause others the same pain your brother caused with his death. Live the life he never will. Live to show you understand the beauty of life itself. Just live. In the meantime, you can learn about psychology, or get involved in mental health awareness. Channel your pain into something meaningful. Don't give up hope. When happiness is impossible, you can still push forward with grim determination. Don't let this defeat you. Someday, things will get better. I don't know if you're religious, but I'll be praying for you, for what it's worth.
I am so sorry, please be strong. I hope you feel better now
the replay button after me watching the video: "Give me Thereapy!"
"The end of one's nightmare can become the beginning of one's daydream." ~ me, right now.
You can overcome the dark times, you can of whatever you want and succeed at it, and no matter what you do, you will make it. Uou are good enough, just look past the dark parts. You are loved.
their songs are so so soooooooooo GOOD!!
3 years it has been pinapakingan ko padin to
Same still listening to this song
As someone who struggles with many mental illnesses such as PTSD, depression, major anxiety, anger, and issues with self harm.. this song has gotten me through many hard ass days 🥺
Give me therapy. I'm a walking travesty" that line hits hard. So does the next line "But I'm smiling at everything" hits the hardest. God....I wish people knew that just because they are smiling doesn't necessarily mean you are okay. Sometimes smiling is the only way to show that you are happy. When you're not and only true people in your life can tell the difference between a fake smile and a genuine one.
I can't believe this is the first time I'm listening to All time Low. I feel like I've missed out on quality music.... I LOVE IT HERE
I've had 15 lousy years of life, I've been excluded, bullied, threatened, attacked, falsely accused of shit, laughed at, kicked around, been called some pretty offensive things and just been through so much... It's all so hard... The only thing I have is my girlfriend who I'm going to be with forever but everyone keeps telling me it won't work. I will prove them all wrong.
XSively Awesome are you still dating
Thats great! Prove them all wrong.
And dont listen to them. Theyre the ones eho are delirious
Whoa. This is way too beautiful for words.
This song is forever a favorite and I saw it preformed live for the first time last night and i honestly started sobbing in the pit. This means so much to me.
This song makes me cry.... it gives me the feels
IKR GIVES ME THE CHILLS THATS HOW GOOD IT IS HAHA
3 years later I still remember every word to this song, middle school was a wild ride, not the best memories come with it, but this song holds a memory that makes me happy and I'm thankful for that
"These times are hard, but they will pass." Douglass Brown.
This is gonna come out different from other comments here, but this song fits and reminds me of my best best friend. He has schizophrenia and has panic/anxiety attacks all the time. It's so sad to see him like that, I'm gonna show him this song. He always enjoys songs that relate to how he feels, iv'e shown him a bunch and he loves alot of stuff i show him. He goes to therapy alot so I think this is perfect. He's good at hiding his feelings and smiles alot, when we first met I never knew. Glad i stayed, I wish i could take away the pain. Anyway, this is a beautiful song.
Whos here in almost 2020 ❤😍💖 forever life be this song
Me, I like this song from 2009 and its still one of my favorite song
I'm crying so hard omg this song
my god, i love this song .. i can definitely relate.
I love this song so much, I recently found myself discovering that I am transgender. I feel so much happier now that I finally accept that. I hope you all have a lovely day today, and things will always get better; just remember that.
Well done for finding your true self ✨
Stay true to yourself, no matter what! I wish you well :)
same, good to hear your doing well
You should love yourself :) but I hate my bodyweight I am so fat :( but I love my self :)
KATIE Stewart same
I finally found a song, that speaks what I'm trying to say.. thank you so much Alex.
I wish i found this song sooner. Its one of my favorite songs now.
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I’ve lost count of how many times I have listened to this song over and over since I stumbled upon it last week. This song said all the things I never have the energy or will to say out loud. I am so great full that I happened on this song. It’s been on replay for ages. And for all of you in the comments, please stay strong. I know I have never met any of you, but I love you. And the fact that you are here, able to comment on this video, able to listen to this message, means that you are winning your war, it means that all this fighting is not in vain. You are here. You are alive. And you will win your war. So keep on fighting, warriors. And give life a big “Fuck off” for me. ♥️
Still listen this song 16-03-2019.. love this song
For all of those who have been broken and had fixed themselves so good right now congratulations! Time is a therapy. It heals everything.
The first time I ever listened to this song I felt like some essence hugged me cuz its felt like I wasn’t alone, and now a million times later listen to this song😂 I know for a fact that there are many people out there just like me and that they understand what I’m going through and that they won’t let me down. 🥰🖤
ive never replayed a song more. i love this song and the lyric video is amazing
Idk why but this kind of reminds me of green day
Anonymous Somebody I don't listen to Green Day much but I agree :0
Anonymous Somebody Yeah this gives me a 21st Century Breakdown vibe
me encanta me la se toda
It sounds like 21st century era maybe even uno dos tre
Anonymous Somebody same! Green Day's my fav band and I've been getting into atl lately, this song always sounded Green Day-ish. (atl covered Longview. I freaked tf out.)
This song helps me 💙
Can I just say, bullying is a huge thing at my school even though my school has 0 bullying tolerance (apparently). I’ve been hurt by some jerks and I asked them to stop this bullying and to stop hurting others’ feelings and letting them down, their response was “it’s not bullying, it’s fun to see you guys get mad” as if it’s a joke. I’m 100% sure that they know what bullying is and that they could possibly end someone’s life. There’re so many comments on here that talk about this, but if only someone would listen. People stand up for their friends and family but can’t stop hurting other’s they don’t even know, it really hurts me to see all this. I’d just wish the world could be at peace
I honestly crude with this song.. It opened all the wounds and the pain flowed back, it was the best emotion I've felt ... I'm Gona use this song to confes to my teacher wen I graduate.. It has given me so much strength I can't believe it. I wish this song was played in enormus speakers so the whole world heard it. I swear it will be the day we see everyone cry
ATL needs more recognition because this song is amazing!!
great video man, love the effects
This song makes me cry and I love it so much❤❤
there could not be any song in the world that is more beautiful than this one is. all time low saved my life, they are the reason why i'm still standing. this band has changed me and my life (i don't mind!) and i cannot imagine living my life without them.
the words to this song are the most beautiful ever written. ever.
Silent tears! That's what's happening right now
OMG I am in Love with this song and band.Awsome video.
This brings back so many memories with people i now hate, people who have hurt me, have died, or just moved on with their lives and are no longer in mine.
I remember going to see them live a few years back. They are amazing
Even in 2017 I'm still in love with them.
I used to listen to this in middle and now it’s all coming back
i feel like a walking corpse. i have been so out of it and i feel so so depressed lately. this song makes me feel so much more depressed but at the same time it gives me comfort.
i've been listening to this song on loop for about 2 hours
i love this song
2021 still love this song
I'm in therapy because I cut myself and I won't stop no matter what so this song relates to me so me and makes me cry every time n I listen to it
CielPhantomhiveVA what's the reason you won't stop? because you feel you can't or you're too attached to stop? X
If you can be clean for a day, then i will be proud of you. If you cant last any longer than that, i will still be proud of that. You don't know me, i don't know you, but good luck to you
hey it's been 2 years, have you stopped yet? hope your ok, lots of love
Ana Awesomeness dead
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Got sucked into this hole of depressing songs and honestly .... It's so fucking amazing how far I've come where I can appreciate the song without being hit with memories or being able to relate to it anymore.
This is my All Time favorite song.
These guys are amazing glad I see them live when i did need to see them again🙈
I love this song so much
This song saved my life. Thank you All Time Low.
I've personally had Anxiety and Depression, and my therapist never paid any attention to me. He just nodded his head, looking out the window. It made me feel unwanted by everyone. I told my parents, but they said they didn't want to pay a lot just for a better therapist, so I left my therapist. This song made me feel like I belonged somewhere. It is amazing how he made a song about something so personal. (Heh, the album is called Nothing Personal)
I like how you made the video with the bubble-background, easy but eye-catching, perfet for vipe-outs!
Therapy is every kids nightmare. When everyone is telling you you need help and all you really want is a hug. - Alex Gaskarth
Can't believe I let myself forget about these songs for these couple years...
Honestly, all I can think of when I hear this song is Prompto Argentum. Probably my favorite Final Fantasy character ever. This song relates to him so well, sometimes I wonder if this song is a prediction of Prompto's very personality and life. Reasons why: 1) *Therapy, you were never a friend to me* explains Prompto's horrifying upbringing in Gralea as a magitek soldier and vaguely hints at torture, etc. 2) *I'm a walking travesty, but I'm smiling at everything* explains Prompto's insecurities about not belonging with his best friend Noctis and others. It also explains his doubts and fears about feeling like a monster and being different from everyone else. It also explains his happy-go-lucky attitude and jokes that he makes to cover up his pain. 3) *Arrogant boy, love yourself so no on has to, they're better off without you* again explains Prompto'a feelings of unworthiness and horrible self-esteem. 4) *Arrogant boy, cause a scene like you're supposed to, they'll fall asleep without you, you're lucky if your memory remains* explains Prompto's crazy and loud personality he uses to make everyone think he' ok, when he truly isn't. And Prompto takes pictures of his friends everyday and shows them his photos every single night when they camp together; his own way of feeling like belonging and doing something-maybe the only thing- that Prompto could leave behind as a memory. Sorry for the rant, he's such a lovable and fun character if you've played Final Fantasy XV.
i haven't listened to this song in literal years. i don't know whether to be glad to be back here or not.
I've been listening to this since I was maybe 13... I'm about to turn 20, and this is still the song that gives me the most comfort
This goes out to anybody who has ever been put down or called crazy, to anybody who’s ever felt like people have a free pass to walk all over them, to anybody who’s ever been made to question themselves or their beliefs or their values. It goes out to anyone who’s ever felt like they’re opinion doesn’t matter, or like the way they think is the wrong way to think. This goes out to anybody who feels like the way they feel, is the wrong way to feel. It goes out to anybody who has ever been told that they’re alone, or who has ever felt alone. It goes out to anybody who feels like they can’t live their life the way they want to live it. This goes out to anyone who’s ever been the victim of someone else’s bullshit, or been held down, or been singles out. It’s for anybody who’s ever been afraid to stand up for themselves for who they are, or for who their friends are. It’s for anybody who has ever been made to doubt themselves, about anything in their lives, by anybody else. Do not let anybody convince you otherwise about who you are, okay? It’s something that happens all the time, and it’s fucked up. This goes out to anybody who has ever been put down, or made to feel like they need help, when all they really need is a hug. To anybody… anybody who just isn’t quite sure where they belong. And it goes out to all of you. Be who you are, no matter what. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise; you are who you are, and that is the most beautiful thing in the world. . There’s no room in the world for intolerance, people. It’s 2011- lets grow the fuck up. There are some bad fucking people man and we all go through it. But, I can tell you this, I can tell you that no matter what you are fucking beautiful. You really are. Don’t take other people’s shit. Believe what you want to believe, live how you want to live, and don’t put other people through the same bullshit, be nice. This song is called Therapy, and it goes like this”
There's a non exsistant map to help me out of this mess.
i like your songs so much 😍😍
Playing it on repeat! while reading comments.
Me too
This band saved my life, Nd I couldn't be more thankful.
YEs! so awesomely made!
[the blood!]
Saw them play this live, so raw so much emotion, amazing
2020 and still listening to this masterpiece. ❤
this song is truly inspiring!
I love this song ♥
This song gives me a nostalgic strange feeling of tranquility that i can't begin to explain .....
I`m not crying, just sweating through my eyes
this is my comfort song
I also have severe depression so they put me on medication. this is probably rare but. I need it because is want to stop crying myself to sleep thinking about the shit that went down.
Nice song, I'm staying up late to hear songs by them! So far I'm hitting favorite for each one! Fuck Yeah All Time Low!