@@scrappychildhood6633 all of my content is based on US statistics from the US census bureau directly from the government that your mom likely loves. Very little is personal opinion.
@@scrappychildhood6633 the only reason I continue to mention my ex is because it gets lots of clicks. Your mom fails to recognize she stalked me for 3 years on social media and I never took her back. Those are the facts, make it or not. Your mom sounds very angry and bitter, like a dictator. Not surprised at all.
My father is 5’6. I am 6’2. I get my height from my mothers side of the family). My dad always told me a lot of guys who are bigger than him always tried to intimidate him or make him feel like the smaller guy back then in the 80’s/90’s. He told me he never had a problem pulling women despite his height, or even having issues winning fights (due to training mixed martial arts) its really all about how you carry yourself, like Matt essentially says. Hell even till this day my father walks around like he is 6’3 or 6’5. And as a bigger guy i never once looked down on dudes who are smaller than me.
being short can be a speed bump if you let it im 5'5 never had problem getting females its all on you at end of the day . some women wont want to be with you because your short but you cant let those be hang ups for you .
My best friend through the years was always a foot taller than me. In our early 20's he was 6'3", and about 275 lbs. One night he was standing in the door way when my Dad came home. My Dad carried such intensity that Greg would always get out of his way, and call him sir. It was a little later that I heard the stories of my Dad being a badass. When I asked him as a kid if he ever gotten into fights he always said no, and down played it. His old friend told me otherwise. It was then I knew why I was always wary of him. He was probably 5'6" at his tallest. As he got older he shrunk. He passed in 2017, and not a day goes by I don't think of him.
@@danlc95 i hope he is in a better place as a man we should stick with eachother even know technically a am a teenager 17yo i see through the whole bullshit we live in now Koofid 19 media brainwashing Hollywood and all of that shit which makes keyass in the world. WE should be together to end this shit
The loudest people are usually the most insecure. There is such a thing call insecure extroverts. If they’re trying to intimidate you it’s because you’re a threat.
My philosophy: small man vs. big man: small man loses...is expected. No big deal. small man vs. big man: big man loses...total humiliation. The big man has more to lose in a confrontation. The small man will live rent free in his big head.. forever. To sum up: take everyone seriously, with no special deference to size.
@@stephenurso9267 it comes from grappling without ear protection, and when the ear cartilage being broken so often they don’t bother to drain the puss out, causing it to harden and the ears stay deformed. so in other words its a guy who was a serious wrestler or BJJ practitioner. someone you don’t want to grab a hold of you if your the average person.
I'm not intimidated by their size but by the masculine energy and aggression they have, there are a lot of short dudes who can cause a havoc, believe me....
True story: Two weeks ago I approached a girl in Germany, she was near a small shop where you can place bets on sports teams and play casino games. She was German. I said „Hey, what‘s your name?“. She answered why I want to know and I kept persisting to get to know her. She went into the „casino“ and all of a sudden 5 Turkish guys ran out and she pointed the finger at me accusing me of calling her names. I had to stay icy. Her boyfriend was 5‘6“, but he had other guys with him and they seemed to be drug dealers. I looked him straight into the eyes and said that I didn’t call her names. He sensed that I said the truth and just said to never approach her again. I said alright and went off. Crazy experience.
Was she a Turk in Germany or an actual German? If the latter is so, I guess that she was a anotherRacetraitor who is unwittingly helping to facilitate theCoudenhoveKalergiPlan.
I have a magic anti-intimidation potion. It's called pepper spray. I carry it every time I go out. And if that magic isn't strong enough, I EDC a Sig P365. It's amazing how much one can carry in just their pockets.
@@josecolon3185 If you want to make your P365 even more magical, try some Underwood Xtreme Defenders. They come different potion sizes including 90 gr., 68 gr., and 115 gr., with variations for standard, +P and +P+. Their magical qualities include being barrier blind (because they're solid copper, but with a fluted tip) and if you choose the lighter ones, they have less recoil than their heavier JHP counterparts. And because of their unique cavitation capabilities, they create a permanent wound channel larger than even the best JHPs.
@@theodorecendejas1343 If you want to make your P365 even more magical, try some Underwood Xtreme Defenders. They come different potion sizes including 90 gr., 68 gr., and 115 gr., with variations for standard, +P and +P+. Their magical qualities include being barrier blind (because they're solid copper, but with a fluted tip) and if you choose the lighter ones, they have less recoil than their heavier JHP counterparts. And because of their unique cavitation capabilities, they create a permanent wound channel larger than even the best JHPs.
I’m muscular and a boxer and I got my ass whooped by an MMA fighter who was 20LBS lighter than me and shorter than me also. moral of the story is it doesn’t matter how jacked you are unless you are a trained street fighter.
@@jonmabi3608 I got in a very heated exchange which resulted in an altercation in a nightclub a few years back, I knew the guy mutually from the fighting gym we both attended, however he was not a friend of mine. In terms of power, speed and reach I was totally superior, however when he got in my pocket and grappled me to the ground and engaged his chokehold I was toast, I never stood a chance after that he completely had the upper hand and I admit I lost because in boxing your not trained to deal with that situation
@@tankthepitbull520 Yeah, as someone who loves boxing, compared to what a good wrestler can do its not effective. We had a guy at my old boxing gym, guy is a prodigy, very fast and deadly. He once sparred with my brother, and was absolutely winning before he got taken down (it was a friendly spar with no rules) and shelled up. You gotta know every aspect of fighting
@@tankthepitbull520 - That sounds like the time I was sparring with a Ukrainian at work. He was in the Ukranian army when he was younger. For some reason he regarded me as a "tough guy", and wanted to test me. Nope, Vlad had no problem exposing my lack of training! Still good friends to this day. It's been 11 years!
I'm 5ft 3 and was being bullied by a guy that was around 6ft 3 talking shit to me after he pushed me backwards from the bar. I pulled out my hunting knife and stuck him deep below the waistline. His girlfriend was screaming historically as he laid on the ground bleeding to death. The paramedics took him to hospital to get his joint reattached .
If a guy does that, I embarrass him in front of girls. Since he made a big deal about his size, then call him on it: "Check it ouuuut... Preeeetty big muscles there. How come, muscles, good looking, you're not surrounded by girls right now? What's happening there bro? You want me to make a few calls for you?" End of the day, it's the guy who can maintain frame, witty and make girls relax that gets action.
Guys. DO NOT listen to this dude. Wtf are you gonna do if the opponent actually assaults you? Learn how to defend yourself and stay out of trouble. A true alpha male will ACTUALLY KNOW how to handle himself in physical confrontations. True confidence and your INNER ALPHA MALE self that is yearning to come out will come from your own overcoming hardships and challenges in life.
Well geezer I would take it and the police would arrive and he'd be up in front of the jury haha, I've been in the weaker position where I've been up there for assault with intent, though I'd killed him. Not a great place to be!
@jonmabi In real-life interactions, there is a real reason why someone would "try" to assault you. So if you're not careful enough, then yes somebody would try to fight you and you fight back just like what you're saying. But until then, stay icy and non-reactive. Matt's advice is as always 💯% accurate.
@@ManhoodTycoon I totally get what you’re saying and I agree to a certain extent. For the vast majority of the time nothing will probably happen. But this is not because you stayed “icy”, but due to the fact that your opponent can’t put his money where his mouth is. However, what I’m worried about is someone is going to take this advice the wrong way and think that staying “icy” is an ACTIVE DETERRENT to avoid things getting violent. But that is not the case. You’re gonna get that one guy, that is absolutely not afraid to give you the business. And surprisingly it’s not even the big guys that will do it.
If anybody usually tries to size me up and stare me down, I usually just say “can u help you”, and then I just say have a good day disengaging immediately before it escalates. And if it gets physical, well Jujitsu, boxing and wrestling combo is something not to sneeze at that will put anyone away.
I am 5'9 and 175 lbs. Low body fat. I was a competetive mma fighter, now i only lift weights as powerlifting. This height and weight and fighting experience can not be intimidated. It is like being able to intimidate Mike Tyson which is impossible.
@@SeattleTgrind 27 is late, to be able to gain a compact fighting skills. It should start in earlier ages. But after 27, you could have such a muscular body by lifting weights you can be heavy and muscular.
Im always been the smallest "biggest" guy in the room in my entire life. I'm short and skinny but there were only few big guys who tried to provoke me who only end up becoming respectful of me. My advice is be a respectable man and never act stupid especially around loud big guys. What also works for me is that I have this "dude, I'm a lil guy but I can kick your ass right here right now" look on my face which repel them to even try to provoke me.
Well as a big guy it is usually the little guys who try to start fights, and they usually get their ass kicked. There is a reason there are weight classes in boxing/mma. Big guys hardly ever start trouble unless very drunk. Sorry Matt a big guy tried to mess with you if you were not starting anything. We usally stand up and protect the smaller people in a group as I do as a tall/large Security Supervisor.
I'm glad you're a good man, but there are a lot of losers in the world. And when I was younger, the big guys who would sometimes start fights with me taught me how much fun fighting is 😂 and the big guys who are losers who start problems usually aren't the ones who can fight. They pick on people they think they can push around because they've got low value, self esteem, or other insecurities.
Yea, as a tall guy, I’ve had an older shorter guy explain that’s it’s usually the short guys that try to start stuff with him. Said the taller guys, he rarely had problems with.
@@mjwpowerstroke I'm a av height and my experience is the complete opposite it's always a tall guy that starts a problem for no apparent reason also everytime I went to a party and there was a fight it was usually two tall dudes duking it out
When a bunch of cops come for you, break down your door, you keep calm in that moment too. Intimidation, manipulation, that's what we all face everyone of us.
His point is not that bigger guys can fight you. His point is that they can use their size to assert their frame. The way they might do that is by: moving in your space; pretending to laugh about something and 'accidently' knock you; talking over you or past you to someone.. Etc. I should know because my brother is 6'4" and he does it 😅
I was once threatened by someone taller than me and I'm 6' 2". The problem was he also was a better trained street fighter than me and he also had more muscle mass than I did; even though I worked out regularly, he'd been doing it longer than I had, and it showed. We used to train together and I actually learned some good technique and a few dirty tricks from this person. I don't know why he had a stick up his ass the day he threatened me. It wasn't a straight forward threat like he had a specific issue that got him angry. He said something like this, "Hey man, don't ever start a fight with me. I will break bones. I will put you in the ER, if you're lucky." He didn't stop there, he said something else, but I don't remember what it was. I was already trying to think how to respond to this intimidation. I should add he was looking straight into my eyes while he said all of this. Here's how I solved this problem. I knew couldn't show any fear or let him intimidate me, because if I did I'd always be his mercy, or lack there of. So I said this: "Thank you for telling me that, I'll remember it. If there's ever a real problem between us, I'll come up behind you one night when you have no idea I'm there and put a .22 right through the back of your skull. But because I respect you, I'll double-tap you, so there won't be any chance you'll end up as a mental cripple or a vegetable." I said it without a trace of anger in my voice or any emotion at all; really, while staring straight back at him. Then I turned and walked away as if nothing had happened. At that moment I was quite vulnerable, but I believed I had to show that I had no fear of him at all. It worked. This was a person I worked with. I got a new job a week or two later. I saw this guy about five years later. We both had to give depositions that were related to a lawsuit a customer filled against our former employer. Ironically, it was related to a fight both of us had witnessed but neither of us had taken part in. He acted like we were long lost buddies. It was kind'a strange.
Muscle dudes are often men with the most fragile of egos. Certainly not all of them. Even within most gyms the 'regular guys' separate themselves from these ego-maniacs. That said, the types of guys you should NEVER mess with are dudes with cauliflower ear. These are guys who have countless hours on the matt and are normally the types who do not look for trouble because they truly know they can destroy 99.9% of other men.
Besides the lesson you taught us i belive you're insecure about you're own size because you mentioned big guys but also average people can fight (not to mention that most strong men are usually cold and relaxed)
Yep. The biggest, baddest among us do not look for trouble due to weak egos. They know who they are and usually avoid nonsense that could cost them in court.
@@jonmabi3608 Right, his faith in God gave him the determination and irreverence that drives his attitude and hence action. In other words, I am pointing out the attitude, should be the same. And yes, I have. Feel free to bring up the verses for other folks to see, thanks.
Here's all you need to know. Avoid stupid people in stupid places doing stupid things. You go somewhere that is known for being a rough spot, that's on you.
My friend who is 6’ told me once that he got in a fight with a short guy like 5’5 and the short guy was kicking his but to the point that my buddy had to crawl under his truck to get away from this guy 🤣
A little story recently that didn't amount to much, but I thought I'd mention. I had to go to the emergency room of my local hospital. I was having a health problem that needed attention asap. After I get there and check in, I had to wait awhile to see a doctor, and not long after, they put me through a series of tests, and this guy, a hospital employee, I don't know what his job title was, was leading me to someplace in the hospital for another test. This guy was huge, and I'm only about 5'8. So because I was bored, I just asked him, "I was wondering, how tall are you? He just causually says, 6'5". I replied, "Man, that is tall." For some reason, that provoked a reaction out of him, and he turned his head around and flashed me a look of hatred. I reply back, "I didn't mean any offense, was just little bored, waiting around for the doctor, so thought I'd ask you about your height. He relaxes, and replies, "Oh yeah, it's ok, no offense taken. I didn't have to even say anything back, but it would've been akwards and uncomfortable afterwards. I restored the peace. Words can have a powerful effect on a person, used constructively, they can help you get out of alot of potential scraps that can escalate into something bigger, especially when they never meant much to begin with.
I used to live in Vegas. Man I miss that place but Texas has way more job opportunities. Vegas by far is the best place to practice your game and skills more so than any city on the planet.
@@GoldKingsMan Seriously it's on another level. Some casinos on the strip have MULTIPLE clubs that can host 1000 people. Clubs literally feel like mini raves. Only downside for tourists is that it can get expensive. But as a local we would just play the numbers game. Be nice and hit on any hottie and you can easily take one home a week. Plus the city is notorious for swinger parties... I've never been but some of my work buddies were all about it. If you're military make sure to get a parking pass at the MGM casinos... it's free and gets you free parking at 4 different casinos. Good luck bro!
Honestly, this video means a lot due to intimidating can found in job wise as well. My cook who recently got fired for sexual talking the servers is no gone. Dude thought he better and cooler than I am due to being a cook, and I work temporally as a dishwasher. I go to school doing geology and I tried showing him some cool stuff I am learning, The cook was trying to act like it does not matter, but what is funny since the dude is fired. He does not look like the person who matters now, I even told him in his face that " He think that he is better than, no he is not at all"! I said this before he got fired, and his excuse was his personality, so got you for sure. His personality was being a douche bag!
Lots of 🧢🧢🧢 in the comment sections. Wannabe John Wicks 🤣🤣. Most people are afraid to fight, and will never fight one on one. People that want to intimidate others are insecure, and it shows low status. Just live your life, and ignore them. Your ego isn't worth getting killed over.
have you ever dated a girl taller than you? i was seeing a girl a while ago and she was a bit taller and i kinda regret breaking up with her about it. Now that im older i wouldnt do that again
Hey Matt, just curious, do you have a way to get a special deals on a hotel stay, being you said you’ll be there for the month? I’m asking because I’m interested in the idea of extended stays in other cities, but I’m trying to find a way to keep hotel costs down. Thank you!
That is true in 98% of situations, like you say...what about the other 2%?? Lol I figured that out when I was 11 yo, 30 years ago, you are right. I was very skinny, and bullied at school
Some idiot tried to fight me because I took “his” pump at the gas station (didn’t even see him) Yes, he was bigger. All I said was “look, there are camaras right there and I hope you’re really rich to pay for all the legal trouble I’ll cause you”. He walked away
David took Goliat out cause he had Faith in God! Thats wath you Guys need, Faith!! The World is messed up, cause People believe in themselfs instead of God.
What is the purpose and motive behind some random dude trying to intimidate a seemingly weaker person in the first place? Quite perplexing! Thoughts or comments anyone?
if your mind is weak and you do not think about yourself you are a lion or an eagle they always win...it is a mindset...I grow in this kind of environment the first they will do is to intimidate you and if they succeed you are lunch...the only thing you can do is speak nice and show you are not affected by their intimidation...and they calm down...if they see you are so relaxed and you have that confidence in you, they will calm down and they will see you as a dangerous man...someone who knows thinks, and who does things...
If you hit on the wrong dudes girlfriend. You might be able to get away with that “inner game” bullshit most of the time. But not all men are cut from the same cloth. You’re gonna get that one dude that’s about that life. And you’re gonna be picking up chicks with half your face caved in for the rest of your life.
I think when you met those girls at venues they are usually sitting down and you are standing up so you will seem much taller, and also if you are at a venue you will wear dress shoes but if you have sex with a girl you probably will be barefoot some point so you will appear shorter to her simple barefoot, unless you are much much taller than her. Always date a girl short as possible is my opinion to establish dominance!
I get alot of unwanted aggression when i go out, guys take the piss out of what i wear, black and white,and always dark shades on my head, just this sat nite, rilled up some scruffy dude and he grabbed my shades, cold as ice i say as i look him in the eye, don't do that. Before i was red pill and had great game i would say we can have a fight and kick this shit out of each other,or i can buy you a beer (cheaper than dental work)
I’m 5’2. Worked out heavily during the last half of summer. Men at Walmart big meat heads, staring at me more than women. Go to Florida with a coach bag, men in TJ MAXX literally blocked my way to walk out of the aisle. My mother was laughing like what’s going on here weirdo type of laugh, I didn’t even see the mans face. Stared blankly so blankly empty eyes maybe empty soul stare at him. Invisible men. Men that cannot do anything to anyone no matter how in front of you they are. Ghost men. No men.
Hi , this video is very deep. My instinct is guys who use their size to intimidate you or to exhibit any "superiority" towards physically smaller guys are just insecure losers. They are actually worse than shorter losers as at least shorter guys have excuses, if you know what I mean lol. I myself is pretty big but I have more of a gentle giant mentality as I'm pretty sensitive to not create that insecure loser who only has size image lol. If you can, could you talk more detail about "frame" in the next video ? Thanks !!!
The bigger they are the harder they fall. Learn how to fight. Join a boxing gym or mma gym. Learn some wrestling and jujitsu and you'll be fine. Doesn't matter how big they are if your a better fighter.
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@@scrappychildhood6633 sounds like you need to hire a lot lizard.
@@scrappychildhood6633 all of my content is based on US statistics from the US census bureau directly from the government that your mom likely loves. Very little is personal opinion.
@@scrappychildhood6633 that's the reason your mom is single. Loud, mouthy, disrespectful. No offense
@@scrappychildhood6633 the only reason I continue to mention my ex is because it gets lots of clicks. Your mom fails to recognize she stalked me for 3 years on social media and I never took her back. Those are the facts, make it or not. Your mom sounds very angry and bitter, like a dictator. Not surprised at all.
I don't feel like end up in lock up again...
Honey badgers are notorious for been fearless. They might be small but those things will fight Godzilla.
The thing is honey badgers are almost bulletproof. Lol
My father is 5’6. I am 6’2. I get my height from my mothers side of the family). My dad always told me a lot of guys who are bigger than him always tried to intimidate him or make him feel like the smaller guy back then in the 80’s/90’s. He told me he never had a problem pulling women despite his height, or even having issues winning fights (due to training mixed martial arts) its really all about how you carry yourself, like Matt essentially says. Hell even till this day my father walks around like he is 6’3 or 6’5. And as a bigger guy i never once looked down on dudes who are smaller than me.
being short can be a speed bump if you let it im 5'5 never had problem getting females its all on you at end of the day . some women wont want to be with you because your short but you cant let those be hang ups for you .
My best friend through the years was always a foot taller than me.
In our early 20's he was 6'3", and about 275 lbs. One night he was standing in the door way when my Dad came home. My Dad carried such intensity that Greg would always get out of his way, and call him sir.
It was a little later that I heard the stories of my Dad being a badass. When I asked him as a kid if he ever gotten into fights he always said no, and down played it. His old friend told me otherwise. It was then I knew why I was always wary of him. He was probably 5'6" at his tallest. As he got older he shrunk.
He passed in 2017, and not a day goes by I don't think of him.
@@danlc95 i hope he is in a better place as a man we should stick with eachother even know technically a am a teenager 17yo i see through the whole bullshit we live in now Koofid 19 media brainwashing Hollywood and all of that shit which makes keyass in the world. WE should be together to end this shit
A tru big dawg 💯
i always thought when your mother is tall for a woman that the kids usually are tall too
Basically be a honey badger, stand up tall and don't take crap from anyone regardless of how much bigger they are.
The loudest people are usually the most insecure. There is such a thing call insecure extroverts. If they’re trying to intimidate you it’s because you’re a threat.
My philosophy: small man vs. big man: small man loses...is expected. No big deal. small man vs. big man: big man loses...total humiliation. The big man has more to lose in a confrontation. The small man will live rent free in his big head.. forever. To sum up: take everyone seriously, with no special deference to size.
If he got cauliflower ears, he ain't bluffing
Typically those aren’t the insecure meat sacks that go around looking for trouble.
What has cauliflower ear to do with that ?
@@rishirajsaikia1323 most professional fighters have them! It comes from being hit over and over again.
@@stephenurso9267 it comes from grappling without ear protection, and when the ear cartilage being broken so often they don’t bother to drain the puss out, causing it to harden and the ears stay deformed. so in other words its a guy who was a serious wrestler or BJJ practitioner. someone you don’t want to grab a hold of you if your the average person.
Just remember muscles won’t stop a 5.56MM or a 9MM, if your life is threatened open fire as the second amendment permits you.
If you call a bully a bully and tell them to pick on someone there own size they get really really embarrassed and defensive
I'm not intimidated by their size but by the masculine energy and aggression they have, there are a lot of short dudes who can cause a havoc, believe me....
It's the truth, even when two people try to bash/bluff you at the same time ,we have to hold our masculine grounds.
True story:
Two weeks ago I approached a girl in Germany, she was near a small shop where you can place bets on sports teams and play casino games. She was German. I said „Hey, what‘s your name?“. She answered why I want to know and I kept persisting to get to know her. She went into the „casino“ and all of a sudden 5 Turkish guys ran out and she pointed the finger at me accusing me of calling her names. I had to stay icy. Her boyfriend was 5‘6“, but he had other guys with him and they seemed to be drug dealers. I looked him straight into the eyes and said that I didn’t call her names. He sensed that I said the truth and just said to never approach her again. I said alright and went off. Crazy experience.
Was she a Turk in Germany or an actual German? If the latter is so, I guess that she was a anotherRacetraitor who is unwittingly helping to facilitate theCoudenhoveKalergiPlan.
I'm 6ft 3. This has never happened to me. I have seen small men trying to assert their "authority" though. Quite comical.
Never take shit from anyone..But be smart as well..theres a time and place for everything..through experience u learn this.
I have a magic anti-intimidation potion. It's called pepper spray. I carry it every time I go out. And if that magic isn't strong enough, I EDC a Sig P365. It's amazing how much one can carry in just their pockets.
This is a class response Sir!
P365 is my daily go to problem solver!!! 😇😇😇
Yup. Mr Sig P365 would make a almost 7ft man feel like he shorter than 5ft... believe that!
@@josecolon3185 If you want to make your P365 even more magical, try some Underwood Xtreme Defenders. They come different potion sizes including 90 gr., 68 gr., and 115 gr., with variations for standard, +P and +P+. Their magical qualities include being barrier blind (because they're solid copper, but with a fluted tip) and if you choose the lighter ones, they have less recoil than their heavier JHP counterparts. And because of their unique cavitation capabilities, they create a permanent wound channel larger than even the best JHPs.
@@theodorecendejas1343 If you want to make your P365 even more magical, try some Underwood Xtreme Defenders. They come different potion sizes including 90 gr., 68 gr., and 115 gr., with variations for standard, +P and +P+. Their magical qualities include being barrier blind (because they're solid copper, but with a fluted tip) and if you choose the lighter ones, they have less recoil than their heavier JHP counterparts. And because of their unique cavitation capabilities, they create a permanent wound channel larger than even the best JHPs.
I’m muscular and a boxer and I got my ass whooped by an MMA fighter who was 20LBS lighter than me and shorter than me also.
moral of the story is it doesn’t matter how jacked you are unless you are a trained street fighter.
What happened? He used kicks and takedowns? Not making fun of you I am just interested in the story.
@@jonmabi3608 I got in a very heated exchange which resulted in an altercation in a nightclub a few years back, I knew the guy mutually from the fighting gym we both attended, however he was not a friend of mine. In terms of power, speed and reach I was totally superior, however when he got in my pocket and grappled me to the ground and engaged his chokehold I was toast, I never stood a chance after that he completely had the upper hand and I admit I lost because in boxing your not trained to deal with that situation
@@tankthepitbull520 Yeah, as someone who loves boxing, compared to what a good wrestler can do its not effective. We had a guy at my old boxing gym, guy is a prodigy, very fast and deadly. He once sparred with my brother, and was absolutely winning before he got taken down (it was a friendly spar with no rules) and shelled up. You gotta know every aspect of fighting
@@tankthepitbull520 - That sounds like the time I was sparring with a Ukrainian at work. He was in the Ukranian army when he was younger.
For some reason he regarded me as a "tough guy", and wanted to test me. Nope, Vlad had no problem exposing my lack of training!
Still good friends to this day. It's been 11 years!
@@tankthepitbull520 what happened after, did he throw you over his coffee table?
I'm 5ft 3 and was being bullied by a guy that was around 6ft 3 talking shit to me after he pushed me backwards from the bar. I pulled out my hunting knife and stuck him deep below the waistline. His girlfriend was screaming historically as he laid on the ground bleeding to death. The paramedics took him to hospital to get his joint reattached .
Are you in prison? Just kidding.. 😂. What happened to that guy?
I'm 5'10, 160lbs, and have beat up guys in bar fights 6'6 300lbs. Just defending myself, never looking to fight......
If a guy does that, I embarrass him in front of girls. Since he made a big deal about his size, then call him on it:
"Check it ouuuut... Preeeetty big muscles there. How come, muscles, good looking, you're not surrounded by girls right now? What's happening there bro? You want me to make a few calls for you?"
End of the day, it's the guy who can maintain frame, witty and make girls relax that gets action.
Guys. DO NOT listen to this dude. Wtf are you gonna do if the opponent actually assaults you? Learn how to defend yourself and stay out of trouble. A true alpha male will ACTUALLY KNOW how to handle himself in physical confrontations. True confidence and your INNER ALPHA MALE self that is yearning to come out will come from your own overcoming hardships and challenges in life.
Well geezer I would take it and the police would arrive and he'd be up in front of the jury haha, I've been in the weaker position where I've been up there for assault with intent, though I'd killed him.
Not a great place to be!
@jonmabi
In real-life interactions, there is a real reason why someone would "try" to assault you. So if you're not careful enough, then yes somebody would try to fight you and you fight back just like what you're saying. But until then, stay icy and non-reactive. Matt's advice is as always 💯% accurate.
@@ManhoodTycoon yer matt is on the money, my case was wrong time wrong place
@@ManhoodTycoon I totally get what you’re saying and I agree to a certain extent. For the vast majority of the time nothing will probably happen. But this is not because you stayed “icy”, but due to the fact that your opponent can’t put his money where his mouth is. However, what I’m worried about is someone is going to take this advice the wrong way and think that staying “icy” is an ACTIVE DETERRENT to avoid things getting violent. But that is not the case. You’re gonna get that one guy, that is absolutely not afraid to give you the business. And surprisingly it’s not even the big guys that will do it.
I think it’s more about facing your fears and fighting being intimidated. Women can be intimidating that’s how I took it
Staying grounded in your own energy
If anybody usually tries to size me up and stare me down, I usually just say “can u help you”, and then I just say have a good day disengaging immediately before it escalates. And if it gets physical, well Jujitsu, boxing and wrestling combo is something not to sneeze at that will put anyone away.
Or just shoot them with a 10mm...or you can just do that
@@josephdeliz3455 Indiana
Usually....wrestling skills alone will win out over most random idiots looking for a fight. The Jujitsu and boxing are just added bonuses.
Tell them bro
Stay calm and smile while looking in his eyes so that he can read the message that the consequences could be worst
Very important coaching video
It doesn't matter how big you are. Your knees are the weakest.
I am 5'9 and 175 lbs. Low body fat. I was a competetive mma fighter, now i only lift weights as powerlifting. This height and weight and fighting experience can not be intimidated. It is like being able to intimidate Mike Tyson which is impossible.
I’m the same height 27 age , any advice on what self defense classes to start?
@@SeattleTgrind 27 is late, to be able to gain a compact fighting skills. It should start in earlier ages. But after 27, you could have such a muscular body by lifting weights you can be heavy and muscular.
Matt your content on this channel is so on point, everytime I'm thinking of something you drop something related to it.
Im always been the smallest "biggest" guy in the room in my entire life. I'm short and skinny but there were only few big guys who tried to provoke me who only end up becoming respectful of me. My advice is be a respectable man and never act stupid especially around loud big guys. What also works for me is that I have this "dude, I'm a lil guy but I can kick your ass right here right now" look on my face which repel them to even try to provoke me.
Ive delt with these bullies alot also im 5'3 so the taller ones think they can intimidate.
Well as a big guy it is usually the little guys who try to start fights, and they usually get their ass kicked. There is a reason there are weight classes in boxing/mma. Big guys hardly ever start trouble unless very drunk. Sorry Matt a big guy tried to mess with you if you were not starting anything. We usally stand up and protect the smaller people in a group as I do as a tall/large Security Supervisor.
those are sports. there are rules. there aren't weight classes on the street
I'm glad you're a good man, but there are a lot of losers in the world. And when I was younger, the big guys who would sometimes start fights with me taught me how much fun fighting is 😂 and the big guys who are losers who start problems usually aren't the ones who can fight. They pick on people they think they can push around because they've got low value, self esteem, or other insecurities.
Yea, as a tall guy, I’ve had an older shorter guy explain that’s it’s usually the short guys that try to start stuff with him. Said the taller guys, he rarely had problems with.
@@mjwpowerstroke I'm a av height and my experience is the complete opposite it's always a tall guy that starts a problem for no apparent reason also everytime I went to a party and there was a fight it was usually two tall dudes duking it out
It's usually the big guys who are dumber and cause the fights due to their low iqs usually.
When a bunch of cops come for you, break down your door, you keep calm in that moment too.
Intimidation, manipulation, that's what we all face everyone of us.
That happened to my house.
His point is not that bigger guys can fight you. His point is that they can use their size to assert their frame. The way they might do that is by: moving in your space; pretending to laugh about something and 'accidently' knock you; talking over you or past you to someone.. Etc. I should know because my brother is 6'4" and he does it 😅
Just have high confidence like David in front of Goliath.
Happy Thanksgiving Matt.
I was once threatened by someone taller than me and I'm 6' 2". The problem was he also was a better trained street fighter than me and he also had more muscle mass than I did; even though I worked out regularly, he'd been doing it longer than I had, and it showed. We used to train together and I actually learned some good technique and a few dirty tricks from this person. I don't know why he had a stick up his ass the day he threatened me. It wasn't a straight forward threat like he had a specific issue that got him angry. He said something like this, "Hey man, don't ever start a fight with me. I will break bones. I will put you in the ER, if you're lucky." He didn't stop there, he said something else, but I don't remember what it was. I was already trying to think how to respond to this intimidation. I should add he was looking straight into my eyes while he said all of this.
Here's how I solved this problem. I knew couldn't show any fear or let him intimidate me, because if I did I'd always be his mercy, or lack there of. So I said this: "Thank you for telling me that, I'll remember it. If there's ever a real problem between us, I'll come up behind you one night when you have no idea I'm there and put a .22 right through the back of your skull. But because I respect you, I'll double-tap you, so there won't be any chance you'll end up as a mental cripple or a vegetable." I said it without a trace of anger in my voice or any emotion at all; really, while staring straight back at him. Then I turned and walked away as if nothing had happened. At that moment I was quite vulnerable, but I believed I had to show that I had no fear of him at all. It worked.
This was a person I worked with. I got a new job a week or two later. I saw this guy about five years later. We both had to give depositions that were related to a lawsuit a customer filled against our former employer. Ironically, it was related to a fight both of us had witnessed but neither of us had taken part in. He acted like we were long lost buddies. It was kind'a strange.
like a bully trying to be friends with the person who stood up for himself
You got the upper hand on him, and probably did some damage to his ego, that he couldn't deal with. So he didn't want to be friendly anymore.
Muscle dudes are often men with the most fragile of egos. Certainly not all of them. Even within most gyms the 'regular guys' separate themselves from these ego-maniacs. That said, the types of guys you should NEVER mess with are dudes with cauliflower ear. These are guys who have countless hours on the matt and are normally the types who do not look for trouble because they truly know they can destroy 99.9% of other men.
Exactly bro
Besides the lesson you taught us i belive you're insecure about you're own size because you mentioned big guys but also average people can fight (not to mention that most strong men are usually cold and relaxed)
Yep. The biggest, baddest among us do not look for trouble due to weak egos. They know who they are and usually avoid nonsense that could cost them in court.
Great video. So true. People's actual size and their perceived size are very different.
Very powerful advice Matt, I've been learning with you for quite some time and that's true. Frame and staying ice is very important. Thanks !!
Remember the biblical story of David versus the philistine Goliath - same attitude should be established. Fantastic content as always.
didn't david knocked the s**t out of goliath with a big stone right on the head?
@@LuisD.Guitar he surely did yet what I am pointing out is the attitude of determination and irreverence
@@Kauffman578 lol it was his faith in God that allowed him to take down Goliath. Did you even read that part of the Bible?
@@jonmabi3608 Right, his faith in God gave him the determination and irreverence that drives his attitude and hence action. In other words, I am pointing out the attitude, should be the same. And yes, I have. Feel free to bring up the verses for other folks to see, thanks.
Gotta love that desert view in the early am brother.
Be safe out there.
I think lifting weights and training in some kind of martial arts can help the smaller guy as well.
Monday night 29 November 2021. Thanks for the tips, awesome.
basically always view yourself as having the leverage & thus what you do or say will communicate that thus the guy will pussi out
Here's all you need to know.
Avoid stupid people in stupid places doing stupid things.
You go somewhere that is known for being a rough spot, that's on you.
My friend who is 6’ told me once that he got in a fight with a short guy like 5’5 and the short guy was kicking his but to the point that my buddy had to crawl under his truck to get away from this guy 🤣
6' is kinda short
@@hexchad765 no it’s not
@@Xenlacasa45 if your name is Gomez, then 6' is a giant
@@hexchad765 doesn’t matter what’s short to you it’s tall period.
@@Xenlacasa45 lol no. 6' is short, my little man. Good luck
Happy thanksgiving
Great advice, sir!!
Lager men usually dint go around trying to intimidate. This may all be in your head. Im 6'3 220 and smaller men try to intimidate me a lot.
A little story recently that didn't amount to much, but I thought I'd mention. I had to go to the emergency room of my local hospital. I was having a health problem that needed attention asap. After I get there and check in, I had to wait awhile to see a doctor, and not long after, they put me through a series of tests, and this guy, a hospital employee, I don't know what his job title was, was leading me to someplace in the hospital for another test. This guy was huge, and I'm only about 5'8. So because I was bored, I just asked him, "I was wondering, how tall are you? He just causually says, 6'5". I replied, "Man, that is tall." For some reason, that provoked a reaction out of him, and he turned his head around and flashed me a look of hatred. I reply back, "I didn't mean any offense, was just little bored, waiting around for the doctor, so thought I'd ask you about your height. He relaxes, and replies, "Oh yeah, it's ok, no offense taken. I didn't have to even say anything back, but it would've been akwards and uncomfortable afterwards. I restored the peace. Words can have a powerful effect on a person, used constructively, they can help you get out of alot of potential scraps that can escalate into something bigger, especially when they never meant much to begin with.
Aye, I love the views, nice to see the ferriswheel. Great message, sir.
Great topic
It's not the dog in the fight, it's the fight in the dog.
Appreciate these kinds of videos
Thank you for reminding me I should never be a bitch or afraid of anyone no matter who they are
Like the old saying - Is not the size of the dog, it's the fight in the dog.
I used to live in Vegas. Man I miss that place but Texas has way more job opportunities. Vegas by far is the best place to practice your game and skills more so than any city on the planet.
I’ll keep that in mind.
@@GoldKingsMan Seriously it's on another level. Some casinos on the strip have MULTIPLE clubs that can host 1000 people. Clubs literally feel like mini raves. Only downside for tourists is that it can get expensive. But as a local we would just play the numbers game. Be nice and hit on any hottie and you can easily take one home a week. Plus the city is notorious for swinger parties... I've never been but some of my work buddies were all about it. If you're military make sure to get a parking pass at the MGM casinos... it's free and gets you free parking at 4 different casinos. Good luck bro!
GET YOUR WIND UP !!!!!!!!
Awesome vid
Honestly, this video means a lot due to intimidating can found in job wise as well. My cook who recently got fired for sexual talking the servers is no gone. Dude thought he better and cooler than I am due to being a cook, and I work temporally as a dishwasher. I go to school doing geology and I tried showing him some cool stuff I am learning, The cook was trying to act like it does not matter, but what is funny since the dude is fired. He does not look like the person who matters now, I even told him in his face that " He think that he is better than, no he is not at all"! I said this before he got fired, and his excuse was his personality, so got you for sure. His personality was being a douche bag!
Lots of 🧢🧢🧢 in the comment sections. Wannabe John Wicks 🤣🤣. Most people are afraid to fight, and will never fight one on one. People that want to intimidate others are insecure, and it shows low status. Just live your life, and ignore them. Your ego isn't worth getting killed over.
Keep up the great work Matt 💯
have you ever dated a girl taller than you? i was seeing a girl a while ago and she was a bit taller and i kinda regret breaking up with her about it. Now that im older i wouldnt do that again
you broke up with her because she was taller?
Hey Matt, just curious, do you have a way to get a special deals on a hotel stay, being you said you’ll be there for the month?
I’m asking because I’m interested in the idea of extended stays in other cities, but I’m trying to find a way to keep hotel costs down. Thank you!
MENTAL WARFARE... Absolutely agree!
21st century Game...
What do you have besides your looks. I will have to use that
That is true in 98% of situations, like you say...what about the other 2%?? Lol
I figured that out when I was 11 yo, 30 years ago, you are right. I was very skinny, and bullied at school
M! Happy 🦃Thanksgiving ACE! yur SOLID! Thanks bro...🌞✝️☯️♊️
Icy and non reactive . When you go icy go icy cold. Think Siberia 🤛
The bigger they are, the harder they fall.
Thanks, really Thanks
how tall r u ?
Love you Matt your the shit!!
Love you Matt
Some idiot tried to fight me because I took “his” pump at the gas station (didn’t even see him) Yes, he was bigger. All I said was “look, there are camaras right there and I hope you’re really rich to pay for all the legal trouble I’ll cause you”. He walked away
Remember fellas David took out Goliath and became a King of a great people.
David took Goliat out cause he had Faith in God! Thats wath you Guys need, Faith!! The World is messed up, cause People believe in themselfs instead of God.
That fight was 1 vs 2.
Smile and laughter work better.
Greetings from Colombia South America. You're my sensei. A fatherly figure. 👍👏
I need to go to Colombia and get with a fine Colombian girl. Love the accents of the girls from Medellin
What is the purpose and motive behind some random dude trying to intimidate a seemingly weaker person in the first place? Quite perplexing! Thoughts or comments anyone?
Sounds like insecurity to me.
Ego boost perhaps or jealousy when you’re with a beautiful girl out in public
if your mind is weak and you do not think about yourself you are a lion or an eagle they always win...it is a mindset...I grow in this kind of environment the first they will do is to intimidate you and if they succeed you are lunch...the only thing you can do is speak nice and show you are not affected by their intimidation...and they calm down...if they see you are so relaxed and you have that confidence in you, they will calm down and they will see you as a dangerous man...someone who knows thinks, and who does things...
If you hit on the wrong dudes girlfriend. You might be able to get away with that “inner game” bullshit most of the time. But not all men are cut from the same cloth. You’re gonna get that one dude that’s about that life. And you’re gonna be picking up chicks with half your face caved in for the rest of your life.
@@jonmabi3608 if it goes that far you take his life
In my experience, the short guys are more agressive and the big guys are usually nicer
I saw a grasshopper stand up to a Dog.. the dog went running.
Simpin aint easy...
Godzilla 1998 : Size Does Matter
Alpha male channel : Size NEVER Matter
Cheers from Thailand
Great video! This happens a lot for me, being 1,65 myself.
Retired Bouncer here. None of the above works
We just had 2 mis-sized men argue with wives recording here in West Texas, big one is dead all on video ;( !!!!
I think when you met those girls at venues they are usually sitting down and you are standing up so you will seem much taller, and also if you are at a venue you will wear dress shoes but if you have sex with a girl you probably will be barefoot some point so you will appear shorter to her simple barefoot, unless you are much much taller than her. Always date a girl short as possible is my opinion to establish dominance!
Even these beautiful women still have to strain on the toilet to force out vile things...
True. It's like that one movie about Kiss...haha I forget that name
I get alot of unwanted aggression when i go out, guys take the piss out of what i wear, black and white,and always dark shades on my head, just this sat nite, rilled up some scruffy dude and he grabbed my shades, cold as ice i say as i look him in the eye, don't do that. Before i was red pill and had great game i would say we can have a fight and kick this shit out of each other,or i can buy you a beer (cheaper than dental work)
good video, what i mean good context
Matt , your shirt is really nice 😃. It looks really good
I’m 5’2. Worked out heavily during the last half of summer. Men at Walmart big meat heads, staring at me more than women. Go to Florida with a coach bag, men in TJ MAXX literally blocked my way to walk out of the aisle. My mother was laughing like what’s going on here weirdo type of laugh, I didn’t even see the mans face. Stared blankly so blankly empty eyes maybe empty soul stare at him. Invisible men. Men that cannot do anything to anyone no matter how in front of you they are. Ghost men. No men.
Mental ware fare hit home. "Pitch Anything" by Oren Klaff, game changer for me.
Hi , this video is very deep. My instinct is guys who use their size to intimidate you or to exhibit any "superiority" towards physically smaller guys are just insecure losers. They are actually worse than shorter losers as at least shorter guys have excuses, if you know what I mean lol. I myself is pretty big but I have more of a gentle giant mentality as I'm pretty sensitive to not create that insecure loser who only has size image lol. If you can, could you talk more detail about "frame" in the next video ? Thanks !!!
The bigger they are the harder they fall. Learn how to fight. Join a boxing gym or mma gym. Learn some wrestling and jujitsu and you'll be fine. Doesn't matter how big they are if your a better fighter.
It's ok until he pulls iron
If lost the battle in the head you will loose everywhere.
oye it's just Insecurity(.WW.) cuz i Am Soo DOPE🙏🐻👑🌴 jealousy/envy, hate Don't EXIST, im Muy Bueno.........................💎 MINDSET, PREACH Brotha🙏
To sum up this video.
If you are a small guy that a big guy is trying to intimate...
Ask him "What do you bring to the table?"
3.40 in, I get it, you talk them to death..!!!