My son is 15 and is a metal worker. He makes pieces that he sells for big money. They are gorgeous. But even if they were not gorgeous i would be so proud to receive that gift. That woman is 100% TA
I’d love to hear more about the Thunder family! Favorite things y’all do together, funny stories, vacation spots etc etc… Shout out to Ava for also being part of the beginning of this venture! Woooooooo! ⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️
NTA! In my family we call it Puerto Rican time 😅 my husband has learned to tell me the wrong time cuz I have a bad habit of leaving when we need to arrive or not giving enough time for traffic etc Its kinda common in my family for people to be a little late to things but damn lady hours late!? At that point don't come geez
Story 6: they are not required to be trained at least in my state. My mom was a PA in a family practice and would get patients that came in with no history of emotional issues, but wanted to move to a place that didn’t allow pets or wouldn’t allow a certain type of dog so they would ask her to diagnose that the patient needed an emotional support animal. This was done solely to either exempt them from any pet fee, to skip the no pet restriction, or to exempt the breed restriction. So yeah some people legitimately may need an animal for support and get them trained, but more people than we’d like to believe use it as a scam to get their way without any actual medical need. Which harms the people that genuinely need them. Btw my mom wouldn’t ever sign these for emotional or physical support as she felt that was something a specialist needed to evaluate and not a family practice office which only dealt with general medical issues. She would instead refer them to the specialist, in the US most specialists like cardiologist, psychiatrist, pulmonologist etc. require a referral from a family practice or general practitioner in order to see that specialist at all, that would address whatever issue that felt they required that specialized animal for.
In CA or at least in it's Capital, a law was passed that if there's no training the animal can not be officially permitted as a support animal, allowing businesses to deny the animal
I’ll never get used to how some Americans say “whenever” instead of saying “when” whenever they should say when. I think most Texans do that, but idk where else.
I never thought about it, but I'm going to be looking/listening for it now! I can say that, reading stories written by a diverse set of authors, every single person has a different style and preferred language set. It messes with my head sometimes.
For the sober wedding…. It feels like husband to be has been traumatised/embarrassed on other big days of his life (birthdays, grad etc) by his mothers alcoholism, and is scared it’s going to happen again at their wedding. His mum seems to be doing well and is probably a minimal risk for their wedding day, but I think that as it is months away yet, it might be a good idea to address his concerns with a therapist and even with his mum directly so he can alleviate his concerns and have a beautiful wedding day. 😊
So I say he is a 1 or 2. As someone who is afraid of dogs, bringing a dog into my home would make it not a safe space for me. Additionally I’m over the top clean and my problem with having a dog would also be they can’t be truly clean (not their fault my standards are just too high and I know that). So people saying he couldn’t be an asscon 1 aren’t thinking that she likely doesn’t feel safe or comfortable in her house because of the dog….
i've heard the update for story 6, and she had severe trauma from a dog attack. she begged him not to get a dog and he claimed it was a service animal so that he could justify having the dog. imo he's an ascon 1 because he knew about her past and continually forced her to live with an animal that wasn't trained and scared her. imo he put his selfish desire to have a dog over his wife's mental health again and again and he's definitely ascon 1.
My sister does this for her events, birthdays, baptisms, etc and I think it’s a great idea! I have young kids so I’m always late. OP’s mom seems to be late cuz she doesn’t care!!! 🤨 53:31
Just a note: cremated ashes are bad for the environment! If you want to be thrown or have your ashes buried, opt to be composted so you can properly be reunited with the Earth.
Super weird that the dude in the last story got all his feelings destroyed over one kid being a picky eater… just wild I’m autistic, and when i was a kid, had issue trying new foods, and thrived in routine. So every friday we tried something new. It made trying new things a part of my routine and that made it easier to be excited for these meals, rather than feeling out of my depth. OP might give something like that a try. Where most meals are ‘safe meals’ and slowly start to incorporate trying new things into routine. Even if her son is not autistic, kids in general can get weird about change.
I was a picky eater, still kind of am, but the rule in my family was that I had to try everything. My family was good with knowing which things I really could not stand. For me it's usually a texture thing. If that kid is used to fairly bland food the change in diet may also be hard on his gut.
My issue with the one where the mom was alcoholic is that there has been alcohol around the mom before. Clearly it's not an issue for her, if he doesn't feel comfortable with there being alcohol then he needs to be open and honest about it.
I'm thinking ESH. He should've told her earlier and he should just be honest that he doesn't want it. And she should take his wishes in serious consideration as well.
No matter how long they're sober or how good their self control is, if I'm inviting someone to my wedding that has alcoholism, there will be absolutely no alcohol allowed at all.
Esa's do not have to be registered or certified in most states, but you can if you choose. They just can't go into public places as a traditional service animal. If he has a letter or diagnosis from his doctor, she can't do anything about it, unless the dog injuries someone or damages someone's property. In most situations they are protected under certain rules. He's not an asshole.
40:40 worst part about ashes is there is still drama if you have dramatic family members. We are currently trying to figure out how to get my grandpa’s ashes from his gf who is hiding from us.
For story 6, the guy is the ah for disrespecting his wife and also not apologizing to his wife for what the dog did and not offering to make it better after. What about the son? What happened to his birthday party? Honestly in my opinion a support animal should be much better trained than that. The dog needs training and the couple needs therapy for all the issues mentioned. My goodness.
Story 7, sorry this speaks volumes about her. You can’t have fun with out alcohol? And your family wants it. But maybe his family doesn’t and doesn’t wanna be tempted. And yes they should have talked about before. But just listen to what she said “we can’t have fun without alcohol.”What does this say about the rest of the people that we can’t have fun without alcohol? So, unless I’m drunk I don’t want to be around you?
Story 6. I don’t blame the dog. Both are aita. Her for not putting food somewhere dog could reach it. Him for not training dog. Me-My dog jumped up ate something off stove. My fault I didn’t push it far enough back or putting it in place she could reach it(not where I stick bake goods to cool)
Weddings are boring as is I can't imagine no booze. Not saying anyone needs to be drunk however a drink or two does help with awkwardness and immediately is a conversation starter of "oh what you drinking" at least
My bonus mom would never she would be gutted if I didn't add her she's been my mom since i was 2 even though her and my mom split when i was 17 she still mom and I'm 29 now
I'm saying this before Dusty gives his response, but I'm going against the crowd on the story of the dad who said he doesn't want to attend his daughters wedding on his ex-wife's land. Who knows why their marriage dissolved, but considering how old they are and how quickly she remarried, it's reasonable to suspect she was unfaithful. But even if not, he has every right to his feelings, and if he doesn't want to see his ex-wife and her new husband, that's OK. It sounds like he's still willing to help cover some of the cost too. He just doesn't feel comfortable attending under those circumstances. I suspect if the gender roles were reversed, more people would support the mom if she was too uncomfortable to attend. At any rate, I do think, based on the information given, that the daughter was wrong to storm off on her dad. I'd probably give her an ASCON 3 or 2, because she seems very insensitive and entitled with the situation.
Also, I just want to point out that he didn't threaten to withdraw financial help or insist they change venues or uninvited his ex or her husband. He just didn't want to put himself in a painful situation. Yes, he waited a while before bringing it up, but I'd imagine that's because he really wanted to be ok with it and not make any waves. But I'm the end, it looks like he just couldn't handle it. And his daughter tells him it's just a "stupid feud," yells at him, and storms out. That just doesn't strike me as ok, even if she is frustrated.
@@LaunchPadMcQuack4Hire I actually agree with you. Calling it a "stupid feud" is very insensitive. He should've been more honest and talk to her earlier, but she could be a lot more understanding of his feelings too. Why even do it on her mother's land if she knew there could be a problem? And she knew coz she asked him multiple times. Saving money or not, if she wants him there so bad, she should've done it somewhere else
So on the last story, you’re like he shouldn’t be so butt hurt. But if he was a woman and somebody else’s defiant child kept picking at her skills for over a year, y’all wouldn’t be upset if she was like I’m done. Y’all can’t have two standards in this. Number two you don’t know if the child is defiant in other areas as well, this just might be the biggest issue that they have. And yes, he might be a picky eater because he has other issues Or, he is being spoiled by his mother who said that she thought it would just be easier to not have to actually have proper diet. So instead of ganging up on this man, we should think maybe there might be other issues as well because not all kids have allergies or other issues. It could be this kid doesn’t what the new family dynamic.
I feel like I'm the odd one out with these rulings, but I think if anything, the wife is a bigger asshole in the one with the dog and KFC. If he truly needed an emotional support animals, she was dead wrong to try to deny that. If he just made that up so he could get a dog, of course he'd be wrong for that as well. And if he didn't bother to train the dog, he'd also be an asshole, probably an ascon 2 or 3. But she sounds like an ascon 1 with her behavior: trying to stop him from getting an emotional support dog, demanding he rehomes it all the time, screaming and cussing him out when she gets upset, and then giving him an ultimatum (it's me or the dog). She sounds awful!
My son is 15 and is a metal worker. He makes pieces that he sells for big money. They are gorgeous. But even if they were not gorgeous i would be so proud to receive that gift. That woman is 100% TA
I’d love to hear more about the Thunder family! Favorite things y’all do together, funny stories, vacation spots etc etc… Shout out to Ava for also being part of the beginning of this venture! Woooooooo! ⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️
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NTA! In my family we call it Puerto Rican time 😅 my husband has learned to tell me the wrong time cuz I have a bad habit of leaving when we need to arrive or not giving enough time for traffic etc Its kinda common in my family for people to be a little late to things but damn lady hours late!? At that point don't come geez
Your videos have been a great help-thank you!
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He’s a child and should be grateful and her mother should get her stuff together!
Love the panic moonwalk
Story 6: they are not required to be trained at least in my state. My mom was a PA in a family practice and would get patients that came in with no history of emotional issues, but wanted to move to a place that didn’t allow pets or wouldn’t allow a certain type of dog so they would ask her to diagnose that the patient needed an emotional support animal. This was done solely to either exempt them from any pet fee, to skip the no pet restriction, or to exempt the breed restriction. So yeah some people legitimately may need an animal for support and get them trained, but more people than we’d like to believe use it as a scam to get their way without any actual medical need. Which harms the people that genuinely need them. Btw my mom wouldn’t ever sign these for emotional or physical support as she felt that was something a specialist needed to evaluate and not a family practice office which only dealt with general medical issues. She would instead refer them to the specialist, in the US most specialists like cardiologist, psychiatrist, pulmonologist etc. require a referral from a family practice or general practitioner in order to see that specialist at all, that would address whatever issue that felt they required that specialized animal for.
In CA or at least in it's Capital, a law was passed that if there's no training the animal can not be officially permitted as a support animal, allowing businesses to deny the animal
Lol I have your shirt design on my makeup bag
I’ll never get used to how some Americans say “whenever” instead of saying “when” whenever they should say when. I think most Texans do that, but idk where else.
I never thought about it, but I'm going to be looking/listening for it now! I can say that, reading stories written by a diverse set of authors, every single person has a different style and preferred language set. It messes with my head sometimes.
Yay for the return of Candy Thunder!!!!
Also, PERFECT way to end the live with the nervous moonwalk!! ⚡️⚡️😆⚡️⚡️
Gotta make it as awkward as possible!
@@dustythunder it was so good! Love that Nick Miller!
For the sober wedding…. It feels like husband to be has been traumatised/embarrassed on other big days of his life (birthdays, grad etc) by his mothers alcoholism, and is scared it’s going to happen again at their wedding. His mum seems to be doing well and is probably a minimal risk for their wedding day, but I think that as it is months away yet, it might be a good idea to address his concerns with a therapist and even with his mum directly so he can alleviate his concerns and have a beautiful wedding day. 😊
So I say he is a 1 or 2. As someone who is afraid of dogs, bringing a dog into my home would make it not a safe space for me. Additionally I’m over the top clean and my problem with having a dog would also be they can’t be truly clean (not their fault my standards are just too high and I know that). So people saying he couldn’t be an asscon 1 aren’t thinking that she likely doesn’t feel safe or comfortable in her house because of the dog….
Sometimes people call them ESA‘s just as an excuse to take their pets wherever they want to where pets are not allowed
i've heard the update for story 6, and she had severe trauma from a dog attack. she begged him not to get a dog and he claimed it was a service animal so that he could justify having the dog. imo he's an ascon 1 because he knew about her past and continually forced her to live with an animal that wasn't trained and scared her. imo he put his selfish desire to have a dog over his wife's mental health again and again and he's definitely ascon 1.
As a parent, I would never marry a person with no kids.
Agreed unless they had a valid health reason for not having any nope
My sister does this for her events, birthdays, baptisms, etc and I think it’s a great idea! I have young kids so I’m always late. OP’s mom seems to be late cuz she doesn’t care!!! 🤨 53:31
Just a note: cremated ashes are bad for the environment! If you want to be thrown or have your ashes buried, opt to be composted so you can properly be reunited with the Earth.
Super weird that the dude in the last story got all his feelings destroyed over one kid being a picky eater… just wild
I’m autistic, and when i was a kid, had issue trying new foods, and thrived in routine. So every friday we tried something new. It made trying new things a part of my routine and that made it easier to be excited for these meals, rather than feeling out of my depth. OP might give something like that a try. Where most meals are ‘safe meals’ and slowly start to incorporate trying new things into routine. Even if her son is not autistic, kids in general can get weird about change.
I was a picky eater, still kind of am, but the rule in my family was that I had to try everything. My family was good with knowing which things I really could not stand. For me it's usually a texture thing. If that kid is used to fairly bland food the change in diet may also be hard on his gut.
That's very helpful. Glad your family finds a way to introduce you to new things. Thank you
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Story 1 sounds like she just wants to keep being paid and not actually walk the dog 🤷🏼♀️ xx
My issue with the one where the mom was alcoholic is that there has been alcohol around the mom before. Clearly it's not an issue for her, if he doesn't feel comfortable with there being alcohol then he needs to be open and honest about it.
I'm thinking ESH. He should've told her earlier and he should just be honest that he doesn't want it. And she should take his wishes in serious consideration as well.
No matter how long they're sober or how good their self control is, if I'm inviting someone to my wedding that has alcoholism, there will be absolutely no alcohol allowed at all.
Esa's do not have to be registered or certified in most states, but you can if you choose. They just can't go into public places as a traditional service animal. If he has a letter or diagnosis from his doctor, she can't do anything about it, unless the dog injuries someone or damages someone's property. In most situations they are protected under certain rules. He's not an asshole.
40:40 worst part about ashes is there is still drama if you have dramatic family members. We are currently trying to figure out how to get my grandpa’s ashes from his gf who is hiding from us.
I'm late to the party - just watching this today - 4/19/23. BUT he is NOT the Asshole!!! Dog's welfare comes FIRST before some kid's 'party'.
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I never got an invite that I am aware of maybe i missed it
To the VIP group? I just check our convo on TT, and it's the first message that I sent to you, but I just resent it to make sure you get it!
For story 6, the guy is the ah for disrespecting his wife and also not apologizing to his wife for what the dog did and not offering to make it better after. What about the son? What happened to his birthday party? Honestly in my opinion a support animal should be much better trained than that. The dog needs training and the couple needs therapy for all the issues mentioned. My goodness.
Story 7, sorry this speaks volumes about her. You can’t have fun with out alcohol? And your family wants it. But maybe his family doesn’t and doesn’t wanna be tempted. And yes they should have talked about before. But just listen to what she said “we can’t have fun without alcohol.”What does this say about the rest of the people that we can’t have fun without alcohol? So, unless I’m drunk I don’t want to be around you?
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Story 6. I don’t blame the dog. Both are aita. Her for not putting food somewhere dog could reach it. Him for not training dog.
Me-My dog jumped up ate something off stove. My fault I didn’t push it far enough back or putting it in place she could reach it(not where I stick bake goods to cool)
Weddings are boring as is I can't imagine no booze. Not saying anyone needs to be drunk however a drink or two does help with awkwardness and immediately is a conversation starter of "oh what you drinking" at least
The KFC story what makes it worse is he didn’t want to replace the food
We’ve decided on cremation and a plant pot. The cost and responsibility of maintaining a grave is enormous. Obv gran dislikes the family always
ESA’s are not actual service animals.
Picky people are just entitled people.
The dog is not an ESA animal if it took food off the table. Fake certificate and no training
My bonus mom would never she would be gutted if I didn't add her she's been my mom since i was 2 even though her and my mom split when i was 17 she still mom and I'm 29 now
I'm saying this before Dusty gives his response, but I'm going against the crowd on the story of the dad who said he doesn't want to attend his daughters wedding on his ex-wife's land.
Who knows why their marriage dissolved, but considering how old they are and how quickly she remarried, it's reasonable to suspect she was unfaithful.
But even if not, he has every right to his feelings, and if he doesn't want to see his ex-wife and her new husband, that's OK.
It sounds like he's still willing to help cover some of the cost too. He just doesn't feel comfortable attending under those circumstances. I suspect if the gender roles were reversed, more people would support the mom if she was too uncomfortable to attend.
At any rate, I do think, based on the information given, that the daughter was wrong to storm off on her dad. I'd probably give her an ASCON 3 or 2, because she seems very insensitive and entitled with the situation.
Also, I just want to point out that he didn't threaten to withdraw financial help or insist they change venues or uninvited his ex or her husband. He just didn't want to put himself in a painful situation.
Yes, he waited a while before bringing it up, but I'd imagine that's because he really wanted to be ok with it and not make any waves. But I'm the end, it looks like he just couldn't handle it.
And his daughter tells him it's just a "stupid feud," yells at him, and storms out. That just doesn't strike me as ok, even if she is frustrated.
@@LaunchPadMcQuack4Hire I actually agree with you. Calling it a "stupid feud" is very insensitive. He should've been more honest and talk to her earlier, but she could be a lot more understanding of his feelings too. Why even do it on her mother's land if she knew there could be a problem? And she knew coz she asked him multiple times. Saving money or not, if she wants him there so bad, she should've done it somewhere else
Being late is rude as all get out
So on the last story, you’re like he shouldn’t be so butt hurt. But if he was a woman and somebody else’s defiant child kept picking at her skills for over a year, y’all wouldn’t be upset if she was like I’m done. Y’all can’t have two standards in this. Number two you don’t know if the child is defiant in other areas as well, this just might be the biggest issue that they have. And yes, he might be a picky eater because he has other issues Or, he is being spoiled by his mother who said that she thought it would just be easier to not have to actually have proper diet. So instead of ganging up on this man, we should think maybe there might be other issues as well because not all kids have allergies or other issues. It could be this kid doesn’t what the new family dynamic.
Stip giving him the option of other meals. He'll eat what's served or he won't eat. Eventually he'll learn to eat what you cook.
I feel like I'm the odd one out with these rulings, but I think if anything, the wife is a bigger asshole in the one with the dog and KFC.
If he truly needed an emotional support animals, she was dead wrong to try to deny that. If he just made that up so he could get a dog, of course he'd be wrong for that as well.
And if he didn't bother to train the dog, he'd also be an asshole, probably an ascon 2 or 3.
But she sounds like an ascon 1 with her behavior: trying to stop him from getting an emotional support dog, demanding he rehomes it all the time, screaming and cussing him out when she gets upset, and then giving him an ultimatum (it's me or the dog). She sounds awful!
The dog is not an ESA animal if it took food off the table. Fake certificate and no training