Dating Karo Teenage Years mein?
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- Опубликовано: 16 апр 2022
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What a intro yaar shwetabh bhai aap to godfather ho 😂😂😂
What a encounter 👏
Poora video dekha bade aaram se,bohot baate'n hain sochne wali bhai that meri bhi yahi reality hai mai bhi ye sab abhi afford nahi kr skta,ab se mai kissi ki bhi baat ko sunuga to dekhunga ki vo kaise background se aa rha hai ,uski kya reality rahi hai fir vishwaas krunga.Thanks Shwetabh bhai❤️
Shwetabh sir insta pe bhi kuch daal diya karo yar. Aise hi follow karke rakhe ha
Bhai harami matlab kitne harami bhai katai khooni the kya 😅❤️
What a line
*"If life is a game people born in india are already at hardest level of the game"*
-Swetabh Gangwar
People from Africa : Hold my beer !
@@nirmalkumar-vw5tb water*
@@bombiljean well they drink beverages from chocolate lakes.
Difficulty: Asian....lol
@@bombiljean Moonshine*
I and my roommate were preparing for masters at IIT. I got a 97%ile my roommate did not qualify. She is studying and partying in sweden owning to her super rich parents. I am struggling to prepare for interviews and looking out for parttime jobs. I work for 12 - 14 hours every single day. I look at my parents feel disappointed every single day. i am a girl and i have to think ten times before spending for things as simple as a cab. My blood boils looking at privileged people telling me how i need to "loosen up " and "have a life"
lol
have a life wala gyaan to mujhe bhi bahut dete hain log.....totally relatable...keep working hard sis ..you will do wonders
Girl start to invest and trade..... After 5 year you will be in better position..
@@darklordlj8009 BC isme hasne waali kaon si baat lagi tere ko?
@@darklordlj8009 lol
As a girl, I've been listening to you for like 4-5 years, and can't recall you ever being sexist. I've found your advice general and true for both sexes, and quite sensible. Can't understand what made these people think this stuff about you
Their stupidity ofc, these things go way off their heads which could only process superficial and generalized stuffs.
Well you can't just praise your competition can you
Dont forget people are weird
C'mon who's not sexist lol
@@maddiek8123 sexiest and sexist are different
Me : why shwetab is so relatable??
My brain : kyunki tu bhi ussi socio economic background se aata hai bhai
Totally agreed!!!
So relatable brother
When Shwetabh said "Main college nhi gaya" look at his eyes. Most influencers don't know the pain that 60% of normal Indians go through.
Even the pain in his eyes and voice continues for some minutes
mai bhi nhi gaya, I know the pain
To bhai karte kya the college ke time pe?@@yyvaibhav
@@nirodeceptionjob bhai aur kya…ghar chalane ke liye karna padhta hai…me khud 2 years dropout hu aur ye saal liya hu admission FYBMS me…ab financial problem face kar raha hu jaise hi job chhora hu
@@xploserop4737 18 saal me konsi job bhai? Like matlab kis skill ke liye job?Aur bhai chinta mat karo aajkal to waise bhi itna competition hai ki neet aur jee me bhi bande na chah kar double drop le rahe hai.
People who are coming from the same background as shwetabh did can easily understand what he wants to say. You Deserve respect man.
I was resonating with every word he said.
The anger
The frustration
Knowing that you are capable but just because of the socio-Economic condition you are born in you feel paralyzed.
The Horror of seeing people treating you like an insect just because of your financial condition.
@@VishDumbr u really worried about ur financial condition ,or desperation to get approval of a girl through money by being a victim.
I totally agree with Shwetabh here. My whole life turned upside down at the age of just 20 years because of my father's deteriorating condition. It was my 2nd year drop and I was already in a lot of stress. Besides all that, I did managed to crack one of the prestigious College of India but had to leave it just because of the whole circumstances. Now my whole life revolves around my father's health and our financial situation. So ya, life is not that privileged.
Well, life is that way, but what an amazing son you are. This is nice. On the other hand I had terrible accident when I was 18, I am so much dependent on my parents, I wish I wasn’t. It breaks me down that still I cannot do much for them. They have to take care of me when they should be retiring and enjoying 2nd innings of life. Well, good luck for your journey. It’s still what we make out of whatever lemons life throw at us. That makes me work on my health, my academics daily. It’s not easy with medications I still have to take., the side effects are horrendous, but I get to live half a day if not entire day, hassle free.
Bhai, hope you achieve much more success and come out of hardship 😟
Stay strong and keep moving. You're going to make it. I wish everything turns out good for you.🙏🏻🕉️ Om Namah Shivaay
Which college you left?
@@frostlite6293 Glc
I am 20 at the moment, I have never seen a club, never had a gf, even not got a personal bike, broken screen phone, no money, nothing .On top of that have career stress, family stress. we just need to accept the reality we are living in and then work hard on that to maybe we will get a better lifestyle. The lifestyle gap is so much. Their Normal life is our dream life.
Sadly, same here brother. Just hustle hard
Same here.... Just feeling low generally
Bro your condition is same as mine.
We are working hard just to live the dream life which rich kids living normal 🙏
Same here bro.. Just hope that we will be successfull soon
Bhy mere haar middle class ladke ke yhi khani h mere pass nokia 12000 h 12th class me aur mere tution me sab ke pass 12k+ ka phone but udaas mat ho kaam karo 🤟 shoke papa ke paiso se pure nhi hote ..... Kaam karo
Shwetabh Allahbadiya love story better than Twilight rn !!
Even me and my girlfriend's love story is better then Twilight
And I don't even have a girlfriend
🤣🤣🤣
Ranveer should invite Shwetabh, maza aayega
@@st.mephisto8564 nhai hoga bhai ye shyad shewtabh bhai real ho jaate hai vo sehan nahi hota logi ko
@@matangpandit2519 sahi kaha ...unko banavati batein zyada pasand hai
You don't need a boy friend or girl friend to be felt anchored.
A Friend is Ok.
Yeah. I would even say friendships are better than relationship from my experience. Right now I'm single and I'm happiest than I have ever been in a relationship.
Yeah man friends are the best. These MF jewels are always with us and will always be with us.
It really depends upon the person,in the end.
Either could be your friend or your partner
What if you you don't have friend
I don't even have friends
I see lots of my friends hanging out in clubs and bars who were with me in my school days. No one could ever differentiate me from them but now as we grew up things have changed. I do hold some of my dearest friends who share the same fate as me and we just wonder how tf do these guys who no girl ever looked at are partying every Sunday, dancing around hot and beautiful girls in expensive clubs ,like how tf do their parents Even allow them. They all make cool instagram stories while i live my life on daily loop yesterday same as tomorrow with no rich kid privilege always wondering and hoping my life was like theirs. But the fact is one has to accept and settle with reality at some point of our lives . Mine is quite different from there's actually a lot. I've also realised ki high end coaching institutes like Allen and akash are also a major privilege,even a CBSE & ICSE board schooling is also a privilege which actually builds up a very strong base for the upcoming career and most of the kids in those institutes fail to realise what they have. Whenever I sit around with such guys and see them blaming their life i just speak to myself that what they are sad about is all that i could ever wish for. There's no joy left in conversations as it was back in school days maybe we were kids and never looked at each other with the frame of status and privilege. Things have changed
I feel you brother! Keep faith in yourself and may you achieve everything you desired for in your life...
As an icse student, I can relate to it that we are the most privileged students even more than Cbse students due to that english edge that we have in icse Or isc.
yes u r right work hard and party hard
I can relate with every word you say! Life is really sad and weird sometimes.
Well, I kind of do and do not relate with this. Because in a privilege standpoint - I was in cbse-but that did not helped me become smarter or help me to become good in english, but there is merit in what you saying, because in my school we had a library with all sorts of books which was not there when I was gujarat board. I never chose to go out because that is just not me, I am coming from a place where I think privilege is not a problem. Clearly, I have no clue what you are going through, but thank you for your insight
Being from a middle class family I can relate to everything.
Everyone in the cmt section not only u
Its lower middle class bro
@@psychouncle01 Is comment ki kya zarurat thi I wonder
actually you should check if ur middle class or not cause only 2 % population of entire india is middle class but everyone thinks that they are middle class ruclips.net/video/qx835MGFzDI/видео.html
@@devanshchauhan5758 mohak mangal 😂😂
I'm 18 nd have not seen a club or pub till now, never thought of having a bf as a "necessity", truly agree with you, I am shocked by how such big creators like dhruv nd ranveer fail to recognise where the majority of their audience is coming from.
I am 31 and I have never been those places either, nor do I ever intend to be there.
You are 18 and haven't seen till now what about people in their late 20's and thirties who haven't been there . You are still very young, don't feel guilty about this at all.
@@vikramadityarathore97 Yes sir nd I don't really care about such stuff either, was just to prove the point that many of us really don't get to experience such things till much later in life.
@@priyanshikesharwani926 I am just 24 and you addressed me as sir as if I am 40 or something .😆😅 But I get your point, if you ask me I will most likely never go to a pub or club in my life unless my friends or future partner really insist me to.
*creators
I'm following his advice since class 8.
I come from a financially weak background and my friends who come from a wealthier background have gfs going to malls,and posting photos on Instagram. I sense this "no choice" in my environment.
I'm currently hustling for my life, I'm in class 12,and I will definitely change my surroundings.
Thanks shwetabh bhaiya:)
Bro this same thing happens with me I'm currently in 10th, you just gave me a motivation to stay on track rather than indulging in this distractions. Thanks brother btw you will definitely be more successful than that wealthier friends .
Same story here man stay strong :)
@@Kabiiraaa , yes bro you can indulge in relationships when you have achieved a degree of financial stability. It will also prevent you from being an insecure person.
Keep hustling brother.
@@Harmanyy,thanks buddy 👍
@@ayushsinha1298 👍
Bhaiya You're the best person online💛
From suicidal thoughts due to break up to studying 15 hrs a day...(in 1 month )
On 17 July I have my NEET.. whatever marks I'm going to score I dedicate to you.
Much power to you girl!
बहुत अच्छा भगवान तुम्हे सफलता दे
Wish you all the best 💜
Good luck💯☮️
good luck.
*_5 years from now this channel would be a benchmark of psychology...i've never seen somebody so articulate in presenting VINDICATED DATA what a brain_*
Well said brother
facts on the face bro !
WHAT A BRAIN 🛐
Wow what a joke 🤣🤣🤣
Your brain need to be donated to science for further studies
When u said ki 300 ki 2 coffee and 1 Sandwich and tht tution wala example...it hitted me very hard...cuz i dont have tht much money on me and i cant gift my gf those expensive gifts...and u made me think tht i really need to work hard man ...then i'll be only rich and succesful thank u sir...bye
If a girl really likes you then she will not need an expensive gift or dates every then and now from you and if she does so then she is intrigued in the gifts and not in you.If she really likes you then she will be happy in 10 rupees of tea also.
@@ajeetgaming8859 women are hypergamous. If you don't show status in some shape or form, they will eventually leave you provided they have better options. Movies ki reality jo aap present kar rahe hain, it doesn't minutely represent the reality we live in.
@@raiyatsaadman8763 have you ever been in the relationship?
@@ajeetgaming8859 bro majority of women love if you provide them with comfort and gifts [especially if they are already privileged] and let's say you're not able to provide her with expensive gifts, although she wouldn't say anything but deep down she will feel that her partner isn't the best provider or she would subconsciously compare her partner to her friend's partner and obviously you would be able to know that she isn't liking your financial status which will create a LOT of self doubts, insecurities and low self esteem. And there would be a greater chance of her finding a better person than you and getting into relationship with the other person. But this also depends on many other factors too but still this makes a LOT OF DIFFERENCE.
@@raiyatsaadman8763 i agree with u, and also keep the girl out of scenario, arent u want to be so rich and fulfilled to afford those things. Money n career is important, no matter what. If u don't provide her better status, if she don't see u working toward better privileges, recognition and money, some day she will leave.
Ironically, most of the media we all consume (movies/shows/series/songs etc) shows the exact opposite of this, like an extreme poor guy dating an extreme rich girl, how their “true love” helps them to fight all the evils of society, conquer the world etc etc. The focus on “love” being an essential part of life in struggling days is so much that the moment most of us hit our teens, irrespective of what socio-economic stand we belong to, we want to just get into a relationship as soon as possible. It feels we will “miss” something very vital if we don’t experience love in those years. Thanks Media!
Ye sab market ke jumla hai
Except for 12th fail movie, that is
One of the most relatable videos. Still remember my time in India - never went clubbing, never had a bike, crush didn't think of me as a dependable/resourceful guy. Now in Europe, working in one of the biggest companies on Earth (and probably Mars😆), doing most of the things that I could've only imagined. Still in my late 20s. Thanks Shwetabh for exposing 'influencers' like Ranveer and Dhruv time and again!
Are you in Tesla?
@@gigachadsfather6448 sounds like that 😄
@@gigachadsfather6448 maybe space X
Have you met elon musk bro...???
😵😵 You're working for Elon Musk
No money, parents having fights over money issues at home , all this causing low self esteem, rich kids in school having a good time in canteen while you don't have any money to buy a 10 rupee cold drink. ... There is no scope of thinking of looking for girlfriend, getting realised to be where where these other kid are is long way to go and by self hard work not by parents money.
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My G this video is good stuff 🔥
True that
There is just one true refuge where you'll find peace...full surrender...trust in God and be lost....loose your identity and merge your tiny drop into the vast ocean....
Or else....
Keep listening to bs vides such as the one which Shwetabh is watching ryt now and base your whole identity in someone elses hands....
Remember...you are comlpete on your own ...
Read your religious texts and be free my brothers and sisters....
Same here bud :(
Same bro
i come from the same background you described, But for me what the rich kids have or were doing never caught my attention because it isn’t even worth acknowledging for me and my career.
Let them do the best with what they, & let us do the best with what we have.
No, dating before you are settled is just a distraction. Ask anybody who has done it.
Can you pls explain?
@@yashrathore2492 maybe your dad will explain it better than me.
If family is conservative then you don't even need dating. They'll just do arranged marriage for you
Not gonna lie but I am few of those lucky guys. I have been dating my girlfriend since past 7 years from college life and she was one of the reasons why I understood that “Love isn’t your whole life & is just 5% of your life” The rest 95% is family, career,exploring etc…
When I was 18 all my different friends used to go out with their dates & enjoy shit & would be madly in love where as I was focusing on reading and self improvement.
This is why Shwetabh is best. Always questioning mode.
Dating is not necessary needed as per their explanation. That role can be filled by friends, parents, siblings, etc.
I don't think so.. relationships are necessary for a teenager but I have never been in any relationship 💔💔
@@sycophant9772 They are but ain't the priority
And later on those roles can also be fullfiled by relationship too.
Dont make it seem that a real relationship is less important than those
You can manage both relationship and career if the relationship is true and geniune
Many people don't have supportive friends family,etc but the person in relationship is successful
Parents or friends har role fit nh kar skte but situation k hisab se chlna padta ha
Dhruv Rathee kya great socialist hai. Emirates mein fly karta hai, Dubai mein ghoomta hai, luxurious life jeeta hai. Yaar aisa socialism humey bhi chahiye. Late George Fernandez wrong socialism follow kar rahe the.
Pinky I want to marry just for your skills Of roasting German Shepherd.🤣
I was thinking the same thing yaar!
@@abab2900 tu kisi se bhi shadi kar lega wah bete wo uski life hai jeene do aor ise pinky ki bacchi tu bhi ghoom agar tere pe paisa h aukat h teri uske paas uska paisa u wo uda rha h 😂😂😂
pinky ki bacchi tu bhi ghoom agar tere pe paisa h aukat h teri uske paas uska paisa u wo uda rha h 😂😂😂
Aby tu har bar yhi bolti h .
Don't do this man ...just focus on your career I wasted my last 6 years knowing my family condition is not that good...now I'm in third tier college...jin logo se acha perform karta tha ....wo aaj mujhse aage hai...but I will fight back...In life every thing happens for a reason
Mera bhai, abhi bhi time hai phaar do kaam karke. Hojayega sab acha ❤
My good wishes to you❤️
Rishay Please Do Remember - Aap Akele Nahi Ho Hn bas thoda Piche ho
Good Luck
Keep faith brahh, we all gonna make it !
Mazaa aa gya brother !!
Arre ap
ap yaha
arre gaurav bhai yahan
I can personally agreed to what all shwetabh said. Alhamdullilah, My parents always provide me good food and put me in a good school and now I am studying in one of the top university of my city but they all did it for me and they have literally spent their whole life in a debt and now there is some relief but there is still my fee which is too much if we compare it too other institutions. They did it all because to make me stable and to make my life better. Now, I have started working of myself to be best version of myself. InshaAllah, I will show my parents that their sacrifices was worthy. I have one problem that is I have no friends. I know some people but I dont have close friends. I spent most of my time in campus alone and sometimes with people whom i just got to know in class. Its not like that no one talk to me, they do but whenever I got friends with someone they started losing interest in me may be because I dont have car or money to hangout with them. But I dont focus on these things. I will just work now and spent my time effectively.
Thank You Shwetabh bhai for me reminding me what i should do in life. I cant say much but you are literally BIG BROTHER and A FRIEND to me.
👍 kya baat h
Bro parents is everything I salute your courage don't be afraid I'm also alone
Loneliss is not bad but make some friends.
Wanna know a bit more about shwetabh's past ,because he literally
Hardwork very smartly learning a guitar from "waahiyat guitar"
Also some glimpse about his childhood in this video ,and I'm literally very curious how a a child can make so far ,who belong to lower middle class family
2:30 what he is saying is partially true, one need financial stability before getting into relationships and I'm not not joking. However it doesn't mean you have to reach your end goal in your career or become millionaire
@The Quiver yeah that's true
I am 12th student and i can relate to shwetabh
Cause the recent environment around me is sane. Uncles are bothering and troubling constantly for ancestral property and asking for money constantly while tauji an papa are handling the family business on loans because of pending payments from clients. The household is at stake and feels guilty if i ask for anything. The emotional damage of relatives for separation money. And pressure of getting good marks is on other hand. I can't even think if i demand anything( i didn't asked for tutions too because of it while i have chosen science stream)how will they pay for it.
I don't know why but i got a south bombay jr.college after 10th. And my all classmates are those kids who are absolutely spoiled brats
Always talks about clubs parties and their whole lifestyle is better than me. I just feel suffocated while hanging out with them. Like they have only relationship problems to discuss 🙄 that is don't have any best friend. Now family expects me too tolerate all these problems and become a extrovert too 😒 🥲
Stay strong brother 💪
You will succeed, keep hustling 👑
I am 19 now and it’s just the time when I have started my college and have started exploring the outside world. I really do relate to the fact that there are lot of inconsistencies in the starting grounds of people. So the argument of comparing one individual with another at any given point in life isn’t fair. It is also a consolation to people who face the fear of being left out in carrier or life, cause we were never fighting on level grounds. This truly is one more really relatable eye opening video of Shwetabh bhaiyya on the harsh realities of comparing 2 individuals or people of different demographic backgrounds.
From your videos i have realized how privileged i am and how tough it is for some people to have things that i take for granted 🙌🏻
Yes Arhan Shwetabh came like a angel what he say's really connect with the common man , following him from last 6 yrs
lol but why should you waste your time thinking about how priviledged you are? Just make the most of what you got. Your burden of life is too much to handle, focus on that. Rest of the world will do their part. If we keep on thinking like this, nothing will be done in life. Your reality is your reality.
There is just one true refuge where you'll find peace...full surrender...trust in God and be lost....loose your identity and merge your tiny drop into the vast ocean....
Or else....
Keep listening to bs vides such as the one which Shwetabh is watching ryt now and base your whole identity in someone elses hands....
Remember...you are comlpete on your own ...
Read your religious texts and be free my brothers and sisters....
Yes brother I can understand
@@richcohen5936 it's called being self aware.
Teens me you can like someone talk to someone but speaking from my personal experience, keep career first and teens or in fact early 20s could be the age when break ups can pivot your entire career. So, understand the consequences. Blindly ghus mat jao dhruv rathee ne kaha toh thik kaha hoga aisa soch k.
9:53 boss you are absolutely right👏👏I've realized this after coming to Europe. We didn't lived, we survived.
Bro💜
This hits hard
What are you studying man? I am planning to shift Europe next year for my masters
@Hmm ꪜ not really I'm gonna give TOEFL and ielts probably shifting to Netherlands , University of Amsterdam or Rotterdam University
@Hmm ꪜ it sure is
Swetabh has maturity of understanding reality.some people just talk according to their own personal experience and speak for public.
I was always apprehensive about Ranveers body language and never found it sync with what he said.
There is more than something fake about it, his exaggerated head sway, shoulder shrug and hand movements always give you an impression that he does not believe in it but somehow people follow and trust him.
Just because he looks good and sells success stories and half of the students go crazy on him
Bruhh in that case i feel shwetabh is more fake then him lol....
@@Gigachad7022 Shwetabh is a no nonsense guy and that's why Narcissistic, self proclaimed motivators / influencers don't like him. He talks about human behaviour, their body language, cognitive skills, middle class mentality etc which is logical and makes sense majority of Times.
Unfortunately youth blindly follows youtubers who showcase gossips, expensive life style and our famous "Love and pyaar ki bhasad"
No one wants to listen to reality of life, imaginary world is more appealing, our bollywood heros fame is best example of that ..🙏🙏
@@aashishp007 obviously I like them both that's why I watch their videos but I was talking about their body language I feel that in case of that shwetabh is more overexpressive thats it .
@@Gigachad7022 he tries to be comedic but he ain’t 😂
Bhai .. living in both India and the US , I can tell you the socio-economic situation is not the same as been portrayed usually through Hollywood movies. Not every 17 year old comes from such a stable family situation where they live a normal teenage lifestyle .. Yeha ke issues ek alag level pe hai (Single Motherhood, Drug Addiction, College debt etc). Life on HARD MODE yeha par log khel te hai. I grew up in India till 12th, my middle class parent through savings and through budgeting sent mein to US for Undergrad. I was lucky to get get enough financial aid to afford the school ..but that's it. My college life was completely on HARD MODE compared to other American Kids. Studied Engineering, while working odds jobs to make rent and food etc..I made my first girlfriend after I got my job post graduation.. and that too once I had everything in order ( car, fitness, finances etc).
Most American kids also go through the same hard life experience. After the age of 18, their parents are not there to support them unlike your parents.
If any Indian family can send their child to US for undegrad then that family is not middle class my friend
@@aryangautam7506 absolutely
@@aryangautam7506 Agreed. Ek aur import baat.
Bhale hi kids ko parents 18+ age mai support nhi karte but jobs bhot zada hain US mai.
Same cannot be said for India. Idhar jobs bhut kam hain compared to population
Ye gadha india ko us se compare kaar raha hai agar yaha jobs sahi se mill jati to Haryana or Punjab se america itna risk lekar kaise jate hai bande
10:46 literally made me cry. And this is coming from a guy who topped class 11th and was aiming for DU until cbse and DU decided to fuck everything up at the last moment.
Hi Same 🙂
hehe relatable :)
I too come from a place where even eating in resturant is once a year function , never watched movies in theatre as it cost too much , but happy that I worked hard and now I'm a mbbs graduate .
17:52 "Wo zillat" the way he speak that word 👍👍 Lucknow Wale
After a long time i saw the true raw and real shwetabh ♥️
Shwetabh and Ranveer, still a better love story than Twilight.😇
One of good things about Shewtab is that his videos have a class consciousness which is mostly lacking in other similar content makers. Privileged and family's financial health are keys to shaping life decisions and even personality.
it all depends from person to person situation to situation just be aware of your surroundings you will know what to do next ....... that's what i have learned since i started to understand things around myself
All you said in this particular video is all I can relate to , each and every word of yours I can feel it 🥲🥲🥲😂😂😂 kabhi kabhi smjh nahi aata tha that we should cry or laugh that kind of crazy situation I went through.
Shwetabh bhai ❤️ ...... Bahut Achaa laga . I seriously felt relieved that koi itne achhe se janta h kya chal raha iss type ki zindagi me .
Kya 15 ,17 20 still 22 pe bhi i am finding my way out of financial crisis, family problem, societal pressure and all the things that you said .
Seriously nobody should even consider to preach anything with this much ease without knowing our 'real' reality.
Dhruv has made a career out of generalising the different realities of India into his own and propagating his agenda / ideology through it.
So that attitude comes to him naturally.
True.
dhruv is propagandist. okay man liya lekin who isn't??
@@Farhan-rs9wt Not everyone.
@@Farhan-rs9wt now you are generalizing, seems you are too one of his audience....lol
@@Farhan-rs9wt Tell me you are Dhruv's audience without telling me you are Dhruv's audience.
14:15 exactly my situation...I don't think I'm intresting enough and need to work so much on myself and improve My life rather than running behind these shallow things bcoz they'll get me nowhere, it WON'T help me.
Thnx for this perspective 🙌
best of luck yaar.
Most of Indian youth can resonate with you bro. Love your in depth observation about life in our country 🙏
I have has the fantasy of Air conditioner ever since I was in grade 4-5 , my dad was a labour in a footwear company ( relaxo ) . He used to earn 14-15k !!
I could not afford a private school , i was super smart kid . So once a teacher insisted to go my house to meet my parents and tell them , how good i am in studies and all . You know , what I said to them ? My parents died , just to hide my poverty . I didn't have a house , one single room at rent !!
Currently I have graduated from IIT Delhi this year and earing 1.8 lakhs per month ! Not a big amount for some people , but for me like I am experiencing life a different way all together !!
Congratulations you made it !!
Great brother
Superb, all the best 👍👍
1.8lakhs per annum is def a huge amount. Tho if you have family then yeah maybe not. But you're doing good
As a girl, because i was born in a lower middle class family n i dated rich class guy in listening to those people who says its completely okay fine you learn so many things by dating...i cant spend so much money on clothes outer beauty ....
Family main vaise hi boht stress tha as he said rental home, din bhar ldayi krne vale neighbours aur na chahte hue v i had to hide so many things from things from him .....
In the end he cheated n breakup....
The only lesson i learnt from dating is jb tk financially stable na ho jao tb tk dating k baare main socho v mt apni reality ko smjhte hue.....
Bina inn gyaaniyon ka gyan liye hue...👀🐢
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Man this is really mind opening..puts many things into perspective
I almost didnt realise a smoothass explaination turning into a rant.I get you brother.The struggles real.
Shwetabh I must say this, this is one the best videos of yours that you have uploaded after a long time.
THE OLD SHWETABH IS BACK WITH US!!!!
Felt the same way brother!
My class 12 friends used to date their girlfriends i used to feel sad and inferior that I'm not cool they used to post on insta stories with their gf bf kissing partying in cafe's...in this loneliness i build my freelancing profile learned few skill in unreal engine and designing...all because I used to feel lonely. Inspite of looking good i used to underestimate my self of not looking top notch handsome..just focused on skill cold e-mails and hopefully freelancing starred giving good money as a metaverse designer in January then in March i opened my own website to sell metaverses..since then doing and outstanding revenue more than an engineer and medical PG intern...i have class 12 board exams in May....nd neet in July now i feel that loneliness,that inferiority in personality that gf-bf un-unserstood thing...moved on far above it...now they themselves come and talk to me asking how to groww nd all...the whole point is back yourself when there is no one in the world to back you..not saying relationship is bad if you don't get don't underestimate yourselves nd potential to come out..
Proud of you brother!
How did you manage to work when you were lonely ?
I use to have alot of friends when I was in class 10 but then lockdown occurred my parents were serious about my future (but I was not,i use to only think about my friends and pubg ) i scored 82% took sci. maths ,my parents force fully took me to a coaching institute to meet a sir and he told me about jee (tbh itni mithi mithi baate boli , i thought it was a piece of cake) and he told me ki friends kahi kaam nhi aayenge friends ko chood doo at this i didn't say anything and he bold me by his next sentence "COVID will not end or tum apne friends se vaise bhi nhi mil paooge, or mujhe package bhi bataye lakhs crore k ). Or parents k samajane k baad i ready to leave my school.
And then a new journey started I was motivated and studying well (was in top 5) and then lockdown ended and I attended my first offline class and soon realised that I had no one to talk to , again lockdown happened and this time i didn't study much because I was alone and was comparing myself to others(None of my friends( old school) even called me except for 1) . lockdown removed and now I'm in top 20 . I made some friends (selfish) they have gf they have money they are happy and after watching them i was like wtf life toh ye jii rahe h and also i thought meri life se ghatiya life kisi ki nhi hogi Puri duniya me .
In the MID OF 12TH a girl joined our coaching. She lives 3 km away from my house so our route was almost same , tbvvh i never had a crush before in my whole life . I am emotionally weak , i use to fantasize/imagine/daydream/create fake scenarios about being together and i practiced distraction (about that girl) for about 6 hours(or more) in a day . Realised she had one . And yeah I was a jee aspirant and a av. guy (in studies) so it was very normal to feel depress and cry everyday . But when I get to know that she had one i literally cried first time because of external factor in these two years . Earlier I use to laugh and abuse people who use to cry for girl. I was not a type of a guy who wants to go into a relationship with a girl who already been into a relationship ( please don't get offended I'm like that only (correct me if needed )). But because i was obsessed with her (as i use to daydream 6,7 hrs ) i decided that then also I'll propose her after exams . And yeah i ruined my term 1 exam . I was not able to focus, jaise hii padhne betheta tha vo hii dimaag me aati thi ,use to cry becoz exams were near and me chah kar bhi focus nhi kar pa raha tha . Get to know about her dirty secrets on 31 December (was talking to a friend(selfish) he forced me to tell him about my crush and then I told him my crush and he told me something about her). Decided to change myself, 2 Jan. about after 6 months of regular practicing distraction it was the first day i didn't think about her . But now my hormones came into play and now I think that I need relationship. Please help me please
@@yashrajasoda i know it will be hard but divert your thought to your studies or things you like to do....or research about something your curious about...it might help. Or ask your genuine friends (if you have any) to help.
@@anjali-mu1hb you know what I wrote almost 40 line reply to you but yt didn't registered it 😭😭😭😭 i wasted almost a hour writing that , i also cried writing that , and i don't know if this is gonna register or not .
@@yashrajasoda don't cry its okay i can understand....but you got to be strong..life is more than this....
Let me tell you one thing about my self i was also preparing for neet and was in a relationship in my school ( was not worth it tho) the guy just wanted to have a gf for the sake of it. His frndz kinda forced me to say yes to him...but the guy was nice but kinda childish...he just wanted to flex to his frnds...that just become a distraction to me in my boards exam...it hampered my marks...but it was to late i suffered..and realized it later. Then i broke up but it didn't affect me coz i was not crazy for him so i forgot him me easily and also i had to study alot and had other problems in life..so it helped me in a way.
But yours is different i get it....but only you can help yourself...talk to somebody who can help you like a genuin frnd. Thats all i can come up with right now.
Hope you get out of this as soon as possible.
3:14 mar jaoge na
😂😂😂 Itna seedha aur satik answere .
Totally relatable. Hats off to you where you reached yourself from bullshit life . Thanks for making video
why is it that i crave for relationships and intimacy but immediately want to get out of it once I get into it ?
Because you haven't fulfilled your basic life responsibilities
Insecure attachment style. It could be a mix of avoidant and ambivalent. Read more here: www.verywellmind.com/marriage-insecure-attachment-style-2303303#:~:text=People%20with%20an%20insecure%20attachment,they%20experienced%20in%20their%20childhood.
Same with me, I had broken up with 2 girlfriends just after 4-5 days of relationship & now I feel like being in a relationship but after getting in a relationship very soon I'll feel like I should break up.
Fear of getting attached maybe or not wanting to take the responsibilies that come with a relation.
@@AsgharHussain110 2 gf's and here I don't even get one
I love how shwetabh pauses 🤣🤣like just look at his expressions. It's like "wait let me analyse all the angles to this " 😂
This clip from the live is so good that I had to re-watch it.
Shwetabh is 200% correct... EK MIDDLE class Boy Jo apne parents ke bare me soch ta ha.. wo kabhi bhi relationship ke bare me nehi sochta...Jo soch ta ha .. accha NOKRI karke maa ,baap ko kush karna Ha.. ladki Dimag me nehi hota tabh.
But sabh ek jesa nhi sochte na me bhi middle class se belong karta hu but me sirf khud ke liye sochta hu so sabh ki apni soch h
Reaction is temporary, Roasting Ranveer is permanent.
pura video dekh
Immense respect for you bhai. From where you started and to where you have reached is highly commendable and, to be honest, motivational. Thank you for making all these videos.
You're amazing bro. The way you just make us feel the reality of 60-70 % India is commendable.
Shwetabh bhai, thank you for shedding some light on the realities of the middle class. Mainstream ideas and life concepts that stem from a place of privilege (and absolute ignorance), needs to be addressed and debunked. Thanks for being brutally honest on such subjects that may not have 'universal' application. You really are an INFLUENCER, in the truest sense of the word.
5:50-Dhruv and Ranveer's reality is not everyone's reality
8:00-Stress has a very strong effect according to neuroscience
No hate to Ranveer, but he leads us to fantasy,
The things RA points out we (75% average people) can't relate to it. I think GF don't really matter to make big in life. It's is up to us.
This is what is called raw and real. 🔥💯✨
Exactly 💯
Sir I do relate with each and everything which you said is truly correct and to the point reality of majority of people in India. But I want to ask one question that even if we know our reality within ourselves and we know that how it is effecting us but still we are not motivated enough or we are just stuck in our daily routines/problems (job, health issues etc) that we are unable to put efforts to change that reality. How can we come out of this trap please if you are reading this comment plz make a video on this
Thank You 🙏🏻
Kuch ni h bhai tum external motivation dhoond re ho bajaye us par kaam karne ke liye jo tumhe dikh ra hai ki life me ye problem chal ri hai tumhe waha se motivation dhundo or lag jaao ukhaadne
Felt heard today. Thank you so much Shwetabh sir for this video :) Thanks a lot
bhaiya i am following you for 4 years . i am literally saying this is one of the best video of yours. literally they don t know how we manage of our life .
I really enjoyed and it gives me a quick smile when Shewtabh reacts to Ranveer Intro🤣🤣
Live karna chod diye kya aap sirji?? Miss your candid live with chat
8:39 ... Mai college nhi gya ... Is liye nhi ki mera man nhi tha , bas samajh jao ... It was a very true feeling
It will always be positive if you both want the relationship mutually in which you both try to grow and help each other
You are right brother practical reality is different and its very important to consider all aspects and situation of life.👍
I 1st time disagree with shwetabh sir
I'm not saying SHWETABH BHAI is wrong but
Maybe I'm exceptional
Because yes my girlfriend is helping me in my career from the start
She knows I'm from a lower middle class family
Usko gifts nahi chahiye usko sirf mere saath time spend krna pasand hai aur mujhe bhi wohi chahiye
She also respects my art
My mother know about her because we are childhood friends and we are dating from 3/4 years
BTW love you SHWETABH sir
I agree with you too.
People think relationships means taking on dates, expensive things, enjoying time, etc
But people forget relationships could be something that isn't like you have to do so by leaving your career
Relationships could be something that is so understanding and supporting,that it you both could be struggling in lowest point of lives,and can support, encourage each other to do your best in your life to do something
And not just go in malls, clubs,dates,etc etc
But all people might not have relationships like that,but that doesn't mean that's non existent.
You could be poor and still have a relationship as long you have mutual u
Spending time... something that I used to demand from my ex. Just us two spending time together but he'd avoid. That's where it dwindled for me. I didn't needed expensive gifts & all as I believe that once you're gifted something, you have to give back something in return & I'm not in the position to do so. As a result I only requested him to take time from his schedule but he started to show disinterest. Atleast in your case your mom knows here my mom is my own biggest enemy. She wants to have full control over my life. Dad is influenced from her so I don't even have the freedom to do love marriage ngl so I never got into relationships
Shwetabh always speaks about the reality everytime. I agreed to each and every point he said. We all are going through lots of issues and facing problems in our day to day life. Just remember that ‘Great things takes time' Never give up 🙃. Learned a lot from him throughout the years 🙏🏻. Thankyou so much shwetabh Bhai 🙏🏻❤️
The day when you stop being emotional about your past is the day you will know that you can handle yourself well.
Debates like these will keep on going forever!!
Stop being emo about why others are not trying to understand your perspective.
I Love Your Videos buddy, Because you make people self-dependent not like them who talk about how important it is to be in a relationship... Career First and then you can explore other things..
Every middle class family story l agree with shwetabh whenever I was in college my classmate are going to fairwell party clubs and night outs but a middle class guy always want to save money I never go any kind of party until it's 🆓 free every middle class struggle with money at every last or 2nd last week of the month
Shwetabh u seriously moved me with this video...thanks for being alive
Always to the point 👍
Dhruv Rathee ka intellect kitna medicore hai ye dikh raha hai iss video se.
Bruh he is what he saw. He didn't saw what you or Shwetabh or I saw.. So yeah let it be
I don't know why for me Dhruv Rathee sounds so immature.
Does everyone feel the same way?
Wow, what a video shwetabh, i watched your video first time, i can relate to your every conversation here, you earned my respect bro❤
I completely agree with you man.This is not because completely feel comfortable with this and goes with my life,but reality in our country" it's about your sacrifices from a below middle class family's perspective".I also have seen many people and I feel that I could also think differently and do every possible to do in a relationship,but think of it ,it might ruin your time and effort when you have just started your career and for which you came across and made sacrifices so much it's not worth it
I think you broke it down properly.
Dhruv Rathi ka Father real state builder hai... Crore pati family se belong karta hai wo... So kafi priveledge family se belong karta hai... Aur Ranveer bhi Crore pati family se belong karta hai...
Yeah , Both of Ranveer's parents are Gynaecologists :) Bhai apna silver spoon nahi silver cutlery ke sath paida huwa hain 🎉
I felt you dude, you were mind blowing in this video, really appreciation your work thanks for all these ❤🙂
It was so relatable..thank you so much for this video❤️❤️
Shwetabh bhai i think you should change this channel name to RANVEER ALLAHBADIA FANCLUB
I subscribed u not for seeing this ranveer face again n again but for ur problem solving videos it's been more than 1 year ur doing same thing
He is reacting, its his 2nd channel where he reacts and tell, 2,3 channel alg bna rkhi he bhai
8:59 very well said swetabh bhai . This happens with me also but i will work hard and one day i will surely get success 😊
seeing you after 2years.. you are still down to earth.. always the shwetabh gangwar..
mera bhi ghar andar ghuste hi khatam ho jaati hai
bythway i comment very rare in youtube.
I have been watching ranveer and swetabh for yrs now and i think ranveer does what people want to hear and come up with masala but swetabh talks real fact and then expresses what majority of Indians are like, anyways its good to point out the reality 👍
wow wow...hits very hard...that reaction part you started is among the best..please continue doing so.
I feel you sir, there is one of my rich friend who use to give me some shitty lectures to improve my life by comparing me with his life.
I like Ranveer because he is humble and soft spoken
I love Shwetabh because of his way of speaking.... it sounds like our caring elder brother is scolding us or giving us a right direction.... thank u for being in youtube Shwetabh bhaai... love Ranveer too ❤❤❤❤
5 saal phle wala shwetabh kisko kisko chahiye
loved the way you told your story and also explained...