And if ur both weebs, it's easier.. "Have you seen the latest episode of....??" Then that conversation will naturally go down to seggs after you two got home. Trust me.
Sasuga Vox, that's actually a really great advice! Show interest on their interests/hobbies, usually works. Hopefully helpful for someone before Valentine xD
4:02 "i tend to sorta get smitten with somebody a lot quicker if i feel like they have something other to do than to hang out with me" THIS IS SO RELATABLE BRO. i agree with this but for a different reason tbh. i do not mind partners who tend to be on the more clingy side, but i'm an extroverted person (for ppl interested in typology, im an ENFP 7w6) who really values my own individuality and space despite committing myself to a relationship, extreme clinginess is what restricts me from being happy. if the partner has other things they do/interests that they are interested in pursuing, i find it REALLY attractive because it means that they too have a sense of individuality and desire to keep exploring what they love, and they are most likely to understand my own pursuit towards my interests as well like just think about it !!!! u and your partner have just been doing ur stuff the entire day, then you both come home together and then you can talk your asses off about all the fun stuff you did/learned ! have a good laugh if its funny, or comfort each other if it was sad, and then just have so many engaging conversations and it just scratches ur brain and heart in all the right places ok im done going off on my tangent LOL, vox gave really good advice and i really liked his insight on this topic
LOL same! Except that I'm an introvert (INTP) I don't mind talking about interests or funny events in life but people who can't really keep the convo flowing is really a turn off for me. And i extremely value my personal space, heck on some days i don't even want to talk to anyone and just chill in my corner
AYO??? is he reading my mind bc as an introvert i always do that lolll i ask questions a lot since i'm (not yet) comfortable talking about myself. literally the "talks a lot x listens" couple dynamic
solid advice vox, always say something new or interesting in a conversation. help lead that conversation. talking with each other for an extended amount of time is enough to leave an impression
As someone with autism that is also shy, that is a disaster for not saying anything, so I really appreciate this advice. I will take that into consideration next time lmao
no same😭social interaction is hard enough as is and being introverted and shy on top of autistic does not help😭 this is really useful advice even just for regular conversations lol!!
That's some great advice. I just want to add that for someone that's been rediculed their entire life for their hobbies like me, I have trouble opening up about them at first. So don't take it personal when people have trouble talking about it at first. I'd say when you're like that, try to be the person who asks the questions I guess.
I'm aroace so I personally have never been interested in dating anyone, but I still find learning about the dating world interesting. It sounds like it would be very mentally exhausting though having to go on lots of dates and sift through many different people just to one day maybe find someone who you connect with on that level. I'm glad I don't care about that sort of thing 😂
That's actually a brilliant advice. A very good one. I didn't expect it to be this good. I think a couple girls already done this to me, and it worked very well.
Stellar advice! ⭐ It's ok to think of questions & topics ahead of time, but remember not to get stuck in your own head, _go with the flow!_ Dancing & conversations are all about balance.
Fuck I was just interested to see what sort of advice Vox gives and my bro walked in to see me watching this clip AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I’m very introverted and I finally found someone who’s just like me because I had a harder time dating extroverts because the only 2 boyfriends that I had before were definitely extroverts even one of them claimed they were an introvert and each them last long enough to be considered a boyfriend let’s just say they loved me then further into the relationship they act so cold towards me especially the first one like that hurt man both claimed that I didn’t love them like sorry that I’m too quiet for your liking like jeez give me a break I’m quiet, shy and also have anxiety and become a nervous wreck when I feel like I did something wrong when in reality didn’t do anything wrong, me trying so hard to show love like sorry I can’t text you 24/7 like seriously what was wrong with them but now we’re friends so it’s all good 😂 sorry that I went off in my comment
I am actually going to take that advice to heart. I really don't know how to talk to people in general, much less in a dating sense. Maybe on a miracle of first date, I can use the advice.
Yeah I agree with Vox but the thing is what should you do if they don't even try to add more to the conversation and just say No or Yes or doesn't like personal questions and they aren't trying to be cold but thats just how it is for them? because that can happen
In my current long distance relationship because I started private streaming games for a friend and it steamrolled for a few weeks until I [finally] noticed he seemed interested in me. (No I didn’t plan that) Then I asked him to be mine in, what I felt was, the most awkward way possible.
Im sorry but can you add coloured subtitle? Because it might be better for people like me who want to watch nijiEN guys and also learn english? Im sorry if i asked too much.
Almost all the guys I've ever talked to were just meh. No deep interest in anything interesting. How am i supposed to hold a convo?! 🙄 All I've ever gotten from guys is: "when can i see you?", "Are you still single?", "how's your boyfriend?"
My ass listening to his sincere dating advice even though I'm alone for valentines
Same tbh 😭
Ikr😭
that's a solid advice, i mean idk how dating works because i'm alone and introverted since birth (LMAO) but i can see that working out really well.
And if ur both weebs, it's easier.. "Have you seen the latest episode of....??" Then that conversation will naturally go down to seggs after you two got home. Trust me.
Me, aroace: write that down WRITE THAT DOWN
Literally me😭🤚🏻
important fanfic material
Lmao I love seeing another fellow aroace person watching this 😄
If you flip it, can you avoid generating interest? That's why I started watching videos like that. Now, it's interesting.
Do I wanna date? No.
Am I still watching Milord's clip? Yes.
Sasuga Vox, that's actually a really great advice!
Show interest on their interests/hobbies, usually works. Hopefully helpful for someone before Valentine xD
this also applies to women, tbh. im a girl and if u ask me any of my interests, prepare for an entire seminar session
4:02 "i tend to sorta get smitten with somebody a lot quicker if i feel like they have something other to do than to hang out with me"
THIS IS SO RELATABLE BRO. i agree with this but for a different reason tbh. i do not mind partners who tend to be on the more clingy side, but i'm an extroverted person (for ppl interested in typology, im an ENFP 7w6) who really values my own individuality and space despite committing myself to a relationship, extreme clinginess is what restricts me from being happy. if the partner has other things they do/interests that they are interested in pursuing, i find it REALLY attractive because it means that they too have a sense of individuality and desire to keep exploring what they love, and they are most likely to understand my own pursuit towards my interests as well
like just think about it !!!! u and your partner have just been doing ur stuff the entire day, then you both come home together and then you can talk your asses off about all the fun stuff you did/learned ! have a good laugh if its funny, or comfort each other if it was sad, and then just have so many engaging conversations and it just scratches ur brain and heart in all the right places
ok im done going off on my tangent LOL, vox gave really good advice and i really liked his insight on this topic
LOL same! Except that I'm an introvert (INTP)
I don't mind talking about interests or funny events in life but people who can't really keep the convo flowing is really a turn off for me. And i extremely value my personal space, heck on some days i don't even want to talk to anyone and just chill in my corner
As an introvert myself, this is really good advice! Will definitely take this into consideration
AYO??? is he reading my mind bc as an introvert i always do that lolll i ask questions a lot since i'm (not yet) comfortable talking about myself. literally the "talks a lot x listens" couple dynamic
That's actually pretty solid advice!
solid advice vox, always say something new or interesting in a conversation. help lead that conversation. talking with each other for an extended amount of time is enough to leave an impression
damn, that was actually kinda helpful
As someone with autism that is also shy, that is a disaster for not saying anything, so I really appreciate this advice. I will take that into consideration next time lmao
no same😭social interaction is hard enough as is and being introverted and shy on top of autistic does not help😭 this is really useful advice even just for regular conversations lol!!
This is incredibly useful even for those who aren’t dating, just conversation advice in general. Thanks milord :D
As an introvert, that's a really good advice! Definitively using it in a future date!
That's some great advice. I just want to add that for someone that's been rediculed their entire life for their hobbies like me, I have trouble opening up about them at first. So don't take it personal when people have trouble talking about it at first. I'd say when you're like that, try to be the person who asks the questions I guess.
Oh thank goodness, wisdom on how to engage in conversation- I can never remember how to start up a dialogue like that.
If you're dating a girl do not anger her, specially on the blood week...
I’m gonna study and memorise this video way more than any of my college classes
I'm aroace so I personally have never been interested in dating anyone, but I still find learning about the dating world interesting. It sounds like it would be very mentally exhausting though having to go on lots of dates and sift through many different people just to one day maybe find someone who you connect with on that level. I'm glad I don't care about that sort of thing 😂
Same. I'm ageosexual. Eliza Zakkeroni is my spirit animal. I wish she'd stayed single till the end.
I relate to you so much, POG
Me being extremly socially awkward: ✍️ ✍️✍️✍️
interrogation, gotcha.
Basically yes? How else would you know if you want to spend a lot of time with the guy who sits right in front of you?
That's actually a brilliant advice. A very good one. I didn't expect it to be this good.
I think a couple girls already done this to me, and it worked very well.
Stellar advice! ⭐ It's ok to think of questions & topics ahead of time, but remember not to get stuck in your own head, _go with the flow!_ Dancing & conversations are all about balance.
Fuck I was just interested to see what sort of advice Vox gives and my bro walked in to see me watching this clip AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
That's an awesome advice!! Daddy never disappoints!!
I’m very introverted and I finally found someone who’s just like me because I had a harder time dating extroverts because the only 2 boyfriends that I had before were definitely extroverts even one of them claimed they were an introvert and each them last long enough to be considered a boyfriend let’s just say they loved me then further into the relationship they act so cold towards me especially the first one like that hurt man both claimed that I didn’t love them like sorry that I’m too quiet for your liking like jeez give me a break I’m quiet, shy and also have anxiety and become a nervous wreck when I feel like I did something wrong when in reality didn’t do anything wrong, me trying so hard to show love like sorry I can’t text you 24/7 like seriously what was wrong with them but now we’re friends so it’s all good 😂 sorry that I went off in my comment
I am actually going to take that advice to heart. I really don't know how to talk to people in general, much less in a dating sense. Maybe on a miracle of first date, I can use the advice.
im not attracted to anyone at the moment but it's definitely good advice/story material hehe
I love vox
Despite he is being sus to his teammates most of the time 😂 he always give a real advice whenevr someone ask ❤
the spooky sound from the game doesn't help dad xD
me, knowing full well i'll never get a date: "Wow, this is worthless."
Great advice, gramps, the ending though, seison't moment 😂
Yeah I agree with Vox but the thing is what should you do if they don't even try to add more to the conversation
and just say No or Yes or doesn't like personal questions and they aren't trying to be cold but thats just how it is for them? because that can happen
In my current long distance relationship because I started private streaming games for a friend and it steamrolled for a few weeks until I [finally] noticed he seemed interested in me. (No I didn’t plan that)
Then I asked him to be mine in, what I felt was, the most awkward way possible.
Thats a lot of stuff to remember and i dont have 2 braincells to rub together to understand this
haha joke's on him, I don't wanna tell people how I'm into vtubers Orz
saving this in case any of my friends asking me again abt how to socialise bcs I'm bad at explaining to them 💀
Yes lord
im a huge lesbian but this is just solid advice. thank you milord, hehehe ❤️
I hope this can also work for dating a girl too
HAH I don't Wana improve myself but he's hot so I'll press it
I love him sm
My tip: it's not worth it
Im sorry but can you add coloured subtitle? Because it might be better for people like me who want to watch nijiEN guys and also learn english? Im sorry if i asked too much.
can someone tell me the timestamp for this on the original stream?
2:10:00
@@randomgrmlin thank u!
Almost all the guys I've ever talked to were just meh. No deep interest in anything interesting. How am i supposed to hold a convo?! 🙄
All I've ever gotten from guys is: "when can i see you?", "Are you still single?", "how's your boyfriend?"
The best thing to bring in a date is chloroform.
This joke would've been hilarious in 2011
does anyone in this comment section want a girlfriend who talks a lot because that's me and i'm lonely alalhhahaha....